BRINGING UP QUESTIONS: AN ENCOURAGING CONVERSATION WITH KELLY JO BATES, MOM OF 19!

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  • What is it like to be the 'Bringing Up Bates' mom of 19? I got to ask my mom some questions about how she managed to hold it all together, to cultivate a positive environment and invest into each of us 19 kids in what many might consider challenging or even chaotic upbringing.
    Kelly Jo Bates shares the impact that faith and being in God's Word has had in helping her as a wife and as a mother, identifying ways to engage faith as a family and grow together to see the blessings of raising up such a large family.
    I hope this conversation with my mom encourages you as it has encouraged me! We're thrilled to be able to share with you these conversations with our family members who were inspirational and instrumental in our lives!
    Love,
    Erin
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Komentáƙe • 454

  • @rebalynn3117
    @rebalynn3117 Pƙed rokem +463

    Where can we start a petition to get Kelly and Gil to start their own CZcams channel!? We just love them so much!!

    • @andreafelton689
      @andreafelton689 Pƙed rokem +10

      Trace & Lydia recently announced that on a recent video where Gill and Kelly spoke to them about parenting

    • @rebalynn3117
      @rebalynn3117 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@andreafelton689 Announced what?

    • @gracecochran4559
      @gracecochran4559 Pƙed rokem +5

      Yes!!

    • @ciaramc790
      @ciaramc790 Pƙed rokem +12

      ​@@rebalynn3117 Trace asked for people to leave comments if they wanted his parents to start a YT channel.. hopefully they will😊

    • @constanceglad32
      @constanceglad32 Pƙed rokem +12

      ​@@ciaramc790 They would have so much to share ❀

  • @KatieLogen
    @KatieLogen Pƙed rokem +262

    Your mom should write a parenting book! Thank you for sharing her wisdom with us ❀

    • @leehoffman5275
      @leehoffman5275 Pƙed rokem +11

      Your mom looks beautiful. She doesn't seem to age.

    • @brookidy
      @brookidy Pƙed rokem +2

      Yes!!!

    • @tracydixon4522
      @tracydixon4522 Pƙed rokem +2

      She needs to write her own devotional book for Mom's

    • @MyVlogTherapy
      @MyVlogTherapy Pƙed rokem

      Yes just a life skills book đŸ‘đŸœ

  • @shotkallah
    @shotkallah Pƙed rokem +144

    Oh she needs a weekly podcast. She has so much wisdom

  • @jodis6234
    @jodis6234 Pƙed rokem +125

    There needs to be more Kelly Jo's in the world.

    • @suestephan3255
      @suestephan3255 Pƙed rokem

      I will second that. The best Mom cheer leader.😊

  • @evaowens1400
    @evaowens1400 Pƙed rokem +102

    I love how your Mom gives each of her loved ones a tribute on their birthdays....it's always so positive and loving, plus, it's obvious she knows everyone really well....she sees the inside qualities of everyone.

    • @mauricekatoen2720
      @mauricekatoen2720 Pƙed rokem +3

      I was thinking the exact same thing! It really show just how much she knows all of her children so well.

  • @reapwhatyousow9163
    @reapwhatyousow9163 Pƙed rokem +50

    Mama Bates needs to write a book!

  • @lindadaniels2525
    @lindadaniels2525 Pƙed rokem +67

    I don't know how anyone else feels about this
    I admire how Gil and Kelly has raised their children and how they support their children.
    These two wonderful parents is not controlling or domineering like Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar
    Gil and Kelly has a close bond with their children
    I miss Bring Up Bates cause I miss seeing this wonderful faithful family

  • @margaretm9028
    @margaretm9028 Pƙed rokem +18

    I could listen to Mama Bates ALL DAY LONG. ❀

  • @candeebishop5736
    @candeebishop5736 Pƙed rokem +25

    Your Mom is so precious! Her values and Love for Jesus has never wavered. I don't know how she does it with 19 kids!

  • @kathleencasella4703
    @kathleencasella4703 Pƙed rokem +33

    Kelly what an inspiration you are.

  • @reetayoung
    @reetayoung Pƙed rokem +23

    I love her birthday posts for her kids.I don't know how she finds so much to say

    • @slee7991
      @slee7991 Pƙed rokem

      Did I miss it? What birthday posts?

  • @connihudson1578
    @connihudson1578 Pƙed rokem +3

    I'm 71. I listen to these wise words. My reminder to encourage moms to take your godly advise is this: you will not get a do-over! And it can be the saddest while you have to wait for the Lord to undo what you messed up.❀

  • @marisacassini3732
    @marisacassini3732 Pƙed rokem +15

    More Kelly please ! She is just a fountain of wisdom and encouragement for us moms ! Erin , you are so blessed to have her for your mama !

  • @jenniferpeterson6617
    @jenniferpeterson6617 Pƙed rokem +23

    You have such a blessing in both your mom and your mother-in-law

  • @debbieanderson6740
    @debbieanderson6740 Pƙed rokem

    Kelly Jo's daily devotional for young mom's. The world could use more positivity.
    Like so many of us, growing up with negative daily. Erin you are so blessed to have Kelly Jo as your Mama.

  • @Aliebalie16
    @Aliebalie16 Pƙed rokem +21

    I love how y’all focused on not being negative or complaining about your kids, because as a woman who struggles with recurrent pregnancy loss it is so heartbreaking and irritating to me to hear moms complaining about their kids.

    • @edithfarr3879
      @edithfarr3879 Pƙed rokem +1

      Hang in there. The Lord knows the desires of your heart.

  • @rachelmaples9692
    @rachelmaples9692 Pƙed rokem +12

    ❀ I believe that's how God sees each of His children too. He sees our unique qualities. Love this

  • @SkySilver777
    @SkySilver777 Pƙed rokem +30

    I’ve commented this before but the q&a are my favorite videos!!! So much wisdom from a seasoned mother. We young moms with few role models need role models like these

  • @christinan7183
    @christinan7183 Pƙed rokem +9

    She is a wealth of knowledge and so humble

  • @maryjoleverette1558
    @maryjoleverette1558 Pƙed rokem +5

    I just want to see them return to a weekly show like before! It was just THE BEST thing on tv! đŸ˜ąđŸ˜Šâ€

  • @GenerationX3333
    @GenerationX3333 Pƙed rokem +8

    Oh my goodness! Kelly Jo and Erin are so wonderful and lovely and graceful and Gorgeous

  • @TheKimberlyrider
    @TheKimberlyrider Pƙed rokem +18

    Your mom is the most encouraging! Love her so much

  • @ew2626
    @ew2626 Pƙed rokem +3

    Something I adore about Kelly Jo is her humility. She never says she has the answers, she truly just wants to love and help. Love always to the Bates and Paine family!❀

  • @janhoup
    @janhoup Pƙed rokem +6

    Kelly is such an inspiration to women everywhere!! Jesus shines through her !!!!

  • @lisaherring7725
    @lisaherring7725 Pƙed rokem +5

    Ms. Kelly, please please start your own channel. You have so much wisdom to offer. Your words have such conviction and the ability to help and to heal. We need more people like you in this world and we need more moms who have been through the years of raising children. I know you don’t want to be on camera but you have the ability through your meekness to change a whole generation. We are loosing women like you to a modern world. Thank you for considering it.

  • @ringsha9569
    @ringsha9569 Pƙed rokem +3

    You know, I'm not a mom, but I'm going through Chemotherapy right now and I'm choosing gratitude and focusing on blessings every day. I agree. It makes a huge difference!! ❀

  • @Sunnydreamer1470
    @Sunnydreamer1470 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Mama B raised the most wonderful children to grace our world with the goodness it truly needs đŸ„č

  • @melianna999
    @melianna999 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    If all mum were like Kelly Jo world would be paradise.

  • @righteousnessofgodinchrist5555

    Mama B your Joy (and your family's Joy.. thank you Jesus) is the reason we are still wanting to be a part of Your families' journeys, so thank you very much. Yes your family is a Positive Blessing and a Big Reflection of Y'all....thank you, thank you God has Blessed All Y'all and your content is Positive and Family Friendly so Thank you So Much!!!đŸ€—
    P.S. Great Job Erin!

  • @christydavenport1259
    @christydavenport1259 Pƙed rokem +1

    I love Momma Bates outlook on negativity. I remember when I was pregnant feeling so sick and this one night my husband and friend from church wanted to go eat Mexican of all things. I really didn’t wanna go but I pushed myself and just getting out of the house and fellowshipping made me feel so much better!

  • @tammynaville6295
    @tammynaville6295 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Such beautiful, encouraging wisdom from a beautiful and admirable woman who raised so many beautiful and admirable now-adult children! Thank you for sharing, Mrs. Bates. After growing up in a difficult home, my husband and I are striving to honor the Lord by our marriage and family and in the raising of our sweet little daughter. Thank you, Erin, for all the wonderful content of your CZcams channel with Chad. God bless you all!

  • @janetmcburney4582
    @janetmcburney4582 Pƙed rokem +10

    I particularly am amazed with the tributes she writes to eachbof her children/their spouses and grand children.

  • @jeanbroman4814
    @jeanbroman4814 Pƙed rokem +7

    What a loving and kind woman you are Kelly. You are surely an inspiration on how to be a Mother.

  • @briannamckeehan6919
    @briannamckeehan6919 Pƙed rokem +3

    The world needs more mothers like Kelly. She is a special person you can tell a lot by a person s voice and the way they speak. She just sounds so comforting and like a soft place to fall. Her demeanor has definitely rubbed off on her children. What a special family you all have.

  • @tinaauten3185
    @tinaauten3185 Pƙed rokem +1

    I don’t like this video
.I LOVE it!!!! Kelly Jo is SO inspirational! I took notes about things that struck me and resonated with me! Simply fabulous! Thank you for sharing her wisdom.

  • @brendanelkins8524
    @brendanelkins8524 Pƙed rokem +31

    I just want to say that you guys are really amazing! God bless you Chad and Erin! GO BATES!!!! 😊😊😊

  • @eaglinarth123
    @eaglinarth123 Pƙed rokem +3

    I’m 42 years old homeschooling my three teen girls l have five kids the older two are young adults l must say Kelly you have helped me in so many ways, lm so encouraged by your words. I love having Bible study with my girls. My husband does weekly devotions with the whole family.
    Kelly Joe can you talk about teen and young adults kids. Have a bless day and thanks Erin l really enjoyed this videođŸ™đŸŸđŸ˜Š

  • @carolwhisenhunt7504
    @carolwhisenhunt7504 Pƙed rokem +1

    Erin you are a mini Kelly. I love Kelly. She's an amazing lady. Kelly, you blessed me so much today. Ty for sharing from your heart. I love the Bates family and all the in laws. Be blessed.

  • @michelerucker3755
    @michelerucker3755 Pƙed rokem +9

    Erin you are so blessed to have such a lovely and godly motherâ€ïžđŸ‘”đŸ˜‡

    • @michelerucker1426
      @michelerucker1426 Pƙed rokem

      Woah
.I did a double take and wondered when I commented already 😂

  • @vikkikilis1285
    @vikkikilis1285 Pƙed rokem +3

    I pray that your mom would have her own channel filled with her wisdom about being a wife, mother, friend, grandmother, etc. The wisdom she shared in this video was such a blessing.

  • @kindnessmatters4068
    @kindnessmatters4068 Pƙed rokem +13

    ♡Aww! Love your Momma, Erin! I heard a interview your brother Trace and Lydia did with your parents, about why they had so many children... it was SO good!!! ♡♡

  • @jenisecoronado5555
    @jenisecoronado5555 Pƙed rokem +4

    I so wish I had been raised by people like Kelly Jo and Gil Bates. You are such wonderful examples and your children are all so outstanding, each in their own way. My parents were the opposite. The world would be a whole different place if children had parents that cherished and loved them the way you do! I agree with everyone I see and hear... Kelly Jo and Gil are so missed! I wish we could watch you on a new program or forum! Erin, you and Chad are doing an awesome job with your kids too....following in your excellent parents' footsteps!

  • @krisrobert415
    @krisrobert415 Pƙed rokem +5

    I love "Mamma Bates" and this very special question and answer. What a privilege to hear her words of wisdom! Thanks for sharing Erin 💞

  • @amandan943
    @amandan943 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    I’ve always admired Kelly Jo’s positive attitude

  • @adrianatsipan3478
    @adrianatsipan3478 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Oh my!!! Your dad is Gill Bates!! We met at family camp in Texas and spent a couple hours just jaw-dropped listening to his wisdom and family stories! Very encouraging ❀❀

  • @seventhdayissabbath8747
    @seventhdayissabbath8747 Pƙed rokem +2

    Raising children falls mostly on the mom and is a ministry unto itself, they have a huge responsibility in how the child's outlook on life is and how they grow up to be productive adults...
    Mamma Kelly went to God and gives God the glory when she was overwhelmed, we can take a lesson in that for everything in life.. Go to God, he will help!!

  • @chrissym9697
    @chrissym9697 Pƙed rokem +1

    Erin and Kelly I truly thank you for this video. I so pray many expectant mamas watch this..I grew up with a very mentally unwell mother, although I love and appreciate her for what she sacrificed for me, she was very down and stressed all the time. She was also insecure and I tried to be different as a mother but did not have the Lord in my life. My children are young adults and it's never too late to change, I have many health struggles and often lately find myself being more down than I wish, this has been a blessing for me to see as I am now a Christian and know that my Lord and Savior loves me, Thank you both again

  • @tami162
    @tami162 Pƙed rokem +4

    Kelly as has the best advice! I wish she would start her own CZcams channel so we could see her more!

  • @toliveischrist3330
    @toliveischrist3330 Pƙed rokem +5

    How lucky you are, Erin, to have Kelly as your mom! ❀

  • @ReeseJ.
    @ReeseJ. Pƙed rokem +1

    I miss bringing up bates I watch reruns all the time bc it encourages so much
. I love the way Erin talks she does not sound like she’s from TN. Lol she sounds more like eastern or cali but not country I’m from the country I wish I could adopt her accent and get rid of mine lol much love to all of the bates !!!!đŸŽ‰â€

  • @catcat5217
    @catcat5217 Pƙed rokem

    God bless you Kelly Jo, the advice you gave truly touched my heart. I'm a mom to 4 little ones and hearing you give such positive tips is such a breath of fresh air. 💙🙏 God bless you and your family

  • @Coopertheminipoodle
    @Coopertheminipoodle Pƙed rokem +6

    I feel like you 2 are the example of a Godly woman. ❀

  • @sandrajeanball1259
    @sandrajeanball1259 Pƙed rokem

    Watching your family continue on their own channels is wonderful! I love watching you all grow.
    You brought me through the past year after losing my son. We loved like you, so it helped me to relive that love. Memories are the greatest gift from God!
    I thank God for all of you! Keep being great Bates Family!!

  • @lindaphillips4956
    @lindaphillips4956 Pƙed rokem +7

    Thank you for sharing the wonderful wisdom of your mom with us. I know looking back myself on raising my children there are things I would like to have changed. I know as I watch my grandchildren grow that I am trying to make the best decision for them now. Mrs. Bates thank you for being such a wonderful blessing and sharing with us. You need to sit down and start working on writing and series of books about all the different things you do and know.

  • @reetayoung
    @reetayoung Pƙed rokem +4

    Love your Mom (and you!) 💝

  • @janieadames8453
    @janieadames8453 Pƙed rokem

    Your mom is BEAUTIFUL. Inside & Out.🙂

  • @edithfarr3879
    @edithfarr3879 Pƙed rokem +4

    The mom is the heart ❀ of the home.

  • @genevievekelly4998
    @genevievekelly4998 Pƙed rokem +8

    What a great video❀

  • @elizabetharias9876
    @elizabetharias9876 Pƙed rokem +9

    How does it feel to have so many blessings (kids) ❀ God bless you all

  • @Quilter1970
    @Quilter1970 Pƙed rokem +5

    You guys should put all these things in a book. It would be a best seller

  • @jessicagarn5701
    @jessicagarn5701 Pƙed rokem

    So convicting. I've been doing my best to uplift and encourage my kids..
    Thank you for this. I appreciate it.

  • @britneywilson8807
    @britneywilson8807 Pƙed rokem

    Kelly Jo encouraged me so much this morning! My little 2 year old is very hyperactive, and I’ve struggled with how to teach my little one Scripture, or even just instilling it into our everyday lives. This has helped me so much. Thank you for this video. I would love to hear more teaching from Kelly Jo and Erin. đŸ©·

  • @becca603
    @becca603 Pƙed rokem +4

    Wow wish I had Mrs.Bates wisdom when I was raising my babies💜

  • @blancallara1719
    @blancallara1719 Pƙed rokem +5

    Erin you have an amazing mom. She's so down to earth and has so much normal beautiful advice, I could listen to her for hours. No wonder you are such a wonderful woman of God!! ❀❀

  • @beachgranny8355
    @beachgranny8355 Pƙed rokem +5

    I love Kelly Jo❀. She has so much encouraging, great advice.

  • @betheldridge2403
    @betheldridge2403 Pƙed rokem +7

    I love Kelly Jo! Thank you for sharing her wisdom with us.

  • @homemaker0506
    @homemaker0506 Pƙed rokem

    It’s amazing the difference between this family and the duggars. You guys towed the worldly line but never went way over like the Duggar’s.

  • @yayac6503
    @yayac6503 Pƙed rokem

    What a wonderful Mother’s Day present to pass on to friends & family on Mother’s Day . I have watched your family on tv along time & enjoyed so much .
    God bless you all .

  • @user-qr7cj2zh1m
    @user-qr7cj2zh1m Pƙed rokem +1

    Kelly is such a beautiful soul she has walked through valleys and stood on mountain tops yet she doesn’t let life steal her Joy whatever the highs or lows. Wonderful to hear Kelly share such words of wisdom ❀

  • @suestephan3255
    @suestephan3255 Pƙed rokem +1

    What a blessing from God to have a Mom that listened to God, hearing God encourage her. Jelly wa the woman God chose to bless with children 19x’s😀

  • @jennifercorbally3733
    @jennifercorbally3733 Pƙed rokem +3

    Kelly is the mom we all wish we had ❀

  • @shirleyfreeman7101
    @shirleyfreeman7101 Pƙed rokem +3

    Kelly Jo is such a wonderful blessing praise God Bless you all

  • @jessicabrown6943
    @jessicabrown6943 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Your mom is such a blessing. ❀ I just love her sweet spirit and kindness. Thank you for these questions and advice. I hope you do it again sometime. ❀

  • @ReeseJ.
    @ReeseJ. Pƙed rokem +1

    I can’t believe Kelly has had 19 kids and looks like she’s 35 she is so youthful and radiant.. Erin you look like a human Barbie doll gorgeous & knowing you love God and have promoted that from such a young age and you aren’t afraid to stand up for what you believe is so impressive

  • @suefriesen1161
    @suefriesen1161 Pƙed rokem +9

    This was wonderful

  • @lynoyn
    @lynoyn Pƙed rokem

    Momma Kelly is so wonderful!

  • @karenwest2670
    @karenwest2670 Pƙed rokem +1

    Erin, I appreciate the way you call children, children. They are not kids, little goats. I wish we would all call them children. I try very hard to do that and I appreciate it when I hear it.

  • @laurale8299
    @laurale8299 Pƙed rokem +3

    How can anyone not appreciate and love your mom. She always has great advice. Both of you are precious mothers. Enjoyed the vlog!

  • @darlagoodman6417
    @darlagoodman6417 Pƙed rokem +2

    I absolutely LUV Kelly Bates. She is such a Ray of SUNSHINE. I Wish She had a Women's Motivational vlogâ€ïžđŸ™

  • @noraredpath8194
    @noraredpath8194 Pƙed rokem +5

    What a beautiful family !

  • @judyplante9276
    @judyplante9276 Pƙed rokem +3

    I miss your Mom & Dad so much. Your family is such an inspiration to us all!

  • @juliegeddes2089
    @juliegeddes2089 Pƙed rokem +7

    Will watch live! Loved the interview with Chad’s mom, and also Trace’s interview with your parents. I’m trying to work on prepping meals like Chad’s mom recommended and get that cookbook! Excited to watch this interview :).

  • @roseannraupp6623
    @roseannraupp6623 Pƙed rokem +2

    There is so much wisdom that Kelly shared. She was and continues to be a shining example and role model to her children and grandchildren. I appreciate Kelly and Erin having this sit down and sharing wisdom with us all. Thank you Kelly Jo and Erin ♄♄

  • @papaapple93
    @papaapple93 Pƙed rokem +1

    What a wonderful Question and Answer video Erin and Kelly Jo did! I would love to see Gill and Kelly Jo have their own CZcams channel I love listening to Kelly’s wisdom and her stories she has such a sweet and beautiful family

  • @connieploeger3704
    @connieploeger3704 Pƙed rokem +2

    I just the love the q&a with your mom. I wish I would have had her advice when I was a first time mom and thru the years. She is a special lady

  • @dellindahenriques9846
    @dellindahenriques9846 Pƙed rokem

    How awesome was this! Refreshing! Practical for us to continually used throughout our spiritual journey
    Dell

  • @Momof2_91
    @Momof2_91 Pƙed rokem

    Yes even a CZcams channel as pastors sharing the word, encouragement, parenting or relationships!

  • @alisha4846
    @alisha4846 Pƙed rokem +1

    Kelly Jo is a great example of a virtuous woman. She just oozes of love and strength. Thoroughly enjoyed this time, and Erin, you are walking right into her footsteps with your marriage and raising your children.

  • @christiabreeden7777
    @christiabreeden7777 Pƙed rokem +1

    Yall are the sweetest family I so enjoy your channel!!

  • @mariajaniegoulet7653
    @mariajaniegoulet7653 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    I love your Mom ❀ God bless her and family always đŸ˜‡đŸ€—â™„ïž

  • @lisal.4498
    @lisal.4498 Pƙed rokem

    I love this family- Kelly Jo should teach life lesson classes for moms! She inspires me to be a better mother, wife and friend. All the awful tv shows and movies that are out right now and this amazing family got cancelled. Goes to show what type of world we are living in right now- smh

  • @franceszayas7005
    @franceszayas7005 Pƙed rokem +7

    It is always a blessing hearing you, your husband's and your parents advice and learning experiences. I have learned so much from all of you and wish I would of have this advices when I was raising my kids. I feel like things would be so much different and better... not that is bad at the moment but I would of teach my kids so much more and equip them more with the word and love of God. God bless you all!

  • @becca603
    @becca603 Pƙed rokem +8

    Your videos have to be my favorite! Your family is so enjoyable to watch and to me the vlogs are so relaxing and wholesome!

  • @nh2008
    @nh2008 Pƙed rokem +1

    I can’t wait!!!

  • @JEW757
    @JEW757 Pƙed rokem

    Just precious! Thank you!

  • @jeandelaney8080
    @jeandelaney8080 Pƙed rokem +2

    You all are so encouraging! I absolutely love your all’s videos! Blessings!

  • @caracampbell1715
    @caracampbell1715 Pƙed rokem

    So much wisdom! Love your momma! ❀

  • @janetsharpe9558
    @janetsharpe9558 Pƙed rokem +2

    How much better the world would be if all parents would praise their children like Gil and Kelly . Had to be hard raising so many, but shows how much love was given the way they all turned out. Love Gil's ministry from his church. I also go to a Baptist church and watch his church on CZcams.

  • @angelwolfe6728
    @angelwolfe6728 Pƙed rokem +1

    What a joy!! 💞

  • @jodypeters2201
    @jodypeters2201 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you Erin! I really appreciated this!!