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The Chateau Diaries: EPIPHANY AT THE CHATEAU!
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- čas přidán 11. 01. 2021
- At the chateau Dan starts to tackle the clearing of the woods after our epic storm, I continue to tackle the Marie Kondo-ing of my wardrobe, and we celebrate Epiphany with a traditional French cake...
The Chateau Diaries Episode 183 ✨🏰✨
Escape to the chateau with ’The Chateau Diaries’ 🏰
This channel follows the adventures of chatelaine Stephanie in her French 16th century home, the Chateau de Lalande, in the heart of rural France ❤️
We share our life in this ancient chateau in the heart of the French countryside, and show you the diy, renovations, crafts, cooking and gardening that are needed to bring a home like this to life!
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Dan is a genuine find like Selmar. Stephanie struck it lucky with two lovely gentlemen to help her and their attention to detail and hard work is evident. La Lande is lucky to have two such lovely kind men.
Beautiful to hear Philip playing the piano... a calming backdrop for Stephanie as dashes between piles of clothes! 🏰💗🦘
I know you wanted to follow Marie Kondo so remember that the things you keep are supposed to spark joy. When I went through my wardrobe I ended up getting rid of the dresses I wore to several funerals in my close family. Up until that point they had felt important to keep, but they didn't spark any joy. Getting rid of them also made me realise that hanging on to them only reminded me of the funerals, but what I really wanted to remember were the lives of the people that I had lost. Obviously it's a decision you have to make when you're ready for it, and maybe that dress needs to live in a box for a few more years, but if you're ready for it I would sit down and hold it for a while and really examine if it brings you any joy and if it doesn't maybe it's time to let it go ❤
Great to see Dan back in the garden 💖
Dan has his own CZcams Channel called Escape to Rural France!
Well one as the chickens need him! Lol. Good one Nati!
Dan has a cooking show now. It's really good. He was truly made to be on CZcams and beyond.
Oh do I ever know what that clothes sorting anxiety is like... it’s the decisions that make it so hard. I do the same thing with the categories for donation, etc..., the only way to get through it.. such a beautiful room, I really enjoy your videos, Stephanie, has got me shopping for a chateau.
Phillip’s piano playing was beautiful. Inspired me to continue learning new pieces.
that little black dress is definitely a Breakfast at Tiffanys dress
I love that black dress.
Stephanie should look into purchasing some large clear plastic bins with snap-shut lids to pack and store her Christmas decorations, Nativity Scenes, and lights. They stack and transport easily.
Thats how I store mine...they stay clean, organized and no damage. Great suggestion. They are relatively inexpensive compared to having to replace some if my more expensive seasonal items.
Oh I use those too. Its easy to see what is in which large container since they're clear and you truly thank your past self for being organised when you go to decorate each season. 🐰🦃🎅🇲🇫🌟
some come with dividers and support between layers.
Im 4 minutes in and already feel like everything is going to end up in the costume cabinet :-)
Someone in the comments had a brilliant idea of turning one of the smaller rooms (not already in use) and turn it into a closet. I’m permanently calling it Le Boutique Costume de La Lande!
Wonderful piano playing, Phillip.
Great to see Dan back in the garden.
Love the 3 Ian’s new names. Vivian, LilIan, JulIan which is which?
This!! from commentor Anna Timm: "Things that spark guilt/shame, sadness, grief, wistfulness, ambivalence, frustration: hug and thank them for serving your life and let them move onto their next life, or to be recycled if condition is too bad."
Stephanie, I'm only 6 minutes into this vlog, but I had to stop and comment. Your memories of your father's funeral will always be with you. You don't need to hold onto the dress to hold onto memories of him. You are not negating the memory of your father if you get rid of the dress.
I've done some massive clean outs in my day. My father died far too young and I held onto many of his items as talismans. One of the most difficult things I finally let go of was my father's high school yearbooks. I held onto them for ages before realizing they had meaning for HIM, but they didn't for me. I recycled them and have never looked back.
Stephanie, you have a huge house you want to clear out, to make space for new pieces and new memories. Thank the item for the meaning and purpose it had in your life. Now it's time to let it go to provide meaning and purpose in someone else's life.
But if it means a lot, it’s ok to keep it for sentimental reasons 😊
@Michelle Morrison, That’s how I feel too. The dress is negative memories. Better to donate it and maybe it’s new owner will make happy memories with it. Better to remember your Dad with his artwork.
Thst was nicely suggested, empathetic and kind. I'm going to clean out my closet this week ONLY because of your comment.
Beautifully said. ❤
@@kit2130 Stephanies problem is that she is reliving her fathers funeral because she hid the dress away. It is only a dress but is now carrying powerful and painful memories which Stephanie is now experiencing all over again. Thats why it was put into the ' deal with later' pile. Its not the dress she ll deal with but her memories. 🥺
Having sooooo many rooms in your chateau, why not instead of small closets, take one small room, organized by seasonal, costume, and cocktail (evening ware) hats, less used scarves purses, less often used shoes. Then, you can have the smaller closets used for your towels, sheets, pillows and extra blankets, and back-up tolietry. Then in your new clothes room, hang full-length mirrors, good lighting, maybe even a chandelier, and spruce it up with chairs, ottomans, and whatever else tickles your fancy??? All of your everyday use of clothing can be kept in your bedroom wardrobe.
This is a great idea! A whole costume room to play dress-up and prepare make-up and hair for parties.
Yes that is what I would do 👍
Dear Stephanie, please adopt me! I'm deeply overjoyed and lucky to have found you and the amazing team behind all this magnificent French chateau wonderland! I feel extremely greatful I still get to see you in the vlogs though I am being locked up in the house. I wish you all a very wonderful year with joy, laughter and productivity! Kisses from a keen fan of the chateau diaries xxx
Re: catching peacocks, let them get go into Marie’s flower workshop, lock them in & load them up! Lol 😂
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It's not going to be very easy - They fly, and will make an absolute mess of everything! I can tell you from trying to catch chickens that there will be feathers, poop, and broken things everywhere if you catch them in there. I recommend a big net.
You need are large net and try doing one at a time.
@@eledatowle7128Well if I was Marie, I wouldn't be too happy with that. But maybe you can catch one at a time.
I'm very glad to hear that the trees near the chapel will come down. I couldn't agree more that its not worth the risk and you have plenty of great forest right nearby. You could use the space opened up for a meditation garden or other quiet space by the chapel.
I’ve really missed The Chateau Diaries. Welcome to another wonderful year ahead everyone. Much love 💕
I vote for Philip playing piano in the background at all times.
Me, too🤗
Dan the Man, what a wonderful addition to the Lalande family. And thanks for all the vlogs, don't quite know how you do it, but a genuine llife saver~ Thanks all.
You can get an attachment for a chain saw that allows you to mill wood & make planks, it might be worth doing when the redwood comes down, for open shelving etc?
Selma already has the right equipment for wood working. WCL
The peacocks always like to go into the florist studio, maybe someone can lure them in there and shut the doors.
This is the 2021 real life reincarnation of the TV show Friends! I have so enjoyed hanging out with you while socially isolating in my home since March 12. That is 10 whole months today!
I can't even remember what I wore to my mummy's funeral, and it was just over 2 years ago. I still remember her face though. And her laugh. And when she was angry with me and used my whole name. And when she hugged me. And when I was angry with her and called her "Mother".
Your memories are always in your heart. I understand though. I really do. Do what you need. It's a dress. Lots of hugs. ❤😢
It must be tough. I lost my father but my mom is 87 and still lives alone, drives to church etc but I know it can change in a heartbeat. Even when she's repeating stories of events or being surly? I try and be grateful she is still with me. I honestly don't know how I'll go on when she passes on.
You know I cannot remember my outfit either. My Mom's was such a devasting loss for me, as I miss her so much and it was way to soon after I had such an already enormous cross to bear. Hug your Mom's all, just never know how hard it can be, after they leave us.
@@annaibarra3447 gosh when my mum died I was completely in a fog for months! I somehow managed to get to a job interview the following week and I barely remembered it when they called me a week after that to tell me they wanted me to start asap!
Hugs to you Anna.
"I get to wear the crown!"
"Like that's different from any other day.."
😂😂
I absolutely love Marie’s instagram and she is also very interactive with everyone which I think is really nice! It was fun watching you all around the table cutting the cake and laughing so much. It’s so nice to see genuine laughter and friends 💛
To catch the peacocks, Marie just needs to let them in the flower shop. Once they are trapped it should be easier.
good idea laura.. Food would work too if led into an area that would be closed in quickly. The only thing is to only get the three you want to take! They seem to stay close together.
Is Maries studio hose- able?🦚 Because Im seeing the poop flying with this von trapped family🤪😂🤣
Clue ... salmon net
No drab colourless clothes in any of the clothes piles. How refreshing is that! No greys, taupes or durge colours. Perfect!
I am so looking forward to this. It never never disappoints and is always full of joy and inspiration xxx
I buy nearly all my clothes at charity shops too Stephanie I love that there are all styles of clothes not just what's in season.
Yes anx 8f you wear it and itz too tight, big, itchy, uncomfortable etc just donate it back or offer to a friend. Not much money lost. Our one great charity shop gives most of their money to a home that took care of my aunt with dementia so I feel great spending money there of donating to them.
You need a chateau, Stephanie, to store all your clothes in! LOL! Thank you for the video!
I think Stephanie and Phillip need to reread at least part of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up! Seeing the trouble on her face when she’s unsure of a garment made me sad! the idea is to assess what feeling each item sparks inside you and hone your ability to recognize the feeling of joy. Things that spark guilt/shame, sadness, grief, wistfulness, ambivalence, frustration: hug and thank them for serving your life and let them move onto their next life, or to be recycled if condition is too bad.
If anyone wants to attempt a clear out, I HIGHLY suggest reading the book. I was someone who wanted to keep everything, and my ADHD makes buckling down to clean out really difficult to focus (it used to be everything I picked up used to distract me). The philosophy of why the method in the books works really resonated and changed my approach! It’s been nothing but a benefit!
Like that Anna. TY.. Think this would be most helpful. That really is a very nice idea.
Thanks, it's worth a try.
Yes, I loved that book! I listened to the audiobook rather than reading it. It has helped me approach clearing out so much clutter in my life too, it's a great method. Being able to say thank you to a thing, and to wish it well on its journey, truly helps to let it go. I also say hello and thank you to my home when I arrive home now too! People who haven't read the book probably think I sound mad, haha!
Love Dan being back.
Philip looked like the Duke to the castle, when he came in with his winter coat and scarf and gloves. He just truly fit that part so well.
Yes Philip can surely look the part. But had no idea of Phillip’s other talent! 🎼🎹!!!
@@annaibarra3447 Oh I know he is an excellent piano player! I heard him not long ago when they were in the chapel and he played the piano as the others sang! he is quite artistic is seems in other ways as he helps Stephanie with making various things. Great at shopping too. Many of them are talented it seems, in so many different ways. Makes it work out nicely I think?
It's great when LaLanders return as Mandy is coming back! All the personalities at the chateau add so much character and depth to the vlog.
This is without a doubt the best show ever. I’m addicted that’s for sure. Thank you all at La Lande 😘❤️😘❤️😘❤️
Good to see Dan back! LOVE your piano playing, Philip!!
Thank you for your inspiration and company, it cheers up my ❤️
if they have to take down the red wood do not waste it in fire wood that stuffis beautiful wood and its really expensive to buy , selmar will find use for it
Yes is there a sawmill close by?
@@errollucyk5404 They sprout from the stump -- here in California, you can see rings of trees 3 feet or more in diameter surrounding an old stump measuring 6 feet across!
That redwood can be "eternal"....or the next thing to it.
@@raynonabohrer5624 Michael Petherick used one for the beam and wood paneling in his cottage.
Waiting with baited breath
Love love love these vogs.
Missing Mummy/Issabel my peer.
Hope u and Percy are healthy in S.A.
Philip playing Canon is my life
I love that piece...and so well played
Philip, you play the piano beautifully! I could listen to you play all day.
Lovely music Phillip! You are so talented!
Maybe get Selmar to put up "two panel doors" there where the "ivory curtains are hanging" - it looks like a "draft" is blowing the bottom of the curtain into the room or closet or whatever is behind it...it would look sooooo much nicer and more finished in that room if there were two doors
that match the other door along that wall...sorry, but just a suggestion...to go "on top" of millions of suggestions from subscribers..Love you and your "gang" there ! Look forward to every one of them...wish I was able to be a Patreon...:-(
I was thinking the same😁
I just watched Stephanie's interview with Curtis Ryan Woodside and he mentioned that he noted the curtain in this room appeared a bit 'ghostly'. I wonder if that is why?
Beautiful piano music from Phillip💕
yes i hope we can hear more please!
I don’t envy Stephanie and the clothes sorting project... I am exhausted just looking at the piles everywhere! It will be a good job done in the end though.
As long as people dont keep telling her what to do with them all.🤪 🤣🤣
If you give away your clothes to the lokal charity shop, do you worry that you'll accidentally buy it without realising, it's your own cloth?
🤣😂🤣😂
This can really happen.... dont ask me how I know🤣😉
@@ta3970 Lol 😂. Somebody has been an extra great costumer to their local charity shop!😁
🤣🤣🤣 I think a small road trip to another thrift store is in order!
Actually that would make a fun video too!
I love your company, it feels so cosy!!!! Thank you for creating this amazing show! 🌸⭐️❤️
Clothing is an emotional experience.
I always feel like I'm hanging out with great friends and family when I watch. Thank you as always for sharing such happiness and love through every video! It makes a big difference in the world. You are all such inspirations in so many ways and the joie de vivre is truly a big help for many (I'm sure more than me feel this way) who suffer from depressive disorders and chronic fatigue etc. Like you talked about in mommy's interview - beauty is so important to the spirit. Thank you for making it more accessible to me, as a chronically ill person. I love you all and hope to someday be able to visit. Bisous!
totally agree with you, thanks for pointing it out in such sweet words
Awww,Stephanie was like a little girl finding he cake macaroon!I love the Lalanders so sweet and pure in the spirit of Love and community!
Loved hearing Phillip playing the piano ❣Always enjoy and look forward to your videos 😊 stay safe...
Saw Dan in the thumbnail and got really happy
You will feel amazing once all the sorting is done :). I notice a lot of your hangers are different colours, type, material etc. When I redid my wardrobe I made ALL the hangers all the same size and colour (and definitely no plastic), I think it makes a HUGE difference when you open the doors and see things all the same, definitely adds to the resting of the eye :). Life is too short for everyday things not to be as pretty as we can make it :)
I agree anx wish I could do that but there are many different types of hangers needed; I use the soft padded ones gor sweaters and certain materials then the metal skirt hangers so I can hang 3-4 skirtz on 1 to save space...Which type of hangers are you using that one hanger for all? I bet it is pleasing to look at
Perhaps the prize in the cake is either a Magi's gift or a Magi's crown.
Stephanie I loooove that you have a Playmobil Victorian dollhouse in your room
Every woman should have a dollhouse. I'm so upset that I didn't keep my tin dollhouse from childhood days but I did keep my daughters. Every child including my granddaughter just love playing with it and its now vintage.
Fun and charming as ever. Thank heaven for Stephanie, Nati, Marie, Selmar, Phillip, and Dan!!!
Selmar needs the wood from redwood tree when you cut it down. It is a very expensive wood. He can use it to make furniture or anything his heart desires. He would love the wood and I would like to see something made from it.
Open shelving or..well..so MANY things!!
Could it be milled in long planks and used to build shelving in the china room? I know redwood is hardy for outdoor uses, but have no idea how it works for indoor shelving, especially with delicate things placed on it. Some wood ooze stuff.
I always feel so much better after seeing your videos- it’s like visiting with old friends!😁
Love the piano playing!
Yes, beautiful music.
Pachelbels canon, a fabulous piece, can Philip play a little more piano please ? I regret ever throwing my old clothes out.
I have just noticed the framed cupid I sent you ages ago before I realised that you opened them on camera! xo
Ty Stephanie and the Lalande community to give me the best afternoon...I have made such wonderful friends that I care so much about and vice a versa...I a in the middle of moving cross country and had to do a clear out of all my stuff so I can relate to you Stephanie..Such seperation anxiety ...lol......see you all very soon..I am aways here if anyone needs a friend..
Good luck. Sounds scary but exciting. Hope its a smooth move as things can get hectic and stressful when moving.
@@chasethecat3839 ty your thoughtfulness means alot...im so excited for the move
Stef when the redwood is cut Dow get Selmar to save the wood is excellent for woodworking..
I would hire specialists to care for the redwood when the time comes. Red woods have very heavy wood and could delivery a surprise by dropping limbs...I live in Ca. and have followed hikers who were caught off guard and lost a dear friend....they caution to be aware of "widow makers".
They have never wasted a tree on that property yet. Checkout the video on Selmar and Isabel buying the equipment he needed for his woodworking workshop.
@@ShipCreek ...never said thay did waste wood ..only said its a nice wood to work with ..and i did watch that video...i also watched the one were Billy came and traded for some of the wood that Isable had saved and cut into planks ...
Old clothing, some has style .
Marie still has the best smile.
Selmar the Peacock whisperer!
Hopefully Dan can save some shoots from the Redwood
My dear lady do you realize how fortunate you are. The only evening gown I ever had was my wedding gown.God bless you all. And whatever you would you burn in the fire places make sure they do not clogged your fireplaces up.
She is sorting like me. I ended up building a huge walk in closet and closets the full length of my longest interior bedroom wall. I was usually happy I kept my better quality pieces because they were great quality and always came back in style and I stayed a 4 or 6 for 30 years. Most newer clothing items aren’t made with great materials. It did help to donate casual items like jeans or shirts that I knew I would never use and suits I wore professionally that my daughter didn’t want. Donated them to a program that trained women to go back to work. Stephanie should get the space saver hangars that Joy Mangano once sold. They were great quality.
Stephanie I wish I was there wish you sorting and purging! I went through the Marie Kondo process for minimizing my possessions about 2 years ago and it literally changed my life. I think you will get so much out of this and don’t lose heart, it’s worth it!
what a beautiful happy vlog...really enjoyed it. Big undertaking going though all those clothes. Have a fantastic weekend.
Oo Dan is back !!! Love it❤️
Geezzzzz eight hours to wait... That's just teasing!
Selmar’s explanation on being in line and hopping nobody ahead of him, would want the cake .....was funny.
It's a turban! A king's crown for Epiphany, the coming of the Magi~
That's exactly what I thought. It's a king's crown.
@@300books well technically it would bean imperial crown, it has more arches...
I think Dan will help move the tiles from the dairy/China room to the renovation of the loo floor!
Oh dear Nati and Philip, the directions dilemma: when is right right and left left :) Maybe it’s good to take the compass rose/wind rose directions, north, east, south, west. Because those directions are constant.
use red and green like on a boat perhaps?
Luv that fox on Philip
Such lovely people. Virtual hugs to you all 🌼💗🌼
What a lot of clothes to sort out ,I found it very hard when I tried to do it .x
I find it awful lol. There wasa great suggestion made above based on a book of cleaning out and I'm going to try the method this weekend.
Love to see Dan.
Love to hear Philip play.
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Ahhh I really needed a la lande instalment today! 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you Stephanie for this wonderful video.
It is a crown! In the King’s Cake. Loved the vlog today as always.
The redwood would be lovely cut into planks for Selmar to give it a new life.
i love this channel. Stephanie you are such a delightful human. I can see all the effort you put in considering all those around you, even if you may not share the same views or interests'. I hope all at the chateau know how lucky they are to know you
Have you guys thought of some day building Selmar a little cottage on the property? He can't live in his caravan forever.
Long live our special Queen of Lalande! Félicitations à Stéphanie et à Marie!Bisous from Alsace 😘😘😘
I find all those piles overwhelming! Going through them is an excellent idea. Having all those trees removed so they don't hit the chapel is an excellent idea!
Missing seeing Isabelle!
What kind of jobs allow your guest to stay so long? It's wonderful of course,.
I like to see Stephanie going through her mounds of clothes! I do the same thing every new year. It feels so good to get rid of things that don’t fit well or just don’t like anymore. I love the traditional Epiphany cake. Looks so good! Marie seems like the best cook. She makes everything from scratch! Most of us in the US take shortcuts or used pre made items to complete the meal. Impressive! Miss Kat!🇺🇸
Hi to everyone allways a smile when watching these blogs
Capturing the Ians....they love Marie's florist. She just needs to stop shoeing them out lol
That tart looks delish and in serious need of homemade custard :) .... It reminds me of Apple Charlotte that used to be easily found at local bakeries when I was a child .
Such another great moment with all of you. Stephanie you did a great job working on that wardrobe of yours and sorting every thing into piles. It was nice to see Dan returning at Lalande for some reason, seeing Dan working around outside it makes it "alive " outside - more fun ! The dinner was looking really good and now it is time to congratulate Stephanie and Marie you both had a nice reason share the corwn LOL. Until later.... Gardez le sourire !
Philip's ensemble is so adorable, even though his life is being complicated...
Your Emmaus is so fantastic versus the one I have nearby. Worth a drive.
If I was faced with that massive room of clothes, I think I would grab a bottle of wine or three and go watch Marie Kondo videos for a few days - just so I "know how" to do it right ;)
just spotted your play-mobile house in the background at 14:42! I have the same one, it was my mother’s in the 80s / early 90s and now 8 have it 😊💛
Oh Stéphanie que je vous comprends ! I've got to sort through cases & cases of clothes as we have moved & I no longer have un dressing room all to myself. I don't even have the excuse of keeping things for the dressing up cupboard ! Your videos are such a delight & always leave me wanting more ! Bisous des Pyrénées Orientales dans les montagne du Haut-Conflent xxx
OMG Stephanie.......you still have clothes from when you were at Oxford? lol Purge if you don't wear it for over a year. lol I think you should have Nic round up and capture the 3 Peacocks for you. Speaking of which......just got the "Sheep Book" from AU in the mail today. :-) Sooo sweet Stephanie's parents always let her win the "cake charm" when she was little. lol LOVE Phillips animal broch.
Why should she?Im with Stephanie on this.I just wish I was still as slim as her still.Those clothes have obviously given Stephanie and her friends many hours of great joy.If you have the space why shouldn’t you keep things for as long as you want to?Some people’s memories are triggered by physical items,the smell and feel of things as much as the look.Different people collect or are interested in different things and history.
I’ve got vintage items that I bought when I was at Uni too,some from the 80s and some as far back as the 1930s ,I just wish I could fit in them🤣I will have to sell/give some of them away soon as I will be downsizing from a 3 bedroom to 1 bedroom place and it hurts.If I had a Chateau,I’d devote a room to them all in those lovely armoires and glass cabinets and I’d keep my books on the history of fashion in a bookcase.
Stephanie, the fun of sorting and giving away clothes is the joy of buying more later! Happy sorting! Mary
Waiting to see Chickenpolis.😀
Ahh, so sweet! Loved it! Thank you so much! ❤️