Jay Shetty ON Purpose | 7 Ways to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

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    In this era of social media and having an overload of information at our fingertips, it’s hard not to constantly compare yourself to others. It’s hard to see all of the vacation pictures, the couple pictures and everyone’s seemingly perfect lives on display.
    However, what we don’t always realize is that we’re comparing our behind the scenes to someone else’s highlight reel. People only publish things they want you to see and we need to remember that.
    I truly believe that comparison is the thief of joy and that’s why in today’s episode I give you 7 ways to stop comparing yourself to others and tips on how to define your own personal success.
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Komentáře • 74

  • @julalainelagat8939
    @julalainelagat8939 Před 4 lety +34

    Your worst enemy is yourself and your best ally is yourself as well.

  • @brandonyafanaro9710
    @brandonyafanaro9710 Před 3 lety +15

    I have compared myself to “hot men” my whole life. I’ve put them down and put them up in my head. It’s gotten to the point where social media is draining . I can’t fathom my partner watching porn or complementing others. Realizing that my issues come from comparing and feeling inferior is one of the biggest forms of self destruction. Everyone is unique and different . That’s what I tell myself . Why compare things that are so different . If anything we should be contrasting our lives and being happy that we’re unique

  • @julalainelagat8939
    @julalainelagat8939 Před 4 lety +4

    We are in a culture where we can be anybody else rather than ourselves instead of developing our selves and do what we are made of into this world- our purpose.

  • @dianamaclean3933
    @dianamaclean3933 Před 2 lety +3

    Excellent! I've spent my whole life comparing myself to everyone else. I'm looking forward to doing the excercise that will help me define what success & happiness mean to me.

  • @rosyfaten
    @rosyfaten Před 4 lety +7

    wow ... great seven steps ... I actually following the fifth one without recognizing I am doing the right thing... Thank you very much , all steps kept inside my mind and will teach them to my son and friends.

  • @freetobememe4358
    @freetobememe4358 Před 2 lety

    In retail in small town, 60yrs old, I started comparing again.

  • @vinibatra9081
    @vinibatra9081 Před 4 lety +12

    This just uplifted my mood . Thank You Jay for this 🙏❤️

  • @Kusinanimanoynap
    @Kusinanimanoynap Před 3 lety +3

    I love this guy. I’m listening to your videos while on my way to work every day. Can’t imagine 1 hour every morning listening to powerful motivation. Now I stop comparing myself to others.

  • @kinga1821_
    @kinga1821_ Před rokem

    It has changed me. ❤

  • @essr758
    @essr758 Před 4 lety +6

    This is amazing ! Thank you so much !♥️

  • @djbarkhakaul1423
    @djbarkhakaul1423 Před 2 lety

    Thank you 🙏

  • @carlademelo8745
    @carlademelo8745 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this amazing steps Jay . I took notes of everything and hope be putting all into practice from now on . We definitely need to stop comparing ourselves to others. I mean it is so unfair.
    Looking forward to continue to learn with you ❤️🌷

  • @k1ra_12
    @k1ra_12 Před 2 lety +1

    This is so good, helped me tremendously , thank you Jay for sharing

  • @soulabaroudi9273
    @soulabaroudi9273 Před 2 lety

    great tips. I wrote them all down. will definitely start implementing them all consciously every day. I love the sentence "we are all purposeful people".

  • @laurenhoagland3751
    @laurenhoagland3751 Před rokem

    this is everything

  • @mihikasansare
    @mihikasansare Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 Před 3 lety

    I do admire you, You have so great thougts about us human beings. Thank you for telling me about it all.

  • @troyhagen587
    @troyhagen587 Před 5 lety +2

    On Purpose GREAT MESSAGE and INFORMATION VIDEO. I was the kid that the other talked about, to this DAY PEAPLE think I'm better.
    I'm not I just work harder.
    Be the BEST YOU CAN BE ROCKSTAR. THANKS JAY

    • @changeyouralgorithm9997
      @changeyouralgorithm9997 Před 4 lety

      Hi Troy! This video is also about how comparing yourself to others is harmful:
      czcams.com/video/N3i56M4slr0/video.html

  • @mansibhakuni1875
    @mansibhakuni1875 Před 3 lety

    I m definitely sure, It will work for me.. I'm gonna do them. Lots of love to you Jay Shetty

  • @Sadiya36955
    @Sadiya36955 Před 3 lety

    I love u alot jay.. u solved my Biggest Problem sweetheart God bless u

  • @sarmisthadas3129
    @sarmisthadas3129 Před 4 lety +1

    Jay you are the best

  • @GiridharVaranasi
    @GiridharVaranasi Před 5 lety +3

    Fantastic. Wrote everything you told and looking forward to follow it. Thank you so much Jay!

    • @changeyouralgorithm9997
      @changeyouralgorithm9997 Před 4 lety

      Hi Giridhar! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
      czcams.com/video/N3i56M4slr0/video.html

  • @memoryelhana8760
    @memoryelhana8760 Před 3 lety

    thank you. i listen to this few times already whenever i feel down and comparing myself to others. i feel better each time. thank you so much!!

  • @adrian3747_
    @adrian3747_ Před 4 lety +2

    I love this man! Thanks for uplifting ny mood

    • @changeyouralgorithm9997
      @changeyouralgorithm9997 Před 4 lety

      Hey Bobby! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
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  • @sheanyinchu7885
    @sheanyinchu7885 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you so much, Jay Shetty. Your speech is so insightful😊

    • @changeyouralgorithm9997
      @changeyouralgorithm9997 Před 4 lety

      Hi Shean! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
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  • @tanibabi2488
    @tanibabi2488 Před 4 lety +2

    WHY DOES EVERY COMMENT ONLY HAVE 1 LIKE WHAT THE HECK omg im sending this everywhere this video needs to be seen more its so great 💘💘

  • @mehrishkhan2725
    @mehrishkhan2725 Před 4 lety +4

    WHY YOU'RE THE BEST♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @tamikobrown7232
    @tamikobrown7232 Před 5 lety +8

    Life-changing! Thank you.

    • @changeyouralgorithm9997
      @changeyouralgorithm9997 Před 4 lety

      Tamiko! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
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  • @nxbxxha_1764
    @nxbxxha_1764 Před 3 lety +5

    When I know my worth, people say I praise myself and I'm overconfident😑💔

    • @anaghasubhash5312
      @anaghasubhash5312 Před 3 lety +1

      There is nothing called "over" confidence. They measure your confidence with their own standards and it can vary from person to person. They see someone smarter than what they aspire to be and call them "over"smart. This whole idea is messed up according to what I've observed.
      Keep going. Never give ears to discouraging people. You've got greater heights to climb...

  • @whitters1211
    @whitters1211 Před 3 lety

    So much great information here. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @zennadcailey3516
    @zennadcailey3516 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you it's really helping me

  • @shauntelgill9384
    @shauntelgill9384 Před 3 lety

    I compare myself to those good at school like good grades and stuff and who went to college I always criticized myself for not being smart enough because of my bad grades but my mother says I have plenty to be grateful for cause I am a singer
    and can sing opera.i had a bad experience with teachers who hated me and looked down on me for my lack there of my lack of intelligence and my lack of understanding comprehension and being smart.be smart you are not smart enough
    is what they say. and I still hear their voice to this day.

  • @adnc7520
    @adnc7520 Před 2 lety

    This is so so helpful I like to thank you for sharing these all.and a small request, I like if you make your videos much shorter

  • @fathimar9481
    @fathimar9481 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much jay

  • @suncicanovakovic1872
    @suncicanovakovic1872 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you, you always help me.

  • @puteriaisyahbintikhairulan2089

    1. Define what success (physically, financially, mentally emotionally & mentally) and happiness mean to you
    2. Discover your strengths
    3.

  • @denniswestby9243
    @denniswestby9243 Před 3 lety

    I dont compare, am grateful, am satisfy,

  • @clairearthur7058
    @clairearthur7058 Před 3 lety

    Thankyou 🤍

  • @emidistefano5631
    @emidistefano5631 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you. This was very uplifting.

    • @changeyouralgorithm9997
      @changeyouralgorithm9997 Před 4 lety

      Hey Emi! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
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  • @gambit3950
    @gambit3950 Před rokem

    You should have put the "gallup strengthfinder" in the description, had to go second by second in the video to find the name of that resource over and over again b/c I could not remember the name of the resource

  • @believe1043
    @believe1043 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this video.🙏

  • @mehrishkhan2725
    @mehrishkhan2725 Před 4 lety +1

    I love youuuuu sir. Jay😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ramzees08
    @ramzees08 Před 2 lety

    Recap 29:34 🤗

  • @haddijatousanyang5333
    @haddijatousanyang5333 Před 3 lety

    Thank you jay you’re a blessing to us

  • @phuongtrang280
    @phuongtrang280 Před 3 lety

    I love this thank you

  • @channamma7097
    @channamma7097 Před 3 lety

    🙏🙏 thank you

  • @sonalmassey3531
    @sonalmassey3531 Před 3 lety

    so inspiring

  • @arunimasinha9709
    @arunimasinha9709 Před 3 lety

    Superb!

  • @okellodenizh3741
    @okellodenizh3741 Před 4 lety +1

    its perfect master u have made it to peak

  • @mietamukherjee5482
    @mietamukherjee5482 Před 3 lety

    This is amazing. Thanks. I hope I can help others by sharing this. How can I take part in the questionnaire for identifying our strength and ability?

  • @heemesj4589
    @heemesj4589 Před 2 lety

    I am first yr law student... feel so dumb.I dunno before this i was kinda good with my brain. But now I think um not good as others 🥴🙃

  • @muzmeldadilavegamuzkhan5622

    Fabulous

  • @hemlatameena7331
    @hemlatameena7331 Před 3 lety

    It is difficult to stop comparing ourselves with other because when we think about anyone else then comparison come naturally. Then how get rid from this? :(

  • @charleshurstreinvention3959

    And you have no idea whether that other person has the great life you think. The world is rough and mean. As Jordan Peterson said, "the world is against you . . . obviously." But as I told my own subscribers, many times the greatest enemy in life can be yourself. And you make yourself an enemy by comparision to others. If you make 80K a year and have 200K in the investment arenas you will feel badly if you have a friend who makes 250K and has a million in his. But you will feel good about yourself if you compare yourself to someone who makes 30K and has nothing in his accounts. But maybe that 250K person works 80 hours a week and hasn't had a vacation in ten years. The point is, your journey is yours. How much you want to work and gain to get the greatest benefits you can from your short time on earth---and most of those benefits, my friends, are not financial. Hope this helps someone----Charles

  • @marcobaldacci9933
    @marcobaldacci9933 Před 3 lety

    Is it possible to live a life without a shadow of comparison or measurement coming into it? Aren't measurement, comparison and imitation the major factors of disorder in our society?

  • @kcxhannel5746
    @kcxhannel5746 Před 3 lety

    what is emotionally?

  • @flomonti
    @flomonti Před 3 lety

    👋 Anyone has the link for the strength finder?

  • @yordanos_609
    @yordanos_609 Před 3 lety

    What is the way to find your strength any? 1step he list the online thing?

  • @gajendrasinghsisodia.8302

    Hi sir.

  • @anon54678
    @anon54678 Před 4 lety +1

    6:30

  • @NOHSAL
    @NOHSAL Před 3 lety

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rangmomin9716
    @rangmomin9716 Před 3 lety

    Can u bring my love back
    Please 🙏🙏

  • @MalavikaS100
    @MalavikaS100 Před 3 lety

    👍👍👍👍👍

  • @stardust628
    @stardust628 Před 3 lety

    28:33