Loathe - Is It Really You? (OFFICIAL AUDIO STREAM)

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  • čas přidán 5. 02. 2020
  • From the full-length album 'I Let It In And It Took Everything' out now and forever.
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    Face away
    Deal with the pain
    Your own way
    How could they,
    Deal with the pain?
    I knew
    It was mine too
    And you?
    Is It Really You?
    Let’s search the sky for a while
    You and I collide like two stars for a while
    You and I
    Crushed by silent snow
    Not the first I know
    Caught in ebb and flow
    I’m bleeding out, oh you know
    Let’s search the sky for a while
    You and I collide like two stars for a while
    You and I
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  • @raph9831
    @raph9831 Před 3 lety +3749

    No joke, this is one of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard.

    • @paulloandre5929
      @paulloandre5929 Před 2 lety +28

      E com razão

    • @nenxis7585
      @nenxis7585 Před 2 lety +29

      Do you know any songs just as good as this one? Looking for new music

    • @iamalbarn
      @iamalbarn Před 2 lety +10

      @@nenxis7585 blanket almost the same

    • @alisya9117
      @alisya9117 Před 2 lety +1

      agreed

    • @yoshh.
      @yoshh. Před 2 lety +27

      @@nenxis7585 whirr- younger than you

  • @11cylynt11
    @11cylynt11 Před 3 lety +1393

    After reading the lyrics while listening, I absolutely broke down in tears. I interpret this song as someone dealing with the death of a loved-one. Trying to deal with the sadness however he can. Going outside to gaze at stars to find their spirit. When he sings "is it really you?" I interpret that as him asking the sky if it's really his loved-one's presence he feels - as his gaze meets a particular set of stars that resemble their eyes. Then he just lays there letting himself be "crushed by silent snow," embracing his loved-one's spirit.
    The really sad part to me was when he sings, "I'm bleeding out, oh you know." That could mean that he cut his wrists so he can "collide like stars" to be with his loved-one again in the afterlife. The "silent snow" can be a metaphor for depression. The "ebb and flow" line could represent how depression tends to be chronic and intensifies when traumatic events happen. The "oh you know" could be him talking to his loved-one. Reminding them that they ”know" how devastating life changes can ruin him.
    More optimistically, one can interpret the "bleeding out" line as him feeling empty while letting out all his pain. Or that he feels completely alone without their company. Maybe that's why he sings "collide like stars for a while." Meaning he just wants to break down in tears for a while, let it all out. Embrace the pain and longing - to work through the trauma and start to heal from his loss.
    I couldn't help but think of my aunt Norma who passed away from brain cancer. She beat it with surgery and chemotherapy when she was in her 30's. Unfortunately, it came back in her 50's and she simply couldn't beat it again in her advanced age. She was the kindest and strongest person I've ever known. I miss her so much.

    • @SuperToaster_GT
      @SuperToaster_GT Před 3 lety +75

      Fun fact, you’ve describe this exactly how I interpreted it. The lines about bleeding out hit way to close to home. After all that’s what drove her away.

    • @joshuagreer8046
      @joshuagreer8046 Před 3 lety +8

      Sorry about your aunt Norma but interpret this song as well me personally.Losing your partner or girlfriend and wondering really is it you whothat leaves me after everybody else that does. You end up falling into a cycle an eb and flow of self mutilation and hatred for yourself you are out of your mind and missing them so much and possessed with the idea of losing him or her

    • @11cylynt11
      @11cylynt11 Před 3 lety +14

      Thank you all for letting me feel like I'm not alone in my interpretation. And thank you all for your sympathy. ❤❤❤

    • @SpicyGummyWorms
      @SpicyGummyWorms Před 3 lety +11

      are you going to leave this comment on every video with this song

    • @11cylynt11
      @11cylynt11 Před 3 lety +14

      @@SpicyGummyWorms yes! if it bothers you then don't read it.😁✌

  • @WFangW
    @WFangW Před 3 lety +526

    Has anyone cried while listening to this song? :'(

  • @funnyperson4027
    @funnyperson4027 Před rokem +281

    This the kinda song that leaves you staring up at the ceiling

  • @mattfain9929
    @mattfain9929 Před 4 lety +4160

    Finally a band that sounds like Deftones while having their own unique sound. I hope they make more songs like this one, A sad Cartoon, and Two-Way Mirror. Absolute masterpieces!

    • @cateatinrat78
      @cateatinrat78 Před 3 lety +109

      I followed these guys since their heavier sound, But this album took my soul away!

    • @phylazen5649
      @phylazen5649 Před 2 lety +61

      @@cateatinrat78 i also found them via New Faces in the Dark then heard the rest of that album and, being a huge deftones fan i couldn't believe my ears. So heavily inspired but so unique in their own way as well. I always save the heavy tracks for the last part of my playlist now just to get warmed up.

    • @eljavis5037
      @eljavis5037 Před 2 lety +66

      My Deftones playlist took me here lol

    • @odralebazerimar9084
      @odralebazerimar9084 Před 2 lety +95

      The riff in this song sounds like Pink Maggit by deftones.

    • @pkohalloran
      @pkohalloran Před 2 lety +21

      These guys are great. I don't find it unique though....sounds like Deftones to me lol.

  • @filloneandonly
    @filloneandonly Před 3 lety +1790

    I'm from Russia, an old fan of Deftones and I don't understand why this magical track is viewed by so little ammount of people... In my opinion it's the best on a album. Forgive me my bad english.

    • @dmitryb09
      @dmitryb09 Před 3 lety +61

      I forgive you! :)

    • @rvalle11
      @rvalle11 Před 3 lety +56

      I sit here in california always dreaming with these style of songs on, and I apply it to my daily life and the culture that surrounds this area. I sit here now imagining how life is for you over there on that side of the world. If there are both happy and bad days to the songs. How you live your life and such is a fascination to me because I know we both live different lives, but the music is the same for us. I hope it is well my friend and I hope youre able to stay safe in these times!

    • @ugysoulreaverretro9756
      @ugysoulreaverretro9756 Před 3 lety +11

      Damn .It Reminds Me The Good Old Deftones Too ... So We Are Not Feeling Wrong ABout This

    • @filloneandonly
      @filloneandonly Před 3 lety +50

      ​@@rvalle11 It is very pleasant to read your comment, thank you very-very much for kind words! I wish you well too, read and heard that cities/streets in America are mostly empty because of covid situation, hope that soon situation going to change.
      I live in Moscow and goverment has lowered the level of restrictions, it's even almost canceled. We wearing masks and maintaining a distance 1.5 meters in subway etc, but as example - cinemas are open and tomorrow i even planning to see "Nomad's land" movie =))
      In a big cities in Russia we are mostly going feet to feet (i mean - together) with other world, we listen to same music, watching same movies. And with such music as Loathe, i think we are even dreaming of same things =))
      I'm 38 and i got lucky to get a Nirvana "Bleach" album at my 7 birthday, at those times it was literally a miracle, comunism still was at rule, USSR and all that stuff, and my mate's parents brought me this cassette from their trip to America. It's changed my life forever.
      My dad was a professional musician, guitar player/vocalist. We lived apart till my 10 years, and then i moved to him from my mother, for another 10 years, and that years was my fantastic trip to the world of music, starting from "Yes", "Led Zeppelin", "Pink Floyd", "King Krimson" and to allmighty (in my opinion) music of the 90's. It is where i've become a great fan of electronic music like Massive Attack (and all ther triphop family), Chemical Brothers and Prodigy of course (it was a cultural phenomen here in Russia, i've started to listen them in 1992, and quit after they come to Moscow and it was 300.000 people concert almost on the Red Square, where many people got very hurt - not because of this i quit isten to them, i've jaus always liked a less popular bands =)))))) My love for them is eternal but for old Prodigy - mostly). After that my heart was destroyed (in a good way) by jungle / drum and bass, i lstill love that music and make steps to compose it by myself. So hard rock and powerful electronic music was always my very deep love.
      For last 20 years i'm a great fan of Deftones, and last 10-15 years two my favorite bands is "Cult Of Luna" and band called "Isis" (it is not exist anymore, but albums they released are fantastic. I was shocked that this new world plague also named "Isis", can't buy a t-short now =))))) )
      I've been on Deftones concert 3 times, even had a chance to shake Chi Cheng hand before a tragedy. So life here are not that special. We, a thinking amount of people, are very dissapointed by situation in our country, but in all other aspects of life - it's going on.
      Winters not that cold anymore, summers are pretty warm. Not everybody drinking vodka anymore too - new generation are great guys, they times are x10 lighter than ours =))
      Sorry for so many words and ammount of mistakes, i was so happy to read your comment so i decided to answer as wide as i can now =))
      Wish you all the best and i Hope that all your dreams will come true!

    • @brunopianodude9938
      @brunopianodude9938 Před 3 lety +1

      Well the better, the less recognition it has.

  • @jhossuealban5633
    @jhossuealban5633 Před rokem +291

    I remember this album came out a year after my girlfriend passed away. Back then I still hadn't gotten out of that abyss. When I first heard this song I swear it was love at first sight; I still couldn't understand why, but when analyzing this lyrics it was inevitable to fall into tears. Even to this day, whenever I listen to it, it brings me chills and other sensations that I cannot describe.
    The memories, the lucid dreams I had and her last words before never seeing her again, I feel that everything is connected to this song; call me crazy, but my connection to this melody literally makes me sit next to her again.
    "Let's search the sky for a while, You and I, Collide like two stars, for a while, You and I..."

    • @younesmounir2679
      @younesmounir2679 Před rokem +2

      i Believe you

    • @vita3725
      @vita3725 Před rokem +14

      I understand your feeling. My first boyfriend passed away five years ago, and I've taken this song to his grave countless times. He, unfortunately, never heard this album in his life, but like the good metalhead that he was, he would have loved it. Hope you stay strong!

    • @jinboi8813
      @jinboi8813 Před rokem +4

      I feel you dude. I lost my girlfriend April.

    • @sadyungboi9752
      @sadyungboi9752 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Now amount of words will suffice but Iam truly sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the magnitude of pain it must be. May I ask how you pulled through because I'm currently struggling with a different type of grief

    • @DLewis-pn8yo
      @DLewis-pn8yo Před měsícem

      😭❤️✝️

  • @CDobbs05
    @CDobbs05 Před 2 měsíci +44

    Parents divorced for the second time, drove down a back road and sat in my car in a field and played this song. Doesn’t even match with the words, just felt right in that moment. Cried for the first time in 2 years

    • @davgeese
      @davgeese Před měsícem +1

      Hey- everything gets better.
      The entire album is truly a marvel of modern metal. I'm an older guy too.
      I highly suggest checking out Eternal Blue by Spiritbox if you haven't. That (and ILIIAITE from Loathe) are two of the best metal albums ever written and recorded. I know it's bold, but it's my old guy opinion. Modern metal hasn't sparked something in me like those two albums.
      Sending good vibes.

    • @jonathanjalbert5177
      @jonathanjalbert5177 Před 21 dnem

      @@davgeese I agree with eternal blue, could I suggest you the last album of Knocked Loose ''you won't go before you're supposed to'' which is another well recorded metal album

  • @Kalitayy
    @Kalitayy Před 3 lety +451

    My most played band on Spotify
    2019: Issues
    2020: The 1975
    2021: Loathe, for sure

    • @tiannaparker3187
      @tiannaparker3187 Před 2 lety +7

      👀 friends??? Lmao you got great taste in music just from the 3 I can see 👍

    • @Kalitayy
      @Kalitayy Před rokem +6

      @@tiannaparker3187 Oof sorry for the late reply. And sorry, my most played artist of 2021 was Phoebe Bridgers 😅 But Loathe was like 3rd, 2nd being Spiritbox.

    • @dukkeoun_
      @dukkeoun_ Před rokem +19

      2022 - Sleep Token?

    • @kingdavidguitar
      @kingdavidguitar Před rokem +3

      Loathe and the 1975 are probably my favorite bands

    • @Kalitayy
      @Kalitayy Před 6 měsíci

      @@dukkeoun_ Oof sorry, both 2022 and 2023 were won by Phoebe Bridgers lol. That's 3 years in a row. But Loathe came in 4th in 2023, 2nd being Deftones

  • @el_mal_de_ojo
    @el_mal_de_ojo Před 4 lety +1167

    At their heaviest, they are crushing; at their lightest, as soft as a whisper. This album slingshots you from one extreme to the other with truly mind-bending results. Brilliant album. Amazing, fucking amazing experience live.

    • @AnimosityIncarnate
      @AnimosityIncarnate Před 3 lety +21

      Still equally crushing when silent

    • @nickslad3164
      @nickslad3164 Před rokem +3

      Dig

    • @mcchickensandwiches2384
      @mcchickensandwiches2384 Před rokem +3

      my favorite album oat

    • @SpartanLaserCanon
      @SpartanLaserCanon Před rokem +1

      Some of their songs remind me of the Deftones. It would be sick to see a tour with both of them.

    • @Posirep
      @Posirep Před 11 měsíci +2

      Especially when you realize that "Gored" is the song right after this on the album lol

  • @oscaralas7971
    @oscaralas7971 Před 4 lety +261

    Screaming - Is It Really You? - Two Way Mirror - A Sad Cartoon (Reprise) - A Sad Cartoon, in that order all these songs are perfectly connected :'D

    • @chevon7665
      @chevon7665 Před 4 lety +41

      For as much as I was looking forward to the heavy tracks I find myself listening to theme 451 days plus the songs you listed way more than I thought I would. This is an important record for sure

    • @pewterschmidt23lord99
      @pewterschmidt23lord99 Před 4 lety +9

      Plus I let it in is like the perfect finally for it

    • @snevarez31
      @snevarez31 Před 4 lety +4

      @@pewterschmidt23lord99 I was just saying that. The killed it with the ending

  • @vildhjarta
    @vildhjarta Před 4 lety +764

    thall

  • @92tilinfiniti
    @92tilinfiniti Před 2 lety +356

    This song is saving me right now from succumbing to a lifelong depression and struggle

    • @RedEyedEaglez
      @RedEyedEaglez Před 2 lety +18

      wish you the best brother, it will get better even when it seems like it wont.

    • @kevinmriggins
      @kevinmriggins Před 2 lety +8

      I feel this more than I'd like to admit. I hope you find light in this darkened world we live in.

    • @NK-bz9wb
      @NK-bz9wb Před 2 lety

      Sending you love ♥️♥️

    • @xgodzhiredgunx
      @xgodzhiredgunx Před 2 lety +2

      It's one of the few songs that saved me as well, stay strong

    • @angelopolo3761
      @angelopolo3761 Před rokem

      Me 2

  • @misterammaiu9157
    @misterammaiu9157 Před 4 lety +578

    Ironically, it's pretty hard to loathe Loathe.

    • @freezingjazzy
      @freezingjazzy Před 3 lety +43

      Unless you're Melon head Fantano.

    • @user-ng2lk5wv4p
      @user-ng2lk5wv4p Před 3 lety +11

      @@freezingjazzy bro gave it a 6 wth???????

    • @pinkhimself
      @pinkhimself Před 2 lety +1

      @@user-ng2lk5wv4p he gave mbdtf a six too...

    • @kaizokuAUTO
      @kaizokuAUTO Před 2 lety +16

      @@user-ng2lk5wv4p Well he hates Deftones, so who is surprised

    • @ImNeoFr
      @ImNeoFr Před rokem

      @@kaizokuAUTO hes also a pretentious douche who only likes jazz and thinks saying
      “dont worry guys im not a pretentious douche” makes him any less of a pretentious douche.

  • @jill4911
    @jill4911 Před rokem +104

    This song is so good when you have a crush on a person and feelings are so vulnerable.

  • @TacoCrisma
    @TacoCrisma Před 4 lety +231

    When I first heard the opening vocals I thought it was Chino.
    God this album is a masterpiece. I haven’t felt this way about new music since I was a teenager

    • @selenite3890
      @selenite3890 Před 8 měsíci +1

      i was listening to mother of pearl by melanie martinez, clicked on the wrong tab, started scrolling, read this and was SO confused

  • @KardavoxAcademy
    @KardavoxAcademy Před 3 lety +470

    Hey dudes in Loathe. Just wanted to say how much I've needed this song lately. Life has been an insane coliseum of stress and nonstop work, but this song is one of the few things that can bring me back to earth and calm me down. Your music has been some of the best medicine for my mind lately, and I deeply appreciate you all for making it. Much love, much love.

    • @scottybaimu2041
      @scottybaimu2041 Před rokem +5

      I hope life is going well for you, take care heart❤

    • @adam4nt417
      @adam4nt417 Před rokem +4

      i sympathize with this so much

    • @sovverynn
      @sovverynn Před rokem +3

      So much need so..

  • @catface
    @catface Před 4 lety +408

    I love how diverse and at the same time coherent this album is. incredible

    • @ShadowYoshi1302
      @ShadowYoshi1302 Před 4 lety +12

      10/10 for me, I love it through and though. I have yet to thank those guys for their incredible work. (Even though I know obviously, they didn't make this Album FOR ME, but I can listen to it and thats enough!)

    • @kanenorris9164
      @kanenorris9164 Před rokem +3

      I guess you could say it’s ‘inconsistently concise’

  • @slavicharrystyles6914
    @slavicharrystyles6914 Před 4 lety +397

    This song feels so nostalgic to me even though it's brand new. It feels like a breath of fresh air. I get flashes from my childhood listening to this. It's so strange... I just can't put my finger on it. But it's beautiful.

    • @jamiecasper8339
      @jamiecasper8339 Před 4 lety +3

      YES

    • @ga8rielsMsg
      @ga8rielsMsg Před 4 lety +2

      Look behind you.... It's me.....

    • @nathanbonora7339
      @nathanbonora7339 Před 4 lety +12

      Got that Deftones feel for me and I’m all about it

    • @rodolfo8355
      @rodolfo8355 Před 3 lety +4

      Man I had exactly the same feeling, just like if this music was created to fill childhood memories ❤️😭

    • @tombook2155
      @tombook2155 Před 3 lety +9

      gives me the vibes of "what i should've done instead of what i just did.." the what-ifs of my life.

  • @QuezoUbeYEAH
    @QuezoUbeYEAH Před 3 lety +91

    The fact that Deftones likes this band a lot, simply means that Chino and crew are just testing new waters with current releases.. They still, and will always be what (the white pony) they used to be

  • @BrendonhasBeard
    @BrendonhasBeard Před 4 lety +396

    This is my favorite track on “I let it in...” it takes me back to when I first met my husband and the happy memories with him. Not a lot of new songs do that to you. Loathe is a game changer. Come to the US 💚

    • @yearnpill
      @yearnpill Před 4 lety +29

      brendonhasbeard huh gayyyy 😂 jk bro I’m sorry I have v poor taste, and agreed, this is a beautiful track and it’s great that you can openly express your sexuality. Stay metal brother! \m/

    • @joelsolis1144
      @joelsolis1144 Před 4 lety +14

      I thought you just had your boyfriends pic but nvm... 😂

    • @redt-rex3808
      @redt-rex3808 Před 2 lety +1

      Seeing them this month and I cant believe it

    • @dustigrrl
      @dustigrrl Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@joelsolis1144No wayyy

  • @tugkanardal
    @tugkanardal Před rokem +63

    My cat died yesterday unfortunately and this is the song where i am looping the whole day upon his grave while drinking and smoking to cope with the harsh reality of losing your friend/pet. From digging the hole to burying him, i am still crying as a guy who cried 4-5 times in a decade. it is still hard to accept it yet it is a must, i know, but I was a guy that does not like to create bonds to prevent emotional pain.. Then the cat came and was different that we clicked too well to make me reconsider and change my emotional behaviour. I made a 'bold' move to love again after my dog's departure when i was 11 about having a pet again then the same reality yesterday, my cat LILY.. The thing is, i met my girl and the cat in the same week where i felt emotionally complete and capable of love again, after the passing of my grandma who was my mother figure that left this material world in Valentines Day of 2016. We buried her beside my granddad who i never saw but heard of from people. I remember that I told her you can meet him again after spending almost half a century apart and loyal. Still today, i visit the grave in Valentines Day which puts me in a mood where i cant explain with words.
    The cat and I met while he was as little as my hand, struggling to walk. Now all the memories are going through my head, I listen to this song to remember our days together and the lyrics are exactly reflecting how i think, dream, hope and feel about my reality. I do not know if there is heaven or not but i hope there is one to see we all meet at the same time, spending time together. Now all i know is my boy is free of pain and limits and in a place where he loves to spend time, my garden, where i still feel close to him and feel his presence whenever I look out the window to his grave. I love you boy and will remember you forever.. We shall meet in my dreams until my day comes. To that day, take care LILY, remember how my love was pure for you, enjoy being free, I love you.

    • @AnimosityIncarnate
      @AnimosityIncarnate Před rokem

      Beautifully put. I lost the last childhood cat I had last year. losing an animal can be as bad as losing a close friend or family member. Take care, don't use the substances to much(I do the same and it always gets outta control with the weed especially lol) Take one day at a time, accept the feelings when they come, it's such a tough thing to go through but you'll be stronger when all is said and done. Good luck in life bro

    • @tugkanardal
      @tugkanardal Před rokem

      @@AnimosityIncarnate much appteciated, i planted a tree to his grave, marked his life in this world also to know we both grow together, i am feeling for you too, good luck for the future as well🙏🏻

    • @cookiepappa
      @cookiepappa Před rokem

      I’m not ready to go through this

    • @AM-vk7qx
      @AM-vk7qx Před 9 měsíci

      my cat is named lily 🥺 sorry for your loss and hope you’re doing good wherever you are

    • @Ma.tthew83737
      @Ma.tthew83737 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@AM-vk7qxmy cat was named Lily 😭😭

  • @vinnie06
    @vinnie06 Před rokem +93

    i want someone with a music taste like this

  • @spencerclemens7510
    @spencerclemens7510 Před 2 lety +105

    I lost my mom back in 2016 due to alcoholism. It was hard on us, especially because our family has yet to cope with the fact that no one is to blame for addiction.
    I had a dream not too long after her passing, in which she was present and was asking how things were going in life. I told her that I missed her, and then she told me to "make sure I wake up for work in time". I had woken up a few minutes before my alarm was supposed to go off. Coincidence? Maybe. Ever since that dream, I've tried to dream about her again, to talk to her once more. I didn't have another dream with her in it. It breaks my heart, because I want to tell her how great life is going, and I wanted her to be in my life for the upcoming birth of my first child.
    This song helps me relive that moment, at least in my head, where I got to talk to my mother. Hopefully not for the last time, however.

    • @8JFJK8
      @8JFJK8 Před 2 lety +3

      Thats beautiful man. Music is amazing.

    • @bard3078
      @bard3078 Před 2 lety +2

      This makes you really strong, keep going, you deserve all the best

    • @tappai
      @tappai Před 2 lety +2

      ohhh this makes me tear up, hope your doing well!

    • @MRJL0001
      @MRJL0001 Před 2 lety +5

      Spencer, I very rarely comment on CZcams videos, but I found your beautiful post, relating to this beautiful song, and it truly moved me. Your words show me that you're a wonderful soul. Congratulations on your child. I wish you peace, love, and strength, brother. xx

    • @jonahspacejam
      @jonahspacejam Před rokem +1

      reading this brought tears to my eyes. thank you for sharing

  • @leoneltovar9172
    @leoneltovar9172 Před 2 lety +98

    Ironically this song was playing on June 5th 2021 around 4:45pm in Lancaster, California. I was driving with my older brother Leonel Jr. Tovar and a car cut me off at a crossroad. In the those few seconds I realized I had lost control and was driving straight into a tree at 60mph. When I had open my eyes I felt a sharp pain in my chest, and my older brother was laid across me and I watched him bleed out, he had already passed away on impact. When regaining consciousness I realized my older brother just died in my arms and this song was playing in the background. Evertime I think of the lyrics I think of him and that finally day up to the final moments I had with him. I kissed him and told him that I loved him and to forgive me for taking his life. I never meant for that to happen Rhino, I love you so much big bro. Rest in paradise 10/17/1993 - 06/05/2021 forever in my heart. feel like this song was meant for us. Thank you LOATHE 💙🖤

    • @vonivan3559
      @vonivan3559 Před 2 lety +7

      damn. for real? if it is, my heart is broken for you, bro.

    • @leoneltovar9172
      @leoneltovar9172 Před 2 lety +5

      @@vonivan3559 yes it really did happen this is my brother's CZcams account I have his phone now

    • @reeseruss
      @reeseruss Před 2 lety +2

      i love my older brother so much and always listen to this type of music with him. This made me tear up. I'm so sorry for what happened to you and your brother, and thank you for making me appreciate what I have more.

    • @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh
      @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh Před rokem +1

      I live in Palmdale just moved here last year, didn’t hear about this. Sorry for your loss bro

    • @Chris-rm3wf
      @Chris-rm3wf Před 6 měsíci

      Damn man, I live here in Lancaster CA and I think I heard about that. I’m really sorry

  • @omgitsrobsandy
    @omgitsrobsandy Před 4 lety +203

    This song makes me want to both sit and think about every past mistake I've made in life and find the one and fall deeply in love at the same time. God damn Loathe, right in the feels with this one!

  • @MergelMD
    @MergelMD Před 2 lety +182

    Not exaggerating when I say this, but this is the most beautiful song I've ever heard in my entire life.
    Edit: The song saved me from losing someone that helped me build my self and turn into life 2 years ago, really glad it exist thank you so much Loathe!

    • @SlaytJ
      @SlaytJ Před rokem +4

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @davidgressli1691
    @davidgressli1691 Před 19 dny +5

    This is the kind of song that when you hear it once, but don't get the name, you will spend the rest of your life searching for it

  • @mofoimtheshiz
    @mofoimtheshiz Před 4 lety +471

    Getting a real deftones vibe from this song and I love it

    • @thepannmann1
      @thepannmann1 Před 4 lety +45

      Damian Bellamy Saturday Night Wrist kinda vibe

    • @dalekay9ine
      @dalekay9ine Před 4 lety +61

      Loathe x Deftones tour will happen. Mark my words. Chino shared their song on his twitter like 2 weeks ago and Steph loves heavy music.

    • @omgitsrobsandy
      @omgitsrobsandy Před 4 lety +11

      @@dalekay9ine i'm praying that Deftones bring Loathe across the UK/EU next time they're touring here

    • @8195229
      @8195229 Před 4 lety +1

      I'd be very interested in hearing someone splice the vocals from Knife Prty to an instrumental of this.

    • @danrobichaud
      @danrobichaud Před 4 lety +30

      This = "Pink Maggit" by Deftones Both good.

  • @ryne1625
    @ryne1625 Před 4 měsíci +10

    I interpret this more as more of a painful love song really. "Is it really you" meaning "are you really the one for me? Have I really just found my one true love?" in an optimistic but disbelieving moment of love, that he almost is in denial that he has really found true love. It's a moment I hope to experience some day.

  • @mackyisyourchance
    @mackyisyourchance Před 4 lety +84

    I love how every one of us experience the same thing about this song. thats the power of music

  • @akudamer
    @akudamer Před 10 měsíci +26

    My wife passed away this january at age of 19. This song will be forever associated with her.

    • @Rantastic11
      @Rantastic11 Před 5 měsíci +6

      My wife also passed away at the age of 22. I feel the same way about this song. It's nice to know I'm not alone

    • @MysticBlueFox
      @MysticBlueFox Před 3 měsíci +1

      I'm so very sorry, I lost my love in March this year too.
      I've been in a powerful emotional connection to songs like this one.

    • @wanderson3212
      @wanderson3212 Před 2 měsíci

      My condolences
      Be strong and stay safe

  • @thefallofgenesis5303
    @thefallofgenesis5303 Před 4 lety +96

    I cant stop listening to this song

  • @carolyns6105
    @carolyns6105 Před 3 měsíci +8

    How can a song be so brutally, crushingly painful yet so beautiful

  • @spicyramendotcom7975
    @spicyramendotcom7975 Před 3 lety +21

    There’s just a different vibe when it goes quiet for a second after the whispering and all you hear is “Is it really you?”. Almost nostalgic for some reason.

  • @hansolzy
    @hansolzy Před 4 lety +187

    Beautiful and magnificent!

  • @mmccollow
    @mmccollow Před 2 lety +41

    This is one of the best albums I've heard in recent memory. A near flawless fusion of metal and shoegaze, it sounds like Deftones, Alexisonfire, My Bloody Valentine, and Dillinger Escape Plan all had a baby. Absolutely killer. One moment it's like something you'd put on your leg day workout playlist, the next you're misty-eyed remembering old loves and childhood friends, and somehow it all works together.

    • @BetaBreaking
      @BetaBreaking Před rokem +1

      YES ANOTHER ALEXISONFIRE FAN ❤️💀

  • @hoomandehghani2035
    @hoomandehghani2035 Před 9 měsíci +16

    I love the fact that they have none of their faces on the album cover. Anonymous. Atoms. Universe. None of it really matters except the connection you make in that very second.

  • @endercoremusic
    @endercoremusic Před 4 lety +23

    This song makes me cry for a month

  • @mag4208
    @mag4208 Před 5 měsíci +9

    Imagine chilling with the girl you want just watching the stars at night while you listen to this banger, just imagine.

  • @timbtimb822
    @timbtimb822 Před 3 lety +17

    this is the kind of song you come back in 10 years and think of your life, you lived, when you were young.

  • @Sporacle
    @Sporacle Před 2 lety +7

    I miss her so much

  • @trillionbrilliant928
    @trillionbrilliant928 Před 4 lety +151

    Lyrics.
    Face away
    Deal with the pain
    Your own way
    How could they deal with the pain?
    I knew
    It was mine too
    And you?
    Is It Really You?
    Let's search the sky for a while
    You and I
    Collide like two stars for a while
    You and I
    Crushed by silent snow
    Not the first I know
    Caught in ebb and flow
    I'm bleeding out, oh you know
    Let's search the sky for a while
    You and I
    Collide like two stars for a while
    You and I

  • @FrankRiver2000
    @FrankRiver2000 Před 4 lety +243

    How can you not love this? This is beauty.

  • @w41l47
    @w41l47 Před 4 lety +16

    *THIS SONG FEELS SO GOOD, SO NOSTALGIC. REMINDS ME OF THE TIME WHEN ME AND MY EX GIRLFRIEND USED TO LAY ON THE GRASS ALL NIGHT STARGAZING, WITH HER ENDING UP SLEEPING IN MY ARMS*

  • @m11nusbl1ndfold
    @m11nusbl1ndfold Před 4 lety +135

    I never thought I would find another band that resonates with my life like Deftones did. Deftones is my Heart but Loathe...I'm seriously crushing on.

    • @mattfain9929
      @mattfain9929 Před 4 lety +4

      My same reaction. The two best bands out there.

    • @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh
      @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh Před rokem +5

      That’s kind of like saying “I love my wife but man, is her younger sister looking hot” lol

    • @CFChristian
      @CFChristian Před 2 měsíci

      RIP CHI

  • @skoddskar3D
    @skoddskar3D Před rokem +18

    This song is the culmination of the album for me. I let IT in and IT took everything. I let someone in and for a short while it was good, beautiful, everything I wanted. Then IT was ripped from me and I was left to deal with the heartache. Is IT really...you? I let her in and she took everything. It's my fault that I let her hold so much of my heart, but how else can you really love someone if you aren't vulnerable to them destroying you?
    This is my favorite song on the album, and I can't thank Loathe enough for the beautiful and heavy music they provide.

    • @Payne823
      @Payne823 Před rokem +2

      Beautifully written. I feel the same way about this song. Really hits home.

  • @el_mal_de_ojo
    @el_mal_de_ojo Před rokem +13

    I commented on this song a few years ago. Back then, pre-Covid, this song already touched my soul. Since that time, my mother passed away from cancer and this song devastates me with its honesty and beauty. When I feel a presence, I know it's really you, mom.

  • @EvermoreDarkly
    @EvermoreDarkly Před 4 lety +11

    Let's search the skyyyyyy. For awhile, you and IIIIIIIIIIIIIII.

  • @andrespulido3177
    @andrespulido3177 Před 2 lety +16

    This is the song that gets you in your feels but having it on repeat because it didn’t hurt you enough

  • @Astro_Thvnder
    @Astro_Thvnder Před 3 lety +17

    This song is what I imagine finding your soulmate would be in music form

  • @springsteenwow
    @springsteenwow Před 2 lety +23

    I want this played in my funeral

  • @GT-qv1gl
    @GT-qv1gl Před 4 lety +78

    Guitars sound like Pink Maggit for the chorus

    • @TheDeftones821
      @TheDeftones821 Před 4 lety +10

      Yes! I'm glad I'm not the only hearing it

    • @daneleslie9534
      @daneleslie9534 Před 4 lety +1

      Didn’t hear this until now. I love how the vocal melody completely changes the mood of the original chord progression. Amazing

    • @spicyramendotcom7975
      @spicyramendotcom7975 Před 3 lety +3

      It’s exactly the same. I think it’s on purpose as a shoutout to their biggest inspiration.

    • @darkninja225
      @darkninja225 Před 3 lety +3

      late to the party but even the beginning i started singing pink maggot and it clicked as to why it sounded so familiar without being a rip off

  • @Fillitwithbreeemium
    @Fillitwithbreeemium Před 4 lety +61

    I love this song so damn much

    • @Withamik
      @Withamik Před 4 lety +1

      I'm hooked to it so bad I wish it were even longer... but that also means that that replay button gonna get abused af 👀

  • @vampriella
    @vampriella Před 2 lety +30

    I wish I could meet someone in real life who listens to them. It would be so nice to be able to have a jam session with their music on repeat!

  • @salvadorgarcia-xk9ww
    @salvadorgarcia-xk9ww Před měsícem +1

    Im so glad I was shown this song by a good friend of mine. I could listen to it for hours until Id fall asleep

  • @adr0it
    @adr0it Před rokem +11

    884k views just isn't enough. The pure euphoria this song provides for me is indescribable.

  • @kattnoll
    @kattnoll Před 2 lety +34

    This track literally gives me the chills. It’s too good…

  • @cherrywave9050
    @cherrywave9050 Před 5 měsíci +34

    Anakin Skywalker sent me here

  • @sophiemcconnell2803
    @sophiemcconnell2803 Před 2 lety +16

    This song kills me but gives me life at the same time…

  • @essjay6968
    @essjay6968 Před 4 lety +17

    Anyone else's fave jam from the album? This will be my wedding song lol

  • @YvngSheldonGang
    @YvngSheldonGang Před 4 lety +51

    Easily best ballad of 2020, such a nice balance between verse and chorus, classic chord progression for the chorus matched with that beautiful melody... can’t stop playing this

  • @jamesandrewpaul3867
    @jamesandrewpaul3867 Před rokem +9

    This song reminds me of the time this girl ghosted me when I had cancer as a teenager. I ran into her a few years later and she didnt remember who i was. I had a severe mental breakdown and shut off my friends for a while.
    The fact that loathe can make a song that can replicate such a heartbreaking feeling solidifies them as a brilliant band in my opinion. I will be dying in your moshpits and singing my absolute heart out if I see loathe live

  • @manuelmirandawtf8345
    @manuelmirandawtf8345 Před 4 lety +11

    Deftones has already a band that will carry the torch for them

  • @sleepgaze
    @sleepgaze Před rokem +10

    I was able to find a portion of the lyrics to 3:02
    "______ new dimensions
    we can flow between
    with __________
    _______ give anything to find
    adorned by countless _____
    ______ you will be
    and if I join you there
    you will ask me, Is It Really You?"
    Hopefully someone is able to fill in the blanks or they release the full lyrics to this section but finally we at least have a snippet

    • @sleepgaze
      @sleepgaze Před rokem +1

      This was found on the top left of the banner on their twitter page

    • @pashamironov98
      @pashamironov98 Před rokem +5

      I tried to isolate vocals on this song, and the best i could get is:
      "Many(?) new dimensions
      we can flow between
      with no obstructions
      Another life I'd(?) give anything to find
      adorned by countless souls (?)
      It is where(?) you will be
      and if I join you there
      you will ask me, Is It Really You?"

  • @arsonne
    @arsonne Před rokem +4

    Fun fact: Sean Radcliffe, the drummer for Loathe wrote this song. So glad this band is getting the recognition it deserves!

  • @jakewhohatescake
    @jakewhohatescake Před 3 lety +2

    i miss you mom.... Rest In Paradise... love, your first born son.

  • @armfourteen
    @armfourteen Před 3 lety +11

    literally in tears while listening to this beautiful song remembering a friend that's gone so soon

  • @ogsupremelyvida
    @ogsupremelyvida Před rokem +8

    i kinda hope tiktok doesn’t make this song overplayed, but popular enough for this artist to be recognized!!

  • @jacksvocals
    @jacksvocals Před 4 lety +41

    Never warmed to their earlier stuff, glad I didn't write them off; this album is stunning

    • @athmaid
      @athmaid Před 4 lety +1

      Do you like Gored? Or NFITD? If so they have quite a few songs like those. White Hot is still one of my favourites

    • @jacksvocals
      @jacksvocals Před 4 lety +3

      @@athmaid I appreciate it more having gone back and listened to it since. Still not a big fan of the harsh vocals, but here they're written sparingly to greater effect, and produced better imo. This album will do big things for them

    • @athmaid
      @athmaid Před 4 lety +6

      @@jacksvocals hey respect to you for giving it another try. Two years ago I would have never guessed that I would be enjoying black metal someday. And that's when I was already knee deep into metalcore. Baby steps man :D

  • @kinapuniverse2184
    @kinapuniverse2184 Před 9 dny +1

    I used to play this song before my daughter was born. When she would be keeping my wife up late, kicking her belly. She would always calm down when this song came on. Now she is 8 months old and any time she gets riled up, I put his song on and no matter what she is doing she just stops and listens and coos. It's amazing and I hope this song soothes her forever!

  • @turntnugget
    @turntnugget Před rokem +7

    This song was playing at a concert and me and this girl were hugging to it, we both were trashed lol. I always think of this moment when this plays.

  • @aldoherrera7820
    @aldoherrera7820 Před rokem +13

    this song should have a official video

  • @skatevidcentral
    @skatevidcentral Před 4 lety +20

    Haven't been this engrossed and blown away by an album in ages. Brings up the feels I had listening to White Pony the first time. Absolutely amazing.

  • @11cylynt11
    @11cylynt11 Před 3 lety +17

    I've loved this song since I first heard it a couple of months ago. But listening to it while reading the lyrics really got me choked up, like a lump in my throat, breathless, and glossy eyed. I'm not ashamed to admit this beautiful song made me tear up. It's an amazing song.

  • @gin434
    @gin434 Před 3 lety +12

    my ex-boyfriend made me listen to this song a while ago, and now that I'm taking some time for myself to think, and understand myself, my emotions, a bit more, only now I'm understanding how powerful those few frames in the background are.
    just two hands longing for each other, but as soon as they touch, they're brought back and apart. it's a simple gesture, but it seemed to me the extreme depiction of the intimacy between two people.

  • @plaguenewworld
    @plaguenewworld Před 4 lety +26

    Entire album is very "Around the Fur/Adrenaline/Meshuggah/HOLY SHIT...
    Most impressive!!!!

  • @qarcon3247
    @qarcon3247 Před rokem +5

    Honestly listening to this make me realize the world is not that shit. Something as beautiful as this can even exist.

  • @vashsan71
    @vashsan71 Před 4 lety +26

    Another one that is so heavily influenced by deftones... gives me that hole in the earth vibe to it. Absolutely beautiful. Gives me the feels from the mid 2000s.

  • @mattprovost9878
    @mattprovost9878 Před 11 měsíci +2

    This song, is the last song that I listened to, before i checked myself into rehab.... I went years fighting mental/physical hatred towards myself, and anyone around me....
    But my beautiful partner, and her two wonderful children, and our two beautiful children together; have taught me that there is so much more to experience.....

    • @JerPlaysGuitar21
      @JerPlaysGuitar21 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I applaud you for seeking help 😊 As someone who's been there, I know how tough that hurdle can be. I'm so glad to hear you're through the worst of it; at this point, we're both walking the road to recovery together. God bless you :D

  • @rooroscott2903
    @rooroscott2903 Před 2 lety +7

    This is the one of the few songs ever that's made me cry. I've thought about some of the saddest parts of my life while listening to music before, it's how i typically vent when no one's around. But when I heard this song for the 5th time in an existential mood and picked up every element of it, it really just got to me. Years after I thought I was done grieving, this song matched my headspace perfectly somehow. Loathe are one of the best current bands out there and I will forever love this song.

  • @Ximena03
    @Ximena03 Před 2 lety +11

    This song is everything to me….It’s gives me nostalgic vibes

    • @Theawesomepossum15
      @Theawesomepossum15 Před 2 lety +1

      For whatever reason, this makes me feel nostalgia for something ive never experienced. But something i want to.

  • @cassandravasquez7490
    @cassandravasquez7490 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Listening to this on a plane with heavy turbulence at 12am is kinda comforting.

  • @mamaproxy
    @mamaproxy Před 3 lety +7

    I love playing this song while I go out on bike rides at night. I’ll sit there at a park and just stare up at the sky while I listen to this, just thinking about how well the two mesh together.

  • @GroggyFive59180
    @GroggyFive59180 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I hope everyone here is doing okay these days. Please be safe and know that people care about you, even if it may not feel like it at times. If you are feeling troubled, maybe professional help is the answer, or talking to a trusted friend about what you are going through. Wish you all the best.

    • @axelc3882
      @axelc3882 Před 6 měsíci +6

      I needed to hear this so bad, thx m8

  • @dufretismo
    @dufretismo Před 3 lety +5

    i let them in and they took all of my playlists

  • @fuppu
    @fuppu Před 24 dny +1

    Truly a masterpiece of an album

  • @travisparry8033
    @travisparry8033 Před rokem +3

    This Song always makes me think about a friend of mine ive had for a very long time. she is truly the most beautful on earth. I know that i will always love her , but at the same time it will never be more than what we are,. it took me a long time to accept that and sometimes i question it. this song hits me right where that problem lies. you know that person is the beautiful soul in question and yet its a form of melancholy heartbreak that you have her next to you, just not in the way you long for. i am grateful i have her as a friend and who knows, maybe in another life it happens, maybe it alreafy happened in a previous one. the connection we have is truly special.

  • @growldaddy
    @growldaddy Před 4 lety +11

    I may have just found my new favorite band

    • @cjdoyle625
      @cjdoyle625 Před 4 lety +1

      Same where the fuck have I been

  • @ralucamg
    @ralucamg Před 2 lety +5

    At my 5th listen I started sobbing uncontrollably. I didn't realise it was clawing it's way to my heart.

  • @unclejeffssecretaccounttoh8774
    @unclejeffssecretaccounttoh8774 Před 7 měsíci +5

    this is so beautiful if u guys want a similar song with this kinda vibe id recommend nothing left to love by counterparts both such gems

  • @PardonedLion
    @PardonedLion Před 3 lety +8

    I’m proud of you guys. Not many bands make music so relatable. You connected feelings with noise. You made music, not sound. Proud listener moment.

  • @loathe1everyone
    @loathe1everyone Před 2 lety +9

    this song is so unbelievably beautiful

  • @wolvetica
    @wolvetica Před 3 lety +5

    the fact that these guys can go between brutal skin-tearing riffs to this.. is amazing

  • @sk1nnybonez
    @sk1nnybonez Před 4 lety +20

    OH MY GOD THIS IS BEAUTIFUL

  • @kyxjin8336
    @kyxjin8336 Před rokem +7

    This album was so beautiful, I understand that many people find the similarity between loathe and deftones but I feel artists’ pieces of work should go beyond comparison. I can’t describe it but there is a reason that there is no other song that’s exactly like this one- perhaps similar- but there is no exact song like this, no other album with the same composition and craft like this one. I think we should appreciate, acknowledge, and praise the uniqueness of a piece like this because I just want another project from these guys to listen to, I want to feel once again stunned and mesmerized from the effort and joy this band puts to their songs, they are just so fucking great.

  • @Brutalityisinyou
    @Brutalityisinyou Před 4 lety +27

    This that shit right here. Loving the whole existence of the album. Thanks loathe. ❤

  • @mossyav5372
    @mossyav5372 Před 2 lety +5

    i miss you brother. feels weird to type this out somewhere in public but fuck it man. this song is amazing.
    i love you always.

  • @welovetits
    @welovetits Před 11 měsíci +1

    i’ve listened to this song for like a week on repeat

  • @jonnesainio
    @jonnesainio Před 4 lety +32

    What an amazing track, holy shit! So beautiful and full of really cool effects and sounds wow. Loathe's soundscape is really one of a kind. First time rolling the new album right know and can't wait to hear the rest! Album of the year right here