X Ambassadors - Unsteady (Lyrics)

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  • The Dream You Need
    X Ambassadors - UNSTEADY | Official Dance Video #LoveisLove
    • X Ambassadors - UNSTEA...
    X Ambassadors - Unsteady (Lyrics)
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mama, come here
    Approach, appear
    Daddy, I'm alone
    'Cause this house don't feel like home
    If you love me, don't let go
    If you love me, don't let go
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mother, I know
    That you're tired of being alone
    Dad, I know you're trying
    To fight when you feel like flying
    But if you love me, don't let go
    If you love me, don't let go
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold, hold on, hold onto me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady

Komentáře • 23K

  • @samara2221
    @samara2221 Před 4 lety +7698

    It's hard being a "funny friend". you always work so hard to make others happy and completely forget about yourself.

    • @ssimmonz08
      @ssimmonz08 Před 4 lety +68

      I Am Supportive B*tch I know what you mean

    • @cooknala1721
      @cooknala1721 Před 4 lety +176

      I feel you. I get my friends things and I make them laugh to make them happy. But then I’m over here suffering to maintain happiness. But it’s ok, I’ll continue to make them laugh and get them things they want, because that’s what friends are for, right?

    • @bryanvalle7542
      @bryanvalle7542 Před 4 lety +44

      Thats me right there,

    • @cooknala1721
      @cooknala1721 Před 4 lety +29

      Cookieslay v.5 if you need a friend, I got chu

    • @rojishaadhikari5415
      @rojishaadhikari5415 Před 4 lety +23

      I truely feel u

  • @juleymisanchez7846
    @juleymisanchez7846 Před 4 lety +6201

    Nobody notices your pain, but everybody notices your Flaws.

    • @yeow7831
      @yeow7831 Před 4 lety +37

      Exactly.....

    • @thisperson7860
      @thisperson7860 Před 4 lety +18

      Hell yeah!!

    • @Aleen016
      @Aleen016 Před 4 lety +16

      Bts Lover yep true

    • @aedashuaibi2394
      @aedashuaibi2394 Před 4 lety +27

      Bts Lover that’s so true but we still try to make things better 😭💜 btw ARMYYYY!!! Fighting!💜

    • @Lin-xi4wu
      @Lin-xi4wu Před 4 lety +20

      This statement is profoundly sad ,- and no one should accept it in an intelligent world.

  • @marwarahman52
    @marwarahman52 Před 3 lety +5263

    "This house don't feel like home." How many can relate to this? Coz I damn sure can.
    .
    .
    Edit: This really is heartbreaking, the number of people who can relate to this. I'm sorry for ya'll and I hope we all have better days.

  • @heartbrkenwofy3895
    @heartbrkenwofy3895 Před 3 lety +1930

    "Mother, I know that you're tired of being alone" that line hits hard when you can relate to it, nothing hurts more than seeing your momma cry.

    • @crimson_rain_sought_flower
      @crimson_rain_sought_flower Před 3 lety +14

      I've seen my dad cry multiple times, i've heard him cry secretly, and i've seen my mama on the edge of crying

    • @jamiemelton163
      @jamiemelton163 Před 3 lety +21

      The "Dad I know you're trying to fight when you feel like flying, but if you love me don't let go" does it for me. My dad is in rough place rn, and plays it off like everything is fine, and it breaks my heart.

    • @WarriorMike20
      @WarriorMike20 Před 3 lety +3

      I agree. And nuthin hurts more than seeing your mom pass when ur 18.

    • @gumzzgun9556
      @gumzzgun9556 Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah. It did. Sort of I guess. She cries a lot, also for guilt trapping-unintentionally but still- so I got used to her crying a long time ago. It doesn’t matter to me anymore, I don’t remember her being truly happy much(she’s pretty much depressed) and I got used to helping her out emotionally.
      For everyone: please support the ones u love but always put yourself in first place

    • @gracewisniewski5447
      @gracewisniewski5447 Před 3 lety +6

      Yes. I lost my father a while ago, and seeing my mom trying to cry secretly breaks my heart and I just want to help her but I cant

  • @joshhigginbotham9529
    @joshhigginbotham9529 Před 7 lety +1488

    If you're reading this, hold on to whatever you have and never take it for granted stay wonderful and have an amazing day.

  • @hannahlynn175
    @hannahlynn175 Před 4 lety +4975

    Hey ❤
    It's okay to cry.
    It's okay to experience deep pain and sadness.
    Let it out.
    Let the tears roll down your face.
    But don't stay there for too long beautiful. When you're ready take a deep breath. Wipe those pretty eyes.
    You're going to be okay. Things will get better soon I promise. Whatever you're going through, it is only for a season.
    I hope you know what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you know your worth, your value, your beauty. You're such a lovely human that no one else in this world can replace.
    You are important.
    You are needed.
    You are loved.
    So hold on a bit longer, okay? There is hope. There is purpose. You're going to make it through I promise. The light is just up ahead❤
    EDIT: Wow, I never expected to get this many likes. Thanks so much guys😭
    If anyone is interested, I just started doing some singing on my channel. Would love some support 😊💕
    Much love to each and every one of you lovely humans ❤❤ Please be kind to yourselves.

    • @itsmelvynn_1485
      @itsmelvynn_1485 Před 4 lety +52

      I'm surprised this comment doesn't get as much likes :/ Thank you💖

    • @coral9414
      @coral9414 Před 4 lety +51

      Oh my god I don't even know you but I love you so much, this makes me feel better😭❤️

    • @angietheravenclaw7101
      @angietheravenclaw7101 Před 4 lety +16

      ..wow..

    • @ebonylashay3119
      @ebonylashay3119 Před 4 lety +16

      Thank you so much!!! Cause breakdown is my current mood! ❤

    • @Amy-rl5ut
      @Amy-rl5ut Před 4 lety +22

      Amazing, not many decent people in this world anymore so when you come across one it’s brilliant!🥺TᕼᗩᑎK YOᑌ I ᑎEEᗪEᗪ TᕼᗩT😇

  • @boonsicle
    @boonsicle Před 3 lety +1771

    "Yesterday is history, tomorrow's a mystery, but today is a gift that is why it's called present."
    -Master Oogway

  • @lisasjourney6593
    @lisasjourney6593 Před 3 lety +435

    *"𝙲𝚊𝚞𝚜𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚎 𝚍𝚘𝚗'𝚝 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎 𝚑𝚘𝚖𝚎"* felt that 😔

    • @loading6258
      @loading6258 Před 3 lety +2

      I feel you I don’t feel safe in my home I feel like I can’t be myself without my family judging me 😔 but the one that hits me the most it “ if you love me don’t let go “

    • @laurentaylor8927
      @laurentaylor8927 Před 3 lety +2

      Hold on good on to me am a little unsteady😔😔

    • @Maria-io4hx
      @Maria-io4hx Před 3 lety

      Same

  • @ivizgutierrez7548
    @ivizgutierrez7548 Před 3 lety +3862

    It really hurts when you're surrounded by people that you "trust" and realize that you will never be able to tell them how you really feel, because they will judge you

    • @johnmarcus5284
      @johnmarcus5284 Před 3 lety +32

      Not everyone is trying to Judge, I am sure we all have our own moments of downfall that we are not proud of.

    • @Alley1982
      @Alley1982 Před 3 lety +22

      @@johnmarcus5284 i think she didn't mean everyone judging she meant the people she is surrounded by. 😁

    • @chocolatesugar-lovage9678
      @chocolatesugar-lovage9678 Před 3 lety +28

      I can never tell my mother about my day or what I'm feeling 'cause she'll just brush it off as me being "dramatic" and "stupid". The only person I can talk to, who understands me, is my sister. :'(
      ~

    • @adelaidemusakaruka7051
      @adelaidemusakaruka7051 Před 3 lety +17

      Chocolate Sugar-Lovage Our parents don’t know us because they do not sympathize with children. We’d rather cry with our faces in our pillow then share our feelings with people who believe our feelings are invalid and our problems are not worth the stress

    • @samanthazeisneiss5596
      @samanthazeisneiss5596 Před 3 lety +9

      Or you trust the person and they stab you in the back

  • @Dance-fp7jc
    @Dance-fp7jc Před 4 lety +5997

    You never realize how big a moment is until it’s a memory.

  • @louis6837
    @louis6837 Před 3 lety +2175

    A sad song isn't defined by the way it sounds, it is defined by what memory it brings you back to. - Olivia Cox 2020

    • @blz3_715
      @blz3_715 Před 3 lety +20

      i am already crying and you.... you made me sadder☹️

    • @lennyball3885
      @lennyball3885 Před 3 lety +11

      The memory for me is watching my mom dying in the hospital in 2017 with my 3 brothers and I. My sister was in jail and couldn't be there. Two of my brothers got in a fist fight the night she passed. We finally shattered as a family.

    • @lennyball3885
      @lennyball3885 Před 3 lety +1

      @Sam Sandoval it's ok.

    • @lennyball3885
      @lennyball3885 Před 3 lety +1

      @Sam Sandoval we have music to get us through these tough times.

    • @unsteadylove2636
      @unsteadylove2636 Před 2 lety

      I listened to this when I was younger, it reminds me of when I listened to my sister. Now she's in Las Vegas, we're gonna visit her pretty soon. 👍🏼

  • @_a1yzza_314
    @_a1yzza_314 Před 3 lety +482

    I cry myself to sleep with this song. My dad just passed away and it’s been very hard lately. This song helps me cope with my grieving.

  • @crisis4415
    @crisis4415 Před 4 lety +2604

    “Daddy I’m alone cause this house don’t feel like home...” god that always hits me hard

    • @ezra_amook420
      @ezra_amook420 Před 4 lety +7

      It does.

    • @zombz.lvvrr...
      @zombz.lvvrr... Před 4 lety +16

      Haha. I don't have a dad

    • @trinxhellaslife7487
      @trinxhellaslife7487 Před 4 lety +29

      Mother I know your tired of being alone dad I know your trying to fight when you feel like flying that's the one that always got me cuz my mom died when I was young and my dad said the only reason he dident commit suicide was because of us kids and he needed to stay for us and to care for us

    • @alex-sx3fs
      @alex-sx3fs Před 4 lety +1

      T^T

    • @ariessnneamaka209
      @ariessnneamaka209 Před 4 lety +6

      That's the part I break down at EVERY time.

  • @byrgenwerthh
    @byrgenwerthh Před 8 lety +286

    "dad, i know youre trying to fight when you feel like flying". i think i cry the hardest at this line, because flying is just another word for dying.

    • @emmacirillo4581
      @emmacirillo4581 Před 8 lety +1

      The part that gets me if this house doesn't feel like home. if you love me don't let go. I cry every time.

    • @teresaanya
      @teresaanya Před 8 lety

      Omw now I'm crying...

    • @paisleyflowers9811
      @paisleyflowers9811 Před 8 lety

      i know. i say that too because they Rhime

    • @byrgenwerthh
      @byrgenwerthh Před 8 lety

      +Paisley Flowers that wasnt necessarily my point, but sure

    • @byrgenwerthh
      @byrgenwerthh Před 8 lety +1

      +Teresa Anya nice profile picture ;)

  • @Re-un3jv
    @Re-un3jv Před 3 lety +529

    When everybody says there here for you, but when your just need a hug-
    Somehow they all disappear.

    • @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022
      @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022 Před 3 lety +2

      @@finnann1851 same here you got my hugs

    • @gulalatas9163
      @gulalatas9163 Před 3 lety +1

      it's better than hugging snakes,trust me.

    • @leeroyjankeins1610
      @leeroyjankeins1610 Před 3 lety +1

      Mmm my friend I promise you that you will never be alone. There is always an enormous amount of love, compassion, and kindness available to all of us through our connection to humanity. We're all a family, and brother/sister of mine you are loved!

  • @Pati
    @Pati Před 3 lety +1461

    Little Boy: "Are you an angel?"
    Girl: "What?"
    Little Boy: "My Mum told me those who have marked wrists are angels."
    Girl: "I'm not an angel."
    Little Boy: "Of course you are. Mum said that only angels hurt themselves because they don't like the life on earth. The world is destroying them so they try to return to Heaven again. They are too sensitive to the pain of others and their own."
    Girl: "You know, you Mum is very wise."
    Little Boy: "Thank you. She is also an angel, but she already returned home."
    Edit:Thanks for so many likes and comments, I wasn't expecting this.
    My comment is not intended to encourage self-harm or anything like that!
    Edit 2 Hello, welcome to 2023, I hope you are all well, if not, remember that after every storm, no matter how long it lasts and how strong it is, the sun comes out. I wish you all the best. I am sending you lots of kisses and hugs❤️༼⁠ ⁠つ⁠ ⁠◕⁠‿⁠◕⁠ ⁠༽⁠つ

    • @azlovef4nyy
      @azlovef4nyy Před 3 lety +54

      Yep thanks for making me cry jdjdhdhdhddh 🥲

    • @Pati
      @Pati Před 3 lety +11

      @@azlovef4nyy Sorry😔

    • @bigmike814
      @bigmike814 Před 3 lety +31

      Wow that’s deep man 😔

    • @joshuamarsh3576
      @joshuamarsh3576 Před 3 lety +15

      Copy and paste cheap story

    • @tohmhehe8460
      @tohmhehe8460 Před 3 lety +13

      what the fuck is the commnet lmao; it has nothing to do with the video and makes no sense

  • @vicee1055
    @vicee1055 Před 4 lety +3909

    This song hits harder everytime i play it

  • @wendychonco
    @wendychonco Před 5 lety +7732

    Whoever is reading this, You not alone. This too shall pass
    .
    .
    . Edit: 3 years later, I hope you are still holding on ❣

  • @gloriaarollo5526
    @gloriaarollo5526 Před 3 lety +333

    I remember my older brother cried during this song... We were going through a tough time at the time and he didn't want my family to split up for he felt he wasn't strong enough to bear the pain.. Now we're all split up and he's in jail... I miss my brother and family... I hope he find happiness in life as well as everyone i was with💔 this song hits every aspect of my life... My dad was trying everything to support our family and he always felt like giving up but didn't... And as for my mother she was in jail and I didn't feel at home everywhere I went, I just wish we all could have sincere happiness but its just so hard for each of us...

    • @kcovington5798
      @kcovington5798 Před 3 lety +15

      Write your brother he needs to hear from you ♥😊

    • @gloriaarollo5526
      @gloriaarollo5526 Před 3 lety +7

      @@kcovington5798 I have been, I need to write more though cause currently his mental state is depleting. All I can do is hope for the best, and give him my best even though I hope for nothing, this makes an exception❣️

    • @LearnIslam8371
      @LearnIslam8371 Před 3 lety +2

      Im so upset i hope everything goes good for you and yoir family and your older brother

    • @alexisfolen9260
      @alexisfolen9260 Před 3 lety +3

      Prayers and good vibes to you, that's a lot of pain for one heart.

    • @kyleeboudreaux3501
      @kyleeboudreaux3501 Před 3 lety +4

      Hey, I know I'm late but just checking up on you are you doing alright?

  • @IvanJJones
    @IvanJJones Před 2 lety +5

    Damn those vocals :O

  • @sunnyfields1845
    @sunnyfields1845 Před 6 lety +7944

    Sometimes silence is the loudest scream.

  • @emilypatience6986
    @emilypatience6986 Před 5 lety +4322

    “Dad, I know you’re trying.... To fight when you feel like flying.”
    It means he wants to die. But he knows he has to fight through it for things to get better.
    And the mom...... “Mama, come here. Approach... appear.”
    She died. 😓😭😢
    And she’s tired of being alone.
    This hits me hard. 😭😭😭

    • @aminacisse8892
      @aminacisse8892 Před 5 lety +40

      Emily Patience no he’s saying “ momma come approach spear “ because he misses her thru both miss the mother cause she died

    • @sarahbear9350
      @sarahbear9350 Před 5 lety +91

      My dad killed himself when I was 15 then I met my mom. then she left me alone the same week I just met her and moved states away still no contact 😭 😔 this song still gives me a glimpse of hope

    • @shanestrother3081
      @shanestrother3081 Před 5 lety +12

      Emily Patience

    • @shanestrother3081
      @shanestrother3081 Před 5 lety +10

      Sarah Bear

    • @cielbyrne9921
      @cielbyrne9921 Před 5 lety +52

      @@sarahbear9350 my dad also killed himself only a week after my fifteenth birthday so about two months ago. It's always good to know there's someone going through something similar and that your not alone so thanks for sharing your story. There's always hope

  • @Julia-jp5nm
    @Julia-jp5nm Před 3 lety +169

    Im the friend that everyone can talk to about anything, mostly mental health. Its amazing how my friends can open up and tell me things all the time whereas i don't do that cause im scared to. I look like im strong mentally and stuff but really i am weak and even at my lowest to the point where i think about it, i still don't reach out and ask for help. I mean i don't even know if ill make it past 18.

    • @salmon1290
      @salmon1290 Před 3 lety +3

      If your friends trust you with theirs feelings they trust themselves to handle yours

    • @snxwytyu7889
      @snxwytyu7889 Před 3 lety +4

      I am exactly you. And I know all about this cause I lived it and if I’m honest I got into a convo with my friends about it. And they said hey Amelia why don’t u ever share your feelings with us. And I said your right I’m sorry but I’m scared. They said scared of what. I replied scared of bringing u down with me. They said never be afraid to open up to me. Snd I have them a explanation of why I never have opened up to them. And they accepted it and just said. Well maybe that is so but I love u to much to be able to let u suffer this way snd think ur fine when inside your not. And I cried form their response and they said I’m here. we are here if u need us. You know that right?” I think u will feel better once u tell your friends. Or anyone. I asked my parents for therapy. They laughed and said I don’t need it. I told them about everything and how I was inside and my dad couldn’t say anything better. He said “ to me being your dad is my job and it is my favourite and your physical health is just as important and your mental health” and I know it’s hard to ask for help. But if you just explain how you are inside. And maybe even get a type of diary wether it is one your phone or a actual note pad. ( I use on phone) it really helps. And I think just talking to someone helps. Trust me the hardest thing is to ask for help. But after that it’s all down hill.

    • @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022
      @neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022 Před 3 lety

      @@salmon1290 exactly you keep thinking about others needs think about your self for once and dont have doughts.

    • @eileen2474
      @eileen2474 Před 3 lety

      Same that’s why I’m the ‘mom’ of my friend group but even if I’m not feeling too good mentally I try to get through it for them

    • @solidmusiclover9750
      @solidmusiclover9750 Před 3 lety

      I am like that too but I start to open up being emotional and have problems first time on my one BFF only the rest no which is a bit weird for me at first

  • @Kbear-xt9mh
    @Kbear-xt9mh Před rokem +13

    “And dad, I know you’re tryin to fight when you feel like flyin.” Hits me so hard 🥺

    • @Excalibur250
      @Excalibur250 Před 9 měsíci +2

      This hurts deep now that I see though the lens of a father. My dad is trying his best to keep the family together with my mom being terminally ill (I moved back to help around the house since my dad is always at work and things have started to deteriorate at home), I have struggled with suicidal thoughts most of my life, and it absolutely crushed me coming back and viewing this again from my little boy's eyes when he gets older. (I should clarify, my ex fiancé of 7 years broke up with me, and we're trying to co-parent as best we can. We're both too tired and too stretched thin financially to get the courts involved) Today I kept fighting.

  • @emmysp9387
    @emmysp9387 Před 5 lety +8363

    I think we can all relate to this song but in different ways..

  • @plutosmith.326
    @plutosmith.326 Před 5 lety +1651

    To whoever who needs to hear this
    You are wanted
    You are loved
    You are worth something
    You are amazing
    You are kind
    You will do great things
    Please...stay here and enjoy life even if you feel like you can’t, spend time doing the things that make you happy or spend time with the people who make you happy i love you and I would be so sad if you left stay strong love. 💛❤️💛

  • @zahradulon9469
    @zahradulon9469 Před 3 lety +42

    “cause this house don’t feel like home” felt.

  • @Mamamurph92
    @Mamamurph92 Před 11 měsíci +2

    “Dad, I know you’re trying to fight when you feel like flying” oooooff 🥺

  • @justsomerainboweyedguy5989
    @justsomerainboweyedguy5989 Před 4 lety +1847

    The real question is: what were they feeling when they wrote and sung this?

    • @Noor-ce3ny
      @Noor-ce3ny Před 4 lety +198

      Parents fighting and getting a divorce. He’s telling his parents to hold on to him. That’s how I feel too, right now.

    • @galaxyrises603
      @galaxyrises603 Před 4 lety +22

      @@Noor-ce3ny accurate

    • @Cynsune
      @Cynsune Před 4 lety +29

      I know how it feels...I feel this song...

    • @ApprovingWeeb
      @ApprovingWeeb Před 3 lety +9

      Nah man my friend in among us was playing wit me and i was imposter i had to kill him. But then after the round all he said was atleast it wasnt someone else and he disconnected. This guy making the song probably felt that sadness too

    • @patrickdolan2014
      @patrickdolan2014 Před 3 lety +5

      I thought it was about losing his parents sometime ... like he’ll never be ready .... the party where he said “when you feel like flying” made me think he meant that his dad wanted to take his leave and go to heaven

  • @marisah5682
    @marisah5682 Před 3 lety +2305

    I’m breaking and no one notices.

  • @jodiecotton4864
    @jodiecotton4864 Před 3 lety +36

    When your home isn’t home it’s a person🥺

  • @tiab9497
    @tiab9497 Před 7 lety +1447

    This song makes me cry because I tell everyone all the time that I don't want a relationship, but the truth is I'm too afraid that nobody could ever love me because of my issues and past. I can't open up or I'm going to get hurt.

    • @mr5150La
      @mr5150La Před 7 lety +13

      same here now I just lost the woman dat loved cared & honestly wanted me

    • @codyfoster3024
      @codyfoster3024 Před 7 lety +3

      My. Life.

    • @ryleecrouch9160
      @ryleecrouch9160 Před 7 lety +3

      I wanna cry my ex boyfriend broke up with me in may and I miss him so much..

    • @aaronshumate4643
      @aaronshumate4643 Před 7 lety +3

      +Rylee Crouch this a a sad song period..

    • @bean2096
      @bean2096 Před 7 lety +5

      omfg same.
      I figured i would tell them my secrets and he would just tell me lies...

  • @jamiyafortune5109
    @jamiyafortune5109 Před 3 lety +1224

    it's hard being the friend that's always laughing because your other friends think nothing is wrong but in reality you are going through so much pain

    • @mirtesteyaert408
      @mirtesteyaert408 Před 3 lety +16

      Tell them, tell them please. I´ve hzd a friend like you. And now she´s in a depression because she didn´t tell anyone she wasn´t doing fine. And I´ll always feel guilty about the fact that if i noticed it a few week later she probably would have killed herself. So please telle them

    • @mariavittoriacoppola8337
      @mariavittoriacoppola8337 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah...

    • @gem2023
      @gem2023 Před 3 lety +5

      When none of your friends properly like you but just have you hang with them at like lunch thats all then talk about how they're hanging out and text on there group chat with all of them but you :(

    • @annabarach5028
      @annabarach5028 Před 3 lety +2

      or when you know they are talking to someone else and if you join you think it doesn't matter because then they will just ignore you yeah i feel that almost everyday

    • @loading6258
      @loading6258 Před 3 lety +1

      I feel you

  • @zoradragon
    @zoradragon Před 9 měsíci +9

    My dad loved this song, he'd play it for me, he died from alcohol poisoning and a heart attack, he really made a effort to be the best father he could be

  • @princess_elinor303
    @princess_elinor303 Před 3 lety +11

    I remember being 7 years old just five years ago. I still have the vivid memory of being in my dad's car, sitting in the back with my siblings. My dad had a ballgame back in Fountain Valley and after that, he and his teammates would talk for about 15 minutes in the park's parking lot, spitting some sunflower seeds. As soon as after they caught up, we would go to Lampost Pizza with his teammates. I remember after eating at Lampost Pizza, it was nighttime, my favorite time when we opened the car doors to go home. As we quietly drove home on the freeway, with no words coming out of our mouth, this song, Unsteady, would play. I can visualize looking out the window into the dark trees and sky and all the houses and buildings we drove by, still on the freeway, with this song on, and me leaning again the right door looking out that window. The song reminds me of good times, and I just thought about it. Last year, my dad left us to stay with his girlfriend. I can forgive him, though, because I loved him enough to let him go. I still remember going to Fountain Valley with him and my siblings. The cheers of everyone watching the ballgames made me really happy. Seeing those sunflower shells on the ground made me happy. And since I grew up with my family, all about softball. I wish we can turn back to these unforgettable days. But with every moment comes more great memories to cherish forever. 💖🥰

    • @Zaminyx
      @Zaminyx Před 2 lety

      That just gave me an idea for a book

  • @jamiee.t1587
    @jamiee.t1587 Před 7 lety +2292

    "Daddy I'm alone cause this house don't feel like home" 😭😭

    • @crispinknip
      @crispinknip Před 7 lety +28

      Jamie Tapia as soon as I read this comment that part of the song came on😂

    • @patteneyck6649
      @patteneyck6649 Před 7 lety +33

      Jamie Tapia that the one that gets me

    • @destinyparks4501
      @destinyparks4501 Před 7 lety +41

      dad I know you're trying to fight when u feel like flyin

    • @foreveralone5166
      @foreveralone5166 Před 7 lety +14

      Destiny Parks If u love me dont let go

    • @destinyparks2820
      @destinyparks2820 Před 7 lety +23

      +Gymnastics Forever ahhhh oh if u love me dont let go😞....I like this song because I can't decide idea how to tell my family that I am a bisexual

  • @Dance-fp7jc
    @Dance-fp7jc Před 4 lety +701

    You never realize how much you will miss someone until their gone

    • @okayno9316
      @okayno9316 Před 3 lety +4

      So true😔

    • @michellefausto6343
      @michellefausto6343 Před 3 lety +5

      It’s to late to get them back 😭🥺💔

    • @okayno9316
      @okayno9316 Před 3 lety +3

      @@michellefausto6343 yea..

    • @imunetive
      @imunetive Před 3 lety +2

      exactly what I say

    • @Dance-fp7jc
      @Dance-fp7jc Před 3 lety +1

      michelle fausto I just want to tell u go for it fight one last time to get them back after a year I decided to just do it and I got then back x

  • @luckycharmsbih
    @luckycharmsbih Před 3 lety +27

    You never realized how attached you were to somebody until they leave😔

  • @britanilarsen7150
    @britanilarsen7150 Před 3 lety +26

    This song has been so hard to hear. Every time I listen I cry. This song hits way too deep

    • @jadenlester8688
      @jadenlester8688 Před rokem

      Me and my long distance boyfriend are going though a rough time and rn I feel so unsteady and I hate it I feel so sad rn and like I wanna cry

  • @fluerxoyt8810
    @fluerxoyt8810 Před 5 lety +1393

    *When I open my eyes, I feel like I'm drowning, But when I close them I become numb, and all I can feel is pain*

  • @crystalcastlesgf
    @crystalcastlesgf Před 5 lety +3003

    When does the pain end?
    *When it ends you*

  • @vicki9886
    @vicki9886 Před 3 lety +140

    No one else just crying their eyes out to this in the middle of the night but silently so no one hears you, just me? K 🤠👍

    • @val7118
      @val7118 Před 3 lety

      Nooo meee everytime i hear it!💜

    • @usestarcode_wunwun672
      @usestarcode_wunwun672 Před 3 lety

      Reminds me of my brother who has tried to commit suicide so many times 😔

    • @saifreza2663
      @saifreza2663 Před 3 lety

      Bro it's 2 am rn lmao

    • @1d5sosfan2
      @1d5sosfan2 Před 2 lety

      It’s 1:22 at night and I’m having a breakdown and existential crisis I need help 😭😭😭

    • @Zaminyx
      @Zaminyx Před 2 lety

      My tears come from the actions I make. Not the songs I listen to

  • @alexakieffer1048
    @alexakieffer1048 Před 3 lety +47

    You are welcomed
    You are beautiful
    You are smart
    But most importantly
    You are loved, don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. We live in a twisted world. But that should not change you. ❤️

  • @connorscott4160
    @connorscott4160 Před 7 lety +2098

    This song reminds me of my dad who died in the Army. Will be missed :(

    • @smoresdip431
      @smoresdip431 Před 7 lety +13

      I am very sorrybto hear that... :( but where did he serve?

    • @connorscott4160
      @connorscott4160 Před 7 lety +9

      Afghanistan

    • @smoresdip431
      @smoresdip431 Před 7 lety +9

      +Connor Scott well again sorry to hear your loss... :(

    • @connorscott4160
      @connorscott4160 Před 7 lety +5

      Roma Imperium thanks man

    • @smoresdip431
      @smoresdip431 Před 7 lety +7

      +Connor Scott we will be there to comfort you my friend!

  • @nthabisengphillia5746
    @nthabisengphillia5746 Před 4 lety +4973

    Who is here broken in the first months of 2020😭

  • @Hamstaa7
    @Hamstaa7 Před 2 lety +5

    This song is so beatiful an sad at the same time. i feel it

  • @celebrity.editssss227
    @celebrity.editssss227 Před 2 lety +21

    For anyone going through a rough time, just remember this quote, “God gives the hardest battles to his strongest soldiers”. I grew up on that one! 💞 God loves you!

  • @fasho831
    @fasho831 Před 7 lety +1447

    Unsteady- the song that makes you write a paragraph about a sad part in your life in the comments

  • @zanestucker2191
    @zanestucker2191 Před 4 lety +437

    Dad, i know you're trying. To fight when you feel like flying
    this hit hard

    • @galaxyrises603
      @galaxyrises603 Před 4 lety +9

      hits harder than the belt

    • @kalihouse6371
      @kalihouse6371 Před 4 lety +2

      To the ppl who r here and lost there best friend that was there sister and was always there for them whenever they needed them im sorry

    • @cassysibley2266
      @cassysibley2266 Před 3 lety +4

      when I was crying I reached down to pet my dogs they were not there they were in my heart

    • @kimgreen8458
      @kimgreen8458 Před 3 lety

      I agree

    • @ninano4332
      @ninano4332 Před 3 lety +1

      I caant 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @alecbarber9608
    @alecbarber9608 Před 3 lety +13

    “Cause this house don’t feel like home” I felt that harder than I should’ve.

  • @catsarelikesokool9000
    @catsarelikesokool9000 Před 3 lety +64

    Dude this is my first time hearing this and im shaking-
    Is this normal?

  • @lovehopehope8238
    @lovehopehope8238 Před 7 lety +159

    I Pray that my mom stay strong get better I love you mama please stay with us ,your my life my heart my soul ❤

    • @spike_-pw9iz
      @spike_-pw9iz Před 7 lety +12

      Love Hope Hope is she still ok?

    • @sleepybrit_picklelover
      @sleepybrit_picklelover Před 7 lety +19

      Hey is your mother okay?I know you posted this four months ago but I just wanted to know if she is okay.

    • @jonathonflores4684
      @jonathonflores4684 Před 6 lety +1

      Love Hope Hope ik u posted this 4 months ago but God bless your whole family

    • @bethkelly4632
      @bethkelly4632 Před 3 lety +1

      Hope she gets better

  • @aubreymanry9030
    @aubreymanry9030 Před 4 lety +467

    To the people who
    *Held my hands*
    *Healed my burns*
    *Glued me back together*
    Let me go
    When it was my time to fly
    *But never left me alone*
    I will forever love you
    And fight for you
    Just ask

    • @kharismaticend5515
      @kharismaticend5515 Před 4 lety +3

      Hit different

    • @Mariana-vm1fz
      @Mariana-vm1fz Před 4 lety

      you might think its just another comment untill you realise its just a person like you whi is trying to survive this world

  • @amandafogarty466
    @amandafogarty466 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This song gives me chills every time I hear it!

  • @destiniecard4174
    @destiniecard4174 Před 2 lety +3

    “ I know you’re trying to fight when you feel like flying “ this gets to me so much. It’s been rough for the past month or so… I just feel like flying.

  • @dinosmorez
    @dinosmorez Před 4 lety +1655

    Who else gets cold chills through their whole body when listening to this song
    👇
    👇

  • @602.adriii
    @602.adriii Před 5 lety +2371

    *just another hurt person passing by, carry on*

    • @dniise.25
      @dniise.25 Před 5 lety +9

      You're not alone😪

    • @yves_santa7
      @yves_santa7 Před 5 lety +4

      Same man

    • @eef9624
      @eef9624 Před 4 lety +21

      Denise Perez we’re all just broken people telling broken people that they’re perfect ✨ they say the damaged are the most dangerous cause they know we’ll survive 💖

    • @shanayaallen295
      @shanayaallen295 Před 4 lety +1

      @@eef9624 thank you

    • @molliehesketh3700
      @molliehesketh3700 Před 4 lety +1

      *your not alone*

  • @marilyns6418
    @marilyns6418 Před 3 lety +14

    Anybody that grew up with divorced parents can definitely relate to this song...the endless fights, arguments, and hate. I’m 26 and I can still hear the screaming 😞

    • @numbernine3436
      @numbernine3436 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I'm so sorry you experienced that as a child. May your adult life be peaceful

  • @victoriawilson2313
    @victoriawilson2313 Před 2 lety +2

    Life is too short tell that person you love them tomorrow is never promised ❤

  • @levipicturesxd1050
    @levipicturesxd1050 Před 7 lety +223

    As a child you never expect bad things to happen. But once they do, you wish that you can believe in what you believed in as a child.

    • @LimeLion12
      @LimeLion12 Před 7 lety +3

      LeviPicturesXD
      well said, man

    • @marisolrey7602
      @marisolrey7602 Před 7 lety

      udlhnek

    • @emilyrobinson5782
      @emilyrobinson5782 Před 7 lety +8

      i feel like eveeryone is growing up and im being left behind!i still want to be a kid sometimes everything just gets too much!im only 14!i want to make it last as long possible

    • @aro_kc459
      @aro_kc459 Před 7 lety +7

      Same here! Everybody is all like "oh what do you want to do when you grow up? What are you gonna do for college? You're gonna have to drive soon!" I don't know what I want to do when I grow up and I'm honestly kinda scared of growing up. Heck, my little bro doesn't want to grow up, hes already worried about middle school and he's only ten! Sometimes I wish Neverland was real so my bro and I could go there, even if it was only temporary.

    • @savannamangrum9241
      @savannamangrum9241 Před 7 lety

      LeviPicturesXD i agree

  • @SexyRose612
    @SexyRose612 Před 5 lety +305

    When that beat drops I swear my chest caves in like everything is hitting me at once and for a split second I forget how to breathe

  • @Lena-rs7ym
    @Lena-rs7ym Před 3 lety +17

    Whenever I listen to this song my stomach caved and I feel like I can’t breath

  • @adela315
    @adela315 Před 2 lety +4

    I was the unsteady kid singing this version to my parents. I’ve now grown into the unsteady mother fighting alone for our kids, so that they won’t feel that unsteadiness. It’s harder keeping it together as an adult. Trying to keep a sane face for the kids, when you’re actually dying inside!

  • @soiejdojdijenoodeisidjjdis7136

    My best friend Logan on August 14, 2015 died of cancer. I was the last person to hear his voice. I told him "I'm staying by your side no matter what". He said "Xandyr, I will be ok, don't forget me ever". I told him "I'll never forget you". His heart monitor went silent. I screamed " Logan, Logan answer me please, please answer me please don't go!". I had to be dragged out of the hospital room. I cried for seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years. Logan was the only person that believed in me, my parents abandoned me. My mom was a drug addict and my dad is an alcoholic and he beat me. I remember running away from my abusive parents in the middle of the night and running to logan's house to sleep in his room. He protected me from my parents. He kept me alive. He made me feel important and actually worth something. When my birthday would happen, he would walk me to these beautiful woods behind his house and we would have a picnic with all my favorite foods. I was hiding a secret from him. I was Transgender. I was a boy. One day on my birthday, I finally got the courage to tell him. I said "Logan, I'm Transgender. I'm a boy". He gave me a gigantic hug, and then he gave me a kiss, and he said, "good thing because I'm gay". We laughed and never left eachother side. He was my light, my sky, my world, my universe. He was the love of my life. But he got ripped out of my life too early. When he died, I got dragged out of the hospital by security, I immediately ran to a table, grabbed a scalpel and slit my wrist. I had to go to a mental hospital for 3 years. My depression got so bad. One day, I cut so deep, I had to go to the hospital. But when this song came out, I realized that Logan was in a better place. He Is in so much pain before but now he's safe. He wouldn't want me to sit around and mope about him. He would Want me to go on with my life. I have moved on but I'll never find someone as perfect as him. I love you logan. I miss you logan... everyday of me life.

    • @carguy545
      @carguy545 Před 6 lety +252

      Daddy's Lil Monster Quinn, This actually the saddest story, or whatever. Really this is the saddest thing I ever read, and I am very sorry for you lose. 🙏

    • @soiejdojdijenoodeisidjjdis7136
      @soiejdojdijenoodeisidjjdis7136 Před 6 lety +188

      Conner Collette It's okay. I'm living a life where I'm away from my abusive parents, and accepted as a trans boy. Logan was such an amazing boy, but he's a lot safer now. even though he ain't here beside me, he still in my heart.

    • @kharmaploy
      @kharmaploy Před 6 lety +164

      you just made you cry so hard, I love you

    • @soiejdojdijenoodeisidjjdis7136
      @soiejdojdijenoodeisidjjdis7136 Před 6 lety +45

      Andrea Lee ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

    • @joshuachoc4479
      @joshuachoc4479 Před 6 lety +19

      K.... should suck

  • @michaellau3284
    @michaellau3284 Před 4 lety +1591

    "My first love was never Eve. It was you, Chloe. It always has been."
    -Lucifer

    • @erikacano4373
      @erikacano4373 Před 4 lety +12

      Michael Lau yaaasss omgg 🥺🥺🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧

    • @nojimmyprotested305
      @nojimmyprotested305 Před 4 lety +22

      yasssss LUCIFER

    • @fameix1
      @fameix1 Před 4 lety +46

      And when lucy get back from hell to save chloe from the poison.

    • @ericyang504
      @ericyang504 Před 4 lety +36

      You just spoiled this for me...but holy crap...that hit me hard...

    • @quanchiyoto808
      @quanchiyoto808 Před 4 lety +2

      @@ericyang504 same bro

  • @mikayoung5578
    @mikayoung5578 Před rokem +5

    Brings instant tears to my eyes cus I feel it just that much. Haven't heard this song until I heard it on the radio the other day and it hits the same like the first time I ever heard it

  • @JenMason8734
    @JenMason8734 Před rokem +10

    Still hits hard.
    6 years 6 days ago my daddy passed.
    I'm sure a lot of folks can resonate with the lyrics. 💞💞💞 Time heals all wounds is what I've heard, however I'm not sure that's entirely accurate.
    Still hurts.

  • @cringeylife5425
    @cringeylife5425 Před 6 lety +250

    “Cause this house don’t feel like home” got me

  • @duchessainsoph8078
    @duchessainsoph8078 Před 8 lety +73

    I dedicate this this song to my mommy and papa that I miss and love forever and ever.

  • @hollyspence9575
    @hollyspence9575 Před rokem +7

    I had to dance to this for my schools competitive dance team audition today, I have to say its a great song to dance to with a lot of emotion that you can let out of you whilst dancing🤍

  • @lifewithtich2023
    @lifewithtich2023 Před 3 lety +4

    It’s so hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember🥺😔

  • @katrinacrawford1936
    @katrinacrawford1936 Před 6 lety +769

    I lost my mom, she was only 49 when she died and I was 19. when this song says "momma, come here approach, appear" its what I wish could happen. currently I live with my dad, he's an alcoholic also bipolar schizophrenic. Him and I do not get along at all. When the song says "daddy, I'm alone cause this house don't feel like home" it hits pretty hard.

    • @kariatravishall9062
      @kariatravishall9062 Před 5 lety +17

      I was also 19 when my mom passed of cancer she was my rock my everything I know your

    • @thefictionalromancefanatic3748
      @thefictionalromancefanatic3748 Před 5 lety +15

      I'm really sorry for your loss, I hope everything turns out alright for you in the end. I wish I can empathise with you, but I can't, hence why this reply is a lot more sincere than most will be. Just remember, whether people show it or not, someone does love you dearly and your mother is watching you from above, a huge grin on her face; she's so proud of you. If you want to talk, I don't know I'm not really good at this, text me on Twitter: @Amira29140563

    • @stepho_is_ded8559
      @stepho_is_ded8559 Před 5 lety +10

      i feel for ya. im 11 and not that long ago, my mom died when i was 10. the second verse makes me feel so empty. and realizing to tell my dad it doesn't feel like home, is pretty hard, too.

    • @luhgucciii5251
      @luhgucciii5251 Před 5 lety +3

      katrina crawford This hit me

    • @chirochill5744
      @chirochill5744 Před 5 lety +6

      I'm sorry for your loss know your not alone and you will never be alone I'm here and everyone else is to so keep on going

  • @katex7136
    @katex7136 Před 5 lety +217

    "this house don't feel like home" so true

    • @valeriealmirola9875
      @valeriealmirola9875 Před 5 lety

      Lady Monster everything okay ?

    • @yves_santa7
      @yves_santa7 Před 5 lety

      Nothing will feel like home that's just how it is

    • @allyeditz-w-820
      @allyeditz-w-820 Před 4 lety

      I can relate because my mom is always being mean to me and she’s always negative and that’s my house doesn’t feel like home

  • @amberlawson7867
    @amberlawson7867 Před 2 lety +7

    my mom passed due to covid,this song just hits hard now i use to sing it all the time with no thought now i cry the lines "mother i know your tired of being alone" and "dad i know your trying when you feel like flying" hits so hard when i seen what it did to him to lose her

  • @zero-fr6hm
    @zero-fr6hm Před 2 lety +7

    I used to listen to this song years ago, but I have never realised its meaning, until today, the lyrics just hit me hard

  • @marirodriguez9665
    @marirodriguez9665 Před 6 lety +55

    “Mom I know your tired of being alone Dad I know your trying to fight when you feel like flying.” 😭😭that hit me in the feels

  • @B2UTY7698B2STY210FAN
    @B2UTY7698B2STY210FAN Před 4 lety +398

    Cause this house don’t feel like home ... this hit me hard ... 💔

  • @brittneybabeee4031
    @brittneybabeee4031 Před rokem +3

    I’m a mom fighting terrible depression rn and this song is reminding me to keep fighting. My kids will never be unsteady as long as I live so I will keeping living.

    • @piperdruzaris2902
      @piperdruzaris2902 Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you for being the mother I only wish I had. Keep ur head up 😤

    • @brittneybabeee4031
      @brittneybabeee4031 Před 9 měsíci

      @@piperdruzaris2902 I’m so sorry you didn’t get to have the mom you deserve. Are you doing okay now? I hope so.
      & Thank you, I’m hanging in there. ❤️

  • @TheCornCobbler
    @TheCornCobbler Před 6 lety +478

    This is the song that was played at my mother's funeral. God I miss my momma. I love you momma 🙏❤

    • @jesseshaddox24
      @jesseshaddox24 Před 6 lety +14

      Jake Dimon - I fucking feel that pain brother. I miss my momma soo damn much to!! I felt her go cold when I was 12. And life has just been one hell of a rollcoaster ever since then.. I turned 20 a few months ago. Although, Our Momma's wisdom and love is still there. Her teachings and memories are something that will forever live on within our selves so long as we keep it there.. I just wanted to say, I am sorry. And though some other's may say it, I truly mean it. I know how it feels. you're not alone. you really never are. With much love from Cali bro.. - Godbless

    • @melaniec3333
      @melaniec3333 Před 6 lety +2

      Jacob Dimon amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @leslime9399
      @leslime9399 Před 5 lety +3

      Jesse Shaddox so sorry

    • @jackmichhoffnickkerr2745
      @jackmichhoffnickkerr2745 Před 5 lety +6

      I cant relate but I do feel your pain bruh couldn't live with myself if I lost my only mother 👏🏾❤

    • @theesacyrus6963
      @theesacyrus6963 Před 5 lety +3

      Jacob Dimon we played this at my aunt's funeral

  • @noeliapilar718
    @noeliapilar718 Před 4 lety +2025

    Lucifer makes this song hurt more than it should

    • @soraya.2x
      @soraya.2x Před 4 lety +81

      wait... that’s so weird. I just started singing this outta nowhere and i’m watching lucifer rn . idk if i heard it already but it’s just weird .....

    • @nikkikennedy8728
      @nikkikennedy8728 Před 4 lety +83

      Yes! Lucifer gets me right in the feelies all the time. Like no other show ever has.

    • @nikkikennedy8728
      @nikkikennedy8728 Před 4 lety +102

      @@soraya.2x it's in season 2 episode 13 right near the end. One of the most beautiful and powerful scenes of the entire series for me😭

    • @soraya.2x
      @soraya.2x Před 4 lety +18

      Nikki Kennedy That makes so much sense for me now and honestly it really is , end of season 3 and 4 is so powerful to me too

    • @nikkikennedy8728
      @nikkikennedy8728 Před 4 lety +23

      @@soraya.2xOMG I know! I just binged Lucifer for the first time a couple of weeks ago. I've watched it twice all the way through now, and I've watched the season 4 ending scene at least 20 times. I've never cried so hard at a TV show in my life! I literally stopped breathing when I realized that she was about to say "I love you" and then she did...and I proceeded to bawl like a baby in the fetal position for the next half hour lol. By far that was my favorite moment of any show or movie, I cry every time❤
      This show has so many beautiful moments

  • @humanincarnate316
    @humanincarnate316 Před 2 lety +6

    4 years ago, when my dad had something happen in his brain that made him mean, I sobbed to this song. Things are a little better now, but my house still doesn't feel like home.

  • @anthonyryot7381
    @anthonyryot7381 Před 3 lety +9

    My parents literally bought this house 14 years ago and my dad passed 9years ago from cancer my mom moved 8 hrs away they were together for over 28 years I'm now in this house with my dog, this house feels like an empty shell. This song hits hard every time I listen to it.

  • @c1ph3rr9
    @c1ph3rr9 Před 5 lety +160

    This song makes me so emotional, you can hear the sadness in his voice.

  • @nikkibrown4076
    @nikkibrown4076 Před 5 lety +210

    Depression, and this really hits home for me. "Hold on to me, cause I'm a little unsteady."

  • @rachealstanuszek2390
    @rachealstanuszek2390 Před 2 lety +4

    Dad, I know you're trying to fight when you feel like flying. This part hits hard. I just lost my dad almost 3 weeks ago and I think this is how he felt. He had a lot of health issues and was always trying to fight when he felt like just letting go and this last time he went into the ICU and he was just tired of fighting. His body had enough, and after the machines were stopped, he was gone in less than a half hour. It was because he was tired of fighting. I miss tf out of him right now.

  • @alexnice2221
    @alexnice2221 Před 2 lety +3

    If you are jobless currently ,know that you are not alone. I was fired in Feb 5th 2021, on a cold rainy Friday morning from an abusive job, Its July 2021 still no work, savings running out. I have 2K in penny stocks and one day I will turn it into 100K while getting a job, a wife, kids, house and a future for my family. Don't give up, you are not alone in your struggles

  • @jeffwhitworth2598
    @jeffwhitworth2598 Před 5 lety +1619

    my cousin just got over stage 4 brain cancer hallelujah and thank god

    • @keliswhite5843
      @keliswhite5843 Před 5 lety +37

      Jeff Whitworth god bless your cousin. Hope they live the rest of their life happy and healthy ❤️

    • @jessicacollins7161
      @jessicacollins7161 Před 5 lety +2

      @@keliswhite5843 u hh Kelly mn be kokkkkk k love love tje
      Davis z, xx xx. Be been a. Dclqfn, have k I'mm! I'm not me my a

    • @sitinabilah1211
      @sitinabilah1211 Před 5 lety +11

      Alhamdullillah, god bless her/him

    • @sitinabilah1211
      @sitinabilah1211 Před 5 lety +6

      @Samantha Martinez i'm so sorry for her💔 may her rest in peace

    • @yves_santa7
      @yves_santa7 Před 5 lety +2

      That's awesome 😁

  • @journiseedeberry
    @journiseedeberry Před 3 lety +139

    Daddy this house don't feel like home I felt that part🥺💔

  • @Kuromimybias
    @Kuromimybias Před rokem +3

    In a world where good and bad days go by like a heartbeat, there are people or in the case songs that remind us that life doesn't always have to be like this. They remind us that even when it seems that time is disappearing and memories are fading that no matter what you are going thru, everything will be ok. No matter how you feel, whether your alone or with love ones there's always a time or a day when you feel at your worse and it's ok, it's ok to feel that way because it show progress, it shows how much you grew and how much you have to overcome. You don't need to be perfect in a world where everyone makes mistakes because nobody's perfect. No one.

  • @sarahmeador6343
    @sarahmeador6343 Před 2 lety +1

    I know this is about parents splitting and their child asking them to stay together for his sake. For me though this song is a representation of the trauma I experienced. My dad had cancer it was an extremely tough battle. My dad was diagnosed, then a few months later he had surgery. He caught pneumonia from the hospital and it was literally all down hill from there. He was in the hospital for what felt like forever but it was 6 months. It was incredibly tough I was only 14, still growing up. All my siblings were grown. I'm 20 now and I'm finally dealing with all the trauma after years of running and ignoring the pain. If you ever had a family member that fought cancer. It's a heart breaking experience. You watch someone strong, so full of life and love and light, just deteriorate right in front of your eyes. With him being in the hospital while my mom and I still had to continue life and work and go to school. Because unfortunately life doesn't stop when your whole world is crumbling. I can only imagine what he thought. Did he think that we didn't love him? Mind you, he had a trach which prevented him from speaking to us. It was frustrating to say the least and even more heart breaking. The only words that I could ever make out of him saying is "I love you so very much." That was enough. My dad fought hard but don't think I don't remember him mouthing the word to my mom that he wanted to die. Because who wouldn't after so much pain and you feel like you're a burden to your family. I wanted to badly just for things to be different. I wanted to just have my dad healthy and happy. He wasn't happy, far from it. He kept fighting, which I'm not really sure why. because as time went it got worse. Who knew it could get worse? It didn't seem possible but it did. It got harder and harder. One day I noticed there wasn't much of anyone left in his body, he had been so beaten down and broken, he was almost a hallow of a person. I went to see him on weekend and it was the first time I ever cried in front of him during all of this. I was apologizing and crying. I told him, " daddy you can go if you want, we're going to be okay. I know you're hurting." He showed no emotion and he looked at me and mouthed the words "go". I don't remember exactly what I said to him but he kept telling me to go and I didn't want to leave. I was sick of this and I just wanted my dad to be home, happy, and healthy. After telling me go so many times, with an expressionless face. I reluctantly left. I can only imagine what he thought. cause I'll never know. That following Thursday my dad passed away. The feeling I felt after was confusing to say the least. I felt relief that he wasn't in pain but I was so heartbroken that I lost my dad and my dad was my protector and best friend. He was gone. It still hurts just as much as it did then. I say that as I'm bawling my eyes out typing this. I need to talk about it though I've hidden it away for so long. My dad was a huge part of my life, that not going away. I spent the last year really running from it and getting into a bit of an alcohol addiction to cope. I don't want that for my life, my dad wouldn't want that for my life.

  • @bingbong4061
    @bingbong4061 Před 4 lety +560

    It’s amazing how in the real world it seems like no one understands you, but here...the comments is filled with people who have the same troubles as many of us do

    • @danielleboisselle4514
      @danielleboisselle4514 Před 4 lety +30

      We all hide behind masks. In public. No one can see my face here.

    • @davidb2572
      @davidb2572 Před 4 lety +7

      Preach brother or sister preach

    • @mclovin8398
      @mclovin8398 Před 4 lety +2

      Yes!

    • @annieramirez8803
      @annieramirez8803 Před 4 lety +3

      FOR REALLLL

    • @lepomeranian4478
      @lepomeranian4478 Před 4 lety +7

      i actually don't act like i have problems or anything bothering me sooooo...(in pubic and with my family) but i'm kinda sad in real life on my own they say it's just a phase😒

  • @ffs2410
    @ffs2410 Před 6 lety +682

    'dad i know you're trying to fight when you feel like flying'
    this line always gets to me.

    • @Ryan-mi2bf
      @Ryan-mi2bf Před 6 lety +9

      WhyParkJiminWhenYouCanRideEm me too...my dad's suicidal and its a daily battle of "will he make it"

    • @tieracurtis2750
      @tieracurtis2750 Před 6 lety +2

      WhyParkJiminWhenYouCanRideEm - that's the line that breaks me down too

    • @gabriellerivera6492
      @gabriellerivera6492 Před 6 lety +2

      Rya Knoche awe I’m sorry keep your head up❤️💞🙏🏼

    • @ew.yasmin
      @ew.yasmin Před 6 lety +2

      Sending my prayers x

    • @meannoharm1561
      @meannoharm1561 Před 6 lety +8

      me too my dad flew leaving kids behind and mother alone. i was 3 years old baby brother about 7 weeks old. she left mentally now i'm in 50's and they both gone that makes losing them twice

  • @Ghostie290
    @Ghostie290 Před rokem +1

    this song means so much to me in a different way. My uncle passed away some years ago from falling backwards off a scaffolding and landed on his head, He was hospitalized and gave the option to live from a machine or pass away. And he was put to rest, he wouldn't have had a quality life it was for the best. Everytime I hear this song I think of my uncle because it says "Unsteady". and I took that meaning completely different then the main interpretation of the song. He was unsteady when he fell and that's why it hurts to hear this song, but it is also a way of remembering him for the man he was. He made my childhood wonderful and he was a role model to me. He was my best friend and a true uncle. He wasn't a uncle by blood he was my dads best friend, but he was more of a uncle then any blood uncle could be. Rest in peace Uncle Richard, I miss you so much let your love live on in my heart

  • @user-qr2xd6dk1j
    @user-qr2xd6dk1j Před 4 měsíci +1

    This was played at my childhood friends funeral. Meant so much to me.. thank yew

  • @Sara-wh7hh
    @Sara-wh7hh Před 5 lety +344

    I haven’t felt heartbreak in my life *which I am thankful for* yet this song makes me cry for all the people that have felt heartbreak. *This is true music.*

    • @andrewsnow2519
      @andrewsnow2519 Před 5 lety +9

      God bless your innocent soul. I hope you never have to go through the pain of a heartbreak. It causes so much pain and stress that it literally causes tendons in your heart to tear, causing your heart to beat irregularly. Heartbreaks can actually kill you. But after enough of the pain, you slowly become numb. It's a horrible way to live. Good luck and I genuinely hope you never have to deal with this.

    • @rxse.flxwer4712
      @rxse.flxwer4712 Před 5 lety +3

      Sara B. I have I moved away from my mother because it wasn’t same there...... I cry about it every night I haven’t seen her in 5 years

    • @Sara-wh7hh
      @Sara-wh7hh Před 5 lety +4

      Monet Walker I’m so sorry to hear that, maybe you can call her? You should talk to her, see what’s going on. I’m pretty sure you’d feel a whole lot better if you talked to her.

    • @rxse.flxwer4712
      @rxse.flxwer4712 Před 5 lety +3

      Sara B. I can’t talk to her. I have no way to she doesn’t even send us things

    • @Sara-wh7hh
      @Sara-wh7hh Před 5 lety +3

      Monet Walker wow, that’s tough. Maybe try-make connections, talk to family members?

  • @b-dog2635
    @b-dog2635 Před 5 lety +845

    Have you ever felt that you say "I'm okay" To many times when in reality you're really not, and you just want someone to come up to you and ask " Are you really okay". Cause I'd love that instead if always worrying about everyone else instead if my own self

    • @channelawesome433
      @channelawesome433 Před 4 lety

      B -dog u okay

    • @kristalfrank767
      @kristalfrank767 Před 4 lety +9

      B -dog I can relate to that I always put everybody else first even when I'm a little unsteady lol that's my condition though missing someone that iI LOVE VERY MUCH MISS SEEING TALKING SOMETIMES WE TAKE FOR GRANITE THE BEAUTIFUL CRAZY PEOPLE WE HAVE IN OUR LIVES
      FOREVER G

    • @joshgreen9193
      @joshgreen9193 Před 4 lety +6

      I feel your pain .. more than I'll ever be able to say

    • @magic_blue_angel1045
      @magic_blue_angel1045 Před 4 lety +3

      You just spoke for me. And no I'm okay I'm struggling so bad

    • @avocadoesareamazing7179
      @avocadoesareamazing7179 Před 4 lety +3

      Ikr 😔 that’s so true and relatable. When someone asks if I’m okay I sometimes have to lie or else I’ll just burst into tears infront of them.. sometimes it’s infront of other people, so many other people so I have to hold back the tears with all my strength. It’s one of my weaknesses, being too emotional and overreacting to the smallest things.

  • @sharondathomson3186
    @sharondathomson3186 Před rokem +5

    To the people with daddy issues and mommy issues just know we’ll be okay we just got take time to heal and to know how to love ourselves more.

  • @randyjohnston8604
    @randyjohnston8604 Před 2 lety +2

    You never realize how big a moment is until it's a memory..... or a regret. Both can haunt you.

  • @verna-Raven
    @verna-Raven Před 7 lety +97

    when my dad passed away this song came out... never related to a song so much in my life as I do this song

    • @cuevasmario1
      @cuevasmario1 Před 7 lety +1

      sorry to hear that

    • @foxyisadorable7107
      @foxyisadorable7107 Před 7 lety +2

      River same but my year 20 old dog died 😧😧😦😦😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @chrisl1811
      @chrisl1811 Před 7 lety +9

      my mom passed in May of this year and this song was throughout and after.. my condolences and stay strong homie

    • @stephaniephelps3317
      @stephaniephelps3317 Před 7 lety +6

      my dad just passed in June and every bad day I just play this song over and over again. we feel it but maybe were not alone...

    • @jjjaylynn
      @jjjaylynn Před 7 lety +1

      River I swear tears literally filled my eyes and I read your comment just now I'm so sorry and this is a wonderful son for you situation I'm sure ur father is in a better place

  • @nightstream6822
    @nightstream6822 Před 7 lety +286

    X Ambassadors: If you love me, don't let go. . .
    P!ATD: If you love me, let me go!