Let's ignore the blackfishing for a moment. She still bullied Leigh on ig live over a fake message some dude nobody knows got. Jesy also kept talking about how Leigh's just skin and bones even if it was uncomfortable for her. She was also making fun of Jade being thin after her eating disorder. Yet the girls never made fun of her. Never.
@@izziemeghan2446 it's not only true but also on a video in an interview. She tought it was okay calling Leigh "just a skin and bones" infornt of a camera. What a sick person Nelson is.
@@anden4518 I don’t recall her saying any of those things but ok all she said to jade on live was about her eating and not gaining weight. Sure we all should probably not say things like that but she didn’t say it maliciously, in her head she probably saw it as a good thing.
But then keeping her mouth closed when someone else was bullying her bandmate, as she is the only victim here and the other member were never affected too by other things.
@@miapresley5196Bullying: seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce (someone perceived as vulnerable). "Take them text messages and shove it up your f**king a**, because when you do clown s**t, I got to treat you and talk to you like a clown." Add that to Nicki being a much more influential artist with more fans, so Leigh-Anne is definitely more "vulnerable".. it's textbook :) Jesy has experienced bullying of her own, so it's disappointing to see her giggling and laughing when Nicki went off. 🤷🏻♀️
Don’t agree with how she’s been behaving lately, but I always thought that the music they put out as a group didn’t really represent the kind of music Jesy wanted to release.
She's lost my respect that's for sure, she was a inspiration to me, being a curvy woman... I think its selfish that she's blaming the other girls, they were there for her and she's making out they weren't, she's fake inside and out. And I'm seeing now how much of a nasty piece of work she actually is.
I don’t think any of the girls like the music they were making, Leigh Anne always wanted to do music that stuck to her Caribbean roots like the song Joan of arc
If what she wanted was Boyz then she needs self AND race evaluation. Aka a REALITY CHECK. The song is trash and would still be trash no matter how many Cardi Bs or Nikki Minajs you put on there. This is separate to the BLACKFISHING.
@@KshipsinKchups you don't need to bash her. Jesy is talented as hell and u can lie to yourself but she has a voice and she has the stage presence. Something u can't do what she's doing is wrong hold her accountable than bashing her. She can sing, she can dance and she showed us that when she was in the group.
The documentary I watched about her mental health made me uncomfortable tbh. I felt bad for her because nobody should be bullied the way she was, period. But she made her band mates lives really difficult and mental health issues do not excuse poor behaviour or toxic behaviour. I think she needs to take some accountability tbh. Big victim energy and she is a victim of bullying but I think she’s a bit of a bully in some terms just my opinion, especially after that live with Nicki, after everything Leanne has done for her. Nasty.
I don’t feel sorry for her. I did at first, when she said her reasoning for leaving was because of the constant bullying from fans, but then she released a solo song as if those same fans weren’t going to still bully her, so that entire reasoning just felt like an excuse for her to go solo. Not even gonna get into the blackfishing.
Exactly. With the whole blackface thing, she said fans never complained while she was in Little Mix but now she's solo, they are. But that's not true. People did even while she was in Littke Mix, even her members talked to her about it yet she's still doing it
Her venturing into the R&B genre is not the problem.... anyone can sing and produce music in that genre with no issue. The problem is the so many people that she was either black or mixed/racially ambiguous and she's not. You don't have to try to be black/mixed to perform and r&b song. Just be yourself. There is nothing wrong with being white
@@ukroyaltywk i would actually agree with that to an extent. There's a lot of bypass for people be derogatory and hateful towards white people, with nicknames just being one thing. And whilst I'm sure a lot of white people do understand that they as a race have done many terrible things, they shouldn't have to be constantly put on a pedestal to fix all of society's problems, and then other races feel like by comparing its going to solve everything. It won't. And it never has. White women still have a lot of problems in todays society, and so does a white lgbtqia+ man. The other thing they forget is that the western world is predominantly white because of how the country/continent faces the sun and is positioned. Other races complain about being a minority in a country that mean people of their their colour adapted to fit best to the conditions in that area. A lot of people will throw geography facts and history out of the window if it means they can have someone to blame their problems on. And the other problem is, is with the fact that a lot of other races lije to forget the idea that their race has also colonised the word in parts and caused genocides and holocaust. The only reason people go afte and attack and blame white people is because that is what has been recorded and what's recent and the most new.
This sounds a lot like Zayn except that he actually left for his mental health. Being not be able what you want to do shouldn't be treated as a bad thing. However, her attitude and how she's been acting say's a lot.
To be fair zayns music is very very different than one direction. Like I can’t see a song of one direction ft sia while there is a zayn ft sia. I honestly can see little mix doing bad boys or a song with Nicki Minaj, oh wait they actually did! Jesy just wants to be solo because she wants to and I can respect that if she had said that. I don’t like it when artists mask truths because it literally makes a disconnect between them and the fans because like the fans feel they’re not true and it’s hard to stick to the end. Like for example, beyonce (I’m not comparing their stats like come on bey is the queen), when they broke up or left or whatever she didn’t blame it on mental health or something “deep” and now the beyhive are still true to her and go hard for her. Cheryl cole, another British star that was in a group, she didn’t do a oh I’m the hurt one listen to me, and she’s the nations sweetheart. the truth is, artists don’t need a deep emotional story to get a start of a career especially if it’s fake!
Why would you even suggest Jesy didn’t leave for her mental health? That is so rude and disrespectful. You can’t compare mental health issues, you can’t compare suffering. Saying Jesy isn’t worthy of saying she has mental health issues but Zayn is for some reason, is exactly the kind of behaviour Jesy addressed in her docu. It’s bully-behaviour and it’s not only ridiculous, but also very hurtful. Stop it and think about this please.
@@SK22520 because it seems not genuine when she says she’s leaving group because of mental illness because of the spotlight then the next day she’s in the studio?? Why can’t she be real and say she just wanted to be a solo artist? We all thought she had a hard time being popular because people were mean to her but then double downs and becomes a solo artist that makes her even more popular?? Like which one is it.
Her leaving the band was a group decision. She had a severe panic attack after the sweet melody video was released because she gained a few pounds and people would notice, and they did, so it came down to the girls speaking to her mother about possibly taking a break from the band and get proper help for her mental health she decided to leave and they all agreed to it. they (some fans) also pointed out that she was darker toned than usual in the sweet melody video (which isn't bad, you can tan. That's fine) and i think that that also triggered her attack. Leigh anne has mentioned it to her, the groups manager told her about it, she isn't clueless about the whole blackfishing issue she just continues to ignore it and now her whole narrative is that she grew up on that, she grew up listening to black artist and it inspires her and her music (which also isn't a problem). The problem however, is she has been sporting different "black" style braids and hair, having tanned skin (which is darker than leigh anne, the black woman in LM) and lip fillers (again, having that is fine. It's their body) all together and it makes her look racially ambiguous. A LOT of people has thought she was black or at least mixed not white and that's the problem. The features that she has on is celebrated while that same feature on a black woman is seen as ugly and disgusting. She can take it off any time she wants it off but a black person can't. We have always run with the narrative that black women are just jealous of white people and are just angry but we have never stopped to think and listen why they're angry. Jealousy is an emotion you feel when you can't have something you wish you do, black women not getting celebrated for their features while white women who gets it through surgeries gets appreciated. Maybe sit down and listen to the voices of the people who are ignored and not the people who has time and time again done the same thing that angered the ignored voices.
Thank you. I'm honestly tired of people calling littlemix selfish and jealous of jesys new solo and her career. Them saying that LM is petty. No, they're not. LM isn't petty, if they were they would have thrown out a lot of shade to jesy but they've been silent about this issue (other than leigh anne liking a post about jesy looking racially ambiguous) LM isn't selfish. Jesy is a blackfish.
Lately its so confusing. At first she said about mental health and that being in the group is so stressful because people were bashing here because of her look and yet most of their songs that she co-write is about being positive about yourself, accepting your own flaws and insecurities and sticking together with the friends and people that you love. And now she’s saying that she is not happy being part of that group like it was the worst part of her life… She just want to go solo, that’s it and there is nothing wrong about it as long as you say it directly!
@@bubblylibra3635 no that's being selfish, the fact that little mix keep on making songs about Body shaming, bullying, etc.. and that's because of her, they keep on lifting jesy for like almost 10 yrs. And she (jesy) just leave the group just like that, she never think what the 3other girls before she left the group, and make her debut??? SHE JUST WANT THE FAME AND SUCCESS BY HER OWN. And if i was in her place i will not be selfish.
@@paulolopez707 Soo of it's their choice to leave what can you do about it? there are some things you can't understand in a girl band, like you cannot express your artistry, just like Camila Cabello. And that's what Jesy wants, to express her artistry without feeling guilty about it.
Well she could have just said she was leaving to go solo....she basically made it seem like she was leaving because being in the spotlight was bad for her mental health. And she needed to leave that world. If she would have been more transparent people would have still been bummed but we could have supported her new stuff. The way she did everything was so shady. And now with all her black fishing, why would the fans still support that?
@movi3srock…yep, you’ve hit the nail on the head. Nothing she said rings true. She totally implied her mental health was suffering and she was going to withdraw from the public eye. She also got massive respect for talking about her body insecurities and then plastered social media with her pouty bikini pics. It’s fine for her to do that but it makes her seem either very insincere or misguided with some of the things she says.
@@allisonday893 agreed. I think she does have the wrong people in her ear guiding her. But it's just sad that after almost 10 years, if she wanted to leave she would have left a better way. I mean she left so suddenly in the middle of an album release and their show! And she just stopped appearing in everything. So she made it seem like it was her mental health that was the reason she suddenly had to remove herself immediately. Which the public embraced that. But now it all does feel like a lie. Like it seems she acted impulsively and selfishly just wanted to do her own thing. She constantly brings up that she was always compared to the other three in the group and it seems she almost resented the girls for that (which is totally misplaced). And does she not think that as a solo artist, especially as a female, you are always compared to other artists. But now ur on ur own without the support of a group.
@@movi3srock She's tried to leave for years and been talked out of it, now with Covid-19 and lock down + Sweet melody video shoot showed her that she needed to leave.. So in order to not be talked out of it by management, she went about it the wrong way.. But doing the right thing the wrong way is still doing the right thing..
@@h06anbjo okay, I can see that. (What happened on the sweet melody video?) But why not be honest with the fans about that. That she was unhappy in the band and wanted to be a solo artist? She still seemed like she wanted to get sympathy from the public and not tell the truth of what actually was going on?
@@jeleighpinncocksunshavedam2708 how did Leigh flop? As far as everyone is concerned, she’s not the one that released a forgettable song called “boyz”. 🤔
i have my reasons for not liking her, but what i don't like is when singer leave a band and the first thing they say is "i'm finally making the music i wanna make" and it's so annoying because it's like- but you made lots of this music, and now you're just dismissing that? like it's okay to move on, without throwing shade to your band and such
@@miqueasfigueroa1432 were on the same page... she said this and that but cutting off all the connection with all the ex bandmate all of a sudden without even wanting to talk with each other... and laughing her a s s off when nicki ripping leigh off on live with 100 k views wtching shes just a liar and a hater now or a bully i must say... i say what i said and i stand by it
@@sugarazharguide9792 she couldnt control what she said in (most) interviews. And she wanna the spotlight in interviews, never give microphone to another members.
I remember being incredibly sad for her being bullied when I watched the documentary but that still doesn't validate her behavior against Leigh and blackfishing (I didn't know she wasn't a woman of color until the documentary btw)
OH gosh when would she realise that most of us respect her decision but ABSOLUTELY enraged that she threw a band mate under the bus for HER OWN wrong doing. as if a black woman shouldn't have a say on something that affects her AND her community. smh
Well, she could never have made the “Boyz” song and music video while in Little Mix. If that’s what makes her happy, she should do that. Don’t get me wrong, I love Little Mix and wish she stayed but I fully support her doing what is best for her health.
Nah taking care of herself makes her happy you never know what she's been through and so do everybody what's the point of judging someone choice let the girl live
@Aquarius Jazz The comment didn't said" made everyone happy".. and also while she was in the group she got compared alot (and lots of things happened) which may affected her mental health, so she have the right to get out of the group if she thinks her mental health will improve by that and makes her self-love grow back. But I still find it wrong for her to be mean to her (old) group because literally from what we can see they look at her like a real sister and supported her and just because now she's out she can't just be mean to the group who gave her lots of support.
@@Jojo_0518 No according to this person, a white woman just has naturally dark skin and just naturally made a song about stereotypical black men. It happens 🙄
I respect her decisions, choosing yourself first over others is never selfish and I'm proud of her. But she is a stubborn women, she only sees what she wants to 👀, in her documentary she wasn't comfortable with the girls because in her head she wasn't fat- she was fat compared to the other girls. It's good that she's now on her own and is thriving
Lol music she wants to make what is that literally singing along to an old song bad boys 4 life. Maybe she should have come up with more original music first
@@michellegore exactly.. I mean like you left the biggest girl group to make these disregarded music and bkackfish openly (knowing that she doesn't have the girls by her side). Let's see what kind of music ske brings in the future
You didn't wanna upset people? Hun you shouldn't have made a video appropriating black culture and then laughed on your best friend as she was being bullied especially since you've gone through that and know what it's like and not to mention that she's a mother of twins for god's sake. I loved you but nope you lost all respect after that live.
@@maskure5606 Okay hun you tell me. Do you know for sure that those messages are real? Several Twitter users have already debunked those rumours that they're real by showing evidence of photoshop. And why the hell would a new mother of twins, co-founder of a business, a debutante actress, a singer, a fiancee, a sister, a daughter, drop everything to text some dude that she doesn't even follow? Especially knowing what the internet is like? And even if those messages were real, in what world is texting a dude equivalent to Blackfishing? Plus, Jesy sat there and laughed while Nicki Minaj made fun of someone that she's known for 10 whole years. She made a whole documentary on what it's like getting trolled online but she couldn't say anything for Leigh-Anne? ESPECIALLY WHEN LEIGH-ANNE HAS BEEN THE SWEETEST PERSON TO HER?? Have you seen that MTV awards clip where Leigh-Anne gave a shout out to Jesy? No? Why don't you tell me? If you had a best friend of over 10 years, would you sit by and let some random bitch talk shit about her? I know, for sure as fuck, that if anyone said anything about my best friend on an INTERNATIONAL LIVE, I'd be livid and leave the live or tell her to stop! I've done more for people that I've known for less than 10 years. Plus, Leigh-Anne is a POC (person of colour) and she's also an activist towards black rights and she's been spending this time in lockdown learning and educating herself on black people and what's going on. Obviously, she's going to be hurt if her best friend of 10 years released a video making stereotypes that she already warned her against before. Y'all just need a reason to jump on the "Let's hate Leigh-Anne!" bandwagon. Sure blame the black girl over the white girl. I'll watch you guys be hypocrites.
@@ziyathakkar4308 yes, Leigh Ann did like tweets of her friend getting hated on. All awhile Leigh Ann also has a friend who's doing the exact same thing as Jesy. Full spray tan etc, yet she loves the photo & sends praises whilst liking the tweets that are hating Jesy for doing the exact same thing. How odd. However, I just hope both sort out their diffefneces & tbh Leigh Ann & Jesy need to have a serious conversation when they get the time. Both at fault.
She continually victimizes herself when no one was coming after her before her self sabotage that began with leaving "the best thing to ever happen to her," being in the group
Maybe Leigh Ann shouldnt like posts and videos of people bashing Jesy? Why doesnt she reach out to her friend of 10 years. Lol like, are you serious? It goes both ways.
@@arian2204 it's not Leigh's job to teach Jesy what blackfishing is are yall serious???? It's like teaching someone hey don't be racist????when they're a full ass grown adult
@@selma9450 if that are such great friends then why wouldnt she talk to Jesy. A 10 year friendship, like you said, and she cant reach out to voice how she feels? That's all I'm saying. Also, Jesy didnt blackfish or disrespect any culture. Until you can tell me specifically what Jesy did that was so wrong, I still support her and think she is getting hate that she doesnt deserve. And while Nicki was speaking about it, Jesy really wasnt laughing. The majority of what I saw was Jesy not saying anything and just looking upset, in my opinion. Also, your original comment says stop talking about Leighann. Lol she has literally said nothing but nice things about the other 3 girls. She called them her sisters, said how amazing and talented they were, said they deserved that Brit award more then anyone and they are the best girl band in the world. She even messaged Leigh and Perrie congratulating them about the babies. So Idk what you have seen but she has not said one negative word about Leigh, Perdue, or Jade. There have also been numerous black people who dont think Jesy has done anything wrong and they dont think she was blackfishing or anything.
Left to focus on her mental health but now being rude to my girls and trying to screw right their mental health because you feel victimized even tho you’re in the wrong. I knew I had a bad taste in my mouth the moment jesy announced she’s leaving. Glad I was right.
Little Mix have always been my biggest role models. Let me say though, what makes her think being a single artist under a different management makes it better? Th judgements never changed…it’s life man.
I have met her before she was famous in Romford and know people that where her friends in school (but not any more) she was so rude and refused to see other people's points of view and when it didn't go her own way she would cause a scene lie and say that she was being bullied. She destroyed her own friendships because it's all her way or nothing And now she's playing the victim to get her own way again in social media. I'm not writing this to create trouble just highlight what I know to be lies, and the disservice she is doing to actual people that are being bullied.
Jesy girl we loved you for everything and we support your journey, mixers always had your back and provided you with support, But the stuff youre doing now is just straight up messed up. There are no excuses for them, So We're sorry but we cant keep on supporting you.
She keeps spinning stuff. People were very supportive. Especially because she said it was because of mental health & needed a break from the spotlight. Then a few months later she’s all better & has a solo career. She wouldn’t get as much crap if she was honest & didn’t act so shady.
I don’t feel sorry for her, she’s a manipulative bully & she needs to be stopped! She’s bullying her former band mates and they are innocent. Get a grip jesy before you hurt people!! When her solo career fails she’ll beg little mix to take her back. Watch this space
@@cruelsummer3310 so Leigh Anne sent someone some messages calling Jesy a horrible person and telling them to make a video about Jesy blackfishing (mixers say it’s fake but they’ve literally shown it’s real 3 times so as far as I’m concerned they’re real) and Jesy is actually friends with the person Leigh Anne messaged, so Nicki called Leigh Anne out and told her where she could shove those text messages and the way she said it made Jesy laugh and now all of a sudden Leigh Anne is an angel and Jesy and Nicki are bullies
@@user-yp8pr1qi3i Sorry, but LA has really just gone full tardy. LA had the nerve to say she felt like the "token" girl, despite literally NEVER being dressed different, asked to rap or sing hymns or whatever, never left out of a solo lead on ANY record. And then LA launched a black fashion blog where she literally dresses herself like the token stereotype. So, tbh, LA is toxic AF. I feel so bad for the other girls because it's so obvious when LA starts talking about herself that the others were soooo nervous about trying to shift to themselves or to a different topic. It was so rough watching the girls just go "ya ya ya... uh. ya. and... yah." and look around during LM5 and Confetti promos. LA has just fallen in with the American black celebrities ... and its like she actually believes that she was just working for the other girls. I can't imagine how hard that must be for Perrie and Jesy given how much they needed LM for support after Zayn and then the bullying Jesy faced.
I appreciate her stating her truth and explaining her reasoning. I think everyone should do what the love and chase after it when you get the chance. It sucks with the departure from the group plus the black-fishing, Overall tho I wish Perrie, Jade and Leigh-anne all the luck in the world as well a Jesy.
There s nothing wrong with doing whats right for yourself, there's a right way and a wrong way ... she chose the wrong way , told so many lies and dragged her former band mates in to all this unnecessary mess ... she's really not painted a very good picture of herself and sadly I don't think people will really take her seriously from now on , sad really because she can sing , but Little Mix have gone from strength to strength since she left . I hope she learns lots of lessons from all this , but I don't think she will.
Leave Jesy alone JESUS Y’all love to repeat the same points over and over again just to feel morally superior. It’s boring and shitty and mostly seems like plain bullying. She’s a gorgeous and talented woman and that’s it.
Nobody see this. Haters only know to defend this crybaby and not the rest of the band. Their happiness matters. Plus no one will leave her alone for blackfishing you educate yourself because no one gets a pass on that.
She keeps throwing the girls under the bus because they were naturally thin and having fun. And now it's Jesy who is ignoring them. I get she had insecurities but she doesnt need to drag the girls in the process
She is not dragging them at all. She’s just expressing how she feels. And she is not « ignoring » them, she suffered a lot during her Little Mix days so she needs to take distance from them. How can you judge her?
you, people like you is the reason she's crying, you guys complain in everything. THIS IS HER LIFE, SHE'S HAPPY and just so you know she is still supporting the girls, go check out the recent interview, she's nice to them, she never DRAGGED them, leave her alone. And being compared to other girls on the bases of their looks for almost 10 years is not easy.
They could never make me hate you. This woman literally changed her entire appearance just because she wanted to feel belong and appreciated, but the same people that she was looking for their validations, are the same people cutting her throat, because she tried pleasing them, its sad
Jesy has gone through so much and people don't get that and need to stop calling her fat I think she should be treated better and pepole need to stop being mean and stop calling her a fatty cause she is not. You are the best jesy and keep making misic
Earlier when she was in the group people shouted at her saying he is fat and ugly. Now when she doing solo those people shouting that saying she left group. Dont care about others Jesy . Do what ever you make happy. ❤️❤️❤️ we love you .❤️❤️
She was constantly compared to the other girls of the group.However, the others in the group were so loving, understanding and supportive towards her. She only focused on the negatives, people criticizing her, completely ignorant to the fact that the girls that she was being compared to genuinely loved her.
@@Karen-zi8dr She is and she knows it. Her team knows it. But they don’t care bc it always works for WHITE PEOPLE to appear biracial , ambiguous, mixed so look interesting to the white and black audiences. Once they get their names out there, they ALWAYS go back to their whiteness. Miley is a perfect example of that.
@@pedroheilel130 but why when your faves do that it’s completely ok but now that Jesy nelson does it , all the world MUST believe she is a bad person ?!
Man Y'all Hating On Jesy& Then Saying That No One Deserves To Be Bullied Bitch What ? This is Hypothetical Either You Hate Or Be Neutre...Jesy Was Good When She Was On Little Mix But Now Everyone Is Finding A Good Reason To Hate Her...If You watched The Nicki& Her Live You Would've Seen Her Uncomfortable Situation When That Incident happend But Still Decided To See Only What Dwelling On The Media...Lemme Finish Something Jesy Was& Always Been a Huge Part Of Little Mix's Big Ans Historical Achievements Most Of Their Awards Are Included With The Name "Jesy Nelson"On it Either You Accept It Or Not...Thankful For The 9 Years With Little Mix And For Jesy Giving Us Incredible Music With The Girls...Their New Chapter As Jesy Nelson, Perrie Edwards , Jade Thirwall & Leigh-anne Pinnock Just Started & Looking Forward & Exited For What Comes Next .
jesy Nelson you are a beautiful young lady and you do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel better don't listen to the people who bring you down listen to the people that bring you up you are awesome and beautiful and I hope you will continue to do what's right God bless your soul
The issue I have is how she’s treated the other girls. She completely wiped any piece of connection to little mix off her social media, unfollowed the other girls, didn’t even congratulate Perrie or Leigh on the pregnancy or birth of their babies, didn’t even acknowledge Leigh with her documentary about being black in the music industry as a pop singer and her whole attitude towards the other girls basically saying she’s better and sick of being compared to the others when I literally never saw anyone ever do that. All people did was support her and she did that to the girls. I don’t care about her wanting to release solo music, it’s how she’s treated the girls that’s inexcusable to me.
Talking about Jesy's journey with little mix She always said that she's happy with the girls and she cannot stand without them Nd in every tour we saw her crying emotionally bcs her life changed to better bcs of Little Mix She's the one who oftenly cries ! But now i can see that she is an hypocrite person no more ! No sense
I don’t understand why people in this comment section doubt Jesy’s decision to leave for her mental health or the fact she wanted to do something different with her life. Why do people always have to give her such a hard time and put so much pressure on this human being? Why do people keep underestimating what kind of damage that does to a person? I don’t understand how people can downtalk depression and mental health issues like that, as if a person like Jesy is faking it because she’s famous… come on people! Don’t be bullies - again!
She was a victim, who then started turning other people into victims. Pretty sad, but sometimes they internalize the victimization that they don't see what they're doing wrong or that they're wronging other people, becoming perpetuators themselves.
Yup, she's going the wrong way. She actually reminded me of that victim turned into a bully that I know personally years ago (used to be my friend btw) and now she's doing almost exactly as that person especially when she laughed when Nicki was tearing Leigh down.
i can feel her.. she was bullied.. she have this for 10 yrs or more + she stressed herself as she might compare herself whenever she's with her group + she is also concerned to her girl group receiving/reacting to her bashers + she can't move freely as a lot of people not only viewers but also people she work with gives her expectations and prepare what she should be and ware ... that is stressful so many things,words she keep on worrying her entire career.. im happy that she is aware of herself now and she stand despite being hated.. she can now move freely.. i know in her heart she love her sisters.. they have been best friends for years i hope they continue their friendship and support each other... i admire her strength
People didn't think that she was selfish by leaving the group. No one thought about that. Why would we think that she's selfish by leaving? She's just making herself believe that it was the reason why they were mad at her. People are mad at her bc of her blackfishing. For 10 years of listening to the little mix, I thought she was black. I remember when they just won, I asked in the comment section if she was black. It has always been an issue but I guess no one really paid attention back then. Then she also laughed when Nicki was calling out Leigh. Ofc, people will get mad at her.
Kindly shut up because you clearly aren’t watching the sadness that everyone else can see in this video. She left because being in that group mentally destroyed her.
The victim shame on you bullying Leigh Ann and I thought u was mixed race till this came up Leigh Ann just had twins like got time cause drama u blocked girls who absolutely need u Jessy who
Not buying it lol. She lost my trust. We will never know if shes being genuine or if shes playing Victim for sympathy. The fact that I now question her after shedding a tear for her departure last year baffles me. Maybe IM the clown🤡
At first i stan Jesy for leaving the group because she allegedly felt insecure with the fan hate-comments and all. But the MOMENT she announced a solo career....like ... didn't you just said you are leaving because of all the pressure the public were putting on u?
The reason people are mad is cause your initial reason was bullshit, clearly. The real reason you wanted to quit was to be a solo artist and that’s fine but then you should have initially stood in that truth because saying that there was a lot of pressure being in a girl group and that it was overwhelming doesn’t make sense when you then turn around and start teasing solo music like don’t you think there is going to be MORE pressure on you as a solo artist and going to be more overwhelming considering your now taking 100 percent compared to 25%. Now your going to be compared to all the other girls out here like Ariana for example because that’s what this industry does. I’m glad shes finally standing in her own truth though and I really hope she’s ultimately happy with her choice. I mean when you think about it, the girls don’t interact with her socials, at least from what I’ve seen, and they probably have their reasons that were never revealed to the public because at some point every one of those girls has been offered a solo career and they have always chosen to put the group first. 🤷🏽♂️ I care way too much about this shit 😆🤦🏽♂️ girl go do you lol but I’m just sayin 🤣🤷🏽♂️
It’s so sad the way she has been treated, it looked like it hurt her because she is crying, we understand why she left the group and starting a solo career may be a good way of finding who she is and she can finally show her true self, once she has found her true self maybe she can start to talk to little mix again because it’s sad about all the Drama happening between little mix, jesy and Nicki Minaj and I hope in the end of the day that jesy can finally feel free and finally talk to her best friend again because it hurts not seeing them talk
You are not alone ❤😂😢 I always be with you in your heart 😢love you I was like you in the pass but not anymore I left the history behind it and I believe in myself and have confidence ❤... That what you need in your life how to control your emotions And be yourself and talk about it to a group or to your friends they can help you through the a hard times . They can stand by you and hold your hand ❤❤ And hold on in there and there is a friend in me
I understand and I feel bad about her issue in the group. I was SO bummed that she left and I had sympathy for her. But now that we see all the madness she has been doing it makes me wonder how she really feels about her band mates especially Leigh-Anne. There has been a lot of feud between them lately and there has never been this kind of drama with Little Mix in it at all. Especially with an ex-band mate and a celebrity who the group has collaborated with. Honestly I wonder how and why she is acting like this right now and not when she was still in Little Mix. I just hope that this woman acknowledges and apologises to Leigh-Anne because she has put her through shit
Jesy u have the rights to what ever u feel comfortable don’t get me wrong I cry my heart when I heard u leaving little mix u girls are my life saver and Jesy ur music touch my soul every time I listen to ur songs. Keep doing u boo u got this stay fearless girl ❤❤❤
Let's ignore the blackfishing for a moment. She still bullied Leigh on ig live over a fake message some dude nobody knows got. Jesy also kept talking about how Leigh's just skin and bones even if it was uncomfortable for her. She was also making fun of Jade being thin after her eating disorder. Yet the girls never made fun of her. Never.
@@izziemeghan2446 it's not only true but also on a video in an interview. She tought it was okay calling Leigh "just a skin and bones" infornt of a camera. What a sick person Nelson is.
@@anden4518 I don’t recall her saying any of those things but ok all she said to jade on live was about her eating and not gaining weight. Sure we all should probably not say things like that but she didn’t say it maliciously, in her head she probably saw it as a good thing.
Wait when did she make fun of Jade’s eating disorder?
@•euphoria• what actually happened tho?
@@izziemeghan2446 just because YOU didn’t see it didn’t mean hundreds of others don’t know. There’s a reason people are picking on her.
I feel bad for her, but that doesn’t excuse what she’s been doing now…
Hasn’t she been using cultural appropriation?
@@xluv2552 yes
wait what is she doing now?
@@c1nn4m0ng1rl blackfish
@@c1nn4m0ng1rl blackfishing
But then keeping her mouth closed when someone else was bullying her bandmate, as she is the only victim here and the other member were never affected too by other things.
no one was bullying her band mate try again
@@nikkishy3024 i already did. openly disagreeing with someone isn’t bullying.
@@miapresley5196Bullying: seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce (someone perceived as vulnerable).
"Take them text messages and shove it up your f**king a**, because when you do clown s**t, I got to treat you and talk to you like a clown."
Add that to Nicki being a much more influential artist with more fans, so Leigh-Anne is definitely more "vulnerable".. it's textbook :)
Jesy has experienced bullying of her own, so it's disappointing to see her giggling and laughing when Nicki went off. 🤷🏻♀️
@@nikkishy3024 what video? What did i miss?
@@nikkishy3024 yeah still not bullying.
Don’t agree with how she’s been behaving lately, but I always thought that the music they put out as a group didn’t really represent the kind of music Jesy wanted to release.
I don’t think boyz represents that either but idk jesy
@@hmoffu4223 ya she tries to be black...
She's lost my respect that's for sure, she was a inspiration to me, being a curvy woman... I think its selfish that she's blaming the other girls, they were there for her and she's making out they weren't, she's fake inside and out. And I'm seeing now how much of a nasty piece of work she actually is.
I don’t think any of the girls like the music they were making, Leigh Anne always wanted to do music that stuck to her Caribbean roots like the song Joan of arc
If what she wanted was Boyz then she needs self AND race evaluation. Aka a REALITY CHECK. The song is trash and would still be trash no matter how many Cardi Bs or Nikki Minajs you put on there. This is separate to the BLACKFISHING.
"make the music I've always wanted to make"
her 1st solo music: "I like that bad bad boooy..."
girl please
Ikr lol.
0 talent
💀💀
@@KshipsinKchups you don't need to bash her. Jesy is talented as hell and u can lie to yourself but she has a voice and she has the stage presence. Something u can't do what she's doing is wrong hold her accountable than bashing her. She can sing, she can dance and she showed us that when she was in the group.
That is just too rude
Her behavior now doesn't affect her talent
Shes talented and there
periodt
But again her behavior is awful
No just no think before you write a comment like that
The documentary I watched about her mental health made me uncomfortable tbh. I felt bad for her because nobody should be bullied the way she was, period. But she made her band mates lives really difficult and mental health issues do not excuse poor behaviour or toxic behaviour. I think she needs to take some accountability tbh. Big victim energy and she is a victim of bullying but I think she’s a bit of a bully in some terms just my opinion, especially after that live with Nicki, after everything Leanne has done for her. Nasty.
You aren't wrong, I'll tell you that much
What s the name of documentary?
@@larisaionela5103 I believe it’s called “Odd one out” but I may be wrong
@@connysbunny1227 that’s clearly right
Um what the fuck she didn’t make their lives difficult and what does her band mates have to do with her mental health
I don’t feel sorry for her. I did at first, when she said her reasoning for leaving was because of the constant bullying from fans, but then she released a solo song as if those same fans weren’t going to still bully her, so that entire reasoning just felt like an excuse for her to go solo. Not even gonna get into the blackfishing.
Black fishing doesn’t fucking exist. Black people don’t own curly hair and dark skin.
same
@@theuniverseisme432 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly. With the whole blackface thing, she said fans never complained while she was in Little Mix but now she's solo, they are. But that's not true. People did even while she was in Littke Mix, even her members talked to her about it yet she's still doing it
It's not like the fans who hated her are gonna go listen to her music. Yall Judy looking for an excuse to hate
Her venturing into the R&B genre is not the problem.... anyone can sing and produce music in that genre with no issue. The problem is the so many people that she was either black or mixed/racially ambiguous and she's not. You don't have to try to be black/mixed to perform and r&b song. Just be yourself. There is nothing wrong with being white
Well in today’s world there is, racism against whites these days is off the scale!
@@ukroyaltywk i would actually agree with that to an extent. There's a lot of bypass for people be derogatory and hateful towards white people, with nicknames just being one thing. And whilst I'm sure a lot of white people do understand that they as a race have done many terrible things, they shouldn't have to be constantly put on a pedestal to fix all of society's problems, and then other races feel like by comparing its going to solve everything. It won't. And it never has. White women still have a lot of problems in todays society, and so does a white lgbtqia+ man. The other thing they forget is that the western world is predominantly white because of how the country/continent faces the sun and is positioned. Other races complain about being a minority in a country that mean people of their their colour adapted to fit best to the conditions in that area. A lot of people will throw geography facts and history out of the window if it means they can have someone to blame their problems on.
And the other problem is, is with the fact that a lot of other races lije to forget the idea that their race has also colonised the word in parts and caused genocides and holocaust. The only reason people go afte and attack and blame white people is because that is what has been recorded and what's recent and the most new.
She doesn’t look white
@@LadyVenVen She's though but i agree with the way she's portraying her style, she's just appreciating the culture.
@@ukroyaltywk LMFAO NOT RACISM AGAINST WHITES 💀💀💀💀💀💀
This sounds a lot like Zayn except that he actually left for his mental health. Being not be able what you want to do shouldn't be treated as a bad thing. However, her attitude and how she's been acting say's a lot.
To be fair zayns music is very very different than one direction. Like I can’t see a song of one direction ft sia while there is a zayn ft sia. I honestly can see little mix doing bad boys or a song with Nicki Minaj, oh wait they actually did! Jesy just wants to be solo because she wants to and I can respect that if she had said that. I don’t like it when artists mask truths because it literally makes a disconnect between them and the fans because like the fans feel they’re not true and it’s hard to stick to the end. Like for example, beyonce (I’m not comparing their stats like come on bey is the queen), when they broke up or left or whatever she didn’t blame it on mental health or something “deep” and now the beyhive are still true to her and go hard for her. Cheryl cole, another British star that was in a group, she didn’t do a oh I’m the hurt one listen to me, and she’s the nations sweetheart. the truth is, artists don’t need a deep emotional story to get a start of a career especially if it’s fake!
But above all she is an “artist” and the main thing is that the song sucks
Why would you even suggest Jesy didn’t leave for her mental health? That is so rude and disrespectful. You can’t compare mental health issues, you can’t compare suffering. Saying Jesy isn’t worthy of saying she has mental health issues but Zayn is for some reason, is exactly the kind of behaviour Jesy addressed in her docu. It’s bully-behaviour and it’s not only ridiculous, but also very hurtful. Stop it and think about this please.
Zayn didn't like the attention and the bad management, but this girl wants fame and is just rotten
@@SK22520 because it seems not genuine when she says she’s leaving group because of mental illness because of the spotlight then the next day she’s in the studio?? Why can’t she be real and say she just wanted to be a solo artist? We all thought she had a hard time being popular because people were mean to her but then double downs and becomes a solo artist that makes her even more popular?? Like which one is it.
Her leaving the band was a group decision. She had a severe panic attack after the sweet melody video was released because she gained a few pounds and people would notice, and they did, so it came down to the girls speaking to her mother about possibly taking a break from the band and get proper help for her mental health she decided to leave and they all agreed to it. they (some fans) also pointed out that she was darker toned than usual in the sweet melody video (which isn't bad, you can tan. That's fine) and i think that that also triggered her attack. Leigh anne has mentioned it to her, the groups manager told her about it, she isn't clueless about the whole blackfishing issue she just continues to ignore it and now her whole narrative is that she grew up on that, she grew up listening to black artist and it inspires her and her music (which also isn't a problem). The problem however, is she has been sporting different "black" style braids and hair, having tanned skin (which is darker than leigh anne, the black woman in LM) and lip fillers (again, having that is fine. It's their body) all together and it makes her look racially ambiguous. A LOT of people has thought she was black or at least mixed not white and that's the problem. The features that she has on is celebrated while that same feature on a black woman is seen as ugly and disgusting. She can take it off any time she wants it off but a black person can't. We have always run with the narrative that black women are just jealous of white people and are just angry but we have never stopped to think and listen why they're angry. Jealousy is an emotion you feel when you can't have something you wish you do, black women not getting celebrated for their features while white women who gets it through surgeries gets appreciated. Maybe sit down and listen to the voices of the people who are ignored and not the people who has time and time again done the same thing that angered the ignored voices.
Exacly. Couldn't have worded it any better 👏🏻
Spoken like a true queen
Thank you. I'm honestly tired of people calling littlemix selfish and jealous of jesys new solo and her career. Them saying that LM is petty. No, they're not. LM isn't petty, if they were they would have thrown out a lot of shade to jesy but they've been silent about this issue (other than leigh anne liking a post about jesy looking racially ambiguous) LM isn't selfish. Jesy is a blackfish.
I heard it wasn’t a group decision though and that they other girls found out later on that she was leaving through lawyers. That’s interesting
@@idk.something8360 .
Lately its so confusing. At first she said about mental health and that being in the group is so stressful because people were bashing here because of her look and yet most of their songs that she co-write is about being positive about yourself, accepting your own flaws and insecurities and sticking together with the friends and people that you love. And now she’s saying that she is not happy being part of that group like it was the worst part of her life… She just want to go solo, that’s it and there is nothing wrong about it as long as you say it directly!
Can be both reasons, she knows she had low steem and being compared with your friends its hard
@@agusdellelce4943 hmmm well being compared with your friends is not enough reason to left thos 3girls behind
@@paulolopez707 it is and you would too if you are in her place
@@bubblylibra3635 no that's being selfish, the fact that little mix keep on making songs about Body shaming, bullying, etc.. and that's because of her, they keep on lifting jesy for like almost 10 yrs. And she (jesy) just leave the group just like that, she never think what the 3other girls before she left the group, and make her debut??? SHE JUST WANT THE FAME AND SUCCESS BY HER OWN. And if i was in her place i will not be selfish.
@@paulolopez707 Soo of it's their choice to leave what can you do about it? there are some things you can't understand in a girl band, like you cannot express your artistry, just like Camila Cabello. And that's what Jesy wants, to express her artistry without feeling guilty about it.
Well she could have just said she was leaving to go solo....she basically made it seem like she was leaving because being in the spotlight was bad for her mental health. And she needed to leave that world. If she would have been more transparent people would have still been bummed but we could have supported her new stuff. The way she did everything was so shady. And now with all her black fishing, why would the fans still support that?
People cope different ways
@movi3srock…yep, you’ve hit the nail on the head. Nothing she said rings true. She totally implied her mental health was suffering and she was going to withdraw from the public eye. She also got massive respect for talking about her body insecurities and then plastered social media with her pouty bikini pics. It’s fine for her to do that but it makes her seem either very insincere or misguided with some of the things she says.
@@allisonday893 agreed. I think she does have the wrong people in her ear guiding her. But it's just sad that after almost 10 years, if she wanted to leave she would have left a better way. I mean she left so suddenly in the middle of an album release and their show! And she just stopped appearing in everything. So she made it seem like it was her mental health that was the reason she suddenly had to remove herself immediately. Which the public embraced that. But now it all does feel like a lie. Like it seems she acted impulsively and selfishly just wanted to do her own thing. She constantly brings up that she was always compared to the other three in the group and it seems she almost resented the girls for that (which is totally misplaced). And does she not think that as a solo artist, especially as a female, you are always compared to other artists. But now ur on ur own without the support of a group.
@@movi3srock She's tried to leave for years and been talked out of it, now with Covid-19 and lock down + Sweet melody video shoot showed her that she needed to leave.. So in order to not be talked out of it by management, she went about it the wrong way.. But doing the right thing the wrong way is still doing the right thing..
@@h06anbjo okay, I can see that. (What happened on the sweet melody video?) But why not be honest with the fans about that. That she was unhappy in the band and wanted to be a solo artist? She still seemed like she wanted to get sympathy from the public and not tell the truth of what actually was going on?
When you use bullying to hide the real intention of leaving the group, will sure enough piss a lot of people off.
She didn’t even tell them in person that she’s going to leave.. she made her lawyers tell the girls
That's false story from jeleigh
@@jeleighpinncocksunshavedam2708 the obsession you have with leigh anne is honestly laughable 😂
@@kiiara222 jeleigh still flopped
@@jeleighpinncocksunshavedam2708 how did Leigh flop? As far as everyone is concerned, she’s not the one that released a forgettable song called “boyz”. 🤔
@@jeleighpinncocksunshavedam2708 The fact that the person you like made a song called Boyz and used 0 of her talent
i have my reasons for not liking her, but what i don't like is when singer leave a band and the first thing they say is "i'm finally making the music i wanna make" and it's so annoying because it's like- but you made lots of this music, and now you're just dismissing that? like it's okay to move on, without throwing shade to your band and such
And one thing again.
She said that she bullied because she fat, so what the different if she still make a music ?? Lol
@Aquarius Jazz are you serious?? I think the other girl love her
@Aquarius Jazz all member little mix
Right
I mean she wasn’t throwing shade she mentioned the trolls mistreating her it was the trolls
We support you Leigh Anne❣️
This is not Leigh Ann but yes we support Ann as well
@@rachelmukendi4841 I know, I just want to say I don't believe Jesy anymore
@@miqueasfigueroa1432 if I may ask why?😅
@@miqueasfigueroa1432 you don't have to answer
@@miqueasfigueroa1432 were on the same page... she said this and that but cutting off all the connection with all the ex bandmate all of a sudden without even wanting to talk with each other... and laughing her a s s off when nicki ripping leigh off on live with 100 k views wtching shes just a liar and a hater now or a bully i must say... i say what i said and i stand by it
I will really miss her in little mix but happiness comes first chase what makes you happy girl
Agreed.
I don't, the girls are better off without her and free to do everything without crybaby hindering them
@@Belfer_ why you call her crybaby ? No offense I just wanna ask
@@sugarazharguide9792 she couldnt control what she said in (most) interviews. And she wanna the spotlight in interviews, never give microphone to another members.
@@reynoldind yeah i agree that she can't control what she said, but i never noticed that she always wants to be the center of attention,
I remember being incredibly sad for her being bullied when I watched the documentary but that still doesn't validate her behavior against Leigh and blackfishing (I didn't know she wasn't a woman of color until the documentary btw)
OH gosh when would she realise that most of us respect her decision but ABSOLUTELY enraged that she threw a band mate under the bus for HER OWN wrong doing. as if a black woman shouldn't have a say on something that affects her AND her community. smh
Long story short… going solo makes her happy 👌🏽
Well, she could never have made the “Boyz” song and music video while in Little Mix. If that’s what makes her happy, she should do that. Don’t get me wrong, I love Little Mix and wish she stayed but I fully support her doing what is best for her health.
Nah taking care of herself makes her happy you never know what she's been through and so do everybody what's the point of judging someone choice let the girl live
@@lovelrids1726 even she went through something she still being a bully
@@lovelrids1726 I'd surely judge a person's choice if she choose to be a bully..
@Aquarius Jazz The comment didn't said" made everyone happy".. and also while she was in the group she got compared alot (and lots of things happened) which may affected her mental health, so she have the right to get out of the group if she thinks her mental health will improve by that and makes her self-love grow back. But I still find it wrong for her to be mean to her (old) group because literally from what we can see they look at her like a real sister and supported her and just because now she's out she can't just be mean to the group who gave her lots of support.
Maybe try explaining the blackfishing situation like this, instead of blocking ppl who are pointing it out and trying to educate u.
This 👏👏
She’s not black fishing
@@katherinemariv8856 have you seen how she looked like in the sweet melody video she looked so dark almost dark as Leigh Anne
@@Jojo_0518 No according to this person, a white woman just has naturally dark skin and just naturally made a song about stereotypical black men. It happens 🙄
Ariana uses the same amount of tan and you guys say nada
I respect her decisions, choosing yourself first over others is never selfish and I'm proud of her.
But she is a stubborn women, she only sees what she wants to 👀, in her documentary she wasn't comfortable with the girls because in her head she wasn't fat- she was fat compared to the other girls.
It's good that she's now on her own and is thriving
Lol music she wants to make what is that literally singing along to an old song bad boys 4 life. Maybe she should have come up with more original music first
@@michellegore exactly.. I mean like you left the biggest girl group to make these disregarded music and bkackfish openly (knowing that she doesn't have the girls by her side).
Let's see what kind of music ske brings in the future
@@wanda8352 as a little mixer I will have to say they are definitely not the biggest group now lmao
@@venti5924 true!! I'm also a fan but saying biggest gg rn *BLACKPINK entered the chat*
@@jjautumn9258 yeah...they have had their more popular years, personally I think they've just faded slightly
You didn't wanna upset people? Hun you shouldn't have made a video appropriating black culture and then laughed on your best friend as she was being bullied especially since you've gone through that and know what it's like and not to mention that she's a mother of twins for god's sake. I loved you but nope you lost all respect after that live.
Nicki and jesy responded after Leigh Ann started to like and retweet shady comments towards her ex friend and and getting exposed for it
Her friend attcked her from the first day of her solo debut lets be honest now
@@maskure5606 Okay hun you tell me. Do you know for sure that those messages are real? Several Twitter users have already debunked those rumours that they're real by showing evidence of photoshop. And why the hell would a new mother of twins, co-founder of a business, a debutante actress, a singer, a fiancee, a sister, a daughter, drop everything to text some dude that she doesn't even follow? Especially knowing what the internet is like?
And even if those messages were real, in what world is texting a dude equivalent to Blackfishing? Plus, Jesy sat there and laughed while Nicki Minaj made fun of someone that she's known for 10 whole years. She made a whole documentary on what it's like getting trolled online but she couldn't say anything for Leigh-Anne? ESPECIALLY WHEN LEIGH-ANNE HAS BEEN THE SWEETEST PERSON TO HER?? Have you seen that MTV awards clip where Leigh-Anne gave a shout out to Jesy? No?
Why don't you tell me? If you had a best friend of over 10 years, would you sit by and let some random bitch talk shit about her? I know, for sure as fuck, that if anyone said anything about my best friend on an INTERNATIONAL LIVE, I'd be livid and leave the live or tell her to stop! I've done more for people that I've known for less than 10 years.
Plus, Leigh-Anne is a POC (person of colour) and she's also an activist towards black rights and she's been spending this time in lockdown learning and educating herself on black people and what's going on. Obviously, she's going to be hurt if her best friend of 10 years released a video making stereotypes that she already warned her against before.
Y'all just need a reason to jump on the "Let's hate Leigh-Anne!" bandwagon. Sure blame the black girl over the white girl. I'll watch you guys be hypocrites.
@@ziyathakkar4308 yes, Leigh Ann did like tweets of her friend getting hated on. All awhile Leigh Ann also has a friend who's doing the exact same thing as Jesy. Full spray tan etc, yet she loves the photo & sends praises whilst liking the tweets that are hating Jesy for doing the exact same thing. How odd. However, I just hope both sort out their diffefneces & tbh Leigh Ann & Jesy need to have a serious conversation when they get the time. Both at fault.
@@mistressmaria9320 honestly I'm getting bully vibes from leigh ann
She continually victimizes herself when no one was coming after her before her self sabotage that began with leaving "the best thing to ever happen to her," being in the group
You do you now????
Then stop talking about Leigh Anne and laughing when Nicki makes fun of your "friends of 10 years"
Maybe Leigh Ann shouldnt like posts and videos of people bashing Jesy? Why doesnt she reach out to her friend of 10 years. Lol like, are you serious? It goes both ways.
@@amymelton4782 leigh shall first go educate her bestie that also aggressively blackfishes instead of shading Jesy
@@arian2204 it's not Leigh's job to teach Jesy what blackfishing is are yall serious????
It's like teaching someone hey don't be racist????when they're a full ass grown adult
@@amymelton4782 she has every right to do so are YOU kidding me? It's her culture being appropriated
@@selma9450 if that are such great friends then why wouldnt she talk to Jesy. A 10 year friendship, like you said, and she cant reach out to voice how she feels? That's all I'm saying. Also, Jesy didnt blackfish or disrespect any culture. Until you can tell me specifically what Jesy did that was so wrong, I still support her and think she is getting hate that she doesnt deserve. And while Nicki was speaking about it, Jesy really wasnt laughing. The majority of what I saw was Jesy not saying anything and just looking upset, in my opinion.
Also, your original comment says stop talking about Leighann. Lol she has literally said nothing but nice things about the other 3 girls. She called them her sisters, said how amazing and talented they were, said they deserved that Brit award more then anyone and they are the best girl band in the world. She even messaged Leigh and Perrie congratulating them about the babies. So Idk what you have seen but she has not said one negative word about Leigh, Perdue, or Jade.
There have also been numerous black people who dont think Jesy has done anything wrong and they dont think she was blackfishing or anything.
“Music that’s gonna make me happy”
“I like a bad bad boaoyyy 😜😜”
It’s hard to feel bad for her knowing what she’s put her former members through.
True
Left to focus on her mental health but now being rude to my girls and trying to screw right their mental health because you feel victimized even tho you’re in the wrong. I knew I had a bad taste in my mouth the moment jesy announced she’s leaving. Glad I was right.
Little Mix have always been my biggest role models. Let me say though, what makes her think being a single artist under a different management makes it better? Th judgements never changed…it’s life man.
I have met her before she was famous in Romford and know people that where her friends in school (but not any more) she was so rude and refused to see other people's points of view and when it didn't go her own way she would cause a scene lie and say that she was being bullied.
She destroyed her own friendships because it's all her way or nothing
And now she's playing the victim to get her own way again in social media.
I'm not writing this to create trouble just highlight what I know to be lies, and the disservice she is doing to actual people that are being bullied.
“I dont care anymore”
Also bawling her eyes out
Thats a lot of people 🤷🏽♀️
Jesy girl we loved you for everything and we support your journey, mixers always had your back and provided you with support,
But the stuff youre doing now is just straight up messed up.
There are no excuses for them,
So We're sorry but we cant keep on supporting you.
She keeps spinning stuff. People were very supportive. Especially because she said it was because of mental health & needed a break from the spotlight. Then a few months later she’s all better & has a solo career. She wouldn’t get as much crap if she was honest & didn’t act so shady.
“Stand in my own truth” so are we gonna stop blackfishing?
Agree
You left the group because you needed time for for yourself (mental health), not because you wanted to start a solo career. That’s were I’m confused
I don’t feel sorry for her, she’s a manipulative bully & she needs to be stopped! She’s bullying her former band mates and they are innocent. Get a grip jesy before you hurt people!! When her solo career fails she’ll beg little mix to take her back. Watch this space
i have zero sympathy for her after that live
Exactly!
What?
I don't get it.
@@cruelsummer3310 Nicki was talking bad about Leigh-Anne while Jesy let her just drag *her sister* and laughed and didn't say anything
@@cruelsummer3310 so Leigh Anne sent someone some messages calling Jesy a horrible person and telling them to make a video about Jesy blackfishing (mixers say it’s fake but they’ve literally shown it’s real 3 times so as far as I’m concerned they’re real) and Jesy is actually friends with the person Leigh Anne messaged, so Nicki called Leigh Anne out and told her where she could shove those text messages and the way she said it made Jesy laugh and now all of a sudden Leigh Anne is an angel and Jesy and Nicki are bullies
@@user-yp8pr1qi3i Sorry, but LA has really just gone full tardy. LA had the nerve to say she felt like the "token" girl, despite literally NEVER being dressed different, asked to rap or sing hymns or whatever, never left out of a solo lead on ANY record. And then LA launched a black fashion blog where she literally dresses herself like the token stereotype. So, tbh, LA is toxic AF. I feel so bad for the other girls because it's so obvious when LA starts talking about herself that the others were soooo nervous about trying to shift to themselves or to a different topic. It was so rough watching the girls just go "ya ya ya... uh. ya. and... yah." and look around during LM5 and Confetti promos. LA has just fallen in with the American black celebrities ... and its like she actually believes that she was just working for the other girls. I can't imagine how hard that must be for Perrie and Jesy given how much they needed LM for support after Zayn and then the bullying Jesy faced.
I appreciate her stating her truth and explaining her reasoning. I think everyone should do what the love and chase after it when you get the chance. It sucks with the departure from the group plus the black-fishing,
Overall tho I wish Perrie, Jade and Leigh-anne all the luck in the world as well a Jesy.
And she blocked the other girls on Instagram .... yeah yeah
Just how similar to how Zayn felt when he left 1D as well... What's important is they made decisions early before they lost their sanity.
There s nothing wrong with doing whats right for yourself, there's a right way and a wrong way ... she chose the wrong way , told so many lies and dragged her former band mates in to all this unnecessary mess ... she's really not painted a very good picture of herself and sadly I don't think people will really take her seriously from now on , sad really because she can sing , but Little Mix have gone from strength to strength since she left .
I hope she learns lots of lessons from all this , but I don't think she will.
"You live once and u have to do... what makes you happy" - Nelson, Jesy♡
Leave Jesy alone JESUS
Y’all love to repeat the same points over and over again just to feel morally superior. It’s boring and shitty and mostly seems like plain bullying. She’s a gorgeous and talented woman and that’s it.
Nobody see this. Haters only know to attack her. Her happiness is matter. Leave her alone.
Thank you.
Not everyone is a “hater”…
@@letsargue7 most of them are, the stuff I’ve read from “mixers” is vile.
Nobody see this. Haters only know to defend this crybaby and not the rest of the band. Their happiness matters. Plus no one will leave her alone for blackfishing you educate yourself because no one gets a pass on that.
Tell your fave to stop blackfishing then
Regardless of what’s been happening and stuff, I don’t think it was selfish of her to leave. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do y’all 🤷🏻♀️
She keeps throwing the girls under the bus because they were naturally thin and having fun. And now it's Jesy who is ignoring them. I get she had insecurities but she doesnt need to drag the girls in the process
Excuse me?
@@vanlalduhsaka4907 You're excused. ✌🏻
She is not dragging them at all. She’s just expressing how she feels. And she is not « ignoring » them, she suffered a lot during her Little Mix days so she needs to take distance from them. How can you judge her?
When the f did she drag the girls??
you, people like you is the reason she's crying, you guys complain in everything. THIS IS HER LIFE, SHE'S HAPPY and just so you know she is still supporting the girls, go check out the recent interview, she's nice to them, she never DRAGGED them, leave her alone. And being compared to other girls on the bases of their looks for almost 10 years is not easy.
Do what makes you happy girl 💖💯
I think she still can do that without leaving the group..
Haters gonna hate, but you should always do you, God bless and good luck on your journey
She could have released solo music and been part of the group. She clearly was being shady with the group.
THE RESPECT AND ADORATION HAVE FOR THIS GIRL IS BEYOND WORDS! ID LITERALLY BE NOTHING WITHOUT HER
Go jesy 🥳....I'm so proud of the girls and jesy
They could never make me hate you.
This woman literally changed her entire appearance just because she wanted to feel belong and appreciated, but the same people that she was looking for their validations, are the same people cutting her throat, because she tried pleasing them, its sad
Ugh you’re so beautiful 🥺 it breaks my heart to watch you talk about this. I’m so glad you’re at peace 💕
I don't feel sorry for her anymore... I was at first now she's the bullying girl who made a documentary about her being bullied...
Love Jesy! We only wish happiness for her!
I agree. Do what makes you happy. People need to just leave other people alone. She isn't hurting anybody. Let her enjoy her success
Happiness comes first. I love that she is happy…
Me too little mix and others have to understand that
Jesy has gone through so much and people don't get that and need to stop calling her fat I think she should be treated better and pepole need to stop being mean and stop calling her a fatty cause she is not.
You are the best jesy and keep making misic
Earlier when she was in the group people shouted at her saying he is fat and ugly. Now when she doing solo those people shouting that saying she left group.
Dont care about others Jesy . Do what ever you make happy. ❤️❤️❤️ we love you .❤️❤️
She was constantly compared to the other girls of the group.However, the others in the group were so loving, understanding and supportive towards her. She only focused on the negatives, people criticizing her, completely ignorant to the fact that the girls that she was being compared to genuinely loved her.
Okay miss black fishing
Muppet
She isn't black fishing at all she's being herself for once
@@Karen-zi8dr She is and she knows it. Her team knows it. But they don’t care bc it always works for WHITE PEOPLE to appear biracial , ambiguous, mixed so look interesting to the white and black audiences. Once they get their names out there, they ALWAYS go back to their whiteness. Miley is a perfect example of that.
Dafuq?
@@pedroheilel130 but why when your faves do that it’s completely ok but now that Jesy nelson does it , all the world MUST believe she is a bad person ?!
Man Y'all Hating On Jesy& Then Saying That No One Deserves To Be Bullied Bitch What ? This is Hypothetical Either You Hate Or Be Neutre...Jesy Was Good When She Was On Little Mix But Now Everyone Is Finding A Good Reason To Hate Her...If You watched The Nicki& Her Live You Would've Seen Her Uncomfortable Situation When That Incident happend But Still Decided To See Only What Dwelling On The Media...Lemme Finish Something Jesy Was& Always Been a Huge Part Of Little Mix's Big Ans Historical Achievements Most Of Their Awards Are Included With The Name "Jesy Nelson"On it Either You Accept It Or Not...Thankful For The 9 Years With Little Mix And For Jesy Giving Us Incredible Music With The Girls...Their New Chapter As Jesy Nelson, Perrie Edwards , Jade Thirwall & Leigh-anne Pinnock Just Started & Looking Forward & Exited For What Comes Next .
Its not about leaving, its how you re leaving!
jesy Nelson you are a beautiful young lady and you do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel better don't listen to the people who bring you down listen to the people that bring you up you are awesome and beautiful and I hope you will continue to do what's right God bless your soul
The issue I have is how she’s treated the other girls. She completely wiped any piece of connection to little mix off her social media, unfollowed the other girls, didn’t even congratulate Perrie or Leigh on the pregnancy or birth of their babies, didn’t even acknowledge Leigh with her documentary about being black in the music industry as a pop singer and her whole attitude towards the other girls basically saying she’s better and sick of being compared to the others when I literally never saw anyone ever do that. All people did was support her and she did that to the girls. I don’t care about her wanting to release solo music, it’s how she’s treated the girls that’s inexcusable to me.
Some fans used to bully and call her fat. .yes. But I don't agree with her recent behavior either..
Apparently they arent on speaking terms anymore
She went on a show to become a solo artist and she landed in a group. She gave it 10 amazing yrs, let her do what makes her happy!!!!!!!!
Talking about Jesy's journey with little mix
She always said that she's happy with the girls and she cannot stand without them
Nd in every tour we saw her crying emotionally bcs her life changed to better bcs of Little Mix
She's the one who oftenly cries ! But now i can see that she is an hypocrite person no more ! No sense
I don’t understand why people in this comment section doubt Jesy’s decision to leave for her mental health or the fact she wanted to do something different with her life. Why do people always have to give her such a hard time and put so much pressure on this human being? Why do people keep underestimating what kind of damage that does to a person? I don’t understand how people can downtalk depression and mental health issues like that, as if a person like Jesy is faking it because she’s famous… come on people! Don’t be bullies - again!
She was a victim, who then started turning other people into victims. Pretty sad, but sometimes they internalize the victimization that they don't see what they're doing wrong or that they're wronging other people, becoming perpetuators themselves.
Yup, she's going the wrong way. She actually reminded me of that victim turned into a bully that I know personally years ago (used to be my friend btw) and now she's doing almost exactly as that person especially when she laughed when Nicki was tearing Leigh down.
i can feel her..
she was bullied..
she have this for 10 yrs or more
+ she stressed herself as she might compare herself whenever she's with her group + she is also concerned to her girl group receiving/reacting to her bashers + she can't move freely as a lot of people not only viewers but also people she work with gives her expectations and prepare what she should be and ware ...
that is stressful so many things,words she keep on worrying her entire career..
im happy that she is aware of herself now and she stand despite being hated.. she can now move freely..
i know in her heart she love her sisters.. they have been best friends for years i hope they continue their friendship and support each other...
i admire her strength
She could’ve make solo music without leaving her group. Is it that complicated?
Probably because she had a contract which permitted her from releasing solo material whilst still with the group
Right blackpink do that and they are a very successful girl group
Like BTS too 😁
Don't care what other people says , you're so beauty and talented , be happy my Queen❤❤❤❤
"Make the music I want": I like a bad bad boyyy. girl pls.
You are Beautiful you are not selfish I love the little mix group but it feels so weird you are gone they are just jealous I love you
People didn't think that she was selfish by leaving the group. No one thought about that. Why would we think that she's selfish by leaving? She's just making herself believe that it was the reason why they were mad at her.
People are mad at her bc of her blackfishing. For 10 years of listening to the little mix, I thought she was black. I remember when they just won, I asked in the comment section if she was black. It has always been an issue but I guess no one really paid attention back then.
Then she also laughed when Nicki was calling out Leigh. Ofc, people will get mad at her.
Eh. That's how I feel about her now. She should have just been honest about wanting to go solo instead of blaming mental health
This comment makes no sense. It was due to her mental health
Kindly shut up because you clearly aren’t watching the sadness that everyone else can see in this video. She left because being in that group mentally destroyed her.
@@user-yp8pr1qi3i I said what I said.
@@jaizon29 yeah and what you said was false and unnecessary
@@user-yp8pr1qi3i so you think its okay for her to laugh at leanne when nicki called her a clown? Jesy is playing the victim again And again
It's not selfish at all, you do you my dear. But thank you for lending your sweet voice to little mix.
The victim shame on you bullying Leigh Ann and I thought u was mixed race till this came up Leigh Ann just had twins like got time cause drama u blocked girls who absolutely need u Jessy who
I don’t pick sides but Leigh knew those DMs would get out what did she expect? If she didn’t want the stress, why message him?
@@karalee2102
The dms are fake
@@karalee2102 Dms are fake🤣 and even jesy didnt had any gut to talk to leigh but decided to brought nicki in their issue
@@sherilfernando2393Right that was an inmature thing to do and isn't she 30?
Jesy Believing you’re safe don’t let people take you away from the thing you love doing
Not buying it lol. She lost my trust. We will never know if shes being genuine or if shes playing Victim for sympathy. The fact that I now question her after shedding a tear for her departure last year baffles me. Maybe IM the clown🤡
This interview is old and before Boyz
I love Jesy so much she’s inspired me so much y’all better stop hating
At first i stan Jesy for leaving the group because she allegedly felt insecure with the fan hate-comments and all. But the MOMENT she announced a solo career....like ... didn't you just said you are leaving because of all the pressure the public were putting on u?
The reason people are mad is cause your initial reason was bullshit, clearly. The real reason you wanted to quit was to be a solo artist and that’s fine but then you should have initially stood in that truth because saying that there was a lot of pressure being in a girl group and that it was overwhelming doesn’t make sense when you then turn around and start teasing solo music like don’t you think there is going to be MORE pressure on you as a solo artist and going to be more overwhelming considering your now taking 100 percent compared to 25%. Now your going to be compared to all the other girls out here like Ariana for example because that’s what this industry does.
I’m glad shes finally standing in her own truth though and I really hope she’s ultimately happy with her choice. I mean when you think about it, the girls don’t interact with her socials, at least from what I’ve seen, and they probably have their reasons that were never revealed to the public because at some point every one of those girls has been offered a solo career and they have always chosen to put the group first. 🤷🏽♂️
I care way too much about this shit 😆🤦🏽♂️ girl go do you lol but I’m just sayin 🤣🤷🏽♂️
The other girls don’t interact with her socials because she blocked them
It’s so sad the way she has been treated, it looked like it hurt her because she is crying, we understand why she left the group and starting a solo career may be a good way of finding who she is and she can finally show her true self, once she has found her true self maybe she can start to talk to little mix again because it’s sad about all the Drama happening between little mix, jesy and Nicki Minaj and I hope in the end of the day that jesy can finally feel free and finally talk to her best friend again because it hurts not seeing them talk
awee she’s so oppressed am i supposed to feel bad for the “uk baddie” 😔
😢😭😭😭😭😭 this is making me really sad I feel bad for jesy nelson and I will miss you jesy
The tiniest violin playing in the background is what sends me
You are not alone ❤😂😢 I always be with you in your heart 😢love you
I was like you in the pass but not anymore I left the history behind it and I believe in myself and have confidence ❤...
That what you need in your life how to control your emotions
And be yourself and talk about it to a group or to your friends they can help you through the a hard times .
They can stand by you and hold your hand ❤❤
And hold on in there and there is a friend in me
Doing amazing girl 💪💪💪💪💪💪
Well done love your music
♥️♥️♥️ love from Canada ♥️♥️♥️
I understand and I feel bad about her issue in the group. I was SO bummed that she left and I had sympathy for her. But now that we see all the madness she has been doing it makes me wonder how she really feels about her band mates especially Leigh-Anne. There has been a lot of feud between them lately and there has never been this kind of drama with Little Mix in it at all. Especially with an ex-band mate and a celebrity who the group has collaborated with. Honestly I wonder how and why she is acting like this right now and not when she was still in Little Mix. I just hope that this woman acknowledges and apologises to Leigh-Anne because she has put her through shit
What makes her happy is letting Nicky Minaj throwing shade at Leigh Anne apparently
Jesy u have the rights to what ever u feel comfortable don’t get me wrong I cry my heart when I heard u leaving little mix u girls are my life saver and Jesy ur music touch my soul every time I listen to ur songs. Keep doing u boo u got this stay fearless girl ❤❤❤
Just dont bring other people down and then you will rise too
Shes so sweet, people are so rude. They treat her like she made someone die. 😔
She’s a spineless bully
She wasn't happy. I get it.
She's so beautiful, I can't stop staring.
I'm proud of her having what she think is freedom but the way she act lately towards her previous group is like unacceptable at all.
Why is everyone ripping on her . Shes girl trying ti make herself happy while still being able to do her passion
She looks completely different