Stories of Aging Out - Baily

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  • čas přidán 9. 06. 2009
  • Baily shares her story with honesty and candor, speaking lovingly of the foster mother who has given her a sense of family.

Komentáře • 25

  • @CheriDawn
    @CheriDawn Před 4 měsíci +1

    I hope this young lady went on to flourish. She’s beautiful.

  • @rawmark
    @rawmark Před 12 lety +16

    Wow, every child deserves to have a family to call their own. That's why I'm adopting one or two older boys as a single dad and a third that's younger. I'm lucky enough that I work from hom and have a great support system. I just want to get a couple of older boys a chance at having a family with a real home, a dog and a dad to call their own.

  • @peterjeffery8495
    @peterjeffery8495 Před 4 lety +3

    If we could only get every social service worker to take a real close look at Baily's face around 3:37. She had just related being told by the adoption agency at 15 1/2 that "I was too old to be adopted and they said no one would want me". Go back and listen to her retell what "officials" supposedly working on her behalf told her, then pause the video and look at the expression on her face.Just that one quick image of her face reliving that painful moment is incredibly gut wrenching. Add to the "must see list "politicians responsible for funding child service agencies. Reducing social service budgets without realizing the human cost of those cuts to programs that help kids like Baily is cruel. AdptUS Kids you are doing an incredible job of bringing the plight of these kids to the world, thanks for all you do.

  • @maryhollingsworth4627
    @maryhollingsworth4627 Před 8 lety +1

    What a gal. Love this girl. Great way to tell her story.

  • @larm2074
    @larm2074 Před 9 lety +10

    Poor thing. Shame that the foster care broke the sisters apart

  • @makeapennycry
    @makeapennycry Před 11 lety +5

    how sad that her foster mom has been unofficially adopted by this wonderful young woman, but not legally adopted by the foster mom :(

  • @upcycle
    @upcycle Před 14 lety +1

    very informative. The spirit is strong/vibrent in this person.

  • @WriteSign
    @WriteSign Před 5 lety +3

    Dang it Baily, I adore you! You are so strong and awesome. I wish I could adopt so badly... but I know I don't make enough money for the home study people to say it's ok.

    • @thatsdebatable1361
      @thatsdebatable1361 Před 3 lety

      You don’t have to be rich by any means!!!! You never know unless you try!!

  • @MyWebsite2006
    @MyWebsite2006 Před 12 lety

    Wow this is a powerful story.

  • @JimGoddard100
    @JimGoddard100 Před 12 lety

    Great video. Very powerful. Worth sharing with others who grew up in care and had similar experiences.

  • @fredhileman1317
    @fredhileman1317 Před 4 lety

    You are one amazing man. Namaste

  • @Noneofurbiznsjsbaauabaaahhsbss

    God bless you

  • @clintoningram6354
    @clintoningram6354 Před 9 lety +1

    My name is Clinton Ingram and I want you to know Im proud of you my story is alot different. Come sign my petition to stand of for aged out foster kids.

  • @mcsmail6672
    @mcsmail6672 Před 3 lety +1

    Since the system seems to make it quite difficult to provide a home or adopt 18 yr olds or aging out young adults, it would be so helpful if they assisted the young adult to be emancipated and provide a means of listing those who are aging out and still want to be adopted. I think the young adult and the person who has a home or employment opportunity available should be able to meet and discuss without home visits, rules about cross state adoptions, etc. I see that many aging out young adults are being kept from good adoptive homes just because of rules. Does anyone know of a database where aging out young adults who want guidance or adoption can place their info and those providing homes, employment, etc could place their info for the aging out as a match up. Keep in mind all privacy, safety, etc.

  • @kellygeister7913
    @kellygeister7913 Před 10 lety

    your are inspiring Baily! truly :)

  • @marianmorgan2156
    @marianmorgan2156 Před 19 dny

    So sad

  • @jeniseexley2826
    @jeniseexley2826 Před 2 lety

    Poor kids have no self worth

  • @forreal245
    @forreal245 Před 5 lety

    1:18..."I wanted to go out & do things" AKA she was running wild! I won't foster because these kids bring a boatload of emotional problems with them. Also, they grow up to be adults & can go back & harm their foster parents. It's dangerous to be a foster parent.

    • @Amber-ky2hz
      @Amber-ky2hz Před 5 lety +3

      for real . I don’t know- she visits once a week and for holidays, doesn’t sound dangerous. I can understand if fostering isn’t for you, but worrying that they will grow up to come back and harm you is a little dramatic.

    • @julietteachieng7069
      @julietteachieng7069 Před 4 lety +3

      You are dramatic

    • @michaelpadilla141
      @michaelpadilla141 Před 5 měsíci

      What a silly and irresponsible comment from someone bringing their own baggage into these comments.