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I saw it😈😈😂😂
girl put it back!!
I don’t envy your job one bit. It’s like people are just looking for things to say “gotcha!” to. You do so much already and your content really makes a difference, so thank you.
The “gotcha” attitude really bugs me! One place I constantly run into it is when people talk about wind generation for electricity. People love to show up and talk about bird deaths with that “gotcha” attitude.
But they’re making this comparison in a vacuum and totally disregard the fact that coal/natural gas power plants actually kill more birds per KWh generated! And they ignore the fact that the leading cause of bird deaths is actually outdoor cats.
So keeping our cats as indoor only and supporting Trap, neuter, release (TNR) programs in your local area will have a MUCH more profound effect on bird lives…
It’s as if we feel like we get higher on the “good people” list if we nitpick someone else…like, “ha! I’m better at this than you because I noticed xyz.”
Tiiiiiiired
With the exception of maybe being playful with friends/family I really hate gotcha when it comes to discussions. Like it's not cool or faithfully arguing if you purposely take people out of context or ignore all nuance and makes everyone more divisive and miserable.
Well shit. I finished gardening and decided to sit by my fan with a glass of ice water and enjoy your content on my refurbished iPhone 6 (that I charged with solar!). Didn’t realize I’ve committed a multitude of sins. Some people. 🤦♀️
You’re an amazing person and activist Shelbi!
And I bet you sat on a chair of some sort which took energy to make in or around your home which has water and electricity installed. What a sinner! 😋😻
How dare you not sit flat on the ground!
But also if you did sit on the ground... How dare you crush so many plants and I sects - don't you know we need to save the pollinators?!
You're doing great 💕
It's really sad that people are so nit picky when they probably don't even do a QUARTER of the sustainable things you do...
I'm so glad you're getting help, the internet is a cruel place a lot of the time. Your true supporters will always be grateful for everything you do. Wishing you all the strength, peace and patience!
I feel like that's the exact reason why they're nit picky... To put the blame on others and to not accept any blame themselves
Definitely and they blame the individual instead of corporations and governments that make sustainable living impossible. We didn’t opt-into this system. 🙄
I second that!
Yesssss you know someone is writing those comments while like making coffee with a k cup or throwing dryer sheets in their dryer lmao
I have never commented on any of your videos or really looked at any of the comments, but I've watched your videos religiously for the last 2 years. It seems like the nit-picky peoples voices are louder, and I just want to let you know how much I love your content. There are probably many like me who don't comment enough to let you know we hear your message, appreciate how real you are and tell you what a great example you are of your moto (both of them now). Thank you!
Yes! The extremes tend to be the loudest. That’s why I’ve started going into the comment sections to balance it out but comment sections can be so toxic 🫣
@@miss_xenia_ Yes, this. Even just adding a little comment that the video was enjoyable balances it out. I work on CZcams (for a different creator, I'm not a creator myself) and the nice comments are noticed, trust me. The mean ones are just louder sometimes.
hah! ^this. I just commented basically the same thing. so, can confirm... there are more people like you out there.
Ditto!
I will comment here just to say that absolutely I'm totally a lurker but you have helped me make so many personal changes in my day-to-day that are better for the planet and I'm so grateful for you!
I will never understand the whole "why is your fan on if it's not hot outside"
1) unless you are literally her neighbor you have no idea how hot it was when she was filming
2) a couple of kilowatts is not worth Shelby, Madison, and Tippy all getting heatstroke
Also, I don't really get the ice thing either. Literally your freezer is always on, whether there is an ice pack in there or not doesn't matter... She lives in Texas iirc, I would argue that ice is a necessity there. The people commenting on that should maybe ask why has it gotten so hot in Texas recently? Perhaps a little thing called climate change??
Uhh, ceiling fans actually save energy! They provide extra cooling so you don't have to run your AC as cold 🤦🏻♀️
honestly girl, you and Madison are doing great. I know the negative comments can be discouraging, but please don't let them get to you! Your work is way too important and I have learned so much from you 🖤
Girl I love you because you're normal and it's relatable
So many content creators deal with sustainability, environment and conscious living, yet this is the only channel that I follow religiously because you tell things as they are.
I'm tired of the picture perfect lifestyle, of women who look and talk exactly like one another telling me to dump my stuff and replace it with bamboo products. I stopped following everyone who tried to showcase their yearly trash contained in a jar, because it was giving me anxiety and making me wonder why I can't reach such ridiculous goals. We are all doing the best we can with the cards we have been dealt.
Sending you love from Europe! 🥰
Yeah. I know reduce waste but that's unrealistic that people can fit a year's trash in a jar. I don't believe them.
I love that you show the imperfections, struggles, and process of how you decide which choices to make. The “perfect” standard is obviously impossible and makes me feel so discouraged. And the deeper videos you make are so important and needed. Sorry the internet people have been so horrible.
Some people need to go outside. Honestly, I get so much inspiration from your videos and they keep me motivated to continue towards goals of being more environmentally conscious. Your the goal I'm working toward and I learn from you with every video. So keep doing what you're doing. The naysayers always seem to have the loudest voices. You're doing great.
I Love to see the “unsustainable” things you do because I need to see that as a person trying my best. If you only show perfect things it makes me feel like garbage since I could never be perfect. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU DO 💚💚💚
well said!
People love to knit pick and it does make creators interact less in the comments which is unfortunate and not fair for those that are supporters. Love your content!
I've seen some creators only interact with patrons who get advanced access to the videos and, like, fuck i get it
Thanks for being so honest about what you’re going through. Don’t forget to check how liked the comments are when they’re getting you down.
Im willing to bet most comments that are thankful for what you do end up with tons of likes (to the point that they’re 90% or more of your engagement) while the negative ones end up with almost none.
On a personal level, you’re one of the few zero waste channels I can religiously watch BECAUSE you’re not artificial and full of crap like all the other ones.
Yes, all of this!!
You do you. You know not to pay attention to the nit picky. That alone is important. Folks in life that have caused me the most grief had issues worse than any they could try to create for me.
We all do not have to agree on everything. R E S P E C T. You have mine.
@@charcoalmef I run into similar comments from time to time on my videos as well, but my channel’s not big enough to attract the real trolls like Shelbi’s.
So I’m actually kinda mentioning it as a way of reminding myself I guess haha! It’s hard sometimes honestly. Negative stuff sticks with us more than the positive for whatever reason!
Her and SedonaChristina are the only 2 sustainability YT I watch because they're the only ones I find are actually realistic !
I get sick and stressed seeing people’s ridiculous comments on my favorite CZcamsrs feeds. I can’t imagine how it weighs on you. From the bottom of my heart, I love your personality, and thank you for the great content!
Honestly annoyed you had to make this video, how can anyone expect you to be perfect. We're all the doing the best we can and you've always be soo open from the beginning. Keep doing you, I find your videos super helpful and full of knowledge so I love coming back to your channel.
This is really helpful. I tend to feel a lot of guilt for not being perfect. Perfectionism has always been a problem for me.
I so get that. I feel guilty for buying convenience foods sometimes, so I skip on them all together and think I’ll make them myself but then I just end up not eating because I didn’t have time to make yogurt or bread or whatever I usually have for lunch/breakfast. I have to know my limits because I can’t always do it all.
@@Plantsandmusicandyarn Wow that sounds like a struggle. I can understand how that would happen. Remeber you can't fight for the causes you care out with out nuturing your own body first🧡
Yes! This kind of toxic behaviors need to stop, well said.
Can I just apologize, on behalf of all the assholes...I'm so sorry that you feel discouraged from being your authentic natural self at all times. Your content is needed and appreciated. Every bit of it. "If you don't have something nice to say..." If it's not constructive, just shut up? Shelby clearly shines in this movement towards helping our Earth and encouraging others to do the same. If you don't like it, leave her alone and actually leave. End of story. Love you girl, and that wifey too! Been watching more of your vlog channel and seeing you 2 together more, and sweet Tippy! Makes me so happy. Thank you for everything over the years. 💚
We love you Shelby!!
Thank you for highlighting that everyone's best looks different and the most impactful changes are structural ones. Perfection isn't realistic for anyone. Your videos have helped me to make changes and to increase my awareness, thank you! 💕
My friends and family constantly tell me I should be a content creator but I absolutely would not want to deal with the ignorance of society.
I think people who are making negative comments on your videos are projecting their own insecurities onto you because it's easier than facing reality. I think it's great that you've made this video to confront those people on this, but I really hope you will not take it to heart and let others make you feel inadequate in anyway. There are so many of us who admire how you live your life, don't forget! I really appreciate you and want to thank you for educating me on so many things. I've made some serious changes in my life with your help and am excited to do what I can to live more sustainably. Keep doing you Shelbi, cuz you're doing what you can for this planet and making others want to too!
Couldn't have said it any better! There must always be darkness to make us see and appreciate the light.
Great video! Wish people would realize it’s about progress, not perfection. I agree with Ava, that often I feel guilt if I’m not doing things perfectly. And it’s killer, man. We are just trying to do better. We aren’t saints, and even they weren’t perfect. Thanks for all you do and sorry for the shit you get. You inspire so many of us!
I love the nuance you bring into this space and I appreciate your openness about all of this. I'm sorry so many people are inconsiderate and pass so much judgement on to you. I wish it was as simple as ignoring the negative comments; but I know that that's not how brains work. I hope therapy helps you and that you start making improvement.
I think we all need this reminder on a regular basis. Being a woman i feel this pressure to hold all the roles; mom, wife, professional working woman, daughter, sister equality and perfectly. You are good enough and life isn't perfect and you cant be everything to everyone. You should start or end all your videos with that quote. Little changes can have huge impact in all areas of your life. Kudos for you for being real
Blows my mind that people even have the audacity to say some of those things much less to someone they don't know and who is just trying to help us all be a bit better in out world. Noone is perfect nor does anyone do all of the things all of the time, we're all just trying our best. Glad you got this of your chest!! Thanks for all you have taught me over the years, it's truly appreciated. ✌️
I started watching you about 3 months ago; the thing you said about “you can’t do all the good in the world, but the world can use all the good you can do” was what stuck with me and keeps me coming back for more! Shelby you are doing amazing work! 🤗
People are trash, but your channel is awesome and so helpful. I appreciate every video you make!
The new quote and the graphic that goes with it are fantastic!
Please.continue.being.REAL!!! It is the only reason why I watch your channel so much. It’s reality, it’s honest, and unpretentious. I don’t watch other “perfect” channels because I can’t connect with them, unlike you and your channel that is so encouraging to just start doing something, and be serious about it, but being kind to yourself at the same time.
Also, I grew up in the Pacific Northwest and never understood the need for air conditioning until I moved to Texas. Anyone who has never lived here cannot understand. Ceiling fans for air circulation are also a must.
I also get really pissed off at pretentious environmentalists from NYC or or the East Coast in general who have no concept of how car-dependent Texas and other spread-out areas are. When I get told that I should just start riding a bike more I just laugh and enjoy the mental image of slapping their stupid faces. Sorry that was harsh lol
The more I watch your channel the more I respect the hard work that goes into it. There is a level of research and realism that is not common to see. Plus, may I just say, I SO appreciate the balance of your perspective. You do a great job of inspiring me to take individual action, as well as acknowledging the systemic changes that need to happen. Plus giving specific examples of how I can use my influence to push for that change-- it gives me so much hope!
I don't know if I'll be able to word this correctly, but I can't help but feel like the people who are too nit-picky are deriving satisfaction from making sustainable living seem impossible. Maybe they just like being jerks, or maybe they're trying to give themselves excuses. It's so funny (in a sad way) that they would criticize you for not being "perfect" when that's literally the opposite of what your channel is about.
Perfection is a lie. Full stop. I genuinely appreciate this channel and it has given me information to make positive changes in my life. Shelby, You are making a huge positive impact. I know your job is hard. Please don't give up on sharing and teaching.
I love watching your video's, you have taught me a lot and really opened my eyes to how wasteful I was. I just sit here and enjoy them, I could never find something to nit pick and criticize you on. It seems that alot of people don't know how to enjoy anything anymore and have to critique everything.
Being perfect at zero waste in the society we currently live in is so difficult. I'd really like to see the people criticizng showing everyone everything they use in their life and see if it's perfect 🙃
Tbh seeing your videos is the sole reason I started to change how much I consume and throw away, swapped to a lot of zero waste stuff etc. You've already made a giant impact on so many individuals and you should be proud of yourself!
OMG. I think you hit the nail on the head! People just want to find things to criticize. It seems to be ‘a thing’ nowadays. Not sure why but I totally appreciate all the things you show and new ideas. Thank you. Xo
I genuinely appreciate your channel you were one of the people that got me interested in living more sustainable and caring about the environment❤️
Thank you for this video! It's something people need to hear, although I'm sure the majority is mature enough to understand that no one is perfect (including them). I hope you won't stop posting because I genuinely consider you one of the best creators who talk about environmental issues. Specifically, because you are fair, and authentic and talk about issues others don't address. Your approach is (ironically) perfect because consider every side of an issue. So, thank you for your work.
I've heard it said once to the effect that if you claim to be an activist, you're never doing enough because you could always be doing more.
However, Shelbi you ARE DOING BEYOND ENOUGH. I became more conscious of my habits because of you and this channel. I now look at the world through a completely different lens and try to implicate as many eco-friendly actions as I can on a daily basis because of you and this channel. And I am humbled by the privilege of being able to live sustainably because of you and this channel!
You're doing your part, and I'm sorry that some people are trying to make you believe you aren't.
The fact that you have to justify any of these things is so ridiculous! People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. If they're not completely perfect they don't have a leg to stand on to say anything!
For what it's worth I love your slogan. It really helps any time something feels like only a small effort that won't help much to remind myself that any good I can put into the world is a positive. People love to criticise to make themselves feel justified in giving up and not trying at all. We can all only do the best we can with what we have and none of us can be perfect simply because the system doesn't allow us to but that doesn't mean we should just give up like many people sadly seem to think. Plus talking about our efforts helps everyone because we can all share ideas and it helps us all improve little by little.
Newby here. Thank you, you have inspired me exactly in the way I think you intended to do. I haven't shifted my life upside down but I am looking around at things that could be better. One here, another there. It's not huge by any means but you did change my outlook on things. I didn't know food going to landfill was so damaging. I didn't know aquatic life provides most of oxygen. Etc. etc. etc. Let me sneak in a little request for the off chance you do see this comment: I don't live in the US, where I live most waste is burned. Do you have any information or tips for how I can treat my garbage best? You talk a lot about landfills but that doesn't apply to my personal situation. Love for you to inform me. Thank you again so so much, your channel really helps.
I’m the same, a lot of things you can do involve reducing your waste (try doing a trash audit), upcycling as much as possible, composting (food waste takes a lot of energy to incinerate as it is so wet). Hope that helps, Good luck!
You make me feel better about what I *can* do for the planet without making me feel like complete trash for what I *can't* do. Your content is both relatable and inspirational, and I love it!
I'm so sorry to hear that people criticize you so much around some of these things. You're doing the best you can (which is A LOT!) and I SO appreciate watching your videos as it allows me to learn so much about making less wasteful choices!
I absolutely hate how people pointed out that you drive when one of the most criticized things towards the US government is their zoning laws (and how they were influenced by car companies) and that they aren't sustainable. In the Netherlands and maybe even Germany this would be a semi-valid criticism (although very classist), but not towards someone in the US? No. There are entire videos on "Climate Town" and "Not Just Bikes" about this. It's really not that hard y'all. It connects to environmental racism and classism as well. There is a reason Texas is having the social structure it does. I hope more people learn about the impact of zoning on climate and sustainability, because those laws were literally made based on what car companies wanted. Of course they make Americans car-dependent.
When people think they have to be “sustainable “ in a perfect way, it puts way to much pressure on them. They may think, “if I can’t go all the way, why bother”. I always love your tips for living sustainability and know that every little thing counts. Also, love your message, today! There is a culture now, where people look for ways to criticize everything. Ugh! Toxic! Thanks for doing what you do and keep it coming.
Oh, Shelbi... I'm so sad you have to endure all of this 💔 I think you're doing an amazing job. Like you said, we have to do what we can, so there's no point in judging people based on the standard of perfection instead of reality. Keep going girl, you're a beautiful soldier of the Earth and nobody's voice is more important than the voice of your soul, so if you're at peace with yourself and your life, the rest of the world can go to hell 😘😘💚💚
I'm amazed and inspired that you and your wife are able to live so sustainably and do all the things you do. It's wonderful to know that a life like yours is possible, even/especially because it's not perfect.
We love a creator with boundaries
You go girl! You gotta do what's best for you, and I'm SO thankful for your honesty and transparency. I feel like the last few weeks I've slipped a lot in my sustainable habits, and I'm wanting to get back into it. But having grace for myself in the times where I'm not "perfect" is so important, if I didn't I would get burned out SO easily.
Shelby, I cannot even begin to tell you how much you’ve helped me with my sustainable lifestyle. It really hurts my heart that you even had to make a video like this. People who criticize you honestly just don’t understand how difficult it is to have a sustainable lifestyle particularly in the US and that you sometimes have to choose your mental health or yourself over sustainability. Yes, you can always be more sustainable, but do these people not understand you’re a human & need to live your life? It blows my mind that they have the need to comment about having AC, they obviously have never been to Texas in the summer. (Fellow San Antonian myself) 😂 y’all wouldn’t even last a day. Please know you have a huge community that supports and appreciates you! This is also honestly my first comment on one of your videos even though I’ve seen so many, just know you have tons of silent appreciators!!!
People need to understand that living 100% sustainably in this society IS NOT POSSIBLE. We can only do our best with the tools we have, and the rest is up to corporations. As individuals we are simply subject to the means we have, everyone has different needs and abilities, it is simply not realistic to expect everyone to do everything all the time. I would argue that it is better that we do some of it some of the time than to give up because we don't feel like we can do it all. It is psychologically proven that you cannot SHAME people into being better, quite the opposite actually. People get stirred away from being more sustainable when we start gatekeeping. This is not meant to be a fashion but rather a paradigm change. So everyone chill out, be kind, do what you can, lead by example, and like Shelby says: Advocate for the rest.
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This! This is why I subscribe to you instead of other people. Your honesty and vulnerability that you share with us is a kindness that most people do not deserve. And yet you still do it. Bravo!
Hi Shelbi. I admire your perseverance in continuing to provide this content even though the nit-pickers have negatively impacted your mental health. You have greatly helped and inspired thousands of individuals to lighten their environmental footprint (you definitely have helped me greatly). You are amazing and beautiful and definitely DO NOT deserve anything but love and praise! Thank you for everything you do for us and for the earth!
Shelby- thank you for making this video. It's really unfair that people are this nitpicky with your content. When people are new to low waste/sustainability, you are usually the first person I send them to because of all the reasons you listed. You seem like a real human being! You drive a car! You eat what you want to eat! You live in a house! I have so many friends that see people like me (live in a big city with ample public transit, in a small space, etc) and think they can't make any changes because they can't make the changes I've made. And a lot of sustainability "influencers" live lifestyles even more outwardly perfect than mine. The content you make is honest and genuinely helpful and that's what I share it with so many of my friends.
Glad you're mentioning your imprefections.. have this idea in my head folk that care about this issue don't ever face 'hiccups' basically. My husband doesn't hold the same values as I and I'm not willing to ruin our relationship over my ideals. I have to accept my household will carry plastic bottled water because my husband loves the taste of it. I can make myself feel better by contacting the company he likes and suggesting they use not virgin plastic and have a non separate cap that can cause issues if disconnected to the bottle.
I love your perfectly imperfect ways.
Im shit at boundaries and do not envy your exposure to excessive commentary, i would simply crumble at a small hand full of them.
You had me at vote with your dollars but im happy to watch your journey.
Im so sorry for the struggle you are faced with but also grateful that you stay angry and keep fighting.
You are a super hero. Thank you for being you.
Thank you for this video❤️ I feel a lot of guilt around my life & I love that you give space to learn, grow, change & advocate for LARGE change. In my personal life I run into a lot of feedback that x,y,x isn’t worth the effort & I get it. & I totally see that valid point but it brings me down because it’s an action I can take big or small. That’s for showing that perfection isn’t the goal, large scale change is. Also your gorgeous so screw thee haters that say mean things about you. They are trolls & it must totally suck to live in their negative headspace.
Hi Shelby, I’m a huge fan of your content- not only because i’m endlessly inspired by you with new ways to live more sustainably but also because you keep it realistic and don’t hide behind a ‘perfect’ zero waste image!
I’m so sorry people are always looking for things to criticise- especially now I know that’s a reason you don’t post much food content- I would LOVE to see more food/sustainable eating videos from you (and frankly i couldn’t care less about your weight/size as it’s nobody’s business but yours!) but completely understand if the needless critics make that too difficult for you.
Thanks again for all of your amazing videos- you truly make SUCH a great difference to our world 💚
CZcams looks like easy money but putting yourself out there, and making yourself vulnerable takes some guts.
And as someone who is very environmentally conscious, I know the struggle of constantly debating between different trade offs and making conscious choices after hours of thinking. Then getting criticism from people who don't know the thought process behind decisions is just slap in the face. Anyhow, YOU GO GIRL! Use your presence to at least get people thinking.
Don't give up. So many people appreciate your efforts.
First of all I LOVE how REAL you are. You're channel has changed the way I think about things so much. On the internet everyone has opinions, and there really are people that are just out to spread negativity. In my experience you have to just wade through the B.S. Even some of my mom's opinions I ingnore, so you better believe some random people on the internet can be ignored. Keep living YOUR life girl. No one is perfect nor will they ever be. You have a whole audience that you've inspired and believe me we support you.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! :) I'm a third year medical student, and I chose to become a medical student to address human suffering. A lot of aspects of my life, just because of being a medical student, are fairly unsustainable. Public transit is not an option for me, ignoring the fact that I live in Texas, because being on time is literally a matter of whether or not I keep my job, I cannot risk not being on time. I also have to buy lots of supplies that cannot be purchased secondhand, like my stethoscope, hospital attire (all of my business casual is secondhand but scrubs? Not willing to buy those used), notebooks (tech is iffy because of patient confidentiality), and other things that non-medical students don't think about. Not to mention the process of getting into medical school/residency, which usually means flying all over the country to accept whichever school/job you get offered. Of course I do the best that I can, I eat 100% plant-based, always buy clothing/furniture secondhand, and I try to reduce my impact wherever I can, but I will never be perfect. Other environmentalists pointing it out just makes me feel helpless lol
It’s sad to be trolled and that people have have nothing else to do than find any little thing you’re not perfect. You’re a fabulous and you’re inspiring ❤️
"I can't do everything, I can't be everything" perfectly said.
What people say about you says more about them than you ❤️
I love the way you chose to address the hate. No clickbait title, no crying, etc. You're the most thorough and informative low-waste influencer I watch, and I would never shame you for "unsustainable" actions bc I do them too lol
When you share your perceived “imperfections” I feel like you make the zero waste movement more accessible for all. Thanks for sharing Shelbi!
My parents used to say ' if they are talking about you, they are not talking about themselves " it draws the focus away from all they are (not)doing. I understand it can be hard. So happy you are not giving them the satisfaction of not creating anymore and you are getting the help you need and want. Love your content. ❤
I know this don't make up for the trolls but you're honestly my role model and helped me get into ecominimalism back in 2020. As far as cars, a super amazing channel is "Not Just Bikes" that talks about how bad infrastructure is in North America and how car dependency and a lot more is systemic
I havent thought about how people could be so rough and annoying. It is very difficult to deal with those kind of people. I sincerely appreciate what you are doing and wish you the best.
Sending you hugs! (Some) people can be just awful! No one is perfect. And the people who leave these comments aren't perfect either - it is just that they want to pretend that they are. One of the things that I LOVE about your channel is that you don't claim to be perfect. You show the parts of your life where you aren't perfectly sustainable. And at the same time, you call it out - you say, this is not the most sustainable thing that I do but I am doing the best that I can and that is what matters. Lots of times, you mention what is the most sustainable option for those who are able to do this (access, affordability, lifestyle, etc). There are so many people who think that they can only be environmentalists if they do everything...then, they get overwhelmed and do nothing. That is the last thing that this planet needs. Thank you for everything that you do!
For the nit-pickers literally, they can use ice trays. I would argue that newer fridges are more efficient. Thank you for your content it has helped me so much with eco commensalism.
Shelbi, what I enjoy about your videos is that you are very well-informed and show us doing your best, even if it isn't absolutely perfect. When I see others who seem to be perfect, it often makes me feel like I'd never be able to do that and I think it has the opposite effect of alienating people. I'm a teacher and would often find myself focusing on the small percentage of things going wrong in the classroom, only to be reminded that most things are going amazingly. Similarly, I think you have a ton of people following your videos who are very inspired by what you are doing. Please keep doing what you do and don't stop being you!
i’ve been watching your channel for years now and i don’t usually comment but i love what you do! i love your videos, you’re one of the only youtubers who i consistently watch. i don’t have many people in my life who think about sustainability and i think it can be easy to fall off the wagon, but i feel like you always pull me back on. i notice how you always mention that your tech is second hand or that you prefer to buy things second hand wherever possible, and i’ve seen you waiting at the bus stop for hours with Madison in your vlogs. I am hard on myself and I feel like I need to do things perfectly but your content helps me know the things I can do, and to give myself a break for things out of my control. I’m also resolving to comment on more of your videos 😄
I love your channel! I hate that people are knit picking and creating problems… honestly, THAT’S the waste of energy.
I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I love your channel & what you stand for. Thank you for opening up about all of this
Here for ALLLLL your content, Shelbi! Keep doing you and f*** whatever box everyone else tries to put you in 🖤
You sticking up for yourself and clearly naming what you will NOT stand for is so badass!! I know for a fact that 99.99% of the people critiquing you aren’t doing half as much as you are to lower their own environmental impact, so they have no basis to try and tear you down. Your closing quotes resonate so deep with me and I’ve been passing them on to friends and students! You rock, keep rockin! 🌹
I LOVE boundary setting Shelbi
This probably wasn't an easy video to make. I'm glad you are keeping true to your intentions and yourself. I can't imagine why people would bother to watch with such a negative outlook going in. What a mess! Keep doing whatever makes you happy and the true supporters will be there for you!
I’ve been watching your channel (and Immy’s ;) ) for a while and it’s the ‘imperfections’ that make your videos so relatable. I greatly appreciate your content.
Your quote at the end of your videos chimes in my head everyday. I can do as best I can, but sometimes I can’t and that’s ok and not always my fault. Thank you for being you ❤️
You have inspired me so much and I appreciate everything you do!
seeing your imperfections in sustainability and watching you and your wife doing your best is what i love most about your channel. it makes living a sustainable life actually seem achievable and like something i can actually do
100% love your channel and how honest you are!!!
You do the best that you can and more... I wish people would realize that you are human.. you are amazing, keep on doing what you can.
I'm thankful you made this video, but sad for you that you felt like you need to explain yourself! Full honesty, your motto of "you cannot do all the good the world needs, but the world needs all the good that you can do" ACTUALLY (like my memory pinpoints it on one of the first videos of yours I watched a little less than a year ago) to not only work more towards my footprint and being more sustainable conscious, but also drove me into being more engaged in fighting for the rights of my community (not eco-related, but definitely helped empower me to seek fighting for better working conditions in my industry, which personally I also think is powerful.) Your motto I think has attracted and empowered so many including myself, BECAUSE it inherently challenges viewers to engage in healthy thought to try one's best, while also forgiving one's self for being human, and living in a world that is not built for ultimate sustainability. I know so many people who feel defeated in the face of climate change, but I think outlooks like this one HELP encourage people to try - we don't need to give up, nor abuse ourselves for our mistakes, because that will just also make us give up, which is how this system works!!! This was a long ramble, but I just wanted to say thank you Shelby, I hope you continue to take care of yourself, and you have encouraged and empowered so many people in a world that currently feels like it needs to beat us down. You are doing all the good you can do, and that has been more than enough.
I’m glad you’re standing up for yourself. No one can be absolutely perfect. No one should expect you to be absolutely perfect.
Keep doing you! Your message is needed and truly helps.
LOVE you & all of your videos! It’s helped me so much in my journey to be more sustainable and help our home planet. Don’t ever let negative / toxic keep you from posting content that is important to you or that you’d like to share & teach us about. I completely agree when you said society almost looks for something to pick at with literally everything these days. It’s not worth it to let it bother you though that’s way easier said than done. Keep being you. You’re beautiful inside and out and I appreciate everything you’re doing for our planet and for those of us trying to learn and also do better.
I love this side of your channel. This is what I'm fucking here for. I hope creating these response videos aren't stressful cause I always appreciate them.
Love this! (Love that you're calling this shit out, do not love that this is an issue in the first place) Set boundaries and protect your self. 🖤
I appreciate your sharing all of these things, Shelbi.
Thank you for sharing. I have been watching your videos for over a year and actually love this part about you. I can get pretty hard on myself or experience anxiety when the progress in our house to improve sustainability isn't moving as fast as I would like. Watching videos like yours has encouraged me so much and helps me not burnout or give up 🥰
Appreciate you standing up for your choices and not taking the bs. For someone who is not an internet person, my biggest critic is myself, and I have to remind myself I can only do my best. Can't imagine having that nit-picky voice amplified so much. You're doing great Shelbi; love and appreciate your channel!
Thank you so much for sharing this! I sometimes feel guilty for not being more sustainable, but your videos always help me remember it’s the system that needs to change more than me.
I love that your content makes the sustainability world accessible to ANYone. You’re so encouraging and humble in how you live your life. It’s crazy the amount of care and thought you put into so many things, it’s kind of intimidating. But then your content is full “if this is where you’re at and what you can do that’s amazing!” I’ve learned so much here, but the biggest things are how to be encouraging to people wherever they are in their sustainable journey and allowing grace for myself when I can’t/don’t want to be perfect. THANK YOU for all you do. You’ve helped me change my life for the better!
I think some people try to feel good about themselves by casting judgement on people who are trying their best. Really they are just setting unrealistic expectations for themselves and others. Thank you for continuing to be vulnerable and share your life with all its lovely imperfections as a means to educate and inspire others 💕
Also, love this relevant quote from Brené Brown: “If you are not in the arena getting your ass kicked on occasion, I am not interested in or open to your feedback. There are a million cheap seats in the world today filled with people who will never be brave with their own lives, but will spend every ounce of energy they have hurling advice and judgement at those of us trying to dare greatly.”
1-TX is hot, drink your ice 2-you have a hybrid car which is better than a full gas car 3- agree with tech, we need it, but you still do your best to mimimalize the impact of the 21st centrury, 4- you're beautiful and kind, worth is independent of size 5- circulation also helps your AC from working as hard 6- no one is perfect and they are just mad that they are failing in someway so they take it out on you
You’re doing amazing and don’t let anyone convince you otherwise! I love your content and am very thankful you’ve continued to make it
Thank you for all your videos and content! I appreciate when you’re honest because nobody can be perfect in this journey but we just keep doing the best we can. I’m sorry so many people are critical. Just keep doing you because that’s why so many of us love you!
Shelbi: You ROCK!