Do This CHALLENGE To Stop Being Needy! ⚠️
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- čas přidán 15. 05. 2022
- This challenge will eliminate all neediness... Discover how to stop being needy and insecure!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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Do This CHALLENGE To Stop Being Needy! ⚠️
How to stop being clingy! reveals how to stop being needy and insecure... By doing so, you will instantly become more attractive by giving off an attractive vibe, and people will chase you! Eliminate neediness for good!
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BE OKAY WITH BEING HATED IS THE SECERT TO BEING LOVED
Not even bout hate it’s about letting go of other peoples perception of you. We constantly try to juggle other ppls concepts and perceptions of who we are or could be. It’s very sickening. Takes a toll overtime
@@2groov.e well it’s good to have some care of opinions people have about you but don’t let it affect you and don’t worry about it
So wise
True
Well, hate brings along with it bullying and sabotage. So if you are ready to accept that, maybe do it. People these days are just waiting for others to just fuck up.
This guy is the ultimate peacock and sometimes he drops absolute gems that make you think I’m glad I subbed to him
This isn't one of those gems, though 😅
@@zilvarro5766 😭
Sideways hat guy is great man, let me tell you guys.... he is getting at the root of what a lot of guys suffer from. Like, I’m taking these counseling classes and this guys hitting the strong points in every video
Just did it bruv on everything 💯
Right away you did it.. Nice dp 😂😂
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gigachad
You are a true warrior buddy! 🤣 and you sexy ahshaha
You mad lad!
Your challenges are very simple.. Not easy but simple.. But they are so hard to do man.. You are truly an inspiration Julien.. And I mean it.. There are plenty of fake "enlightened" people who spread some basic bs rules which even themselves do not understand.. But I see that you understand what you saying and you are making it understandable for the rest of the world.. Hats off 👏
All in one word "SELF-IMAGE"
Trust me bros, he's right. Stupid pictures of you and you not giving af works
Super fun exercise! I couldn’t stop laughing 😂
Done. I laughed to myself afterwards 😂😂😂
I just did it, feels great!
This is a tough one, usually i'm all up for a social challenge, but this one seems way more difficult to do than the one's actually in public with strangers. Partially because I value the opinion of people that follow me on social media, which I assume I shouldnt do, something to work on I guess.
Julien, one question, I struggle alot with "letting go", I cant seem to let go of needing to get the approval of others and feeling worthy, what program of yours do you recommend the most for this? Or is the private coaching the most effective? I'm willing to invest money into this but i'm not sure which option of yours is the best. Thanks alot for all that you do man.
I doubt he will reply to you.
Just stop trying to justify a reason to stop doing what you are doing. Just dive deep.
I wish you luck.
the bro's above me are right. Stop finding excuses for not doing what you have to do. That might not be taken funny pictures of yourself but it it could be. You can do this.
@@remon563 Thanks guys, You're right, I have been avoiding doing inner work because its uncomfortable and was hoping there was a way to do it the easy way with private coaching.
@@hamodetahaht my friend, the only shortcut you will find is the path of facing your fears directly. We are all in the same boat. Accept faillure, love it. Learn to keep on going despite faillure, ridicule or dissapointment and you will grow incredibly strong.
This unfortunately does not work when you look especially good. People believe that you are arrogant if you do this
I got a black eye working in my garden, and my friend told me to put it as my dating app profile photo for a week. I did it! Several guys asked me why I put it up, so it was definitely a conversation starter.
Dude I so want to do this right now
I now understand why you and Tyler dress the way you do. I thought I was looking at a 2004 time loop when it was cool to crook your hat and wear ironic clothing. But, it’s definitely a tactic and I respect it 🤘🏻
I never heard this advice prior but I can probably say the same about all of my poor me posts 😂🙌🏼
I'm trying to convince myself but I know I won't be able to
Convince😂 It will take you a lot time or you wont never convince yourself.Just do it bro stop thinking
Weak genes
@@psilocybindisciple I hope you're kidding.
"Those who deliberate fully before taking a step, will spend their entire life in one leg" - Chinese proverb.
There is nothing to convince yourself of. You need to let go.
well this was amazing bro
aight bet
Nice! Report back here with how it goes! 🔥👊
Perfect advice to start getting bullied by people
Thankyou ❤
Then everyone ignores you and no comments..
yeah no thanks
😂😂
Work to be done then! This is a great challenge that really shows you just how much the need for approval is running you! 😉
@@JulienHimself Yes I get what you're saying but the method you recommended going about doing it is a little too extreme for me to follow.
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@@poolcreates lol yes changing your Instagram pfp is VERY eXtREmE
Good one
DONT CALL ME NEEDY
I did this in 21 day no fear challenge, after doing this I felt amazing relief and I was so confident about my apperance but it last for 3 days :D it wasn't permanent
This is why you must combine it with LETTING GO… I WISH it was a simple as just doing a simple challenge in order to solve ALL your inner issues! 👌
@@JulienHimself It is difficult to feel something trying to let go. Any tipps to let sensations come up ?
@@Emre-ud6xp to let go is to acknowledge that you've outgrown it and to completely realize and feel in your body how that sensation is no longer serving you. We do feel fear and insecurity as a primitive survival instinct, so in a way, our body justifies it as an impulse, but through your consciousness, you can allow yourself to move past it.
I like how if I do this I'll just forget about it for like a month 😂😂
hey Julien. Can you make a 21 day no fear challange sometime soon? I Would love to join it.
I may! Until then, I have a YEAR of challenges in Transformation Mastery Academy: www.transformationmasteryacademy.com
Thank you Julien. I think i will join In June :D
Don't call me Needy
You don’t even need to do this, I don’t like how a lot of people care about others approval or opinions. I don’t read social media comments at all.
Hiding from social comments isn't the answer... This is a great exercise that will TRIGGER your need for approval, which you can then let go of! 🙏
He didn't read this
@@-CHIPS- LMAO
What do you do when you walk into a bar by yourself and everyone is already talking in their own groups, the bar tender is busy, and you don't want a drink?
@Harde Sinterklaas I went to listen to an artist play. They were on a break at the time.
Now I understand why he wears the hats lol.
I'm gonna do it rn
Is there anywhere I can get your full Death Guided Meditation or a recording of it? I have the four Transformation Mastery meditations (guided, subconcious, morning and evening) and they are AMAZING. I love your voice man, no homo lol. Was wondering where I could get the death meditation, I know there's a CZcams free tour clip of you guiding the crowd through one but it looked to be a shortened or abbreviated version.
It's in Transformation Mastery (Month 2 of the Transcend Package) 👉 www.julienhimself.com/8p
However the UPDATED version is exclusively in my private mentoring: application.julienhimself.com 😉
@@JulienHimself I just found it!! I can't believe I had it the whole time lol. It's Month 2 Transformational Infield Video just like you said. You are amazing man, thank you so much. Highly, highly recommend it.
Nerdy picture
*That was actually myself then
So basically what you are sayin is post a regular picture of me and not check the comments?
I have dumb profile picture for 3 three years already XD
No rzeczywiście, trochę hujowe to zdjęcie, powodzenia Damianku
@@MatthewP1991 XDDD dzięki, ale chodziło o zdjęcie na fejsie
@@tentypdamian2076 domyśliłem się haha ;) w ogóle, jak chcesz zobaczyć stare materiały rsd usunięte z CZcams'a to polecam kanał Sergio sorokin, reuploduje głównie todda, taki rarytas z przed lat
@@MatthewP1991 Rsd z tego co pamiętam to pua, kiedyś oglądałem
@@tentypdamian2076 tak, julien też był częścią rsd, ale się przebrandowali na self help
And what about the week after? Do you check the reactions or delete without looking. I'm sure finally checking it would bring strong emotions a probably negative thinking. I am almost sure there will be absolutely zero reactions; I'm a child of neglect and ignoring, which carries over to never get more than zero to six comments on anything
He’s not asking from fear. He’s saying no one really cares. I’m in the same boat. And I don’t think it would bring up the same emotions that it would if I had 5000 friends on there. I would just get a few likes (from my mom and a couple random people I went to high school with) 😐
sheeet cant do that ;d
What about when my mom calls me about it
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I don’t have any social media sites though
INteresting
Try it out and report back!
julien i see my friends nowadays getting married and having relationships...which makes me feel that i need a girlfriend in my life. what do you think?
You don't need one, it's just nice to have one. I don't have a gd and I'm fine. I have my radar up, but I'm more trying to work, and make great friends now.
So yeah, get a gf if you want. But you don't NEED a gf.
Are there actually people that think like that? That's pathetic
Very easy for me. That’s not ish.
I'm not sharing my face on internet, what now?
I don't really understand how to open yourself up to these sensations, ig in trying to let go, I'm just resisting them even more, how to simply be w/ the feeling itself? Btw what I do is just focusing the sensations (the fire in stomach, the tinglings in hands or chest) but after focusing them for 2-3 sec, my mind be like "would it really ever go away DIS WAY???" ...
Or do I have to be like accepting the sensations, befriending them and not judging them? Is it the only thing I have to do after disconnecting my mind??
PS : Julien prolly won't answer this now... I hope he does or just someone else does 😬... Txx so much ❤️
Change does not happen overnight. Keep welcoming the uncomfortable sensations and keep looking into the way they show up in your body, while paying attention to where you contract and tense yourself and loosen those parts. Any positive emotion (like acceptance, curiosity, gratitude) toward the negative sensations immediately relaxes the body and neutralizes the negative/contracting emotions somewhat, try it and you will feel it. After a while you may be able to take a step back out of the intense emotions and just contain or be present with both negative and positive without being overwhelmed by it or resisting/wishing them away. That is your aim. Practice. Daily life gives you plenty opportunities.
What if no one comments… ever
Then you realize that all your fear wasn't worth beating yourself up over
I can't even have a double chin if I tried :c help
Bruh
Advice to stop being so desperate for a girl???
You can turn off likes too. Some could say im just afraid to see that im not getting as many likes... but i just straight up dont care and I know that this validation thingy is just sick these days with all the likes and stuff...
Literally no one would comment
why his hat sideways
That’s cute he thinks we all do social media.
If you’re not on social media, you are missing out on a lot of opportunity… The key is to use it and not be used by it! IMO 😉
@@JulienHimself you’re such a fraud.
@@JulienHimself I've never looked at it from that perspective before. I'm so glad I came across your comment because I recently deleted Instagram because I've been using it in such a toxic way. I now feel more confident in getting it back. Thank you Julian!
What are these weird feeds CZcams shows me...
Dive deeper into delusion!
I really like your work Julien but this is a shitty advice bro ! This needs a good context
unclear , there isn’t an option to comment on people’s pfps on instagram
post it too
@@davman21 ohhh ok thank u for the clarification 🙏