Like A Thief in the Night: De'Ja Jenkins v Malik Torres
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- čas přidán 6. 11. 2023
- De’Ja says Malik is a liar and a cheater who loves stealing money out of her accounts. Now she’s ready to end this relationship. Malik says these are all just misunderstandings and he wants to save their relationship.
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Dating a man 16yrs your senior and having to provide him this level of financial support is crazy.
Any man, any age.
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DITTO... running ole pimp mind games 😡
I wouldn't do it.
He ought be ashamed to be in such an arrangement.
He's such a bum/dusty. He kept saying that he didn't need her for anything. Yet, he couldn't afford to buy anything on his own.
Oh, wow...
Truth!!!!
He was a user, manipulative, gaslighting and has nothing before her.
But he say he paying it back lol
That was should be changed to Is!
The look on judge face when she said she put his name on all her accounts and gave him a credit card😭
Shock, horror and disgust 😂
I had the same look. Shes 30 and you’re going to be his age by the time it’s all straightened out.
The juror in the back shaking her head 😂😂😂😂😂
Yep 😮
Crazy ish never
She shouldn’t have given that man a card. A BOYFRIEND? Ridiculous!
It’s not about him being a boyfriend, it’s him being him. Even if he was her husband she shouldn’t have given him a card.
@@ashleychamon6446 I’m with you when you right!
She knew she was dealing with a bum if she gave him a cc. It's very masculine of her.
Right! I have children I would think twice about giving them a card. He just hit the lottery. She wanted to keep him happy at the expense of losing herself which never works.
Judge Star Got Wt Hs A&& He Wasn't Use To Tht ,He Is A User I Get The Femina Vibe ,HE Taking Her Money Wineing Dining Her Wth Her Own Money ,SHE A Nut For Giving Him A Card & Money
My husband always told me dudes that are gym rats are typically/most likely BROKE 😂😂😂 I ain’t gonna lie my husband be right about most things, I gotta start listening to him more often lol
❤😂🎉😅😊 go head sis 🤣
Ain’t nothing wrong with taking care of your health, but I will agree that the guys addicted to the gym be broke and weirdos
💀💀 your husband definitely onto something 😂
I feel like when my man started going to the gym that made him a better person. He mentally, physically, emotionally and financially performed better in our relationship after working out.
I have allot of guy friends because I use to work at the gym. All of the guys are fine but all of them ninjas got problems I'm not willing to deal with like being broke or never having a car. I most definitely believe men and women can be friends even if they are both attractive, if both parties stick to their morals and values. You can like a person and think they're cool but also understand you won't go past the physical.
It be so obvious they are BROKE
I’m just trying to figure out how he was trying to make it make sense that he was buying her Valentines gift and taking her out with her money😂😂😂😂😂
Yes
That part. Romance is alive and well. And how considerate, not that rack s**t, no no, it gotta be tailored cos he need to look fresh for his future wife, yes ma'am. On her dime? Don't sweat the minor details, she gon' get every penny back plus interest, on the 32nd of Neverary. 🤣
That’s exactly what he did!!!!
Make it make sense 😅
He’s a conman. Any man that is that willing to take money from you needs to go.Edit: This man is 46???
You are exactly right!!! He’s a con man!!! Plus he arrogant enough to feel entitled!!!
U crying 😢 and he said you're doing him a favor... lady walk away
Right! That statement would have made my decision even easier.
He does not deserve her 💯
Nah 🏃
And in 4 to 8 weeks, gonna be in her DMs/Missed Calls/texts/whatever "B-baby please... I'm sorry; I'm not ready to give up on us! I can change!" when all that stolen money dries up.
She’s literally as equally as responsible for the situation she’s in! She gave him access to all her money WITHOUT BEING HER HUSBAND. It will be a lesson learned. His suit is too tight and he is an user
Too tight. Maybe wanted to show his biceps. Eleven thousand sounds like "eleventeen"🤣🤣🤣
No shes not..hes a thieving user
There are some men who will hide this side of them until they become a husband. She was foolish for sure, marriage wouldn't cure that. She definitely needs to wake up though.
Not the suit too tight lol
No she’s not she is a sweet the man is a user this y see women don’t want to spend a penny on guys.
He’s annoying, argumentative, a user,broke, dusty, and just a headache. She was a fool for giving him a credit card in her name. She better LEAVE before he drains her in every shape and form!!
How you take her out with her card, propose and then says she owes you for taking her out 😂 where is his job?!
The gym and those eye brows
@@Idk-hy9zk😂😂
He bought that ring with her card! She bought her own engagement ring! SMH
Then had a nerve to get indignant and say "she doesn't have to be my wife". He got mad because Starr called him out...
What a bum
Exactly
Lack...of...accountability..and he's remorseless even when hes dead wrong..🚩🚩
U gave him access to your money ma'am.. You have to take some accountability in this. If he didn't have access to it, he would've never spent it
He say he a hustler which mean no job and she's the hustle !!!
Gas and food and suits and earrings equals 11,000 dollars. That man was simply living off of her credit card.
Yea that guy had used her i think he has been taking advantage of her
I don't feel sorry for her at all.
We all see that, but apparently she doesn't;and that's really sad!
That's wild. He said I used your card on you so it's on you. Cold Blooded.
This lady is clearly financially independent...so why put up with this user😢😢😢my Goodness 😢😢
Ok what is wrong with her? why after any unauthorized transactions (especially after a big ticket item) would you allow him to keep using a credit card
She complained about the drama, but doesn't want to walk away from it!
exactly
because she did not want to deal with the consequences of her actions. had she done that, the relationship would have been impacted and major life decisions would have had to be made. she did not want to face that. it would have clearly meant the end for them.
He’s probably taking care of somebody else on her dime!! That’s how trifling he is!!
Now this! Been there done that
Oh I'm sure he is
I was about to say the same thing Judge Star... straight gigolo.
He even looks like one.
It's called "Breadwinner's Remorse"... When a woman grows tired of supporting an entire household, (she's taking care of everyone, nobody's taking care of her) Never do this with a boyfriend.
It happens with husbands too
I can hear Judge Toler fussing at the young lady for giving the man a credit card.
She would've read them both to the ledge!
He's saying he bought jewelry for her on her credit card. So essentially he didn't buy anything, she bought her own jewelry.
When he said "she's a great woman of course cause im with her" cemented my distaste for him n solidify her "stupid "
i had the side eye too @kerry-annwilliams2915
from jump. none of that other suga.honey.iced.tea needed t be said lol
I cringed when I heard that. Right then I knew he was a scum bag.
She should have stuck to her original agreement, food and gas. It was HER CREDIT, HER LIMIT.She was allowing him to purchase for her on her own card. What a mess!!!!
He looks like the devil in disguise to me-a wolf in sheep's clothing!!! He's a user and a verbal abuser. She should NEVER have put his name on all her accounts and credit card. She deserves better. She needs to run and get her money back too. He takes no accountability at all for his actions. He acts like a boy instead of a man. He's 16 years older than her. He should have already been established financially by now. It's always easier to spend somebody else's money like he has spent hers. I bet a dollar to a doughnut she will never see a dime of that money. Young lady, pleass learn from your mistakes!!!
Exactly! That money is gone. I hope she learned a valuable and expensive lesson!
He sure does...
His age doesn't automatically mean that people don't fall on hard times , I am of course not speaking about him , I'm talking about all people in general .
That’s exactly what he is!!!! I’m finding it so difficult to listen to him!!! I can’t stand users!!!
@perfectlyimperfect9129
Absolutely true. I’ve fallen on hard times. But I wouldn’t use someone else’s credit card to get myself out of a hole
I would tighten my belt and pick up another job.
Of course he proposed, he was trying to wife that MONEY!
Narcissism oozes out of his pores. No one should be with him.
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The desperation in this beautiful, seemingly intelligent woman is alarming. She seems to be in a hurry to find that husband and family that she desires and she's trying to find it in an undeserving dusty. Man is talking about how many things he bought for her and he did it with her money 😂
Girl wake up and realize that you deserve better, remove him from all your accounts and end the relationship. If he refuses to pay you back, take him to court again.
After all of that! After her presenting her case which such Grace and poise, she ended it all with I don't need this right now. My jaw dropped
judge star really be having the most iconic endings lol.
That narcissistic spirit
Exactly!
He’s an intentional spirit breaker, you better move on💯‼️
Grown men handle they business financially and don't depend on a woman to take care of them financially
She wasted the judges time. I think she will stay
Reminds me of kids who asks mommy for money to buy her a gift
Unfortunately, she’s trapped. If she stays anywhere near him, he’s going to talk his way right back into her pockets. He has her so twisted-she should be happy he’s spending her money..on her. Had he not gotten greedy, she would have accepted all of his charges. So sad that she’s fallen in love with a playa
He's going to talk his way right back into her pockets and "britches!"
The crazy part is that she doesn't have to be.
He is angry because she rejected his proposal plus she brought him on national TV to humiliate him. He is angry. He already has an aggressive BK personality which makes it worse.
But at the same time she is an enabler and has contributed to some of the issues they have. Especially, not tell the full story on some of the parts she played.
why did he come? personal promotion?
lol the need for courtroom sage 😂
Something not right with her either.
Something ain't connecting up there.
Desperation 😢
I can’t believe he is wholeheartedly echoing how he buys her things with HER money and credit!! As if that’s a good thing she should be grateful for!! And then says she’d be “doing him a favor” by her leaving as he stands there in a tailored suit with money he STOLE from her. My god. Please let there be MEN in these comments denigrating this behavior. With the SAME conviction they denigrate user women. That man CANNOT actually be that stupid and cold and think he’s justified. Can’t be!! Right? Come on someone ANYONE restore my faith. SOMEONE!!!!
can't.... That's what you call getting straight FINESSED! Sorry, she got own dumb self in this mess, and if she's still with him, she's no longer a victim, but a willing participant🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏
Judge Star,
You are a trip. What else would have been clipped Sister?💖💚
He njoyed spending on that card he used her
Naw she's not innocent. She wanted to give him the card but complain. She could've canceled the card or never gave it to him. If he can't get a card then why do you want him. She started off wrong and ended up here.
she is a beautiful woman she deserves more than this let him go, yeah I guarantee it's going hurt for a minute ...my prescription to you is Ben & Jerry, chardonnay, and watch Steel Magnolias to help clear those tear ducts
I disagree this time. She started paying his bills, even when he started buying things other than food and gas, the original agreement, she still didn’t revoke the card, of course she bear some blame for the 11,000 .
That’s what the Judge said so what exactly are you disagreeing with?
@@Burlykim13exactly!
And?? If it was a dollar that’s still stealing.
He's con, all his 46 years on earth has been funded by people that raised him and the women he dated. I'm also mad at her for opening up a credit line for a boyfriend? Not even a husband? And no way she was hesitant when asked if she wanted to stay with him, girl bye🙄
Hi everyone ☺️
And this something that people do when they think they are inlove but it never works...iconic ending Judge Star!
Why are You ARGUING with HIM? ? ? LET THAT FOOL GET GONE! 🤔
When she said she gave him a credit card for gas and food I knew that's when she MESSED UP. I think its weird to give a grown man a CC. He's not even married to her. Then he purchased all these suits after she said not to. He did use her and I hope she never does this again.
What the heck?? Why would you give a man your credit card who is going through a dry spell in finding a job? He’s financially insecure, you have credit through the y zoo, ok heck yeah he’s going to go to town using your credit card to buy you expensive gifts!!!! What is going on? I mean really!
He thought he found a sugar mamá but HONEY she owned His ass on court, Sue for that money babe
She can't sue for that money..she authorized it..
This is what personal trainers do....flirt having relationships with their clients.
Uuuggghhh he is so annoying!! Childish and no accountability. She needs to run!
Hope she is listening to everything he says and then replay the tape.. I don't need her, you gave me the card, what did you expect me to do, I hustle etc...
Giiirl Ruuun🏃🏽♀️💨💨💨
He's TALKING CRAZY!
He was on his Brooklyn shit😂😂😂..she was trippin,sis knew he was a personal trainer that needed suits and a eazy pass
Why would anyone put a non-spouse on their credit card? This is on her! He clearly wasn't in a place to take care of the bill. Hence, gas and groceries! She was cool taking care of an able body man. She wasn't cool with him taking advantage of her.... but she made it so easy! She doesn't even look like she sweating that money either. He was blowing that back out!
When he first started talking. I knew he was DISGUSTING.
He is soooo controlling and has no remorse about how he used her...she can't marry that dude....run girl run!
Hello Judge Star, nice to see you again 💫She should not have given him access to having credit in her name.
you doing me a favor is crazy lol. girl you're young enough to keep it pushing
robert said that's cold lmfaooo yo
When you volunteer to give something to a person you should expect a lot of times things might go sideways the moment you seen those charges going up. You should have took his name off the credit card so really she's at fault because she seen what was going on she could have stop it.
This man is SUPER ungrateful and selfish. Girl RUN!!!
I love when they think they can ARGUE WITH THE JUDGE in THEIR COURT and THINK THEY'RE GONNA WIN...
This man is 46 and the woman is 30. He doesn't have $$to buy his own suits??? He's disrespectful. Let him take the ring back. Run baby girl
Rule number one personal trainers are a no no! This women was so naive why would you allow him to keep using the card like Judge star advised. He’s a user and it’s clear.
He just proved that we have a lot of goofy minded women out there who fall for stupidity!
Nah like seriously what is wrong with this man. I wouldn’t have had the patience judge star had.
I’m so concerned she gave him access to her bank account and cards. That is a big mistake!!!
She's paying for everything, but HE'S got the attitude????????
He said I always take her out even if it’s on her card
Its the "something else would have been clipped too" for me LOL!
She is a 30-year-old woman NOT a 30 year old girl, not excusing what he did but stop taking accountability off these women as if they are children that can't think for themselves...💯
Put him on all of your bank accounts?!?! Girl….🤧
He brought that married ring with her money not his money
Food for the body is not enough. There must be food for the soul.
How this dude say “I bought you” but it was her money?? Bro I could never take money from my girl.
He sorry & I know she saw that before giving him a credit card smh. I hope she learned a valuable lesson. No one can buy love. He's arrogant & disrespectful. He's showing he's irresponsible as it comes. Girl take that hurt & run the hell on.
That woman is that Man's Mother!!!
Women NEED to Leave these BROKE Guy's Alone! 😁🙄🤔
I always heard, "You like it, I love it!"
Broke and using her money to buy suits. Trying to look the part with no job and no security 😂😂
THESE WOMEN NEED TO STOP GIVING THESE "BOYFRIENDS" THEIR COINS AND THEIR COOKIES! THAT IS HUSBAND AND WIFE BEHAVIOR!
She said a nice smile and abs and had all that going for himself Lmaoo that’s crazy. 🤦♀️
She can buy 2000 jewelry but won't buy suits
She brought this man, now she mad about some money
He is a narcissist. He has no money at 46yrs old?! What is with that?
Did anybody hear the insult that she is a good woman because she is with him. So she's nothing without him. 🤣
Also, where's the love in his voice for her. He talks like he doesn't love but just tolerates her. She had to think about marriage. I wouldn't give him a second.
Later bro...
reminds me of something the late 1st Seattle Seahawks coach Jack Patera told his players that very first training camp in 1976..."we will TOLERATE you, until we can REPLACE you"...seems to me that's what this guy is doing.....tolerating her until he can replace her....oh well, it just be's that way sometimes, Have Mercy!!!🤣🤣🤣
WTH was she thinking giving him a credit card for gas n food .😂😂😂😂 Sorry girl ...air slap...1,2,3,over😂😂
If you want marriage you don't hope for it. You talk to your potential mate to see if that's their goal as well. You hoped he was all the things and from jump, HE WAS NOT. This is your fault, hope you learned your lesson.
He thought he was a Ghost from the show Power
Narc Run. Listen to the Judge. He is not going to change. Ever
I pray that she gets counseling for herself and love herself.
the joint bank accounts for boyfriend/girlfriends need to stop it makes no sense EVER
Lol I took you out with your own money 😂😂