Stepmom Summit: Marjorie fixed that situation! || STEVE HARVEY
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- čas přidán 20. 01. 2016
- Steve Harvey joins in on his All-Star Stepmom Panel (Marjorie Harvey, Tameka “Tiny” Harris, and “Stepmom” magazine founder Brenda Ockun) to answer a question about a father who shows preferential treatment to some of his children.
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One thing I can say about TI & Tiny, you can't tell which children are theirs together or separate. They treat them the same! That is powerful!
So true
Chilly G yess 👏🏽👏🏽
👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
i dont quite UNDERSTAND the comment.
Amen
Marjorie is always so classy and she speaks the truth, I LOVE MARJOIE HARVEY!!!!
She acts classy but trust, she has some feisty in her. I think she's also from the hood but she has an amazing education and reps herself very well
Mary Turner. she is not from the hood.Steve said so himself.I heard some nasty stuff about her but refuse to pick sides.I like Mrs Harvey and I agree she is classy.
Shirley Bryant
shersher 84 the first Mrs Harvey?!
6 a.m.: la empresa se encuentra en el Aire de est en el Área del sistema y 😦
Hey everyone! Thanks for the comments! I'm the person that asked the question in this clip. They cut A LOT of what Steve said. We were literally crying real tears in the audience!
that's great
+djsmommy awwwwwwww you're Absolutely Beautiful....what happened, did you discuss it with your Son and Husband?~
its only been a week. pray things are going better for you & that you have had the opportunity to sit down and talk to your husband
+djsmommy I know exactly what you are going through, so it's great I came across that clip. I needed this advice. I hope it all works for you.
I've never been a stepparent. My husband and I have 2 children . Was your son feeling jealous of the relationship your husband had with his children that weren't living with y'all? Does your husband spend alone time (without the children that live with y'all) with his two boys?
Majorie needs to have her own show! She is simply amazing!
Marjorie is Great! she is the total package, beauty, grace, class and wisdom.
m malo true
I adore Marjorie. 😍😍😍. Steve has repeatedly said she's made him a better man. Even Stevie Wonder can see that.
Leggs gotcha😉
lololol what was the point of bringing Stevie wonder into thiss 😭🤣
Hahaha xd
@@Imtheenergy Stevie is blind
Ohhh FFS 🤦🏾♀️
Marjorie is an amazing woman. Steve hit the jackpot with this woman. Nothing but class.
AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯💯💯💯
She’s 👌🏿😘
She hit the jackpot with him!
It’s not the responsibility of children to “understand” the parents problems and hurt feelings. It is the responsibility of the parents to be mindful of how their children are affected by being treated “differently”. Parents need to be mindful of their own behavior!
Exactly!
It’s called “parentification” and its a horrible way to raise children
So very well said Aurelia!!! I agree with you 100%!!!
EXACTLYY !
Well said!!
I am intellectually attracted to Majorie...Excellent lady
Sapiosexul
Intellectually 😂😂😂😂
Personal ,
She is a sluttt King. Remember attractions can mean bad attentions
"All of y'all are stupid" 😭😭😭
I had the world's best stepfather. He shielded me from a very physically and verbally abusive mother. I hit the jackpot! He was sweet natured, caring, and a protective man. 🕯❤ 🕊 💐
You so lucky sweetheart 🌹
U so lucky and he has gotten a doughter who loves him so much !!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Love it
Marjorie has amazing wisdom and patience. She truly is for Steve.
steve your wife is amazing....
😄Steve is the man😄!!!! When Marjorie said the kids told them that they shouldn't get married, I swear I stopped what I was doing just to hear what Steve had to say...AND HE DIDN'T DISAPPOINT.😄😄😄😄
AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯💯💯
hahaa the ending was tooo funny, i wish i could of seen it with my own eyes lol
i love steve wife so much ,it looks like they understand each other
I love this side of Steve Harvey! Bringing his wife to give advice on his own show shows that he is not just a comedian or a game show host, but a real human being and I respect him so much for that! His wife is so wise!
Love this. Marjorie is so admirable. Great advice.
+soffy2002 ...MH has all of you guys fooled. What she has done is NOT to be admired...well that depends on how you want to achieve your success....your back and looks or your books!
+T Rich Wow! That's terribly harsh and unfair. I will not speak on things I don't know anything about. From what I see, hear and read about her now, she IS admirable.
+T Rich I am very successful as an independent woman, and definitely looks at how she has changed Steve, and completely supports her man.. yeah that is success I am looking to achieve
o.k.
She really shouldn't be admired.
Marjorie is m new girl crush !! she speaks wisdom and she's really beautiful and classy
+Fadoua F hahahaha.... she is mine too... But Steve gonna crush anyone that stands on the way
+Ibeanusi Elvis can you blame him lol 😍
yep lol ! steve chose well
+Fadoua F You late! lol Join the team haha
looks how he looks at her when she speaks
Steve's last part was absolutely hilarious XD XD XD
I love to hear Majorie Harvey speak, a very sweet, classy and loving woman. She's beautiful as well.
I can see why Steve loves her!, that was a great answer
Ugh Marjorie is just so regal. I love it!
you sure bet👑
I can agree with some points of this conversation. But as a child that had a stepmother, I always felt less then when it came to me coming to my dad's house and visiting my other sibs. When I did come and visit, my dad was never around so I really clung on to my older sister and built a strong relationship with her. There's also a sense of awkwardness as well, because although that's family I honestly don't know this side of family, I don't know how to act or move around them as opposed to it just being me and my mother. Another point Majorie said is that you can't dwell on the fact that your parent wasn't there in the past which I agree to an extent. Yes at a point in your life you have to not blame or hold the fact that a parent was there for you, but when you reach a certain age, those past experiences with that parent has shaped your view of that person and you hold every right to want to forge a relationship or not.
My parents divorced when i was an adult. I couldn’t care less who they have moved onto. Do what makes you happy as long as there is respect. My father’s wife missed that memo and is very disrespectful. Not just to my sister and I but to other family members. That is a “no go” in my book. There is a strain in my relationship with my father, my sister and I. I’m still present and willing... but he ignores the issue as if it will go away. There’s zero relationship with his wife which is very obvious at family gatherings. So, as an adult of divorced parents, i could care less on my parents moving on... it’s their life. There just has to be a level of respect. You don’t have to treat me like a queen but you damn sure won’t treat me like trash.
I can relate with this lady so much because my husband was the exact way when it came to my step kids. Our son together was invisible when his kids where around, it really caused a lot of resentment in our relationship!
In a marriage where you've got a spouse who accepts your kids as their own the spouse needs to come first. A secure marriage with two loving parents creates security for the kids. Whatever is hurting the kids should be addressed as a team. Again provided one was wise enough to choose a spouse who embraces the kids as their own.
Marjorie IS A QUEEN! I loooove her so much. And when she is talking Steve is so respectful and you can tell how much he loves her.
Steve, Thank for being honest about your marriage. It will definitely heal a lot of homes. Marjorie is a wonderful woman.
Majorie is incredibly accurate. She should definitely pen a book. She has incredible wisdom.
I want to challenge the notion that kids are "making" the father feel guilty. The father feels guilt as a result of what he knows he did that caused harm. The kids have emotions, and the "get over it, it's a new day" is insensitive and unproductive. What kids, particularly adult children, as in Steve and Marjorie's situation, need is a direct apology. Don't justify, excuse, or attempt to discount or diminish from their experience. Just as the parents' situation is their own, the children's feelings and experience are their own. Acknowledge their pain and your choices that led to them feeling abandoned, and make conscious, measurable plans to make it better. I know we all want to move on, but so often, the kids end up being left behind. It's time that this dynamic changes. You won't adequately move forward until you've acknowledged what is broken, and this can be done in age appropriate ways.
Darla Reborn this!!!!
No. If they had a father who provided for them and is always there for them, then he owes them no apology on why he should marry another woman or why he chose to divorce their mum. End of story!
Perfectly and eloquently said!
Darla Reborn I agree with your post.
@@chukwuemekaogbu8037 In this case, Steve wasn't always there for his daughters. In order to pursue his dreams, he left his wife and the kids and actually wasn't there for them, the reason one of his twins went into depression. I am not judging Steve for making his life decisions but you need to take your kids along in the new journey you want to take. It has to be both ways.
Thank you so very much for this show Steve. Parenting is a challenge within itself, but Step-parenting is on a whole other level. Marjorie you are so AWESOME. You were RIGHT ON with all of your answers. Kids need love first and foremost, but they also need to be guided in the right direction no matter what. I am a Step Mom to 4 young men and one young lady and it wasn't always easy but I kept loving them and being consistent. We are so close now and the love for all of us run deep. I would not take anything in this world for them.
I just love that couple. They are so transparent, it's so refreshing
This was great and I knew we weren't going to end this without Steve making us laugh!!
Steve - you always make my day- you laugh at any situation- i do same- even when days are glooming- Thank you do not change!!!
Marjorie is so charismatic even in her example, she starts off by complimenting ✨
What awesome advice From Marjorie.. shows a beautiful person inside & out!
Thank you Mr. Harvey for this. This is great information. I love Marjorie and her classiness. NOW..... I just cannot believe that the kids had the nerve to tell ya'll (grown people) that they didn't think you should get married because they were not comfortable. WTH!!!! LOL!!! I am with Steve... I would have left also!!!
Steve you are so crazy but thats exactly how kids need to hear it.
I've always been a big fan of Steve Harvey, I've learned and gained so much wisdom and knowledge from this man hes great often makes me, cry and see things so different. Now I've recently started watching Marjorie she's amazing, smart beautiful inside and outside and am fixed on her and pay to God I can parent like her now and for the future.
BUT seriously thankyou both your an amazing couple and I intend to keep watching and learning from you both.
Marjorie very smart lady you got there Mr.Harvey
you've got a smart women Mr . Steve
Steve is supper funny (4real)... He said I don't even like ur momma no more lol. I really love these two... His wife is beautiful...
BWAAAAHAHAHAHAH!!! This man got me chokin' & cryin''!! Great, practical advice! Parents, love & lead!
Omg Steve I need to come on your show I have binged watch these clips for 2 hours now.
#Steve I learned so much.
This episode was everything.
Mrs. Harvey gives such balanced and incisive advice. It's like she has this uncanny ability to see all sides/perspectives and take them into account when giving advice. Truly amazing!
No wonder Steve Loves Marjorie so much. She's Practical,Ariculate doesn't waste time n effort in regretting or blaming the past. We have much to learn from her .
I can see why Steve stopped playing the childish games in the past and committed happily to Marjorie. What a tremendous value she have to bring to the table!
Just like Steve, Marjorie is so groomed and speaks so elegantly it is amazing.
This was soooo good. I'm so glad Steve had his imput because that's EXACTLY how I feel. I do love the way Marjorie's approach gave insightful wisdom to it as a whole. Tiny and I are born in the same month so I definitely relate to her feeling about the children....period.😜
Marjorie , your points are always fantastic . Thumbs up
One day he can't stand Marjorie no more. 😂😂😂🤣
That part
Nah....for him she's perfect. Lol
choosing one over the other is what breaks up families and comes from a place of anger, choosing them all keeps them together and comes from love. Keep love alive
Mya Burney
I can't right now. This is freaking hilarious😂
😂😂😂
idomagirl abahi 7
I just love both Steve & Marjorie I admire the love and the togetherness in their family Marjorie I must say she's so beautiful you can definitely see she has high morals and set good examples for all of the kids which I must add is very rear in today's world so to u both Steve and Marjorie I love u Steve is so funny Steve u have a golden heart u bring joy and hope to the young men that have no male figure to look up to God will bless u
I want to wipe that hair out my sisters face.
Mom The Ebayer that’s not your sister and if it was you think you gonna gain some fame for that comment
CoreyStaxz 😂😂😂😂
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YES 😩
Great advice. Marjorie is attractive and well spoken! I would love a Marjorie & Steve Harvey Talk Show!
When will Steve have Marjorie show on his show? I love me some.her and her wisdom please! Together they are just amazing!!
Usually money is the issue when it comes to stepchildren and mistreatment. That's why Tiny and T.I. don't have these problems neither Steve and Marjorie.
Elizabeth Taylor true but Steve adopted Marjorie’s kids and Marjorie adore Steve’s kids it like the modern Brady bunch
Marjorie is awesome. That was amazing advice. She’s so understanding and forgiving. And I love Steve, but she gives better advice.
I love the words from marjorie she speaks from the soul
Beautiful words ladies. Amen 🐞
Strong beautiful words Steve. Amen 💛
Marjorie, this woman is amazing so inspiring, I love the way she talks, Steve you are a lucky man.
A WINNER! MARJORIE SAYS IT RIGHT! THE ENTIRE SHOW WAS SPARKLING CHAMPAGNE! GREAT WORK, OPRAH; OH, I MEAN STEVE HARVEY! YOUR SHOW HAS SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE! THANKS SO MUCH!
I like the way Steve approach. 😂😂😂 But the real is , I will listen to my children , but as the adult, I will do what I feel is right.
There is almost NO ONE from Hollywood I would live to know, but Steve and Marjorie Harvey are two people I would LOVE to get to know!!!
I love uncle Steve and Mrs Harvey, watching from Lagos
I love everything about this, the show, Mrs. Marjorie, the topic everything's awesome
What a question and profitable response... I like that.
Steve Harvey has truly been blessed with ah soul mate I hope god continues to bless Steve and Marjorie 🙏
I can’t front Steve’s response was freaking hilarious and had that truth serum in it😂😂
Yes, Majorie did a great job of explaining how to deal with family issues.
I can't 😂 Steve is too funny!
I love Steve but I’m not gone lie if I was his daughters I would feel some type of way.
Exactly, its normal
Exactly don’t matter they have to adjust to a new woman with their father and not having their mother in the house and he was childish for saying that.
I would too because he made it seem like he didn’t care about his children feelings and they gotta see a different woman
People need to learn to live their own lives, and stop trying to control someone else's. Parents have to learn to forgive their children for their mistakes, and children have to learn how to forgive their parent's for theirs. That is why it is so much division and confusion in the family. Because people hold onto unforgiveness and bitterness. More then they hold onto that person, and the love they have for them. Certain mindsets literally kill everything and everyone they come in contact with. We need to heal our minds.
The old saying behind every good man is a great woman is true , steve is always talking about his crazy days , majourie was strong enough to settle him down and create this incredible family full of love ,including step children , majourie is an angel , relationship goals right here .
Very well said every one.
Mrs. Harvey has such great insight. I love listening to her speak, She's a very intelligent and classy lady.
Hahahaha..I don't like your mama no more...I'm done..LMSO!!
I rewind the last part 5 times😂 love Steve. Marjorie classy how and why her previous marriages failed I just love her.
Thats so true relationship move on and children can be stuck in the middle . I must say as a single parent I only want the best for him, unfortunately he didn't want the same for me , he tried every way to destroy and break me but god kept me ready for war, I didn't kno why I was fighting . I listen to Steve every morning ,and he is not perfect but he make me look at life with a understanding on people prayer works and keep up the awsome work..
You could see uncle Steve getting all proud there hearing majorie speak👌🏾♥️
I loved the way Marjorie answered that question.👍🏾❤️
AMEN .ME 2💯💯💯💯💯💯
My mother got remarried, took both me n my little brother to the new guy. He put hands on me n my brother almost every other day, my mom doesnt say a thing, we go to school with marks on our faces, moms doesnt say a thing. To see all these single mothers putting they kids first makes me happy, but yet i wanna cry. Its coo. Just wanna express my feelings, n share my story folks. Forgive me.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. I agree I love when parents put their childrens needs first and aren’t desperate to have a man or woman.
HAHA the last part was crazy funny.
That’s what I’m talking about Marjorie I tell you you are such a lady you are a role model you are just blessed and thank you I love to watch these CZcams videos with you and Stephen just with you I love to hear you speak and talk because you come from a place of realness you’re genuine you’re genuine I’m sorry and you just real and Steve you are to thank y’all so much please keep speaking to help other young couples and people we need this I need this I love you
I like Steve’s approach 🤣🤣🤣 I’m newly married and my stepson expressed to me his confusion and how he wish his dad never moved out from with his mom😩 I understood but it made me drop tears and my feelings were a little hurt but I definitely get it. He’ll get over it in due time I guess
I understand your step son feels hurt but don't let his hurt sabotage your feelings about your marriage. Build your relationship with that son and show him motherly love. Your husband and you are married now. Build your home on love and the principles of a good marriage. Get some books or videos to help you and your family grow. Let that son know that you are sorry he feel that way and you can support him as his bonus mom, but you all as a family need to move forward with you'll new life together. You and his mom can have a respect for each other and keep things open as for what the son needs. But don't let no child or children run your home.
Build your home on love, trust, and respect. And keep wisdom and understanding at the table.
Make sure you build you first as a strong woman. You are the woman of your home.
Also don't sink into marriage and lose yourself. You only get ONE life here in earth. Make yourself happy and keep yourself up.
Your hurt? He lost his father from being present daily
You are right Steve
LOLLL STEVE IS MY GUYYY
Steve let the cat out of the bag about the children not liking them together and Marjorie tried to hide its tail. LOL. I've read about all of their family drama. They seem happy though. So if they like it, I love it.
Marjorie talks like Michelle Obama.
😂forreall
foreal lokey she reall do lol
cheersuperstar Marjorie is a woman of incredible insight and wisdom and so is Michelle. I admire them both. However, they are two different people, with unique characters, ideal and identity.
Wasn't Marjorie married to two family member drug dealers???? That both got locked up?
Marjorie is a BILLION times better Ms. I am Embarrassed by the USA.
Majorie 🤗🤗 I love how she speaks!
Anyone else spot that lady behind Steve who raised her eyebrows and crossed her arms when he said "I don't like your mother no more!"
bwahaha i had to go back and watch again. hee-larious. her and the one on her left lol
Yessss, I also noticed that the camera did not look at her again when it looked back at Steve, lol good editing lol
lool I sure did. I was cringing at that part OMG. I don't think he should have said it, but it was all funny.
Thats probably what her ex told her 😂😂😂
+John Do bet you right lol
I love Marjorie's personality and sense of humor!shes beautiful
Marjorie is about peace. It’s great to have a person like that in your life.
I'm glad my parents stayed together forever.
I love you Steve lol
This is why I love me Marjorie and uncle Steve 👌🏿😘communication is the key in Situations like this👌🏿😘very good vice guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Marjorie always give mature answers wow, what a wise woman. she really is a great public figure and a role model to women everywhere.... Sending love for you Marjorie Harvey 🛫 from Malawi... ♥️♥️
Awesome Word MARJORIE
Majorie is the Best l like what she says in this situation thanks so much.