MOVING IN WITH EACH OTHER "THE REALITY" FT ILUVSARAHII
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- čas přidán 19. 01. 2020
- finally we have the beautiful @iluvsarahii on LA PLATICA!!
we only felt right to talk about the early stages of moving in with each other!
the commitment and struggles that we faced! so grab some snack cus this is a long one!
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Omg NEEEEEED TO SEE KAREN MORE LIKE THIS!!!!! she's literally SOOO cute all casual!!!!!!
Can we get a couples collab with Jon and Katy?? 😬
bastante por favor!
Arpi Hovs yesss 👏
Yes!!
PLEASSEEEEEE!!!!!
Add desi & Steven too while you’re at it
This is the realest most relatable convo ever. The guilt, the sadness, the growth in relationship w the parents... it was reliving when I moved out.
I know I cried... it was so funny because Sebas was like okay shut up with emotional Karen lmao 😂
When Karen said “clean as you goooo” with her eyes all big 😂 I FELT THAT!!!!! 🥴
The way Karen talks about how she felt when she moved out, missing her parents and feeling guilty for not being with them is exactly how I feel even thinking about moving out. I feel like no matter what I would not be able to leave my parents. I feel like I need to be with them especially with my dad being on dialysis now and all of his appointments. And it sucks that I do want to move out with my boyfriend but I start crying even thinking about it lol I LOVE YOU SO MUCH KAREN
Karla Torres girl we need to talk because same!! My dad is disabled and it’s so hard to put yourself first when it feels like everyone needs you.
Diana Becerra yessss. My brother had moved 2 hours away and he moved back to my city to be closer to my parents. He lives 5 minutes away now and he calls everyday to check up on how we’re doing lol. It’s especially hard thinking about how much your parents have done for you and like there’s nothing you wouldn’t do to try to repay them
I moved out while attending college, I didn't feel guilty but I was home sick. After I graduated I moved back mainly because my dad got ill, and now that I am thinking of the near future I do start to feel guilty about this potential move. My dad is also on dialysis, I completely relate. It is difficult.
Wendy Gomez I’ve had conversations with my parents about how I don’t want to leave or be far away and my dad is always super encouraging about pursuing jobs even if they’re a little far because he says he knows that’s how life is. It’s nice to know that he understand that but it’s still so hard to think about leaving. Ultimately I’ve decided that I don’t want to leave so I’m trying to do my best to not leave yet lol. I hope everything works out with your situation ❤️
I was the same, I would cry just thinking about leaving my parents- So I knew I wasn’t ready. I left home when I was actually excited to move. Don’t get me wrong, it hurt to leave my parents. One of the most heartbreaking things I have gone through. I see them everyday but I still miss them- & it’s normal.
BUT Do what makes you THE HAPPIEST! I will pray for your peace of mind and your family.
This is giving me so many feels. I'm 25, still at home, trying to save, and how you guys felt, I feel that right now.
Neelivé Serrano Stay on your grind girl! Échale ganas, mija!
Same I’m 23 but my goal is to move out by the end of this year👀
Save save save your money girl
Thanks ladies!!💕
“We just put a deposit down, cheer up!”😂😂
Awww i love how she’s all smiley and giggli when she’s with him 🥰
Nancy Valdovinos love their chemistry!
listening to la platica feels like hanging with the homies, love yall
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I’m watching this at work with a knot in my throat trying not to cry listening to Karen and her experience leaving her parents behind 😭 very relatable. I’m 26, still at home wanting to move out with my bf too. I give my parents money from every check and I’m in charge of paying all the bills online for them. You can’t help but feel guilty for wanting to leave and not helping anymore! 😩
Vanessa Hernandez girl you’re not the only one! I can relate. 🙏🏼
True 🥺💔
Similar situation 🥺 but it’s just my mom, single mom that I can’t begin to think about leaving her living alone.
Girl, you hit it right on the nail!!
This topic is just what I needed to hear. I’m moving out with my fiancé in March for the first time ever y me pongo a llorar nomás con la idea. Im the baby of the family so I’ll be leaving my parents with an empty nest and I feel so guilty 🥺 I’ll be starting a new chapter in my life and my parents will be closing one and it’s gets me so choked up.
The way Karen smiles and talks about you, that’s amor baby.
I'm sure a lot of Latinos can relate. Also, you can tell you both come from different style households, in a way. Like Karen's parents are more old school. Great points for young ones to listen & hopefully take into consideration before making a big decision before moving out. I'm definitely more Karen & yes, I'm crazy but we're also great women lol.
Pinchi Karen mírala sin makeup esta bien chulaaaaa! Sebas you’re a lucky guy! ❤️
I love #LaPlatica!!!!!
I like how honest Karen was here, I wish she would do stories times or something on her channel allowing us to know more abt her. I like how open she was on here, I felt like I was able to connect with her more on here. 💜 a lot of the things she said were very relatable. I got married at 25 and we had never lived together and I feel like it’s definitely important to live with the other person first. I cried for a long time bc I missed home and I just didn’t know how to adjust to another person. I dnt regret it but I definitely had to adjust .
This is my first time listening to “La Platica” and definitely your talk was relatable. Can’t wait for the next one.
Sebas “que rollo güey”
Karen “que rollo con el chicken pollo” lmaoo
I just love how Karen was so fresh face and so smiley! She’s absolutely beautiful
The way she talks about her parents in this hit hard. Moving out definitely makes you appreciate your family so much more ❤️
We need more relationship advice from you guys !
It’s so cute how Karen is so shy it’s like you a first date or you’re with your crush lol.
Been living with my husband for 6 years now. I gave up on decorative towels because this fool drys up after a shower with them when he forgets his towel. So if you come to my place just know you might be drying your hands in the place he dried his fundillo on 🥴
Girl I almost died with your comment 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Same !!!!! I think I’ve finally trained him to always take UR TOWEL ! Like don’t wipe ur ass with nothing else than your towel.
Lmao
I died so hard at your comment girl LOL made my night😂😂
“Fodonga ass muchacha”😂😂😂😂
Leslie Marin 🤣🤣💀💀
Shit my husband still does after 10 years of marriage that still pisses me off:
1. Leaves his clothes in the bathroom floor or the bedroom floor (and they pile up)
2. Never feeds/cleans up after the dog
3. Never helps with dinner or baths for the kids
4. Leaves hot coffee everywhere within our 2 year olds reach
5. Leaves his pelos everywhere after he shaves
6. Leaves wet toallas on the floor y no las extiende so then they stink
7. Never locks the front door
In all fairness he works full time in the military and does college full time for a bachelors degree in biochemistry. I love him and our family and I’m sure even when we’re old, done with school and work and retired I’m sure I’ll still find his pelos from shaving everywhere and the dirty clothes/wet towels on the floor 👴🏻👵🏼 🪒🧺
RELATABLE AF
RELATABLE AF
RELATABLE AF
RELATABLE AF, Period
I am Karen! I Clean as I go, I worked in a restaurant for seven years and I have that mentality in my everyday routine, organizing etc.. It is like THERAPY!
My man is Sebas and Karen mixed, he is very clean & organized man pero, no mames, I cant get his ass to remember to get his water cups outta my room leaves them there chiilen like they gonna wash themselves lol.
Loved this. As someone who has been going through a hard adulthood transition in a Mexican home, one of the challenges me and my partner are facing is taking that next step and moving out. But financial security is just one of the challenges, no one ever mentions the attachment to our parents especially at an older age and leaving the nest. Both of yalls thoughts, comments, and experiences, were very insightful.
Shout-out to Mili! I am a UCLA Alumna 17' Happy late Birthday Bruin!
Saludos des de el 818 Valle !
Sebas: “don’t make your eyes like that” “ I’m not crazy” 😂😂😂😂
I think its a Mexican thing to not pay rent. My parents would never take my money they’re too proud
a r I’m Colombian and same. I was never asked for that
Pretty much all Latinos
Idk. I’m salvy my family wouldnt hesitate to take mine lol
Adriana Gil lmao
Chinese people don’t really do this either
I felt so emotional watching this. Just 5 years ago, I started dating my boyfriend who was another race and my parents didn’t approve and kicked me out. I was homeless for 3 months before saving enough for an apartment deposit and rent. It was awfully hard. I remember all of those feelings and I won’t say it was exciting for me. That’s one thing that I will never have is that exciting “moving out” feeling. I won’t go into the emotional times back then but fast forward to today, I own my own home with our son and same boyfriend. In pharmacy school and have a CZcams channel and feel like I have such a happy life and all of the heartache was worth it. My boyfriend and I moving in together after being in a relationship for 3 years, it was definitely different but we are thriving living together better than living separate. Love this podcast!
i’m 20 almost 21 and i still live with my parents. i’m the youngest and i’m suuuuuper chipilona (i’m not afraid to admit that lol.) just the thought of me having to move out makes me want to cry!! i know i’ll have to eventually move out one day but for now i’m taking advantage of my living with my parents and spending as much time as i can with them.
I cried every night after I moved out from my parents house for like a month. Glad to know I’m not alone.
“real quick, I didn’t wash my AAssssSss”
“okay your balls”
Lmfaoooooo.
Omg when Karen said her dad slept in her room I SOBBBEDDDDD😭😭😭😭💘💘💘
It’s a real eye opener, I feel like my boyfriend is my second child... like leaving laundry RIGHT NEXT to the laundry basket lol like why and like sebas said you REALLY have to consider that it’s not just you, definitely hard but manageable it takes a lot of compromise and communication 😊
I looove when Karen does those little cariños to Sebas. It’s so cute. Calling him baby 😭🥰 ah mi corazon
Invite your parents for a podcast, so we can see their point of view that would be great
I felt the same way moving out like I left my family behind. And when me and my bf moved to a super nice new build apt we were both like whoa I've never lived anywhere this nice.. then I'd feel so guilty that I'm living "nicer" than them and my 3 younger brothers.. and I've been trying to get them to move out of the area that I grew up in since it's only getting worse. And my youngest bro is in high school now in a bad area. It's all just a lot to try and accept. Our families will always be happy for us and want us to have more. As long as we still help when we can and when they need. One of the hardest traits to unlearn is to dim your happiness or success to people you love for the fear of upsetting them or making them jealous.
Finally the queen!
Pero like, why is karens voice soooooo soothing!
Leaving a mess when they cut there mustache on the sink !!! Ugh I hate it
Yareli Torres right and it’s everywhere!!!!
If this ain’t the truth !!!! 🤦🏻♀️
Yareli Torres for real! I clean it with HIS towel maybe that way he learns lmao
“Don’t put your eyes that big”
Sebas looked genuinely scared I cannot I replied that part hella times 😂😂😂😂
😂😂 My husband says that to me all the time and my reply is always, "what do you mean.. my eyes are like that!!"👁👁😂😂
Karen’s virgo perfectionists self comes out lmao I’m exactly the same! All virgos know!
100!
So true!!
Srsly lol!!
Is that a virgo trait? That explains my husband then 😂
Yessss
I’m freakin dying that they used the decorative towels 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lolove36 lol
Karen, I totally related when you spoke about missing your parents! I got married March of 2019 and I was depressed for about 1-2 months! I had anxiety attacks and cried myself to sleep. I know it sounds extreme, but it’s like you say, you realize a lot once you take that next step in your life! Loved this video guys 😘 keep them coming!
Karen: “IM NOT CRAAAAAZY 😳👀” ahahaha I love it
I can relate with the payday loans, single mother of three with no help at all is the hardest thing ever. But yes manifesting is amazing and one day I will be in a better place! 🤍
WOW, this episode got me very emotional because my husband and i are at square 1. I just got out of the Navy and we moved into my mother in laws house (Bless her) and shes not asking for money but we do our best for her to not worry about anything around the house. Its hard to not get discouraged sometimes but i know my husband and i are destined to do great things and when we are in a better position were helping our parents asap. Thanks for this episode you guys, i really needed to hear other people doing the same thing. Thanks you guys, seriously.
“Im not crazy” *said with huge, crazy eyes* lmao
I know Karen’s parents are from Mexicali and man this video is hella relatable. My dad is from Mexicali and he is extremely strict with me. I’m 22, 23 in two weeks and I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and I’m wanting to move out so bad because I hate having to leave my boyfriend after date nights and things like that. I’ve lived independently before when I moved to another city for college but I lived with other girls so my dad is not comfortable with me living with my bf unless I’m married. He wouldn’t even let us sleep in the same room during a Disney trip or during my college graduation. You guys are real for making this video and it makes me feel more confident moving forward. Right now we’re in that money saving stage of things which is very difficult when speaking numbers. But thank you guys for this, this podcast was amazing ❤️
I HAD to send so many screen recordings to my bf to be like “you see!?” 😂 This was amazing, guys, definitely helpful, but also still somewhat relatable even tho we don’t live together yet
*Yass the moment we’ve been waiting for 🙌🏼🙌🏼* love y’all ❤️❤️❤️
Those 57 minutes felt like 5.7 mins! So relatable, so good 👏🏻
Can you put this on itunes podcast?? I need something to listen to while im driving and youtube isnt practical when driving!!
It’s on Spotify ! ❤️❤️❤️
love this, love y’all ❤️ you guys are so humble & down to earth! this year will be great for you both!!!
It’s so refreshing to see how chill and real y’all are. It’s so inspiring to see people of our own background make it and see them live out their dreams. Keep grinding y’all 💕
When I first got married at 20 I cried for literally weeks! And I lived in the apartment that my parents built on top of their garage lol. Like I was literally so sad to have moved out yet I practically still lived with them. 11 years later I divorced, was single, and am now remarried living with my husband and three kids. For me I feel like my mom got used to me being there all the time, because out of her three kids I was and am the one who visits the most. But it’s to the point where she expects it out of me. And I still to this day find it hard to have a balance between my family I made, and the one I was born into. She unconsciously does it but if I don’t go visit her for one day she’ll give me a guilt trip or the silent treatment. Things I don’t see her doing with my siblings. Almost like the more you give the more they want type of deal. And I see now that I’m getting older that maybe a little distance is healthy, not only for me but for my family. I love my mom to death, she’s my best friend and it was so hard leaving her nest. But sometimes it’s necessary. I personally didn’t want to become so depended on by my parents that I forgot to make a life for myself. And the fact that I let it happen for so many years means that I’m still learning and still adjusting. Just yesterday my 8 year old son asked in the morning if I was going to grandmas house (my mom). And he asks me ‘mom why do you visit her every single day?’ And for a second I really didn’t have an answer! An honest answer to my sons question. And the more I thought about it the more I realized that I visit her everyday to avoid that guilt trip. To avoid her getting upset with me. And part of me realizes that this isn’t healthy. I don’t want my boys to grow up and feel that they need to visit me out of obligation or because I’ll get upset, I want them to visit me because they genuinely want to see me. Even if that means once every few weeks. My mom had a stroke a year ago and it’s been even harder having a little bit of distance, but if I let myself be there all day everyday, I find myself overwhelmed and even a bit unhappy because I let myself go. I let the things I love go. Because I’m spending all day everyday sitting on her couch. Anyways, the point to this I guess is don’t forget to make a life for yourself. Love your parents, visit them, spoil them, all of that. But don’t put yourself on the back burner. I saw a quote yesterday that I loved and needed to read that said
“The family you come from is important but the family you create is priority.”
I promise you your parents will love you no matter what you do! It may be hard to move out at first but they will always be there for you.
gabytalksmakeup wowwww I love this ! Thank u for sharing! This absolutely accurate.
My favorite one so far. I love how they are comfortable talking about their life experiences
This honestly opens my eyes so much! As a young girl starting her life I honestly feel it’s good to know others perspective on things and also experiences, it just opens a lot and makes you realize that it’s totally true!
After hearing episode 4 with Leche, I couldn’t contain myself for this one! 🔥 THANK YOU and KAREN for sharing this ❤️ This podcast hit on so many levels especially growing up Latin@ like you guys!
I can watch you two together for hours. Love to see you guys chill and just talking like no one is around.
you guys are literally my favoriteeees i need more videos of both of you together 😭 love this and you!! ❤️❤️
I❤️ this so much!
It’s like a sign from the universe, and I needed it!
You guys definitely need a PART 2!!!!
I know it was an hour, but definitely not enough time!
Can you guys talk more about the financial part of it? Or splitting chores? How you transitioned into ok, now we have a grasp of things?
This is real talk, so motivational and comforting all at the same time . We all have to hustle and motivate !
“I can’t lift my eyebrows up I have Botox” 😂😂
Loved this video! You guys are always so authentic and relatable! Def need more of these!
“You get to know each other on a different level.”
Yesss!! ❤️
Karen ... first of all saying you’re waiting for an invite don’t forget you’re the woman of the house ! Eres la que manda ! 😂😂💀 no but lowkey this one is probs my fav because I can watch you both together for hours love y’all and sending good vibes and love for you both this year 💖 and excited to get my la platica merch 😘🥺🔥
That “betrayal” feeling is such an interesting topic .. Hispanic cultures in general are very collectivist and your experiences compared to some of my college friends who aren’t Hispanic are so different. It’s so cool to be able to hear your and Karen’s story. I’m a senior in college rn and I’m living with my boyfriend this summer for an internship (that I hope turns into a job). Those 3 months will be our first taste of the “real” world and this convo helped sm and gave me great insight💓 love you two✨
Absolutely loved this podcast, everything y’all mentioned is so relatable that my workout literally flew by cause I enjoyed it so much. Keep up the good work. Can’t wait for my merch to arrive.
I love this segment, made me chuckle, relate, have aww moments. Such a necessary video to start the year with. Love you guys, cheers to a wonderful year! ✨🙌🏼
This is so relatable on so many levels. I moved out at 26 & moved right back in at 27. I’m 28 now. Living with my boyfriend was so many firsts, it was hard to adjust. First time moving out, first time being a mom, first time being away from home & my family. He was a clean freak & I was the messy one. I was used to living in Pasadena & I moved out to his house in Torrance being around his family, a whole new neighborhood. Everything was so new to me, I found it so hard to adjust. There were many things that we didn’t want to compromise on. My relationship eventually failed.
This experience taught me so much about relationships. You really don’t know anybody until you live together. Many things that I would change if I can go back in time. But in the end, our experiences are life lessons. Thank you for this podcast. I really reflected back on what relationships really mean when you push through the tough times & when you compromise with your significant other.
❤️❤️
Can you do a video on why men cheat usually & how to be in a healthy relationship & toxic friends and relationships please
First time listening to La Platica and Ive been missing out! Such a great episode, cant wait to catch up and watch the rest :)
Man y’all made me sob!! Loved this sooo much. I just got married this past September and moved in with my husband in November, so this hit home sooooo hard! I can definitely relate in the crying part.. I grew up super close to my family did everything with them so to not live with was SOO hard and it still is so hard emotionally. But it has definitely made me cherish and appreciate my parents in a whole new level. Our relationship has improved so much, they definitely respect me and see me and treat me so different. I would always fight with my parents because I’m the oldest and the only daughter so if your Mexican you already know how that is. It was really tough living with them in that sense but my god my parents gave me everything I need and more and still do so now. How Karen said it’s a chapter closing and a new one starting really hit me. I’m such an emotional person! I love my husband and it’s definitely SOO different living with someone you get to know them in a completely different way. Not gonna lie It’s been intense, being financially stable is hard and having to get used to living with each other and respecting our differences is so hard but I feel like when you find that right person it’s worth it. Please make more podcasts about this!! ❤️❤️
I’m only half way through the video and Karen has me balling 😭 I’m literally weeks away from moving in with my bf and I’m feeling every word you guys are saying!!
It literally feels like a whole new chapter being opened
I love love love this! This made me love you guys 100x more definitely in my feels 🥺 when Sarahi was saying that as you grow older & grow with your parents you actually value them more it’s 100% truth. Parents deserve the best just imagine them not asking you for money for rent cause they want to see you GROW & not hold you back. 😭🥺
Yes!! Living together is so different from just seeing each other everyday. Keeping the relationship alive and having to compromise is something that needs to be worked on everyday.
Wow! I just love how RELATABLE y’all are !! I’ve always said we all struggle on many levels - some of us just keep pushing forward instead of “settling” 🙋🏻♀️
Ohhh Karen you made me tear up! Everything you said about your moving out experience was me! I moved out at 26, cried for the first few weeks every night.. luckily for me my parents lived a few mins away so I could still visit them every day or every other day. Here we are 3 years later and I still call her at least once a day. It feels so good to know I wasn’t the only one 💕
My man and I who just moved in together are listening to this while doing laundry and we can’t stop laughing because this is so relatable 😂🥺❤️
I love watching you guys interact so so much. The way you look at each other thinking about how far you guys is so inspiring! You guys are so relatable too, just like everyone else I 1000000000% relate to LITERALLY EVERY WORD you guys said. Please keep these coming!!! ❤️
Omg!!! I love this video it’s so raw and real!! I totally agree with you both!! It’s a different dynamic once you live together! And it’s really hard because you have to compromise so much!!! And having to communicate when you need to ask to change this habit or to ask to clean it’s so hard because things can go south or things can actually change!
This video couldn’t come at a better time. I’ve been stressing about the uncertainty of how things will be like when I move in with my fiancé. I can totally relate to you Karen, about being kinda of the backbone of the family. I already started crying because I’m leaving in two weeks. Thanks for sharing tips on compromise and adapting to your significant other. You two are a great examples que si se puede despite all the odds. Much love for you two💕
Sebas trying to make his voice deeper when he said “I’m pretty manly” 😂 as of he doesn’t have a whole skincare routine
This is the third video I’ve watched in the past 2 days and I’m so obsessed 💗💗💗 & let me just say I LOVE the merch, every other person always come out with a plain black hoodie with a small logo but yours is actually something DIFFERENT !
I loved this so much 😭❤️ 100% relatable , I felt like I was having a conversation with friends ! WE NEED MORE !
This hit me right in the feels 😞 I moved out and got married when I was 19. I was legit depressed for like 5 months, I would cry all the time. It still is hard sometimes and I’m going on 5 years of being moved out. I have my two babies now, and I can only imagine how my parents felt. My dad was also the emotional one, every time I’m over he hugs me and gives me kisses 💜 Every once in a while me and the babies go and sleep over and it’s the best time ever lol
100% relatable....
Enjoyed this platica with the two of you 👌🏼
i’ve never related to anything more. thank you for sharing your story. the parallels to my own life make me feel like everything is going to be ok the way its worked out for you both.
This is such a good video and I need more videos like this !! This is so wholesome ! And makes me drop the pressure a bit bc u guys moved out when u were older vs most people give u shit if ur not out by 20 when in reality it’s hard, relationships are challenging, etc. thanks for the AMAZING content ! Keep them coming 👏🏻👏🏻
I WAS WAITING FOR HER SPECIAL INTRO FROM YOU 😭😭😭😭
Omg I thought we were the only couple like this!!!! People make it seem like living with your significant other is so easy but IT IS NOT!!!!!! And the whole Mexican parents thing is SO TRUE!!!! Me & my boyfriend have been living together for almost 2 years & they still pressure us to get married. Well my mom at least! My dad is like whatever about it. Oh man it’s a breath of fresh air to know we are not alone in this. I literally cried for MONTHS! I moved from CA to VA, so it hit a lot harder.
Oh & I’m a little of both. Media fodonga but also super organized lol my boyfriend is a mix of both too but we balance each other out. Lol
Honestly watching this just makes sense the connection you both have. The commitment to each other wow! Wishing you both sooooooo much happiness!
This is the first podcast I ever watch/listen to and it’s honestly really cool how you guys can go back and forth so casually like this and it wasn’t some type of argument. Really shows how much balance and respect you guys have for each other talking about all these things together!
I was like Karen I cried when I first moved out of my parents house with my boyfriend but eventually it got better, Now I love it but Financially there has to be communication 😭❤️
I couldn’t stop laughing when they started talking about the decorative towels I felt that 😂😩
Which kind of towels would they be tho lmao
Yessss your story is definitely super relatable!! Love you guys! Loved how you both started from the bottom and grew to the top!! Motivation.
The struggle is real of moving out
We need more of these talks!! Love you guys 💕💕💕
Idk if they’ll see this comment, but thank you for talking about this! My boyfriend was listening to the podcast while he was playing his video game and as I was watching you and listening to you guys talk about what it’s like to move out made me realize how there’s no rush to move of course! But how you need to save in order to move and so you can live comfortably rather than living tight/broke and that causing problems in your relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, we’re young he’s 23 and I’m 22, I moved in with his family after being together for about a year. The only reason I moved in with him is because like you guys were mentioning the constant driving back and forth, it just kinda became tiring because we always wanted to just be with each other 24/7 which we still do. His parents adore me and I’m thankful for that, but the thing I moved out because I didn’t want my parents spending more on a 3 bedroom apart just so I could have my own room. So that’s where I decided just to move in with my boyfriend and there are times where I wish we could just move out, but then we can’t because financially it’s still tight. We pay all the small bills such as car, phone and insurance plus rent but it’s not a lot but it sure feels like a lot because we end up being tight in the end. I’ve mentioned to my boyfriend before about moving out because “I just wanna be on our own” but I know we can’t because we haven’t saved enough. Unfortunately I compare myself with my brother and sister in-law, they’re younger than us by a year or so and they have a kid and they basically grew up faster than we did. They live in low income apartments and make much more than we do and sometimes I envy what they have such as living on their own and just having their sh*t together makes me feel bad since we’re older and I know it’s not the right thing to do, but I constantly compare myself with them. I just wanted to know what are some things that helped you guys in the long run such as paying bills and just overall adulting. (Aside from that we live together in his room, we both work full time jobs) I also wanted to say thank you guys for making this video because it really made me realize that there isn’t a rush but most importantly key things about moving out what to expect as well as growing up in general! Love you guys both!!
It's TRUE how crazy all this is. I had went through all the same things with my bf. But after learning how to communicate and compromising, 5 years later we are very happy we made it through all of it.
I love when there's long BUT good content. I love watching your podcast and watching you guys together!!!❤️ I have felt all those feels! Love La Platica! And please make that sweater official merch!🙏🏼
This is so relatable per usual! Y’all are an inspiration. 10/10 on this podcast you guys!!