Bootleg Activism: Mo'Nique's Club Shay Shay interview w/Shannon Sharpe
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- čas přidán 7. 02. 2024
- Recently, comedian & actress Mo'Nique Hicks, sat down for an interview with Shannon Sharpe.
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This is the most thoughtful response I’ve heard so far. I agree and have been speaking the same sentiments since the interview dropped.
Mo'Nique's advocacy for pay equality for Black women in Hollywood has always been self-serving & self-motivated. She rallies other Black people because she needs the support not because she is really concerned about them.
Created nothing when she got the money from Netflix.
Honestly, I’m tired of Moniques complaints take Oprah, Tyler, and Lee out the equation, and she has absolutely NOTHING to talk about. Her and “daddy” need to move on.
You are absolutely right! She is an insincere bully, and her "Daddy" gives me pimp and snake oil salesman vibes. She wants to be a perpetual victim who wants people to kiss her behind. She isn't solution oriented, and quite a few of her industry counterparts have tried talking sense into her. She loves to throw people under the bus while calling them brother or sister. When her money dries up, "Daddy" will be gone like a candle in the wind. She was having tax trouble a few years back, and I am not sure if it's resolved as of yet. Everyone can't be wrong about Monique being problematic. Sidney has been assisting with ruining her career paired with her problematic attitude. I have shared this stance with friends for years.
Through my personal relationship with God through faith in Jesus is how I've been able to let go of people hurting me! I encourage Monique and Sidney to give their lives to Jesus because the Universe cannot save nor deliver!
She is bullying people to apologize
On topic: I see your point. It’s beating the dead horse over and over and over.
Some people can’t move on. And never will.
I would move on. I'm not holding no grudge for 14 years because that will hurt me only
I agree 💯💯💯💯💯💯 omg. I thought i was the only one. She sounds like she is stuck in a pattern of self pity. Everytime she tells this story she adds another person to the mix saying how they betrayed her.
Its a process, and it varies per person.
Stop being ridiculous! 14 yrs isn't 'varying person to person' it's called being stuck. Don't come over here with that foolishness and way of thinking
I was thinking the same thing. I’m 79 and I’ve been hurt. I’ve realize I would not get an apology. Thank you for expressing so well, my thoughts.
I came here with hurt from prior situations that I have to gradually let go. I can't keep myself imprisoned in the past. Life goes on and so should I.
👏🏽❤️ 🫂
Your assessment is on point. Monique is her own worst enemy and she should move on and live her life
Mo’Nique just went from trying to “uplift the community“ from her Shannon Sharpe interview to now opening up for Kat Williams wherewhere she (I kid, you not.) talked more about Oprah. Only this time she added Gayle King, and talked about Gayle King, having bad body odor. And even after Snoop Dogg had apologized to Gayle for the language he used to criticize her, Monique used that to talk about Gayle’s smell.
Monique is just like Tamar it’s always someone else’s fault, but they’re the common denominator.
You are 100% correct. She should focus on writing material and producing her stand ups. If she is so great people will then invest in her.
Finally someone with common sense 🙌🏽. Monique is a professional bitter victim. Something is wrong with Monique and Daddy, both are phony with false humility.
I found for me to let the hurt and disappointments go, even to this day is the Serenity Prayer… key words for me:
Serenity, Wisdom,
Courage…I have accepted the things I could not change. I ❤ your commentary.
BTW I am 71 yrs old.
So glad I found this podcast. I was feeling somewhat depressed over the positive initial reaction to the interview. This embarrassing of the culture of grievance is blowing my mind. I was so disappointed in Shannon for giving her an amplified voice through his platform and riding the popularity of the katt Williams interview. It was so toxic and now validated through Club Shay Shay.
Monique is stuck in the past and continues to constantly seek to bring others into this toxic space with her. It saddens me a lot of folks can't see this nor the big picture surrounding her.
The ones that don't get it and can't see it, are - in their own lives, just like mo. They identify with her and saying she is wrong would mean they'd have to own up to the fact they are wrong. If she goes on for 10 more years, they'll support her all the way because secretly they're supporting themselves.
Mo'Nique definitely needs therapy. It couldn't be clearer.
When. I tell you I LOVE your channel, you're the only one that see through the BS and give a true evaluation of a situation. Monique is messy, when she had her talk show in Georgia, we would stand in line only for her to be rude and sometimes late for recording. Monique asked people to boycott Netflix and after she got what she wanted ; a check and stand up show, we heard nothing else from her. When she did this recent movie with Lee Daniel she was not crying wolf, she got a check. After she worked with 50 cent she was quiet. Monique worked on the Will Packard project and her husband created a problem. When Kevin Hart gave her money to support her family and no one knew until she told it on the Shay Shay interview. Monique talked about Kevin because she stated he would not finacially support a new talk show for her. Now if you listen to the full recorded conversation between Monique and Tyler that she recorded without his knowledge, he never once said HE had her Blackedball; if I was Tyler I would never have another conversation with her. Sometimes you have to make a change for yourself, and reinvest in yourself to help your family....STOP CRYING WOLF! and work on the broken relationship with your oldest son. I knew her husband was the problem when she agreed to having a polyamorous relationship in a interview years ago. Monique is messy person who does not stand on telling the truth, but she can play God to convict others.
Thank you for bringing this home for us. If we're stuck on people who have wronged us we fail to see the lesson and miss the people who come to bring us blessings and healing.
Kevin stepped in for Mo'nique then she came for him. It's unfortunate, but She can't be helped. She is still stuck in her feelings
Mo'Nique is stuck in trauma and either can't or don't want to move on. Each time she tells her story she retraumize herself so she is never able to heal. I am a certified Counselor and have counselor hundreds of women who have experience this level of childhood and adult trauma. When I conducted counseling and groups I would limited the amount of times they could tell their story before they had to give a resolution plan. She getting something out of retelling this story for over 14 years. S...I worked in upper management and I can't tell you how many time what she related about O and TP and KH happen with backstabber in the office. You vent, grieve , resolve and move on. She is stuck! More counseling is needed!
I've never enjoyed Monique's comedic style but I do like her as an actor. She needs to get it together. It's a waste of theatrical talent.
THANK YOU!! Finally someone called it what it is..I Appreciate all your content..
Finally,
Someone said what I been wanting to say, Monique is out for herself and not for the babies coming behind her. She is not our Auntie. I not saying she was not offended, and been given her just due but it’s over and you may never get your just due as so many of us won’t. I would tell you try Jesus but I won’t throw pearls out there to be trampled on, I hope she figures it out. Hopefully she and her hubby see this podcast. Thank you for the gems you have given us. I feel better for it because I could not verbalize it.
I wonder if Monique ever thought that if she weren’t chosen to be in Precious she wouldn’t have received her Oscar?
Finally, someone who got. I totally agree with you.
The first time Monique started her campaign I felt the same as you do (this is a vendetta for her against Oprah). Oprah did apologize to her, but she didn't like the way Oprah worded it. The worst for me was when she taped Tyler's conversation with her. Such an underhanded tactic. I couldn't get past that.
She's going to fall out with Katt Williams for sure. 😊
Yep!
If that happens...that will seal the deal for me. Same applies if she decides to have a problem with the Club Shay Shay interview. I will NOT be able to give her anymore benefit of the doubt.
Thank you! 14 years is a long time telling the same story, there are so many things she could have been doing with her career, I personally think the root of this is regret , although she would never admit it I think she regrets the way she handled things early on, but its just easier to point and blame others. I wish many women would take a page from Tabitha Brown, create your own success, mind your business, and serve where you can.
Thank you for a clear channel of thought! 🙌🏾 Everyone that is jumping on “go Monique, speak your truth” thinks just like her. I stop listening to her, I guess 14 years ago when the blame game started 🤦🏾♀️ It’s toooo much and I pity the fools who let her on their tour, who sit down with her and cut a check💰 for her and “daddy” and who actually BELIEVE the narcissistic victim con artist storyline.
All of this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 as I listened to the interview I was thinking what if you never hear “I’m Sorry”. . . I Hope she finds (Jesus) He gives PEACE that surpasses ALL UNDERSTANDING‼️
Amen 🙏🏽
Thank you for the truthful, wise commentary. 14 yrs is a long time to be still in the same unhealthy mental and emotional place. Monique needs healing, and calling her husband "daddy" is part of the childhood healing she needs. They are toxic, and it can't be everyone else and not you too.
The only person who can heal her is through truly having a relationship with God through Christ, and the universe is not able. Do the work that is necessary.
These people are all a part of the Hollywood greed.
You have preached a sermon!!! I agree totally with everything you said. I didn't realize its been 14 years since Precious came out. Its going to be interesting her and Katt Williams touring together.
I seriously can not believe so many ppl really fooled by Mo'nique.
I agree. It's because they are projecting. They never got justice for their hurts so they are vicariously getting their 'justice' thru folks like her. It's sad.
I agree with you. Given the claim she has been costed $, why now sue those involved like she did Netflix and move on. We spent HUNDREDS of dollars in Vegas 5 years ago and she talked about this the entire show! We literally wanted our money refunded.
At what point do we move on? With Monique, it's when she is six feet under. She will literally take this one way beef all the way to the grave.
Also i think the average husband would not tolerate this. Why is the husband fueling this. Once, twice, ok, but constantly?
Soooo happy someone said it! I’m not jumping on the Monique train
In the words of my departed mother “ stop running after those people “.
Thank you! I agreed with all of your commentary. I think Sydney is ruining her career and the direction she’s going she may never work again in Hollywood and she’s a great actress. She’s not a funny comedian.
You gave me a whole new perspective! Thats why I listen to your content to learn something new
I agree 100% . Don’t be surprised that in 14 years she will still rehashing the same old story
Make peace with the situation, and make changes to not find ourselves in the situation again 🤷🏽♀️
I support Mo’nique’s stance against the industry. And, I do think that Oprah and Tyler owes her an apology. However, she needs to forgive them, it’s time. She has let that unforgiveness grow roots in her heart, keeping her stuck reliving the hurt of the past. Even her comedy special was supposed to be a new page, her reclaiming her spot as a queen of comedy, but there was no comedic relief. This has totally consumed her life. I pray God frees her from all the pain and hurt she has experienced from people, so she that she can walk in true freedom.
@sweetiet602 girl stop it and learn to ACTUALLY listen. No one is 'telling someone how to heal' your projecting your hurts not healed on Mo's situation.
This is good commentary on the subject. Unpopular, but definitely a perspective to consider.
They don't have to apologize and she doesn't have to stop talking.. .. If each party is comfortable with their stance, so be it....... THEY ALL ARE CRAZY 😭
“Bootleg Activism!” Never heard the term before, but I’ll have to remember it. Good analogy of Monique’s situation. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!
Let me tell you, I didn't watch the interview with Monique on Shay Shay and let me explain why. I already knew she would be talking about the same people and same things that I've heard her gripe about over and over again. Toxic people draw toxic people and I can't listen to another word out of her mouth. So unless she has anything different to speak about, I won't be watching or listening. And of course Shannon only did this interview for views, but I understand, it's business. I just can't do it. All of that negativity vexes my spirit. I hope and pray she gets the therapy she needs to not only move on, but to change her way of thinking and have a more positive mindset.
Honestly, I can't blame people for refusing to talk with her. At some point you have to agree to disagree and move on. If you allow someone to continuously speak venom at you, eventually their demons will rub off on you. And you are responsible for protecting your peace at all costs.
You are absolutely right!!!! Thanks for this. This is very good!!!!
Monique said Kevin Hart wrote her a big check to help them out, then at the same to time she threw him under the bus. Did she ever think Kevin may not wanted to repeat what they told him after speaking with them. Why would he destroy his career over Monique.
Exactly 🎯💯
Im pretty sure his people told him that working with her is bad business
Also, after listening to Monique she said Kevin said he would help her. As soon as Kevin hung up with her and daddy, they were on the phone calling up Kevin's people before Kevin even had a chance to talk to his own people.
Girl you’re right. She has been complaining about the same things for 14 years . When she was on Shannon sharp it felt like a re run. But other people acting like it’s all new . She really needs to move forward and have some peace of mind. For her OWN mental health. I feel like her husband just instigates stuff to keep himself relevant in her life and career …. Only to really hurt her in the end . Don’t get me wrong, she does speak truths . But people often shoot the messenger …. So she needs to learn how to balance that mess like I have had to do over the years
She did take accountability for her multiple marriages and notated that she had therapy. She stated that she has an aggressive personality.
You ought to be ashamed for typing this....that's all I'm going to say.
She says with her MOUTH that she takes responsibility then she carries on like she's always done...with no changes. She never has anything nice to say
100% agree: bootlegged activism
We have to learn to forgive people for what they have done to us. Forgiving them does not let them off the hook or for what they did, but it frees you so that they aren’t living rent free in your head and you won’t become bitter. And no, you won’t always feel like forgiving people, but that’s when you do it, practice forgiveness, it will change your life and give you so much peace
I watched the Katt William interview on Club Shay and Shay and enjoyed it! But no way will I listen to Monique. She is draining. It's the same thing over and over again! Enough already. I love my life too much to listen to someone repeating themselves for over a decade. She needs therapy.
Years ago a friend offended me and I was deeply hurt to my soul. I kept whining about it to my husband and after 3 months he told me to drop it. He told me he'd heard enough of it. At first, I was hurt that he wouldn't allow me to share my pain. I was forced to look within and I saw all I was doing to him was spreading my misery. I quickly snapped out of.
This makes me wonder what type of a loving husband enjoyed watching their wife relive and be stuck on misery? No true healthy man can put up with that for 14 years. No way.
Also, Monique isn't happy with her life and marriage. Happy and progressive people are never stuck in the past and are busy creating and enjoying the fruit of their labor with loved ones
Thank you for always sharing common sense with us.
Wow. Stumbled across this video by pure coincidence, at least I thought. This was just the message i needed to hear, on a personal level. Thank you for this blessing. New subscriber!
I'm so glad you were helped. That is always the motivation & purpose.
My personal belief- no coincidences. It came across my timeline also. I needed to hear this Queen's emotional, spiritual, and intellectual reasoning TODAY. 🙏🏾 ❤️ 👑. Blessings
You make some excellent points , especially about failure to create solutions for others like Ava Duvernay and Stacy Abrams did e.g.
Thank you thank you thank you. Everyone else seems to be riding with her. I so appreciate your willingness to see the truth.
As the Beatles wrote; "Let it be!" Go ahead with plans B through Z. But never give up. Harping on plan A forever means you have failed to plan, which means you've planned to fail. Let's get it ON!
Thank you for your sensible commentary. I appreciate your outlook and emotional intelligence.
I'm not religious, but that's probably why the New Testament encourages forgiveness. People have to let that stuff go sometimes. While you're still mad, these people are living
Sigh… finally a spot on analysis of the truth.
Great commentary and well said. I totally agree with you....I subscribed to your channel today.
Keep up the great work.
I agree. Unfortunately, she's never going to get the apology or restitution she wants. So time to move on.
OOOH MY GAWD! SOMEBODY finally gets it. Me personally are sick of MO and Daddy. Sometimes, you have to let go and let GOD. MO got a problem with EVERYBODY.
M’am would let go of 25 millions? That’s what cost her. Be honest
You be honest. She costs herself 25 million.
My thoughts exactly. I wanted my time back after watching that interview because I have heard it all before. Word for word. The same explanation. Perfect example of what happens when you refuse to forgive.
I shall now be borrowing the phrase “bootleg activism.”
😂😂😂
Whew! I love your videos but this right here is deep. Thank you so much for sharing. Some self reflection is needed at some point.
She has talent. She (just like all of us melinated folk) needs to create something for herself and stop looking for other people to create for her (us). Time will pass her (us) by waiting on an apology or someone else to make something happen for her (us).
This flame throwing IS her talent
Title of this podcast should've been. "Let go and trust God"
That's what Monique should've do
Never gonna apologize, Never gonna apologize; Never gonna apologize! - Thee Great Toni Braxton Lol
I saw her stand up, she should've been happy with 250
Very insightful…
Sometimes you have to let ish go.
I am new to your channel and I have listened to quite a few of your episodes....you are FREAKIN AWESOME!!!! Monique really does need to move on, she is NEVER going to get what she is looking for. At this point she is just a 'whinner'...nobody cares! Thank you for sharing your insight!
Bootleg Activism never heard it termed that....but that one stung...Perfect definition in two words!
This is the smartest take I have heard. Thank you.
It seemed to me that Shannon was being messy. I totally agree with your comments about Monique. It's been 14 years she should let it go.
That Netflix special was Horrible!!! I’ve already seen and heard what I need to know about Monique and her Daddy..I remember listening to them when they released that private conversation they had with Tyler, they were horrible to him as he was trying to make peace. She can NEVER fool me
This was so good. Opened my eyes for sure. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
That’s because she is hurt about the same thing…when you hear the same thing over and over from the same person it’s the truth. They don’t want to talk to her because they know what they have done. Karma is real…
💜Thank you! You are right on point. I watched and I was waiting 2 hear what she has created to uplift the community.
Team Mo! Keep fighting Mo because if it was them they would. They don't understand that this is now about the Parker show.
Whewwww that Moses’s mother perspective 👏powerful!
It has gone beyond an apology. She is using it as her act (tour) now. She will be talking about this from now to forever. She is blackballing herself at this point. Who wants to hire, work with someone like this even if it is true. Because if she thought you Offended her your name would just be added to her list to be called out.
Not you referring to Kevin Hart as the little boy 😩💀
This is such an interesting and thought-provoking perspective on this topic. Personally, I couldn't continue watching the interview because, as you said, I had heard it all before.
GIRL, YOU GET A MILLION AMENS FROM THE CONGREGATION. WE HAVE YOUR BACK BECAUSE SHE'S GOING TO COME FOR YOU.THE TRUTH HURTS. AND YES I AM SHOUTING
I appreciate this.. I needed this
Great video! I completely agree with you. Also Mo'Nique has inadvertently given free promo to Oprah, Tyler Perry, Lee Daniels, & Lion's Gate on & off for YEARS. And her free promo has not negatively affected their bank accounts much at all.
Exactly because it wasn't a problem until it affected her.
I believe she is STILL very hurt and most often her conversation will not change until the pain subsides. I feel for her but, I don’t have the answer as to what she should do to move on from it. I see it as physical loss for her….she is grieving and who can tell a grieving person when they should move on from their grief….the time table is different for everyone. Because I completely and with certainty know God is in control and I know no one gets away with anything they do….good or bad, I would not be in this situation. What I can and will do for Monique is pray for peace of her mind and her thoughts.
Wooo, lawd, u are speaking truth & fact. This tangent she has been on is exhausting & continues.
Does she realize there are no guarantees in life. And, just because u believe u should have, it doesn't mean u will have. Her growth is obviously stunted. Therefore, she only blames, condemns & attacks.
I dont think any of her & daddy's bs will really facilitate any success. 19:59
I feel this is the same kind of thing when you have to forgive someone who has failed you. You can never see or talk to them again if you wish not to, but when you forgive them and move on, that’s for you. They don’t deserve to have rent free space in your head or heart. She’s being held hostage by her own feelings. Let go and Let God🙏🏽
Just found your channel. Thanks for speaking out. We've been hearing the same thing for 14 years let it go and move on
This was very good! Great reminder to us all. It's so worth it to let go. It's so very true that we must let go of hurts, etc. for our own sake.
I'm thinking she probably never sat and thought about how long it's been it's a hard pill to swallow when someone have hurt you that bad and never want to make it right I hope she gets her peace
I agree with everything that was said in this video.💯🎯