Omg u have been thru so much! I went thru some similar things so ik what it feels like (feel bad for u) 12 year old female btw: raped as a 7 year old, didnt even know it was rape cuz i was a child ofc. Physically beaten and mentallu abused from when i was 9 years old to now by my father. I really understand what you felt so i hope u get better soon :'(
omg no, you’ve been through so much. that person who stalked you they are terrible, it’s ok i know being really sad sucks, i was too when i was 9, you’re okay now, talk to some authority figures. you’re going to be ok, we love you. never be sad 💟
Even if they talk it can't erase the things shes seen and been through talking will NEVER help and did you say "never be sad" how can she not? She's been through so much and you expect her to just believe that its never going to be okay NEVER the only thing that may help is to make your life more enjoyable and to try to make better time with friends and family.
@@ale_x_2588 hii. this is my other acc. I really didn’t mean to be rude, I was just trying to comfort her, I didn’t mean that she shouldn’t be sad, I just meant that we could try and help her. and I know talking can’t always help it was just a suggestion. I was really trying to help, I didn’t mean to be rude, I know she’s been through a lot and talking can’t help, I know that she’ll be upset but it has to get better. I’m sorry, I’m also sorry to her. please don’t be mad, I think this was a misunderstanding.
@@ccandy. Ah yes it's okay I just hate how people think like how you think talking can't always help it never helped me just made it worse but thanks for trying to comfort her! I really hope people can stop thinking like that but anyways thanks for reading and have an amazing day
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I feel horrible, idk why there are so many ppl that think that kids bodies are toys. It’s disgusting, I hope you got the help you needed to get through that. Society is horrible
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how are you supposed to make friends if every one bullies you and hates you and doesn't even talk to you and you're bestfriend is hurting and you're suffer from anxiety not just any anxiety severe anxiety and mostly depression. and say what ever you want I'm not begging for attention that's literally my life i hate it no matter how much love I get when I get home I get depressed. no being able to be your self because of your parents I'm a therian and they hate me for that my friends hate me I only have one 2 friends that don't hate me and. I give up In life IM TOO YOUNG IN STILL 11
These stories.. They just make my blood boil, I don't understand why anyone would do this?! This cruelty to a CHILD!!! She/he wasn't even a tween! Still pure minded and cheerful! Then they have the nerve to take away something that can't come back. You have one childhood and he just took it! What is going on in their brain?? "Yea I'mma go stalk this kid in the shower abuse and ruin her/his childhood" But everything aside I hope you are doing well now and have that jerk out if your life ❤
Yk I can relate to you bc there was this guy that stalked me from age 6 to 10 and I didn't say anything bc I was too scared and one time he even grew the nerve to "touch" me so your not alone in this subject of trauma Wasn't trying to load on you and make u feel worse just wanna connect with you so you know that your not the only one and you won't be alone 🥰
I know people aren’t going to believe this but one time a person wanted to get my voice and give it to a mute person and the same person once said to me to go to prison.
@@HutaoMc The creator obviously didn't care since they hearted my comment and didn't ask me to stop. Also, humans need people to relate to them because humans are usually social individuals. Even people with social anxiety needs to be around other humans and to understand them
I'm confident in my body, but lately I've been scared of that. I was also 7 when someone touched me and asked my uncomfortable questions, and I wasn't able to come to terms with that trauma until recently. It feels like everyone makes excuses for what he did and all I can think about it "what about me?!" I'm especially scared that it'll happen again now that I'm older and have a more mature body...
I’ve been hearing so many sa stories from people who got sa’d young and I’m 11 and I know sa is common in middle school I already met a predator once so I’m scared for middle school next year 😢
@@st4rry0npawzz I'm sorry to hear that! I'm a freshman in highschool, so I'll be honest, that fear will never go away, because once you're aware there are bad people in the world, that worry never goes away. However, it gets easier to stay safe when you have a friend group and pepper spray :)
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I can't explain how much I feel bad for you.. You didn't deserve to have all those things happen to you, just know that if you ever need anyone to talk to, we will always be with you❤
I am very sorry about what's happening in your life right now I really hope things get better for u just stay strong okay... you are not alone! maybe you should try going to therapy it will help if you don't have the money you can watch videos that might help you. Try telling your family how you feel...if you are so scared you don't have to tell them. Stay positive things will get better I promise!! 💝💖😭😉
To everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus To everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve. To everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. When you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time. To everyone who is creating, you got this. Your art is amazing. Remain in your flow and get stuff done! If you're reading, relax, Focus, and imagine the beautiful scenes in your head. And if you're playing games like me, Focus on your game and don't give up :D -Not mine, but pass it around guys
I am so sorry for you Please be safe Whenever you are sad we are here for u These days peole are getting disgusting And whoever 'him' is must die or be in jail un till death. And we are always with you
When did you have depression..? 4-7 years old.. We’re you mentally/ emotionally abused? My whole life until I was 8.. Why? Ask my dad.. :( My dad abused my mom and fought with her alot, he also lied about her being evil and left me outside to go to the shop in his car.. :(
I really hope you're doing better. No one deserves that, no matter who they are or where they're from, NO ONE deserves what you went through, and I'm happy you're okay, even if I don't know you personally. I hope that you have a happy life and can find the people who treat you right. ❤
it’s easy to die. you can choose to live or die. people say they want to die or suicide, but again they don’t. it’s not fun, or games, to joke with suicide or self-harm. and even abuse. it’s not funny when people say they are going to kill their selfs. it’s not fun to their parents, to their friends, or their love. Here is a daily reminder, if you think nobody cares about you, not true! there is always a person who loves you. you js have to pay attention to the little details and hints of their love. Be safe. Love yourself. Don’t harm yourself. Much Love. 💕
I am sorry you had this terrible life. No one deserves this kind of treatment, you are so beautiful and I love your oc you have talent!❤ your supportive fans will help you along the way!‼️🫶🏻🫶🏼🫶🏽🫶🏾🫶🏿✅
Why do people do things like this too kids?! It’s sad! When I was four, five and a half, there was a neighbour I had who was a pervert and liked me a bit to much, the worst thing was that I didn’t know and talked to him, until my dad stopped me from talking to him. But still, people like that are disgusting.
ty to the creator of this video letting anyone vent.but really, it was only a few minutes ago, my (little)sister suddenly stepped on me. And since im a crybaby, of course i had to cry. then my sister started blaming my phone (because i was playing it when she stepped on me). I mean, i cant control my little sister. I understand my little sister is autistic, but she still have eyes....she isnt blind. But i hate the fact after she stepped on me she started playing with my face and my ears while i was crying. everyone has trauma. If you dont, your just lucky (sorry if you had to read until here, i just wanted to vent)
Im so sorry, i hate the fact that children (mainly young girls) are used as toys for adults, like wtf?! As someone who was molested, i was told that girls are toys for men and our body belongs to men wtf?! Im so sorry for venting to you all😭❤
I’m literally suffering the same thing with different ages…you’ve been through more stuff than me. I’m really sorry you had to suffer that, we’re always here for you❤
I hope you recover from the mean stuff people say, and feel all the rest and love you need. I also felt this, i always collapsed and hyperventilated from all my trauma. But idrc, whats important other people gets love, *sends virtual hugs* we may be random strangers on the internet, but us soft hearted people will comfort you all the way. we have feelings too, its ok. i hope your ok. stay safe 😢
I’m sorry that happened 😞 if I could I would’ve done something about it. I’ve seen so many videos about this type of stuff and I’m so glad it hasn’t happened to me.
Plz pin this if you want so people can see and benefit from this. Also, you can copy and paste this if you want. I want to spread this around so people who are struggling can benefit from it. This may hurt, but it’s the cold, hard truth. Getting made fun of is gonna happen to you for the rest of your life for as long as you live. You can’t control other people and you can’t control how they react to things. The only thing you can control is how you react. change the way you think, and everything will change. I have depression and anxiety and this is what helped me so I hope it will help you to. Know that I’m not making you do these things, they are recommendations. 1.) practice gratitude. Get a journal and every day write down three things that you are grateful for. But before you write these things down, think to yourself, “Why am I grateful for these things?” You can choose to write out why you’re grateful for them or you don’t need to. 2.) meditation. Meditation has helped me become at ease with myself. I recommended doing five minutes in the morning and five minutes at night right before bed so you can get better sleep. As time goes on, consider increasing the time you meditate for. 3.) exercise. According to Yale University, exercise can release the same effect as antidepressants. 4.) get comfortable with being uncomfortable. One of the most popular TEDTalks came from Jia Jiang. In his TEDTalk, he spoke about spending time living outside of his comfort zone. Jiang spent 100 days seeking out opportunities to experience rejection to help him overcome, social anxiety, and his fear of rejection to become a more confident person. It involves him doing things like asking a random stranger to lend him $100, knocking on someone’s door and asking to play soccer in their backyard, and asking for second helping in a restaurant without paying. At the end of the 100 days, Jiang was a completely different person-he was confident and sociable because of how kind people were to him during this time spent outside of his comfort zone. 5.) create daily habits. This could mean waking up at a time that is right for you, so you can have an organized day. This could also mean you having a nighttime routine. Or you can do both! 6.) fix your insecurities. If you’re feeling insecure about something, fix it. For example, if you feel that you are overweight, go lose that weight IN A HEALTHY WAY. If you feel that your skin is ugly, or is too rough, or you have a lot of acne, do a skin care routine, and this goes back to the daily habits. 7.) have a growth mindset. What this means is, you may say, “I should give up I am not good at this.” That is considered a fixed mindset. to change this into a growth mindset, instead of saying that, say, “How can I improve or do better?” This gives you room to improve, but with the fixed mindset, you only allow yourself to go to a certain extent before giving up. there are a lot of examples on Google you can look up. Just look up, “fixed to growth mindset examples.” 8.) reaching your goals, puts a limit on your happiness. What I mean by this is when you were on the other side of your goal, you may think, “if I could just reach that way I’d be happy,” “if I could just make enough money to buy this thing, I’d be happy.” There is nothing wrong with these goals, but you are putting happiness off until you achieve goal. You make happiness something that only the future version of yourself can enjoy. 9.) split your bigger goals into smaller goals. If you have a big goal of losing 100 pounds, split that goal into losing 5 pounds in *this amount of time.* 10.) change your beliefs about yourself. This may be confusing, but let me explain. The way you see yourself will determine your results because who you are is rooted in what you believe. The idea is that if you believe in something, you are going to live it out. For example, if two people have decided to quit eating junk food and they are invited out to their favorite fast food restaurant, one of them responds, “thanks for the offer, but I’m trying to stop eating junk food at the moment.” You can admire what the person is trying to achieve, but when you scratch the surface of their statement, what they are really saying is that they don’t see themselves as a healthy person yet because they are trying to stop eating junk food. On the other hand, the second person states in their response to the fast food invitation, “thank you for the offer, but I don’t eat junk food.” This statement is a lot more convincing, because they have totally detached themselves from the bad habit of eating junk food. In other words, they’ve made the decision to change who they are. Bonus 11.) urge surfing. Anytime, you feel an urge to do something you know is not going to benefit you, follow these steps. * pay attention to where the urge is coming from in your body. * Once you have located where the urges coming from focus all of your attention on the area and observe this sensations you are experiencing. * Spent two minutes focusing on your breath. * Imagine that every sensation in her you are feeling is a wave. As the urge, intensifies and subsides look at it as a wave rising, and falling. * As the urge, settles down, pay attention to the changes you are feeling If you read all of that, then, congratulations. But I have one more thing to say. No matter who you are no matter how successful you are, you will still feel emotions and you will still feel sad, happy, angry, guilty, etc. What I am trying to say is that, life is full of ups and downs. It doesn’t matter how many ups and downs you have, what truly matters is, how you react in those ups and downs. I know I don’t know your current situation, but I can say this, I am proud of you for making it this far. I’m sorry if you don’t get that a lot but I am truly proud of you. I heard this saying, and it goes like, “you will never meet a bully doing better than you.” To end this off, I want to say, I hope you get better. It’s okay if you don’t take this advice, but, I highly encourage it. This is what has helped me through depression and my anxiety. This took hours to write, and to be honest I don’t care how long it would take to write. As long as it helps at least one person out, the time it took to write this was well worth it. Lastly, The fact that you're still breathing and still here is a miracle. Through every bad time, every breakdown, every anxiety attack, every episode, you're still here. And I know I can't even start to understand how hard it really was, but you're here and you owe yourself a smile for that. You have only meet an insignificant portion of people that you share this planet with. It's crazy that you can go a whole life, only meeting less than 1% of the population. In that same way, there's so much more to this planet than you've experienced yet. And in that unknown are amazing people, so don't give up on it yet. There are good people, there are good places out there, and as you get older and experience more of life you'll see this. Be grateful of what you can and be cautious of those you surround yourself with and continue to prosiest. Life is so weird and annoying and irritating because no one has the answer to why we are here. We don't have a purpose inherently put upon us so we create that purpose. Find that purpose and wake up each morning motivated to do something. Whether it's creating art, working out, or just making people smile. Purpose is what keeps us going at the end of the day, but you have so much time. Hang in there and you got this.
I am so sorry that happened to you, all of those things are horrible. I hope “him” won’t EVER LAY A FINGER ON YOU! Please take care, hope you’re happy and healthy.❤ a lot of people are disgusting! I hate the bad thing other people do to others! I hope you have recovered!❤❤❤❤❤❤ I hope you guys know that God loves you, and he will always protect, but remember he’s never early, but never late❤ if it makes you feel any better, I was also emotionally abused for a while. I am still a kid though. 10 years old❤ I hope everyone is doing good and is on there feet😊❤
I honestly feel so bad, especially at those ages I'm so sorry that all happened to you! :( At those ages you're supposed to have fun and not go through those awful things. Besides the video though, does anyone know the song/sound name? Ty
1.your pupils are beautiful 2. your eyelids are beautiful 3. your eyelashes are beautiful 4. your dark circles are beautiful 5. your forehead is beautiful 6. your bridge of your nose is beautiful 7.your nostrils are beautiful 8. your ears are beautiful 9.your lips are beautiful 10. your chin is beautiful 11.your neck is beautiful 12. your shoulders are beautiful 13. your arms are beautiful 14. your wrists are beautiful 15. your palms are beautiful 16. your fingers are beautiful 17. your fingertips are beautiful 18. your armpits are beautiful 19. your chest is beautiful 20. your stomach is beautiful 21. your hips are beautiful 22. your thighs are beautiful 23. your calf’s are beautiful 24. your ankles are beautiful 25. your feet are beautiful 26. your toes are beautiful 27. your body is beautiful 28.you are beautiful 29. you are kind 30. you are smart 31. you are brave 32. you are enough 33. you are loved 34. you are great 35. you are appreciated 36. you are amazing 37. you are cool 38. you are courageous 39. you are full of joy 40.you are full of happiness 41. you are full of hope 42. you are full of focus 43. you are full of passion 44. you are funny 45. you are successful 46. you are confident 47. you are strong 48. you are calm 49. you are collected 50. you are happy 51. you are healthy 52. you are motivated 53. you can do anything 54. you can do hard things 55. you are unstoppable 56. you are active 57. you are friendly 58. you are patient 59. you are peaceful 60. you are loyal 61. you are mindful 62. you are noble 63. you are glorious 64. you are intelligent 65. you are perfect 66. you are persistent 67. you are empowering 68. you are inspiring 69. you are a blessing 70. you are uplifting 71. you are unique 72. you are supported 73. you are true 74. you are free 75. you are the vest 76. you are safe 77. you are a genius 78. you are bright 79. you are wealthy 80. you are growing 81. you are lovable 82. you are appreciated 83. you are renewed 84. you are sharp 85. you are invigorated 86. you are good 87. you are known 88. you are charming 89. you are fresh 90. you are sweet 91. you are magical 92. You are magnificent 93. You are precious 94. You are tough 95. You are you 96. You are hopeful 97. You have goals 98. You are optimistic 99. You are a child of earth 100. You can Everyone’s body is beautiful in its own way
I'm soo proud of you for still being here and believing in your life and stil staying you are a warrior and who ever did it God will punish them I fell so sorry for you
I was never stalked but i feel so bad for you and I can't imagine how being stalked would feel like I hope nothing like this happens ro you in the future
My friends say, ‘I have trauma, my dad yells at me!’ or other things, but have you ever been told to kill yourself? Been told that you’re not good enough? Been forced to eat because you’re too bony and light? Been looked at by an older man and flirted to by one? Your parent yelling at you isn’t trauma, it’s discipline, and it’s completely normal and actually quite common when someone is a child.
there will always be moments in life where you feel as if nothing matters the feeling that you'll never feel better again, and the urge to give up on everything. but i promise you it gets better in the end. i'm here for you if you'd like to talk.
oh no! i srsly hope you're okay sometimes at night i get the feeling i'm being watched even though i'm not but that is just a minor inconvenience in the face of this. you didn't deserve that especially when you were that age. and i'll be sending good vibes your way! ❤🎉
..I feel so bad for you just from reading it I feel horrible for you and I know it’s horrible but what’s worse was that happened at such a young age as well..
Sorry that happened to you just know were all here for you,stuff happened to me when I was 10 and it messed me up badly and it still affects me till this day of what they did to me
Why do kids, literally KIDS have to go throw this bro, this is just so cruel and immature of people to think that they could use children for their own benefits
I had depression and maybe anxiety when I was 9… it was terrible. I take pills to calm myself cuz I can’t control myself very well, and it’s hard for me to listen, then people yell at me for not listening when it’s hard for me to I think these are from ADHD but I’m not sure, and sometimes I feel like my best friend isn’t my best friend anymore; she makes fun of me sometimes and asks personal questions when I tell her not to and begs me to tell her something I don’t want to tell her. Btw I’m so sorry you went through this, anyone at the age between 1-18 should have a good childhood…
I- I'm sorry you had to go through this.. At such young ages?.. That's messed up, I hope you're able to overcome from that and you're doing better now. .
.....WHAT THE HECK HOWWWW???? Like the only childhood trauma i got was my neighbour trying to hurt me for no reason and you literally got abused, stalked, had depression, etc at a young age, tbh, now iam actually proud nothing worser happened to me
OMB BRO ITS LITERALLY THE SAME EVEN I GOT RPD WHEN I WAS 7!! It’s like the same story.. ik I may sound confident or happy to have somthing common but no I’m not I’m completely different irl.. plus I’m actually sad that there r other people like me I hope u all live good I’m sorry for what’s happening and happend to u ❤ I LOVE YOU and u are worth it I promise
You are amazing. You are kind. You are beautiful. You are pretty. You are nice. You are not annoying. You are not terrible. You didn’t deserve that. You deserved better -someone who started sh at 8
Oh my god, who would stalk a fucking 11 year old!? Not just stalking them, but in the SHOWER. That's disgusting, that person deserves to go to jail. I can't believe people like "THAT" are alive. I'm so sorry, I hope you get well after that traumatizing event. That person is disgusting and a p3d0ph@ile. You deserve so much more, I'm so sorry you got abused and what other peoples actions, did to you. I'm so sorry. I hope in the future you will get better. This has never happened to me but I can tell you were scared. I'm really sorry about this.
If your sad (I'll cheer up up) ❤️🩹 If your part of the LGBTQIA+ (I support you ♾️)❤️🩹 If you don't support the LGBTIA+ (is okay jus t don't be hating..) ❤️🩹 If you ur Muslim (I support u ♾️)❤️🩹 If your a therain🐾(I support u ♾️)❤️🩹 If your furry🐾(I support u ♾️)❤️🩹 If your a non-social person(it's okay) ❤️🩹 If your being bullied( plz tell someone) ❤️🩹 If your being forced to do something (Tell someone plz) ❤️🩹 If your a CZcamsr (I support u ♾️)❤️🩹 If your a anime-fan ( I support you ♾️)❤️🩹 If you don't like physical touch(I'll hug u with my eyes) ❤️🩹 If you have bad grades(It's okay u tried) ❤️🩹 If you think your a failure (Your not your perfect) ❤️🩹 If you feel like your too skinny or chubby(YOUR PERFECT) ❤️🩹 If you want to k!// yourself (Let's make plans before u do...) ❤️🩹 If your think your imperfect (YOUR NOT YOUR BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME)❤️🩹 If your parents havent told you this (I'm more than happy to say this) ❤️🩹 If you ever feel like u need to vent(I'm here for u) ❤️🩹 Have a beautiful lovely day!!!!!!!!!! ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💜
Omg I felt Bad im sorry this Happen i couldn't believe this World is cruel .... I know this Felt Worst ... I Hope your Ok! i couldn't Believe this Happen To you!! i hope That Your fine ...
I’m sorry :( I had some rough patches in my childhood, mostly emotional abuse. They didn’t realize how much their words hurt… Apologies do nothing. If you break a plate and you say sorry to it, it’s not going to be repaired. Same with your heart. Stay positive :) there are still some good people out there
I appreciate all of the comments 💕☺️. You guys can vent if you need, to those who have rough childhood, I'll be your sister
I hope you're ok as you said I'll also be your sister
Omg u have been thru so much! I went thru some similar things so ik what it feels like (feel bad for u)
12 year old female btw: raped as a 7 year old, didnt even know it was rape cuz i was a child ofc. Physically beaten and mentallu abused from when i was 9 years old to now by my father. I really understand what you felt so i hope u get better soon :'(
oh my!!! I’ve been through some stuff but no where near you!! I’m so sorry and i have a channel of my own so feel free to vent on any videos i post
Hope you're ok and where is he now I'm beating him with a belt
@♡ 𝓡𝓪𝓲𝓷𝔂𝓭𝔁𝔂𝓼 ♡ #roadto50sub! Aww thx no one has ever said that to me
omg no, you’ve been through so much. that person who stalked you they are terrible, it’s ok i know being really sad sucks, i was too when i was 9, you’re okay now, talk to some authority figures. you’re going to be ok, we love you. never be sad 💟
Even if they talk it can't erase the things shes seen and been through talking will NEVER help and did you say "never be sad" how can she not? She's been through so much and you expect her to just believe that its never going to be okay NEVER the only thing that may help is to make your life more enjoyable and to try to make better time with friends and family.
@@ale_x_2588 hii. this is my other acc. I really didn’t mean to be rude, I was just trying to comfort her, I didn’t mean that she shouldn’t be sad, I just meant that we could try and help her. and I know talking can’t always help it was just a suggestion. I was really trying to help, I didn’t mean to be rude, I know she’s been through a lot and talking can’t help, I know that she’ll be upset but it has to get better. I’m sorry, I’m also sorry to her. please don’t be mad, I think this was a misunderstanding.
@@ccandy. Ah yes it's okay I just hate how people think like how you think talking can't always help it never helped me just made it worse but thanks for trying to comfort her! I really hope people can stop thinking like that but anyways thanks for reading and have an amazing day
@@ale_x_2588
I got stalk In my class it's one of my classmate as he can't stop looking at me I feel like he stalk me in my house 😢
*THIS GOES TO EVERYONE INCLUDING CREATOR!!*
I’m proud of you for getting up
I’m proud of you for blinking
I’m proud of you for sleeping
I’m proud of you for eating
I’m proud of you for TRYING to eat
I’m proud of you for drinking
I’m proud of you for trying to drink
I’m proud of you for standing up
I’m proud of you for suiting down
I’m proud of you for blinking
I’m proud of you for breathing
I’m proud of you for brushing your hair
I’m proud of you for changing clothes
I’m proud of you for bathing
I’m proud of you for having fun
I’m proud of you for being in your phone
I’m proud of you for being on your iPad
I’m proud if you for being in your computer
I’m proud of you for watching TV
I’m proud of you for making food
I’m proud of you for TRYING to make food
I’m proud of you for brushing your teeth
I’m proud of you for going to school
I’m proud of you for going to work
I’m proud of you for going to math
I’m proud of you for going to your language class
I’m proud of you for going to science class
I’m proud of you for going to reading class
I’m proud of you for going to any of your classes even if you skip
I’m proud of you for doing your homework
I’m proud of you for drawing
I’m proud of you for reading
I’m proud of you for going out
I’m proud of you for staying in
I’m proud of you for making your bed
I’m proud of you when you don’t make your bed
I’m proud of you when you don’t do homework
I’m proud of you for crying
I’m proud of you for smiling
I’m proud of you for frowning
I’m proud of you for laughing
I’m proud of you for playing sports
I’m proud of you for not playing sports
I’m proud of you for eating you cultures food
I’m proud of you for not eating your cultures food
I’m proud of you for trying other cultures food
I’m proud of you for fasting
I’m proud of you for going to the gym
I’m proud of you for not going to the gym
I’m proud of you for working out
I’m proud of you for not working out
I’m proud of you for singing
I’m proud of you for not singing
I’m proud of you for getting out of bed when you’ve been in bed all day
I’m proud of you for getting into pajamas
I’m proud of you for being comfortable
I’m proud of you for using blankets
I’m proud of you for being hot
I’m proud of you for being cold
I’m proud of you for talking
I’m proud of you for not talking
I’m proud of you for aging
I’m proud of you for putting your hair up
I’m proud of you for not putting your hair up
I’m proud of you for braiding your hair
I’m proud of you for not braiding your hair
I’m proud of you for doing plays
I’m proud of you for not doing plays
I’m proud of you for using pillows
I’m proud of you for being tall
I’m proud of you for being short
I’m proud of you for being in-between
I’m proud of you for having pimples
I’m proud of you for not having pimples
I’m proud of you for having acne
I’m proud of you for not having acne
I’m proud of you for buying things
I’m proud of you for not buying things
I’m proud of you for having stuffed animals
I’m proud of you for not having stuffed animals
I’m proud of you for working
I’m proud of you for helping
I’m proud of you for putting in a suit
I’m proud of you for putting on a dress
I’m proof of you for wearing hoodies
I’m proud of you for wearing jeans
I’m Proud of you for wearing a jacket
I’m proud of you for wearing shoes
I’m proud of you for eating pants
I’m Proud if you for wearing shorts
Im proud of you for wearing T-shirts
I’m proud of you for wearing long sleeves
I’m proud of you for being a furry
I’m proud of you for being a therein
I’m proud of you for making paper dragons
IM PROUD OF YOU FOREVER!!!❤❤❤
I’m proud of you for not helping
I’m proud of you for trying
I’m proud of you for walking
I’m proud of you for any sports you do
I’m proud of you for crying
I’m proud of you for any emotion you display.
I’m proud of you for not showing emotion.
I’m proud of you because for your hair(or lack of)
Im proud of you for being on your tablet
I’m proud of you for being on your phone
I’m proud of you for being on your computer
I’m proud of you for being on your TV
I’m proud of you for being on any device
IM PROUD OF YOU!! ❤❤❤❤
Ty but can u do trying to walk because I have a broken leg
And can u add skating
@@CatloverAtYourDOOR ofc!
@@Xx_Ry_ilN_th3_H3rm3s_V0id._ty❤
@@CatloverAtYourDOOR
I feel horrible, idk why there are so many ppl that think that kids bodies are toys. It’s disgusting, I hope you got the help you needed to get through that. Society is horrible
im so sorry this happened to you, you did not deserve any of that. You are very strong, we are here for you.
❤I did not either but I forgave him and we have the best bond now
🎉😊
Im so sorry this happened to you i hope you have recovered from their actions you didn't deserve it
I have recovered from it, no need to worry dear💕
@@Y0sh1ko I hope you’re not depressed anymore
I am too young
I am too young
I am too young
I am too young
I am too young
I am too young
Why are u so mature: ask my mom
Why are u so mean: ask my mom
Why are u so strong?: ask my mom
Why are u so cold:ask my mom
Why are u so depressed:ASK MY MOTHER
@@Thatonepepperyguysame. And she still has to audacity to say “I love you and I care for you”
@@Gacha_elf ikr?!
To whoever reads this,
i love you
i love your smile
i love your laugh
i love your personality
i love your hair (or lack thereof)
i love your insecurities
i love your accomplishments
i love your failures
i love your eyes
i love your beauty
i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
i love the way you dance
i love you on your happy days
i love you on your sad days
i love you on the days you feel lonely
i love you on the days you feel helpless
i love you on the days you feel like no one cares
i love you on the days you feel forgotten
i love you on the days you feel unmotivated
i love you on the days you feel loved
i love you on the days you feel sick
i love you on the days you feel motivated
i love you on the days you feel depressed
i love you on the days you feel stresses
i love you on the days you feel crazy
i love you on the days you feel hopeful
i love you on the days you feel cuddly
i love you on the days you feel clingy
i love you on the days you feel amazing
i love you on the days you feel beautiful
i love you on the days you feel like a failure
i love you on the days you feel angry
i love you on the days you feel aggressive
i love you on the days you feel horrible
i love you on the days you feel safe
i love you on the days you feel unsafe
i love you on the days you feel vulnerable
i love you on the days you feel weird
i love you on the days you feel ok
i love you when you're healthy
i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
i love your taste in music
i love your taste in movies
i love your taste in tv shows
i love the way you move
i love the way you act
i love you when you cry
i love you when you're kind
i love you when you're mean
i love you when you're alone
i love you when you can't feel
i love you when you feel too much
i love you when you can't take life anymore
i love you when you feel like it's too much
i love you when you're asleep
i love you when you have nightmares
i love you when you have dreams
i love how you believe
i love you when you believe in yourself
i love you when you don't believe in yourself
i love you when you hate yourself
i love you when you love yourself
i love the way you think
i love you problems
i love your solutions
i love how you support
i love you when you're in pain
i love you when you're hurt
i love your promises
i love your secrets
i love your attitude
i love you sass
i love your creativity
i love your voice (or lack thereof)
i love you hand gestures
i love your stories
i love your wounds
i love your scars
i love your face
i love your past
i love your future
i love your present
i love your outfits
i love your style
i love your art
i love your honesty
i love you when you lie
i love you when you're tired
i love you when you're energetic
i love how you look
i love how you cook
i love you when you're adventurous
i love you when you're scared
i love your imperfections
i love your perfections
i love you when you worry
i love you when you talk (or communicate)
i love your opinions
i love you when you have a headache
i love you when you have a stomach ache
i love you when you help others
i love you when you need help
i love you when you're mature
i love you when you're immature
i love you in the hard times
i love you in the easy times
i love you when life is meh
i love you when you're responsible
i love you when you're irresponsible
i love you when you fight
i love you in your darkest moments
i love you in your brightest moments
i love your heart
i love you in the day
i love you in the night
i love you at midnight
i love you at 3 am
i love you at all times
i love you at your best
i love you at your worst
i love the little things you do
i love all of you
i love you when you're you
i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
I don't love you 😊
@@prime_44444 gosh darn
@@prime_44444 who *ASK?* 😊
@@KarmasGood well she was the one who asked dumass
To everyone struggling:
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAKE CARE
I apologize for what happened to you! Your right you were too young. Nobody deserves this pain... Everything will be better!
Holy shit I normally don’t support Gacha creators but u are a welcoming exeption
RESPECT TO YOU BRO-
Did I ask
@@n.e.r.d.2213 shut the goddamn hell up.
@@n.e.r.d.2213your profile pic makes sense...
@@n.e.r.d.2213 I asked !!!!!!!! :O
Hey if you and the others need it!
how are you supposed to make friends if every one bullies you and hates you and doesn't even talk to you and you're bestfriend is hurting and you're suffer from anxiety not just any anxiety severe anxiety and mostly depression. and say what ever you want I'm not begging for attention that's literally my life i hate it no matter how much love I get when I get home I get depressed. no being able to be your self because of your parents I'm a therian and they hate me for that my friends hate me I only have one 2 friends that don't hate me and. I give up In life IM TOO YOUNG IN STILL 11
and what about the feeling of your mom abandoned you?
These stories.. They just make my blood boil, I don't understand why anyone would do this?! This cruelty to a CHILD!!! She/he wasn't even a tween! Still pure minded and cheerful! Then they have the nerve to take away something that can't come back. You have one childhood and he just took it! What is going on in their brain?? "Yea I'mma go stalk this kid in the shower abuse and ruin her/his childhood"
But everything aside I hope you are doing well now and have that jerk out if your life ❤
I'm very sorry about what happened, I really hope that never happens again, whoever did that to you should be arrested.
Yk I can relate to you bc there was this guy that stalked me from age 6 to 10 and I didn't say anything bc I was too scared and one time he even grew the nerve to "touch" me so your not alone in this subject of trauma
Wasn't trying to load on you and make u feel worse just wanna connect with you so you know that your not the only one and you won't be alone 🥰
I know people aren’t going to believe this but one time a person wanted to get my voice and give it to a mute person and the same person once said to me to go to prison.
@@Snowy_snow561what
please dont say ''i can relate'' cause some people dont like it / maybe for some its okay but we dont know^^
@@HutaoMc The creator obviously didn't care since they hearted my comment and didn't ask me to stop.
Also, humans need people to relate to them because humans are usually social individuals. Even people with social anxiety needs to be around other humans and to understand them
I'm so sorry!! May you recover from that creep :(
As someone who went through similar stuff recently, this hit harder than it should.. especially as a young age like that.
I'm confident in my body, but lately I've been scared of that. I was also 7 when someone touched me and asked my uncomfortable questions, and I wasn't able to come to terms with that trauma until recently. It feels like everyone makes excuses for what he did and all I can think about it "what about me?!" I'm especially scared that it'll happen again now that I'm older and have a more mature body...
I’ve been hearing so many sa stories from people who got sa’d young and I’m 11 and I know sa is common in middle school I already met a predator once so I’m scared for middle school next year 😢
@@st4rry0npawzz I'm sorry to hear that! I'm a freshman in highschool, so I'll be honest, that fear will never go away, because once you're aware there are bad people in the world, that worry never goes away. However, it gets easier to stay safe when you have a friend group and pepper spray :)
Daily reminder:
Your skin is not paper, so don't cut it.
Your neck is not a coat, so don't hang it.
Your body is not a book, so don't judge it.
Your heart is not a door, so don't lock it.
Your life is not a movie, so don't end it.
Remember to always love yourself because you're a freakin' star
I love it!^^
real.
How in the world do you lock your heart👹👹
It doesn't help me..
It doesn't really matter anymore I'm just waiting until it gets better or I just finally snap
same too gurl, but I was just 4-5 when I've wanted to die because someone touched me, I was still 5 when I was neglected and misunderstood...
I can't explain how much I feel bad for you.. You didn't deserve to have all those things happen to you, just know that if you ever need anyone to talk to, we will always be with you❤
I am very sorry about what's happening in your life right now I really hope things get better for u just stay strong okay... you are not alone! maybe you should try going to therapy it will help if you don't have the money you can watch videos that might help you. Try telling your family how you feel...if you are so scared you don't have to tell them. Stay positive things will get better I promise!! 💝💖😭😉
I LOVE YOU😭
@@Y0sh1ko awww tysm 😭 💖 your also so kind 💕
@@Baldsuri you are kind too, dear💕
@@Y0sh1ko i'm flattered ☺
@@Baldsuri congratulations on 680+ subscribers btw 😊💕 you totally deserved that
To everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus
To everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve.
To everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. When you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time.
To everyone who is creating, you got this.
Your art is amazing. Remain in your flow and get stuff done!
If you're reading, relax, Focus, and imagine the beautiful scenes in your head.
And if you're playing games like me, Focus on your game and don't give up :D
-Not mine, but pass it around guys
Ty
I needed this 😭
awhh thanks!
Yeah I really need to sleep, thanks for reminding me. It’s like one in the morning
I don’t want to eat or drink I’d rather die. I hate my body figure anyway. I won’t have to look or speak to anyone.
"him" Is the one that made me uncomfortable, Several reason
I hope you feel better soon, And others, Like the person reading this
this is because females play victim but Andrew Tate is sigma and knows the truth
You poor thing I’m so sorry this stuff happened to you at such young ages even if you weren’t young this is unacceptable 🙁 Lots of love 💕🫶🏻
LOL
I am so sorry for you
Please be safe
Whenever you are sad we are here for u
These days peole are getting disgusting
And whoever 'him' is must die or be in jail un till death.
And we are always with you
When did you have depression..?
4-7 years old..
We’re you mentally/ emotionally abused?
My whole life until I was 8..
Why?
Ask my dad.. :(
My dad abused my mom and fought with her alot, he also lied about her being evil and left me outside to go to the shop in his car.. :(
I’m alr now guys .. I’m still traumatised tho
I really hope you're doing better.
No one deserves that, no matter who they are or where they're from, NO ONE deserves what you went through, and I'm happy you're okay, even if I don't know you personally. I hope that you have a happy life and can find the people who treat you right. ❤
it’s easy to die. you can choose to live or die. people say they want to die or suicide, but again they don’t. it’s not fun, or games, to joke with suicide or self-harm. and even abuse. it’s not funny when people say they are going to kill their selfs. it’s not fun to their parents, to their friends, or their love. Here is a daily reminder, if you think nobody cares about you, not true! there is always a person who loves you. you js have to pay attention to the little details and hints of their love. Be safe. Love yourself. Don’t harm yourself. Much Love. 💕
I am sorry you had this terrible life. No one deserves this kind of treatment, you are so beautiful and I love your oc you have talent!❤ your supportive fans will help you along the way!‼️🫶🏻🫶🏼🫶🏽🫶🏾🫶🏿✅
I'm sorry for what happened 😔 I hope u grow out of it! 💖
Why do people do things like this too kids?! It’s sad! When I was four, five and a half, there was a neighbour I had who was a pervert and liked me a bit to much, the worst thing was that I didn’t know and talked to him, until my dad stopped me from talking to him. But still, people like that are disgusting.
ty to the creator of this video letting anyone vent.but really, it was only a few minutes ago, my (little)sister suddenly stepped on me. And since im a crybaby, of course i had to cry. then my sister started blaming my phone (because i was playing it when she stepped on me). I mean, i cant control my little sister.
I understand my little sister is autistic, but she still have eyes....she isnt blind. But i hate the fact after she stepped on me she started playing with my face and my ears while i was crying. everyone has trauma. If you dont, your just lucky
(sorry if you had to read until here, i just wanted to vent)
It’s so sad to think people actually do that to kids
Im so sorry, i hate the fact that children (mainly young girls) are used as toys for adults, like wtf?! As someone who was molested, i was told that girls are toys for men and our body belongs to men wtf?! Im so sorry for venting to you all😭❤
FEMINISM RULES #ALLMEN #ALLMENARELIKETHAT
@@pipiaoffical wait are you a femenist- (I dislike them so just asking
@@The_personthatdoesntsimp no, im a guy and i was trolling
@@pipiaoffical oh ok ty for giving basic respect to both genders!
I’m really sorry you experienced all that. :(
I’m sorry if you had to go through all of this… but you’re amazing no matter what!
im so srry about what you've gone through..I have gone through that to and i know how u feel. Just know that i hope every things gonna be ok.
I’m literally suffering the same thing with different ages…you’ve been through more stuff than me. I’m really sorry you had to suffer that, we’re always here for you❤
Thank you dear ❤️☺️
@@Y0sh1ko yw
When they firstly said "Wanna play a game? :)" This is TOTAL R4P3.
I feel so bad, I’ve been touched inappropriately before but never this.
I’m so sorry this happened to you! You were way too young to be dealing with this! :(
Are you okay if you need someone to talk to im here! If you are not comfortable try reaching out someone as in family/friends etc. ❤️
I got depression and anxiety when i was 4-5
Also emotionaly abused when i was 4-5 so i feel u :D
Hope ur ok :(
I hope you recover from the mean stuff people say, and feel all the rest and love you need.
I also felt this, i always collapsed and hyperventilated from all my trauma. But idrc, whats important other people gets love, *sends virtual hugs* we may be random strangers on the internet, but us soft hearted people will comfort you all the way. we have feelings too, its ok. i hope your ok. stay safe 😢
Omg nooooo but u got all through it and ur still here! How strong of you
I’m sorry that happened 😞 if I could I would’ve done something about it. I’ve seen so many videos about this type of stuff and I’m so glad it hasn’t happened to me.
I’m going through the same thing too😢
oh.., im so sorry that happened to you. i went through the same when i was age 7-12 years old.
Get well soon
I’m really sorry about what happened to your and I hope that the rest of your life will be the best bc you rly went though a lot..😢
Im so sorry, no one should ever have to go through that :(
I love you and I'm here for you if you need to vent
Stay safe hun ❤️
Plz pin this if you want so people can see and benefit from this. Also, you can copy and paste this if you want. I want to spread this around so people who are struggling can benefit from it.
This may hurt, but it’s the cold, hard truth. Getting made fun of is gonna happen to you for the rest of your life for as long as you live. You can’t control other people and you can’t control how they react to things. The only thing you can control is how you react. change the way you think, and everything will change. I have depression and anxiety and this is what helped me so I hope it will help you to. Know that I’m not making you do these things, they are recommendations.
1.) practice gratitude.
Get a journal and every day write down three things that you are grateful for. But before you write these things down, think to yourself, “Why am I grateful for these things?” You can choose to write out why you’re grateful for them or you don’t need to.
2.) meditation.
Meditation has helped me become at ease with myself. I recommended doing five minutes in the morning and five minutes at night right before bed so you can get better sleep. As time goes on, consider increasing the time you meditate for.
3.) exercise.
According to Yale University, exercise can release the same effect as antidepressants.
4.) get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
One of the most popular TEDTalks came from Jia Jiang. In his TEDTalk, he spoke about spending time living outside of his comfort zone. Jiang spent 100 days seeking out opportunities to experience rejection to help him overcome, social anxiety, and his fear of rejection to become a more confident person. It involves him doing things like asking a random stranger to lend him $100, knocking on someone’s door and asking to play soccer in their backyard, and asking for second helping in a restaurant without paying. At the end of the 100 days, Jiang was a completely different person-he was confident and sociable because of how kind people were to him during this time spent outside of his comfort zone.
5.) create daily habits.
This could mean waking up at a time that is right for you, so you can have an organized day. This could also mean you having a nighttime routine. Or you can do both!
6.) fix your insecurities.
If you’re feeling insecure about something, fix it. For example, if you feel that you are overweight, go lose that weight IN A HEALTHY WAY. If you feel that your skin is ugly, or is too rough, or you have a lot of acne, do a skin care routine, and this goes back to the daily habits.
7.) have a growth mindset.
What this means is, you may say, “I should give up I am not good at this.” That is considered a fixed mindset. to change this into a growth mindset, instead of saying that, say, “How can I improve or do better?” This gives you room to improve, but with the fixed mindset, you only allow yourself to go to a certain extent before giving up. there are a lot of examples on Google you can look up. Just look up, “fixed to growth mindset examples.”
8.) reaching your goals, puts a limit on your happiness.
What I mean by this is when you were on the other side of your goal, you may think, “if I could just reach that way I’d be happy,” “if I could just make enough money to buy this thing, I’d be happy.” There is nothing wrong with these goals, but you are putting happiness off until you achieve goal. You make happiness something that only the future version of yourself can enjoy.
9.) split your bigger goals into smaller goals.
If you have a big goal of losing 100 pounds, split that goal into losing 5 pounds in *this amount of time.*
10.) change your beliefs about yourself.
This may be confusing, but let me explain. The way you see yourself will determine your results because who you are is rooted in what you believe. The idea is that if you believe in something, you are going to live it out. For example, if two people have decided to quit eating junk food and they are invited out to their favorite fast food restaurant, one of them responds, “thanks for the offer, but I’m trying to stop eating junk food at the moment.” You can admire what the person is trying to achieve, but when you scratch the surface of their statement, what they are really saying is that they don’t see themselves as a healthy person yet because they are trying to stop eating junk food. On the other hand, the second person states in their response to the fast food invitation, “thank you for the offer, but I don’t eat junk food.” This statement is a lot more convincing, because they have totally detached themselves from the bad habit of eating junk food. In other words, they’ve made the decision to change who they are.
Bonus
11.) urge surfing.
Anytime, you feel an urge to do something you know is not going to benefit you, follow these steps.
* pay attention to where the urge is coming from in your body.
* Once you have located where the urges coming from focus all of your attention on the area and observe this sensations you are experiencing.
* Spent two minutes focusing on your breath.
* Imagine that every sensation in her you are feeling is a wave. As the urge, intensifies and subsides look at it as a wave rising, and falling.
* As the urge, settles down, pay attention to the changes you are feeling
If you read all of that, then, congratulations. But I have one more thing to say. No matter who you are no matter how successful you are, you will still feel emotions and you will still feel sad, happy, angry, guilty, etc. What I am trying to say is that, life is full of ups and downs. It doesn’t matter how many ups and downs you have, what truly matters is, how you react in those ups and downs. I know I don’t know your current situation, but I can say this, I am proud of you for making it this far. I’m sorry if you don’t get that a lot but I am truly proud of you. I heard this saying, and it goes like, “you will never meet a bully doing better than you.” To end this off, I want to say, I hope you get better. It’s okay if you don’t take this advice, but, I highly encourage it. This is what has helped me through depression and my anxiety. This took hours to write, and to be honest I don’t care how long it would take to write. As long as it helps at least one person out, the time it took to write this was well worth it. Lastly, The fact that you're still breathing and still here is a miracle. Through every bad time, every breakdown, every anxiety attack, every episode, you're still here. And I know I can't even start to understand how hard it really was, but you're here and you owe yourself a smile for that. You have only meet an insignificant portion of people that you share this planet with. It's crazy that you can go a whole life, only meeting less than 1% of the population. In that same way, there's so much more to this planet than you've experienced yet. And in that unknown are amazing people, so don't give up on it yet. There are good people, there are good places out there, and as you get older and experience more of life you'll see this. Be grateful of what you can and be cautious of those you surround yourself with and continue to prosiest.
Life is so weird and annoying and irritating because no one has the answer to why we are here. We don't have a purpose inherently put upon us so we create that purpose. Find that purpose and wake up each morning motivated to do something. Whether it's creating art, working out, or just making people smile. Purpose is what keeps us going at the end of the day, but you have so much time. Hang in there and you got this.
its not bullying, it's s3x6al ab00se and stalking.. shame on you for putting other people down like that and still asking to be pinned.
I’m so sry u had to go through that. That’s absolutely disgusting and I hope ‘he’ goes to prison or smth worse like that, I’m so sry
I am so sorry that happened to you, all of those things are horrible. I hope “him” won’t EVER LAY A FINGER ON YOU! Please take care, hope you’re happy and healthy.❤ a lot of people are disgusting! I hate the bad thing other people do to others! I hope you have recovered!❤❤❤❤❤❤ I hope you guys know that God loves you, and he will always protect, but remember he’s never early, but never late❤ if it makes you feel any better, I was also emotionally abused for a while. I am still a kid though. 10 years old❤ I hope everyone is doing good and is on there feet😊❤
what is the name of the song in the background ?
Song is stop nagging me by akira neru
@@luvmayabae FINALLY!! Thanks
I honestly feel so bad, especially at those ages I'm so sorry that all happened to you! :( At those ages you're supposed to have fun and not go through those awful things.
Besides the video though, does anyone know the song/sound name? Ty
its called “stop nagging me!”
@@cndjcnvdjfvsgvsjasbsh Thank you a lot!
I hope all of the people who made you feel that way is in jail
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Girly I’m sorry but I gotta know the song 😭
Also, feel better it’s not okay what these people have done to you. Love yourself no matter what
@Slay the song name is " Stop nagging me - Akira Neru "
I'm soo proud of you for still being here and believing in your life and stil staying you are a warrior and who ever did it God will punish them I fell so sorry for you
I was never stalked but i feel so bad for you and I can't imagine how being stalked would feel like I hope nothing like this happens ro you in the future
I got Depression when i was 7 and told my mom I was stressed but she never listened
People disgust me. Why do they do that? It’s fking CHILD ABUSE they should get arrested.. I hope ur okay now :)
You are a true soldier:(
My friends say, ‘I have trauma, my dad yells at me!’ or other things, but have you ever been told to kill yourself? Been told that you’re not good enough? Been forced to eat because you’re too bony and light? Been looked at by an older man and flirted to by one? Your parent yelling at you isn’t trauma, it’s discipline, and it’s completely normal and actually quite common when someone is a child.
same i had depression when i was 8-9 and anxiety for all of my life
Oh gosh no. That’s terrible. I hope you have recovered. You don’t deserve that ❤️
there will always be moments in life where you feel as if nothing matters the feeling that you'll never feel better again, and the urge to give up on everything. but i promise you it gets better in the end. i'm here for you if you'd like to talk.
and yet your still going. still living life. that just shows how strong you are.
oh no! i srsly hope you're okay
sometimes at night i get the feeling i'm being watched even though i'm not
but that is just a minor inconvenience in the face of this.
you didn't deserve that especially when you were that age.
and i'll be sending good vibes your way!
❤🎉
..I feel so bad for you just from reading it I feel horrible for you and I know it’s horrible but what’s worse was that happened at such a young age as well..
Damn, hope you're okay now.
Sorry that happened to you just know were all here for you,stuff happened to me when I was 10 and it messed me up badly and it still affects me till this day of what they did to me
Im so sorry
Ilysm you're so strong!
Awh i feel so bad for you :(
Im so sorry that happened to u but ur subscribers are here for u! U can take a break whenever u want.
Why do kids, literally KIDS have to go throw this bro, this is just so cruel and immature of people to think that they could use children for their own benefits
Omg you poor soul I hope it gets better but for now I wish you well
I had depression and maybe anxiety when I was 9… it was terrible. I take pills to calm myself cuz I can’t control myself very well, and it’s hard for me to listen, then people yell at me for not listening when it’s hard for me to I think these are from ADHD but I’m not sure, and sometimes I feel like my best friend isn’t my best friend anymore; she makes fun of me sometimes and asks personal questions when I tell her not to and begs me to tell her something I don’t want to tell her. Btw I’m so sorry you went through this, anyone at the age between 1-18 should have a good childhood…
I- I'm sorry you had to go through this.. At such young ages?.. That's messed up, I hope you're able to overcome from that and you're doing better now. .
.....WHAT THE HECK HOWWWW???? Like the only childhood trauma i got was my neighbour trying to hurt me for no reason and you literally got abused, stalked, had depression, etc at a young age, tbh, now iam actually proud nothing worser happened to me
Omg…
I really hope your doing ok now I’ve never experienced something like this but that sounds horrific
U don’t deserve any of this and neither does anyone else.
This world makes me sick sometimes.
Hope ur better or doing better now at least❤
i am so sorry, i hope your okay now!! :(
Tip . Do not trust the internet..
and.. try to avoid creepy comments.
And.. and try to avoid mean community.
And try to stay healthy and safe.❤️
Man i cant believe im disappointed at my own kind (bro humanity has failed so bad 😢)
OMB BRO ITS LITERALLY THE SAME EVEN I GOT RPD WHEN I WAS 7!! It’s like the same story.. ik I may sound confident or happy to have somthing common but no I’m not I’m completely different irl.. plus I’m actually sad that there r other people like me I hope u all live good I’m sorry for what’s happening and happend to u ❤ I LOVE YOU and u are worth it I promise
I can relate but not the last point
I’m sorry that happened to you):
You are amazing.
You are kind.
You are beautiful.
You are pretty.
You are nice.
You are not annoying.
You are not terrible.
You didn’t deserve that.
You deserved better
-someone who started sh at 8
im sorry for your loss.
Im so sorry for for you
im so sorry for you ..
my brother made me do smth bad at a age i didnt understand at 5-8 ... :| u deserve a hug
Oh my god, who would stalk a fucking 11 year old!? Not just stalking them, but in the SHOWER. That's disgusting, that person deserves to go to jail. I can't believe people like "THAT" are alive. I'm so sorry, I hope you get well after that traumatizing event. That person is disgusting and a p3d0ph@ile. You deserve so much more, I'm so sorry you got abused and what other peoples actions, did to you. I'm so sorry. I hope in the future you will get better. This has never happened to me but I can tell you were scared. I'm really sorry about this.
same, someone was also stalking me in my shower *still* but im still a kid
When you got stalked showering.. it reminded me that me being showered by a pervert.
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I started sh when I was 10 and I never felt like I could tell anyone because I thought they wouldn’t believe me because I was “to young”
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You should never have to go through this. Just know everyone here is here to support you. We love you through your highs and lows.
I’m sorry :( I had some rough patches in my childhood, mostly emotional abuse. They didn’t realize how much their words hurt…
Apologies do nothing. If you break a plate and you say sorry to it, it’s not going to be repaired. Same with your heart.
Stay positive :) there are still some good people out there