Kids and Destructive Behavior

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
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Komentáře • 15

  • @kennyharper6990
    @kennyharper6990 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much for all your videos and work with this! I'm a father with ADHD and at least 3 of my boys have it also. Literally a WWE Fatal 4-way match with a 17, 15, and the scariest one...the 6 yr old😂
    We are doing better by implementing your advice, and hope to possibly work with you soon.
    ( Sidenote my son, said what if the parent is the one breaking Xboxes to get their kids to comply😔)

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks so much I appreciate hearing that. Please tell your son that the parent then has to "clean it up" with the kids. 😁

  • @brightlinebetty1258
    @brightlinebetty1258 Před měsícem +2

    Overall I like this approach. Not giving attention, and putting out in the open❤
    One critical thought- Guilt and shame are different. Constructive guilt seems more accurate. I agree someone should feel guilty for mistreating someone, but they shouldn't feel like they are a bad person for making a poor choice(shame). Might just be all the Brene Brown I've consumed.

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  Před měsícem

      I appreciate what you said here, I think that's a good point.

  • @francestapia8810
    @francestapia8810 Před 22 hodinami

    Would your program be suitable for a 3 year old ? We just ended OT but continue to need help.
    When my daughter doesn’t get her way and I try to ignore her negative behavior and walk away to do something else, she cries so hard she holds her breath and passes out, it’s extremely scary.

  • @jeremycusack6737
    @jeremycusack6737 Před 2 měsíci +1

    😎 Thanks Ryan !!! ✅

  • @ChristianConstitutionalist3192
    @ChristianConstitutionalist3192 Před 2 měsíci +1

    What Worked for My "Tyrannical" Behavior as a Child Was:
    1) School Bus Drivers Threatening to Call the Cops (Police).
    2) My Sister Pretending to be on the Phone with the Cops.

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Makes sense, I appreciate you sharing this. Thanks

  • @user-cb3sn3uv2c
    @user-cb3sn3uv2c Před 2 měsíci +2

    Some Theripist say it’s fine to call the police on the child.

    • @user-sx9ir2if4g
      @user-sx9ir2if4g Před 2 měsíci +3

      We just had to do this exact thing. 12 year old boy got violent and he had been told this would be the consequence. This was over a month ago now and what a difference in this child! He is respectful, loving and thoughtful once again. The experience was not a pleasant one for him (or us) but I don't think he wants to have a repeat of it.

    • @alyssachausse6752
      @alyssachausse6752 Před 2 měsíci +2

      That’s true. I feel it could go either way. but when I was a kid and my mom called the cops on me- boy that helped me tremendously 😂 I still thank my mom for that. They threatened to take me to the “funny farm” if I didn’t stop. Well I surely stopped 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  Před měsícem

      Sometimes, that is needed

  • @davidsworld7444
    @davidsworld7444 Před 2 měsíci +1

    What about self-harm rather than property destruction?

    • @ADHDDude
      @ADHDDude  Před měsícem

      Same premise, this is covered in Scaffolding Better Behavior.
      czcams.com/video/ocG-xxSzHfE/video.htmlsi=W7Tnl91WyAOyMA0x