How Chassidic Jews get engaged!

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  • @TheCC1968
    @TheCC1968 Před 2 lety +67

    I'm Roman Catholic and I'm thrilled that I found your channel. I've been for years so interested in learning of your community and your traditions. Thank you for sharing your family with all of us. I feel privileged just to be able to have a peek. Beautiful party...........🎆☮️🥳💖👍💐

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Před 2 lety +9

      Aw thank you and Welcome!! ♥️ Thank you for being part of our online family!

    • @ColRusSer
      @ColRusSer Před 2 lety +6

      Me, too, and I love watching them! Of course, my father always worked with Jewish companies and I have many wonderful memories with our lovely Jewish friends and at many Jewish events. We also lived in Jewish neighborhoods.😄

    • @junebalsam3539
      @junebalsam3539 Před rokem +4

      Me too. Catholic and love these two and baby.

    • @junebalsam3539
      @junebalsam3539 Před rokem +1

      Me too.

    • @dianeallen6330
      @dianeallen6330 Před rokem +1

      Same here!

  • @jacquelineczizik7128
    @jacquelineczizik7128 Před rokem +6

    Although I am Catholic, I enjoy and look forward to your videos. Besides being a learning experience, it is refreshing seeing such a close knit community. Thank you for sharing your traditions and values.

    • @Sara88890
      @Sara88890 Před rokem

      I am from a half Jewish, and half Christian family in the US, I love hearing it too. Maybe I will look to become Jewish in the future. I think all religions have a nice way to be for most people. G-d provides for people who live a good life.

    • @jacquelineczizik7128
      @jacquelineczizik7128 Před rokem +2

      @@Sara88890 As a child, I lived in an area that was predominantly Jewish. My youngest sister had Croup. Night's when my dad working, several of the Jewish neighbors offered to take my mom to hospital with my sister. As a whole, my Jewish neighbors very friendly and caring. We never felt out of place. Both Catholics and Jewish as pro life as you can be. It would be a kinder world if we all focused more on commonalities.

    • @Sara88890
      @Sara88890 Před rokem +1

      @@jacquelineczizik7128 How lovely, thank you for sharing Jacqueline!

    • @elisevandyk7262
      @elisevandyk7262 Před rokem

      Me too

  • @josephinedoyle9540
    @josephinedoyle9540 Před rokem +3

    So I’m a teacher in Roman Catholic school in the Uk and I teach a unit on Judaism to year 8(12/3 years old) the pupils love learning all the different customs and teaching my pupils about them… the foundation of respect and love is to understand each other’s customs…I love finding channels like yours as it brings their book learning to life. 👍🏼thank you

  • @Sara88890
    @Sara88890 Před 2 lety +5

    Mazel Tov! Glad you can see everyone late, I love how your family is growing larger each year!

  • @naturescoper3936
    @naturescoper3936 Před rokem +3

    I'm new to the channel and can't wait to see more ,mazal tov to the couple .

  • @avitalcohen2175
    @avitalcohen2175 Před rokem +1

    You do such a good job at explaining every aspect of our Jewish lives to the world, in a beautiful and respectful way! I am so thankful for your channel, it brings positivity and awareness to the Jewish Orthodox community and that’s amazing☺️

  • @sararivkah1613
    @sararivkah1613 Před 2 lety +6

    Toda ! Beautiful family. So nice to see this engagement party.

  • @amystubby
    @amystubby Před 2 lety +6

    Can I just say, your own shidduch was so blessed...you all are a perfect match. Your personalities compliment one another beautifully. Mazel tov to the happy couple!

  • @TheHarleysmaster47
    @TheHarleysmaster47 Před 2 lety +3

    Mazel tov and congratulations. Ty for giving us a look into your traditions and beliefs. It's greatly appreciated for the learning experience. I love your channel. Many thanks and so much appreciation for showing us!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💖💖💖💖💖💖

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Před rokem

      Thank you!! Thank you for being a part of our online family here! ❤️❤️

  • @sarita3337
    @sarita3337 Před rokem

    So beautiful! May God bless you.

  • @zipporaabram1365
    @zipporaabram1365 Před 2 lety +5

    Love this vlog!! What a great family!!! Danny’s mom is the best! ❤️

  • @channel12929
    @channel12929 Před 2 lety +5

    blessings on you
    ماشاء اللہ

  • @pamreynolds6812
    @pamreynolds6812 Před 2 lety +2

    I love this channel the live and the togetherness I daven at a chabad shul and my rebbetzin is chabad. I live everything chabad. Do much joy and happiness

  • @kemageorge2194
    @kemageorge2194 Před 2 lety +10

    You passed by my house!! 😆
    Congratulations to the beautiful couple. Thank you for sharing! 😊

  • @seekay1876
    @seekay1876 Před rokem +2

    Love this style of vlog

  • @carolklein9499
    @carolklein9499 Před 2 lety +26

    I wish I had been brought up in this community! Mazel tov on the happy couple’s engagement!

  • @rodneywilson4014
    @rodneywilson4014 Před rokem

    Roman Catholics here loving your channel!

  • @ninaswift6979
    @ninaswift6979 Před rokem

    You guys should go on the stage !!! get money for bein' so funny. 🤩🤩🥰🥰😍😍

  • @coastalfarmhouse1820
    @coastalfarmhouse1820 Před rokem +1

    I would love an English translation of the lyrics of the songs the men are singing and dancing to. (Video idea)

  • @ColRusSer
    @ColRusSer Před 2 lety +2

    Congratulations! What a joyful celebration with lovely family and friends! Gives a person hope for the future; especially during these often grey days.🥰

  • @angeladutchlady6464
    @angeladutchlady6464 Před rokem +1

    From the Netherlands a big Mazel Tov.

  • @shaindystern1038
    @shaindystern1038 Před 2 lety +4

    Beautiful

  • @shayaroth
    @shayaroth Před 2 lety +4

    Mazel Tov!
    🎉 🍾 🎉 🍾 🎉
    🥂 🥂 🥂 🥂

  • @deboraholler2211
    @deboraholler2211 Před rokem

    Congratulations x

  • @goodmorning-bu8rr
    @goodmorning-bu8rr Před 5 měsíci

    Halo may friend and may family iwont to see you olwes very happy ilavd you ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tamararutland-mills9530
    @tamararutland-mills9530 Před 2 lety +2

    Mabel Tov! A light to the nations!

  • @channel12929
    @channel12929 Před 2 lety +3

    Best of luck brother citizens and sister citizens

  • @magicteen1
    @magicteen1 Před rokem

    0:37 thought I heard “what the f**k” 😂😂

  • @danielbenisrael3852
    @danielbenisrael3852 Před rokem +1

    shalom i love u guys ❤

  • @CDGMR1
    @CDGMR1 Před rokem +2

    Luv the separation. Prevents adultery, lust, and sexual immorality.

  • @georgiabluhm1091
    @georgiabluhm1091 Před rokem

    I am german juwis, is great, Danke

  • @elwishcourier6225
    @elwishcourier6225 Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️

  • @junebalsam3539
    @junebalsam3539 Před rokem

    I am thrill to say that I am an avid follower and love Mendel.

  • @blumberg1982
    @blumberg1982 Před 2 lety

    Mazel Tov!!

  • @Sakhan-qs2gz
    @Sakhan-qs2gz Před rokem

    All prayers we memorise by heart as Muslims

    • @tal8871
      @tal8871 Před 5 měsíci

      so do Jews, but we want to read the words so we can have a deeper prayer

  • @alizahalon
    @alizahalon Před 2 lety +9

    Not all chassidic Jews get engaged like this. These people are Lubavitch as am I. Other chassidim get engaged a bit differently.

    • @maril1379
      @maril1379 Před 2 lety +6

      Yes that's true . I'm not Hasidic but I am aware of this.
      For public reading for example Satmar and Gur are very different.
      The philosophy of dating does not exist in the same way in secular society. w
      Also for public info Lubavitch are much more open than many other groups which are more insular. Some other groups do not approve of women being filmed. Different customs.
      Other Jewish denominations male and female mix more in social situations let's say outside of religious services.
      Some practices are Torah related and others are custom.
      My understanding is that Lubavitch views all Jews as jews more inclusive views.
      My husband (Modern Orthodox) needed to order what we needed for Sukkot. We live in an area with not too many jewish people. The Lubavitch Rabbi at Chabad House ordered what we needed and was very kind.
      I once had a woman from another Orthodox group which I won't name who said I must have drifted away from my family looking how I was dressed.
      This woman was a
      stranger
      I would never talk that way to another person let alone a Jewish person.
      Lubavitch does not turn away people from Chabad houses or embarass.
      If you are traveling and need kosher food or somewhere to be on Shabbat contact Chabad they are all over the world.

    • @maril1379
      @maril1379 Před 2 lety +4

      By the way Aliza a good friend of mine who is Modern Orthodox actually met Rabbi Schneerson at 770 years ago and has a photo with him. He cherishes this photo.
      I applaud Lubavitch being kind and open to non-Hasidic Jews - not everyone is.
      (Not all denominations are)

  • @TheJazzlass
    @TheJazzlass Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️👍😃

  • @user-yv7ll4xe4d
    @user-yv7ll4xe4d Před rokem

    Beautiful vort about the kinyan

  • @karenhunt5635
    @karenhunt5635 Před rokem

    What country do they live in?

  • @danielabraham2772
    @danielabraham2772 Před rokem

    Why did you throw glass down and said Amen? Please give reply.

  • @rahel2563
    @rahel2563 Před 2 lety

    Mazal tov 🧡

  • @shannon6003
    @shannon6003 Před rokem

    Hmmm...I missed the bride and groom?

  • @claudermiller
    @claudermiller Před rokem +1

    How do Hasidic Jews get enraged?
    They wake up in the morning.

  • @CDGMR1
    @CDGMR1 Před rokem

    😃

  • @Informationdotcom6075

    Wow very beautiful Jewish girls 😍

  • @JewishEducationatHome
    @JewishEducationatHome Před 2 lety +2

    Mazal tov! Only simchas!

  • @Miriam5718
    @Miriam5718 Před 2 lety +2

    Jewish time..LOL Mazal Tov...Visible Mazal and Brachot

  • @Rudster14
    @Rudster14 Před rokem +1

    Shouldn't this video be titled "how Chabad Chassidim get engaged"? I'm sure different groups have different customs lol

  • @michaelhamilton4107
    @michaelhamilton4107 Před 2 lety

    מזל טוב

  • @lutfiaghaleb329
    @lutfiaghaleb329 Před 2 lety +1

    In Islam we don’t mix as well

  • @robertabray-enhus3198
    @robertabray-enhus3198 Před 2 lety

    You’re the only married woman there who doesn’t look like you’re wearing a wig

  • @idealcera5960
    @idealcera5960 Před rokem

    like

  • @carolmcbride7552
    @carolmcbride7552 Před rokem +1

    Mazal Tov

  • @dineyashworth8578
    @dineyashworth8578 Před rokem

    I'm an atheist but my family is ultra orthodox and they never did this when got engaged. Just made a party and food to meet and that's it. No singing like this and prayers. I guess it must be a hasidic custom that most jews don't do. Luckily. I never liked this singing. lol

  • @channel12929
    @channel12929 Před 2 lety

    minimum order of 5 million couple marriage for their Family life

  • @georgiabluhm1091
    @georgiabluhm1091 Před rokem

    Mazel tov

  • @blumberg1982
    @blumberg1982 Před rokem

    who the hey thinks it’s ok to not bring food to the women’s section. Mazel Tov to you all!

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Před rokem +1

      It’s not that serious tithe women section had more food in fact it’s just a different style less protein more carb

  • @lutfiaghaleb329
    @lutfiaghaleb329 Před 2 lety

    It’s so funny if a Muslim did this and the show that we don’t mix they say it’s oppression to the woman but yet look the Jews do it

  • @lutfiaghaleb329
    @lutfiaghaleb329 Před 2 lety +2

    Are they wearing wigs

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Před rokem

      The married women!

    • @leilaalexander3030
      @leilaalexander3030 Před rokem +1

      Mazel Tov to the newly engaged couple. Toda for sharing an engagement with us. Bnei Noach South Africa 🇿🇦 ♥

  • @franciscoandreatta5803

    Even though I think your culture has many beliefs that are not in torah, I still think it's one of the closest to truth.
    Love the division tradition at parties.
    Much much love from La Pampa, Argentina

  • @seattlegirl2077
    @seattlegirl2077 Před rokem

    Why do so many women dress in black?

  • @bettymaines6305
    @bettymaines6305 Před rokem

    No disrespect meant , but this complete separation of the sexes seems “strange” to me, especially after marriage. The married relationship is so sacred you cannot have anything to do with each other , cannot attend social functions together, etc. only behind closed doors , and then only for 2 weeks of each month. It seems this would feel very isolating, lonely and at times used for the women. You cannot sit down at a function and eat together , but you can go home and have sex with this man. Again, I do not mean this in a critical way or critiquing your traditions. It just seems very lonely to me. For me, when I go to social events if I could not be with my husband at the event , I just would not want to go.

    • @tal8871
      @tal8871 Před 5 měsíci +1

      it is not isolating because the husband and wife spend a lot of time together and also eat together all the time. It's only gender separated at large public events. If it was a few friends getting together for dinner, then the couples can eat together. Plus just because they're not intimate doesn't mean they don't spend lots of quality time together

  • @nadenrc
    @nadenrc Před 2 lety

    Who made this law that women and men stay separate

  • @kamibeckmann196
    @kamibeckmann196 Před rokem

    Girl ! You're cute as can be so I'm not understanding why you keep pulling your hair IN your face🤷‍♀️

  • @blumberg1982
    @blumberg1982 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m sorry, women don’t eat?! Haha whatever

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Před rokem +1

      I guess from the catering experience 😅 But I eat plenty 😂

  • @Scout-nn4vb
    @Scout-nn4vb Před rokem

    No thanks.

  • @alicewhite6051
    @alicewhite6051 Před rokem +1

    Get rid of the facial hair!!

  • @janetwunder3000
    @janetwunder3000 Před rokem

    The sound of Hebrew is awful. Those phlegmy “kh” sound hurts people’s ears. It’s easy to substitute a soft”h” or “ch” for a softer “sound.” Don’t say that this sound was given by G-d and can’t be changed. I’ve heard Aramaic and there were no awful “kh” sounds. Jews from other lands don’t use the “kh” sound when speaking Hebrew, so it’s not Biblical. The quality of Hebrew has gone down.

    • @uridavis2037
      @uridavis2037 Před rokem

      Where did you hear that?
      As far as I know, all dialects of Hebrew (Ashkenazi, Sephardi, Temani etc) have the Kh sound…

  • @lutfiaghaleb329
    @lutfiaghaleb329 Před 2 lety +2

    In Islam we don’t mix as well