doing my skincare routine while i overshare about my life as if were on facetime

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
  • POV: were doing our monthly FaceTime to catch up while I tell you about who's been in my dms, what I be crying about, new skincare products, breath work class, and just life
    current sub count: 2.69❤️🧙🏻‍♂️
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    Hyaluronic Marine Modeling Mask: bit.ly/3STn1Dv
    Spectralite Faceware Pro: bit.ly/3SC8ywc
    Cream Skin Toner: bit.ly/3rseRXa
    Cosrx Essence: bit.ly/3CaiBkY
    Axis-y Spot treatment: bit.ly/3EdvpcX
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  • @maiphammy
    @maiphammy  Před rokem +1139

    let’s over share about our lives in the comments :) and talk to eachother

  • @kateeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    @kateeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Před rokem +3679

    mai is a sister to all of us.

  • @slayed1798
    @slayed1798 Před rokem +514

    idk if it’s just me but personally I adore listening to Mai talk to us it really does feel like FaceTiming with a friend

    • @Youngari07
      @Youngari07 Před rokem +4

      Yeah it really does and I am happy I found her because she opening up to us and for me it’s hard to open up to a person tbh but seeing Mai opening to us makes me confident tbh.

    • @brynnschaaf215
      @brynnschaaf215 Před rokem

      Honestly when my bestie can’t call I just go to Mia bc she’s basically my bestie lol

  • @liv6830
    @liv6830 Před rokem +89

    I’m just not taking care of myself right now, like im struggling to shower even when i need to and brushing my teeth feels like the biggest task but this really motivates me to just do a little self care night bc i could see the pleasure and energy you got when you just felt nice in your skin

    • @fondtoaster9501
      @fondtoaster9501 Před rokem +9

      Hey! You’re a wonderful human being who deserves to feel clean and beautiful. Remember how wonderful self care feels, and that no one can take your self love away because it is yours. What people can do is give love to you, and I hope you get that wherever you are in life now. God bless and a happy Halloween if you celebrate it my friend!

    • @minoshchib1414
      @minoshchib1414 Před rokem

      You got this! Do what makes u happy

  • @literally-nobody
    @literally-nobody Před rokem +298

    Listening to her vent is honestly therapeutic and watching this while doing my night routine is even better

    • @maiphammy
      @maiphammy  Před rokem +72

      venting to y’all is therapeutic to me ❤

  • @badriakazim1174
    @badriakazim1174 Před rokem +815

    Mai could talk for hours and id never get bored

  • @dejashumar
    @dejashumar Před rokem +53

    You saying, "you are loved" LITERALLY melted my heart at the end. i really needed that. luv u SO MUCH Mai and i wish you the universes BEST blessings

  • @domdaoust
    @domdaoust Před rokem +116

    My grand father passed away yesterday. Made me realize how life is so fragile and never know when it will be our last day. I have a 9-5 job and absolutely hate it. No self esteem. been overthinking everything and procrastinating. Gotta make a move ! Makes me feel better to read the comments and watch your video ❤ love from 🇨🇦

    • @brynnschaaf215
      @brynnschaaf215 Před rokem +2

      Stay strong bae❤️❤️

    • @fondtoaster9501
      @fondtoaster9501 Před rokem +8

      You’re gonna get out. Btw I’m your 69th like, so that means I MUST be speaking the truth. So lemme tell you, you’re gonna make that move. You’re gonna take that risk, and even if it hurts at first, even if you fall flat on your face, you’re gonna get up and keep going and love yourself. And people will follow your lead. You’re gonna get out, and do and be and love who you want. Lots of love from a stranger on the internet.

    • @Els914
      @Els914 Před 4 měsíci

      Reading the first couple words made me cry

  • @cat.9586
    @cat.9586 Před rokem +272

    You’re the reason I pulled me weight and tried to be a cleaner / more organized person. I now take showers everyday (instead of every 2-5 days) I do skin care routine which is mostly just cleanser, brush my teeth 2x a day, and keep my room clean. I’m happy I found you.

    • @blonde6
      @blonde6 Před rokem +12

      That’s amazing for you! There was a time in my life that I was the same way mentally but I just forced myself to keep up because I didn’t want anyone to know, but now I take better care of myself for me not for anyone else. For anyone else out there feeling like that just know that you have to want better for yourself not to meet other peoples expectations.

    • @cat.9586
      @cat.9586 Před rokem +4

      @@blonde6 yeah I am going through a bit of depression and I do want it to go away but it’s mostly my parents that are forcing me into depression and they don’t even know it, but watching people like this boost my confidence that there’s more to just waking up, going to school, eat dinner, sleep and repeat. I do try to hang out with my friends, pets and doing more exercises but I can never get myself out of the habit to eat unhealthy I just can’t do it for the life of me.

    • @tuttifrutti5596
      @tuttifrutti5596 Před rokem +2

      @@cat.9586 girl always glow ❤🍒 love ya

    • @fondtoaster9501
      @fondtoaster9501 Před rokem +4

      HEY YOU!! YEAH YOU!!! YOURE BEAUTIFUL AND HAVE GROWN AS A PERSON. LOVE YOURSELF YOU WONDERFUL BEING!!

    • @lyla8689
      @lyla8689 Před rokem +2

      This is what I should be doing but I’m not😅

  • @clxudnina2275
    @clxudnina2275 Před rokem +366

    I feel like Mai is the most open and honest youtuber and it's so refreshing 😩

  • @indi3127
    @indi3127 Před rokem +235

    watching you whenever i pull an all nighter is honestly just a tradition by now

  • @a11res
    @a11res Před rokem +62

    I got my exam results today and I was so confident and knew all the answers but when I saw the mark I literally broke down sobbing, I have never cried this hard over a grade because it’s just a grade but this one is different I actually studied and spent all my summer studying and getting this grade is so unbelievable. ik a lot of people told me it’s not that serious and I shouldn’t react this way but I’m so depressed, mad and shocked
    edit: it’s hard to be sad when you’re literally the funniest person ever 😭😭

    • @dayinthelifeofashley
      @dayinthelifeofashley Před rokem +4

      i get it bro. if my grades are bad my mental health is so bad

    • @a11res
      @a11res Před rokem +1

      @@dayinthelifeofashley it used to effect me so much too but over the years I just naturally stopped caring 😭 but I literally put my blood sweat and TEARS into this.. so I spent a week and half trying to get myself back together 😭😭

    • @chershoopshoop7942
      @chershoopshoop7942 Před rokem +3

      @@a11res I have always struggled in school. I know how it feels to to be sick from it. My best advise would be to either take self care time to yourself and not care maybe even miss an assignment for yourself, or study for hours straight bc that can also feel rewarding just being proud of yourself for doing something so boring and emotionally draining. Sometimes it feels like I cry every time I study. My professor for an online class gives the least amount of information possible. I have no clue what I am supposed to be writing about. So I cry and sleep all day. Because escaping seems easier than doing work most of the time. But it isn’t. I get in a bad state from that. Except this time I really don’t know how to start you know? So I am skipping class tomorrow twice this week because I need to study and but I keep sleeping in until the evening. I will talk a sleeping pill and stay up until 5 am anyway. I need to go to bed I am really trying this day. Ima watch one more video though. This is so embarrassing idk why but I do feel good about sharing. I hope I helped. Also if you are in high school I feel like advise is different for that you know.

    • @a11res
      @a11res Před rokem +1

      @@chershoopshoop7942 no no no this is not embarrassing at all!! I appreciate this so much thank you dear :( it was really hard at the beginning but I did exactly what you said, i started taking a course and tomorrow is my last day :) I will take more courses and surprisingly I feel so hopeful and excited !! I hope things go will for you, just take it slowly and give yourself the time that you need

  • @sunelkloppers5615
    @sunelkloppers5615 Před rokem +42

    Hi Mai , I lost my Twin Sister a few years ago with cancer. It really hits me sometimes. To the people reading this.-Don't listen to people who tell you that you need to stop crying

    • @rosacarapia5125
      @rosacarapia5125 Před rokem +1

      sending love

    • @EllaDoherty-ir5bx
      @EllaDoherty-ir5bx Před rokem +1

      sometimes thing are too strong to just get over them so we just have to try are best, sending love

    • @EllaDoherty-ir5bx
      @EllaDoherty-ir5bx Před rokem

      sometimes thing are too strong to just get over them so we just have to try are best, sending love

    • @muna6564
      @muna6564 Před 3 měsíci

      I'm sorry for that ,sending love❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @valizunderground
    @valizunderground Před rokem +205

    I needed this, my anxiety/depression has been holding me back and I’m tired of not being happy. I hope one day I’ll be happy and I have to remind myself that this is just a moment in time thanks you mai for this I wish you and everyone in the comments all peace of mind if you are struggling

    • @brooklynfyrst5497
      @brooklynfyrst5497 Před rokem +8

      And remember that everything happens for a reason and I am sending you love! Stay strong💓💗

    • @valizunderground
      @valizunderground Před rokem

      @@cruzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 🫶🏼

    • @valizunderground
      @valizunderground Před rokem +1

      @@brooklynfyrst5497 thank you 😊🫶🏼

    • @victoriaaaaa.
      @victoriaaaaa. Před rokem +3

      stay strong. i am literally SO proud of you!! 💕

    • @brookemurphy9259
      @brookemurphy9259 Před rokem +4

      You put into words exact how I feel. Hope you feel better soon though 💝💐

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Před rokem +63

    I literally have second hand happiness hearing how you’re putting your mental and physical health first. You truly have come so far and I couldn’t be more proud of you ❤

    • @maiphammy
      @maiphammy  Před rokem +10

      thank you❤ this truly means a lot to me khalilah

    • @ambraclivio626
      @ambraclivio626 Před rokem

      @@maiphammy some of the girls wanna go shopping you wanna come

    • @take1091
      @take1091 Před rokem

      @@ambraclivio626 omg yes Mai should comeee

  • @justnaledi
    @justnaledi Před rokem +29

    Mai is literally my comfort CZcamsr.

  • @emil2746
    @emil2746 Před rokem +39

    i’ve had a tough few months, and today just made it all so much worse. this is literally healing me. tysm mai ❤

  • @Natalya-Alise
    @Natalya-Alise Před rokem +141

    I actually genuinely love Mai like she’s so genuine and addictive

  • @daniaperez8264
    @daniaperez8264 Před rokem +87

    It literally breaks my heart when she says she is going to through things cuz she helped me when I was really struggling, and made me start taking caring for my self care and to work on mental health.

    • @maiphammy
      @maiphammy  Před rokem +32

      you watching my videos and listening to me helps me through it ❤

    • @Cwenga_Matiwane
      @Cwenga_Matiwane Před rokem +2

      @@maiphammy like sissy we are here for you ♥️ and just know we love you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @urmomkayla9499
    @urmomkayla9499 Před rokem +25

    Bro I feel so awakened mia is like my inspiration for life she is already out of her moms house at 19 and that takes hard work and she is a really good person to talk to :)

  • @averysymolon887
    @averysymolon887 Před rokem +17

    Literally have never loved a CZcamsr more than Mai and it doesn’t even feel like she’s a CZcams she feels like a best friend to me, Mai you have helped me through so much, literally ur energy is just so perfect. Thank you for doing what u do.

  • @mayjail3r
    @mayjail3r Před rokem +161

    I don’t know how to explain it, but you make me feel so heard and seen. I’m a really lonely and down person once I get home and this just always makes me feel so safe and warm. I recommend you to all of my friends because we are all lonely teens together that need a big sister sometimes 😻

    • @macykangaroogang3544
      @macykangaroogang3544 Před rokem +3

      i can tell through this comment alone that you are such an amazing person!! i hope that you receive all the love in the world :DDD

    • @nidatapal4897
      @nidatapal4897 Před rokem

      yes same!! the loneliness when i get home is rough

    • @mayjail3r
      @mayjail3r Před rokem

      @@macykangaroogang3544 right back at you

  • @cait791
    @cait791 Před rokem +49

    Hey Mai, so I think a rly cool video idea would be to make a almost unedited video that we can follow along with. So a video where you clean out your room or apartment but it’s like 45 minutes long so we the viewers can follow along in real time. Another one could be like this video but it’s 30 minutes maybe and we do our skin care too and we can actually follow along. I love your videos sm and they motivate me almost every time! LOVE YOU!❤

    • @veyaferg5999
      @veyaferg5999 Před rokem +3

      Yesss that’s wound be so cool 😄

  • @meganpashko3013
    @meganpashko3013 Před rokem +252

    I have been having a terrible week. You don’t know how much I needed this video.

    • @lotus_bride
      @lotus_bride Před rokem +4

      I feel that dude. I hope things get better for you as the week progresses ❤️

    • @nothale.y
      @nothale.y Před rokem +1

      trust me, things will get better, keep your head up ❤

    • @oliviaheiden6534
      @oliviaheiden6534 Před rokem +1

      Omg girl same

    • @celestemartinez8296
      @celestemartinez8296 Před rokem +1

      I hope next week is better 🤍

    • @meganpashko3013
      @meganpashko3013 Před rokem

      @Veronika Grumlová wow that sounds terrible. The people in my PE class have been making fun of me. It has been getting better for me so I know your week will get better too. 🤎

  • @yuqi555
    @yuqi555 Před rokem +107

    Mai is literally the best person to talk to. I love how Mai literally doesn't give a shit about anything i could literally listen to Mai talk for hours and hours and I would never get bored of her talking because I feel like she is talking to us.

    • @Naja_BL
      @Naja_BL Před rokem +1

      Sooo true fell the same way❤

  • @liv236
    @liv236 Před rokem +29

    I started watching Mai after getting out of an abusive relationship and she’s helped me so much. Thank you for bringing a smile to my face and being that light in the dark. Thank you mai for helping me remember who I am and for helping me gain back my confidence.❤
    With lots of love,
    Liv :)

  • @colie231
    @colie231 Před rokem +2

    homie whatever you post it’s energetic entertaining and real so don’t get down on yourself just do ya thang and we gonna support

  • @preppycloudzdancing8861
    @preppycloudzdancing8861 Před rokem +123

    Mai is one of the most real CZcamsr I’ve ever watched. She’s so funny and so honest. She makes it feel like I’m just hanging out with one of my friends. If anyones seeing this and isn’t subscribed wtf are you doing she is amazing!

    • @maiphammy
      @maiphammy  Před rokem +18

      mhmmmm they better subscribe

    • @preppycloudzdancing8861
      @preppycloudzdancing8861 Před rokem +2

      @@maiphammy Omg I can’t believe she replied aaaaaaaaaah I’m freaking out ❤️❤️

  • @amb5653
    @amb5653 Před rokem +56

    I feel so awakened from this video
    no bc i actually do i feel so shitty whenever i’m in a slump or going thru it. thank u for building this community and being the most down to earth human being ever.
    pls start a damn podcasts mai. talking helps u and we love hearing u talk 😭

  • @alpervarlik2783
    @alpervarlik2783 Před rokem +14

    A question in my colleage application is what's one of the biggest problems society is facing and I actually wrote about the problem of not oversharing emotions, so many people go through so many diffrent things thinking there alone with it and have to face it all on there own but if we all would actually be more vulnable life would be so much easier for all of us ❤

  • @dallenhoneycutt
    @dallenhoneycutt Před rokem +7

    Im 20 and I recently moved back home 13 hours away from my parents and live alone and work 40 hours, my mental health has become shit. Ive lacked motivation and honestly feel like ive become just a working body and not even being myself anymore. Mai’s videos make me feel like were in this shit together and its super comforting. If anyone else is in the same groove as me and not necessarily living their “20s are the best years of your life” comment and lets get thru it together 💪🏼

  • @def.not.nora111
    @def.not.nora111 Před rokem +77

    okay let’s just face it Mai is that one best friend that we all want so we can just vent to and not get interrupted by idk i just love her so much 💓💓💓

    • @vasundharamalhotra419
      @vasundharamalhotra419 Před rokem

      So true ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @sarahelmarrouti8694
      @sarahelmarrouti8694 Před rokem

      That is so true she’s like a best friend or a big sister today and she could just be so true and honest with herself which is indeed in fact amazing and that’s why we all love her so much indeed we love her❤❤❤❤

  • @praptioza
    @praptioza Před rokem +108

    Mai has such a god and positive impact on all of us like bro you makes us feel like we are at home and make us feel happier and addicted to her

  • @r.izz88
    @r.izz88 Před rokem +4

    Hey I’m literally going thru it too bro 😭 with a horrible home life, but adding on that someone told me “we need to talk” and I responded but they haven’t I’m so scared. But this really made me happier- I’ve always seen you as a big sister and i always get happy when you post :D

  • @myanhle5441
    @myanhle5441 Před rokem +5

    i am an overweight 16 y/o girl, and i face alot of self doubt with insecurites. like other people, i have emotions, and i have feeling towards a guy, but i think he will never like me, considering the fact that i'm ugly and fat. i tried different weight loss method but none seems to work. watching you, mai, has always been one of the best decision i've ever made. you bring the energy even though its only online, but all the positivity, like i can feel it. and i am happy watching your video. please treat yourself nicely too. i love you so so muchh

  • @foodstarz1
    @foodstarz1 Před rokem +45

    I need gif of Mai with the lights up mask saying “You need to have the downs to appreciate the ups”. This felt so laid back and easy. Loved hearing you just talk aloud

  • @niaghiasys
    @niaghiasys Před rokem +129

    I love for being open an vulnerable. I had the worst day at work, saw this, and now doing my skin care tryna get out my own mind. Mai and anyone in the comments, I’m here for all of you we besties over here haha 💞

    • @jini1765
      @jini1765 Před rokem +3

      We all have days where we are happy sometimes we are not. But I think with time I learned that real peace is being able to accept yourself, and don't worry too much about elements we can't control... You are the best version being honest to yourself get going ❤

    • @mayvocado6283
      @mayvocado6283 Před rokem

      @@jini1765 Well said honey💞

    • @ishansharma9690
      @ishansharma9690 Před rokem

      ❤❤

  • @kaylalopez777.
    @kaylalopez777. Před rokem +5

    When Mai said “CZcams isn’t the same I’m not like mm I can’t wait to watch her videos” that is the opposite for me right when I get home from school I’m so excited to watch Mai ❤

  • @theenotorious._alicia
    @theenotorious._alicia Před rokem +2

    i love mai honestly , her videos just make me happy . She is the moment .

  • @paige115
    @paige115 Před rokem +60

    Mai needs a podcast Soooooooooooo bad!! I could listen to her talk about her life for an hour once a day, so get on it Mai 😊👏👏🔥

    • @georgialinney7141
      @georgialinney7141 Před rokem +1

      Omg yes, it would honestly improve my week so much!

    • @paige115
      @paige115 Před rokem +1

      @@georgialinney7141 Same!

  • @banana8364261
    @banana8364261 Před rokem +96

    I feel like spilling life tea while doing skincare is an equivalent to a long, therapeutic, & honest kitchen floor talk 💕✨

  • @theseekers3023
    @theseekers3023 Před rokem +8

    Oh my gosh I feel so awakened from this video I literally love Mai so much she’s like a big sister but she’s everybody’s big sister like let’s be so for real❤❤❤

  • @sylenajg
    @sylenajg Před rokem +2

    mai is literally so relatable and always relates to what i’m going thru in the current moment and gives such good advice and just reminds me that i’m alone

  • @denisebeltran797
    @denisebeltran797 Před rokem +64

    Yes! I just spoke to my therapist about meditation, Yoga, and breath-work. For me personally it’s helped me regain strength mentally and be aware and grounded when having issues with PTSD. ❤ Self improvement looks great on ya Mai!! 😊

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Před rokem +3

      Love this for you ❤

    • @maiphammy
      @maiphammy  Před rokem +6

      i’m so happy for uuuu

    • @emilyg8534
      @emilyg8534 Před rokem +1

      It sounds so nice I have to try it

    • @victoriaaaaa.
      @victoriaaaaa. Před rokem +1

      yesss im glad it helps u!

    • @denisebeltran797
      @denisebeltran797 Před rokem

      Omg! A big thank you to all those who responded with so much positivity! 😊😊☺️☺️ Made my day brighter that Mai replied as well haha. Bless you all

  • @gwendolyn4412
    @gwendolyn4412 Před rokem +55

    Thank you Mai for being the big sister we all need. As the oldest child who's mom is never around, you really have an impact on my life. ❤️

    • @sarahelmarrouti8694
      @sarahelmarrouti8694 Před rokem +1

      Yeah I also love Mayor because she’s just open and down to earth and she’s like the big sister I never could’ve had you know I’m the oldest of my two younger brothers and sometimes it’s hard to talk to my mom about how I feel and sometimes I feel a little bit uncomfy like uncomfortable and it can sometimes be hard to talk about with a woman with a grown full grown woman or like them your mother and I’m always been asked my mom if I could get a fireplace but she haven’t found one yet and that’s why I have sometimes felt a little bit lonely and when I finally got the voiceover average in weight impaired so I use voiceover who vision impaired or blind people use and I use it on my phone and it helped me a lot and when I found Mayour and she really help me and she’s always down to earth and funny and like that crazy big sister and this is like a big family to me like it like this is a big community and my mind is always like so funny and sweet and she’s lovely and kind and also funny and crazy in both ways and sometimes I’ve been asking my mom if she has if she has found a therapist for me it’s not really hard and I come from Belgium so I mean I moved here five years ago so yeah it’s been kind of hard and I come from Denmark so yeah I’m Copenhagen oh yeah I mean I was born and raised in Copenhagen so yeah oh yeah and Mayour has a friend who has a company Copenhagen I think so that’s kind of funny so I am but raise danish but my family comes from morocco but this is like a big family and a big community for me if you’d like I think I have watched her for two years now❤❤

  • @quinnstewart6641
    @quinnstewart6641 Před rokem +3

    Omg I feel so awakened from this video 😊

  • @itsminnie7065
    @itsminnie7065 Před rokem +7

    Mai is the sassie young and wise aunt for me she be spitting facts every single video

  • @UkeNooberx333
    @UkeNooberx333 Před rokem +41

    Mai I'm so proud of how you handled the merch situation. When I first heard of it i was like "this isn't something she would intentionally do" and I'm glad you were able to give proper recognition to the artists and apologize and take responsibility in a genuine way. This in itself differentiates you from other CZcamsrs and I'm glad that I can choose you to be one of the few influencers I view bc you are so transparent with everything.

  • @_amandakishi
    @_amandakishi Před rokem +52

    Who doesn’t love Mai? She is like a friend that even tho she doesn’t know you she already loves you, she is so unique and special, I just love her

  • @dellahconaway4881
    @dellahconaway4881 Před rokem +2

    literally you are the person i go on youtube to watch and i’m going through all your videos and just watching back to back

  • @seanliu2282
    @seanliu2282 Před rokem +2

    I just love the way she is so free whenever she makes a video, everything she does for a video is literally what she normally does in daily life.❤

  • @m00ngirl888
    @m00ngirl888 Před rokem +48

    I feel like I grew up watching CZcamsrs like Jenn Im, Claire Marshall, Michelle Phan, etc. and they felt like the older sister presence I needed but since discovering Mai her energy is like the little sister presence I need lol and I loveeee the energy in the comments on all her videos it’s so pure.
    Currently in my life- it’s kinda crazy bc I’m grown and working my dream job, able to afford the kind of apartment and lifestyle I always wanted (bc I also have an amazing partner who is my best friend ever) but it’s also been really lonely and hard to make a circle of girlfriends like what I’ve had in all my other stages of life. All my closest friends live in different cities. Takes me back to being 13 and finding belonging on CZcams except now I have a therapist and healthy coping mechanisms and like myself a lot more than I did back then. And I’m
    trying to learn how to thrive in this lonely season. If anyone read this comment thank u for opening up space for me, I hope you know you’re worthy of so much love & abundance in life! 💗

    • @mayvocado6283
      @mayvocado6283 Před rokem +1

      Sending love💞 I am so proud of you!!❤️

    • @ediewillford1797
      @ediewillford1797 Před rokem

      im 14 and i feel like none of my friends are real except for one that i pushed away so ik wat ur going through

    • @funkycat0003
      @funkycat0003 Před rokem +1

      @@ediewillford1797 hope it gets better

    • @m00ngirl888
      @m00ngirl888 Před rokem

      @@ediewillford1797 Ugh 14 was such a tough year for me too. Sending you love

  • @onedirectionforever28
    @onedirectionforever28 Před rokem +28

    Mai is LITERALLY too perfect without being perfect. it’s like we’re besties. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @briellerenae9221
    @briellerenae9221 Před rokem +1

    Her inspirational talk is so meaningful! She is helping me survive rn and just in general! I always watch her videos for inspirational things to help me move on! Mai you are amazing!

  • @scarlettmonroe427
    @scarlettmonroe427 Před rokem +3

    your energy is exactly what i need in my life right now
    Literally love everything about you!!!!!!!!

  • @zoeerose7944
    @zoeerose7944 Před rokem +27

    Mai is the only youtuber that has genuinely helped me through my mental health problems. Literally in tears rn typing this. But we love you so much Mai. You’re so genuine & real 💕

  • @summerhambrick7618
    @summerhambrick7618 Před rokem +15

    Mai's Channel literally helps me calm down recently. I've had a bad few months and sitting down to relax and watch these videos helps so much. It gives me a moment to breath and not think about whats happening in front of me.

    • @ryaten9970
      @ryaten9970 Před rokem +1

      I hope everything will be okay soon!

    • @summerhambrick7618
      @summerhambrick7618 Před rokem

      @@ryaten9970 thank you! I've just got some health stuff going on thats taking a bit to figure out😁

    • @ryaten9970
      @ryaten9970 Před rokem

      @@summerhambrick7618 I'm sure u will figure it out, stay strong 💪

  • @rowena1986
    @rowena1986 Před rokem +3

    Honestly, you’re like the sister I’ve always wanted Mai. Every time I need a reality check or I need to get myself in check I watch your videos. I’m nearly 26 and my life has been in SHAMBLES this year. Without your videos and helps from my girls I would be more lost than I am right now ❤

  • @nataliesotello6448
    @nataliesotello6448 Před rokem +1

    I love how open and real you are and how your so real

  • @madisonmiller9163
    @madisonmiller9163 Před rokem +22

    First of all Mai is one of the best youtubers and I will stand on that hill with that. She is always so open and she makes me feel so comfortable when I watch her videos. Even when my mental health takes it toll on me she always helps me, and because of her I've been getting back into self care and learning to love myself. She feels like a big sister that I needed. Thank you Mai

  • @josisalceanu5243
    @josisalceanu5243 Před rokem +15

    The fact that she takes the time to like all of these comments and even respond to some is amazing. She isn’t like them rich spoilt girls she’s honest and is always positive. I was going through some stuff and when I watched her videos they brightened my day! Ilysm Mai ❤️❤️❤️

  • @honeykritzzz
    @honeykritzzz Před rokem +4

    I don't think I've ever felt more relatable. Like gurl, I just came across your channel and oof me gon stay here for a long time. Thank you so much for making this video, good to know I'm not the only one who talks in the mirror like I'm a certified therapist.💀💀

  • @Makailahmontes
    @Makailahmontes Před rokem +3

    I have had a kinda tough few days and when this came out i knew i was going to feel sm better she’s technically like my older sister and i just love her sm

  • @eusteria
    @eusteria Před rokem +15

    The whole "filming and talkung to the camera everyday" thing REALLLYYYY helps with getting comfortable being yourself in front of the camera frr and it's such good advice for anyone who wants to start a yt channel and you can try different angles and see how it works for you even if you don't post it, definitely going to be doing this

  • @piamitbia
    @piamitbia Před rokem +22

    uhg the comments here are everything. even i wanna overshare because this family really is something else. i love you all and thanks for being your awesome selves! thank you mai for creating this safe space for all of us!

  • @rihanamisu614
    @rihanamisu614 Před rokem +1

    Mai you're really amazing and you're videos are just comfort keep doing what you love ❤bye sis

  • @Jaesey15
    @Jaesey15 Před rokem +2

    Wow, I’ve been watching Mai since her 2am videos and hanging with her friends late at night and I’ve ALWAYS been attracted to her energy and how far she’s come! I always get excited to watch her new videos and I rewatch her old ones if she hasn’t posted new ones yet lol this video definitely helped because I wasn’t expecting to hear those encouraging words that I needed to hear right now. I just want to say thank you so much! You have no idea how much I appreciate that and how grateful I am for you! I love you Mai!! ❤ much love from Utah 🥰

  • @katelynneno2683
    @katelynneno2683 Před rokem +18

    I respect how down to earth and humble mai is

  • @BTSforever-xz7zu
    @BTSforever-xz7zu Před rokem +137

    It's a ritual for me to watch mai's videos😤 mai is literally my therapist who's sassy, has bad b1tch energy, yet a whole ball of sunshine. She's all I wanna be. I'm just 15 and depressed😅😑 but ngl how mai is influencing me to be that girl and throw out poisitive vibezz. She's my whole time favorite youtuber. She is real. She shares her flaws and insecurities. she's not realizing for a teen like me how much she means to me. I just wish mai see this comment and know how much fucking I love her😭💞 fingers crossed🙆🙏

  • @aiyanajose
    @aiyanajose Před rokem

    we love you too... i found you through a glow up video and honestly, ur such a delight to listen to. u shud actually start a podcast. i love how open you are. ur confidence is such a motivation and you rly inspire me to take care of my skin

  • @nora3154
    @nora3154 Před rokem

    fr u literally make my life better like not in that way but like u make me want to like really work on myself and appreciate who i am like my room is clean bc of u

  • @shelbybrown04
    @shelbybrown04 Před rokem +8

    I love how real mai is w us , how she doesn’t try to fake being happy and organised 24/7 when it’s not realistic and I love how she makes us feel like we’re all her best friends and someone we can relate to💕💕love you mai💖

  • @berribleulife
    @berribleulife Před rokem +4

    Something you said in the video really hit me. You saying you create youtube videos in order to talk about your life problems and overshare about things reminds me of why I started youtube in the first place. It's hard as a 19 year old creator myself to get the motivation to create more music, podcasts, & learn the languages I want to learn. If you look at my channel there was a point in time where I was just thriving living my own life and having fun. Now I work for more hours in a day and sometimes it gets in the way of me focusing on my passions. My life recently has been a mess. And every time I try to either clean up these messes or these messes clean up themselves shit gets messy again. I decided to take a month off of college to figure out what I want to do, but I always find myself going back to the same old habits of pondering + getting so much anxiety because I wasted my Freshman year of college taking every single class in the book you could think of. I have way too many interests but people in this world say you have to pick one for a stable career. This is something I love about youtube. You can do anything as long as you have fun with it and roll. The hardest part is to post consistently sometimes especially when you're feeling extremely burnt out.
    ...
    Something I'm proud of myself for doing is getting out of my comfort zone and speaking to so many different people. As a person that gets so much anxiety or gets super quiet when others try to communicate with me I find working at a retail store helpful at times. Each day I learn it's okay to make mistakes but what matters is that we laugh it off and keep moving forward. It's really good if you have a nice community of people to back you up or make you feel like you're truly at home while you're developing into a better version of yourself. As a person who doesn't really have many friends I've learned that when a stranger talks to me like I've known them for a long time it makes me feel happy. It truly allows me to feel like I'm not alone & that everyone has each other.
    ...
    I know I've written a lot and Mai if you're reading this you might relate. Even though we are the same age & you are a little bit older than me by a few months I really look up to you as a content creator & older sister I've never really had. As an older sister to three siblings you inspire me daily to try my best to get my shit together no matter how much I end up going backwards. Thank you for being an inspiration to me

  • @user-jb7zf4bb3h
    @user-jb7zf4bb3h Před rokem +2

    U r my favorite CZcamsr u made me confident and feel better about myself and my body

  • @charlizethoughts
    @charlizethoughts Před rokem +3

    I want this kind of video EVERY FRIDAY. Talk about your week and stuff, it would be amazing. Continue like that. I love this

  • @samsparks2459
    @samsparks2459 Před rokem +18

    Mai is literally like a long distance friend I’ve always had. I always feel like it’s just like a FaceTime call and I love it!! ❤️

  • @aasiyahkamalie6602
    @aasiyahkamalie6602 Před rokem +11

    Bro like I don’t even know what my life would be like without watching her?????she just has so much life and is her own person,she is also so confident and funny

  • @faith3249
    @faith3249 Před rokem +1

    oh my gosh i feel so AWAKENED from this video. LITERALLY MAI ILYSM YOUR VIDEOS ARE SUCH A COMFORT AND ESCAPE AND I LOVE UR PERSONALITY ❤

  • @misslove848
    @misslove848 Před rokem +1

    It's It's nice how mai shows how much she cares by love hearing every comment so whatever nice message u say she'll see, love u mai xxx

  • @snmsze
    @snmsze Před rokem +10

    I love these facetime kind of videos, they are so real and personal + it makes you and us happy 🫶🏼💕

  • @caitlyneve3
    @caitlyneve3 Před rokem +11

    Mai you’re such a down to earth person. Your videos feel like a safe space. You’re so kind to all of your subscribers and viewers, like liking every comment, and creating videos for us to watch. It’s rare to find a CZcamsr as kind and humble as her ❤️

  • @LadyReader
    @LadyReader Před rokem +2

    for real i've been having THE WORST WEEK EVER complete with a stupid car crash and that my teacher won't tell me if i can graduate or not so now i want to cry all the time, thank you mai for posting this and being yourself 💜💜

  • @emptyisim5139
    @emptyisim5139 Před rokem

    i just love mai so much no joke i watch her everyday (nearly) and i watch old videos while waiting for new videos as u can see from my late comment. thank you mai i never thought someone on youtube could truely inspire me and feel loved

  • @VagueMitten
    @VagueMitten Před rokem +18

    It’s amazing how she talks about random things and still manages to make me laugh snd smile. It’s weird I feel like she’s my close friend. Love you Mai ❤

  • @ItsSweetAltMisa
    @ItsSweetAltMisa Před rokem +33

    Mai is fr that best friend that is basically our sister that give you some top tier advice but doesn't follow them herself and gives some elite relationship advice even though she don't follow it!!!😌XD And omg I feel so awakened by this video...I'm woke ya'll!

  • @watermelon6180
    @watermelon6180 Před rokem +1

    Maiiii whatever you are on, I neeeeed it 😫😫 this energy is everything 💓💓💓

  • @emersonn0112
    @emersonn0112 Před rokem

    this video made me feel so much better. i recently went through my first heartbreak. it was bad. it came out of nowhere. my ex told me that he couldn't be a good enough bf for me and that he couldn't give me the time and commitment I deserve...and I begged and begged and begged for him to stay even though I was constantly compromising for him and his needs and the effort or love was never reciprocated. it's been a month now and I have been in and out of severe depression and anxiety. i have an amazing support system of people encouraging, supporting, and loving me, yet I've never felt more alone. even though I know he treated me bad I miss the person he promised me he could be (and I believed those promises even though he never followed through). seeing this and reading the comments made me actually feel something...more than I have in like a month. so thank you

  • @Ravencycle21
    @Ravencycle21 Před rokem +34

    Thank you so much for making me smile! You have helped me so much through my depression

  • @gracedairo910
    @gracedairo910 Před rokem +32

    THATS WHY I LOVE HER. SHE FEELS LIKE AN OLDER SISTER THAT I CAN TALK TO WITHOUT BEING SCARED ❤️❤️❤️

  • @zen5820
    @zen5820 Před rokem +1

    She is a freaking queen, I love how she is so open😂

  • @elizabethlee2549
    @elizabethlee2549 Před rokem

    Mai is like my big sis for everything and I loveeee how she's so open with any subject/topic love this girlllll

  • @tiana1519
    @tiana1519 Před rokem +16

    I love how the Pham is so open and we all can communicate with each other and not judge one another it makes me feel like I have a bunch of siblings and I thank all of you for the and I thank Mai also because it’s really hard finding a good group of people to talk to and I’m glad I can do it here and watch my favorite CZcamsr 💕

  • @gp5218
    @gp5218 Před rokem +8

    i genuinely don't know what i would do without you, you are such an amazing pure soul mai. thank you for making all of us feel loved and like we have someone. we love and care for you so much ily mai !!

  • @theenotorious._alicia

    "just know i believe in you" bless her heart . ❤️

  • @Irdkwtpiwfio
    @Irdkwtpiwfio Před rokem +1

    Istg you are free therapy 😭
    You actually gave me motivation to just deep clean my room, and I'm slowly trying to turn my life around. Don't plan on asking for help on mental health but I feel this will help. Thank you, Mai! ♥️

  • @eylulaslan8148
    @eylulaslan8148 Před rokem +24

    Been watching Mai since she dropped out of high school and she genuinely has made so much progress and made me make so much progress in life, love you Mai. Also as a Brit love that your in love with central cee like the rest of us 😂

    • @eylulaslan8148
      @eylulaslan8148 Před rokem

      Mai liked I can now peacefully sleep, I actually can’t I’ve watched ALL her videos I love you mai

  • @rainachoi9537
    @rainachoi9537 Před rokem +5

    hearing mai being so open and venting just makes me feel so happy and sad. i’m happy cuz she feels comfortable enough and trusts us, but i’m also sad cuz she helped me through my first few years of my teen years and seeing her go through this makes me sad. i hope you’re doing great mai!!! Omg I feel so awakened from this video

  • @winterbear1993
    @winterbear1993 Před rokem +1

    Sometimes I am not listening to her talk and just watching her do stuff..that’s so soothing..it’s like ur on a call with ur bestie and she’s just ranting about normal stuff and the fact that it’s even interesting than a freaking TV show..I think I will do the same once I move out

  • @torynhanna9908
    @torynhanna9908 Před rokem +1

    I swear you have helped me mentally so much

  • @emotoes32
    @emotoes32 Před rokem +15

    I love the fact that Mai trusts enough to do this. Slay queen I love it.