Stealing From a Daughter

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  • čas přidán 16. 01. 2024
  • The plaintiff’s father, the defendant, opened up a bank account for her to deposit a government grant she received for college. However, the plaintiff says her dad stole the money, so she’s suing. The defendant argues the money is his, and the plaintiff spent some of the funds to go on a trip with her boyfriend.
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  • @hannahbaker007
    @hannahbaker007 Před 5 měsíci +847

    It’s nice to see a different case that’s not a car accident, dog bite, or a damn rental issue

    • @deethesinga6030
      @deethesinga6030 Před 5 měsíci +13

      Agreed!!!!! So tired of those cases!!

    • @mimim8532
      @mimim8532 Před 5 měsíci +8

      ….or damn rental issue….love it

    • @Someonehastosayit1010
      @Someonehastosayit1010 Před 5 měsíci +4

      U ain't neva lied in my sons voice

    • @MrSturdystratus
      @MrSturdystratus Před 5 měsíci +16

      Except it sucks to see a daughter sue her dad :/

    • @Veronica-ly2md
      @Veronica-ly2md Před 5 měsíci +7

      if anyone could link a playlist to the few unique episodes that don’t feature car accidents, dog attacks, landlord drama, loan repayment disputes, etc…that would be great lol

  • @simplystar6601
    @simplystar6601 Před 5 měsíci +308

    He didn’t have to share the family secrets 😢

    • @jsaleh415
      @jsaleh415 Před 5 měsíci

      He is a narcissist ..that technique called flooding the zone in hopes of winning over the judge by telling shocking or constant bomb shells of info

    • @hippie_ish
      @hippie_ish Před 5 měsíci +24

      ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ Completely agree! It was so unnecessary I hate when these people come on here and air dirty laundry! Y'all need family therapy and to stop this madness

    • @juliewhite8274
      @juliewhite8274 Před 5 měsíci +13

      If it were even true. He came out looking like an angry man. And I’m pretty sure he was lying about it to some degree.

    • @KittyLewinsky7
      @KittyLewinsky7 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Judge asked & he told.

    • @Tony-ov2cj
      @Tony-ov2cj Před 5 měsíci

      He just tell the truth, her mother is a crackhole

  • @888-93
    @888-93 Před 5 měsíci +397

    What in the ‘Samuel L. Jackson’ is going on HERE! 😂😮

    • @_LadyWhistledown_
      @_LadyWhistledown_ Před 5 měsíci +28

      Lmaoooooo yooo I saw the thumbnail and was like ill be back when the comments marinated.

    • @kenaugustin396
      @kenaugustin396 Před 5 měsíci +6

      ill be damn shii😂😂

    • @naiboogieb6587
      @naiboogieb6587 Před 5 měsíci +3

      😂😂

    • @courtney6505
      @courtney6505 Před 5 měsíci +7

      😂 I clicked on this video with the quickness

    • @Lauren80s
      @Lauren80s Před 5 měsíci +8

      Is it a disguise maybe? 😂

  • @scooneil
    @scooneil Před 5 měsíci +107

    I half expected the defendant to break into the Soul Glo jingle with that jheri curl, haha.

  • @ohcaptainmycaptain4829
    @ohcaptainmycaptain4829 Před 5 měsíci +133

    The plaintiff needs to get her own bank account.

    • @sws316
      @sws316 Před 5 měsíci +3

      It’s possible that her dad would have to sign a waiver to agree to give up his right to access the joint account. I was on a joint account with my mom until I was 20. If she didn’t agree to waiver her rights to the account, she would have had access to it until I was 25. That was my bank’s policy.
      Edit: the max age could have been a few years lower, but I don’t remember

    • @deetheefoodie
      @deetheefoodie Před 5 měsíci +3

      She more than likely has another account that she uses on the regular. Especially since it took her 2 years to realize the money had been transferred.

  • @albertol9654
    @albertol9654 Před 5 měsíci +88

    The defendant out here looking like Big Worm from Friday.

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Před 5 měsíci +241

    Why did he bring up her not knowing who her father is?? Then bringing up her mom getting pregnant with her by a drug dealer for drugs?? Wow. I doubt that relationship is gonna be repaired.

    • @dhodges1911
      @dhodges1911 Před 5 měsíci +23

      I'm willing to bet you that she holds her mother in high regards, while he's been picking up the slack for 16yrs.🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @pjaypender1009
      @pjaypender1009 Před 5 měsíci

      He deserves to be held in low regard. He's treated her differently due to his belief about her provenance--which they both know is unconfirmed--when legally she is his daughter because she was born while he was married to her mother. The "biological daughter" bullshit is bullshit.

    • @jenniferodessa5998
      @jenniferodessa5998 Před 5 měsíci

      @@dhodges1911right may the truth come out

    • @riseagain9677
      @riseagain9677 Před 5 měsíci +9

      He was right to bring it up

    • @MilliyVee
      @MilliyVee Před 5 měsíci +8

      The judge asked

  • @derrickjones6442
    @derrickjones6442 Před 5 měsíci +411

    The defendant is wearing a pulp fiction wig.

  • @asiafisher8775
    @asiafisher8775 Před 5 měsíci +229

    Oh snap the father just told it allll!

    • @gt43025
      @gt43025 Před 5 měsíci +13

      Yes he did 😳

    • @p.o.p2077
      @p.o.p2077 Před 5 měsíci +13

      😮 I was like woah

    • @Neenaross214
      @Neenaross214 Před 5 měsíci +9

      I think we probably all had a jaw dropping moment or 3 lol

    • @Sophie-mm7ow
      @Sophie-mm7ow Před 5 měsíci +15

      I think the comments he made about her mother and that she was the product of an affair with the drug dealer really changed her feelings. It was clear that she was hurt by his comments, and her older sister was trying to comfort her. When he agreed to take on the role of her father and didn't want her mother to tell her differently, he also took on the role of supporting her. Whether she knew the truth or not, he was the adult and "knowingly chose" to take on that role. Either you're going to step up completely or you're not, you don't get to change your mind when it comes to being a parent, especially not after 16 years. You can't charge your minor child for supporting them. They didn't ask to be born...

    • @Tahiha
      @Tahiha Před 5 měsíci +5

      As he had a right to do. The judge asked about the family dynamics. Women aren’t the only ones who are cheated on and hurt.

  • @frankcb11
    @frankcb11 Před 5 měsíci +182

    Yeah this was a tough one. Seeing her reaction I don’t think the dad was as good as the judge thought.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 5 měsíci +10

      judge is so dumb when it comes to immigrant parents

    • @panamafernandez4641
      @panamafernandez4641 Před 5 měsíci +1

      That didn't have anything to do with being an Immigrant. That man is just spiteful. A complete jerk.

    • @jennross6466
      @jennross6466 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@marilynwillett804 Nowhere was it stated they were an immigrant family. Stop with this cr*p.

    • @jennross6466
      @jennross6466 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Judge Milian didn't get to hear what the plaintiff was saying about her father in the hallway while she was speaking with Doug. She stated that her father would hit them. The defendant seems to be one of those controlling dads. God knows what else happened in their household.

    • @10181ngh
      @10181ngh Před 29 dny +1

      I hate when the judge knows litigants for mere minutes and decides to say some out of pocket statement about family togetherness at the end of a case. The dad pulled some dark family secrets out of the closet FOR NO REASON and the judge still played the, "I think he was trying to do what was best for you" card. The judge was so out of line.

  • @kaulana764
    @kaulana764 Před 5 měsíci +38

    So glad she got her money. He literally stole it from her.

    • @peryole
      @peryole Před 9 dny

      She should have reported it to the IRS, stealing a Pell Grant is a serious crime, any amount is a felony and if she'd reported it to the IRS or student aid he would have not only been required to pay it back he could go to jail for it for a long time.

  • @dance4life1208
    @dance4life1208 Před 5 měsíci +125

    Im glad the judge asked questions about the family dynamics

    • @mickm6309
      @mickm6309 Před 5 měsíci +7

      But I think she felt that maybe she went a bit to far, at 9.50 when she sighs I just felt that she didn't want to hear anymore.

    • @shaydaslays
      @shaydaslays Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​@@mickm6309because the daughter looked extremely uncomfortable. As a mom she felt for the young lady

    • @kakishisfriend1126
      @kakishisfriend1126 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yea I was really nosey but I feel bad for the plaintiff. She was clearly hurt and upset this was all exposed.

  • @tiedavidson2905
    @tiedavidson2905 Před 5 měsíci +459

    I think the judge misunderstood his reasons for saying it was his money. He felt like he was claiming it as a debt owed to him for money he spent on her over the years.

    • @TheAray6
      @TheAray6 Před 5 měsíci +96

      Thank you! He was being malicious. JM has a soft spot for parents and it gets in the way of her understanding that just because someone is your parent doesn’t mean they will do right by you. The fact that he got on TV and started spilling all the tea about him not being the father and mother cheating with the drug dealer! Ridiculous!

    • @AJ-hz4cg
      @AJ-hz4cg Před 5 měsíci +63

      She understood him. He and the judge said it. But for some reason she was trying to twist the narrative in his favor as a “concerned father”. He wasn’t even trying to do that on his own behalf.

    • @NKhan-yx3wl
      @NKhan-yx3wl Před 5 měsíci +22

      She does understand her but the GRANTS ARE IN HER NAME, it’s her money, she has to pay that back.

    • @Radiante3
      @Radiante3 Před 5 měsíci +29

      I think JM was trying to salvage their relationship and avoid it becoming a criminal case. I agree he took the money because he felt he was owed.

    • @magicworld3242
      @magicworld3242 Před 5 měsíci +18

      The defendant was trying to say. The checks were being deposited into a joint account he had with his daughter . But, he gave his daughter all the money and more. She said her father was giving her money every month for books and everything else. The money in the account was his money, not hers. The defendant's English isn't good. So, he had a hard time explaining to the judge.

  • @alexsisbutler9479
    @alexsisbutler9479 Před 5 měsíci +19

    The judge was putting words into the defendant's mouth that he didn't even say. She gave him way too much credit. He straight up said he felt like the money was his (with no real justification). Then for him to bring up the fact that she wasn't his biological daughter is messed up. It did nothing to aid his argument. He's toxic.

  • @suvariboy
    @suvariboy Před 5 měsíci +179

    The father at the end saying he doesn’t care if he sees his daughters again…that hurt. Then the daughter dropped a truth bomb. Ugh.

    • @Orlandoloc83
      @Orlandoloc83 Před 5 měsíci +20

      U missing the point he probably gave her way more money than what she’s suing for. Some people just be so ungrateful smh

    • @MatthewP2333
      @MatthewP2333 Před 5 měsíci +44

      @@Orlandoloc83she’s his daughter he should be giving her money. Children shouldn’t have to reimburse a parent

    • @keiariabailey8739
      @keiariabailey8739 Před 5 měsíci +30

      @@Orlandoloc83as a parent that’s what you’re supposed to do. You don’t get money back just because to laid down and had unprotected sex.

    • @Orlandoloc83
      @Orlandoloc83 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@MatthewP2333 u probably the same person who’s ok with kids paying back mothers tho lol

    • @lmoore3122
      @lmoore3122 Před 5 měsíci +6

      ​@@Orlandoloc83 what if she never had the grant money and he spent money on her as a caring parent, he still would've been without the money he chose to spend on his kid.

  • @Idontwantafuckinghandle588
    @Idontwantafuckinghandle588 Před 5 měsíci +119

    The dad thinks the money is his, but it’s not…. Nor is it his right to tell her what to do with it

    • @jenn_x.
      @jenn_x. Před 5 měsíci +16

      No matter how many times JM tried to spin it that he was just looking out for her, the defendant kept insisting that it was HIS money. No...government education grants don't work that way. 🙄

    • @BLKWMN68
      @BLKWMN68 Před 5 měsíci +2

      I took he was saying he gave her the money over time…

    • @FenderBender5150
      @FenderBender5150 Před 5 měsíci +1

      It seems to me like he didn't want her to just blow this money on some stupid boyfriend and use it for something more practical like a new car or law school or something.

    • @dawniipoo322
      @dawniipoo322 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@@FenderBender5150so steal it from her 😂

    • @Idontwantafuckinghandle588
      @Idontwantafuckinghandle588 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@BLKWMN68 he was saying, every time he gave her money or helped her out, it counted towards her grant money…. which does not fly without some kind of agreement.

  • @belindahill9093
    @belindahill9093 Před 5 měsíci +112

    How disgusting for that father to say in court that his daughter is not his and the mother cheated .it clearly upset the plaintiff 😢😢

    • @wezzman1
      @wezzman1 Před 5 měsíci +23

      But it's the truth. The truth hurts sometimes, grow up

    • @rissa69able
      @rissa69able Před 5 měsíci +19

      Not only that it’s the mom who put that messy ahit in the air!

    • @Tahiha
      @Tahiha Před 5 měsíci +11

      Let’s just ignore the part where the mother cheated. Therefore making it a possibility that the child isn’t his. Blame it all back on the man.

    • @aliciaq70
      @aliciaq70 Před 5 měsíci

      I agree

    • @YoungBlaze
      @YoungBlaze Před 5 měsíci

      You do know participation awards for 7th place are not considered awards

  • @searlesnews3268
    @searlesnews3268 Před 5 měsíci +142

    That man don’t like those kids. Judge is giving him WAY too much credit.

  • @fenrichvega6166
    @fenrichvega6166 Před 5 měsíci +65

    Well then,the judge couldn't be more wrong about this family not being broken. It's been broken for years. And the father was actually claiming the school money as his own like it was owed to him. Not cause of whatever the judge was tryna say. Wow,jm read this case all so wrong besides the verdict. Dude literally kept saying "it's my money" like 3 or more times

    • @mrsberryblessed
      @mrsberryblessed Před 5 měsíci +3

      I believe he was keeping so that she wouldn't use it on the boyfriend and only lied to say that it was his for a defense. I believe him when he said the sister told him about the vacation so she obviously saw an issue with it too.

    • @amandabrown6565
      @amandabrown6565 Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​@@mrsberryblessedI agree. He seen she was wasting the money so he moved it to his account. I wish I had a parent that done this for me. I blew through soooooo much money. I do have a financial advisor now but a big chuck is gone and I have nothing to show for it.

    • @Gunnerb52
      @Gunnerb52 Před 5 měsíci

      I agree with you. I am the father of 4 boys (34, 26, 24, 19) and 1 daughter (my youngest who is 12). I would never do this. If I was giving them money and they had a savings account I had access to I would never touch it. If I needed an emergency loan or something I would ask them. My oldest was living with me us even though he had a job. Partly because it was right before the pandemic but he is still with us. I have no problem with that and he pays a small amount and everything is covered except car payment and his CC. Food, water, electricity, phone, internet, insurance is covered. So he had a nice amount saved (10K). Wanted to buy a side of beef because it was cheaper but it was 1500 and I didn't have it at the time but I would in a few weeks. So I asked him and told him he would get it back. And I gave it back. Never have we said his money is our money because he is getting such a cheap deal living here. My other son has "borrowed" money a lot but doesn't live here. One time he wanted 1k and I said OK but things are tight right now I will need you to make payments of 100/month. He did 4 payments and stopped. I wrote it off. The other son asked for 200 till his check cleared so he would pay off a bill before he came to see me. Said he would give it back once he got his student money. I gave him 500 since he hasn't ever asked for money since he moved out to go to college. He said he would pay me back when he got his student loan in 1 month. Never happened and I never mentioned it. When my daughter gets older the same will be for her if I am able. To be honest I am 58 and will be 64 when she graduates so close to social security age :) So far no grandkids.

    • @musicallyinclined9180
      @musicallyinclined9180 Před 4 měsíci

      @@mrsberryblessedthat doesn’t make sense cause daughter said she didn’t touch the $ for two years in that account although she could’ve. Her and the sister both said he took the money two years ago and her vacation is current. When u add that all up it clearly has nothing to do with her “bad spending”

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Před 5 měsíci +76

    I believe he’s controlling and abusive like she said.

    • @missbehaven64
      @missbehaven64 Před 5 měsíci +5

      Well, I must not bother her too much because he’s been in her life the whole time and he’s been taking care of her and she still sees him as her daddy

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 5 měsíci

      no, dint you hear her in the hallway?????@@missbehaven64

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 5 měsíci +4

      he only paid for the house he lives in.

    • @TheAray6
      @TheAray6 Před 5 měsíci +16

      @@missbehaven64just because people are still around their abusers doesn’t mean that they are unbothered by their actions. Especially in a child parent relationship. Abuse in those situations create a lot of mixed feelings, denial and heartbreak.

    • @ameenahhorn9596
      @ameenahhorn9596 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@marilynwillett804 she was a whole child and yet talking about what he ONLY paid for how would she know or even comprehend unless he told her “ I only pay for the house you live in and no lights water, nor did I pay to put food in your mouth clothes on your back, shoes on your feet or any basic living expenses”. Like come on be fr.

  • @BridgetBanksBudget
    @BridgetBanksBudget Před 5 měsíci +67

    I remember a period of years when I never saw my mother because all she did was work 6 days a week to provide shelter and food for us. I would be damned to say all she did was pay for shelter and food 😂 if she didn’t work crazy hours we would have been on the street and starving. And because of her actions, my first check as a graduate I gave her as a thank you for being the real MVP.

  • @ronbaechle6476
    @ronbaechle6476 Před 5 měsíci +31

    The judge was too lenient on defendant. He took the money not out of some altruistic goodness to protect her. This was more he felt entitled

    • @missa1goins
      @missa1goins Před 5 měsíci

      The man was jealous of her having a boyfriend, listen to the opening

  • @chainsawsally1802
    @chainsawsally1802 Před 5 měsíci +201

    One of the only things that annoys me is JM always puts the parents in a high and mighty position. Some parents suck and don’t deserve to have their kids in their life

    • @elainevankat5353
      @elainevankat5353 Před 5 měsíci +6

      THANK YOU!!!! 💯

    • @SwordHMX
      @SwordHMX Před 5 měsíci +10

      Judy does the opposite

    • @jennross6466
      @jennross6466 Před 5 měsíci +19

      I think she does this because it gives her the chance to state how such a great parent she is. It's a moment for JM to toot her own horn. She seems to do this a lot and I sit here exclaiming,"Oh here we go again."🥱

    • @elainevankat5353
      @elainevankat5353 Před 5 měsíci

      @@jennross6466 So true!

    • @joejoerobinson8724
      @joejoerobinson8724 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Yeah, that was annoying. She was making it seem like the dad was protecting her by stealing her money yeah, right

  • @a.konadu4010
    @a.konadu4010 Před 5 měsíci +14

    The father said too much😢.

  • @asdfghjklpoi1529
    @asdfghjklpoi1529 Před 5 měsíci +127

    This father VERY clearly STOLE the money just because he feels like he can. Parent or not you don’t get to steal ESPECIALLY from your damn kids.

    • @riseagain9677
      @riseagain9677 Před 5 měsíci +1

      No he didn’t

    • @asdfghjklpoi1529
      @asdfghjklpoi1529 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@riseagain9677 😂😂

    • @gtsound12
      @gtsound12 Před 5 měsíci

      He took care of someone else’s kids for 16 years. He has spent wayyyyyyyyyy more than that.

    • @asdfghjklpoi1529
      @asdfghjklpoi1529 Před 5 měsíci

      @@gtsound12 right so he wasn’t even legally obligated to do it. He literally CHOSE to do that so no one’s fault but his own.

    • @gtsound12
      @gtsound12 Před 5 měsíci

      @@asdfghjklpoi1529 you are right. But that’s why nice guys. Finish last. Most people think like you do. What’s yours is mine but what’s mine is mine. Best thing to do is take care of yourself and your responsibilities and not do anything extra.

  • @livsopretty5249
    @livsopretty5249 Před 5 měsíci +78

    he is so spiteful and wasn’t considerate of her feelings . very sad

    • @FenderBender5150
      @FenderBender5150 Před 5 měsíci +6

      It seems to me he didn't want her to just waste the money on some stupid boyfriend and use it for something more practical like a new car or law school.

    • @chrisjones8124
      @chrisjones8124 Před 5 dny

      That's that culture he comes from. Controlling and demeaning coming from those India men

  • @magicworld3242
    @magicworld3242 Před 5 měsíci +15

    The defendant is angry with his ex-wife and he's taking it out on his daughter. His wife kept cheating on him. They had two daughters. They made a deal, they won't tell anybody that (the plaintiff) wasn't his biological daughter. Then his wife got mad at him and she told everybody (including) the plaintiff, Just to hurt him. But, she really hurt her daughter. A lot of times family come to court for one reason and they start talking about something completely different. 😢 This reminds me of the case where the young man was suing his mother. He started talking about stuff that was going on in her house, when he was growing up. His mother quickly jumped in and started saying all kinds of horrible things about her son 😢

  • @Coco-ef9ps
    @Coco-ef9ps Před 5 měsíci +67

    This is hard to watch at the end.. not sure why the father revealed so much personal info at the end. Seem like he wanted to hurt her but I bet he is her father. Hope she finds peace and forgive him for everything and don’t let it affect her future! 🙏🏾

    • @just_lemon
      @just_lemon Před 5 měsíci +11

      It was completely unnecessary, especially revealing the Mother’s substance abuse when it had nothing to do with the case

  • @lgreene7
    @lgreene7 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Judge Milian so nosey and I love it! lol she asked all the right questions

  • @roxannalilly8017
    @roxannalilly8017 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Judge Milian, your message here at the end so so beautiful and timely. My first born enlisted in the army and she left the nest this morning to start on that journey. It’s so hard to let go but we have to let the tree grow. 😢

    • @roxannalilly8017
      @roxannalilly8017 Před 5 měsíci +3

      & how crazy is it that it uses the analogy of a tree? One of my favorite chapter in the Bible is John 15, which references the tree and the vine.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 5 měsíci

      this was not about letting the child grow. he wanted to manipulate her by controlling her money.

  • @badgurl5758
    @badgurl5758 Před 5 měsíci +88

    To bring up that he’s not her bio-dad is just wrong 💔

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 5 měsíci +8

      he used court to bring it up,. very low life.

    • @sdays59
      @sdays59 Před 5 měsíci +11

      The judge ASKED!

    • @6time686
      @6time686 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@sdays59 She already knew...

    • @badgurl5758
      @badgurl5758 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@sdays59 After he said it.. go back and rewatch. HE brought it up

    • @Orlandoloc83
      @Orlandoloc83 Před 5 měsíci +5

      He can say watever he wants. SHE TOOK HIM TO COURT HER UNGRATEFUL SELF

  • @jaszlatrice3860
    @jaszlatrice3860 Před 5 měsíci +51

    His wife and all of her facial expressions at the end are very telling smh. I hope his daughter finds healing….that was hard to hear and watch. You can see the sadness in her eyes

    • @donna7049
      @donna7049 Před 5 měsíci

      I was looking for this comment she literally shook her head no when he said “i hope you work it out with them” she got what she wanted

  • @riggamorrischan
    @riggamorrischan Před 5 měsíci +121

    The judge was too biased here. Pushing the narrative that he’s a good father when we don’t know him. He kept on demanding that it’s “his money” when it’s not. It’s a government grant she got for going to school. It was in savings for two years before any issue came up and he took it without telling her. Just because you raised her and spent money on her along the way, doesn’t give you the right to 4 thousand dollars in grant money.

    • @hustleyafav1371
      @hustleyafav1371 Před 5 měsíci +3

      I agree 100 percent

    • @Lovejones80inc
      @Lovejones80inc Před 5 měsíci +8

      He already gave her the money

    • @pissoff8164
      @pissoff8164 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@simonc1039 Don't be so gullible. He had no evidence of an agreement to do so and did you even hear the statements made thereafter? He had no love left and even stated her father was a drug dealer for the whole world to hear. The judge was biased and pushed a HEAVY narrative.

    • @riggamorrischan
      @riggamorrischan Před 5 měsíci +19

      @@Lovejones80inc No he did not 😭 he gave her money occasionally, but never a full 4 grand to make up for the grant he took. Go back and watch what he says.

    • @riggamorrischan
      @riggamorrischan Před 5 měsíci +11

      @@simonc1039 Greedy? He wouldn’t have had that money to begin with if she never applied for a grant.

  • @sandybruce9092
    @sandybruce9092 Před 5 měsíci +5

    As a parent, we paid for many things while our son was growing up and we would never have expected him to repay a single penny! He is now almost 44 with a wife and children and would help them whenever he could ! We help our children if and when we can and don’t do it for the expectation of repayment. We do it because we love them!

  • @jenn_x.
    @jenn_x. Před 5 měsíci +137

    What a spiteful defendant; there was no need to air all of that dirty laundry in public. He claims the mother told the plaintiff that he wasn't her bio dad to hurt him, but what does he think he did to his daughter...and on TV?!? A rational person might realize that his daughter would eventually be grateful that he didn't turn his back on her and raised her as his own. What a small man he is...

    • @sdays59
      @sdays59 Před 5 měsíci +9

      He's just an open book. The judge is probing

    • @panamafernandez4641
      @panamafernandez4641 Před 5 měsíci +7

      He had absolutely no business disclosing he wasn't her father. In the eyes of the law, he was married to her mother at the time of her birth, he's legally her father.

    • @magicworld3242
      @magicworld3242 Před 5 měsíci +16

      @jenn_x, This wouldn't be an issue if his wife kept her legs closed to other men, while she was married to him. The plaintiff's vindictive mother is to blame for all of this foolishness. You just want him to keep the secret that his ex-wife was running the streets and having children with other men. You want him to continue protecting his horrible ex-wife 🥴🤦

    • @jeanm9521
      @jeanm9521 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@magicworld3242 He's a pos for putting it out on this show. He's also a pos for stealing her money.

    • @Prox_C
      @Prox_C Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@magicworld3242 Wow projecting much? His daughter is not to blame for what the mother did. Hes punishing her for it which is the very definition of vindictive. Cheating is disgusting. It doesnt mean his behavior isnt also disgusting.

  • @RedPanda79
    @RedPanda79 Před 5 měsíci +5

    My kids owe me nothing...what I do is out of love. It really bothers me when people bring it up like the child owes a debt

    • @morganbeck1440
      @morganbeck1440 Před 5 měsíci

      Exactly this is how I feel exactly you hit the nail on the head with your comment and I think what makes me like this is the fact that my mother constantly says well I did this and I did that for you you owe me that’s not the way I am with my children. My children get what they get because I love them because it’s my obligation to take care of them I made them a child shouldn’t have to feel like a burden or a debt

  • @catherinesisk4369
    @catherinesisk4369 Před 5 měsíci +41

    Him bringing up family dynamics was spiteful. His interview with Doug tells everything about his lack of character.

  • @ronberman8947
    @ronberman8947 Před 5 měsíci +6

    The dude in the beginning of " People's Court " has the best voice in the business. This is the main reason I watch this show !

    • @meumnomen
      @meumnomen Před 2 měsíci +2

      Doug Llewellyn is the best

  • @Rudeytabooty
    @Rudeytabooty Před 5 měsíci +4

    I was so sad when he said the mom told her to hurt him..

  • @KamiiiKam
    @KamiiiKam Před 5 měsíci +9

    I would never sue my dad.

    • @91PHS10
      @91PHS10 Před 5 měsíci +2

      But he's not her father ... He brought it up ....

    • @Kelseaeff7436
      @Kelseaeff7436 Před 5 měsíci +1

      If you have money like that, that's great

  • @jvillebil13
    @jvillebil13 Před 5 měsíci +33

    This is what happens when you don't have a close relationship with you child that involves everything. A true father is fair and honest and loves his child unconditionally and that child does the same. Thankful that my daughter even in her 30's calls me when she has a problem. Although her and her mom as close as thick as thieves.

    • @Orlandoloc83
      @Orlandoloc83 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Results would of been the same when it comes to money

    • @elainevankat5353
      @elainevankat5353 Před 5 měsíci

      Close relationship or not (makes no difference) Some parents are “a*s holes” when it comes to money!!!

    • @jvillebil13
      @jvillebil13 Před 5 měsíci

      @@elainevankat5353 You can't be close and an A$$hole. You can pretend to be but you aren't.

  • @elvickRULES
    @elvickRULES Před 5 měsíci +27

    JM is very naive about families sometimes. A lot of times. Shes lucky she can’t relate to the toxicity, but it can get annoying at times

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo7800 Před 5 měsíci +34

    The defendant showed his true colors when he aired all the dirty laundry in national tv. What a horrible man.

    • @Tahiha
      @Tahiha Před 5 měsíci +6

      The judge asked about the family dynamics. He had all right to speak up.
      But I guess the mother isn’t horrible for cheating, thereby creating dirty laundry, right?

    • @KittyLewinsky7
      @KittyLewinsky7 Před 5 měsíci +4

      The judge asked him, he told her. He took in children that wasn’t his for over 10yrs. Doesn’t sound “horrible “ at all.

    • @dailymadness9129
      @dailymadness9129 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@Tahihahe didn’t have to air every detail though wth

    • @gtsound12
      @gtsound12 Před 5 měsíci +2

      A horrible man who raised a child that he knows isn’t his for years even after he broke up with the mother? And was willing to take responsibility and not let the child know. Sounds like the mom is the horrible one

  • @dehnnbvhumkok
    @dehnnbvhumkok Před 5 měsíci +69

    I think the judge got the defendants intentions all wrong… she really painted him to be an amazing father who just didn’t want to see his daughter waste money on a vacation… I saw through his BS! Then his daughters confirmed all my suspicions at the end .. I love being right 😂

    • @Marshall_EL34
      @Marshall_EL34 Před 5 měsíci +5

      ..you mean you love being a narcissist.

    • @racheldeborde8237
      @racheldeborde8237 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Totally agree!

    • @kevinquach6468
      @kevinquach6468 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Really? Think! would the government give you extra $4k if the father did not give money to cover expenses? Now he will stop giving her any money to support her school. She needs to go to work!

    • @SwordHMX
      @SwordHMX Před 3 měsíci

      She was speaking from her experience seeing broken families, but I still believe she got it wrong

  • @ScarfaceIsMissingYou
    @ScarfaceIsMissingYou Před 5 měsíci +7

    His daughters are beautiful ❤

  • @mercedezvalenzuela6155
    @mercedezvalenzuela6155 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Heck I'm afraid my mom would sue me after all the money I've "borrowed" through out my life😂

  • @Dybeatsounique
    @Dybeatsounique Před 5 měsíci +2

    The judge almost choked on her tea when she heard her stepfather break the news

  • @carmenultra1
    @carmenultra1 Před 5 měsíci +1

    He’s a good father trying to protect her from mistakes, she just gotta learn!

  • @Diva08180703
    @Diva08180703 Před 5 měsíci +10

    There's so much not being said. They're both loudly silent about something. Family secrets...hmmmmm

  • @robertlaschever3935
    @robertlaschever3935 Před 5 měsíci +4

    The father is stealing his daughters money. I think he felt that he adopted her, paid for her, and he deserves the money. Sorry dad, it is not your money.

  • @sdays59
    @sdays59 Před 5 měsíci +2

    So let her WASTE the money and let her come crawling back.

  • @user-zk3vl8qn6j
    @user-zk3vl8qn6j Před 4 měsíci +1

    “He would put some checks” such a flippant way to say he worked straight weeks just so you could have money for school

    • @musicallyinclined9180
      @musicallyinclined9180 Před 4 měsíci

      Did you miss the part entirely where those were checks from federal govt in her name? All he did was deposit them for her, pretending to help her out and then steal them once he saw she was not touching it

  • @blynn2505
    @blynn2505 Před 5 měsíci +6

    No way he really wearing that wig 😂😂😂

  • @PanamaJones7
    @PanamaJones7 Před 5 měsíci +40

    7:52 he was dead wrong for bringing up that he wasn’t her biological father. This had nothing to do with the case

  • @Kazeshini11
    @Kazeshini11 Před 5 měsíci +1

    The best quote I heard from a parent was : "We raise our kids to not need us when they are an adult and that's the best we can hope for". As a kid you need to know when to be a grown up and as a parent you need to know when to let go.

  • @conTROLLerCUSTER55
    @conTROLLerCUSTER55 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Damn I came to hike on his hair but I can’t … salute to this brother , he’s a stand up father … unfortunately this happens but i salute him for raising three girls on his own

  • @indirademiraj9417
    @indirademiraj9417 Před 5 měsíci +4

    This guy wasn't kidding around when he decided to air all of his family's dirty laundry on national TV. Geez

  • @cynthiacler9284
    @cynthiacler9284 Před 5 měsíci +6

    The dirty laundry came out in this case.😮

  • @Rayebae738
    @Rayebae738 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Why would he be spiteful like that. 😔

  • @caterrabryson5280
    @caterrabryson5280 Před 4 měsíci +2

    The judge didn’t get the fact the father stole the money 2 years before! He took the money then tried to say “ he was paying himself back!” He was a pos clearly!!! Bringing up bs during this case! The judge needs to mind her business and actually hear the case out!!!

  • @tiffanynelson8285
    @tiffanynelson8285 Před 5 měsíci +51

    I'm so piss for that father to bring up the fact that he's not her biological father and looking at her you can definitely tell she did not want that brought up shame on him a that funky hairdo.

    • @BurntMike26
      @BurntMike26 Před 5 měsíci +9

      Defendant is not a real man, because a real man a) would not steal money from their daughter, and b) would not disown their daughter as their biological child with no paternity test.
      Shame on the defendant.

    • @Catloudan
      @Catloudan Před 5 měsíci +5

      AND say that about her mother. It was unnecessary/

    • @jeromebass7878
      @jeromebass7878 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I didn't see any resemblance 😮 so I wasn't surprised

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 Před 5 měsíci +1

      RIGHT!!!! SHOULD HAVE EXPECTED THE CLOWNERY WITH THAT DAMN WIG🤡
      LOL DRIEST "JERRY CURL" IVE EVER SEEN

    • @gene5148
      @gene5148 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Exactly, that information had no bearing on the case, and to say it on national TV was distasteful

  • @veronicagutierrez7954
    @veronicagutierrez7954 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Just because you may not agree with the choices your children make doesn't mean you have right to money that was given to them. He was trying to hurt her when he reminded her that she isn't his and that her "real dad" is a drug dealer. Smh he didn't have to say that.

  • @gutchiespencer1227
    @gutchiespencer1227 Před měsícem

    Damn! The man has no filter he's spilling the beans....😂😜

  • @beautifulllb9493
    @beautifulllb9493 Před 5 měsíci +2

    What is the dad doing dragging their MOTHER like this??? What a bitter man. That’s sick

    • @neshamojanay9423
      @neshamojanay9423 Před 5 měsíci

      With that 1980s jheri curl ....like he's stuck in there🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @deanwinchestersgirl8767
    @deanwinchestersgirl8767 Před 5 měsíci +10

    That 70s hair piece 😂😅

  • @user-hs1zr6mc5d
    @user-hs1zr6mc5d Před 5 měsíci +3

    My mouth dropped open when he said he wasn't her real dad and it cut to break. I was like no he didn't do that to her on national TV. Then it came back she knew already but somehow it still seems very wrong that he brought that up. Plus all the moms business. He was wrong for that.

    • @riseagain9677
      @riseagain9677 Před 5 měsíci +1

      No he was right. Why did she drag her Dad on national tv then?? After all he did for them

  • @lukerinderknecht2982
    @lukerinderknecht2982 Před 5 měsíci +1

    That "father" is toxic AF. I was so annoyed to hear the judge try to defend his position and tell the daughter to play nice, and that was before it all came out in the exit interview. I wish these women the best and hopefully they've moved on from harmful familial relationships.

  • @lenhalz8086
    @lenhalz8086 Před 2 měsíci +1

    That guy is hurt, he just blurting out their family secrets... This family can fix this and it starts with the Father. The Girls are grown, its up to him and them girls to fix this relationship.

  • @hadley407
    @hadley407 Před 5 měsíci +48

    When I was 19, younger than the plaintiff, I had control of a lot more money and assets than $4k and it didn’t go so well so I can understand why this case happened, but if the defendant raise the plaintiff right he should trust her with her own money.

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 Před 5 měsíci +5

      RIGHT! LIKE WHAT DOES HE WANT THE MONEY FOR? ITS YOUR DAUGHTER YOUR SUPPOSED TO PROVIDE AND I SO DIDNT SEE THE POINT OF SAYING HE WASNT THE BIOLOGICAL DAD . HE COMING OFF SPITEFUL

    • @cinnamonrollonapancake
      @cinnamonrollonapancake Před 5 měsíci

      Same here! Spent it until I was broke then never made that mistake again. He needs to let her learn from her choices, not try to control the choices she’s able to make..

    • @musicallyinclined9180
      @musicallyinclined9180 Před 4 měsíci

      She said that money wasn’t touched by her for two years though so she was actually saving it instead of spending which is even crazier

  • @karensutton1457
    @karensutton1457 Před 5 měsíci +55

    I respect Judge M so much, but I think she didn't really get why the father took the money...he felt that he'd paid towards her college and that the money in the joint account was his because he'd contributed so much more. He also wanted control I'm sure. The father spilling all the family secrets in such a public forum was despicable & hateful. He was angry and vindictive and really immature. This was really sad, I wonder if that relationship was even worth salvaging. I wish the very best of luck to the plaintiff, she seems like such a mature & sweet young woman.

    • @Ash-83
      @Ash-83 Před 5 měsíci +12

      Even if he contributed to her college education, which if she's receiving grants it's likely he's not because grants are typically for students who don't receive any family contribution, those grants are in her name and awarded to her not him. It seems his thought process was that he footed the bill for her in life so now he was going to get some of that money back from her, basically making your child repay you for raising them. It wasn't right of him to take it, I would never do that to my son whose in college, and for him to say it was his money is despicable, and the way he just verbally vomited her origin story was disgusting.

    • @deborahfrance9807
      @deborahfrance9807 Před 5 měsíci +11

      What Father would try to shame their daughter on national tv...I'm praying

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 Před 5 měsíci +4

      HE DOES SEEM LIKE HE IS BEING SPITEFUL! LIKE WTF THATS YOUR DAUGHTER WHY ARE U SAYING THESE THINGS IN FRONT OF EVERYONE! BUT I FEEL JM WAS SO WRONG FOR NOT CORRECTING HIM, YOU COULD SEE THE HURT IN THAT GIRLS FACE!

    • @mauricethomas654
      @mauricethomas654 Před 5 měsíci +9

      “I told the mother don’t tell her that!!!!” So why tell now. I agree he was very vindictive! All of that was unnecessary.

  • @WonderingHead
    @WonderingHead Před 5 měsíci +2

    The dad is a mean!airing all that dirty laundry no concern about anyone's feelings!😢

  • @LawsonPatterson
    @LawsonPatterson Před 5 měsíci +2

    It’s wild how he thinks it’s so awful that she took him to court but has no problem with taking her money. I believe the plaintiff, the defendant is a liar.

  • @TLibra
    @TLibra Před 5 měsíci +3

    My dad would NEVER!!!

  • @roxannemoreno2012
    @roxannemoreno2012 Před 5 měsíci +18

    This episode should've been called...How Low can you go!! This is no father! 😢

  • @nintendad8168
    @nintendad8168 Před 5 měsíci +1

    dude killin it with the j-curl

  • @TabsT-vy5jy
    @TabsT-vy5jy Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wow he was straight forward and brutal with revealing that info. Ouch.

  • @shellwilliams6306
    @shellwilliams6306 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Father is a SCUMBAG and jealous his daughter is making her life better. Children do not ask to be born. It is a REAL parents responsibility to help, provide EVEN COLLEGE expenses. A successful parent provides for the success of their children. This isn't a silver spoon situation. This plaintiff is poised, well spoken and DESERVES THE WORLD. GOD BLESS YOU MY DEAR! WE NEED MORE HUMAN BEINGS LIKE YOU ❤️🙏

  • @albertol9654
    @albertol9654 Před 5 měsíci +25

    The father was clearly overprotective, which is common in old school foreign fathers.

    • @TheAray6
      @TheAray6 Před 5 měsíci +4

      He was not! Just greedy!

    • @timages
      @timages Před 5 měsíci +4

      Overprotective?? ...go get a brain!

    • @albertol9654
      @albertol9654 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@timages The dad kept bringing up her boyfriend.. Which clearly proves my point, plus I bet one of the reasons she moved back with her mother. Mr Brainless.

    • @meumnomen
      @meumnomen Před 2 měsíci

      Nah I see controlling behavior

    • @terrisparta4532
      @terrisparta4532 Před 2 měsíci

      @albertol9654.. that's not an excuse for his harsh words.

  • @SweatyNeckbeard
    @SweatyNeckbeard Před 5 měsíci +2

    Saw that perm and had to watch it immediately. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @hector3747
    @hector3747 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Don't understand why she would give the money to the father in the first place if he was such a horrible father? Why not have her mother open the account? I suspect the daughter wasn't the angel she was pretending to be

  • @Snarkerella
    @Snarkerella Před 5 měsíci +5

    I wonder if it's his money? "I told her if she does good in school, I'll buy her a car. It my money." "I supported her for 16 years. It my money." Sheesh.

    • @sandybruce9092
      @sandybruce9092 Před 5 měsíci

      NO! It’s her grand money!!! He is a thief!!!!

  • @sashabenoit1518
    @sashabenoit1518 Před 5 měsíci +3

    The Judge had this one all wrong... I could instantly tell that there was so much more going on between her and the father. Her body language, and the fact that she was continually holding back her tears and emotion, spoke volumes and you could feel the tension and darkness between them. I don't doubt that he loves and cares for his daughter but I do think that he has an unhealthy and toxic way of showing it and he clearly got his priorities out of line for him to put money before family. I also believe that the Mother's affair, that resulted in the daughter being born, remains a sore spot in their family and he never truly got over it. And despite raising her and loving her as his own, I think that he has subconsciously taken out the Mother's mistake on the daughter because even though it's obviously not her fault, she's still a constant reminder of that infidelity and betrayal. Additionally, I believe that there are a lot of cultural and generational differences at play here that drives that disconnect going on between them, giving them completely different perspectives on life. For example, the DV that she mentioned happened to them growing up. Not to excuse or defend that behavior from the father but to him, growing up in a completely different culture and generation, that is typically seen as a normal form of discipline and not as taboo as it is here, especially nowadays.

  • @vanaa412
    @vanaa412 Před 5 měsíci +1

    He clearly does not care about his daughter he just wanted the money; he said it multiple times

  • @katchrist_
    @katchrist_ Před 5 měsíci +1

    The plaintiff needs her own bank account!!

  • @user-1hu2s
    @user-1hu2s Před 5 měsíci +3

    I hope these girls see that you should pick one honorable, decent man who works hard is loyal to you , to his family and to God. That man stuck with them despite a cheating wife and working hard of his own effort and will.

  • @alfredawalker34
    @alfredawalker34 Před 5 měsíci +6

    He clearly needed a new wig

  • @arianefr78
    @arianefr78 Před 5 měsíci +1

    The judge kept putting words in the father's mouth! He didn't take that money because he knew it was his daughter's but didn't want her to waste it on a holiday, he truly felt that it was his and owed to him for all the hand-outs he had given her over the years. He stole that money out of the account and had no intention of ever giving it back, he alone has ruined his relationship with his daughter...

  • @senoviabrigance9286
    @senoviabrigance9286 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Im so glad the sister had her back 🖤🫶

  • @dollz2030
    @dollz2030 Před 5 měsíci +25

    Just pointing out that he didnt have to say all that bad stuff about the mother? How messy was he seems mean. He didnt seem as good as he tried to portray himself as.😅

  • @tiffanychristian1978
    @tiffanychristian1978 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Idk. I feel like the father is still hurt about whatever happened to him and their mother. If what he is saying is true, he had full custody over kids and not the mother. There might be some truth to what he's saying about the mother being on drugs. He feels she wasn't going to use the money properly and took it, which was wrong. However, he thought it was the right thing to do. She is grown let her open her own account now.

  • @user-in2jk9zv6g
    @user-in2jk9zv6g Před 5 měsíci

    Why does she always tell? 😮😮😂 The energy 🎉

  • @crr6750
    @crr6750 Před 5 měsíci

    Dad is just airing out all the dirty laundry.

  • @charlizesalisbury9913
    @charlizesalisbury9913 Před 5 měsíci +11

    A huge red flag is any parent saying "I did xyz for my child for xx years!". No good parent would ever lord that over their kids. I feel so bad for her. I hated JM for this one. She's a judge so she's meant to be unbiased but it feels like all her cases lately are completely biased. I honestly hope she changes her ways because if she keeps being biased like this, it's a quick way to lose her judgeship. She's literally going against the fundamental rules of what being a judge is. You ask questions but never be personal about the case and never insert yourself into the case either. You don’t relate to any person and you simply look at the facts. The facts of this case was that she got grant money and he stole it. He stated he felt entitled to it but its government money that was given to her and her only. This was such an open and shut case. Letting him take the stage and venting his aggressions and anger about her mother's discretions and the circumstances of her birth is just horrible. JM even saw the daughter shocked and getting upset and saw the sister comfort her yet did nothing to stop the madman from spilling things that shouldn't be spilt. Not every parent is good. Not every parent has a right to have anything to do with their child. This father showed his true colours and instead of seeing it, she ignored it. I've seen her do this before and I seriously hate it. Not only that but "all money is mine" but gifts and "support" is not something that needs repayment. Giving a child a phone or buying food or paying for extracurriculars are all covered under "supporting a minor". Thats a given. They are entitled to have those things. To say that she says to her kids that their phone is hers and that she demands passcodes and it's not an invasion of privacy is so wrong. It's almost criminally wrong. Imagine giving a child a teddy since they cry when sleeping alone but you decide to put a hidden camera in the teddy. This is the same level of invasion yet the teddy would be considered more of a crime than the phone. But both things are invasions of privacy and both things are a gift given. I'm so disgusted with JM for this case and her own admission of her treatment of her kids.

  • @itsjaeduh4107
    @itsjaeduh4107 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Tell me somebody peep his bald spot when the trail 1st started and the camera was a outside view of the court room I fell out 😂

    • @ktzep
      @ktzep Před 5 měsíci

      Nope.. Going back to watch now though lol

  • @nicharr7796
    @nicharr7796 Před 5 měsíci

    Clutch my pearls!! He is airing it all out. My goodness

  • @kimberlypritchard3772
    @kimberlypritchard3772 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Girl is going to pay interest on 4k to go on vacation 😂😂

  • @prettybossy510
    @prettybossy510 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I think the mom figured her 16 year old daughter deserves to know that he is not her biological father... I hope the moms only motivation wasn't to hurt the dad that had been there for 16 years

  • @cosmo6180
    @cosmo6180 Před 5 měsíci +11

    I think JM got it wrong when she said she felt this wasn’t a broken family, by the daughter’s comments at the end of what she said about her father, she never had a good relationship with him.

  • @lisamonderson6920
    @lisamonderson6920 Před 5 měsíci +2

    It’s giving Rommy Rome … the playa from the himalayaaaaaaahhhh!!!!

  • @kristhemermaid3169
    @kristhemermaid3169 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Yeah it's obvious the dad thinks it's his money because he had to raise "cheating wife'w child". And I can only imagine how many times he made her feel that. Poor girl.