Hayes & Solene - Their Full Story [The Idea of You]
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- Hayes and Solene Their Love Story
Movie- The Idea of You
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My girlfriend was 45 when we started dating and I was 32. Best relationship I’ve her had and probably ever will. She died of cancer six years after we were together and I’ll never stop missing her.
May your girlfriend's soul rest in peace, sir 🤍
I’m so sorry for your loss as I’ve always felt it’s not about age. It’s about connection.
I believe you two were meant to meet and go on this journey together. Sending compassionate condolences in your loss. 🫂🕊️🕯️🙏😇🙏🕯️🕊️
May she rest in peace 🤎
Thank you for your beautiful comment. Wow! My heart broke when I read it but so glad for your time you had with her.
Really good movie. I just don't understand why people are so obsessed with celebrities's lifes. They're just like us but famous. 🤷
I agree with you that’s is so true!
Yes😢
So true.
Well said ❤
People project their "subconscious" dreams on them. VIPs embody things which people are longing for. But as an Opera Singer I can say that most stage people have a lot of issues, all the same as we unknown people have. Being on stage mostly means that VIPs also "play" their own dreams in roles but that doesn't mean they have this in their privat life. Of course not all but most of artists have these issues. And there are even a lot of artists on this world who do a lot of amazing work but they aren't famous. Film and theatre industry is really hard and no fun if you look at the details Backstage. A lot of power abuse and so on.
In these actors cases, they're brilliant at portraying movie roles that make the characters seem so very real and relatable.
We married: him age 24 and me, 42. We've been together for 24 years so far and going strong.
You're so lucky.
😊😊❤🧿 love it
Wow! That's amazing. Maybe I should stop being ageist myself and turning down the younger men that ask me out. I've not had any great luck with men my age or older anyway!
When he said he loved me I tried to list all the reasons why it wouldn't work and once I had exhausted my list he asked : are you done? I said yes I had said my peace. And then he proceeded to tell me why it would work and it turns out he was correct!
I am 40 and my boyfriend is 26. We met when he was 21. We have been together 5 years and he has been in my kids lives since they were little. They are 7 and 10 now 💪.
As long as you’re not one of those women who complain when men do the same, more power to you
@@aaronmiles2802
Shut up
Awwww OMG I love this!! Congratulations Hun keep on loving each other!!
Wow! That's great. Maybe I will stop being so ageist myself and turning down the younger men that ask me out.
Why is it so wrong in the society if the woman is much much older than her man? But it's so acceptable if the man is older than his woman even more than 20 years older
Longstanding misogynistic beliefs among many, unfortunately. And women who are younger and can still reproduce are typically considered more attractive/desirable.
2 words: double standards
The hypocrisy!
It’s weird both ways imo
It's Never Not Wrong, if the age gap is inappropriate (but I feel we all already know that...)
...And within' legal age, the answer is it isn't only acceptable for Older guys. Older women can date and be with younger men As Well. 💁♀️ You can't judge who someone falls for... It's their own interest.
Also, FYI, I'm not talking about casual hooking up sex. I'm speaking on genuine Realistic Relationships with the two!
That last kissing scene ,so beautiful,with the colors changing in the room ,very tender,and you’re thinking it’s over,then the end ….OMG ,loved it .
Yep, me too, loved It! Like photo filters.. beautiful and sensual!
Love this movie....it reminds me of another time and place when i was that 40 year old woman seeing a 30 year old musician. We certainly did not have the love story depicted here, but it was intense and meaningful in its own way. I remember getting teased about the age difference and we'd laugh about it...at that time, though, our lives were heading in 2 different directions so we each moved on. But, i remember it with great fondness....and when people ask me if i could go back to a specific age, i always tell them it would be around 40.
Their love story is wierd but the movie was decent
That’s the most romantic I love you I have seen in a long time ❤
But Nicholas, that kiss would start a war. My oh my, you can really kiss. Our movie was a bomb, fantastic and brilliant. You are a creative genius indeed
Idk i cried watching this movie. May be I'm n the same boat all alone. I knw this is a movie but their care, respect and love for each other was mindblowing. The guy is damn hot. As dreams are free I will dream for a bf like him frm today onwards❤😭
❤Age is not the change maker, love is….45 years of marriage to my forever soulmate. Until death do us part in 2016. He was 20 years older.
Es como mi historia😢
Nicholas is just a heart stealer,hes taking both boys and girls and im here for it!
Loved from purple hearts
I was 27 and my wife was 36 and we have been married for 36 years we love each other more today than ever ❤
Thank you for allowing me to live vicariously through Solene, remembering a similar time in my life💞
I enjoyed this movie and i didnt mind the changes i think they ended up working for the story in a good way
How is the ending in the book
@@pnarkocer9651 the ending in the book does not end as optimistic as the film.
That was something they changed to give fans more "closure". The book ending completely wrecked me when I read it. First ill add in the book her daughter is younger. im pretty sure she's like 13 or 14 or middle school aged. In the book her daughter is obsessed with the band still and on top of that her favorite guy in the band is Hayes. This is also something the changed in the film.
They made solenes daughter an older teen who has moved passed her obsession with the band. And Her favorite guy in the band wasn't Hayes in the film it was rory. similar to the movie solene doesn't really tell anyone about Hayes. Especially her daughter because like I said in the book she is obsessed and thinks she loves him. So solene struggles with telling her because she knows it'll destroy her. In the book it comes off as much more of a betrayal to izzy. So izzy doesn't handle the news of solene dating Hayes as well as she does in the film. they make it seem like she honestly doesn't care they're dating at all. she's more so upset her mom didn't tell her in the movie. But in the book she is crushed when she finds out and doesn't talk to solene for days. When she finally comes around to the thought of it she has to deal with all the stuff they show in the film once the relationship is made public.
But basically in the book they break up for similar reasons in the movie but it's much more gutwrenching.
One thing they didn't show in the film while her and Hayes were together was solenes constant struggle with wanting to be with Hayes because he makes her happy but knowing in the back of her head they'd never work long term because of the age gap. In the book she constantly thinks about what their future would look like with a 20 year age gap. Ex-if they ever married or wanted to have kids or when Hayes is her age she'd be 60. etc
In the book Hayes is only 20 turning 21 and solene turns 41 in the book. So they shortened the age gap by 4 Year in the movie. In the book the first fight they have where she leaves doesn't play put the same way in the book. In the book Hayes friend in the band makes multiple passes at solene to get back at Hayes for sleeping with his sister. This is a huge thing in the book and tbh I don't remember if him dedicating the song to her was an act the band had did before or not. So she never gets upset with him over that.
Similar to in the film she realizes how hard it's actually been on izzy and everyone else around her because of the attention the media is bringing to the situation. And izzy having to deal with all the bs at school is her driving force for ending it because like I said she's younger in the book so she still has to go all through high school and college like that. Hayes legit begs her not to end things and doesn't understand or accept why they can't make it work. When he shows up at her house after the initial break up in the book its to plead for her to change her mind. they spend one more night to together similar to what they do in the movie and he continues to beg for her to fight for their love insisting they'd make it work despite the age gap. while he's at her house his phone keeps blowing up and when she asks why he tells her he quit the band so they could be together because he looks at it like his "celebrity persona" is the root of why they won't work. She gets upset when she finds out he quit because she looks at it as him throwing away his life and everything he's worked for over something she doesn't think will work in the long run.
Now in the books they exchange I love yous way before they ever break up. So when Hayes is pleading with her not to end things one final time because they love each other she ends up saying "maybe she didn't love him she loved the idea of him."
They throw that line into the first break up they have when in the book it happened in their final break up and in the movie it didn't hold the same weight it did in the book AT ALL. Like that is the line in the book that completely wrecks Hayes when she ends the relationship closed the door on him. he says that he doesn't believe her and that's she's just saying it to push him away for good. But she insists and basically shuts the door on him. The very last page of the book talks about how Hayes would text text her sometimes multiple times a day to reach out and say he still loved her a missed her for months or maybe even years. But she never ever responds back because she believed this was the only way. The very last line in the book legit was like eventually one day they stopped. But long before she ever stopped loving him 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
every fan of the book absolutely hated the ending because it was just so sad and they never really got any closure. The film ending kinda leaves it open for the fans to interpret it however they want. But kinda insinuates that they probably end up getting back together and making it work. So the film ending was nice because it gave book fans rhe closure we all probably wanted.
But the whole 5 year thing never happens in the book. Like if I remember correctly I think Hayes does suggest them taking a break and giving izzy time to get through school and what not but like I said Im the books she's younger so it's a much longer time frame before that would ever happen Which is why solene just says it wouldn't have been realistically possible.
@@leahmuniz530 thank youuuu 😘😘😘😘😘
@@pnarkocer9651 you're welcome! 💕
@@leahmuniz530 🧡
Both of them are such beautiful people 😊😊😊i can't
In Robinne's 2017 The Idea of You book, Solène is 39 and Hayes is 20.
In the film, Solène is 40 and Hayes is 24 so instead of a 19 year age gap, there's 16 years between.
This film gives hope to single ladies looking for hot young smart wise men with a steady confidence!
If a woman is someone like Anne then it doesn’t matter her age, whether it’s 25,45 ot 55.
4 years wasn’t enough, they could have at least made him 30. 30 is still very young, idk why Hollywood is obsessed with 20 somethings
@@Winskl9010 This movie is basically based on age gap. If they have some like 10 years gap then the whole movie or plot wouldn't create so much spark like this film or book.
This movie have a condition which only applicable if you are Anne Hathaway.
sorry but a movie isnt real life LMAO younger guys just use older women for a quick pump and dump
Loved the movie soo much....love them so much😢
Ugh thier chemistry was insane
Soooo glad they changed the ending !!!!!!❤❤❤❤ happy is so much better than sad.
Really!? 😯 How was it to end?
@@joyfulheartinchrist340 she lis to him at the end denies being in love with him tells him she tells him it was the idea of you. So showing they waited for each other was a game changer. Loved this movie !!!!
And i needed this happy in my life. I wanted them to work out and stay together.
I loved him in purple hearts movie❤
I loved that movie. I think I liked this one more. I hated how everyone made her feel bad for dating a younger man, especially women. You would think they would have defended her.
No wonder he looks familiar!
I watched thé idea of you and enjoyed it. I did not know about Nicholas Galitzine before. I found out about purple hearts after and I loved it. I think I prefer purple hearts. I don't know where I was living 2 YEARS ago for not knowing about this amazing movie. Hope we will get a sequel. Hi from France.
This movie is very special ❤
Such a great movie.
I’m 41 and my Twin Flame is 28. We both know we can’t be together in this multiverse even though we both feel that each fucking moment we spend together is mind 🤬blowing. I’m loving him deeply from afar and it’s fucking OK. You can still love each other intensely even when you’re apart.
I understand you❤
❤i love how they argue. Mild. Still communicative. Not lashing out. Not saying all the hateful things that hurt deeply.
No regrets….Bravo👏👏👏
Thanks you for your beautiful video !
Amazing movie with FANTASTIC actors ❤
Wanna feel how loving someone younger than me feels
I watch it repeatedly 💖👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🎼🎶✔️🥰
Me too
Loved the movie and the soundtrack! ❤
Ive always loved them two together . Sometimes when people break up they never talk to each other again. But with hayes and solene they just remained friends thats the best part
Anne Hathaway and Nicholas seem so natural, down to earth and genuinely GOOD people. I was a professional golfer and was friends with several of the touring pros. Professional golfers are like other athletes and let's face it celebrities like movie stars. They hare just like you and me with their own hangups and issues. The only difference between them and "normal" people is that they are extremely talented and driven with one particular skill; whether it be acting, sports, theater, etc. The only difference between them and others is that they've figured out how to win, how to reach to top of their profession. If one takes a good look at OJ Simpson for example, now there was a head case, if there ever was one, who was extremely talented at football and intelligent. There are other celebrities who actually have their heads on straight. No different than everyone else in society. What I found so interesting in this movie was how vicious and cruel so many people were at one celebrity's happiness. Talk about who's screwed up. The fans had worse issues than the celebrities.
Beautiful movie love ther story line love it
Super love this movie ❤
I couldn't take my eyes from hayes ngl he's so hot
Fr
Loved the movie
First of all I'm so in love with the movie its just to perfect i would love to watch it thousand times, it's definitely worth it tho I'm so proud of the actors also with nick
I don’t need to watch it cos I literally just watched it right here! 🤣 Thaaaankkksssss 🥰
Goodt lawd the way he puts his shirt on even!
A wonderful movie ❤❤❤
it’s wild his characterization 😭 even harry’s tattooes
omfg this is so one direction/harry god damn styles !!!
Not a single tattoo of Hayes similar to that of Harry.
great job
i need to watch this asap
Love this movie. Part 2 pls.😊
Love this movie 💜
Well hugh jackman and his wife had a huge age difference and they worked well together for so many years. I hated hearing they got divorced
Yes love the movie
They changed a few things from the book mostly some good changes
I love this movie so much
I fell in love with a 36 yr old man when I was 59 we hung out a few times it was awesome...🤗💯
So sweet
Forever mad this movie blew up. I can't keep gatekeeping my baby anymore😭🙏
We want The Idea Of You 2
Yes we need to see what happens ❤
@@soundsforyou1362yes please part 2
Totally agree 💯
Amazing film amazing actors ❤❤❤❤
The movie portrayed the exact thought process that happens with this age gap. That's trully what happened. It might as well be "based on real facts"....
Très joli film.
c’est quoi le nom stp
Nice editing.
Muito lindo é uma história de amor marcante sim é isso❤❤🥰
To be honest, I have not seen this movie yet, but I can say that after this, it is going to be my favorite movie, what do you think? ❤😊
Nicholasssss!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I think it's important to remember the fantasy aspect of this movie. You have two gorgeous and successful people that meet and fall in love. All the passion, tenderness, and heat is inspiring and addicting. If these were two ordinary people, wherein he's really 20 and she's 40the age gap would be daunting to get past. Especially since her daughter is only a few years younger. You'd start throwing around the terms like pedophile or cradrob.
I would be jealous of my mom😢
Just beautiful 😊🎥✌️I’m too old for you 👌🫶
I'm 19 and my beautiful girlfriend is 28 we first got to know each other when I was 16 and she 25 and then we start dating 1 year after our first meeting and now it's been 2 years of dating , we are planning to reveal our relationship to our parents when i'm 20 there is just one year left ! We love each other so much honestly it's the best relationship ever !!
I'm seven years older than my husband. It's our 20th wedding anniversary this year
you work fast
She was amazing, I seen most her movies, she was so sexxier, than before ❤
Eu quero assistir
Imagine your mom married jungkook😂
Oh hell naaaah
I spate my water reading this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude why😂
Nope, nah, nada. I'm sorry Mom, but this is the end of our relationship. Lol
No seriously if someone's mother knows that their daughter is crazy for/has a huge crush on/in love with a man, doesn't matter if he's a celeb or not, the mom should stay away.
I would cry😭😭😭
Oh nooooo❤😂my heart
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When I was 21, I had a 39 yr-old lover. Very fulfilling, very beautiful lovemaking, because okder womentend to know HOW their bodies SHOULD respond to sexual interaction. Kind of a perfect match, really. I kept her feeling young 😉😉
❤❤
ذكرتني بقصة كانيتا وضحى ❤
There is life after divorce. Published a book on finding true WHOLENESS after divorce for women called “THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH”
Why on earth a woman cant love a younger man? Thats quite normal for a guy. Bullshit
Lol, human biology and physiology. A man has no evolutionary incentive to want an older woman, nor a psychological one.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ desde 🇺🇾🇺🇾 no enbromen con la edad😂😂😂
Film allegro , divertente, solare , gli attori funzionano molto bene insieme , c'è feeling e non è sempre scontato avvenga , la storia apparentemente leggera ma in realtà affronta temi molto intensi, la differenza di età tra una donna più matura ed un uomo giovane che fa ancora scalpore , il piacere di una donna che anche se mamma non per questo deve essere relegata e fissa a quel ruolo ed internet che se usato male può fare danni immensi . Anche io adoro dei gruppi ma non mi interessa la loro vita privata , per me possono avere 10 mogli, 5 cani , 2 amanti...problemi loro . Il finale mi piace perche , come dice una canzone ...certi amori non finiscono , fanno solo dei giri immensi ma ritornano .
i dunno, i loved a man 11 years different. it wasn’t enough for me, to know myself well enough and to know how hard i would end up working to stay feeling relevant, rather than honouring my journey into older age as an woman and becoming myself.. but maybe others honour different choices.. but he is a dear friend still and he has an awesome woman his own age now. a young man as mature as this hayes appears to be would be a great father i think. anyway, too complex, its hollywood..
Donde la puedo ver 😢
Prime video
It happen age gap ❤
Por dios los ojasos del pibe
is this like notting hill but with age gap?
Kinda
I just can't believe this is Harry Styles fan faction.
Really?
@LisaLisa-gv3hc that's what I heard. And so are the after movies on Netflix. It's was fan fiction.
In the end ...were they together or not?
I liked the movie but the daughter needed thicker skin...
If she had thicker skin the story would be different, now wouldn't it?
No, she didn’t, lol. She literally did her best for her mom, it wasn’t her fault.
We they end game
It’s up in the air. In the book, no.
How did it end good or
I found the ending to be realistic.
So I read the book. It was by far better than the movie. Why did they have to make soooo much changes. The book had some cringy to it, but the movie was extra cringey. 😢
Él es el mismo actor de "Corazones malheridos" de Netflix?
Sí
Is it a happy ending?
Yes, go for it
@@nehaprajapati3229
REALLY THEN I AM SOOO HAPPY READING THE BOOK WAS SOO HARD
Compared to the book yes
What song is this
♡♡
I have a delulu life, being old, loves kpop boy groups.. I have watched this movie, and my delulu meter just go higher
I’m in a big trouble
Movie name??
The Idea of You
I was ten years older than my husband 23 yrs married and a beautiful girl♥️♥️ we divorced👎
Extremely amazing movie with sh*t ending..... Seriously tho nowadays half of the celebs marry older females. And see their age gaps. And they're all happy together with kids and all.... This movie made me cringe tbh. Especially the tweets of people. Like come on bruh you're not in the 1670s. You're in 2024 and Survived COVID and still in the middle of the war. Give us a break. Try to change the mentality.... I hate the movie but I really really Love this movie. So Adorable. So Cute..... "That Love which is one of a kind". So Beautiful ❤️
Perché finale di merda?lui ritorna, e ciò fa capire che se ritorna e per stare con lei serenamente....più facile di così ❤❤.....
@@gabriellamaurelli3194 He returned not be with her. They were separated. The Love was there in some other dimension. But they couldn't be close to each other. Read the book pal.
@@corpse7333 non sono d'accordo
@@gabriellamaurelli3194 I'm not arguing with you. People can have different opinions ok. I've shared my opinions. You have your opinion. So just let it be....
Their chemistry sold the movie. Not the storyline so much.
They were both so hot and good to look at in the movie. It could’ve had more depth and substance, instead, it felt like a VERY light movie which is fine. It was airy and breezy 🌸
I’ve never heard of students bashing women for dating younger men. Most students find it hot that a woman would date a guy who’s 12 years younger. Nor have I heard of guys who text girls, the way that Izzy claimed Trevor texted her.
Bruh. Guys send gross text messages like that every. single.day. That part wasn't actually unrealistic.
What's the movie tilte
The Idea of You
Name of the movie please
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The idea of you
Hayes looks like a really hot, brunette McCauley Caulkin.
Pls what is the of the movie
The idea of you
Boring movie... Reas the book.. Its better... More boss bitch vibes... And the sex scenes are good in it.... In this its just boooorrrringgg
There are a lot of kisses in this movie?
Yes and more