With This Ring, I Thee Slap

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • The plaintiff is a preacher’s daughter who told the defendant she wouldn’t sleep with him until they were married. On the night she thought he was going to propose, he asked her for a loan instead. She’s suing her ex because he won’t repay it. The defendant says he planned to marry her, but he borrowed the money to buy a ring. He says she slapped it out of his hand, so he’s countersuing for the ring. #JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court

Komentáře • 689

  • @maxymax123
    @maxymax123 Před 2 lety +66

    Ladies when sex is not involved in a relationship then you can make better judgment. Bravo to her!

    • @euqinom8561
      @euqinom8561 Před rokem +4

      Just think if we women held back at least a good 6 months. So much pain and time wasted could be avoided with these men.

    • @keyia9
      @keyia9 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@euqinom8561Man if that isn't the truth 💯

  • @QUiNTiNBANKS
    @QUiNTiNBANKS Před 2 lety +605

    If you’re reading this I wish nothing but wealth and health all 2022

  • @lbu9542
    @lbu9542 Před 2 lety +296

    God Bless this woman. She is beautiful, intelligent, with moral standards and I pray she marries a wonderful man.

  • @Lilyrose23
    @Lilyrose23 Před 2 lety +420

    Her only mistake was to loan him the money, but she's one of the smartest women that came to this show. Many women would accept the ring and let him get away with it because they're desperate. He probably counted on that 😂👏🏾

    • @symontemplar1418
      @symontemplar1418 Před 2 lety +33

      He was hoping for his debt to become community property once they were married. He tried but she was smart enough to see through his scheme. He lost a good woman of substance with his foolishness.

    • @dwayneevans683
      @dwayneevans683 Před 2 lety +13

      Well it depends on how you look at things! and SHE:S NOT SMART... Smart would of been NOT LENDING THE MONEY IN THE FIRST PLACE! I think everybody here is missing the big picture! Its not what she did , is how she did it! She went BALLISTIC over the money! and was furious becasue its her money that was spent to buy the ring! The point im making is that if it was his money that bought the ring ,it would of went differently, So what im seeing with her is that HER MONEY IS HER MONEY, and HIS MONEY IS HER MONEY! So if thats the case why would she ever want to get MARRIED, because once your married your money becomes one! JUST remember she even had her mother sign a promissory note just to buy her a $25 bus card! NOW THATS LOW! Its shows her character she's in it to win it, WHATS HER'S IS HER"S plain and SIMPLE! and I KNOW IM !100% CORRECT! about this.

    • @tiffnym
      @tiffnym Před 2 lety +15

      @@dwayneevans683 they were unmarried when she gave him to loan, so yes HER money was HER money.

    • @dwayneevans683
      @dwayneevans683 Před 2 lety +4

      @@tiffnym Your NOT GETTING IT! No one is disputing that the money is hers! WE ALL KNOW THAT! Dont know if you was listening to this case! The main point your not seeing, is that the way she carried on about HER MONEY! So what happens if they were to get MARRIED, what type of wife would she make! From what i can see, HER MONEY is HER MONEY, and HIS MONEY is HER MONEY!
      what part of that are you not getting! She doesnt give a FUCK about NO ONE accept HERSELF! She could care less about his well being as long as she has her money! If she wants to be like that with her husband then NO PROBLEM, JUST KNOW < HE CAN BE THE SAME WAY WITH HIS MONEY! and HE JUST MIGHT BE THE BREAD WINNER IN THE HOUSEHOLD! Are still not getting it, Well then i cant help you! Like is said before PASTOR DAUGHTER or NOT, she's MEAN AND SELFISH, and she's NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE! She NEEDS TO STAY SINGLE AND DO HER THING! These days men are not stupid like one time, NO ONE WANTS to BE WITH SOMEONE WHO ALL ABOUT THEMSELVES, and DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT NO ONE ! ...GOD aint SLEEPING , this guy dodge a BULLET!

    • @anniedyer5201
      @anniedyer5201 Před 2 lety +16

      @@dwayneevans683 why would a woman accept a wedding ring from a man if she paid for it… are you okay? She might as well buy a jewellery set if that’s the case n get earrings to match
      Regardless of her reaction what he did was also low😂 shouldn’t of proposed to begin with if he didn’t have enough integrity to do it off of his own back..

  • @shelocsher2396
    @shelocsher2396 Před 2 lety +356

    They’re cute lol. I love that she wasn’t blinded by love enough to excuse that loan.

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 Před 2 lety +9

      Yes, protecting your self and what you've built on your own is great advice ALL black women need to learn. I got taken advantage of to many times being loyal at and a ride or die. Which is some more evil B.S feed to black women

    • @jadriennewhite4474
      @jadriennewhite4474 Před 2 lety +2

      They are married now

    • @benlewis1239
      @benlewis1239 Před 2 lety

      Go to the pawn shop take it there

    • @benlewis1239
      @benlewis1239 Před 2 lety

      Ohh Judge u a stone fool u r too much and too funny

    • @benlewis1239
      @benlewis1239 Před 2 lety +1

      Money changes things and people

  • @DB-vt1kk
    @DB-vt1kk Před 2 lety +467

    If he couldn’t afford an engagement ring, he certainly wasn’t ready to marry and have a family. She is beautiful though 😍

    • @kenyarheams9379
      @kenyarheams9379 Před 2 lety +36

      A ring does not make a marriage, it's the two people together working together to make a moment shared to last a life time.

    • @scottrogue946
      @scottrogue946 Před 2 lety +26

      @@kenyarheams9379 That sounds nice but what he did speaks to his character. If you and other women are okay with your future husbands borrowing money from you to buy you a ring than you both deserve each other 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @kenyarheams9379
      @kenyarheams9379 Před 2 lety +12

      @@scottrogue946 I was just saying a ring does not make a marriage. If anyone is concerned over who can afford what does not deserve each other. Times are hard and will only get harder. If you are not a celebrity or a millionaire, I do not think much will be afforded soon. Everyone falls on hard times. He specifically stated he made a bad decision going into a situation with a family member. His actions on how he handled the matter may be weird to you but it seems to me she was more concerned on what a man can and has to offer over the principle. If you asked me he was better off. I understand things get hard and nothing is always perfect but borrowing money is not an issue not paying it back is. However I discussed the fact a ring does not make a marriage because the person stated if someone can't afford one then he shouldn't get married. That was the topic not someone borrowing money but I summed both up together. Merry Christmas

    • @misterM718
      @misterM718 Před 2 lety +9

      Engagement rings are super expensive jewelers and women traditionally want them to be three months salary which is crazy to me lol

    • @kenyarheams9379
      @kenyarheams9379 Před 2 lety +11

      @@misterM718 my point exactly .. no one can afford that anymore. Besides a ring does not solidify your relationship. If you dictating your life on a materialistic item then stay by yourself. I told a guy to buy my ring from Walmart instead of the fancier places. He got mad and we never got married lol...

  • @besgordon
    @besgordon Před 2 lety +58

    So he complaining about she cheap, but he borrowing from her? Dude please 🙄

  • @dreadhead703
    @dreadhead703 Před 2 lety +139

    She dodged a bullet with ol boy…He’s more concerned with looking good than actually being good. She’s about her business, you can tell she still has love for him but he played himself 💯

    • @12Messenger
      @12Messenger Před 2 lety +7

      He did that because he think he will always have access to her love. Block the dude it's real godly men out there

  • @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430

    He calls her cheap, I say she is frugal, you'd be an idiot to miss a treasure like her! A Frugal wife will ensure that there's always resources, provisions for the family. She'll manage your finances and ensure that yours and your children's lives and future are secure. You can't go hungry with this one! And when you're down on funds, she'll always have backup funds somewhere. What would happen if both of you where the same spending-wise? In my country we say "Shine ya eyes" be wise/smart/sharp, Don't let such a treasure pass you by, as long as you love each other go for it!

    • @tk-ns8lr
      @tk-ns8lr Před 2 lety +5

      Exactly! I'm so tight with my money I get nervous when people spend their own money. Lol I'm not cheap, just financially responsible.

    • @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430
      @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430 Před 2 lety +2

      @@tk-ns8lr good for you! I applaud you truly. Some people don't know how easy they've got it until life hits them and they end up homeless and beggars on the streets.

    • @jonathanrivers4209
      @jonathanrivers4209 Před 2 lety +2

      Plus she beautiful with integrity. He better get wise

    • @SimplyASweet
      @SimplyASweet Před 2 lety +1

      May I ask what county your from ?? Just curious... You dont have to answer if u don't Wana ..

    • @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430
      @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430 Před 2 lety +1

      @@SimplyASweet I'm Nigerian

  • @kgrimes842
    @kgrimes842 Před 2 lety +226

    I love her! He's a joke. A loser. Says he loves her but ask her for a loan then calls her cheap and claims she's a thief.

    • @Firefly471
      @Firefly471 Před 2 lety +13

      I thought I misheard him initially. I was like wow. Well that cheapness is what allowed her to have the savings to bail him out to pay his property taxes.

    • @Cometalktome
      @Cometalktome Před 2 lety +15

      He’s not a loser he was trying to take care of business and keep her happy it just didn’t work out that way. If she would of married him first that would be their house and she would of help save they house. All that other mess he was just talking trash to be funny.

    • @divineapology818
      @divineapology818 Před 2 lety +21

      @@Cometalktome Not sure how you came to this deduction. He said he had family members living in the house who didn't take care of the property taxes. Neither of them talked about moving into this house together. It doesn't even seem like the conversation got that far.
      Being a loser is a mindset. A loser asks a woman he isn't sure he want's to settle down with for $5,000. He should have went to the bank.

    • @Cometalktome
      @Cometalktome Před 2 lety +5

      @@divineapology818 They don’t have to move in the house together if they got married it’s hers too. Besides they should’ve had a lot of talks if they were trying to get married. If he waited a year to have sex with her till marriage sounds like he wants to settle down.

    • @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430
      @storieswithauntyogeswaog1430 Před 2 lety +8

      @@Cometalktome if they were ALREADY MARTIED I might've agreed with you. BUT, people change their minds a day before the wedding, even at the Altar. An engagement ring is no guarantee of a lifetime together! You would've been one of those who called her stupid if she got engaged, forfeited the loan and parted ways with the guy for whatever reason. She did the right thing, it's hard to find a Frugal woman these days.

  • @jasonoroland
    @jasonoroland Před 2 lety +138

    Man this guy was my flight attendant like 6yrs ago on a flight to Vegas. He was funny af too! Working and cracking jokes the entire flight.Lol

    • @deshonebonyrowland-ward4552
      @deshonebonyrowland-ward4552 Před 2 lety +6

      Small world huh lol... He is funny seems like a cool dude just needs to get it together on some levels lol

    • @steezy7460
      @steezy7460 Před 2 lety +3

      Dope how u still remember him

  • @MsJuicy31783
    @MsJuicy31783 Před 2 lety +241

    I thought this was one of the funniest cases I’ve seen. He is stupid but gave me a good laugh

    • @jbrown3160
      @jbrown3160 Před 2 lety +4

      Wat makes him stupid I'm confused

    • @simonsez1787
      @simonsez1787 Před 2 lety +3

      Maybe this person means “stupid” like wild, crazy, goofy but also found him entertaining

  • @R-L-I
    @R-L-I Před 2 lety +176

    Wait a minute, did I hear that right? Took money she gave you as a loan and used it to buy her engagement ring?! Fellas have we fallen this far? And no I’m not a simp but c’mon y’all know that ain’t right.

    • @tyronetaylor2698
      @tyronetaylor2698 Před 2 lety +12

      Not fellas .. that ninja fell that far!!

    • @DB-vt1kk
      @DB-vt1kk Před 2 lety +24

      She basically bought the ring for herself 💍 😭

    • @juantubey
      @juantubey Před 2 lety +3

      What do you mean “fellas”? What the heck is wrong with you?

    • @R-L-I
      @R-L-I Před 2 lety +12

      Came back to the comment section and it seems a couple people took offense, I was being facetious guys of course I know this is not every dude or even most of them, I was joking that even a handful of guys like this exist in the first place so relax folks.

    • @JayLawson
      @JayLawson Před 2 lety +10

      @@juantubey He's saying "fellas" to get a male point of view and to ask whether this has become an overall norm. Nothing is wrong with him it was a valid question. What is wrong with you?

  • @audrelordhammercy612
    @audrelordhammercy612 Před 2 lety +156

    … if a man proposes to me saying “come over” with an engagement ring I BOUGHT he’s done!! As an engagement ring designer and jeweler, I’m screaming. 💀

  • @intensepassion3382
    @intensepassion3382 Před 2 lety +92

    He's an embarassment, and she got saved from misery.

  • @mouhamadoudjite3084
    @mouhamadoudjite3084 Před 2 lety +141

    " Now do you wanna get married ". And the guy's face tells all it is: he was lying about his intention to marry her .

    • @jbrown3160
      @jbrown3160 Před 2 lety +4

      Marriage not for men its for the woman to safe & too gain...

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 Před 2 lety

      @@jbrown3160 *to gain

    • @jessetm7732
      @jessetm7732 Před 2 lety +14

      @@jbrown3160 that’s a very sad way of looking at marriage. makes me scared for the future of relationships/love. weird views to have.

    • @jbrown3160
      @jbrown3160 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jessetm7732 naw that's facts.. Why would a man get married & he can be a father anyway it goes, marriage is not built for men 😂 it's built for females to feel secure in her spot as that man number 1 while the man is treated like the door met.. We work to take care of home & whenever you ready to leave you can & left with half of wat that man built while most wives don't even work.... Not built for men at all & you supposed to say that cuz without mfs working hard to live if marriage is off the table..

    • @OliviaBaeBy
      @OliviaBaeBy Před 2 lety +9

      @@jbrown3160 Spoken like a true ninja😂

  • @msknich0le
    @msknich0le Před 2 lety +229

    She’s absolutely gorgeous with morals and he’s waiting on his queen. This is refreshing to see. He should have mentioned the ring before the purchase. Then, he would have known her preference. A woman paying for her own engagement ring is an insult but I don’t think he meant any harm. He just let his ego and his desire to please get in the way. So, after the show pays the loan, I hope they will reconcile and marry.

    • @dwayneevans683
      @dwayneevans683 Před 2 lety +10

      From what i can see ,is she is all about the MONEY! Yes $5000 is alot to lend, but if she was serious about being married ! Thats a smalll price to pay! She made it clear that it's her way or the HIGHWAY! She's all about the money! and she is cheap! what i see is that HER MONEY IS HER MONEY, and HIS MONEY IS HER MONEY!! Thats means if she cant get what she want from him, she will leave him for another man with more money! she might be a pastor daughter but thats doesnt mean she's a good woman! When a woman is serious about being with a man, for LIFE , that money shouldnt matter! They will be join as one, so whats his is also hers! But seeing her reaction tells a different story!

    • @Sheherhis
      @Sheherhis Před 2 lety +7

      @@dwayneevans683 my thoughts also and he should be concerned about how she was yelling at him and knocking the ring out his hand. And she doesn't think that's bad behavior for a good marriage.

    • @onhersoapbox6594
      @onhersoapbox6594 Před 2 lety +28

      @@dwayneevans683 Um no, this is such an unnecessary long winded statement. Whose to say if he was already her fiancé/husband that she would have acted that way about the return on HER hard work. There is no OUR/WE until there is a marriage. People like you love to zone in on dramatics and the negatives even when their relationship had so many positives.

    • @rachelcallahan2612
      @rachelcallahan2612 Před 2 lety +23

      @@dwayneevans683 PLEASE tell me that you are kidding because she is not speaking about anybody else's money but her own. And she has every right to ask for and want HER money back. Furthermore, they are not married. So, what's love got to do with it? This isn't about his or her money because she's not asking for any of his money instead, she is simply asking him to pay back what is owed. to her.
      Anyway, I like this couple and overall, I think they have a good chemistry. So, I do hope that they will be able to get pass this AFTER he pays her back HER money.

    • @Ash2beauty
      @Ash2beauty Před 2 lety +1

      @@dwayneevans683 🧐

  • @bellyman1783
    @bellyman1783 Před 2 lety +30

    When it comes to her money she don't play

  • @vgkpodium8291
    @vgkpodium8291 Před 2 lety +7

    She may be cheap but she will never go hungry.

  • @Derekflint3
    @Derekflint3 Před 2 lety +133

    That man has most likely missed a great catch. One day he'll look back on this and Stupid is what Stupid does.

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 Před 2 lety +1

      He’s a simp, but she’s a simpette

    • @dwayneevans683
      @dwayneevans683 Před 2 lety +10

      BULLSHIT, i think he DODGE a BULLET! Yes a MAN is suppose to provide for his family! OLD SCHOOL, but it was something financial that came up! and EMERGENCY! So if they where to marry is this that she will carry on , if her husband is in a BIND! I dont like women like this, claim to be ALL HOLY, and are FULL OF SHIT! This woman is claerly all about herself, everthing has to be done the way she wants it! When troucle come knocking she will BAIL on their relationship, WITH ALL HER MONEY! She made it clear at the end its ALL ABOUT THE MONEY! women like this have a hard time finding a GOOD man, becasue they over look and judge quickly! $5000 may seem alot to lend, but in reality thats cheap, FUCK a WEDDING ALONE can run you over 40 grand! Yet she went BALLISTIC for HER $5000! Why because its HER MONEY1 Personally i dont have a problem with the way she carried on! But remember YOU REAP WAT YOU SOW! the way i see it, is that i treat people the way they treat me! I DONT LOVE NOBODY MORE THAN MYSELF!...Fine she wanna carry on for her $5000,, il pay her it back no problem! but when the TABLES TURN, dont EXPECT ME TO GIVE YOU SHIT!...If she cant spend on me! i cant spend on her! ! SIMPLE! and im an ELEPHANT we NEVER FORGET!

    • @pikachu3763
      @pikachu3763 Před 2 lety +14

      @@dwayneevans683 you must borrow money from women you have no intentions on paying back!

    • @JayLawson
      @JayLawson Před 2 lety +1

      @@dwayneevans683 Well said 👏

    • @Firefly471
      @Firefly471 Před 2 lety +4

      @Luna Nah. It doesn't work like that. In most states, that was his property before the marriage and will stay his should they get a divorce. In general, she has no rights to the property, and it should be that way to prevent gold diggers who get married to scam people out of their property. A prudent woman should support her man but invest in property together with her name on the deed and vice versa.

  • @fwb1012
    @fwb1012 Před 2 lety +32

    This is too funny🤣😂 She ain’t playing about her money!

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man Před 2 lety +81

    I see why he broke. He thinks financial prudence is being cheap. Good looking man and sounds charming... he could have gotten financial game from her and leveled up instead of merely looking the part.

    • @victorvalentinejr9738
      @victorvalentinejr9738 Před 2 lety +5

      It's the pastors money don't get ahead of yourself he dropped the bag

    • @jbrown3160
      @jbrown3160 Před 2 lety +1

      @@victorvalentinejr9738 facts!!

    • @Mr.Boring_Man
      @Mr.Boring_Man Před 2 lety +1

      @@victorvalentinejr9738 - My bad. I didn't know Victor Valentine knew all of the individuals on this specific TV episode personally. Thanks for the insight. #TaxTheChurches

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas Před 2 lety

      Level up??? To what figuring out how to make your mother owe you $25 or steal condiments??? 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kareen9712
    @kareen9712 Před 2 lety +30

    “She repped the hood” 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Beechboy68
      @Beechboy68 Před 2 lety +2

      On six owe crip! cuzz run me my money 😂

  • @adrianprince7266
    @adrianprince7266 Před 2 lety +46

    The defendant had nothing but a bunch of excuses. He burrowed the money now pay up.

    • @Mr.Boring_Man
      @Mr.Boring_Man Před 2 lety

      I made him pay already with demolition backshots. He screamed. Reminded me of you. Call again, please.

  • @jamesstewart522
    @jamesstewart522 Před 2 lety +40

    A well put together woman who hasn’t been around. That’s hard to find.

  • @chanelhopeful5336
    @chanelhopeful5336 Před 2 lety +19

    Beautiful lady who definitely knows her self worth 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @serious7179
    @serious7179 Před 2 lety +53

    I really liked this case :-) no cheating, no gross descriptions of all kinds of sex lol, just a beautiful wholesome lady who knows what she wants.

  • @deshawnh.3477
    @deshawnh.3477 Před 2 lety +88

    A year of dating without having sex.. She was saving her self for him to man up and marry her...Thats a good woman he lost..

    • @Drayonis
      @Drayonis Před 2 lety +3

      She can keep it. She stingy

    • @Drayonis
      @Drayonis Před 2 lety

      @x marks the spot she gotta pay something since she ain't sharing no cooch. 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas Před 2 lety

      He dodged a bullet and she’ll die alone with the other 76% of BW.

  • @juantubey
    @juantubey Před 2 lety +30

    If you love somebody you would repay them the money they loaned you.

  • @potentspirit3096
    @potentspirit3096 Před 2 lety +38

    Lord please save me a Black Woman as beautiful internally as externally similar to this Goddess, when I’m ready to welcome her to my kingdom. Amen

  • @travismaxwell9115
    @travismaxwell9115 Před 2 lety +28

    He BROKE, and she got PLAYED.

  • @omarscott2373
    @omarscott2373 Před 2 lety +36

    She is definitely worth the wait!! God took his time putting her together ♥️♥️

  • @gummybear-wx1vr
    @gummybear-wx1vr Před 2 lety +16

    They’re both charming and funny lol. HOWEVER a real man WOULD NEVER ask a lady for money.

    • @sherryjennings9542
      @sherryjennings9542 Před 2 lety +1

      True Facts. My kids father told me that. He was 9 yrs older than me. He said a man should give you money. That's the best advise he every gave me. We didn't stay together,but I never taken care of a man. I'm 59 now.

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas Před 2 lety

      That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I guess you can say anything online and another idiot will show up and agree with you. Recognize the one who agreed has a ‘kids father’ not a husband.

  • @Passion85031
    @Passion85031 Před 2 lety +23

    And she steals. She steals sugar packets🤣🤣🤣

    • @GoHeadGyrl
      @GoHeadGyrl Před 2 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @GrumpySmurf0813
      @GrumpySmurf0813 Před 2 lety

      Lol. I really thought he was gonna say something way bigger about what she's stealing. Sugar packets and condiments. Lol

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself Před 2 lety +35

    Young people, don’t let folks talk you into marriage before you are financially, emotionally ready. And if you know your partner desperately wants to be married and you just don’t want to marry her, the harsh yet loving thing to do is cut her lose.

  • @marcelinesforza4712
    @marcelinesforza4712 Před 2 lety +16

    1) She is GORGEOUS! 😍 2) He is hilarious 🤣 3) Laugh all you want about people who are conservatively frugal AKA cheap 🤣 but I bet when 2020 hit they were financially prepared and no bills were left behind! Don't get caught slippin' in 2022! Save & spend wisely! 💯🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @MercLife100
    @MercLife100 Před 2 lety +9

    These two are straight up comedy 😂

  • @Cjmboo
    @Cjmboo Před 2 lety +23

    no man should be asking a woman for a loan period he need to go out and do what he need to do to get his self a loan

    • @dwayneevans683
      @dwayneevans683 Před 2 lety

      How about sell some DRUGS , or ROB a BANK, I guess youll be cool with that! once you get your wedding ring! RIGHT!

    • @Cjmboo
      @Cjmboo Před 2 lety +2

      @@dwayneevans683 no get a damn job duh

    • @djamalwendy2872
      @djamalwendy2872 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Cjmboo you know damn well shit ain’t sweet out here when you tryna to provide anyways

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Před 2 lety

      Right! She’s the dummy. I wish I would think about marrying someone who has to borrow money from anyone. Let alone me

  • @budgetwithshelly
    @budgetwithshelly Před 2 lety +38

    A woman with morals! And how you gonna take a loan from her and then buy HER a engagement ring 🤣😂 See, that’s why you got to know your spouses financial situation or history BEFORE marriage 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨

    • @payableondeath9091
      @payableondeath9091 Před 2 lety +1

      I once knew someone that bought her own ring

    • @DB-vt1kk
      @DB-vt1kk Před 2 lety +7

      Yes! She dodged a bullet.

    • @wildfiregirl1556
      @wildfiregirl1556 Před 2 lety +1

      @@payableondeath9091 At least she got what she wanted.

    • @payableondeath9091
      @payableondeath9091 Před 2 lety +2

      @@wildfiregirl1556 ya ultimately a divorce after every year she felt alone in buying herself things 🤦‍♂️

    • @Drayonis
      @Drayonis Před 2 lety

      People who have sex are immoral?

  • @tom11zz884
    @tom11zz884 Před 2 lety +27

    Black men...Black men...
    You must start to do better
    Borrowing money from your woman to buy her an engagement ring?

    • @kendraphic87
      @kendraphic87 Před 2 lety +2

      Righhttt.. she’s gorgeous, good head on her shoulders and a virgin. He snapped fr.

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kendraphic87
      She's no angel herself...lol
      Based on what tha man said, she has her own set of issues, which is why he didn't marry her.

    • @kendraphic87
      @kendraphic87 Před 2 lety +7

      @@tom11zz884 No ones perfect. She may be a little cheap but she still gave him 5k and he used it to buy her a ring. He’s a loser. Seems she was willing to deal with a lot. Smh gots to be the end of times. Especially men justifying this brothers behavior. It’s real sad. Seems like the issue was he’s not financially secure AT ALL.

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kendraphic87
      Who is justifying his behavior? Did you not read my original comment? I went in on him, however; whenever a woman is criticized in the slightest, women seem to have an issue with it..interesting.

    • @kendraphic87
      @kendraphic87 Před 2 lety +1

      @@tom11zz884 have you read the other comments?
      I’m my opinion there’s something wrong with everybody. They seems to have chemistry and love for one another. Wouldn’t be surprised if they aren’t together.
      But you’re right, she’s flawed. We all are. Just curious as to what is the issue with her in-depthly

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Před 2 lety +27

    This was a good episode. Refreshing to see that they were waiting. I didn’t sleep with my husband until we got married. It was hard but the Lord got us through. It is not the end of the world if you do fall. Grieve, repent and keep pushing. And he doesn’t seem gay. Y’all are saying that because y’all are used to seeing men screwing everything walking.

    • @atlienrider6048
      @atlienrider6048 Před 2 lety +4

      Was he your first and was it what you expected? I wouldn't think people still had the restraint to do that anymore. Hats off to you!!

    • @kay22100
      @kay22100 Před 2 lety +1

      @@atlienrider6048 He was not my first. I became a Christian at 22 so it was gone by then lol.

    • @atlienrider6048
      @atlienrider6048 Před 2 lety +3

      @@kay22100 LOL! No worries. That's a beautiful thing. Hats off to you.

  • @kingman1330
    @kingman1330 Před 2 lety +9

    No if someone loan you money. Pay them back!!!

  • @tiasway
    @tiasway Před 2 lety +10

    He's got to understand that's a slap in the face... how do you buy someone a ring with basically their own money smh

  • @budgetwithshelly
    @budgetwithshelly Před 2 lety +14

    Now, that’s cheap 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @ladykay93
    @ladykay93 Před 2 lety +6

    So she made her mom sign a promise note for $25 but gave ole boy $5k and didn’t make him sign a note🤔🤔

    • @kimmiekisses9738
      @kimmiekisses9738 Před 2 lety +2

      You said it !I was thinking it 😂.,now that's messed up when Mom bout her in this world and he playing mind games with her in his broke world..

    • @lifestraight
      @lifestraight Před 2 lety

      That's crazy

    • @GoHeadGyrl
      @GoHeadGyrl Před 2 lety

      She said "I gave him the money wrapped in the iou note."

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 Před 2 lety +15

    Had the lady pay for her own engagment ring😂🤨😤?! Wtf...You can't make this stuff up!

  • @droptv520
    @droptv520 Před 2 lety +17

    Master Plan:
    1. Borrow 5k from girlfriend
    2. Buy engagement ring for 5k
    3. Give ring to girlfriend and Propose
    4. Finally get the draws
    5. Break-up
    6. Let her keep the 5k ring as repayment for the 5k loan
    This was basically an intricate plot to get the draws that failed. He's an idiot-genius

  • @alfredalove4610
    @alfredalove4610 Před 2 lety +34

    I enjoyed this episode so much! She and him are real. And so funny lol
    They should have a televised show of their own.

  • @JustCallMeChina
    @JustCallMeChina Před 2 lety +18

    This is definitely one of the funniest episodes ever

  • @jadriennewhite4474
    @jadriennewhite4474 Před 2 lety +3

    I found them on FB and they got married 😍😍😍

  • @wordplay1415
    @wordplay1415 Před 2 lety +5

    I sacrifice so I can spend it, not for you to spend it! Amen girl!

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 Před 2 lety +11

    She is beautiful.

  • @peace.404
    @peace.404 Před 2 lety +11

    This case was hilarious, fun & wholesome. Thanks for it!!

  • @bonitasherman4117
    @bonitasherman4117 Před 2 lety +3

    So she bought her own engagement ring???? 😒 GIRL RUN!

  • @tiff_jones
    @tiff_jones Před 2 lety +4

    He missed out on a good woman. She’s the kind that will help you level up.

  • @hemnebob1
    @hemnebob1 Před 2 lety +23

    Love this man! He’s hilarious!

  • @LittleMissGlamDoll
    @LittleMissGlamDoll Před 2 lety +9

    This was a Wholesome refreshing episode.

  • @droptv520
    @droptv520 Před 2 lety +13

    She made her mom write a contract for $25 lmao. I think they both dodged a bullet here. He probably had to sign his name in blood for that 5k lol. He's crazy tho, he basically had her buy her own ring.

  • @Matthew-vp9rh
    @Matthew-vp9rh Před 2 lety +8

    We love a Pastor’s daughter going onto TV to argue with a man with braids tail

  • @ew0711
    @ew0711 Před 2 lety +7

    I enjoyed this case 🤣😂 they're both likable people and funny too.

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 Před 2 lety +7

    If you borrowed money from her to pay for the ring then isn't it her money?

  • @hbtaybangers1060
    @hbtaybangers1060 Před 2 lety +10

    To the person reading this: Even Though I don't know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer 👵🏽🙌🏻

  • @mothersixpack
    @mothersixpack Před 2 lety +11

    lol its the title for me

  • @cindywiner2772
    @cindywiner2772 Před 2 lety +4

    What you bought me a ring with my money??????????
    Oh Hell.........NO!!!!!!!

  • @victoriadove3363
    @victoriadove3363 Před 2 lety +4

    Judge mathis asked on the end tip... do you wanna get married now.... and that was funny...

  • @frankbrown5279
    @frankbrown5279 Před 2 lety +1

    J.M. always telling someone they won't get paid if they mentioned their taxes. Lol🤣😅😅

  • @vickigrady2419
    @vickigrady2419 Před 2 lety +3

    They were so cute and funny😂 I hope they got married!

  • @trollmanable
    @trollmanable Před 2 lety +8

    Dude borrowing money from her, to buy her a ring is just low-class; but I have to give homeboy props for using the term "Precursor". That's a word that you don't hear guys saying every day, and he used it correctly.

    • @lifestraight
      @lifestraight Před 2 lety

      Nah he doesnt get props for something so simple. Especially since he used the money to buy her own ring.

  • @droptv520
    @droptv520 Před 2 lety +15

    I hate that ppl think u cant loan money to someone you love. Ppl always say on here, "never do business with friends/family". That's crazy. If you cant do business with the people you love then something is wrong with you or the ppl you 're around.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Před 2 lety

      Well…. You let your family take you for a ride. Won’t be me

  • @rcheek5388
    @rcheek5388 Před 2 lety +3

    I felt there was still love in the air between both of them. Wish them both the best!

  • @a.d.morton4624
    @a.d.morton4624 Před 2 lety +8

    I hope he paid her but I also hope they got engaged 😆 That would be a cool match.

  • @justjared2009
    @justjared2009 Před 2 lety +2

    She is beautiful! Inside and out. Knows how to handle money too! Good for you, Doll! 😍

  • @twill1007
    @twill1007 Před 2 lety +10

    Wait ! She had her mom sign a promissory note for a $25 bus pass 🤔

    • @tinawalker5335
      @tinawalker5335 Před 2 lety +1

      I was with her until that point… that is cheap

    • @blackpowerpuff6155
      @blackpowerpuff6155 Před 2 lety

      I liked her until I heard that...

    • @dwayneevans683
      @dwayneevans683 Před 2 lety

      STRAIGHT thats what im saying about her, Its all about wat she wants, and her MONEY, she could car less about anyone else! its ALL ABOUT HER AND HER MONEY! This guy dodge a BULLET!

    • @desmondmitchell3177
      @desmondmitchell3177 Před 2 lety +3

      I’d make her too. My mom always wants her money back but never pays back

    • @vivianclarke246
      @vivianclarke246 Před 2 lety

      @@dwayneevans683 exactly, everyone keeps saying she’s such a good woman and he’s missing out but I wouldn’t want a cheap partner and someone who I can’t fall back on if I’m out of luck until I get back on track. Aren’t partners suppose to help each other? Everyone is saying he’s a man so she shouldn’t loan him money smh He was still wrong tho for buying her ring with the money she loaned him.

  • @wildernesswarcry4882
    @wildernesswarcry4882 Před 2 lety +7

    The title alone is comical. This case was hilarious. I hope it works out for them.

  • @triniray14
    @triniray14 Před 2 lety +6

    She's right. How u gonna buy something expensive when u owing

  • @justjared2009
    @justjared2009 Před 2 lety +1

    JM: You don't believe me?!
    Doyle:
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @NenasMund0
    @NenasMund0 Před 2 lety +7

    😂😂😂 to much
    I loved this episode 😂😂😂😂

    • @raqui174
      @raqui174 Před 2 lety

      Yooooo I had to repeat it!🤣🤣🤣

  • @janay2729
    @janay2729 Před 2 lety +1

    She’s right! Where is my money?! You can’t pay me back but you buy me a ring so that you can fake tie me down and you can continue to use me and completely dismiss the debt. 😆😆😆 What a joke.

  • @debrettreese-Tanner
    @debrettreese-Tanner Před 2 lety +1

    Judge mathis keep me laughing. He's my favorite Judge 🤣🤣🤣❤️

  • @msshug9995
    @msshug9995 Před 2 lety +7

    The daughter of the minister's wife🤔🤔

  • @franknitti9288
    @franknitti9288 Před 2 lety +8

    Best episode in a long time!!!!

  • @vegas9440
    @vegas9440 Před 2 lety +2

    I just sent my mama $300, im bout to send her this video and ask for a promissory

    • @GoHeadGyrl
      @GoHeadGyrl Před 2 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @cortneybronstad7124
    @cortneybronstad7124 Před 2 lety +1

    He wrong to try and embarrass her like that

  • @Zicoslater2
    @Zicoslater2 Před 2 lety +4

    He needs to ask her for forgiveness and get back with her. That's a damn good woman, and very beautiful too. They look like a great couple to me, minus the loan.

    • @A-Thomas
      @A-Thomas Před 2 lety +1

      That’s stupid advice

  • @suavejw32
    @suavejw32 Před 2 lety +3

    OMG they are a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE! They should stay together! They really look good together.

  • @buzzworthyblvd
    @buzzworthyblvd Před rokem

    Lmaooo they could be great. He makes her laugh hysterically 😂😂❤

  • @WontStopMe
    @WontStopMe Před rokem +1

    Every time I hear Doyle laugh I automatically laugh.

  • @misterbee66
    @misterbee66 Před 2 lety +4

    They should work it out.

  • @floydpattersonii4996
    @floydpattersonii4996 Před 2 lety +2

    " Will you Marry me" ? "Great, can you buy the ring too " ? ................ cheap bastard

  • @cynthiaw.wright6179
    @cynthiaw.wright6179 Před 2 lety +1

    He should have paid the loan, but she is CHEAP!. Loaning her mother $25.00?

  • @antwantaylor1835
    @antwantaylor1835 Před 2 lety +1

    Do You Want To Get Married Now 🤣

  • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
    @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Před 2 lety +4

    Whewww..I cried real tears.. This was too funny..

  • @ViveLaIsrael
    @ViveLaIsrael Před 2 lety +3

    🤔.
    He wants her to pay him for a ring he bought with money he borrowed from her to buy it.

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms Před 2 lety

      She deserves him. Why would any woman consider marrying a man who has to borrow money from anyone? Particularly from her

  • @cosmicpressure
    @cosmicpressure Před 2 měsíci

    I’ve never wanted strangers to be together so bad lol… I hope they found they way back to each other 💯

  • @nettejones8276
    @nettejones8276 Před 2 lety +8

    I totally understand where the defendant is coming from. He felt pressured into marrying her or at least proposing because of the length of time they had been together. I don't think he's a bad guy, just that he didn't want to repay the money. Things happen. It appears he was clear about not being ready to marry her from the beginning and she just overlooked it.

  • @ladyj5682
    @ladyj5682 Před 2 lety +4

    If he truly loved her then she would have her money and a ring bc he would have worked two jobs to get it!

  • @Sunshine134chick
    @Sunshine134chick Před 2 lety +13

    He seems like a nice young man.

  • @jb3702
    @jb3702 Před 2 lety +1

    I hate he felt that much pressure to borrow money but I also don't like her slapping it out his hand.

  • @melmel3703
    @melmel3703 Před 2 lety +4

    Shot out to whoever comes up with these titles.

  • @TaxProGirl
    @TaxProGirl Před rokem +1

    He seems like a decent young man who felt pressured to propose & went about it the wrong way. She seems like a young woman who is grounded in her values.
    They didn't have any relationship issues before this, so this could've been resolved if the marriage was meant to be.
    Both will be great for other people, but they just aren't a good match for each other right now. He's not financially ready & with time, she'll learn that the person you marry will make mistakes.