Who The F*ck Did Kidology Make Friends With!? (When Male Friends Go Too Far!)
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Kidology: “A romantic relationship with you would be painful for me”
Lachlan: “That’s fine, I’m okay hurting you”
SERIOUSLY!
Also Lachlan: And I already am. You’re welcome.
I have a lot of female friends who have a lot of guy friends and I have heard numerous horror stories of the way these guy "friends" behave when they realize that the friendship isn't going to turn into something more. One lady I know showed me all the angry texts she got from a "friend" when he found out that she got a boyfriend. It can be pretty scary.
This is a function of society preaching submissive women and telepathic men as the ideal power couple. Look how dumb that is said the blind man to the deaf one, who responded back with "I hear ya mate." This sentence is funny on paper if you see two people actually doing this you'll be experiencing an unsettling feeling. "You're just supposed to know," is something I heard a woman telling her son, right after talking about how her marriage was sexless and the dude asked how would he know if the spark was fading in his new marriage.
Men and women can’t be friends this is old news the guy always tries something and getting angry , the chick tries to use him 🤦♂️
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387that’s so not true. It’s this exact kind of thinking that has men thinking they DESERVE women’s attention, time, love.. just no. REAL men and boys (who treat women and girls as equals. Not another species) are able to be friends with women and girls.
Men and boys, do better
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 That's not true. I've had several friendships with men that have lasted years. Some are now married, and their wives have become good friends of mine too. I've had guys accuse me of putting them in the "friend zone" in the past because I wasn't romantically interested in them, but that just showed me that they had ulterior motives and weren't my true friends to begin with.
I just tell guys that I don’t like men when they approach me. lol one day I might end up dating someone but it’s been a while so I feel like they won’t find out I’m lying.
The most unfortunate thing is that predatory people usually won’t see their mistakes. They are always right, and to them, boundaries are toxic. They think they should be able to get whatever they want. Especially if they “helped” you
The sense of entitlement and lack of empathy for the people they manipulate and target is quite telling. Also it's scary.
I'm sceptical of anyone who was defending this guy's actions. From the very beginning, this relationship was supposed to be a friendly one (as he said himself, he didn't see Kidology as a girlfriend). Then, he crosses all the boundaries of a friendship, but Kid is a bad guy for sleeping with another man as a lesbian? The entitlement is insane.
While I agree you don’t find it funny that she basically said she had a plan to sleep with one of his friends but then say men are shitty friends for faking a friendship an then try to the same
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069can you elaborate?
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 how do you know the plan was one sided and it wasn’t agreed upon ?
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 The friend she slept with consented\was interested!! It is NOT THE SAME THING. Shitty friends are friends who persist in trying to sleep with you despite telling them you aren't interested. Stop being a sulky loser and seek out relationships where you're feelings are mutually met.
@@kuromimi2007 calm your ass down🤣🤣🤣and yeah you are right I did not see the whole video
This video was very healing for me as someone who had a lot of male 'friends' throughout my teens and 20's who I eventually had to 'break up' with and always felt really guilty about it. Brittany popping off at 1:08:30 in particular, LOVED it 🙌🙌🙌
I dated this a guy like this but I only entertained it for around six weeks. She was right to feel unsafe to go on holiday with him. He would have definitely taken advantage.
I relate to Kid so much with the whole “women aren’t interested in me romantically” thing. I’m a bisexual woman with a preference for women but I haven’t had much luck dating women since my first gf in high school. They don’t even really match with me on dating apps. I’d love to be in a long term relationship with a woman some day, but they never seem to be interested in me in that way. It’s kind of discouraging and it makes me wonder what’s wrong with me because I haven’t had those problems with men.
Oh god same. My girlfriend was this way too, and coming together kind of let us realize that tastes in people exist on a crazily wide scale. You kind of think that now that you come in terms with your sexiality it'll get easier to find someone (you limited your dating pool and all), but with time you realized it's more build like fucking fractals lol, ever-expanding in their complexity within a seemingly limited group.
What I'm saying is, you'll find someone. There are plenty of women appreciating women who don't fit (see: BS's reaction to Kidology talking about herself being unattractive)
That is interesting. Do you think it's easier for masculine lesbians to get female attention because they 'look gay'?
@@leehalloway8787 in my opinion, yes, for sure
I’m so jealous of the people younger than me getting these lessons early without going through it themselves 😭
My ‘no’ being ignored at many, many points in a relationship was violating in an ever-debilitating way. Not that dudes this like would ever hear that. Cause what about THEIR feelings? 🙄
🙄😒🙄😒 seriously whyyyyy? Like their moms shoulda done better 😂 fr
For real. This has made me zip zap away from so many people. And I only know about some of the “bullets” I’ve dodged walking away from people who don’t act right
This is so frustrating having to argue about the reality of what’s obviously happening here. She literally provided the receipts. This guy is just so good at the manipulative, gaslighting language saying one thing and then immediately doing another. His actions=non-consent. Predatory.
hey @Brittany Simon if you need to learn the 24 hour time do this... Whenever someone tells you the 24 hrs time (in this context 18:00) always minus the second digit by 2 and then you will get the 12 hour time e.g. in this case the second digit is '8' therefore minus this by 2 which equals '6' therefore, the 12 hours time frame they are talking about is 6pm. My brother taught me this. Live long and prosper
I may have never been a Lachlan but I've been close in my life, and videos and stories like this have been extremely helpful in learning and then promptly unlearning the patterns and behaviors and beliefs that allowed me to be as disgusting as I was. Guys like this don't care about anyone else's experience or feelings, and while the ways people can get to that point are sad, their actions completely wipe out any possibility of empathy because they'll take advantage of it.
16:56 The requirement for a followup _is_ the red flag. It's classic word salad, trying to talk her up, and saying that he'll respect her boundaries, while _already_ pushing her boundaries
The getting up and leaving on this stream had me crying laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Also after this stream you made me realize I gave my ex too many chances to just be friends and I blocked him 🙌🏽
Love an open but with boundaries queen
Always enforce your boundaries otherwise you lose self respect. We all learn this way though. Sigh.
yeahhh. Sometimes takes learning the hard way even when people tell you and even you yourself deep down know.
But with the emotions involved it can be so hard.
But know that NO ONE is necessarily worth your time and feelings unless YOU want to give them your time and emotions.
100% agree. Glad OP got their ex blocked. Because yes!!! Exactly that.
@@xbabu142x I don’t think I necessarily do things like this for respect even respect for the self. I don’t really put much value on the term respect in general because it’s too vague of a term. I feel like it doesn’t mean anything inherently because the definition of respect varies too much from person to person. I like to think of it as honoring myself and my values when I put boundaries in place as opposed to thinking of it as losing something if i don’t assert my boundaries. For me, it works better to think of the gains rather than guilting myself into complying thinking of the losses if I don’t do something.
@@RambleMaven Self respect and self worth are the same thing. You're correct in your thoughts the combination of self respect and respect definitionally is vague and disconcerting. The only way others can see how to respect you are you to show them how you respect yourself. That's the enforcement of boundaries. Your thoughts are correct though, like you said just worded as gain instead of loss which if it works better for you that's the way.
I'm concerned that Kid making a video about her situation makes Lachlan feel like he is still part of her life.
Stalkers scare me, I am so grateful that I haven't had to deal with any.
Went through a similar situation recently, 😩 I just ended up blocking him
That would have been my first move. It doesn’t matter how lonely I am, I will not accept being treated poorly
There are soooo many similarities here to my relationship with my stalker, I genuinely hope Kidology is okay and safe. I thought my stalker blocked me too, but it turns out he was actually in prison for the rape of a 14 year old child. I hope it is, but im not sure this is the end of this saga for her, this is genuinely so scary watching as someone who has been through something like this and had it escalate
"bro I swear this game gets so good after 100 hours you gotta try it again"
the ending of my relationship with my best friend was straight up traumatising 😂😂 I lived with them for 7 years too.
People don't want to sleep with you because they are gay, ace, etc. They don't want to because they aren't into you like that.
You helped me to realise that I need therapy. Thank you
This got me thinking maybe I’ve ’blocked’ a few people who I’d previously told myself we had just sort of drifted away from. Oh well, no friendship ends for no reason.
I think as a women when we were young we all have experienced some sort of "hurt man" who is sensitive and vulnerable and we try our best to not hurt them by letting them down slowly cuz we don't want to be the cause of their pain even though they wouldn't do the same for us. Now I'm my 30s I love how assertive and how easy I can tell a man no and not feel bad. No means no and that's that. Never again am I going to Prance around with my answer.
1:31:44
Im 19 and this is definitely a red flag I will look out for in future male friends I make
This is a Guy Playing the Long Game to get in a Relationshio & if they got into a relationship & they got married this same story & those message we are reading can be told as something romantic as a guy persuing a woman
I think it's toxic either way. People think toxicity is romantic because people are damaged and don't realize it
@BrittanySimon exactly cause the idea of playing the "long game" and leaving certain things out and essentially manipulating the situation to get your desired result is so gross and also incredibly unfair to the other person that is apart of a game that they are not even aware of
This happened to me with a Friend of ten years. I finally broke it off and blocked him. Don’t play games. Games are for kids.
This was a great video, loved your whole conversation about boundaries and urging to reflect if you empathize/excuse Lochlan behaviors.
This is incredibly frustrating. I just blocked and ghosted a friend of ten years because despite repeatedly stating I never saw him as anything more and him INSISTING he felt the same, every relationship I’ve been in or date I’ve gone on he’s completely disparaged the person I was with. His jealousy got mean and bitter towards me and the others and it simply wasn’t fair. He would also try to kiss me/feel me up when drinking lol. I would always feel such a huge sense of relief when he’d get into relationships but he’d make the weirdest comments about them not liking me. I believed it in the first one but after repeatedly seeing this pattern I can’t help but think he was intentionally trying to pin us against each other. Turns out my hunch was correct and he said he was waiting for me to turn 30 because he figured I’d settle for him 🙄. Anyways I’m 29 and now in a healthy relationship and free of the toxicity.
In all honesty I think Z’s and a lot of people’s issue is not accepting people for who they are. Discernment isn’t as hard as we think, when someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM.
MILITARY TIME TRICK:
-2 from the second number
eg
18:00 = 8-2 = 6 pm
19:00 = 9-2 = 7pm
0/1 exceptions-
22:00 is 2-2= 0 so its 10 pm
21:00 is 21-2 which is 19 so its 9pm
and for 23:00 its 3-2 which is 1 so 23 is 11pm
this obviously isnt a mathematically perfect rule but once you understand it it works flawlessly and much quicker than +/- 12
Small novel inbound but I have a good male friend of two years who gets touchy when he’s drinking. I have shoo’d his hand away or have made comments but it wouldn’t stop. Then he started making snarky and rude to me in public but acted like it wasn’t anything when i would point it out. After a night where he was drinking and snapped at not only me but one of my friends and made me feel unsafe, I send him a long message the morning after. Then i find out he’s upset because there were three events (i found them to be minimal things but his feelings are valid) that he never spoke up about and thus clearly was building resentment over time. We took some time apart and had a talk and I am giving him another chance but am very weary of the red flags so far. I have laid my boundaries and have made my platonic feelings very clear so any violations of said boundaries in the future will show his true intent. We have a large overlap in our friend group and I typically see him one to two times a week so it would be painful to end the friendship especially since I do value his time and have been very vulnerable with him, but a man who can’t respect “stop” or “no” can be a very scary thing long term.
The funniest male friend-turned-enemy experience I have was the time a guy friend texted me with a hex (witch craft type curse) against me, for turning him down once he finally said how he truly felt about me, in these texts he was basically saying I’ll never find a good guy like him and that I’m cursed to be with assholes and treated like sh- for the rest of my life. He was spiritual and into his chakras and such, which explains the hex. This was over 20 years ago but I find it funny. I’m now 32 and still single, so maybe that hex is real 🤣
I’ve cut off a lot of guy friends and distanced myself from the few I have. I only call them when I need help with something heavy, and that’s after exhausting all my women friend options. For me, male friendship hardly feels genuine. It feels like, “I’ll be your friend if there’s a chance this becomes a relationship,” whereas my girlfriends come through because that’s what friends do.
I never understood people being a fan of people outside the art. I would always be confused by that even as a kid.
I left so many comments on Kidology’s video about it being textbook narcissism. I feel like a weirdo for it but every couple minutes it was just one behavior pattern after another I recognized. I hope she can learn about that personality type more and guard her incredibly kind and gentle heart. ❤❤ she did NOT deserve this!
35:49 I really appreciate kid’s words here because she is so right about this! I’ve recently had to end a friendship myself due to my feelings for the other person (since they were in a relationship with one of our other friends). It’s extremely draining to have to deal with someone who has feelings for you and refuses to let them go while also trying to retain a friendship with them.
I've had to stop a friendship because I was in love with them (we had broken up and were trying to be friends). I felt terrible and cut contact. I told my ex that I wasn't able to be friends and left her alone.
@@leehalloway8787 exactly it can be so hard to keep friendship with someone after a tough breakup so I relate. I found that the best thing for me is to cut contact
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They weren’t even in a situationship. From the very beginning he tricked her into meeting him and that’s how they even met. It was always a friendship.
The 15-minute mark should have been round about the end of this video. The thing went left quite fast, and yet I'm here wondering what the next 2.5 effing hours will be. Omg.
The next cringey thing she said was she is not into rejecting ppl.. wtf? These are DANGEROUS states of minds for women to have. She's speaks so intellectual and all that, so.. does she not know this? She actually annoyed me severely. Can we talk about the toxicity of this doormat behavior. She basically set herself up for this mess.. from the moment you met the associate, and they revealed he lied.
How do we watch train wrecks happening and sit back relaxed AND COMFORTABLE? This could have easily been a crime scene situation. I couldn't watch beyond her accepting the trip. Her horrible decision making makes her insanely untrustworthy to me.
This is my first time finding you an i feel like it was for a reason.......i have a guy like this and im so damaged im too afraid to hurt his feelings by putting my foot down an saying NO an not trying to be nice an he still tries to kiss me an hug me n even when i turn my head an say no he still does it......wait this is absolutely messed up as this is the 2nd guy this year who doesnt know the word NO is a full sentence ffs i need to listen to you and take the power an be offensive why do i think my feelings dont matter and just hurt feelings of actual predators actually committing crimes against me every day.....in my own home!!!! Ffs
You are leading him on by even entertaining him. Keeping him in your life is actively communicating to him that you're interested. It doesn't matter that you _would_ be interested in him as a friend or aquaintance. It's communicating to him that there's a foot in the door. Cut the guy out of your life, otherwise just know that you're a total asshole. If they're a classmate or something, they should be dead to you forever, and not in a cutesy way.
Yes, he may be an asshole as well on his part, yes, he's responsible for his bad behaviour, but _you're_ in charge of _your_ behaviour and on your part it's just nasty to lead someone on unless you're in some kind of life or death situation. Yes, you're leading him on, with your actions and decisions, by being "too afraid to hurt his feelings", and with your hesitant behaviour you are.
This kind of thing is going to keep happening to you if you don't change your strategy.
@@LiliS319 OK so I didn't expect to be attacked.....I thought we're ment to support people an not name call and just be mean......I'm aware my problem is me I'm aware my past trauma is the reason I'm unable to stand up to the opposite s3x I'm very aware that may make me a bad person for "leading men on" but also I've said no repeatedly I try and wiggle away I'm not going to him I've tried to cut him off I had to get new window coverings as he lives right above me and passes by and looks in acting like everything is fine with a smile and a wave even though I've cut him off and told him to leave me alone but somehow I give in and he is suddenly back in the garden to see my dogs then he works his way into the house and touching me when I physically back off away and he doesn't take that as a demonstration of me not wanting him near me......I know that if I say no 100x I'll be ignored and at this point I'm sure I will be ignored by every man cos apparently no just means they need to convince me......your blaming me for other people behaving in a messed up way says more about you than me your screaming "but what was she wearing" and "she was asking for it" I can be a full human woman and alow a man into my home and not expect that to be an override button to being assaulted a man who I've repeatedly told to not touch me an to just be civil as neighbours and still if I let him into my space I deserve what happens? I don't understand 😕 I've read your message a few times cos I'm in disbelief.......people target weak people and I'm a target I'm disabled I'm autistic and was abused in childhood oh then I was forced into marrying my ex who was abusive and an alcoholic I've been treated badly by men my whole life but according to you I'm the one in the wrong......I'm the asshole?! Actually mind blown at this tbh I don't have much self love but I know I'm not wrong or leading anyone on........am I delusional should it be a case of I was asking for it?!
@@chronicallyhorror re. being harsh, I'm not part of Brittany's community, so I'm not represantative of it.
Hesitancy in women and coyness are very easy to confuse. I nowhere suggested that you deserve if, Gød forbid, the guy does something bad to you, what I'm saying is that you should consider going about it in a different way, to achieve a different outcome. Yeah, as you continue to describe the guy he sounds like a creep, here's the thing, your own actions are the only thing you can control. (Actions like making sure your behaviour is not easy to mistake for coyness, actions like not inviting him into your home.)
@@LiliS319 I actually don't invite him into my home he just comes in like he will go into my garden to play with my dogs and then will "innocently" look for me like carrying one of my pups saying "where's mummy" in a jokey jovial way that makes you feel like taking it next level by being like your in my house against my will and without consent will make me look like a crazy person like laughing at me as if im cute being huffy (this has happened that's why I'm saying that I actually don't think I'm cute when I'm taking a stand) I've actually in the last 10mins sent him a message before he gets home from work to day I'm putting my boundaries down hard and I don't want him touching me for any reason at all and telling him what he's doing by ignoring me when I say no is actually criminal I've said all this before multiple times but he somehow works his way back...the fact he's my neighbour and my 2 wee dogs love him an cry when he walks past an doesn't come to play with them he uses that as an in and I know that sounds crazy but it happens I'm not proud of my behaviour but I also give myself a break cos I've repeatedly said no and give no reason for him to believe I wanted him to touch me but he continues.......after sending him the message telling him the rules an saying going against my will is a crime I'm saying no no no an he's just doing it anyway but having sent that message I'm just waiting on a "do you want anything from the shop?" Message cos he always does that it's like I'm just a woman I'm being irrational and if he gets me a treat from the shop I'll forget what I said
.....this has happened repeatedly which is why it's now embarrassing to day no cos it's just not taken seriously and he just thinks I'm being cute or something he's a man in his 50s btw so I think its the generation he's in since it's his range who used to catcall women walking past building sites or don't see a problem with nipping a woman's bum cos she should be flattered.....I'm in my 30s btw I feel like his age group are the last to think women need men to tell them what's right and wrong you know? I know he's my neighbour and folk say just move but you can't move when you both own the houses your stuck and want to keep the peace which would be easy if he just took my no as a full sentence then we could be neighbours an he could throw the ball for the dogs an not cross my boundaries but he's making it so hard and I don't have the balls to stick to my convictions
@@LiliS319I don't think she's an asshole to the guy. She has been clear in saying no and refusing his advances.
She's being an asshole to herself by not holding better boundaries and not removing herself from a bad situation.
Oh god, it was hard not to cringe during this video... I had a crazy limerence phase like that when I was 17 (without the overt consent violation because the person kept being intentionally vague), and even in that case I can't defend any of what I did, it was craaazy. I don't get why anyone would defend this dude, he's clearly a danger to others and himself.
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58:49&1:02:23 1:08:20 1:17:46 So true
Also the reason cognitive gave him the benefit of the doubt maybe, was that he acted like the nice guy so much. but bro, asking for consent only counts if you're willing to respect the answer
52:10 Patrick Ewing: “What kind of shot is that?!”
the Martha impression crept me out, that was so good!! haha
the pacing back and forth omg I feel that
Guys like this are so freaking entitled ugh and I hate that they target and take advantage of those who go out of their way to be kind and empathetic
i was really surprised that kidology related so much with that really internalized misogynistic take… like kidology, i think that speaks more of you if you think female friendships are rife with hatred. most of the ppl who betrayed her on this platform were MEN.
One time I watched a man in real time SINCERELY and ashamedly attempt to change my VERY LESBIAN friend straight and it was appalling. Absolutely disgusting tbh. I couldn’t believe it.
Not the unnecessary Evangelion roast
I love your reaction to this man hahaha I think this type of man is a bit of a trope and heaps of people have awful experiences with them. It makes it funny because it's so similar from person to person ahhaha
If kidology keeps advertising herself as a women with problems then she will keep attracting people who are into brokenness and confusion.
Exactly. Those people will either also have a lot of problems or they will see her as an easy target.
@@leehalloway8787 Exactly it.
48:11 I don't have a single female friendship that thrives on insecurity, that's gross. I've blocked all of those "friends" who ever made me feel that way. Every female friend I have now is because I feel 100% SECURE with them and we lift each other up. If you're a woman who thinks you need to feel insecure and shame with your female friends you need better friendships
In a situation like this you have to ask ‘what’s in it for ‘’Lachlan’’? There’s no such thing as a ‘friend’ (who you previously didn’t know) who suddenly offers to host you and act as an unpaid tour guide and so on. Ask yourself, would you do this? What for?
To be honest, we shouldn't have to ask these questions. But when a person thinks like Lachlan. I have been friends with gay women who do these things and don't think we are any more than friends. I have a male friend that is the same way. This is definitely an issue with someone who cannot manage his feelings as an adult.
@@venuslove-i1vseriously. I shouldn’t have to put someone under a microscope to be sure they aren’t acting out of malice. That’s in them to control themselves and their words and actions. Not on me to constantly scrutinize them and the situation. Because I WOULD do those things out of kindness and genuinely platonically
OP? Do better pls.
@@BigAlexgator ??
@@HkFinn83 it feels very victim blame-y
15:23 but that's because of necessity and because you want to boink
great video Brittany, it made me realise a lot of things, thank you
1:48:51 yeeeessssss go off 👏
That man is the makings of a serial killer.
I said what I said.
30:00 Why doesn’t she just alter the voice so he is unrecognizable and then she can share the voicemail?
43:00 everyone is freaking out about his comment here and calling it a violation of consent and I would just like to defend this guy one time and one time only. I am ace lesbian, and I am comfortable being in physical and sexual relationships with people I am not attracted to. I am happy for them to be attracted to me, and it doesn’t bother me and I am glad that they are happy. If they’re happy, I’m happy, and it doesn’t have to be weird or rapey. I’m really good at pleasuring people, it’s a talent. I LIKE doing it, even though I’m not attracted to them sexually. The act itself is still fun for me. And I think that’s what Loclken was trying to say. For me, if I love you then I will pleasure you whether I am attracted to you or not, because we are in love and it’s something that you want out of a relationship that doesn’t bother me one way or another.
I’d like to point out that sex is not a chore either just because it doesn’t “bother me”
Like
It’s just a thing I do with my partner like any other thing they want to do!
I’m having fun because they’re having fun, even tho this isn’t what I would choose to do.
1:25:00 sleeping with men doesn’t mean sleeping with Locklen LOL
1:48:00 shout out BDSM
Sorry but this woman comes across as a massive complainer who just constantly airs out her weaknesses and dirty laundry on the internet cuz shes lonely… I have very few friends and am often very lonely myself but I never understood blasting personal life issues on the internet like she does. Just causes more personal drama and pain.. shes clearly not over these issues so the way she overshares leaves room for her to get more hurt by public comments. :/
I actually agree with that and one of the things I love in my relationship with my wife is that we keep EVERYTHING out of internet and keep most things private. We were just talking the other day that these internet figures just overshare every detail of their relationships for views and subs.
It's disconcerting how this is becoming such a norm.
Her JOB is a content creator are you one? You cannot compare what she does to what you do. It makes sense she will talk about her life & what's going on in it.
I think we are lucky to see people change over the years, and this video marks some change in kidology, but also, it's normal to feel frustrated with people when they seem to be stagnant. I look forward to seeing continued change.
Wtf? She got married? To who? He did what. Wtf
It's more like " Who tf did I try to be friends with ?" 😅
It's a play on a popular series on tiktok. "Who TF Did I Marry?" she didn't marry anyone 😅 It's about friendship.
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Half way through. Women, do not reject a man who is your friend and then days later tell him you had sex with another guy for any reason. Updates soon:
Update: Crashing out over a woman that rejected you and lied to you about being a lesbian is inexcusable. Kidology gets an extra point for still entertaining buddy.
CTE Score:
Kidology - 2
Man - 3
This is unexpected content.
Bro, her entertaining him so much is leading him on. In _today's_ society it is, it shouldn't have to be this way, but it is. I think to understand how not to do this you have to also realize that it's not just an unwise thing to do for your sake, it's also unethical (that's what I think).
Everything on the guy's part can be spot on at the same time though, but this was what I immediately focused on. This kind of thing doesn't only happen to Lochlins.
Brittany you literally married a fan though 😂
I DID NOT. I have said this many times There is a difference between a fan and someone who knows your work or saw one of your videos. I'm a public figure, people being fans and people who know I have a job on the internet are different kinds of people.
@@BrittanySimon I was just teasing but I appreciate your response cause I really did think he was more of a fan.
"men are such horrible friends"
"So anyways, I was planning on going on vacation with my FRIEND, but only because I planned to unalive myself beforehand"
"And I needed my 😺 scratched, so I came up with some scheme to sleep with one of my FRIENDS"
"MEN are such horrible friends"
Scheme like trick ??
@@Crissybooable yes, that's how she described it
I just wonder, can she hear herself?
well that's the femcel part isn't it 😬
Its giving pick me bisexual
😂