Q+A | Struggles in Marriage, Upcoming Travel, + Advice for Younger Me

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
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Komentáře • 48

  • @laureng27
    @laureng27 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I just wanted to say that in the same way that you aspire to cultivate your home, your channel serves as such a soft place to land in this harsh world 🩵
    Your videos have carried me through very tough seasons in my life. Thank you for your light Blair!✨

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      This warms my heart so much, thank you for saying that! ❤

  • @taylorbarta6018
    @taylorbarta6018 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Watched this while I got ready for church this morning, you are such a role model for me as a young engaged Christian woman. Thank you for opening yourself and your life up for us ❤

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      Saved by grace and thankful for it 🩷🩷 I am a hot imperfect mess redeemed by Jesus! Thank you for being here.

  • @gracewillrestore
    @gracewillrestore Před 3 měsíci +4

    A wonderful video, Blair ♥️ I relate to you so much about medication. I have struggled with severe anxiety since I was 16 years old. I didn't start on medication until my early 30's. I too look back and feel sorry for my old self. I like to think the hardship taught me compassion in a way I would not have learnt otherwise. Thank you for your wisdom and vulnerability ♥️

  • @racheleldred8346
    @racheleldred8346 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Definitely do the small scale reno instead of the huge one.. you will thank yourselves! We’ve done a big kitchen remodel.. never again. lol. The truth is when you spend a lot on a kitchen, you are always a little too worried about it staying perfect, if that makes sense. I love your perspective that “it’s just a kitchen”.. yes!

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci +3

      That’s super interesting and helpful thank you!!!

    • @racheleldred8346
      @racheleldred8346 Před 3 měsíci

      @@BlairLamb You’re welcome! 💕

  • @shareepeplinski8028
    @shareepeplinski8028 Před 2 měsíci

    I love how open and raw and honest you are about everything ❤ you have a beautiful outlook on life ❤
    I HIGHLY recommend doing the cheaper kitchen Reno because it makes a HUGE difference. I just repainted my kitchen cabinets and redid the floor and changed out the hardware and it looks like a whole new house and I LOVE my kitchen now! I did it to sell unfortunately because my husband is military and we’re going to a new base but I am soaking up all the beautiful new updates in my house while I can 😂😂

  • @samanthamolitor5516
    @samanthamolitor5516 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Having a wall between kitchen and living room is actually sort of nice to hide the mess! I would do the small facelift too instead of a big remodel when you're ready!

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      I definitely agree on hiding the mess 😅😂

  • @mckenziehanna13
    @mckenziehanna13 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Just wanted to say that your channel has always been a soft place to land for me, in seasons of tough times and anxiety, it has given me a sense of peace. So thank you for that and for always being so open and honest!

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci +1

      That is so kind and exactly my goal with this platform. Thank you. ❤❤

  • @dianaisobel6468
    @dianaisobel6468 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Blair, this was a WONDERFUL video! I have followed you since you were expecting Sweet Nora! I love your authenticity, and your honesty! ❤ I vote yes to the small scale kitchen reno!! The updates you mentioned sound just perfect! Your home is so lovely, Blair, and the happy, loving memories you make during your family travels will last forever! There is a saying, “Traveling in the company of those we love is home in motion.” So very true! Continued blessings, Blair, and thank you!❤️🙏

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci +1

      I love that quote so much!!! Totally true. ❤

  • @jenb25
    @jenb25 Před 3 měsíci

    I so appreciate the openness and being so candid about your marriage. The period of time when you are new parents is such a huge adjustment. I am proud of you guys for going to counseling and working through this. Having lived this out to a very different outcome I know when you don't prioritize getting past this stage, and it goes unaddressed, it eventually can get to a point where it can no longer be turned around. You guys truly prioritize your relationship and I love the honesty how everyone has their moments that are not so great. ❤

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you very much, Jen. The change in marriage brought on by parenthood seems to go undiscussed and I feel it’s a disservice to couples. It’s a truly challenging time. Sending you a big hug ❤

  • @meaninginthemundane9227
    @meaninginthemundane9227 Před 3 měsíci

    This was a great Q&A. I relate to you so tremendously in my new journey of motherhood and I always appreciate your vulnerability in sharing it all. ❤
    Also, because of you I have an Aura frame on my wishlist - I always love when you share it!

  • @paytonferguson9014
    @paytonferguson9014 Před 3 měsíci

    Your videos feel so homey to me! And so comforting. Today is a really hard day for me grief wise and this is a small thing that helps :) praying so much for you

  • @Fightingforacure
    @Fightingforacure Před 3 měsíci +1

    I would tell teenage me struggling so hard with mental + physical health that you will someday find a village and it will start to get easier. Also to tell her to start taking anxiety meds back then 😂

  • @veronicacoates8832
    @veronicacoates8832 Před 3 měsíci

    Just here to say that this color of short on you is FANTASTIC!! Love it so so much.

  • @kelseyle3626
    @kelseyle3626 Před 3 měsíci

    Love the honesty and the chit chat 🤍 so relatable during this season of life. Hope the Disney trip in Oct works out for your family!

  • @ParkorPlays
    @ParkorPlays Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m so grateful that I stumbled upon your channel many, many years ago. I think I’ve been subscribed for at least 6 or 7 years now. We share a love for all things Disney but you’ve also been a role model to me in so many ways! Thank you for sharing 🤍

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      So kind. Thank you for being here!

  • @tracigrange1626
    @tracigrange1626 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I think I would tell my younger self: you don’t need all the stuff. Less stuff getting married, less stuff with babies and kids and more towards traveling.

  • @baileyurick
    @baileyurick Před 3 měsíci

    thank you for being so vulnerable! I greatly enjoyed this vlog 💖

  • @ikaysiaprice326
    @ikaysiaprice326 Před 3 měsíci

    If you don't already, I would highly recommend sharing your location with Riley & him sharing his with you! HUGE life saver when it comes to leaving your phone somewhere or loosing it in that way. So glad you guys found it though!

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci +2

      We do share our locations with each other and use find my iPhone ! My phone was on the side of a country road with no service so worst case scenario 🫠 I totally agree it’s so important to share location for so many reasons!

  • @christinahernandez1637
    @christinahernandez1637 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your honesty regarding taking medication for your anxiety. I have been holding off on stating medicine for over a year now since I had my first anxiety attack in my life. I guess I’m just scared that it might not work for me or might affect me negatively. Lately I’ve been curious though if it could help me in a positive way.

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Sending a hug-I’ve been there. An honest conversation with a doctor you trust is a great place to start. ❤

  • @simplesweetsbymindy6626
    @simplesweetsbymindy6626 Před 3 měsíci

    Such a great video! Completely relate to the parenting/soft place to land and the balance/flow nature of life😁

  • @veronicacoates8832
    @veronicacoates8832 Před 3 měsíci

    I am 100% with you on the dream car. My dream car right now is a blood red Tahoe. But it is most certainly not in the budget. And by the time it will be in the budget (in 2 years will be sending my oldest off to college and then 2 more off to college after him) I won't need a big SUV like that anymore. So maybe I'll save it for when the grandkids come along. 😉 For now, my Honda van will have to do - which I 100% am in love with my van.

  • @Michelle-ki9md
    @Michelle-ki9md Před 3 měsíci

    Love this Q&A video! We just booked a Disney cruise for next year too! 🚢❤️

  • @lauriehume3395
    @lauriehume3395 Před 3 měsíci

    Always look forward to Sunday mornings - Blair time! Proud of you and how you do life! 😊

  • @amandacordon7976
    @amandacordon7976 Před 3 měsíci

    I LOVE my vw atlas! Check it out third row, super spacious seating even in the back. We fit 2 strollers in the trunk with the third row up and with all the seats down fit a whole fridge in!

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      My SIL has one and it’s so great! Also one of the top cars recommended by The Car Mom. I will def check it out 😍😍😍

  • @elizabethh5112
    @elizabethh5112 Před 3 měsíci

    I just got a Toyota grand Highlander and I LOVE IT!!!! Amazing trunk space and 3rd row

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      Yes! It’s really a great vehicle!

  • @lauriearnold78
    @lauriearnold78 Před 3 měsíci

    That same thing happened to me with my cell phone , only the silicone case I had on it was enough to grip to the truck and it stayed on.
    Glad you found yours!

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      Omgsh! I’m so glad you didn’t lose yours either

  • @thriftytashi429
    @thriftytashi429 Před 3 měsíci

    Question: How can I make vacation/ quality time with husband a priority?… Currently, we don’t have children and work in the education field, but it seems like we get stuck into routine and I’m the only one trying to change things up. We’re happily married, of course, it’s just my husband is very content and look at our conversations on the front porch, for example, as special moments 😂… Hope my question makes sense! 🙂🌻♥️🙏🏽

    • @BlairLamb
      @BlairLamb  Před 3 měsíci

      Could you start with day trips and then do overnight trips and work your way up to longer travel adventures? That would be a good build up if your hubby isn’t 100% into big trips right away!

    • @thriftytashi429
      @thriftytashi429 Před 3 měsíci

      @@BlairLamb Perfect idea! Appreciate it🌻

  • @ih4630
    @ih4630 Před 3 měsíci

    Enjoyed the video… About the kitchen, just give it a fresh coat of paint… Cheap, but changes everything!