Dear Franco | Love, Nam

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  • čas přidán 26. 03. 2021
  • For my angel,
    It’s time to open this letter.
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    Location:
    Alon and Sandy Surf Shack,
    San Juan, La Union
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    Music:
    Edwardo Christian- Sad Emotional Guitar
    Jason Shaw- Solo Acoustic Guitar

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  • @janicanamfloresca1432
    @janicanamfloresca1432  Před 3 lety +2652

    I just want say thank you all for the kind words. Binabasa ko lahat ng comments at di nyo lang alam kung gano kalaking tulong yun para sa akin mas lalo nung simula. Sa mga nag share ng mga kwento nila, sana nakatulong din yung experience ko sa inyo. Alam kong hindi sya madaling proseso pero magiging okay din kayo in time. Sobrang appreciative talaga ako sa support and i hope to see you soon loves! ♥️

    • @remsvlx9181
      @remsvlx9181 Před 3 lety +4

      you are strong ❤️ love u and stay safe

    • @kimseohyun-southkorea8440
      @kimseohyun-southkorea8440 Před 3 lety +3

      Shoutout po . be strong

    • @oshoohshira_260
      @oshoohshira_260 Před 3 lety +3

      You’re strong . I can feel how you felt . It hurt and so sad even i dontknow you all it still make me cryy . . But i hope you are doing well . Just do what you want .

    • @leareid3593
      @leareid3593 Před 3 lety +3

      malalmpasan mo dn to ate.. praying for yoy

    • @mayannemantilla8874
      @mayannemantilla8874 Před 3 lety +3

      God Bless po Ate Name. :) God will always provide. :) Goodluck po sa bagong journey mo. :)

  • @cortinasnathaniel3948
    @cortinasnathaniel3948 Před 3 lety +2932

    Maybe the word "FOREVER" is made for memories not for people.

  • @lovingcrenberrywp9825
    @lovingcrenberrywp9825 Před 3 lety +3139

    When people are thinking how Rose's continued life after Jack passed away, this is the answer.

  • @amirakhabibullayeva490
    @amirakhabibullayeva490 Před 3 lety +842

    "how can I continue life when half of me left with you"
    These word really got me🥺

    • @TSTIS-sc4qd
      @TSTIS-sc4qd Před 3 lety +1

      Me to heyy

    • @amirakhabibullayeva490
      @amirakhabibullayeva490 Před 3 lety

      @@TSTIS-sc4qd 🥺🥺🥺

    • @justines8220
      @justines8220 Před 3 lety +3

      But she has moved on:)

    • @ginaryanbearfighter7065
      @ginaryanbearfighter7065 Před 3 měsíci

      ❤ we don't know. We don't know how we're going to keep on living but we keep breathing anyway. In my experience every breath I took hurt like a motherf**k** I'm sorry for my French but it's the only word that I can think of that will Express exactly how it felt.

  • @moonlightgaming4253
    @moonlightgaming4253 Před 3 lety +2133

    "I'd rather die tommorow than live a hundred years without knowing you." - Pocahontas

  • @AweSome-nt4zj
    @AweSome-nt4zj Před 3 lety +4507

    Props to Nam's current bf also for understanding, embracing, treasuring, accepting and loving Nam and her past.

    • @carmelmarie2083
      @carmelmarie2083 Před 3 lety +118

      Yes I really appreciate him! Sobrang rare ng ganun ☹️

    • @AweSome-nt4zj
      @AweSome-nt4zj Před 3 lety +119

      @@eejaydolores4964 lungkot sguro ng buhay mo.malalagpasan mo din yan.

    • @taejinbin12
      @taejinbin12 Před 3 lety +19

      @@eejaydolores4964 wawa ka naman

    • @rodeozaragoza4515
      @rodeozaragoza4515 Před 3 lety +20

      @@eejaydolores4964 wala sigurong nagmamahal sayo. sad life.

    • @mariajeshamadali251
      @mariajeshamadali251 Před 3 lety +15

      @@eejaydolores4964 who hurt you?😢

  • @angelinec.5356
    @angelinec.5356 Před 3 lety +680

    "I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you. But you've spent the rest of your life with me, and I'm thankful for that."

  • @yourhaussmann
    @yourhaussmann Před 3 lety +1367

    You know what’s really painful? It’s not the fear of being alone, but the fact that we’ll be clueless on how to move forward when we’ve grown so much with the people we’ve lost.

  • @marionubong2173
    @marionubong2173 Před 3 lety +841

    "I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you.
    But you've spent the rest of your life with me"
    Thisss, really hurts

  • @samanthadelacruz3771
    @samanthadelacruz3771 Před 3 lety +1739

    "I've always thought that i'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me" this hit me hard🥺

    • @aroadrienne20
      @aroadrienne20 Před 3 lety +3

      Tumatak talaga tong line na 'to sa 'kin 🥺

    • @shairalazcano9156
      @shairalazcano9156 Před 3 lety +1

      🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @roxylpolicher4452
      @roxylpolicher4452 Před 3 lety +1

      huhuhu trueee

    • @emlthedecoys
      @emlthedecoys Před 3 lety +1

      True :(

    • @ra4821
      @ra4821 Před 3 lety +24

      This is a popular grief quote and she included it as an excerpt perhaps. The whole quote goes like this,
      “I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with you.
      And then I realized, you spent the rest of your life with me.
      I smile because I know you loved me till the day you went away.
      And will keep loving me till the day we’re together again.”

  • @shiela2349
    @shiela2349 Před 3 lety +738

    What made this video beautiful are the ocean scenes. The fact that Franco was taken by the ocean yrs ago, this means acceptance. What a beautiful healing Nam, i wish everyone experiencing grief will have the same. Including myself. Keep healing, keep living.

    • @rehalabar123
      @rehalabar123 Před 3 lety +5

      your comment gave me goosebumps 😇thankyou Sheila 😍❤️

  • @joontae7769
    @joontae7769 Před 3 lety +206

    "Your presence taught me how to be strong, but your absence taught me to be stronger." 😭❤

  • @zana5847
    @zana5847 Před 3 lety +7742

    [ENGLISH TRANSLATION]
    Dear Franco,
    How have you been?
    I bet it's peaceful and happy there.
    It's been a while,
    was it 3 years already?
    Back then, I was still hoping that this is not true.
    I was hoping there'll be a miracle and you'll come back.
    It was so hard when you've left.
    Whenever I close my eyes,
    everything that happened kept repeating on my head over and over again.,
    as if I am drowning again.
    I've always had those maybes and what ifs in my head,
    what if I was a little stronger,
    maybe I could've saved you.
    Sometimes I ask myself,
    how can I stay strong?
    How can I continue to smile and be happy?
    How can I continue life when half of me left with you?
    Everyone knows how happy I was because of you,
    how happy we were together.
    And there are things death cannot touch,
    and those are the memories we've made.
    I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you.
    But you've spent the rest of your life with me, and I'm thankful for that.
    I'm thankful that I was the last person you've loved--
    Even if it was just for a short amount of time, I knew it was real.
    I know there's a lot of people curious and asking,
    why it takes me so long to be okay.
    But, the truth is, you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you.
    My love for you was the only thing that kept me going.
    Because I know, you want me to withstand it [and be able to move forward]
    The support that I receive from people I don't know also helped me a lot.
    Even from their simple [support and comforting] messages,
    it flatters my heart, so much.
    My family and friends were also there for me.
    I know it wasn't easy for them too,
    but they never left me.
    And most especially, God.
    Even though I was in so much struggle,
    I know He's never [abandoned] forsaken me.
    Your presence taught me how to be strong,
    but your absence taught me how to be stronger.
    I am now ready to continue.
    I am more ready to know and love myself,
    learn new things and experience more of what I can do.
    I am now ready to continue the life [that] I've thought has [already] ended.
    I am now [more] ready.
    Franco, I know you want me to be happy
    and I can finally say, I AM.
    I was content of being alone.
    I was okay with the thought of not being with someone else for the rest of my life.
    But that's a funny thing about love-- it comes when you least expect it.
    [I've realized] whatever you experienced, love will really find its way back to you.
    And as I unflod this new chapter of my life, I am now ready to face and welcome it with a grateful heart.
    Grateful to all the people and learnings
    that shaped me to be the woman I am now.
    I am thankful to those people who believed in me.
    I am thankful to my family and friends.
    I am thankful to God.
    You don't have to worry about me, Franco. I am now okay.
    I will always be thankful to you for looking after me all these years.
    I will never forget the memories we've made because it was never about our ending, it was about the journey--
    and I am thankful for the time that was given to us.
    Now, I am ready to move forward and live life
    with a stronger and happier version of myself.
    Love,
    Nam

  • @celinec.5573
    @celinec.5573 Před 3 lety +802

    "how can i continue life, when half of me left with you" broo😭😭😭😭

  • @herlianahwillismadin5073
    @herlianahwillismadin5073 Před 3 lety +323

    When Olaf said water has memory and this is what he's talking about

  • @yckieh568
    @yckieh568 Před 3 lety +523

    When a one person survives a tragedy, they carry the guilt of being the survivor. Why them? Even when I don’t know the whole story, I can tell that this is the catharsis and the goodbye that you needed. He’s happy that you’re happy. Live a long, beautiful life.

  • @aymenjelliti3712
    @aymenjelliti3712 Před 3 lety +2373

    Kudos to Her current boyfriend. He is genuinely a true gentleman. The living embodiment of modern chivalry. He's giving her space to heal and reconcile with the pain and the past.thank you my good sir for being so open and understanding.

    • @drew9253
      @drew9253 Před 3 lety +3

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    • @zeviahcompilations9675
      @zeviahcompilations9675 Před 3 lety +7

      sabi ko na may bf na e kaya may ganito hahahahaha

    • @damnic3963
      @damnic3963 Před 3 lety +24

      @@zeviahcompilations9675 I think wala naman masama doon. Nam also deserves to be happy AGAIN.

    • @zeviahcompilations9675
      @zeviahcompilations9675 Před 3 lety +2

      @@damnic3963 wala naman akong sinabing masama 'yun. lmao

    • @haneulbluu.
      @haneulbluu. Před 3 lety +1

      @@zeviahcompilations9675 bat tawang tawa ka po?

  • @patriciasalonga67
    @patriciasalonga67 Před 3 lety +999

    Dito talaga bagay yung kantang paubaya. “pinapaubaya kona siya ☝🏻.” God knows everything. It takes time to heal those pain.

    • @heyyblessed6227
      @heyyblessed6227 Před 3 lety

      Same tayo ng iniisip

    • @dlwsblancaflor7078
      @dlwsblancaflor7078 Před 3 lety +11

      Yung line lang na "Pinapaubaya na Sakanya" but not the song itself. Come on, the song is about a cheating partner.

    • @heyyblessed6227
      @heyyblessed6227 Před 3 lety

      @@dlwsblancaflor7078 yup yun din naisip ko pinaubaya kay Lord

    • @patriciasalonga67
      @patriciasalonga67 Před 3 lety

      @@dlwsblancaflor7078 Yah. Tama that line lang.

    • @aimeeuy476
      @aimeeuy476 Před 3 lety

      True ka jan sisssy

  • @azeeelle1226
    @azeeelle1226 Před 3 lety +142

    They were made perfectly for each other but not in this lifetime.

  • @onelovelyxxi
    @onelovelyxxi Před 3 lety +159

    "I've always prayed to God to let me die first or I will die twice, but still, I was left alone."
    It's been 1635 days since the last day I saw you and 502 days you were in heaven. 🤍🕯
    I miss you so much! 😥🤍
    I miss you always and I love you.. 💙😘
    See you in our next life @AeyhanAlvarado ❤
    Love,
    -Nhat

  • @ijishasf
    @ijishasf Před 3 lety +3202

    Who's missing Franco so much? Their relationship was perfect. They were made for each other pero bat ganon ang sakit🥺😭

    • @alquiletasiblings530
      @alquiletasiblings530 Před 3 lety

      😭😭😭

    • @ericarosedano5990
      @ericarosedano5990 Před 3 lety +7

      Me.😭 Di ko sya masyadong kilala non sa hashtag pero super crush ko sya, pag sumasayaw ang hashtag kay franco lang talaga yong mata ko. Kaya nung nalaman kong yong trahedyang nangyare super na sad na ako nun until nalaman ko may jowa sya, Si ms. nam naman ang sinubaybayan ko thru Ig post, stories nakakalungkot at nakakapahinayang silang dalawa huhu🥺

    • @jonabellebunag6070
      @jonabellebunag6070 Před 3 lety +2

      Me cause until now every 11th of the month I always remember him I that there were time that because of missing him nakakatulugan ko nalng ng umiiyak

    • @imanhernandez459
      @imanhernandez459 Před 3 lety +3

      They weren’t made for each other, bcoz if they do God won’t take him

    • @marielfermo9167
      @marielfermo9167 Před 3 lety

      💔😭

  • @loikwatchera4658
    @loikwatchera4658 Před 3 lety +261

    I lost the love of my life a few months before Janica's. Now I have found someone who accepted my past, and now loves me more than i deserve. To my dearest Paul in heaven. thank you.❤️

  • @butterjoestar4159
    @butterjoestar4159 Před 3 lety +43

    If Kuya Franco could ever see this, he'll be probably feel at ease too. Seeing that he isn't forgotten and will never be.

  • @tenzingnam8962
    @tenzingnam8962 Před 3 lety +110

    Your presence taught me how to be strong .. but your absence taught me how to be stronger-Nam 🙌🏻🤍

  • @yanna8556
    @yanna8556 Před 3 lety +341

    "I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you.
    But you've spent the rest of your life with me" awww😭😭

  • @mayaabad375
    @mayaabad375 Před 3 lety +1329

    This is her way to tell everyone, she's inlove with someone else now.

    • @alleir4465
      @alleir4465 Před 3 lety +6

      :((((

    • @melanietalaga8149
      @melanietalaga8149 Před 3 lety +249

      yes and why not? kaylngn nyang mag move forward coz life goes on.

    • @alyssadelosreyes7412
      @alyssadelosreyes7412 Před 3 lety +40

      True. Akala ko ako lang ung nageexpect na magsasabi siyang inlove siya sa dulo.

    • @merayycle
      @merayycle Před 3 lety +32

      And I guess magupload na siya ng new vlog with her bf na din after this.

    • @mykym06
      @mykym06 Před 3 lety +252

      Atleast she got the courage and guts to finally close that painful chapter in her life. She deserves to be happy.

  • @praisethelord5048
    @praisethelord5048 Před 3 lety +46

    I cried so hard when my ex cheated and left me.. cried and felt depressed for someone who wasn't even worthy.. just by imaging how much painful it was to loss someone who loved us so much.. Can't control my tears😭😭😭😭

  • @ANNA-jg7nf
    @ANNA-jg7nf Před 3 lety +110

    The saddest thing of this is that she saw him die

  • @xiaotingqtie
    @xiaotingqtie Před 3 lety +162

    I think it is understood that Nam will forever love Franco, wala nang makakapagpabago non. But acceptance is the key, and she needs to move on and enjoy her life. Franco will forever have an importance place in her life, and she will forever love him, even though she already have someone in her life and I'm happy for her!

  • @ellarecuenco8135
    @ellarecuenco8135 Před 3 lety +148

    Who can still feel the pain of ate janica? Dude true love ung nafefeel nya, 3years na syang nangungulila kay kuya franco 😭

  • @matingmats1061
    @matingmats1061 Před 3 lety +15

    To those people who are in pain right now should watch this. Life is so precious🥰

  • @slaytherin
    @slaytherin Před 3 lety +20

    "your presence made me strong but your absence made me stronger"
    stay strong ms. nam, God will always be there for you❤

  • @meowmeow-or6mm
    @meowmeow-or6mm Před 3 lety +252

    *" Your presence taught me how to be strong but your absence taught me how to be stronger"* that line made me cry so hard because I remember my dad who died 2 months ago :'

  • @mickylaabacajan6763
    @mickylaabacajan6763 Před 3 lety +145

    "I've always thought that I'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me."
    tae ang sakit non 😭😭😭

  • @julinaalbento1351
    @julinaalbento1351 Před 3 lety +5

    It still hurt me so much remembering past 3years ago. When my boyfriend is gone too😢 my tears keep on falling watching this. But I'm fine and I'm strong and I'm happy now😊 I know he want me to be happy . Iloveyou Stuy in heaven 💕

  • @tanyas8840
    @tanyas8840 Před 3 lety +91

    I've been IG stalking you for the last three years, always hoping you are getting better. I'm so happy you are at peace and genuinely happy now, ate Nam. I've always waited for this day to come. You're a very strong and brave woman. I'm sure Franco is also happy that you found love again.

  • @ijishasf
    @ijishasf Před 3 lety +393

    "your presence taught me how to be strong but your absence taught me how to be stronger" nooooooo because until now I'm still hurting because of that tragic day😭

  • @gacusanchristinejaine3339
    @gacusanchristinejaine3339 Před 3 lety +696

    Can’t imagine being in Nam’s shoes. I’d probably die too. Imagine losing someone u wanted to share ur life with forever but u have to let it go cause maybe, it wasn’t God’s will to let that happen bcause again maybe, He has better plans, and He has really. So happy for you Nam. Love lots💕🤍

    • @drew9253
      @drew9253 Před 3 lety

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  • @jessicaabejaron801
    @jessicaabejaron801 Před 3 lety +14

    It's really hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember. In time, with a peace of mind and a joyful heart, everything will be alright.

  • @dy2586
    @dy2586 Před 3 lety +32

    i'm sure Franco is so proud and happy that you’re living your life happily. 💖

  • @kathleenreyes1503
    @kathleenreyes1503 Před 3 lety +425

    I am sure that Franco is happy that you’re living your life happily

  • @klienesworld
    @klienesworld Před 3 lety +329

    This is the most genuine thing I saw on the internet today. Brb. I need to cry-

  • @doanjenny3921
    @doanjenny3921 Před 3 lety +4

    I cried like a baby watching this. People always say that I'm naive but these video, comments and these beautiful people in and outside make me believe that people are kind.

  • @may2380
    @may2380 Před 3 lety +21

    It's true that people can move on but we can never deny the fact that only amnesia and death can erase memories. 💔

  • @diethaguanlao203
    @diethaguanlao203 Před 3 lety +60

    yung kahit may bago na syang boyfriend, di pa din nya kinakalimutan yung memories na iniwan ni Franco🥺🥺 stay stong Nam❤️

  • @cabuagnicoleclaire8181
    @cabuagnicoleclaire8181 Před 3 lety +161

    "I know there's a lot of people curious and asking, why it takes me so long to be okay. But, the truth is, you can never measure the length of pain that was left in you." 😢 the feels.

  • @TarotCardM
    @TarotCardM Před 3 lety +6

    After watching this. I realized how important life is. How important the TIME and LOVE is. I cannot say life is short if youve spent your whole life to someone you really loved.

  • @triciaantolin8424
    @triciaantolin8424 Před rokem +4

    I lost my fiancé 3 months ago, and I would just like to thank you for posting this. Andun ako sa tabi nya bago siya mawala. Nakita ko kung paano sya lumaban, pano nya paulit ulit sabihin saken na papakasalan nya ako paglabas namin ng hospital. But sadly, ako lang ang nakalabas ng hospital. He went somewhere else. Nagsasama na rin kami at kasal na lang talaga ang kulang. Paulit ulit nya sinasabi saken na para saken lalaban sya. Na kakayanin nya. Na hindi nya hahayaan na mag isa ako, kasi sabi nya. Kami naman, kami naman dapat ang sumaya.
    A month after he left. Sumunod naman yung furbaby namin. Totoo nga sabi nila, when it rains, it pours talaga.
    Kagaya ng sabi mo, kada pikit ko, nakikita ko parin lahat. Walang araw na di ko sya naisip. Ang hirap tignan yung paligid ko na lahat nagpapatuloy tapos ako para lang akong statue na nanonood sa bawat steps na ginagawa nila to continue with their lives.
    I don't drink but when it happened. Natuto ako. Gusto kong matulog para di ko maramdaman yung pain pero at the same time ayoko kasi ayokong gumising na wala sya sa tabi ko. May mga instances pa na nahuhuli ko sarili ko na bumibili ng mga gamit or pagkain para sa kanya only to find out once again na, wala na yung kumakain non wala na yung gagamit non.
    The only thing I have left that keeps me going is my work, I guess. Maswerte ako kahit papaano na naka permanent wfh set up ako. Umiiyak ako during shift. Nagttype ako habang tumutulo luha ko. Itinutuloy ko kahit nahihirapan ako kasi alam kong nakabantay siya palagi sa akin. Alam ko g nasa tabi ko sya
    Sabi ng mga kaibigan ko, soon makikita ko rin at mahahanap ko rin yung calmness kagaya nung andito pa sya. Na isipin ko lagi na kung andito sya, ayaw nyang makita akong malungkot at miserable.
    I wish I could soon say "I can finally say, I am happy"
    Babalikan ko tong post na to. Pag dumating na yung araw na kaya ko nang sabihin yang mga salitang yan na hindi peke ang ngiti ko.

  • @geneveivemarieflores5199
    @geneveivemarieflores5199 Před 3 lety +415

    Losing someone you loved gives you more than a heartache, you'll never get over it. And for the rest of your life, you'll have to bring the pain. You thought you're okay? but the truth is, you just learn to live with it 💔

  • @polengguillermo4415
    @polengguillermo4415 Před 3 lety +37

    When she said na sa tuwing pipikit siya yun ang nakikita niya, the pain and trauma. She deserve happiness, she deserves the love shes recieving rn, Franco is proud of her.

  • @lenujl
    @lenujl Před 3 lety +28

    This kind of pain is hard for just everyone to understand unless you go through!
    I feel you my girl Nam!
    Happy new journey !

  • @NadyaAuliaPutri
    @NadyaAuliaPutri Před 3 lety +26

    I know their story, it is very sad and painful. it is very difficult to forget someone who loves each other. Even though they are not together, I hope everyone deserves to be happy

  • @micahmananguite631
    @micahmananguite631 Před 3 lety +403

    One thing is for sure, we miss Franco and that fact alone hurts like hell.

  • @thraia3307
    @thraia3307 Před 3 lety +32

    Ito yung literal na "Sa susunod na habang buhay." We're so happy that you are happy now ate nam!❤

  • @samtenchodon7644
    @samtenchodon7644 Před 3 lety +14

    This is making me cry so bad 😭❤️ I wish him happiness in his next life. May he rest in peace 😭
    And you are very strong and so pure. Be happy ❤️

  • @ginaryanbearfighter7065
    @ginaryanbearfighter7065 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It takes a while to comprehend. But when we reach the point with gratitude of what time we did spend and love with this person who journey to the spirit world that is the beginning of moving and flowing into the beginning of a life without the one you loved that left this world to the spirit world

  • @quensanico522
    @quensanico522 Před 3 lety +35

    Napaka open minded and understanding ng Boyfriend niya ngayon 💙 Sana all! Proud of you, Nam! Franco is very happy for you, for sure ☺️

  • @gellylerosetuico5350
    @gellylerosetuico5350 Před 3 lety +171

    “How can I continue life when half of me left with you?”
    I'm so proud of you. How brave you are to face this kind of obstacle in your life for how many years. I know that he will guide you to your future.

  • @franzgg486
    @franzgg486 Před 3 lety +32

    When you get pampered with love, care and attention but that person suddenly leaves💔

  • @AprillGVlogs
    @AprillGVlogs Před 3 lety +4

    i love the way nam giving franco assurance and that's what we called respect ✨

  • @airierojas8981
    @airierojas8981 Před 3 lety +11

    "Your presence taught me how to be strong, but your absence taught me how to be stronger" 😭😭💛

  • @bellybeans7355
    @bellybeans7355 Před 3 lety +138

    Well this is really the true example of love........Franco still lives in Janica heart🥺💞

    • @aidylgrace8392
      @aidylgrace8392 Před 3 lety

      And he will live there forever... In her heart.

  • @ayasiib
    @ayasiib Před 3 lety +25

    With the pain of losing Franco, I knew that it is and will always be difficult for you to move forward and live what's left for you. But, hey! You have been so strong for too long. You have endured the pain which you thought was never gonna end and finally, you are healed. Hearing every word from this video makes us so proud of you, Nam. I bet that includes Franco. You have this beautiful story that inspires people. Continue to be brave in facing what's ahead of you, Nam! It's time.

  • @ph6326
    @ph6326 Před 3 lety +15

    I felt like i was in a roller coaster with all these feelings YT recommended this to me. I can say Ive moved on to this couple years ago after Franks died but as i continue to watch this gave me happiness and realization in life. Thank you Franko and Nam for showing what love was and is. 😭😭

  • @m1ssa.m
    @m1ssa.m Před 3 lety +31

    'Your presence taught me how to be strong, but your absence taught me how to be stronger' 😩💔

  • @luckymaeromero4604
    @luckymaeromero4604 Před 3 lety +191

    3 years was never easy and will never be easy to anyone who lost their love ones forever. I admire you for being strong and paying respect to franco before you enter the new chapter of your life, before you close the book of your past with him and before you love someone again. For sure franco was very happy where ever he was now. Because finally after 3 long years the love of his life is now ready to stand up and start new beginning. that his girl is now finally back from being sad and lonely to bubbly and happy. This video really touch my heart.

  • @nancyvladimirova9082
    @nancyvladimirova9082 Před 3 lety +23

    I always cry when i watch "sending my love to heaven". But i do watch it to make myself realise that not everyone can stay forever with us and that we have to be grateful for everything, cuz we don't know when will be our last time with our favourite ones...♥️
    Janica, I am so happy that you moved on and started to live the life you deserve. I know that Franco is so happy for you and he sended you an angel on earth (your current boyfriend) to remind you that life is worth it and you have to be strong♥️

  • @thiwjenson4892
    @thiwjenson4892 Před 3 lety +6

    Everything that happens in Our Life, Happen for a Reason. There is a Song "This World is Not My Home, I'm Just Passing Through".. Your Love Left You For A Reason, He Is Preparing For The Greatest Marriage In Heaven.... Love From Thiw 🧡💙

  • @annecruz3461
    @annecruz3461 Před 3 lety +150

    May all the woman who experienced this kind of ordeal finds their healing ❤

  • @racianbables3475
    @racianbables3475 Před 3 lety +261

    Made me cry. It’s been 5 years since God took my mom home. It still feels so unreal whenever I think about her. Time passes and I still can’t believe I haven’t heared her voice or hugged her. 😔

    • @Hanzada11
      @Hanzada11 Před 3 lety

      Rest In Peace, she is already your part which always will be with you. Stay happy and strong, Ameen💗

    • @ssejarahg3646
      @ssejarahg3646 Před 3 lety

      hi me too. i feel you know youre not alone. i miss mom sooooo much im just here trying to live without her everyday.

    • @gail831
      @gail831 Před 3 lety

      Stay strong :)

  • @dailydose9597
    @dailydose9597 Před 3 lety +7

    I lost the man I loved 9 years ago and the pain still haunts me. I know kung gaano kasakit manatili sa alaalang kailanman ay hindi na mauulit pa pero heto pa rin tayo, nabubuhay, lumalaban, kinakaya. God bless you, Nam.

    • @wannederlust
      @wannederlust Před 3 lety

      Reading you're comment, I felt at ease knowing I'm not the only one and that my feelings is valid. Lost him 9 years ago and here I am at 12:00 am crying while watching this video... ;)

  • @lizanneserrano7502
    @lizanneserrano7502 Před 3 lety +15

    I'm so proud of her. You deserve to be happy, and we all know its what Franco wants too. Keep going, Nam!

  • @shaundalejardenico1779
    @shaundalejardenico1779 Před 3 lety +460

    Swerte ni Franco... She's one of a kind woman. Hoping to find a woman like hers someday.

  • @viancaperez
    @viancaperez Před 3 lety +11

    Nam, if you're reading this, i adore you. i cant imagine the sadness you've had. I can feel in the video that you had an extreme difficult time moving on... and you didn't have a choice but to be strong. I am proud of you..

  • @CuteheartCorner
    @CuteheartCorner Před 3 lety +21

    i don’t know why i got this in my recommendations but i’m crying an ocean just hearing about it .. i cannot imagine how you are going through it 😭I will pray u can stay strong ..I just realised we should live our fullest and make memories as much as we can coz forever is just for memories

  • @moonchild8443
    @moonchild8443 Před 3 lety +94

    That’s the thing about death.. it’s silent and peaceful. It’s those left behind who suffer. May it be months, years, or even a decade - it doesn’t mean you forget that person, but you eventually get over the pain and move on with life. Happy for you Nam, and I’m sure Franco is happier seeing you live you life after him. 🤍

  • @kristaljaneapolonio8910
    @kristaljaneapolonio8910 Před 3 lety +49

    "I've always thought I'd be spending the rest of my life with you. But you spent the rest of your life with me and I'm thankful for that.
    Im thankful that I was the last person you loved--" 😭

  • @paalisbojenny7098
    @paalisbojenny7098 Před 3 lety +3

    This is the most heartfelt video I saw on CZcams today.Honestly,I'm breaking while watching this.

  • @musuko8226
    @musuko8226 Před 3 lety

    💗 just opened my YT today and saw this. Really inspiring, thank you Nam for this beautiful message of love and living life. God bless you always.

  • @joanaserrato7800
    @joanaserrato7800 Před 3 lety +44

    Im a fan of franco. His smile makes you feel like everythings gonna be okay. It comforts you somehow. A pure feeling.

  • @ashleymargarettedeloterio7637

    ANG SAKIT. PERO ANG SARAP DIN SA FEELING THAT ATE NAM FINALLY MOVED ON. SHE’S HAPPY. I KNOW KUYA FRANCO IS GENUINELY HAPPY FOR YOU. THANK U FOR BEING STRONG.. I LOVE U ATE 🤍

  • @riyanshboro2192
    @riyanshboro2192 Před 3 lety

    Literally I'm crying rn cuz your words explains how much u have love him❤️

  • @ANNA-jg7nf
    @ANNA-jg7nf Před 3 lety +3

    The words Its been a while are making me cry

  • @jannabea4434
    @jannabea4434 Před 3 lety +77

    Saw Nam's post on IG and I went straight here. Even though the video hasn't started yet, tears fell from my eyes. I am a silent fan of Nam and Franco since then. It hurts so much. 💔

    • @reithasein1486
      @reithasein1486 Před 3 lety

      Me tooo. I cried everynight for a month when franco died.

  • @krystiencabantud5975
    @krystiencabantud5975 Před 3 lety +27

    When people ask "kanino Ka unang nag Ka gusto?"may answer never change"Kay hashtag Franco"even though she have his girl in her life they make me smile..I always watch Franco video and nam sweet moments with franco.when I knew that nam is in relationship with someone I'm happy because after a decade her sweet smile back again..I know Franco is happy..and I know what ever happen in nam future she always remember mico..
    Our butterfly 🦋🦋🦋🦋

  • @manilyneclarinal6623
    @manilyneclarinal6623 Před 3 lety +6

    crying my heart out watching this.. a love that is pure and geniune. cant imagine the pain you’ve been through and I honestly admired how you braved this journey of losing your first love.. been watching vids and reading your posts in IG since that sad day happened to franco.. you deserve all the love, nam!

  • @sofiashaz4772
    @sofiashaz4772 Před 3 lety +16

    A lover may die but their love live forever 😇

  • @hadjirulahmedmursidib.7027
    @hadjirulahmedmursidib.7027 Před 3 lety +38

    This video is not just reflection Kuya Franco,but also for your loved ones that departed you. Let’s be thankful that they made memories and brought life to this cruel world. Live In Peace,Kuya Franco!

  • @Idkhk
    @Idkhk Před 3 lety +351

    I just wanted to say that he is probably so proud of the person you became. stay strong please and try being/ staying happy❤

  • @cheatey0505
    @cheatey0505 Před 3 lety +5

    Anyway I shedded my tears unintentionally. I've never been through that tough moment, yet I felt all her pain.

  • @PAFM1089
    @PAFM1089 Před 3 lety

    I'm happy for you Nam, we're all happy for you, Franco still watching guiding and loving thank you for sharing May God blessed you always and your family

  • @jhynx2081
    @jhynx2081 Před 3 lety +19

    Ngayon, makaka move on narin ako sa story niyo, knowing that you're already happy. Thank you Ate Nam. You are an inspiration, you are so brave and you deserve all the love and happiness in this world. I'm rooting for you, God bless!🌊
    And kay kuya Franco, you will remain in our hearts and you will never be forgotten. We love you. 🤍

  • @ronalynsugpat5481
    @ronalynsugpat5481 Před 3 lety +104

    It really hurts when someone came to your life and expected to be with forever but one day it's gone, the most hard part is how to be live without pain inside and think of them happy and peaceful while you're in pain and missed. Hopefully everyone will be have a happy ending 🙏❤️

  • @Behappystayhappy733
    @Behappystayhappy733 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm crying
    And the feelings I feel while watching this video and all the words you're saying
    Is insanely hurting
    How can I unsee or unfeel the feelings
    I'm crying
    Lots of love and respect
    Fairy tale❤️

  • @crgcontents7800
    @crgcontents7800 Před 3 lety +1

    You are so inspiring. Even at your painful moments ~ you stayed so strong & your story has motivated many people to stay strong in painful moments. Thank-you Janica. 😇

  • @julianamae1596
    @julianamae1596 Před 3 lety +39

    "I've always thought that i'd be spending the rest of my life with you, but you spent the rest of your life with me" 😢I'm so happy that you find your happiness again ate nam!! You deserve it💓

  • @jkafam8896
    @jkafam8896 Před 3 lety +54

    My heart 💔 I'm Crying! 😭😭😭
    "How can I continue life when half of me left with you"
    “ I’ve always thought that i’d be spending the rest of my life with you. But you spend the rest of your life with me, and i am thankful for that. Im thankful that I was the last person you loved."
    "Your presence made me strong, but your absence made me stronger."
    "My love for you was the only thing that kept me going." 😭💔😌
    still can't move on but I'm happy and proud of you Nam! I know Franco and his fam too ❤️❤️❤️
    #OneGreatLove

  • @mariechristelle5588
    @mariechristelle5588 Před 3 lety +1

    When it came to the part she said she’s already happy, it brought me to tears. I’m happy for you Miss Janica, and I know so is Franco. Keep going, ate! You deserve the world. ❤️

  • @cadalzomylesa.5586
    @cadalzomylesa.5586 Před 3 lety +4

    I remember when Eraserheads said " Lahat ng pangarap ko'y bigla lang natunaw
    Sa panaginip na lang pala kita maisasayaw" 😭 be strong nam we love you

  • @kimjongbros8196
    @kimjongbros8196 Před 3 lety +17

    Do not be guilty for being happy again because you really deserve it. I know Franco would understand and for sure he wants you to be happy as well. Being with someone else now doesn't mean you'll forget everything about Franco, it is part of life and part of your healing. Thank you as well for your courage to continue living and for being strong despite everything. God sees everything, and Franco sees everything. Your guardian angel Franco will always be with you and with a smile on his face he will be at peace wherever he is right now because you are now also at peace.
    Be happy, Nam. That's what Franco wants. 🌹