Therapist Reacts to Bring Me The Horizon - Drown
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- čas přidán 2. 01. 2024
- Therapist analyzes the lyrics of "Drown" by BMTH. "What doesn't kill you makes you wish you were dead" highlights a commonly overlooked phase of growth, and the song recommends reaching out to others to get you through it. If you can relate to the song, Taylor encourages you to open up in the comments and have the HeartSupport community encourage you.
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You NEED to react to "Hospital for Souls", you will not regret
This ^^^^^
Agreed
I'm here for it!
Agreed
Yusssss
I never thought a song about depression would make a therapist smile so much lol
'Drown' is my comfort song, my stim song. I'm still dealing with aftermath of a severe depression and the diagnosis for both ADHD and autism. BMTH is a band that gave me some hope there would be light at the end of the tunnel, and Oli's lyrics made me feel less alone. Both 'Drown' and 'Avalanche' made me feel understood, like no other song/band/songwriter ever had done before
From I-Am-Reclaimer: Hey friend,
I can deeply relate to your experience. I'm 31 and was diagnosed with autism when I was 29. Diagnosed with ADHD when I was 23.
The ADHD thing wasn't very much of a surprise for me, but when the Austism one came it was a mixed bag. I had learned a lot about ASD and knew that It was highly likely I had it, especially after my uncle was diagnosed at 62. At first a weight was lifted off my chest and all the pain, the embarrasing interactions, the mistakes I had made just made so much sense.
But them came the confusion, anger, and depression. "how much better could my life have been if I knew this before. If I knew how to deal with things that came up that I wasn't good at or aware of. How many of the painful and embarrasing things could I have avoided?" It was a bear to wrestle with but now I'm in such a better spot. To be able to know who I am better and to live life in a way that makes me extremely happy and proud.
I, too, stim hardcore to metal/hardocre music and love BMTH. They've been a band I've listend to since their album, Suicide Season, and have found respite in songs like "can you feel my heart" and "there is a hell"...and not to mention "diamonds aren't forever."
Oli is a lyrical magician. He's got some deep and heartfelt messages that he just SCREAMS into the ether.
Stay in there my friend. You're not alone and you are loved!
From tromboness: Thanks for sharing! I'm glad that you've been able to find comfort and hope in BMTH! I'll have to listen to more of their music!
It can take a while to process your diagnoses of ADHD and autism, and it is common to have comorbidity of depression with those conditions as well. Maybe it felt concerning at first, but growing to accept these can help you feel more confident. I hope that with a better understanding of yourself, you're able to find peace in who you are. Know that there is a whole community of neurodivergent people that understand the things you're going through, myself included.
If you ever need any extra support, don't hesitate to reach out!
Hold Fast <3
Avalanche is one of my go to songs too. I feel like my head wasn't wired for this world a lot of times too.
From Micro: So thankful you feel some resonance through this bands and their music. It's so special when the way you feel internally seems to be projected into the creative outlet of someone else. It helps feeling less alone with the challenges we are facing in our own life.
I hope with all my heart that your own journey with depression and these more recent diagnosis to go as smoothly as possible. Personally the different dianogsis I had over the years often felt bittersweet at first - like a new world of possibility and validation of my experiences, but also bringing its share of discouragement and helplessness at the same time. If you ever need to talk more about how you've been experiencing this and how you're doing overall, please feel absolutely free to share, and know that the Heartsupport's community is standing with you. No matter what, you are not alone.
I share the same feelings. Not on the spectrum as far as I know but I haven't had the best mental health and definitely didn't have some good years yet their music still made me fight. I've felt like this with That's the Spirit, Sempiternal, and Post Human: Survival Horror. May things go well for you.
this songs, help me a million of times, ty BMTH for this masterpiece
This is an incredibly meaningful song to experience live. Oli spent the entire time hugging people in the crowd and giving high fives while he sang it. I think it means different things to different people, but for anyone going through a difficult time, it’s very cathartic in a way.
And this song helped me from taking my life. Thank you for this.
I’ve pretty much watched all your videos thank you so much for your breaking down mental heath through music it’s so helpful for it’s just what I need at the moment
You have to do BMTH Doomed, Live at the Royal Albert Hall. That whole concert is amazing! Seriously!
Watching these videos makes me so happy. Entertaining and educational. 10/10
finding someone new reacting to bmth for the first time is my life. not that i feel like any kind of elitist but i constantly chase the high of listening to such relatable powerful music for the first time again
100,000 people will tell you 100,000 different reasons why this song meant so much to them
Man, this song is still saving lives, mine included.. great reaction and great band.
She is enjoying alot❤ there’s a-lot of of songs where she can feel more enjoyable and relief😇
Love watching her moment💕
One of my favorite BMTH songs. The music and lyrics just do something for me when I need it.
I thank you so much for analyzing BMTH songs
New to the channel, always loved this song but never thought about it from a psychology side unlike a few of their others for some reason. I reckon you nailed it, there is that time from "I'm broken" to "I'm strong" that I can personally say is hard but worth every second putting effort into. Cheers for the reaction
This song got me through so much. I saw them in concert and singing this out loud made me cry. I have it tattooed on me now. Great reaction.
Please do “Doomed” live at Royal Albert Hall
You have to listen to Sleepwalking, Empire, And the Snakes start to sing and Crooked young. All by BMTH (Album Sempiternal)
✌️🙂
I remember playing sempiternal album on repeat, i know every song too heart it got me through so much even when nobody knew what i was going through internally. To everyone i was the cheerful guy but i myself was broken inside, i saw them live in 2017 and i was full of so many emotions that i was jumping and singninh along crying! I cant believ the power of music ❤
BMTH is amazing and have helped me threw so much. I relate to this song way to much its scary 😢
Bmth drown helped me so much. When my mum passed away. Bring me the horizon have got me through everything. ❤
Teardrops by BMTH was my most played Spotify song the year it came out. I would love for you to check it out!
This song always reminds me of my mom and her lifelong battle with drug addiction
I feel like a lot of you missed the last message in the end. When the lights go off. BMTH is then left with BTH. The song talks about needing help and not doing it alone. Bring The Horizon would be saying, as a response to the song, to also be the person that gives the help to someone. Maybe someone in the same position you were in at one point. The true message I feel like (with the video) is basically emphasizing the issue, and then saying people have to help each other out. Something doesn't come from nothing. If nobody helped, nobody would get the help they need.
BMTH such an amzing, amazing band, truly inspiring music
I would love to see you react to a live version of this song. Oli goes out in the crowd and hugs everyone. It's beautiful.
Southside festival 2022 is my favorite!
One of the best songs you’ll here by them is “Doomed, Live at the royal albert hall”
They are playing doomed in their current live tour and the starting bit uses the Albert Hall intro and it was otherwordly....
THIS 💙 one of the best versions I've ever heard
This was the song I listened to on repeat after my brother died. It was the only way I knew how to put the feelings to words
So creative, the band members were literally ignoring the problem. I LOVE Bring Me so much 💛
Yeah you're right about the feeling in your heart
You are my BMTH spirit animal!
This is one of my favorite BMTH songs. You should check out BMTH & Corpse "Code Mistske." That is such an amazing song and very deep. Actually, Corpse has quiet a few songs that are very deep. Agraphobic, White Tee, Miss You. ❤
Seeing these on the 13th, in Manchester.. i also got a "sandpit turtle" tattoo, i had too.. its amazing
this song gets me every time
One of my go to help songs ….. rid the wave 🌊
There’s a beautiful piano cover for this song from Faith Marie. Beautiful is the only word I can describe it with
for some reason i always type out the message, ready my cry for help only to delete it thinking I'm not worth the time it takes for someone/something to help me when others need it more. at least songs like this let me go on for a day longer even if nothing changes no matter how much i try.
From Micro: It's okay to take your time, friend. The very act of reaching out and asking for help can be profoundly intimidating, especially if that is not something you are used to do, or if in the past you did it but your message was not received the right way by others. It is particularly challenging to say "I'm not okay" and to seek support. It puts you in this vulnerable position where people actually *see* you - not hidden behind a mask or a smile, but as you truly feel at the moment. It is like opening a door to very personal parts of your self. It makes sense to find it difficult, and to face a lot of fears or justifications as to why you shouldn't do it.
The closer you get to reaching out, the higher the anxiety becomes, and the rush of thoughts too... I've definitely been there, over and over throughout my life. Heck I just wrote a message yesterday to try to reach out and open up about how I've been feeling lately, and... I removed the message. You're definitely not alone in this, if that can bring any comfort. It's easy for the mind to find a lot of reasons to not ask for help. It doesn't mean it's right, but it's an expression of the fears we feel at the moment, which is valid. Somehow, sharing what's on your heart is like taking a risk, because you don't know yet how others are going to respond to it. It can turn out to be a very positive experience or a very negative one. And the only way to know is to open that door in the first place - which feels lik a huge responsibility!
You are definitely worth the time that someone would offer to listen to you. This is how you feel about yourself and your struggles, but that doesn't indicate any tangible truth. The truth is, if someone is willing to support you - that means they see *you* and how worthy you are. And if someone isn't willing to do that, then that just means they may not be the right person, or they are not equipped to listen, or it's not the right time for them. Through all of this myriad of possibilities though: you *are* worth it. You *are* valuable. What's going on in your mind and heart is absolutely valid to share. You have the right to occupy space and share your voice just like any other person on this planet. You matter!
On the other hand, your struggles are not less important than others either. I know it's easy to compare ourselves and feel like others are going through a lot while our own problems may be insignificant. But whenever you see that voice inside of your mind at play, it really is just an expression of your fears and anxiety at the moment, not of any ultimate truth. Because no matter what you are going through, it is important to you. It matters in your life, in your story and circumstances - and in light of who you are at the moment, so it is important! A struggle may seem from someone on the outside like it's not a big deal yet actually feeling like it *is* the end of the world for the person experiencing it firsthand. It's a matter of perspective there, and there is no need to judge the value of quality of people or their struggles.
As a fellow anxious bean when it comes to reaching out, I would love to encourage you to keep pushing through and to keep trying. You are never wrong for sharing what's on your heart. If someone reacts poorly to it, they are in the wrong. Your voice deserves to be heard, friend. And if you've been alone with your thoughts/struggles, then it's okay to welcome others into your life so they can help. Not everyone will be equipped or ready to listen or even understand, but from experience I can tell you that there's more people than we imagine who actually experience similar emotions than we do. We have different stories, but we can connect at an emotional level through a very large diversity of situations, which helps in feeling understood and less alone.
If you would feel a little more comfortable, Heartsupport has an online and anonymous forum to reach out and be heard/supported. It is at forum.heartsupport.com - and you are absolutely welcome to post there. I am personally a member of Heartsupport's staff and an admin there, so I can definitely assure you that conversations there are respectful, caring and safe. It's a precious space to share our most vulnerable side when we need it.
No matter what you would decide moving forward, know that someone out there is proud of you for trying already! Even if you removed your comment or hesitated, or anything like that - you still tried! And that is huge! I hear you, I see you, and I hope you will have some positive and safe interactions that will increase your confidence in opening up about your struggles when you need it. The first step is the scariest - then the waiting is challenging too when it's online and we wait for a response. But I have faith in you and in your ability to overcome those fears. You got this.
@@HeartSupport whoever you are, thankyou. I somehow actually cried reading this...
👍Great performance! Perhaps try BMTH Kingslayer live in Tokyo. 🖖❤
Oli really knows how to write the songs we need to sing out fucking loud to feel ourselves and tap into the deep emotions and I love it also this therapist is dope I want some sessions with her lol
Next Hospital For Soul please
This is such a beautiful song. Especially tge autistic version. This is like my calling call.
Can you do 1x1 BMTH next
I can easily say this song has save me many times
Love your vids. Could you do one for Pisces by Jinjer?
You should react this song live from maida vale version, so good and the vibe is completely different and more emotional.
Oh please...do Lost from BMTH soon!
With the way you do reactions I would love to see some from Avenged Sevenfold and specifically songs that have to do with their drummer, Jimmy "The Rev" Sullivan, after he passed away. "So far away" is a great way to start with that since its a tribute to him with an amazing music video to accompany it. "Fiction" and "Save Me" would also be great. "Fiction" was originally named "Death" and is special on its own with it being the last song that Rev wrote and gave to his band member 3 days before he was found dead.
Awesome reactions! Can I recommend a few songs, by the band Get Scared?;
Suffer
Give Up My Ghost
At My Worst
You need to react to All Fucked Up By The Amity Affliction and be prepared to cry. Most powerful song on mental health I’ve watched with the strong message it sends out
i hope oly watch this...
All Fucked Up next please?
What doesn’t kill me leaves me trapped in a hospital bed and I’m fuckin tired of it
From ThriceTheThird: I'm sorry that you are going through tough times, and hospitalizations. If you ever want to let more our, and share more of what you are feeling and going through. Please feel free to do so. <3
From Micro: I hear your exhaustion there, and yes it makes sense to feel tired of it. There is no doubt that you've had to deal with your share of struggles, certainly unwanted adversity in your life, and it's freaking exhausting to feel like your life has to be a constant fight just to get a sense of what others seem to get without any effort, and without even having to think about it. We know life is unpredictable and will always carry to us its own share of difficulties, but it feels terribly unfair to have to deal with the same obstacles - and their consequences - over and over. You just want to have a "normal" life, or at least something different than this, not to feel trapped in hospitals endlessly. It feels as if you were the one being punished while you haven't done anything wrong at all. You just freaking try to live instead of surviving.
That saying "what doesn't kill makes you stronger" is definitely infuriating at times, especially if you *are* in this middle where there's only pain in sight and no exit sign. Dealing with consequences of traumas and childhood abuse myself, I have felt this injustice over and over. The injustice and pain of having to deal with direct consequences of things that were done to me - it feels like an added punishment on top of the hurt that already took place. Many times I cried and mourned all the times lost to this pain that I have to learn to live with and work on. So when you end up in a hospital bed because you're in pain, I can only imagine the amount of loneliness and hurt this make you feel. You want your voice to be heard, to want this pain to be taken away, you want to feel safe and confident in your ability to say "I got it from here". But there are things that keep activating this raw pain inside, and it's an awful experience to have.
I may not know you personally, but reading your comment I know how brave, resilient and strong you've been, through all the good and bad days you had to go through so far. There must have been so many steps taken, so many detours encountered, so many hardships overcome to get to the point of sharing your voice here - and that is truly special. Thank you so much for sharing, thank you for being here, thank you for expressing how you feel. If anything, you are not alone in this fight - many of us here understand how you feel and are standing with you. My encouragement for you is to not lose faith in yourself - there is more to this life, more to experience, more to discover and bring into this world. I believe in you.
Due the song is not only about depression its about asking God to help you through it
Thank you for reacting this masterpiece, I suggest to check out Bad Life by Sigrid and Bring me the horizon :)
Can you do Boston Manor or Movements?
Please react to Signs by Caskets. This song had helped my get through the toughest year of my life, still helping get through this tough time. I listen to this song daily as a reminder that I'm strong and will get past this hell I'm going through!
May i suggest "anthem of the angels" "dear agony" Breaking benjamin
I would love to see you react to "DIE ANOTHER DAY" by Blind Channel. This song is my favorite atm and helps me a lot. ❤🩹❤🔥
I would like to request a reaction video about this track: Shape of despair-written in my scars.
I'd love to see a reaction to the song Teardrops by bmth
Please do the song "Wednesday Afternoon" by Palaye Royale. It was released this past mothers day and really helped me as a conduit for emotion surrounding my mothers passing. ❤
This one of my fav for heal. But a song who turnover my life. Maybe Eminem - not afraid. And hope u can reaction this one
I know it's not hard-core but could you try some motion city soundtrack? Very cerebral
can you do a react to BMTH Sleep walking ?
yoo, do the new october ends song “Damaged”
please react ‘BMTH - IT NEVER END’ ❤❤❤
you should react to it never ends by bring me the horizon it’s amazing wont regret 100 percent won’t regret it
Who will fix me now?
You should react to theory of a deadman
Shadow Moses Next by these guys please!!!
If you're into metalcore then please check out October Ends!! Damaged ?
New subs. Pls do Architects reaction. He's a good friend of Oli Sykes.
react tô Suicide Season! This most painfull music from BMTH
But why are the Priest’s eyes missing?
You should listen to Badflowers “family”. Oof. 😮😢
PLEASE DO, ZILLAKAMI!!!!
You should react to Masterpiece by Motionless in White
my name is fikri 20 yo,I have struggle, i have debt 1300$ , and im. Still in college
strangers pls
I'm needing you to hear my story im need someone to talk to and not scream at me when I say something they don't want to hear what I got to say I've listened to a few of your videos and could really use your advice I've been crying out for help for 49 years and Im 51 and in asking for you to help me
From Micro: Hey friend,
Thank you so much for reaching out here. Please feel absolutely free to share what's on your heart and story. This is what Heartsupport is all about and we have a loving community here willing to listen to you and encourage you. If you want, you can share here directly in the comments, or you can also post on our anonymous forum at forum.heartsupport.com . These are safe options for you to share your voice *and* be heard as you need.
I feel the heaviness you've been carrying on your own shoulders and would love to hear your story. Know that you are not alone and we care about you here.
Subscribed! Please react to “and the snakes start to sing” by Bring me the horizon
"It feels like it releases something in my heart." Welcome to the reason that so many neuro-divergents listen to this type of music. 😜
you're pretty
3 words for your next video:
PAIN - Bye/Die
Because you are dead inside.
Do StRaNgeRs let me know what you think.
Bmth feat sigrid please
React to 1x1
1x1 - bring me the horizon...
are you sick madam?
Please react to Teardrops 🫶🏻
This uncomfortable amount of energy makes me feel that you got some daemons of your own that you are running from an are afraid for them to catch up to you.
Sounds like you may have a little gas, try tums.
Before may you strong you will want die..