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  • čas přidán 6. 11. 2014
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    This week is all about HIV/AIDS, and the importance of safe sex. Please have a good listen!
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    If you read this, type 'Condoms are just like little slimy balloons' in the comments section below! ;)
    xx

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  • @guguigugu
    @guguigugu Před 9 lety +1129

    If you want to have sex but feel awkward buying condoms - youre too young to have sex.

    • @august1451
      @august1451 Před 9 lety +28

      Not necessarily. When you turn sixteen, awkwardness doesn't just disappear. It's not that people would judge you, it's also because, well, would you like to broadcast to a shop that you're going to have sex? I am very blunt about this stuff, I don't see the whole thing about being ashamed, but it can still be uncomfortable for somebody as frank as I am.

    • @guguigugu
      @guguigugu Před 9 lety +43

      Percy Prior-Everdeen nobody in the shop gives a fuck about your condoms. especially not the cashier who sold a hundred packs in the last week and is going to forget your face within 5 minutes. also, people in the store also have sex (um, not in the actual store, you know what i mean :P), and they know other people have sex, and your "broadcast" is going on mostly unnoticed. all the awkwardness is in your head.
      it doesn't matter how old you are, if anything sex-related makes you uncomfortable, you should reconsider your readiness to indulge in it. sex should be a joyous occasion, not a source of any kind of insecurities.
      so just act like an adult, and stop giving a fuck about "broadcasting your sex" :)
      i mean, that's what growing up is, basically. the older you get, the less fucks you have left to give :D

    • @august1451
      @august1451 Před 9 lety +4

      guguigugu I know nobody actually cares, but, like you said, you feel awkward. It doesn't matter how old you get, you can still feel uncomfortable.

    • @guguigugu
      @guguigugu Před 9 lety +10

      Percy Prior-Everdeen and i stress again, it's all in your head. there is no reason whatsoever to feel awkward or uncomfortable, *especially* if you're not a teen anymore. it's no different than buying a bag of rice.
      our society does everything it can to make sex look bad and dirty, and something to keep to yourself. so i can understand how someone can be influenced by these sentiments, but i want to say that you shouldn't be. just think about it, ok?

    • @sparkymary88
      @sparkymary88 Před 9 lety +20

      Its people like you who make people feel super uncomfortable about sex. JUST because someone is awkward/embarrassed about buying condoms DOES NOT mean that they do not have the right to have sex. Individuals are so judgemental when it comes to sex, and people (you) think they have a right to tell someone whether or not it is acceptable for them to have sex. I'm 19, and I find it extremely awkward to go buy condoms with my boyfriend. I feel as though everyone is judging me, or thinking less of me. So in conclusion, you are an asshole and should not be going around and stating who can or cannot have sex based on awkwardness, or anything for that matter. Society is fucked up.

  • @thiskidneedsmedicine
    @thiskidneedsmedicine Před 9 lety +915

    YOU'RE BETTER THAN MY HEALTH TEACHER.

  • @avalionv1004
    @avalionv1004 Před 8 lety +1358

    "Unless you're asexual" BLESS YOUR SOUL FINALLY SOMEONE WHO MENTIONS ASEXUALITY WHILE TALKING ABOUT SEX

  • @reapnotsow
    @reapnotsow Před 9 lety +1118

    "everybody gonna have sex, unless you're asexual."
    okay where are my aces did anyone else scream bc i did. troye knows of us. we're not completely invisible. he sees us. i'm so happy.

    • @noelanisinclair1520
      @noelanisinclair1520 Před 9 lety +3

      I thought the exact same thing!!

    • @katyellen6248
      @katyellen6248 Před 9 lety +7

      I screamed toooo! I thought I was hearing things but I replayed it & couldn't stop grinning! #AcePride

    • @hallesofia
      @hallesofia Před 9 lety +22

      ***** I'm not asexual, but I was also really happy when he said that & acknowledged you guys when not a lot of people do.
      Yaaaaay for people being inclusive :)

    • @reapnotsow
      @reapnotsow Před 9 lety +7

      ***** that's really nice of you to say! a lot of people don't even believe aces exist (i just had a conversation with someone in the comments of a video and they were convinced asexuality was made up) so i always get super excited when people mention us or even say supportive things like you did that let us know we're not completely forgotten. thanks! :) xx

    • @hallesofia
      @hallesofia Před 9 lety +3

      ***** You're welcome! I understand (to a certain extent) what that's like - I'm bisexual. A lot of people, even people in the LGBTQIA community, refuse to accept that bisexuality is a real thing and that we're not just going through a phase/experimenting.
      I know that a lot of other people can be total jerks, but I won't forget you guys! :)

  • @BellaLynch150795
    @BellaLynch150795 Před 9 lety +1019

    Condoms are just like little slimy balloons

    • @connied6792
      @connied6792 Před 9 lety

      You just copied the another comment. -.- weak.

    • @Abigail-oh8qn
      @Abigail-oh8qn Před 9 lety +42

      Connie Tan read the description box :)

    • @fleuraimeekaan
      @fleuraimeekaan Před 9 lety

      😂😂

    • @blairgomez5414
      @blairgomez5414 Před 9 lety +8

      Connie Tan read the description before you react. Weak.

    • @MrHeheHeHo
      @MrHeheHeHo Před 9 lety +44

      Not so little if you blow them up😂😂

  • @harjashow
    @harjashow Před 9 lety +467

    How does Troye look so adorable talking about sex...

  • @kelli7329
    @kelli7329 Před 8 lety +335

    when Troye said symptoms may show up after 10 years, I was like oh no what if.. and then remembered im a virgin and 15

  • @majalaanemae3560
    @majalaanemae3560 Před 8 lety +585

    That little "unless you are asexual" means so much

    • @donrob7779
      @donrob7779 Před 8 lety

      Asexual people still could though, they just wouldn't like it that much

    • @majalaanemae3560
      @majalaanemae3560 Před 8 lety +7

      yeah yeah it's different for everyone. some asexuals still like sex, they just don't feel the need to have it, and some are completely sex repulsed etc. it's just nice that someone validates our existance once in a while :)

    • @cutelittlefishy21
      @cutelittlefishy21 Před 8 lety

      when dos he say that?

    • @majalaanemae3560
      @majalaanemae3560 Před 8 lety

      +cutelittlefishy21 at 2:40

    • @victoriaodegaard1
      @victoriaodegaard1 Před 8 lety

      +Mara Uskglass You don't need to have sex to get HIV/AIDS

  • @camtothemax
    @camtothemax Před 9 lety +918

    You are literally becoming a gay icon.

    • @guguigugu
      @guguigugu Před 9 lety +12

      how do you *literally* become a gay icon?

    • @ZZumaTV
      @ZZumaTV Před 9 lety +31

      guguigugu ssssh it's a secret

    • @camtothemax
      @camtothemax Před 9 lety +2

      ***** Exactly

    • @alanathomson6329
      @alanathomson6329 Před 9 lety +42

      Or maybe he's becoming an Icon. You don't have to label it, I never hear anyone say a Straight Icon. I get what you're saying but he's just an Icon and awesome one that is.

    • @camtothemax
      @camtothemax Před 9 lety +21

      Alana Thomson I'm sorry if I offended you, but Troye is talking about topics that for me, as a gay male, are really important and I would say that I learn many things about my homosexuality thanks to Troye. So in short, he's a gay icon for me.
      But then again, if I have to put "for me" after any opinion I express, it's gonna be obvious at some point.

  • @LateefThyNative
    @LateefThyNative Před 9 lety +602

    Being a 21 Year Old Gay male its freaking awesome that you're educating your viewers about this. Miseducation is deadly and scary so thank you for informing your audience. You're definitely bae

  • @hanlohan8957
    @hanlohan8957 Před 8 lety +302

    The little "unless you are asexual" made me feel so accepted. Thank you Troye

    • @kkkkaaaatttt
      @kkkkaaaatttt Před 10 měsíci

      I hope you are still doing well and feeling accepted seven years later!

    • @Gaetano.94
      @Gaetano.94 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@kkkkaaaattttprobably has had sex loads of times and said it to be trendy

  • @cheesedefresa
    @cheesedefresa Před 8 lety +239

    'condoms are just like little slimmy balloons' i'm i the only one that rewatching old troye's videos because i miss him, because he is on tour and do3snt uplad videos frecuently anymore :( love u troye ♡

    • @acvalhalla8049
      @acvalhalla8049 Před 8 lety

      Omg yes

    • @keziaonline9184
      @keziaonline9184 Před 8 lety +1

      I'm sad that he won't come back 😫😫😫😫

    • @maddyw2588
      @maddyw2588 Před 8 lety

      +KEZIA ONLINE Me to. 😔

    • @sunainaaralappan5949
      @sunainaaralappan5949 Před 8 lety +5

      I am and to be honest I fall more in love with him everytime

    • @emm3883
      @emm3883 Před 6 lety

      L I L I A N A yeah me too miss his videooosss I want moreee videos like this from Troye :(

  • @differentdelana
    @differentdelana Před 9 lety +204

    I learned more about sex & HIV/AIDS in the almost four minutes of this video than I did in my entire four years of high school.

  • @darbyu9409
    @darbyu9409 Před 9 lety +367

    I hate myself for saying this on such a serious video but ur eyebrows r on point

  • @Myaburks1
    @Myaburks1 Před 8 lety +375

    whos in 2016 and wishing troye was this age again

  • @user-jq4gs9yp3o
    @user-jq4gs9yp3o Před 9 lety +80

    _"If you're very young, leave."_
    _...No._

  • @toastycrypie3214
    @toastycrypie3214 Před 9 lety +228

    I showed Troye to some of my classmates who are girls and never watch youtubers and they we're like " oh he's pretty cute " and then I was like " hahaahhaa, honey he gay " and the quietest girl in our class was like " oooooooooooooo (i see what you did there) " that girl is now my best friend

  • @LenaKleinOnline
    @LenaKleinOnline Před 9 lety +219

    Yes. This is so important, this is great.

  • @MyDardoX
    @MyDardoX Před 9 lety +140

    He said in the beginnig "Stick it with me" and at the end "pratice safe sex" and to have fun! SRY I COULDN'T HOLD MY LAUGH!!!!!!
    PS: He is totally right, this is one of the kind of information that needs to be shared!

  • @user-lo5oj1xp7p
    @user-lo5oj1xp7p Před 8 lety +84

    "if your very very young, leave" pfttt who's gonna listen to that

  • @dutchmattybrapsfan
    @dutchmattybrapsfan Před 9 lety +777

    *cough* someone force Nash Grier to watch this please *cough*

    • @rebecagonzales4804
      @rebecagonzales4804 Před 9 lety +1

      Itzel fan girl 😂😂👊

    • @diamondminer7986
      @diamondminer7986 Před 9 lety

      Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha YES!!! YES

    • @Artificial_Clown
      @Artificial_Clown Před 9 lety +7

      Itzel Sanchez Wow, you like Nash Grier? That homophobic pig? I'm embarrassed to have the same name as you xD

    • @shburf44
      @shburf44 Před 9 lety +10

      Itzel Sanchez
      Oh look at you such a big kid, do you wear pull-ups yet?

    • @LeahTartal
      @LeahTartal Před 9 lety

      Same

  • @katygoodall5734
    @katygoodall5734 Před 9 lety +276

    *reads the title*
    *automatically starts singing the 'lets talk about sex baby' song from pitch perfect* 😂

  • @camille4880
    @camille4880 Před 8 lety +228

    I didn't want to double comment so here is everything I thought about;
    1. I broke the rules. I'm young and I watched this video. Hehehe
    2. The little asexual part made me happy. I am not asexual but I am close to someone who is.
    And 3: I want troye to be my health teacher

    • @oliviak41
      @oliviak41 Před 8 lety

      Is that an akf sweatshirt that you're wearing in your profile pic?

    • @camille4880
      @camille4880 Před 8 lety

      +Olivia Bryan yup :)

    • @lynxaway
      @lynxaway Před 8 lety +1

      I'm asexual and this means the world to me.

    • @camille4880
      @camille4880 Před 8 lety +1

      +S.O? ????? 13 and I understood it all lol

    • @kavedahodge1089
      @kavedahodge1089 Před 8 lety

      are you demisexual too?

  • @kamaraehaas4448
    @kamaraehaas4448 Před 8 lety +266

    *sees title*
    NO YOURE 12

  • @AndreaRiveralion
    @AndreaRiveralion Před 9 lety +137

    Please if you or your sexual partner can not buy condoms DO NOT HAVE SEX... If you can't face a person while buying condoms you are not ready.

    • @rachaelosborne4442
      @rachaelosborne4442 Před 9 lety +11

      thats really stupid, its normal to be embarrassed about something that intimate. i get embarrassed buying pads or tampons and ive been getting my period for almost six years. its the fact that its so personal and that the person who serves you knows exactly what its for is why people get embarrassed about it.

    • @jsr9422
      @jsr9422 Před 9 lety

      Wtf, you're obviously a virgin LOL

    • @timetofly678
      @timetofly678 Před 9 lety +6

      When a boy wants to have sex with you without condom talk about how happy you are that he wants to have a baby. And than talk about the names of the baby and just freak him out, basically.

  • @ChloAlexandra19
    @ChloAlexandra19 Před 9 lety +319

    Some things I've read in the comments have disturbed me and I'd like to put some things out there.
    1.) Yes, gay people can get aids. Yes, straight people can get aids. AIDS DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR SEXUALITY, ITS A DISEASE.
    2.) "The real solution isn't condoms, it's waiting til marriage." That's your view, and I respect that. But to enforce it as if it's the only correct way to view sex? That's wrong. To some people, sex is only for creating children. For others, love making. To others, I t's just fun and so on. And any view on the situation is completely okay! As long as you're practising safe, consensual sex, it doesn't affect anyone negatively and it's up to you what you do with your body. As long as you feel mentally and physically ready, it's consensual, safe and both you and the person/people you are with are comfortable with the situation, it's okay,

  • @RukiaSailormoon
    @RukiaSailormoon Před 8 lety +114

    Troye you've successfully given the best "The Talk/Birds and bees/safe sex" conversation I've experienced in my life...my mom swears I'm secretly sexually active and keeps talking to me about the stuff but I'm just like ew no stop I get it shush

    • @irisacosta9301
      @irisacosta9301 Před 8 lety +8

      Oh my g, I hate when adults give the talk. it makes me feel extremely awkward. Sm better when Troye does it

    • @Beth-qr9jy
      @Beth-qr9jy Před 8 lety +3

      ikr troye is so much better

    • @charlieackles8254
      @charlieackles8254 Před 8 lety +2

      +Iris Is A Dag I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE IM CRY

    • @irisacosta9301
      @irisacosta9301 Před 8 lety +2

      Charlie Ackles THANK YOU I LOVE YOURS TOO

    • @katherinelim3725
      @katherinelim3725 Před 8 lety +2

      +Iris Is A Dag Troye is so good at this but did you see Tyler and Mamrie's HAHAHAHAH

  • @Vicky-ii5bx
    @Vicky-ii5bx Před 9 lety +351

    Who are those stupid 443 people who give a dislike? I don't understand them at all , cause THIS IS SO IMPORTANT

    • @elianevicente9524
      @elianevicente9524 Před 9 lety +1

      Ikr

    • @portjackson4755
      @portjackson4755 Před 9 lety +13

      The 10 year olds who couldn't watch it probably

    • @Vicky-ii5bx
      @Vicky-ii5bx Před 9 lety +2

      Kiana Phillips :D

    • @LucaRocha2012
      @LucaRocha2012 Před 9 lety +1

      Kiana Phillips Yeah, they're like "I waited the whole week for a video i can't watch... NOOOOO! I'll dislike it :(" And then 470 kids did the same

    • @DaisyDrohan
      @DaisyDrohan Před 9 lety +4

      Love your profile pic!

  • @nadzmoc
    @nadzmoc Před 9 lety +74

    and here we have a young boy using his fame and influence to talk about IMPORTANT issues to his young audience. he's not saling things, he's not trying to make money. he just want to express himself and help other spreading a message about loving yourself, loving others, safety, knowledge, happiness, confidence, community... and that's why he's one of my idols. you're just an amazing person, troye. made of light and love and warmness. thank you for sharing you world view and your talents with us. i truly love you.

  • @thesheepthatwentmooo
    @thesheepthatwentmooo Před 9 lety +265

    I remember back in year 8 there was this kid who was adamant a girl's nipples glowed if she liked you. Like some sort of E.T shit. That would be the most hilarious thing if it was true.

    • @harryoconnoll1136
      @harryoconnoll1136 Před 9 lety

      lol that's funny

    • @sarahparks5585
      @sarahparks5585 Před 9 lety +2

      thesheepthatwentmooo I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!

    • @tahirahdean5863
      @tahirahdean5863 Před 9 lety +1

      Year 8? Dang that's kind of old to believe something like that 😁 that's hilarious though

    • @riley8275
      @riley8275 Před 9 lety

      Tahirah Dean that's the grade system in the UK and Australia haha! nice one though lol

  • @alexismckenna9725
    @alexismckenna9725 Před 9 lety +155

    I get really excited when youtubers, or anyone well known really, mention asexuals.

  • @SapphicUnderground
    @SapphicUnderground Před 9 lety +89

    You deserve a lot of respect for making this as its not an easy thing to talk about (and it doesn't get spoken about enough) so thank-you.

  • @Leadley
    @Leadley Před 9 lety +355

    You should be proud you made this video because it was super informative and now all your fans know lots of important stuff :'D Stay fabulous baby! xxx

  • @JennaIsGhost
    @JennaIsGhost Před 9 lety +75

    Thank you so much for talking about this!! I feel like society makes sex, HIV/AIDS, and many other things like this such a "hush hush" topic when it shouldn't be. It NEEDS to be talked about and people NEED to be informed. Especially people whom aren't informed or are misinformed about such topics, and we should definitely be teaching the younger generations about it, such as the teenagers.
    I don't understand why sex is such a "horrible" thing to talk about. I get when you're a teenager it can be a bit embarrassing or you can be shy about it but really, everyone has sex eventually therefore it needs to be talked about.

  • @xRipleyRosex
    @xRipleyRosex Před 9 lety +27

    It makes me so happy that he would say that "Everyone has sex, unless you're asexual." Because I've seen a lot of people talk about sex but leave asexual's out, or make it seem like not having sex is weird. It just means a lot to feel represented, even in a small way :* Thanks TROYE!

  • @fionagrantham-davis7879
    @fionagrantham-davis7879 Před 9 lety +96

    I've come out as Bi to my sister and my closest friends but I know that my parents won't accept me because they are homophobic and that makes me angry. The fact that they can't accept that 2 people love each other makes me sick.

    • @miacarnegie9503
      @miacarnegie9503 Před 8 lety +6

      Your parents should accept it! Just tell them! If they don't love you after that, something's wrong with that! Be yourself!

    • @KAWI8090
      @KAWI8090 Před 8 lety +15

      +Mia Carnegie i'm sorry but i disagree. she(?) should stay safe unless she has a place to live /etc, they can throw her out and/or do even worse things to her - if she's sure they won't do anything and calm down after a while tho, she could take the risk nd come out to them

    • @lauraj5383
      @lauraj5383 Před 8 lety +1

      +Mia Carnegie Totally agree!

    • @kerriherron8065
      @kerriherron8065 Před 8 lety +9

      The argument I would use is "why should I fall in love with someone's genitals over their heart?"

    • @pianobae1772
      @pianobae1772 Před 8 lety +3

      I know what that is like I am bi too and I have homophobic parents too😢

  • @FarFromFilm
    @FarFromFilm Před 9 lety +278

    Did anyone else see the title and start singing like they did in pitch perfect? ;) Thanks for making this video Troye, it's definitely important to spread the message! And also, thanks for always making smile with the videos you make, it's like your enthusiasm is infectious, keep it up, love from England

  • @chennellephelan
    @chennellephelan Před 9 lety +200

    Did anyone else start singing when they saw the title 😂 "let's talk about sex baby , let's talk about you and me" 😜

  • @kumanekovods6708
    @kumanekovods6708 Před 8 lety +263

    "unless ur asexual" bOI I PRAISE YOU (yea im ace, problem!"

    • @kumanekovods6708
      @kumanekovods6708 Před 8 lety +5

      that has so many errors

    • @celestecavell6244
      @celestecavell6244 Před 7 lety +2

      Alex Lester same here I was like "YASS troye"

    • @zriggins5650
      @zriggins5650 Před 7 lety +1

      Alex Lester THANK

    • @stanleehi8723
      @stanleehi8723 Před 7 lety +1

      Saamme

    • @alexissummers6184
      @alexissummers6184 Před 7 lety +1

      Next upcoming video or maybe on your phones say "Australian Boy Does Australian Accents." That doesn't sound cheesy at all.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tinaw94
    @tinaw94 Před 9 lety +30

    Shoutout to you for thinking of including asexuals, many many people forget that, thank you

  • @8BitDylan
    @8BitDylan Před 9 lety +275

    Yaasss spread the word about safe sex Troy! Love seeing larger CZcamsrs spreading the message!

  • @KeshaROXROX
    @KeshaROXROX Před 9 lety +100

    people who giggle at this topic are among my least favorite kinds of people...

  • @SarahStars1
    @SarahStars1 Před 8 lety +54

    If you are uncomfortable to buy, use, or talk about condoms, then you aren't ready to have sex tbh

    • @thezone193
      @thezone193 Před 8 lety +5

      +Sarah Harley I don't get why people are uncomfortable buying condoms, they're the ones getting laid so if anything they should be proud.

  • @rocky560100
    @rocky560100 Před 8 lety +8

    Its !2:46 am and I am watching old Troye videos and I came across this video and decided to watch it and I'm glad I did, see I live in a state where they do not teach sex ed instead we have whats called maturation that you get in 5th and 6th grade and you just are told that you will grow hair in your genital area and that females will have what is called a period, so coming across this video was a very good thing for me. I have heard of Aids/HIV before and knew that they were STI's, But I did not know anything about them besides that. So thank you Troye for spreading the word about an very important subject. I did share this on Facebook and Twitter (@taylorpilling13) and had ADULTS (18+) comment on it saying how I am to young to be worrying (I am only 13) about these things or how they cannot get HIV/Aids if they pull out instead of using no condom, But I made them realize that if I'm only 13 and knowing more than them about sex ed then they needed to do some research, So long story short (not really) I have got me plus a couple others to learn about the dangers of HIV/Aids + other STI's because of this video. So thank you!

  • @BellasLife97
    @BellasLife97 Před 9 lety +176

    What I don't understand is why schools are not teaching students about safe sex in all aspects! Whether it's gay or straight... I asked a question in sex ed and I was blankly told they were not aloud to answer that and even if they could would the teachers even know what to say ?!!

    • @ericajane5312
      @ericajane5312 Před 9 lety +6

      We have a class at school where we learn about all this safe sex stuff, self harm, bullying, sex and same sex attracted and heaps others and we've learnt so much about it so there are some schools that teach this stuff :')

    • @KnightRaymund
      @KnightRaymund Před 9 lety +11

      the quality varies by country and area.

    • @Itspavi98
      @Itspavi98 Před 9 lety +1

      Well, if still don't know the answer to your question, you can ask it here. We would reply.

    • @khalaiswaerea3909
      @khalaiswaerea3909 Před 9 lety

      At my school we learn all that?

    • @BILEAK
      @BILEAK Před 9 lety

      I you stick it in a hole, cover that fucker up...

  • @thememoryguardians
    @thememoryguardians Před 9 lety +190

    I know so many people that don't use condoms (only birth control pills) and it fucking terrifies me. I don't care if you've both been tested and came back clean, it's still essential to wear a condom.

    • @supermanhatesme
      @supermanhatesme Před 9 lety +12

      Actually, that is not true. Only in a case where one partner is a drug addict (which is a problem by itself already tbh) can HIV occur (of course, if they had both been tested like you said). If you are in a trusting, loving relationship it's not essential to wear a condom (presuming the girl is on birth-control if they don't want a baby).

    • @thememoryguardians
      @thememoryguardians Před 9 lety +2

      supermanhatesme There are so many diseases that we're not even aware of. Better to be safe than sorry. Plus, birth control pills aren't 100% effective so why not take an extra precaution?

    • @meganbethkernaghan
      @meganbethkernaghan Před 9 lety +1

      Erin! This is like the third time I've randomly found you in the comments of a video on CZcams :3 I was stalking old Laci Green ones the other day *upvotes all you comments* haha

    • @thememoryguardians
      @thememoryguardians Před 9 lety

      meganbethkernaghan oh my god how weird is that!!!

    • @ohbbyilikeitrawr
      @ohbbyilikeitrawr Před 9 lety +3

      No it's completely true. Bc you can't guarantee one of you won't cheat without a condom, contract aids or any other Sti/std and pass it into the unsuspecting partner. It happen all too often. So use a condom.

  • @mermaidgirl1123
    @mermaidgirl1123 Před 9 lety +44

    You go Troy for mentioning Asexuals. Four for you, Troy.

  • @notjamin
    @notjamin Před 7 lety +5

    When he said "everybody gonna have sex" my mind went "how about no, I'm asexual and I'm staying far away from that" but before I could even finish the thought he went "unless you're asexual" and that made me so happy because INCLUSION! Thank you Troye for being amazing.

  • @syusof9323
    @syusof9323 Před 9 lety +191

    Troye looks more mature.. Haha,not much but can see he is changing and have more manly looks now

    • @oops2043
      @oops2043 Před 9 lety +32

      Well he is a 19 year old man

    • @whatever2345
      @whatever2345 Před 9 lety +25

      19 year old boy

    • @pseudolemon8272
      @pseudolemon8272 Před 9 lety +17

      Boy Toy named Troye. Boy, not Man.

    • @simonblog1567
      @simonblog1567 Před 9 lety

      Hi guys 😜 please help me reach 100 lovely subs 😊
      Btw I'm actually new on CZcams
      x

  • @BossySwan
    @BossySwan Před 9 lety +145

    Troye is growing up!

  • @SteveNoblin
    @SteveNoblin Před 9 lety +10

    I had two very dear friends that died from AIDS. They educated me a lot on it. I miss them ever so deeply :-(

    • @SteveNoblin
      @SteveNoblin Před 9 lety +2

      Steve Noblin Being gay does not mean you contact HIV. You get HIV first, then AIDS. The carriers have the infection that spread. If you have sex with someone that has a low T count with HIV/AIDS you may contact HIV that will lead to AIDS. I am no doctor or specialist. Be safe out there and educate yourself!!!!

  • @uriefury1213
    @uriefury1213 Před 7 lety +17

    Why is he the cutest little thing in this world😍

  • @TheRyanLamont
    @TheRyanLamont Před 9 lety +175

    It's brilliant seeing you use your influence to educate millions of people on HIV & safe sex. Good job Troye! :)

  • @modestieispurete
    @modestieispurete Před 9 lety +35

    "Everybody's gonna have sex...unless you're asexual." You just became my favorite person in the world, for recognizing my sexual orientation and for not expecting sex to be a given for every person.

  • @pantio2194
    @pantio2194 Před 8 lety +20

    thank you for the "unless you're asexual"

  • @daniagutierrez78
    @daniagutierrez78 Před 8 lety +149

    Troye Sivan: The Australian Connor Franta. I ship them both.

  • @qwertytypewriter2013
    @qwertytypewriter2013 Před 9 lety +32

    I live in the US and I'm amazed at how little sex ed they receive... In Mexico, they tell you what sex is in 3rd grade, they show you the sexual differences between men and women in 4th, in 5th, they teach you about the anatomy of the sex organs and reproduction, in 6th they give you an introduction to STDs, sexuality and prevention, in 7th grade they teach you more anatomy and sexuality and prevention, in 8th grade they give you a lot of the rest of the information about STDs, sexuality, pregnancy and prevention. I'm in 10th grade in the US and I've noticed that my classmates haven't received alot of sexual education and that they have no idea about other STDs besides AIDS (which they really don't know much about either), they laugh or fear or disgust any conversation about sex and even the teachers put innocent and childish names to the penis and the vagina and the eggs and the sperms. I'm shocked at the difference...

    • @maria1023456
      @maria1023456 Před 9 lety +5

      We have it in 6th grade they give us a bag and everthing lol

    • @kristinamichelle4281
      @kristinamichelle4281 Před 9 lety +2

      ik. i'm in 8th grade and we still haven't had it yet. we've had puberty class and a thing for breast cancer, but nothing on safe sex at all, and that makes me angry. (not saying i will) people start early nowadays and they need to learn this information to be careful. :(

    • @CallHerElle
      @CallHerElle Před 9 lety +1

      Here in Norway we also have similar education around sex as you do in Mexico. I find that it help kids understand the body better, and not fear certain things so much.
      I was an exchange student in the US, and I lived with a very religious family. At church we had "study groups" for kids and teenagers, and the pastor started talking about rape in the bible (I only remember him saying that a few men raped a woman and spermed on her body or something), and when we got home the parents dragged me into the bedroom and asked me to explain what the pastor had said. It was sooo embarrasing, and they also asked if I had had sex with my boyfriend (we'd been together for a year at the time, now going on to five years and living together), and they told me all about the devil, sex before marriage etc.
      I just feel that they scared their kids to avoid physical contact with others, and I find it so unhealthy. Their kids were 13, 14 and 16 at the time (I was 17), and none of them knew ANYTHING about how a baby is conceived. They were home schooled and very controlled - so it's obviously very different from going to school and socializing with other kids, hearing different stories etc and hopefully learning about it in class(!) - but it still upset me sooo much. Imagine being 16 and not know a thing of sex ... THAT is satans work (lol sorry I had to).
      But yeah, my point is that kids need to learn these things in school, to feel safe and confident when it comes to sex.

    • @diego-1484
      @diego-1484 Před 9 lety +1

      I really think it's different everywhere with everyone, like here in Washington we started in 4th and we pretty much know everything when we get to 8th but there is still some school where it's not like that, luckily it's mandatory for people to take that class in highschool

    • @mariannejl2781
      @mariannejl2781 Před 9 lety

      I live in norway too, as the girl 2 comments above me, but we never learned anything about sex at my school. Like if we wanted to know what it was, we had to search it up ourselves. Now im in 9th grade, and last year (when i was in 8th grade) we were going to learn about sex and stuff, but my teacher skipped that chapter. I actually think thats pretty unfair. Its like they probably think that we already know everything. We know the general things (who doesnt these days), but few knows all the details, and thats whats important.

  • @ceciliawalker3221
    @ceciliawalker3221 Před 9 lety +158

    thought it was going to be a cover of 'lets talk about sex baby...'

  • @dechanad7515
    @dechanad7515 Před 9 lety +13

    OH MY GOD THE WINK

  • @tiamelynda3727
    @tiamelynda3727 Před 8 lety +24

    he is so funny... omg..

  • @aislinga3748
    @aislinga3748 Před 9 lety +136

    This video couldn't have been timed better. I have an English essay coming up (tomorrow) about HIV/AIDS and I feel like this has seriously helped me understand a little better. Thanks Troye :)

  • @Devenation7
    @Devenation7 Před 9 lety +209

    I'm christian; TO ALL RELIGIOUS/CHRISTIAN FOLK: God created Sex, he sees it as beautiful, passionate and intimate, and while we believe that, God consented, Holy Spirit embodied sex, is the best (and only sex there should be), this is our BELIEFS, don't impose them on others. Sex is not bad. Its one of those pure things that sin has filthified. Sex is awesome. Don't push your beliefs on others.

    • @eloiselastname4089
      @eloiselastname4089 Před 9 lety +2

      ^^^PREACH! I go to a Christian private school and in sex ed the teachers are usually really understanding about it. Except for this one nitwit who said that guys can experiment but girls aren't allowed! My friend got kicked put of class for laughing at him when he said that :/

    • @desianawahyudi9521
      @desianawahyudi9521 Před 9 lety +8

      Don't push ur own opinions on others

    • @izzyxo3571
      @izzyxo3571 Před 9 lety +5

      This is the comment section, it's for opinions...desiana wahyudi

    • @hollygoddard7829
      @hollygoddard7829 Před 9 lety +6

      Your just a horny Christian

    • @girleatsfood5973
      @girleatsfood5973 Před 9 lety +15

      ***** They just stated that they're Christian just like you just stated that your idea of god is ridiculous.

  • @rileighann2473
    @rileighann2473 Před 9 lety +11

    'Condoms are just like little slimy balloons'

  • @one2teen
    @one2teen Před 8 lety +15

    Best movies about Aids:
    Holding the Man (2015), Dallas Buyers Club (2013), The Hours (2002), The Cure (1995), Philadelphia (1993).................................... Need to see The Normal Heart. Tom Hanks had scabs in Philadelphia. The Cure is about a 12 year old boy with aids.

  • @itshayleymaybe
    @itshayleymaybe Před 9 lety +30

    Rule of thumb: If you're too embarrassed to buy condoms, you probably shouldn't be having/ aren't ready to have sex.
    Great message, great video!

  • @sophieann2377
    @sophieann2377 Před 9 lety +44

    "Condoms are just like little slimy balloons."
    Troye teaches better Sex Ed than the American school system.

  • @MarionLfv
    @MarionLfv Před 8 lety +6

    I really miss him ! Thanks god we can wait patiently his return with his album

  • @raph81
    @raph81 Před 8 lety +10

    "That's pretty beeping cool" awe bless

  • @melissay354
    @melissay354 Před 9 lety +27

    I want schools to show this as part of sex ed classes because it's amazing

  • @TheReelCorner
    @TheReelCorner Před 9 lety +102

    You have absolutely read my mind, and you've just told me to go ahead and make the video I've been planning for weeks. A video about STIs.
    I promise I'll include bananas.

    • @cjay2
      @cjay2 Před 9 lety +1

      Subbed! Your Sexuality video rocks!

    • @TheReelCorner
      @TheReelCorner Před 9 lety

      Thanks bud!!

    • @LESCarr333
      @LESCarr333 Před 9 lety

      TheReelCorner love your videos :)

    • @TheReelCorner
      @TheReelCorner Před 9 lety

      ;)

    • @eleonorer.6503
      @eleonorer.6503 Před 9 lety +1

      You're cool, and your videos are brilliant. Why didn't I know this before? Subbed.

  • @nicoleviktoria2920
    @nicoleviktoria2920 Před 8 lety +10

    "Unless you're asexual..." I think that I love you even more Troye ❤️

  • @juandanielcastanierrivas9545

    Just here to remind you you made an amazing movie about HIV, you’re inspiring.

  • @itsanniehuie
    @itsanniehuie Před 9 lety +93

    THIS IS HILARIOUS BECAUSE FOR MY HEALTH CLASS WE HAD TO LEGIT PUT CONDOMS ON A CUCUMBER

    • @DarkLordAli95
      @DarkLordAli95 Před 9 lety +3

      LOL WHAT?!!!!!!

    • @itsanniehuie
      @itsanniehuie Před 9 lety +3

      GreyFace 8th grade health is weird. Especially with a bean teacher 😂 A GUY LEGIT TASTED ONE OH MY GOD

    • @Uwu-bq4hr
      @Uwu-bq4hr Před 9 lety +5

      Holy shit! Really? xD in my health class this lady came in and put her hand in a condom to show us how big it was and it went all the way to her elbow xD

    • @lindacamarillo8592
      @lindacamarillo8592 Před 9 lety +1

      Wtf

    • @brittanyclark2878
      @brittanyclark2878 Před 9 lety +8

      We had to use dildos

  • @GraceanneParks
    @GraceanneParks Před 9 lety +7

    Seriously mad props to you for making this. You know you have a voice that reaches a lot of people and you used it to better this society. Awesome.

  • @WhatEver3601
    @WhatEver3601 Před 9 lety +5

    I got so excited over him mentioning asexuals because no one ever mentions us, it's like the term and the people don't even exist

  • @wildonion3479
    @wildonion3479 Před 8 lety +3

    Troye you are literally the most amazing person in the whole world. thank you for this and for everything else. i love you.

  • @KristofferVollhaase
    @KristofferVollhaase Před 9 lety +135

    Condoms are just like little slimy balloons ;) whaaaaat

  • @soppyh8058
    @soppyh8058 Před 9 lety +89

    did anyone else cringe at how far he was bending his fingers back

    • @EvaJNeve
      @EvaJNeve Před 9 lety

      Omg yes ew

    • @baileymayer7639
      @baileymayer7639 Před 9 lety +2

      He does that so much I didn't even realize...

    • @pseudolemon8272
      @pseudolemon8272 Před 9 lety

      i cant bend my fingers to a 90º degree angle. According to doctors i have a sever case of bad circulation. It sucks D:

    • @maylara9941
      @maylara9941 Před 9 lety +6

      Your profile picture....
      My life

    • @maddyonline1220
      @maddyonline1220 Před 9 lety +5

      Troye can actually bend his finders all the way back, kinda scary I know but what he was doing isn't even bad.

  • @Marina29162
    @Marina29162 Před 9 lety +6

    It's the conversation that you should have with your parents but I never really talked about this with my parents, and I'm glad that I did with Troye in that time. I would love be his friend, but that's impossible haha. I love you Troye soooo much!

  • @tsippykilstein7684
    @tsippykilstein7684 Před 8 lety +3

    Troye I love your videos they are so fun and witty and I also appreciate that you make a video about serious things like this.

  • @melissaahoell
    @melissaahoell Před 9 lety +86

    good topic to talk about, but no such thing as safe sex, condoms could break anytime, love you troye

    • @Hippyhope
      @Hippyhope Před 9 lety +5

      This still can break but the keep disease out but don't stop from having children always and yes to person above me the kian guy the thick ones can still break the more you know

    • @CumulusBluesky
      @CumulusBluesky Před 9 lety +16

      Condoms work like 99% of the time. Please, don't take the above comment to mean condoms are useless

    • @PiancoDaVinci
      @PiancoDaVinci Před 9 lety +5

      the risk of a condom breaking is very minimal. have you tried blowing up a condom? well, i doesn't break roughly 99.9% of the time. so yes, it's pretty safe.

    • @CumulusBluesky
      @CumulusBluesky Před 9 lety

      Ane Asmussen True, but for HIV it has to be a condom

    • @catarigutierrezmoran1818
      @catarigutierrezmoran1818 Před 9 lety +2

      If you use them right, they shouldn't break. Or you can buy the best quality condoms you cam find

  • @Kane22ize
    @Kane22ize Před 9 lety +9

    Finally, a popular youtuber actually using his channel to promote safe sex and acknowledging about HIV/AIDS. its very rare to see big youtubers talk about important stuff on their channel. thank you troye:)

  • @89ceilidh
    @89ceilidh Před 7 lety +6

    I lost it when you said "condoms are just like little slimy balloons"

  • @ANELove122
    @ANELove122 Před 9 lety +1

    I think it's wonderful that you're trying to teach us on a very serious disease and how we can prevent it. It shows how much you care. I love you, Troye!!

  • @CatherineCane
    @CatherineCane Před 9 lety +52

    Condoms truly are like little slimy balloons. We had a sex ed lesson last year where we had to stick one on a vageuly-phallic plastic cylinder, and I cringed the whole way through it.
    I am a lesbian.

    • @doctoriversong
      @doctoriversong Před 9 lety +11

      Me too, except at our school? We got real dildos.

    • @CatherineCane
      @CatherineCane Před 9 lety +3

      doctoriversong OH GOD I'M SO SORRY FOR YOU
      Did people make a lot of jokes? ahaha

    • @doctoriversong
      @doctoriversong Před 9 lety +18

      I'm at a girls' school so it probably wasn't as bad as it could have been. What amuses me is knowing that somewhere in my school, there is a box sitting around filled with like 20 dildos.

    • @Eva12218
      @Eva12218 Před 9 lety +1

      I cant believe you all get sex education. Im 17 turning 18 and i never received sex education, we just touched slightly on hormones in science class and thats it..

    • @CatherineCane
      @CatherineCane Před 9 lety

      Aoife Ni Briain Where do you live, may I ask, that you don't get sex ed? I'm confused

  • @thisiskatschannel
    @thisiskatschannel Před 9 lety +43

    this video was such a missed opportunity to make a bunch of condom jokes (AKA: don't be a fool wrap your tool)

  • @ackermann_de
    @ackermann_de Před 8 lety +1

    Troye, you fellow, which raises such vital and important questions, taking care of all of us, enlightening in such uncomfortable topics for contact with others...

  • @rebecca3673
    @rebecca3673 Před 9 lety +9

    It's nice to see big CZcamsrs using their positions for something other than silly challenges and daily vlogs. Addressing the important issues - hats off to you, Sir.

  • @charlimarieTV
    @charlimarieTV Před 9 lety +7

    Major props to you Troye for using your platform to get such an important message and information out there!

  • @tabithamarie6481
    @tabithamarie6481 Před 7 lety +1

    I how Troye uses his fame in a way to teach people about important things, such as HIV/AIDS. Not many other youtuber/singers/actors/etc put in the time to realize how important these conversations are, or even think to talk to their audiences about it. Love ya Troye!

  • @denahurley7343
    @denahurley7343 Před 9 lety

    My respect for Troye has always been so high, but it just sky rocketed to a whole new level. So much respect. All the love xx

  • @Anerrow
    @Anerrow Před 9 lety +19

    Troye Sivan, there are several reasons why you are my hero, and this hits way too close to home and makes me want to give you the biggest hug ever. Almost one and half years ago, my mom got a phone call from my soon-to-be brother-in-law saying that my sister was in the hospital. She and a bunch of friends had gone to a trolley party as a going away party for a friend the night before. Her drink had been drugged, she was kidnapped, and raped. She'd gotten away early the next morning not knowing if she was going to be alive much longer. She ran through the streets of Chicago without any clothes on, her attacker close behind her. A nice lady had helped her get away, calling the police and my sister's boyfriend. My mother, father, and I hurried to Chicago to see and comfort her. Even though she hasn't shown signs of HIV and took several tests to make sure, I live in constant fear that she might. For those who have HIV/AIDS or have a loved-one that has HIV/AIDS, I'm so sorry. No one deserves to have it. I wish you the best of luck. Keep fighting!

    • @noelbrockett5295
      @noelbrockett5295 Před 9 lety +3

      We live in such a shitty society oh jeez. It sucks so much shit that anyone would think that raping her was okay, and I'm so sorry for you and most importantly her and I hope you'll get through this

    • @Anerrow
      @Anerrow Před 9 lety +1

      Dan Likes D Thank you so much, That means a lot to me.

  • @mackslamore
    @mackslamore Před 9 lety +45

    I love these type of videos :-) and people should be safe because hiv/aids and the others are deadly i dont care if you can treat it your still Infected with a sicko virus

    • @lastofremy
      @lastofremy Před 9 lety

      Safe sex is great component to reduce transmission through sexual intercourse but we need to remember those living with the disease and that how we talk about HIV affects them too. Stigma is often a major barrier to people seeking treatment and can have a massive effect on management of the disease, which in turn increases the probability of transmission.

    • @CatherineCane
      @CatherineCane Před 9 lety

      ***** Yes always use protection! Pregnancy is not the only risk of unprotected (heterosexual) sex!

  • @colourfulsouls
    @colourfulsouls Před 8 lety

    I hope no one would think this is boring for a vid. it's def so important, and it's v informative, thanks

  • @s1ngular1ty74
    @s1ngular1ty74 Před 9 lety +6

    "Please stick me with me" 😂😂

  • @lesliethiel428
    @lesliethiel428 Před 9 lety +7

    Thank you, Troye! I'm a 51 yr old mom (I remember when HIV and AIDS started) of a 23 yr old gay man. This needs to be talked about and I'm proud of you for making a video about it. Huzzah! Bet your mom is proud of you, too. Hugs, sweetpea, and keep making that great music!!! :-)

  • @SamSaidi
    @SamSaidi Před 9 lety +72

    Am i the only one who's obsessed with your lips?
    IAHDJKRHEWOIRKLJR.

  • @oliviathomsen8391
    @oliviathomsen8391 Před 8 lety +2

    Me and my friend used this video in an AIDS presentation in class, and they (and the teacher) really liked it❤️

  • @simmerfromengland5410
    @simmerfromengland5410 Před 7 lety +1

    I miss this kind of stuff. I haven't watched you since your last real videos and I used to love you so much and now I'm probably going to binge watch these videos. I miss the music, I miss the backgrounds, I miss the outros- omg I forgot about the outros, i miss YOUUUU

  • @ashleysummer533
    @ashleysummer533 Před 9 lety +17

    If my parents ever try to talk about this to me I'll stop and show them this vid
    Thanks homie