On first date I take them to a nice restaurant. If they order the most expensive dishes and alcoholic drinks (one date ordered a $100 bottle of sake), I would excuse myself at the end of the meal and exit out the backdoor. 😂😂 My advice to all single guys - get a pet, a hobby, and be happy -- I've got all three 🤗
Thank your for sharing this with us. My life experiences have tought me few lessons. From the top of my head, one is that if you catch yourself repeating the same patterns over and over again, councelling does help in identifying the deeper reasons that lead you to these. Another one is that relationships need to make you feel "at home". If you catch yourself making an emotional effort to accommodate the other person in your life, then there is something wrong.
Ethan I couldn't agree with you more. I do the same thing when it comes to dating and relationships. Or at least I try to. I want people to know the real me when they meet me. I'm not saying I tell my whole life story on the first date. But I try to show people the real me opposed to taking the used car salesman approach. Unfortunately I am still single. But as I get older I realize that's my own doing. Maybe it's time to do something about it. Once again you have provided us with another informative video with a real genuine human touch. Ethan From London your videos are absolutely fascinating. That is because YOU are a fascinating man.
Hi Ethan, I kindly ask you to go a little deeper at this topic in a longer video. (Sure, not asking you a to do list or a formula that changes everything at once) Hope you may consider that. I have ability to change myself and did that already for a better version of me. However, at this topic, looks like it is a little struggle for me. Thanks in advance.
Keeping gaslighting yourself like this will inevitably land you in mental hospital eventually. Analyze behavioral and emotional tendencies of yours, your potential/former/present partners and other people, read studies and statistical data on the subject, analyze the tendencies on modern dating market (yes, no reason to pretend it doesn't exist) and make the most optimal and beneficial (in the long run) decision
On first date I take them to a nice restaurant. If they order the most expensive dishes and alcoholic drinks (one date ordered a $100 bottle of sake), I would excuse myself at the end of the meal and exit out the backdoor. 😂😂
My advice to all single guys - get a pet, a hobby, and be happy -- I've got all three 🤗
Be authentic, be the real you.
You nailed it 100% Ethan.
Thank your for sharing this with us. My life experiences have tought me few lessons. From the top of my head, one is that if you catch yourself repeating the same patterns over and over again, councelling does help in identifying the deeper reasons that lead you to these. Another one is that relationships need to make you feel "at home". If you catch yourself making an emotional effort to accommodate the other person in your life, then there is something wrong.
Ethan I couldn't agree with you more. I do the same thing when it comes to dating and relationships. Or at least I try to. I want people to know the real me when they meet me. I'm not saying I tell my whole life story on the first date. But I try to show people the real me opposed to taking the used car salesman approach. Unfortunately I am still single. But as I get older I realize that's my own doing. Maybe it's time to do something about it.
Once again you have provided us with another informative video with a real genuine human touch. Ethan From London your videos are absolutely fascinating. That is because YOU are a fascinating man.
Hi Ethan,
I kindly ask you to go a little deeper at this topic in a longer video. (Sure, not asking you a to do list or a formula that changes everything at once) Hope you may consider that.
I have ability to change myself and did that already for a better version of me.
However, at this topic, looks like it is a little struggle for me.
Thanks in advance.
Yes, and its great as most people who actually like themselves and dont need tbe constant validation of others find it........
Finding and mastering patterns will surely help, but for every pattern there are a million enticing nuances. Oh, humans...always worth studying :-)!
You're correct
Thanks Ethan.
Take care Ethan!🙂
Maybe it’s you, not them!
😂😂😂 it’s always them!
Keeping gaslighting yourself like this will inevitably land you in mental hospital eventually. Analyze behavioral and emotional tendencies of yours, your potential/former/present partners and other people, read studies and statistical data on the subject, analyze the tendencies on modern dating market (yes, no reason to pretend it doesn't exist) and make the most optimal and beneficial (in the long run) decision