Your advice completely works. I stopped dating men that didn't value me and now I'm with a good, successful man that appreciates me. You teach women what we really need to learn.
I'm an air sign and I need me pretty men w big egos lol. I love fire signs Bc they are just what you described. It's so interesting how different we are
this video hit home so hard-and I can admit that I kept repeating my mistakes until I finally learned my lesson. It took me a while but I'm finally here
SheRaSeven1 it really is a life saver I'm 34 and this message resonates with me. I'm feeling grateful to get this message because this guy has walked all over my heart and I won't let him or anyone else do it ever again
Literally you're the big sister I never had, I appreciate youuu . Nobody teaches us this shit except for you lol. I'm 21 & I'll always still believe in fairytale love 😭😘
Thank you! I just turned 25 in September and I sooo appreciate your advice. I may be young but I sure as hell ain't dumb and you confirm time and time again what I already know 💖
Great Advice...I dated a dude I met at college(a light skinned silky haired pretty boy type dude). It took a year before I gave him a chance.. Neither one of us had kids... We dated for a decade plus...Come to go find our relationship was being stalked by someone he used to date...I mean the girl was following us to restaurants, busted his car windows out, ringing our doorbell.....We ended the relationship... Just too much drama... But ole boy knew what was up the whole time and didn't tell the truth... However, I owned my part..I should have ran from him when the craziness started...I may have missed out on my right of passage for marriage, motherhood,etc... Most woman don't realize as you get older your chances of finding that ideal mate become slimmer or you end up settling...
You make it ok to be sexy, demand more out of life, and take care of your responsibilities #notinthatorder #inthatorderbackwards #thankyouSheRa #HeroLife
Fantastic advice!! Hope many learn it. Some people are still out there trying to change someone...I try to tell people you can't make someone like you, just like we women know right away when we like someone!!
Excellent video!!!!!!! These trolls on here clearly still wet behind the ears actually think they are a prize. I bet mama is saying to herself that one should of been a swallow. lol
Very true. You have to decide you're worth more than settling for peoples' baggage while they benefit and leave you empty handed. Used to go for looks and other stupid things and they were paid, but I didn't want to be left empty-handed in the long run. Still in my early 20's, but the stress and games cease when you decide you want to stop leaving empty handed (financially, emotionally etc.). If you don't measure up all you'll get is my representative lol no need to be mean and insult you about it either. Everything he does speaks for him instead of him constantly having to prove himself is a win
I'm 22 and I love your videos! For me, I like older guys but as of lately I found that I like a guy in my age range and he's pretty cool! He's super introverted and shy so I just play it cool and let him come to me! Lol
SheRa, Could you do a video for the older, divorced ladies as well? I know that's not your usual focus, but many of us have already been through all the experience and disappointments of being married to the wrong man. We learned a lot, can agree with everything you say now, and have a clear picture of what we want next time. I, for one, already learned my lessons and I'm more selfish and less tolerant of bs now. Since obviously the prospects are fewer because we're in our 30's or 40's, I'd like to know your views on how to play the game in dating (when to sleep with him, when to introduce your kids (if any), how to persuade him in different areas, etc. I see older women get married all the time, so I know the answer is not simply to marry a 70 year-old man, like that's the only option for someone over 25. Any tips?
+SheRaSeven1 You are welcome! I discovered your channels about a year ago and have been watching since! Your videos are very helpful to me! Thank you! ♡♡♡
hi asheera, if a man makes tons of money and looses his money with all that talent gone to waste the man gets back on top with out the women if the women leaves true
ma bd is from Dallas tx but he a PB smh tht didnt work. lol However I'm dating a guy that's very educated but I am not attracted to him physically. 😬 I'm trying to get over this but Idk if I can. Video please lol
Lol that girl was not playin....that's so sad sounds like one of my friends that tried to run her ex over lol cray cray. I've cut some tires but I ain't never been tht crazy lol
Deal breaker?! As a man I tell you, it's a deal MAKER! It's an ace you can use in your deck. Use it wisely. A woman with no kids, huge plus. Woman with no kids and a virgin, double plus. Woman, no kids, a virgin, ambitious, self- confident, has high standards - JACKPOT! I've had the pleasure of knowing only 1 women like this I dated and it can be intense. Make sure you date men who knows the value you see in yourself and more. Some men may say to you, "Virgin? Pssssh. It don't mean anything like it used to." and try to devalue what IS valuable to take your value and simultaneously try to be the first to take your virginity giving you nothing in return but his conquest. I'm saying this now before any straggler guy comes and tells you it has no meaning or worth. Meantime, continue working on yourself, build on yourself, learn from SheRa on where to find well-off men and use that in conversation very casually. It'll peak a mans interest even more if he wasn't already and he'll do any number of creative things to seduce you, date you and keep you. I know this for a fact because *i* did this - lol. When the woman I dated said she was a virgin my creative juices started flowing to the max. I wrote poems, songs, played guitar, (laughing)...it was exciting knowing I could be her first but I knew that she was a virgin because of standards she set for herself and no man until myself was able to catch her heart. Lastly, I just listed how a man will lay on the charm extra thick. Do NOT give in quickly! Let the tension build and if you can, wait until marriage. A man may very well choose to do so if you haven't been touched by another man. It's so valuable because so few women in their early 20's can say they are virgins. If you play your cards right you could very well end up with a wealthy man who is willing to wait until marriage before sleeping with you. Ciara and Russel comes to mind. People thought this man was crazy for not sleeping with his fiance at least once before marriage, but it's because Ciara commands the respect and this woman has had sex plenty of times. So there you have it.
Let see who will produce with there kids with such a great historical reputation to be reminded by and off. It is because they live by the concept of leaving a "family legacy" name under the "BIG FAMOUS FAMILY NAME". hhhhhhh
This is why they keep records of allllll there practices especially that is related to honor. What they will tell there grandkids !!!!. The answer is right there; there mama's was a slut and got some donations from the ones who she used to screw to build some real estate or create a big account. There honor is a recorded signature for there future kids generation to be reminded by and of. Relationships, many fall in relationships, it is very norml but what is the characteristics of those relationships. Is it prostitution and sluting to make an income or they were for decent purposes.
Your advice completely works. I stopped dating men that didn't value me and now I'm with a good, successful man that appreciates me. You teach women what we really need to learn.
So true, " don't go backwards ladies".
right! lol go forward
Don’t go backwards. People don’t really change.
im seriously not attracted to super attractive guys
Areyanna Leek lol, are you a water sign?
I'm an air sign and I need me pretty men w big egos lol. I love fire signs Bc they are just what you described. It's so interesting how different we are
Now that's where maturity begins.
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This woman is superwoman ; I wish I could think and talk like her
yes chanel 😄
am not lesbian but am addicted to this great influential woman lol
don't just wish but believe u can be like her in some ways.. she rocks
you wish? you not intelligent enough?
Chanel Gurung u can rewire ur brain
"ignored, used and abused." YUP. describes my last relationship. I'm only 21 but I'm wising up real quick. thanks for these videos. 💖
"don't sit there and pine over an ex who's supposed to be a lesson." 😏👸
How are you now? I’m 21 now and completely felt this statement …
This is me now. I’m 21 and I was a “pickmesha” in my last relationship. Now I’m focusing on my self worth and continuing to elevate
21 now!! how are you?
Timeless advice, 7 years later
this video hit home so hard-and I can admit that I kept repeating my mistakes until I finally learned my lesson. It took me a while but I'm finally here
lol well at least you learned!
SheRaSeven1 it really is a life saver I'm 34 and this message resonates with me. I'm feeling grateful to get this message because this guy has walked all over my heart and I won't let him or anyone else do it ever again
Literally you're the big sister I never had, I appreciate youuu . Nobody teaches us this shit except for you lol. I'm 21 & I'll always still believe in fairytale love 😭😘
lol girl that only is real in the movies lol you have to play games in real life!
Thank you!
I just turned 25 in September and I sooo appreciate your advice. I may be young but I sure as hell ain't dumb and you confirm time and time again what I already know 💖
Amazing advice. I am 22.
learn now , not later lol
yes save yourself some time and trouble
Ashley iPardon w
I’ve been listening to you since I was
20. I’m 24 now. I’m finally ready to take heed to your advice.
Great Advice...I dated a dude I met at college(a light skinned silky haired pretty boy type dude). It took a year before I gave him a chance.. Neither one of us had kids... We dated for a decade plus...Come to go find our relationship was being stalked by someone he used to date...I mean the girl was following us to restaurants, busted his car windows out, ringing our doorbell.....We ended the relationship... Just too much drama... But ole boy knew what was up the whole time and didn't tell the truth... However, I owned my part..I should have ran from him when the craziness started...I may have missed out on my right of passage for marriage, motherhood,etc... Most woman don't realize as you get older your chances of finding that ideal mate become slimmer or you end up settling...
Thanks for talking to the younger ladies because sometimes it takes, hearing this from a well rounded and accomplished person:)
you are so welcome!
Never had a woman role model growing up, so these tips are on point❤️Thank you for being such a beautiful blessing
You make it ok to be sexy, demand more out of life, and take care of your responsibilities #notinthatorder #inthatorderbackwards #thankyouSheRa #HeroLife
You're seriously like my big sister lol thank you!
lol thanks!
Yes the one I always needed
Hey I've met a lot of unattractive men who are just as sorry
ikr! smdh!
There are guys who are ugly and losers too for sure, like they don’t know how to pick a struggle 😂
Fax 📠
Fantastic advice!! Hope many learn it. Some people are still out there trying to change someone...I try to tell people you can't make someone like you, just like we women know right away when we like someone!!
so true!
"MORE INTO YOU THAN INTO HIMSELF" 💯
Excellent video!!!!!!! These trolls on here clearly still wet behind the ears actually think they are a prize. I bet mama is saying to herself that one should of been a swallow. lol
deanea jones Lmfaooo
Very true. You have to decide you're worth more than settling for peoples' baggage while they benefit and leave you empty handed. Used to go for looks and other stupid things and they were paid, but I didn't want to be left empty-handed in the long run. Still in my early 20's, but the stress and games cease when you decide you want to stop leaving empty handed (financially, emotionally etc.). If you don't measure up all you'll get is my representative lol no need to be mean and insult you about it either. Everything he does speaks for him instead of him constantly having to prove himself is a win
Move forward, upgrade 💯💎
I'm 22 and I love your videos! For me, I like older guys but as of lately I found that I like a guy in my age range and he's pretty cool! He's super introverted and shy so I just play it cool and let him come to me! Lol
SincerelyChelle im 22 and i loove older men aswell!!!!!!!!! lol shera is amazing isnt she???? ive learned so much from her videos!!!! amazing woman💜
Amen my daughter needs to watch this
Dated a model 5 years he BARELY starting to provide. She right !
Valuable information for all woman!!!
I really enjoy your videos. You really deserve more subscribers, because your advice is stellar. Thanks
thank you so much!!
Shera u should give advice to women who don't want a good man who respects them
SheRa, Could you do a video for the older, divorced ladies as well? I know that's not your usual focus, but many of us have already been through all the experience and disappointments of being married to the wrong man. We learned a lot, can agree with everything you say now, and have a clear picture of what we want next time. I, for one, already learned my lessons and I'm more selfish and less tolerant of bs now. Since obviously the prospects are fewer because we're in our 30's or 40's, I'd like to know your views on how to play the game in dating (when to sleep with him, when to introduce your kids (if any), how to persuade him in different areas, etc. I see older women get married all the time, so I know the answer is not simply to marry a 70 year-old man, like that's the only option for someone over 25. Any tips?
That will be great,looking forward to that video,That will be helpful,thanks
Thank God for you!! and for sharing your experiences and being so open I have learned so much form you 😊
thankyou!
thanks so much because i really needed to hear that. keep doing wat u doing ashera. i love ur videos
Depending on a woman who can't control her weight to school you? wow how fucking dumb.
+June Clablight wow you must not have shit goin for you in life or must have had your heart broken or something lol
+June Clablight meh weight jokes ? Can't think of anything new ? Yawnnnn
We can not change society as a whole untill a "historical effect" of relationships change.
This is brilliant!! 🌟🌟🌟🌟
On point again!!! Thanks girl💖
thanks!
"Looks will land you on the places where you don't wanna go"
I sooooo needed to hear this!!
then I am so glad I did the video lol !
Love your ears!😊
thanks!
I wish I had watch her videos 7 years ago...
Your skin is AMAZING!
mmmm may I say you look absolutely devine in this video miss Seven WOW!
thanks I try
Thank you so much SheraSeven! Did you make this video just for me? Lol 😊
thank you so much I hope it helps!
Thank you for this video ♡!
you are very welcome! thank you for watching me lol
+SheRaSeven1 You are welcome! I discovered your channels about a year ago and have been watching since! Your videos are very helpful to me! Thank you! ♡♡♡
wow so much truth in this ...
" i would give up the looks for the lifestyle"
We Love You!!! Thank You
Omg so true, i love youuu 🙌🏾
Thank you 🌹❤🌿☀🌍
love u Shera
hi asheera, if a man makes tons of money and looses his money with all that talent gone to waste the man gets back on top with out the women if the women leaves true
beautiful hair
hey do a video on current boyfriend that is close to his female best friend who is also his ex
ma bd is from Dallas tx but he a PB smh tht didnt work. lol However I'm dating a guy that's very educated but I am not attracted to him physically. 😬 I'm trying to get over this but Idk if I can. Video please lol
I have not given into sex however IF I ever decide to the only solution I can think of is a sk I mask 😬😂
What if you had kids with your "lesson"?? I hope this won't hold me back 😟
Lol that girl was not playin....that's so sad sounds like one of my friends that tried to run her ex over lol cray cray. I've cut some tires but I ain't never been tht crazy lol
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Young minds 🤣🤣
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maybe you should talk about your self.
I'm 24 and still a virgin, is that a deal breaker with men?
Nope it's not!
Deal breaker?! As a man I tell you, it's a deal MAKER! It's an ace you can use in your deck. Use it wisely. A woman with no kids, huge plus. Woman with no kids and a virgin, double plus. Woman, no kids, a virgin, ambitious, self- confident, has high standards - JACKPOT!
I've had the pleasure of knowing only 1 women like this I dated and it can be intense. Make sure you date men who knows the value you see in yourself and more. Some men may say to you, "Virgin? Pssssh. It don't mean anything like it used to." and try to devalue what IS valuable to take your value and simultaneously try to be the first to take your virginity giving you nothing in return but his conquest.
I'm saying this now before any straggler guy comes and tells you it has no meaning or worth.
Meantime, continue working on yourself, build on yourself, learn from SheRa on where to find well-off men and use that in conversation very casually. It'll peak a mans interest even more if he wasn't already and he'll do any number of creative things to seduce you, date you and keep you. I know this for a fact because *i* did this - lol. When the woman I dated said she was a virgin my creative juices started flowing to the max. I wrote poems, songs, played guitar, (laughing)...it was exciting knowing I could be her first but I knew that she was a virgin because of standards she set for herself and no man until myself was able to catch her heart.
Lastly, I just listed how a man will lay on the charm extra thick. Do NOT give in quickly! Let the tension build and if you can, wait until marriage. A man may very well choose to do so if you haven't been touched by another man. It's so valuable because so few women in their early 20's can say they are virgins. If you play your cards right you could very well end up with a wealthy man who is willing to wait until marriage before sleeping with you. Ciara and Russel comes to mind. People thought this man was crazy for not sleeping with his fiance at least once before marriage, but it's because Ciara commands the respect and this woman has had sex plenty of times.
So there you have it.
24 is still young your good lol
SheRaSeven1
lol yes! I'll know I'm not good when I'm 100 and still a virgin lmao
benjaminjo
thank you so much for your response!
u are funny
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Let see who will produce with there kids with such a great historical reputation to be reminded by and off. It is because they live by the concept of leaving a "family legacy" name under the "BIG FAMOUS FAMILY NAME". hhhhhhh
This is why they keep records of allllll there practices especially that is related to honor.
What they will tell there grandkids !!!!.
The answer is right there; there mama's was a slut and got some donations from the ones who she used to screw to build some real estate or create a big account.
There honor is a recorded signature for there future kids generation to be reminded by and of.
Relationships, many fall in relationships, it is very norml but what is the characteristics of those relationships. Is it prostitution and sluting to make an income or they were for decent purposes.