You were self-conscious about postpartum?
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- čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
- Feeling self-conscious post-baby? You’re not alone. 🤱💕 Our bodies do incredible things, and it’s natural to have those postpartum doubts. But remember, you’re as amazing as ever-even if it takes time to see it yourself.
This was a more wholesome response than Matt and Abbys conversation.
I was thinking the same thing 😂 they need to take a page for this playbook! This was just a sweet and encouraging conversation!
Literally exactly what I was thinking
In all fairness, the other couple are still growing up. When I see them, I think of late high school early college kids. These are 2 grown people talking.
@@tweetybird1480 Right? Matt and Abbey are still babies themselves! I think they are still in their early or mid twenties.
@@tweetybird1480 you are absolutely correct.
He UNDERSTOOD the assignment ❤
So obvious why they seem to have such a healthy relationship. This is true love, loving accepting and supporting each other through all phases of life.
Stark contrast to Matt and Abby’s podcast on the subject, love this for you all. Makes me more hopeful too.
I think a lot of it has to do with maturity. In all fairness, the other couple are in many ways, still kids themselves. These here are two grown adults.
@@tweetybird1480 with the same platform.
The same voice. It matters what is said.
@@tweetybird1480then maybe they should have waited a bit to get married so they could have matured some. Seems like they got married so they could have s*x. Which is the reason I think quite a few young, religious, people get married right after hs.
What a beautiful thing for a husband to say to his wife‼️ You two have the sweetest family❣️🎁
His response makes me want to cry. Good job 👍🏻
he's so wonderful to her ❤️ makes my heart happy
Matt and Abby could never adult this hard
Give them time. 😊
Technically Matt and Abby are actually pretty young still. They'll get there
Aww Andrew's response made me cry that's so sweet
Yeah, creating a new human is messy... and an absolute freaking miracle!!! You are amazing! Sounds like your husband truly gets it and sees how special, brave, and beautiful his wife is. You are both 10/10.
What a beautiful thing to say! I wish we could all see our bodies as amazing
This shows a mature healthy marriage. Andrew’s answer reminded me of how my husband speaks about me. Such grace. Andrew loves his wife, and will be a lovely example for his daughter.
It’s a stark comparison with Matt and Abby when they had a similar conversation. Matt really doesn’t seem to have respect for women in general, but especially his wife.
I know it's hard for us ladies to believe but I've come to realize that my husband truly truly means it when he says he loves my body. Yup, with the c section scar, the mommy pouch, I'm still leaking milk months later. They love us and love our bodies. We are precious to these men and really need to realize their attachment to us is deeper than what we look like. Took me a while to understand that.
Such a great topic to address, and with such love and honesty. She/me .. yup. 71 and still insecure in that moment 44 years ago. He/uhhh.. don’t know what he thought, but I know he didn’t wanna wait, so there’s that. He has passed. Child has passed. I’m still here. Appreciate one another as and when. 🤗
You are so pretty honestly
Aww he’s so sweet.
Aweeee. His response was perfect.
If a man does not love his wife before, during and after her pregnancy then he is shallow.
How sweet 🩵🤗 You Guys are great edit to say that’s the cutest sweater
This is so helpful! 37 weeks tomorrow🙌🏼
That was perfect - "all this mushiness..." is exactly how I felt postpartum.
Awe..your husband is fabulous ❤
How sweet, Andrew! And Shawn...you are beautiful!
Awww! We all need to hear what this man has said to his wife. ❤❤
My husband was with me every step of the way and he never once waivered in finding me attractive. A real man will love you and your body pre pregnancy and post pregnancy. This is also why it's crucial to find someone with substance and not just someone you think is "hot".
Beautiful answer
A lot of men think about this very few will admit it. It’s natural, most of the time it’s random curiosity. Like I wonder if it will be different. I’m here to say it’s ok to think that. Just don’t let your partner feel bad and remember that the body takes time to heal. Also if you smell a bad odor let your partner know. It saved my friend life after she gave birth and “healed”. I believe open communication with your partner is so beneficial.
So needed to hear that!! 💜
That's exactly what my hubby said! He sees the real you, and that's beautiful
I love you & Your husband! So real. ❤
Awww. When I asked my husband how my... situation...was down there after two kids he said my body was just as it should be. Lol I said, come on just tell me the truth! He said yes it was different than before, but every time we do it, it just reminds him of the beautiful family we made together. And that different doesn't mean it doesn't still feel good, because of course it does!
My husband knew to stay away from me until I was ready for ‘it’. I was pregnant back to back with the first 2 and then lost like 70lbs and thought I looked like a boy. No boobs, no butt. It was the opposite for me. I loved having hips and curves!! Everyone is different so just go at your own pace. ❤❤❤❤
I cant relate. Ive never felt self conscious around my husband through any transition in life in our 15 year marriage. Hes always made sure i knew he loved me and the way I looked.
Embrace the natural beauty of your womanhood.
Your husband has.
I've heard it a million times, "My husband won't make love to me after giving birth"
You are extremely fortunate your husband is as he is.
Shawn you are stunning.
Those were my husbands words. I’m very impressed with your body. You grew our human and turned around in 4 hours and walked to get your baby from nursery. He also says all the time “ im a good 180” im in no shape to talk about lbs 😂
😭 the response was perfect 👌🏻
I love this
God Bless🙏🏼🥰❤️
Best response!
I am on my third and have breastfed each one for about two years and i am feeling so self conscious about what they are going to look like when im done! But i always appreciate my body and what it has done! But still my chi chis have been through the ringer lol
I love them. ❤❤
Thats so sweet....im pregnant rn and i feel so weird sometimes. It makes me sad sometimes.
As much as i didn't like my body i was so much more terrified about the episiotomy stiches and potential pain. Wouldn't wish either of those on new parents though
My heart ❤️
My ex would tell me this bs. He would also go on Insta and FB and “heart” and “like” and message every young 20 something out there while I’m in the next room. Bahahaha.
I wish every man felt this way
Beautiful
Sweet man❤
It's never the same. Don't patronize us. We know. It can be great again! But it is not the same.
I want love like that! 😭❤️
Matt Howard would never 😂
Yeah I get what she’s sayin. I ask my husband if he still enjoys it after having our second kid 2 months ago…he says yeah but still makes me wonder if he’s just being nice 😂😂since he knows i had a baby not long ago lol
When they say "not all men" they mean this dude and this dude only
😂
It's funny ... You hear the two extremes from men ... 1) I hate it and want nothing to do with jer anymore because ahe doesn't look the same as before 2) I never thought about that.
I guess one is exploitation/ungratefulness and the other is genuine thoughtfulness/understanding.
I've never been self conscious postpartum, because I'm self conscious 100% of the prepartum too lol at least after giving birth I have a reason to look like a mess. What's my excuse all the rest of the time?
I don’t get why a women would be self conscience after a baby. You literally have that man a child!
Matt, from Matt & Abbey, is exacerbated by the exuberance of his own verbosity. He can't see beyond his own perfection. Abby, for example, is far more interesting than Matt will ever be.
As opposed to that response matt gave : i would say so yeah 😂😂 please pick your partners well.
Oh, so this is what it looks like when couples care for each other..
😭
🥹🥹🥹 Where can I get an Andrew? 🙃♥️
He is lying to himself and her lol
@@tv-21you say mean and untrue things because you are a miserable person and jealous of what Andrew and Shawn have.
Whyyy does everyone say *wild* now 🙄
🥹🙌🏻💜
Green flag!!
Of course. Everything is sagging😅
I have always gotten gay vibes from Andrew
Wow. Not at all…
Sounds miserable