Full Contact ASMR Massage, Hugs, Cuddles, and Close Up Whispered Positive Affirmations

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  • čas přidán 25. 03. 2020
  • #asmr #cuddles #hugs
    Sometimes times is tough times. This video is designed to help people feel a little less lonely and a little more connected. It contains lots of cuddles, hugs, close up whispers, touching, me being goofy, and a nice should rub. I sincerely hope you enjoy it.
    I’m on Tingles! Jimchi-ASMR
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    Any additional sound effects from www.zapsplat.com
    Disclaimer: This video is intended for relaxation. Any views, opinions, or advice expressed is purely for the purpose of entertainment, and to induce tingles through ASMR. These videos are not a substitute for traditional medicine, therapy, or any other professional medium, and should not be treated as such! Take all the advice with a pinch of salt, and certainly don’t take it to heart. That being said, please enjoy them, benefit from them, and hopefully get those warm, tingly feelings. Oh, and it’s not for kids.
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  • @vampy7744
    @vampy7744 Před 4 lety +2060

    Volume: max
    Blanket: on
    Stuffed animals: snug
    Jim: handsome
    Depression: cured

  • @sierramasson474
    @sierramasson474 Před 4 lety +1522

    “I don’t need a boyfriend when I have content like this to get me through,” I say to myself quietly as I sit alone for the fifteenth day in a row

    • @sodomizer5784
      @sodomizer5784 Před 3 lety +79

      I've been sitting alone since 16 years and I will be sitting alone the rest of my life. aromantic hell yes 😩✌️

    • @yeetskeet1581
      @yeetskeet1581 Před 3 lety +38

      @@sodomizer5784 same but sometimes its nice to hug a friend.,,,.., hold a loved one.,,.,., make out with a stranger,..,, least for me just bc im aro doesnt mean i dont like physical attention

    • @user-nu1jy9fm5y
      @user-nu1jy9fm5y Před 3 lety +6

      This is so sad... (

    • @HikiOmo
      @HikiOmo Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah

    • @thatbitchnoemie
      @thatbitchnoemie Před 2 lety +27

      Try sitting alone for 23 years sis

  • @beepobeepo
    @beepobeepo Před 4 lety +736

    "would you like a quick cuddle?"
    me, touch starved, stuck in a shitty household, with barely any contact with anyone: *bursts into tears* yes

    • @sandyno1089
      @sandyno1089 Před 4 lety +16

      Maybe when this is over you’ll have the strength to leave thatshitty household.😘

    • @beepobeepo
      @beepobeepo Před 4 lety +37

      @@sandyno1089 i sure as hell have the strength, but not the resources or money oof

    • @LaDivinaLover
      @LaDivinaLover Před 3 lety +18

      Ò ‸ Ó I feel this on a spiritual level!! Sending money vibes your way! 💸💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💳💳💳💳💳💳💳💳💳💳💳💳💳💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💷💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💶💸

    • @Daisy-nd7iw
      @Daisy-nd7iw Před 3 lety +6

      Ò ‸ Ó OMG sameeeeee

  • @nachturnally
    @nachturnally Před 4 lety +921

    "Man his hands look so holdable.."
    " I would like you to take my hand. "
    oh OOOH PLEASE

  • @WhiteFyre
    @WhiteFyre Před 4 lety +809

    Jim: Is it okay if we hug? 💖
    Me: Is it okay if I cry uncontrollably? 😭

  • @soup2508
    @soup2508 Před 4 lety +352

    Me being straight
    My obstacle : Jim

  • @LydiosVidias
    @LydiosVidias Před 4 lety +1031

    I’ve been so touch starved I can’t adequately express how much I needed this. I legit got teary eyed

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +33

      Sending you so much love, it will be okay again ♥️ please look after yourselves, do something kind for yourself today xx

    • @LydiosVidias
      @LydiosVidias Před 4 lety +21

      @@optimistic1996 Thank you! I'm trying my best. Don't forget to take your own advice. :)

    • @artwav337
      @artwav337 Před 4 lety +7

      Same friend! I hope you get through this too

    • @SerenityBane
      @SerenityBane Před 4 lety +4

      Same

    • @vampy7744
      @vampy7744 Před 4 lety +4

      LydiosVidias same here (ᗒᗣᗕ)՞

  • @Pocketsand99
    @Pocketsand99 Před 4 lety +547

    This is going to sound awful but Holy crap did this give me some kind of feelings. And no I dont mean sexual. I lived my whole life without any of my parents hugging me or really giving me love in general. I realized while watching this video how emotionally detached I am when it comes to physical love and positive affirmations. People laugh at Asmr but it's honestly really helped me overcome a lot of hurdles I've had with my ptsd...

    • @lindathetford3776
      @lindathetford3776 Před 3 lety +22

      I am so sorry.....perhaps they didn't know how to love but either way you deserve lots of hugs love and all the physical affection you can get *hugs warmly* I hope things work out between you and in the meantime that you find people who will make you feel loved valid and appreciated

    • @youtubeaccount1712
      @youtubeaccount1712 Před 3 lety +1

      Overkill 👀?

    • @Pocketsand99
      @Pocketsand99 Před 3 lety +3

      @@youtubeaccount1712 hell yeah bro

    • @Tactical_Pearlz
      @Tactical_Pearlz Před 3 lety +5

      Whatever you’ve got to do to cope! 🙏

    • @10kCrows
      @10kCrows Před 3 lety +4

      Jaz Music, I'm happy for you. ASMR (especially Jim's) made me realize the same thing. So you're not alone ♡

  • @tritaoph
    @tritaoph Před 4 lety +296

    Jim: i'd like you to take my hand...
    Me: yes i do, let's marry please 👰

  • @therainofliam
    @therainofliam Před 4 lety +669

    Why do I have the feeling that, whoever is loved by this kind man (friend, family, partner), is a very very very lucky person? He seems so sweet, and such a good listener... I just can't help thinking that. Lovely video, Jim 💜

    • @zoppitybop
      @zoppitybop Před 4 lety +94

      They are so lucky. I hope I can find a Jim one day.

    • @oliviabytner1614
      @oliviabytner1614 Před 3 lety +37

      I just hope that Jim has someone who makes him feel this warm feeling he gives us.

    • @h0neyxdew799
      @h0neyxdew799 Před 3 lety +28

      This did not age well🗿

    • @lillikg5951
      @lillikg5951 Před 3 lety +9

      @@h0neyxdew799 lmaoo I was waiting for this :’) surprised there aren’t more comments discussing it tbh

    • @aaaaa-zc5hq
      @aaaaa-zc5hq Před 2 lety +3

      @@lillikg5951 yo what happened?

  • @optimistic1996
    @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +487

    Does anyone else wake up every day either believing it has all been a dream or forgetting completely? This is such a lovely way to gently comfort as the realisation hits. Mornings have become such an anxiety trap and this helped a lot, thank you Jim. Stay safe everyone xx

    • @cassiopeiadee9306
      @cassiopeiadee9306 Před 4 lety +15

      Most definitely...then that horrible, sinking realization sets in that this is real, and not going away anytime soon. Jim's videos are so helpful! Hang in there...

    • @JasperCatProductions
      @JasperCatProductions Před 4 lety +7

      Yes , I think, oh I should go to park then realize no! You are trapped in your home. I keep panicking over bills.....like no work no money no home.... it has been exhausting just waiting for it to just stop be normal again. I live a rather bland unexceptional life but I was happy. This waiting for doom and the news, good grief I can’t with the news.

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +1

      @@JasperCatProductions can totally relate to that. Are you in the UK? I really hope that jobs and rent etc will be supported in such an unsettled time! Hope you're doing okay, we will all get through this together 🥰

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +1

      @@cassiopeiadee9306 yeah it's definitely something I never saw coming, I'm making sure to write little "to-do" lists every day to keep feeling productive and positive, and remembering all the things I can be grateful for (thank God for the internet!) Stay safe xz

    • @ZuspiX
      @ZuspiX Před 4 lety +3

      I just realised that im all alone.. my friends moved on.. and i only socialise with my family.. here i am. Crying in bed. Wishing that someday i got that something that i could treasure the most..

  • @h.j9841
    @h.j9841 Před 4 lety +470

    I work for the NHS in a hospital and honestly, it’s absolutely terrifying. So to come home to this was lovely. You are lovely 💛

    • @JimASMR
      @JimASMR  Před 4 lety +180

      Thank you for all your hard work. I clapped and cheered at 8pm for you.

    • @Spring_Water_
      @Spring_Water_ Před 4 lety +18

      Be strong. Be safe

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +12

      You're incredible, thank you so much for everything you are doing xx

    • @Artemis300
      @Artemis300 Před 4 lety +6

      Thank you for your efforts on humanity’s behalf ❤️

    • @moonwalkerangel7008
      @moonwalkerangel7008 Před 4 lety +6

      On behalf of everyone around the world. Thank you for being a hero in the health care profession. You have the support from all of us around the world. 👏🙌🥇

  • @blueyesfaerie
    @blueyesfaerie Před 4 lety +361

    I imagine this must be what my cat sees/feels when I (try to) snuggle with her.
    As for human me, I think this is my new "go to bed" video. I am 100% mellow right now. 😴

  • @lownutz5118
    @lownutz5118 Před 3 lety +136

    The amount of power in that HAIR FLOW is absolutely astounding! 12:20

    • @mmmalakai
      @mmmalakai Před 7 měsíci +7

      When an online stranger has gorgeous hair: yes, you will be stuck in my head now (no pun intended), thanks!

  • @TinaSotis
    @TinaSotis Před 4 lety +187

    Jim: every single thing he says on this video
    Me: Yes, please.

  • @SailorSerenitySaturn
    @SailorSerenitySaturn Před 4 lety +397

    I love that little “smile and look down” you do in every video, it apparently something that’s part of your usual behavior and it’s so cuuuute! ❤️

  • @CvmTea
    @CvmTea Před 4 lety +80

    hugs are so underrated, I love hugs so much

  • @kathswolf7255
    @kathswolf7255 Před 4 lety +175

    This posted at the perfect time - right in the middle of my 10th breakdown of the week. People suffering with anxiety have it hard these days. Anybody else?

    • @lindathetford3776
      @lindathetford3776 Před 4 lety +5

      I'm so sorry just remember to breathe you aren't alone ❤❤❤

    • @andreainfla618
      @andreainfla618 Před 4 lety +2

      kathswolf let me know if you need someone to chat with! Anxiety sucks.

    • @kathswolf7255
      @kathswolf7255 Před 4 lety +1

      @@andreainfla618 thank you so much for the offer, I just may take you up on it! Same goes for you, I'm a great listener (reader). I've been dealing with this for years and yes, it does suck! Take care of yourself!! 😊

    • @andreainfla618
      @andreainfla618 Před 4 lety +1

      kathswolf thank you!! I’ve been an anxiety sufferer for what feels like forever. It’s mainly under control but a pandemic is making things interesting lol. Please take care and reach out anytime you need to chat, vent, compare anxiety notes, etc... 🤗🤗

    • @phorion11
      @phorion11 Před 4 lety +2

      Severe anxiety disorder here, you are not alone! 👋 Times like this really show us just how strong we are.

  • @KH-wz3ff
    @KH-wz3ff Před 4 lety +58

    I am a grown woman but I would love to have him legit read me bedtime stories while caressing my hair.

  • @Mckidsprofile
    @Mckidsprofile Před 4 lety +91

    Jim making me swoon for 20 minutes straight.

  • @rudy_simpiarz
    @rudy_simpiarz Před 2 měsíci +7

    i come back to this and other such videos everytime i feel bad to the point of giving up on everything, im bursting out into tears every single time i watch it, its like free therapy, it feels as if it was actually healing me in some way. watching these videos is the thing that always helps me out and cheers me up. where i cant speak up to anybody about my problems, troubles and such and have nobody i can count on to comfort me, theres always this channel which makes all the pain go away. all of the content makes me feel loved and cared for, fulfilling all my needs and making me smile over and over again. thank you for creating this channel, for all the creative content and the effort and heart put in these videos for all the subscribers. all of you are doing an amazing job guys.

  • @hippogriffkeeper
    @hippogriffkeeper Před 4 lety +33

    Jim: "Sorry, I didn't mean to pick you up. 😂"
    Oh my god. ❤️

  • @CaitCher
    @CaitCher Před 4 lety +86

    "Sorry, I didn't mean to pick you up."
    What are you sorry for? I'd love to be picked up right now! 😍😍😍

  • @Chaeley
    @Chaeley Před 4 lety +130

    Honestly, even when you're not playing a knight... you still feel like a knight to me. I hope you're looking after your own mental health too. Thanks for this, and never hesitate to reach out to us if you feel like you need your own boost. This community has your back.

  • @msxy9594
    @msxy9594 Před 4 lety +46

    Awww this video is extremley cute ❤ Btw.. Anyone out there who is still healty: please dont forget, there might be old people in your neighbourhood too that are alone and have no one left who cares for them.. they might be walking disabled or phisically to weak to go shopping by themselves and these people might be without food right now and urgently need our help... so if someones out there daredevil enough, go and annoy the old granny from next door and ask her if she needs food or help.. most old people will not have the guts to ask by themselves because they feel too shy.

  • @Mastermint
    @Mastermint Před 4 lety +82

    You're really tall, aren't you? I can't see past your shoulders! Feeling quite safe, now

  • @mskatiekatt
    @mskatiekatt Před 4 lety +237

    You seem like such a lovely person, Jim. Your kindness and warmth comes through in your videos, even the ones that are a little more strange (which I still love). I really enjoyed the casual nature of this one, it’s a nice change of pace from my stressful job in the ER and the constant bombardment of negative media/energy that seems to be all around these days. It’s nice to have more positive places like this to come to. I appreciate that consent is a theme in many of your videos too.
    Thank you for what you do and for being you 💗✌🏻 take care!

    • @glitterzombi
      @glitterzombi Před 4 lety +12

      Katie thanks for being on the front lines out there. Your bravery is inspiring and heartwarming. You’re now one of my heroes ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @mskatiekatt
      @mskatiekatt Před 4 lety +8

      GlitterZombi Chronicles That is incredibly kind of you to say, I appreciate the support ❤️

    • @amymonkeymess5499
      @amymonkeymess5499 Před 4 lety

      He's mine woman!😄🌹🐇

  • @SerenityBane
    @SerenityBane Před 4 lety +81

    Perfect timing for those of us living alone feeling really isolated and lonely right now

    • @andreainfla618
      @andreainfla618 Před 4 lety +3

      Ariel_Grey29 if you ever need someone to chat with please let me know!! Feeling isolated and lonely is no fun 😞

    • @SerenityBane
      @SerenityBane Před 4 lety +1

      Andrea B What a dear! I might take you up on that. I’m starting to see figures in the yellow wallpaper, and I know that’s not good 🤔 I’m generally always alone, but seldom lonely...maybe one day out of every fifty...not too shabby! But I realize that’s because when I’m at work typically 12 hours a day, coming home to peace and silence is welcoming. After being stuck in it for two weeks, however, it has lost its appeal. I’ve taken to talking quite a lot to myself now...but I hear that’s okay so long as don’t start answering myself 😉

    • @andreainfla618
      @andreainfla618 Před 4 lety +1

      Ariel_Grey29 I understand! I love my peace and quiet but if that’s all I’ve been having it gets old. I think I’m in trouble because I answer myself all the time 😂😂. Virtual Hugs for you 🤗🤗🤗

    • @SerenityBane
      @SerenityBane Před 4 lety +1

      Andrea B Hopefully all the answers are kind, lol. Hugs back 🤗🤗🤗

  • @vesta2069
    @vesta2069 Před 4 lety +95

    THAT’S what I mean when I’m looking for personal attention asmr! It was so good, so comforting and so emotional. I’m not really good with physical contact, it’s hard for me to ask for a hug so these kind of videos sometimes my only way to get some comfort from another person.
    It was heartwarming. And I feel so much better now. Thank you ❤️
    Be strong and stay safe 😊

    • @dreamofcoheed3388
      @dreamofcoheed3388 Před 3 lety +1

      Vesta, do you happen to be an INTJ? (Meyers-Briggs personality type). If so, find yourself an ENFP partner or friend. They'll know instinctively when to initiate physical touch and how without being overwhelming. We're very comforting that way! 😉

    • @vesta2069
      @vesta2069 Před 3 lety +2

      Dream Of Coheed oh it’s cool that you thought about it this way :) I’m actually INFP, but I still agree with you that ENFP are good for me! One of my best friends is ENFP and she always knows when to push me and touch me and when to just let me be.

    • @dreamofcoheed3388
      @dreamofcoheed3388 Před 3 lety

      @@vesta2069 One of my best friends is an INFP. 😊 I love INFP's. You have such incredible hearts. 🖤

  • @fionamorris9634
    @fionamorris9634 Před 4 lety +195

    Jim, this was absolute bliss. I have never felt physically happy and warm from an ASMR video before. I felt emotionally connected in an incredible way. Thank you for all the cuddles and kisses. Thanks to your reassurance I feel like I can actually do this. I’ve been feeling very anxious and trying to hold it together for my family, some of whom are very far away. I have an extremely ill sister, a dad with dementia and a nephew with crippling OCD. I will be recommending this video to them. I’m starting to feel like your subscribers are more of a community than just a bunch of people who like role play ASMR. To anyone reading this I send love and cuddles and good vibes. We should all talk to each other in the comments. If your alone and you need someone to talk to I’m here. 😊

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +5

      This was so touching to read, I hope you're doing okay, sending you so much love ♥️ xx

    • @OmgPandamonium
      @OmgPandamonium Před 4 lety +3

      Hey Fiona, how’re you doing? X

    • @fionamorris9634
      @fionamorris9634 Před 4 lety +2

      Eleanor Thanks I’m doing ok , I have my grown up kids to keep me company. Are you by yourself or do you have an SO or family to talk to? I live in Australia, where are you?

    • @fionamorris9634
      @fionamorris9634 Před 4 lety +1

      OmgPanda Pretty good thanks sweetie, how about you? Where do you hail from? I’m an Aussie.😊

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety

      @@fionamorris9634 good! I'm very luck I have an amazing partner and 3 kittens to keep me company! I'm in the UK and it has been glorious sunshine all week so I feel so very lucky to have a big garden to enjoy it in! Stay safe Xxx

  • @10kCrows
    @10kCrows Před 4 lety +127

    Jimchi
    With all the virus stuff and also a lot of really scary personal stuff happening I can't even tell you how much this means. I have no idea how you make the hugs feel so real but I swear I could listen to this for hours it's so unbelievably comforting and soothing
    Thank you ❤

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +1

      I hope you're okay, please reach out to someone if you're struggling ♥️ xx

    • @10kCrows
      @10kCrows Před 4 lety

      @@optimistic1996 this is a really nice comment, thank you ♡

    • @optimistic1996
      @optimistic1996 Před 4 lety +4

      I feel like if anything positive has come from this, it's that we're all learning to be a little bit more kind, a little more community focussed, and it's genuinely so lovely to experience xxx

    • @10kCrows
      @10kCrows Před 4 lety +3

      @@optimistic1996 I 100% agree. My biggest wish is that we can make it through this and that people will learn from this to still be kinder and community focused, even when it's all over ♡

  • @Ziffelzoovop
    @Ziffelzoovop Před 9 měsíci +9

    Three years later and this is still one of my favorite go-to feel good ASMRs. Jim really has a special touch

    • @RipVanTwinkle1
      @RipVanTwinkle1 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I just arrived to this channel and this ones my new favorites, too.

  • @maximillian1109
    @maximillian1109 Před 4 lety +22

    I really have a hard time with physical contact, especially when it comes to my fellow humans. It is humid and gross and sticky and people always just assumes it is okay to touch me out of the blue despite me flinching every time it happens.
    But not in this video. Here I AM in control. Not only did I seek out this video, but I can leave whenever I want. I can pause to take a deep breath when I start feeling uncomftreble, and you keep telling me I am in control.
    I kinda use this like therapy. I may not wanna touch other humans, but it would be really nice to be able to handle my cat falling asleep on my chest for a few minutes without having to push her off.
    Thank you so much for this chanse to fully cuddle my cat!!

  • @puffball1692
    @puffball1692 Před rokem +11

    im autistic and asmr really lets me feel comfortable with things that would usually give me sensory overload and your content makes me feel super re;ived so i just wanted to say thank you

  • @freshbrewedasmr3378
    @freshbrewedasmr3378 Před 4 lety +75

    Oh my goodness, your smile is so contagious and makes me smile back like a fool 😍😊

  • @cryingash
    @cryingash Před 4 lety +58

    2:35 minutes into the video and i already had tears running down my cheeks.

    • @TakaraoftheElves
      @TakaraoftheElves Před 4 lety +5

      Honestly...same. This social isolation has really highlighted how starved most of us are for human contact and connection. 😭 I can't even remember the last time somebody showed me more than 0.5 seconds of platonic physical affection.

    • @kristenm9639
      @kristenm9639 Před 4 lety +1

      Same here

  • @Mirrima
    @Mirrima Před 4 lety +82

    This is just perfect timing for this kind of video. Especially in times like this.

  • @Whimsicalwizard420
    @Whimsicalwizard420 Před 4 lety +36

    Okay but... His long hair and calm voice is SO attractive

  • @celicbarragan522
    @celicbarragan522 Před rokem +14

    I miss this kind of videos 👉👈 he's amazing with the roleplays, but sometimes we need a comfort hug.

  • @bone_takers_tooth397
    @bone_takers_tooth397 Před 4 lety +19

    Just a vent
    I have a very close friend and we are very affectionate to eachother, hugs cuddles, her just poking my face to make me laugh and I grew to always know that every one in my friend group at my school can and will give me any affection. Physical or just verbal. But since the break I haven't been able to hug her for over three weeks, let alone see her. I only text her. I try to compensate for the loss of physical affection from my family but none are interested in hugging or atleast giving me verbal affection. This video was a complete emotion trip for me. I legitimately cried. Thank you so much.

  • @siriusgray1136
    @siriusgray1136 Před 4 lety +26

    He asked to take his hand in mine and I literally nodded and teared up because I’ve been so stressed..

  • @patrycjanajdowska7104
    @patrycjanajdowska7104 Před rokem +6

    If there was a job called "professional hugger", Jim would be perfect, don't change my mind

  • @Squeezy-db3vv
    @Squeezy-db3vv Před 4 lety +22

    My autistic-ass brain: "I will not study, I will not study, I will not study--"
    Me: "How 'bout if we listen to the soothing British guy while we do it?"
    My brain: "....I'm listening."

  • @miracleboi7336
    @miracleboi7336 Před 4 lety +55

    aayyee lemme just share that im extremely reluctant on physical contact towards males but at the ssame time i yearn to be hug and cared for by a man in a not sexual way but a gentle affectionate way but the problem is i have major trust issues and i loathe physical contact so this warms my heart in so many levels. thank you jim

    • @josskeating
      @josskeating Před 4 lety +5

      I totally understand you...

    • @phorion11
      @phorion11 Před 4 lety +4

      Same...

    • @lauralopez2484
      @lauralopez2484 Před 4 lety +4

      I totally feel ya
      It gets me terrible anxious every time a male friend wants to hug me
      I Know they mean no harm but still :c

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker Před 4 lety +2

      This is a big mood hello 👋

  • @asexualtrickster
    @asexualtrickster Před 4 lety +35

    As someone who suffers from extreme anxiety that often prevents me from sleep, your videos are one of the few things that knock me out. Thank you for your hard work ❤

  • @abulafia1090
    @abulafia1090 Před 4 lety +26

    You.... Your heart...... Your soul..... Your sensibility.......... Your love for us...... The world is not so horrible if you have Jim in your ears..... Thanks... Just......... Thanks ❤️

  • @NanohaHime13
    @NanohaHime13 Před 4 lety +39

    PLEASE TOUCH ME MORE!!! I mean.... I'm calm :)))))

  • @BereG96
    @BereG96 Před 4 lety +63

    Jim: "I'm going to touch your face, nothing crazy, I promise"
    Jim: *Proceeds to poke all over said face* 😐😜🤭

  • @MonicaRohini
    @MonicaRohini Před 4 lety +97

    I'm sorry if this sounds creepy, but you have pretty lips.

    • @miraistired
      @miraistired Před rokem +4

      And his smile is so cute like mischievous looking 😭

  • @bluesky-xi9zv
    @bluesky-xi9zv Před 4 lety +21

    This boy's an actual therapy

  • @Rin..995
    @Rin..995 Před rokem +4

    This video made me realise how touch starved I actually am.. the household that I live in isn't the best due to all the fighting, screaming & door slamming/kicking that goes on nearly every day. It's rather depressing that I have been dealing with this ever since I was 4 years old (basically for 10 years already.), I didn't deserve to deal with this at such a young age. I'm truly glad that you made this video, it makes me feel so much better whenever I feel horrible. Thank you, Jim. 🧡

    • @Izfizlizard
      @Izfizlizard Před měsícem +1

      I’m sorry you have to experience that, same situation here but it’s getting a bit better for me. I hope you can heal and find a place where you feel safe. Sending hugs from Australia. 💛

  • @OzgeSonmezler
    @OzgeSonmezler Před 3 lety +6

    It’s like gary oldman and heath ledger had a child and there is you :)

    • @belalu9315
      @belalu9315 Před 3 lety

      And Tom Hiddleston blessed those two🥰

  • @DruidBarbariansCampfire
    @DruidBarbariansCampfire Před 4 lety +28

    This was so sweet of you. Ugh, these things never make me cry like this.
    I’ve never needed a shoulder rub more. Or a hug, for that matter.

  • @OkiRose
    @OkiRose Před rokem +6

    This is honestly really beautiful. Platonic care and sincere comfort is severely underrated.

  • @cassiopeiadee9306
    @cassiopeiadee9306 Před 4 lety +48

    I was just watching a couple of your Doctor Roberts videos last night because you're so good at triggering the close-up feels, and then to see this new one's title excited me like little else has in this troubling time. My favorite part was the untimed breathing at 12:37--I personally find timed breathing a little stressful, but this moment of naturally breathing together, and the sounds of your varied breaths, was so very calming and deeply connecting, would love to see an extended version of this sometime. My other fave was the face cupping and touching section at 16:01, especially 16:44 on and that eye contact. So very digitally intimate. Enjoyed how you handled the sirens (amazed there's still so much traffic there tho!)...pause, acknowledge, take control, and move on. The focus on control throughout was lovely, and a little blushy. ;D Ahhhh that voice and diction of yours, never tire of it! Much gratitude for this special video, helping so many of us!

  • @PlatinumRoseLady
    @PlatinumRoseLady Před 4 lety +17

    "You are okay."
    And you, Jim, are simply a lovely person. Thank you so much for this and for all you do.

  • @chelle22968
    @chelle22968 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I know this video is quite old (by CZcams standards) but I needed a cuddle last night and the reassurance that everything is going to be ok. While I realize this was meant for a very anxious time in particular, I feel it us timeless. I am, as always, impressed by your eloquence and very grateful for what you do. Thank you ❤

  • @porknbeans1977
    @porknbeans1977 Před 4 lety +67

    This is so calming and reassuring. It doesn't hurt that Jim's so gorgeous. 😘

    • @Elizabeth-gy8ou
      @Elizabeth-gy8ou Před 4 lety +3

      Well, the last one can be a distraction from falling asleep.

    • @baileyt.931
      @baileyt.931 Před 4 lety +3

      TaryAnn Agreed haha

  • @lumy232
    @lumy232 Před rokem +10

    You really do have powers, Jim!
    Because here I am, waiting for my mother who is currently undergoing surgery (to hopefully rid her of cancer), and you came as a blessing and gave me a much needed boost of hope and faith. 🤗
    Being someone who constantly feels insecure, and struggling with mental illness, I've been trying to support her and comfort her as best as I can, but... I definitely needed some of that support and comfort as well. It's like you charged my batteries for the day!
    Thank you so much for this! ♡ 🙏

  • @UndeadGrizzly44
    @UndeadGrizzly44 Před 4 lety +10

    For someone with Chronic Depression and anxiety, that first hug almost made me break down and cry lol Thank you Jim 🖤💖🖤💖

  • @lilypecarsky6831
    @lilypecarsky6831 Před 4 lety +23

    I didn’t realize how badly I needed someone to tell me everything was going to be okay

  • @carliroberts4180
    @carliroberts4180 Před 4 lety +9

    Omg the consent questioning at the beginning and that "you will be okay" had me in melted.

  • @livialancini3211
    @livialancini3211 Před 4 lety +15

    DAMN, HIS VOICE! I am so in love with his tone. I could listen to him for hours.
    (It's a pity though that the videos are always so dark and grey)

  • @anitawilliams6312
    @anitawilliams6312 Před 4 lety +58

    My mum thinks I’m ill because I’ve gone red from blushing she’s taking my temperature 😂

  • @neonfujoshi
    @neonfujoshi Před 4 lety +12

    When he started saying everything is going to be okay over and over, I broke down and started crying and got so overwhelmed with what's going on in my life.

  • @ashton9254
    @ashton9254 Před 4 lety +17

    didnt realize how touch starved i was til i watched this and was like :,)

  • @tarad0607
    @tarad0607 Před rokem +10

    This was truly beautiful, so thoughtful and timely, and a wonderful reminder for self-care. I will be rewatching this often, for that reminder. Thank you, Jim.

    • @icerose920
      @icerose920 Před rokem +2

      I truly wish so much you would make an updated video just like this one. This truly helps my panic attacks, and also makes me feel that I can connect more with people and not be so scared. Your sincerity in this video make this such a truly beautiful and much needed blessing in these times. Thank you so very much

  • @julie7552
    @julie7552 Před 4 lety +34

    Yay! Virtual hugs! :)

  • @andiem4897
    @andiem4897 Před 4 lety +11

    So thoughtful... I wish there were more asmr-ists doing vids like this instead of covid medical RPs.
    You're the best once again, Jim.

  • @Mirrima
    @Mirrima Před 4 lety +29

    And btw traffic sounds are so familiar - I had the same problem at my old apartment, I got so used to it that they are relaxing now😅

    • @Evee_b_music
      @Evee_b_music Před 4 lety +6

      Outside: *Sirens going off, traffic, explosions...*
      Us: "Don’t care. Hugging Jim. All is well. ❤️"

  • @theblackrosedaughter
    @theblackrosedaughter Před 3 lety +4

    Watching this and my idiot brain can't help but imagine the idea of you in a room just hugging the life outta your camera. This video was quite comforting and the thought gave me a good chuckle.

  • @Inkdrip0
    @Inkdrip0 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I always come back to this vid when I don’t know what to listen to and would love a new one!! 🖤🙏🙏

  • @lindathetford3776
    @lindathetford3776 Před 3 lety +5

    I wasn't upset or worried but my God that holding and back rubbing part was so soothing I love how calming you are jim I was like "never let go!" Being held by someone so handsome, kind and warm was wonderful

  • @bbqtoon
    @bbqtoon Před 4 lety +30

    This was so sweet. Thank you for everything you do for us! 🤗

  • @DivineMissEm80
    @DivineMissEm80 Před 4 lety +15

    We're so lucky to have you. Thank you so much for making me cry a minute in and giving all the relaxation and tingles. (The gentle jingles of your necklaces have to be one of my favorite sounds lately.)

  • @magdalenad399
    @magdalenad399 Před 4 lety +9

    I love that you decided to post a video with positive vibes, I saw a lot of ASMRtists doing 'testing for the virus' roleplays, and that's the opposite of what's needed. Thank You for giving us an amazing content again 💖

  • @cretaceousarachnid
    @cretaceousarachnid Před rokem +5

    Is it bad that when I first saw Jim appear I immediately said out loud, “I wanna brush and braid his hair.”

  • @dominimoonbeam
    @dominimoonbeam Před 4 lety +20

    This was so nice! I never know what kind of asmr I'm going to get from you (creepy, epic, or sweet) but I KNOW I'm going to love it.

  • @kristinscotbarryjames
    @kristinscotbarryjames Před 4 lety +16

    Recovering at home after surgery, I was feeling so sad and then I woke up to this lovely video! Made me smile and stopped the tears :) you are amazing, Thank you so much

    • @dandiejohnson5261
      @dandiejohnson5261 Před 4 lety +3

      I hope you get to feeling better. Sending you a full contact hug😉.

    • @franz3810
      @franz3810 Před 4 lety +2

      get recovered soon!

  • @hannele5045
    @hannele5045 Před 4 lety +7

    Reading the comments feeling that same overwhelming sense of thankfulness as everyone else. You are a sweet, caring man and you HELP people. Actually help. You need to know that and be proud of that. And I agree with them; your husband is a lucky man. Thank you for making us feel precious.

    • @loella_
      @loella_ Před 4 lety

      He has said that he has a wife. Lucky woman indeed.

  • @ArtificiallyIdiotic
    @ArtificiallyIdiotic Před 4 lety +17

    Everyone: yo that was the best asmr experience I've ever had in my life
    Me: falls asleep in the first minute, has no idea what's going on in the video, has no opinion on it's contents, enjoys it anyways

  • @harleyrahs9761
    @harleyrahs9761 Před 4 lety +12

    Thank you Jim! ❤ I needed this. You're my favorite asmr artist. Hearing "it's going to be okay" from you means a lot.

  • @tarad0607
    @tarad0607 Před rokem +6

    I just discovered this community a little while ago, so I’m playing major catch up here. But, I just want to say how absolutely beautiful this video is and, given the timing of it, how very worthwhile and necessary it was. Even now, at the end of the terrible times of isolation and loneliness that the pandemic did to us all, it’s so wonderful to be reminded that we’re all in control, and everything will be ok. Thank you, Jim.

  • @rose.b.99
    @rose.b.99 Před 4 lety +3

    I feel like you're the kind of person that never has and never will fail a vibe check. You, even through a screen, give me that feeling of not being alone. We need more people like you.

  • @Lexiimarie13
    @Lexiimarie13 Před 4 lety +8

    I just recently found your channel but.. I wanted to let you know your voice is amazing. Your videos that I have watched so far have made me feel like the only person in the world. So calm and relaxed. Thank you so much for what your doing, your amazing ❤️❤️

  • @AldysAguero
    @AldysAguero Před 4 lety +20

    This is beautiful, I'm gonna play it everyday until this quarantine ends😊❤️
    Hope everyone is doing well and stay safe, please💕
    Greetings from Argentina!🇦🇷

  • @just_your_local_he_they
    @just_your_local_he_they Před 2 lety +6

    I really needed this I cried when you asked me to hold you're hand and hugged me I'm so touch starved and depressed plus my mom yelled at me tonight about sleeping in (even though it'd my summer break) the bad thoughts were really coming in and you distracted me from them and made them go away for a bit

  • @maev.v.4408
    @maev.v.4408 Před 4 lety +5

    "You are in complete control of the situation"
    Thank you for this! I've never heard such a phrase in any ASMR video before, but that is such a comforting phrase. Especially in the context of touching! I feel so at ease 🙏

  • @madlymidnight25
    @madlymidnight25 Před 4 lety +23

    This is exactly what I’ve been needing while stuck at home in self-quarantine, and it’s absolutely wonderful. Thank you so much, Jim! 😁

  • @HuntressZelda
    @HuntressZelda Před 4 lety +10

    This is so perfect and so needed right now. Like a lot of people, I've been touch starved because of the quarantine and this really helped. The part during the massage where you said the things about how the viewer controls the situation and can stop if they want almost made me cry! I've been through a sexual assault and am still mentally recovering from it, so hearing that caught me off guard! Great job, Jim, and thank you!

    • @jodie4173
      @jodie4173 Před 3 lety

      I hope that you are doing better.I wish you the best of luck in these hard times xxx

  • @heysza9905
    @heysza9905 Před 4 lety +14

    Face touches are my favorite! Thank you 😊

  • @kimyonie9251
    @kimyonie9251 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Make me feel comfort all of a sudden

  • @pinkcarrot7210
    @pinkcarrot7210 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I just found this channel a few days ago via the sirius black videos and I was impressed and then I found the Dracula video and I still haven't stopped wishing you would bite me, (in a good way) and now after this video I just want a special hug from you! ❤😂

  • @my_watercooler_romance
    @my_watercooler_romance Před rokem +6

    this video made me realize how lonely i am oh my god-

  • @aniraseraug2104
    @aniraseraug2104 Před 4 lety +31

    Thank you so much Jim!! The timing for this is perfect. Not gonna lie I really wanted to return the favor and massage your shoulders in return! I loved your wink it was just so cute made my heart swell with happiness. Your work is amazing. It feels more like interacting with a friend. I swear it feels like you read my mind at times. All the blessings to you and all the thanks in the world! EDIT: Might we get some head pats and/or hair petting?

  • @Milkymommy09
    @Milkymommy09 Před 4 lety +8

    I come to these super loving, soothing, comforting videos for aftercare after watching the torture, murder, interrogation ones lol

  • @chicago6084
    @chicago6084 Před rokem +8

    Only Jim’s hair can cure my depression 😭👌

  • @finiwattam3525
    @finiwattam3525 Před 4 lety +5

    This is such a kind idea. I’m lucky enough to be quarantined with a loved one (honestly I could use a little more distance lol) but I’ve been really worrying about people who are stuck inside alone in these anxious times.

  • @amberg8134
    @amberg8134 Před 3 měsíci +1

    3 years later and your videos are still helping. I’ve had a really hard evening.. and this helped settle me a lot..

  • @BornotB-xi6kg
    @BornotB-xi6kg Před 4 lety +40

    Him: I'd like to start with a hug if that's okay?
    Me, a teenager: *Absolutely, let's do this.*