My Orthodox Jewish Life | Shabbat Sukkot Prep | Orthodox Jewish Mom (Jar of Fireflies)

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
  • In this video, I take you along as I get ready for Shabbat during Chol Hamoed Sukkot! I start my day in the Sukkah with my breakfast and prayers. Then I chat with you about what is going on in our day, things I need to do. Then we get started! Cleaning, cooking, setting the table, all the normal things except this week we are in the Sukkah! I spend some time baking for my daughter's birthday, we make a cake together and later decorate it. I also make my favorite soup: Cockaleekie soup! Thank you so much for coming along for this day in my Orthodox Jewish Life!
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    Hello and welcome! My name is Chana, I’m married to my best friend, and we have three wonderful children together. We also happen to be Orthodox Jews and we homeschool our kids. This video is a sneak peek into our daily lives :) You can see how this particular Jewish homeschool mom sets up her days, rolls with the punches, and gets it all done. Thanks for watching!
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Komentáře • 587

  • @jaroffireflies
    @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +39

    Ok so the big meal ended up being just fine :) How do you feel about big meals? Would you rather a smaller meal or do you prefer all the people? :)

    • @michaelurvoy
      @michaelurvoy Před 2 lety +6

      I am a massive introvert so smaller meals for me. Certainly anything more than 10 people and I will start freaking out. 😆

    • @ayronsmama05
      @ayronsmama05 Před 2 lety +5

      With most of my family having passed on an being introvert I don't have many friends that I am comfortable being with. But oh my being the 7th child and only girl meals were so awesome! I miss them and it makes me sad that my late in life now 16 yo child hasn't had the family time that I enjoyed and miss. Blessings y'all!

    • @tettivestberg2989
      @tettivestberg2989 Před 2 lety +4

      I prefer to have less people at dinner, with less people you have the time to socialise with everyone

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      @@michaelurvoy yup that’s how I feel too

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +6

      @@tettivestberg2989 yes I feel the same way :) much less pressure on me as hostess :)

  • @jackiesnowangel
    @jackiesnowangel Před 2 lety +20

    I was so happy to see you back. I want you to know you bring joy to this old Granma's life. I just moved, and as soon as my internet was up, you were the first place I went to. You are so cheerful and a true joy to watch.

  • @TheFitTherapist
    @TheFitTherapist Před 2 lety +19

    One thing I love about your life is that you have a lot of community connection. Many Americans are lacking this. People need people. We have so many out there who are lonely.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      I agree. We all need more connections.

    • @heatherwiner2883
      @heatherwiner2883 Před 2 lety +2

      I agree. I am Jewish but oh so lonely. Not all communities are like Chana's.

    • @ImazABoss
      @ImazABoss Před 2 lety

      @@heatherwiner2883 Same!!! I've been so grateful for her channel for this purpose.

  • @sharmhaimbaugh4015
    @sharmhaimbaugh4015 Před 2 lety +22

    I found myself humming the music from your intro today while I was grocery shopping lol
    I could not wait to get back home so I could see your Monday upload.
    I really did laugh out loud when you said "bugs are not kosher so we dont eat them" 😂😂
    Thank you again for sharing your faith, your family, your humor, and your calmness with us!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      Lol so glad you enjoyed :) especially about the bugs lol 😂

  • @MichelleMevashelet
    @MichelleMevashelet Před 2 lety +8

    I'm also an Orthodox Jewish woman and keep many of the same rituals and traditions as you but I still absolutely love your channel and love listening to you explain the holidays and what you and your family are doing

  • @BriyerRose
    @BriyerRose Před 2 lety +9

    I love how your husband brings you flowers every week. That is so special. Thanks for posting as always!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      It took me some getting used to but now I look forward to it :) thanks for watching!

  • @kimberlymitchell7630
    @kimberlymitchell7630 Před 2 lety +2

    My husband cooks most of the dinners here and manages to use everything in the kitchen. Just thankful I don't have to think of what to cook every night.🐨

  • @alyssarosengard6674
    @alyssarosengard6674 Před 2 lety +6

    Love your Sukkah. I made zucchini kugel, pomegranate and green salad, and portobello stuffed mushrooms and I made a pumpkin pie for Sukkot. Hope you feel better.

  • @annab3LL3TV
    @annab3LL3TV Před 2 lety +8

    as a non jew you are teaching me so much, I love learning about all the different aspect of jewish life

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      I’m so glad you are enjoying and learning!

    • @annab3LL3TV
      @annab3LL3TV Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies you present things in a non threating manner as in " not a big deal " it's just the way we do things and this is why, no big woop

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@annab3LL3TV glad to hear that :) that’s basically yes how it is :)

    • @serenity5755
      @serenity5755 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm intrigued about the Cockaleekie soup and will make it. We Jews have always adapted recipes from countries all over the world so why not a kosher Scottish soup??

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@serenity5755 lol You should totally give this one a try! 💜

  • @vergieclark131
    @vergieclark131 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m kind of an introvert so small gatherings are preferred unless it’s my immediate family then it’s ok ! Lol ! I also love that you start your day with prayer and scripture, I start my day with devotions and prayer and it gets my day started on the right vibe ! 💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      Love that we start our day so similar! It’s a great thing in my life :)

  • @heatherdorsey4770
    @heatherdorsey4770 Před 2 lety +3

    I love that you let your daughter help with the cake. It looked perfect!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety

      She loves to bake :) I let her help anytime I’m not in a rush :)

    • @lynnegordon6749
      @lynnegordon6749 Před 2 lety

      The spoon you were using to stir your soup is really pretty.

  • @debra333
    @debra333 Před 2 lety +6

    Hi, sweet Chana!! I'm like you, an introvert who doesn't live for big groups! But look at you, pulling it off with your typical charm and wit. The plates and cake were beautiful. And I loved the shots of you baking with your beautiful daughter. What a treasure!! 🫂

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      Thank you 😊😊😊 I appreciate your kind words! The dinner turned out just fine and the soup was a big hit!

  • @debbiemorgan6701
    @debbiemorgan6701 Před 2 lety +2

    Happy birthday to your daughter! She made her cake look great with the sprinkles. Your table looked beautiful.

  • @georgiairving9262
    @georgiairving9262 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m finding myself looking forward to and looking to see if you have uploaded a video. I don’t do this with any channel on here. I love it and thank you for documenting your daily life. Really does make me smile 🥰🥰🥰

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you so much! That makes me so happy to hear!

  • @dramagirl813
    @dramagirl813 Před 2 lety +3

    Salaamu aleikum Hana! I just wanted to tell you two things:
    1. I will be making this soup very soon! Once the weather gets a little cooler.
    2. I love watching your videos. I’m a Muslim convert myself, so it’s nice seeing someone from a similar background who is able to find a religious community they love. I have been trying to find one that fits my values for a few years now. Here’s to finding that community! Any words of encouragement or advice would be much appreciated.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Hello! Enjoy the soup when you make it :) I’m so happy you found your spiritual home! For words of advice, I just think we need to follow our path :) it can be hard but it’s worth it

  • @martinelanglois3158
    @martinelanglois3158 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I love your attitude and I just love hearing you laugh. Great family. 💚

  • @candaceshaffer3543
    @candaceshaffer3543 Před 2 lety +39

    I don't know why, but listen to you speak makes these oncology charts I'm reading not feel so heavy.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +5

      Aw I love hearing that thank you! Take care and I hope you have a lovely day :)

    • @MarySmith-gu5nb
      @MarySmith-gu5nb Před 2 lety +2

      I hear ya! I am putting together powerpoint presentations of electron microscopy data and they never match up right and make me want to rip my hair out, and then? A Jar of Fireflies video to the rescue!!

    • @candaceshaffer3543
      @candaceshaffer3543 Před 2 lety

      @@MarySmith-gu5nb I'm saying. Her voice is so calming.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@MarySmith-gu5nb woohooooo! 😊 Y’all are making me smile!

    • @allisonpacino
      @allisonpacino Před 2 lety

      Same here! I'm a veterinary oncology nurse.

  • @yateee
    @yateee Před 2 lety +4

    I love listening to your voice - it’s kind of calming and after a long day of studying the best way to relax ☺️ hope you have a great week! ☀️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you so much! I hope you have a wonderful week as well 💜

  • @user-vu3iz3qz9o
    @user-vu3iz3qz9o Před 2 lety +2

    So beautiful when you dressed for shabat!!🤩🤩 and your table deign is amezing!! We are after the chagim (חגים) hope you had fun! We have a greht days😍🤗

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you! We had a lovely Chag, hope you did too!!!

  • @kathleenmacellis7253
    @kathleenmacellis7253 Před 2 lety +5

    I get waaaaay to anxious to host large numbers of people for holiday gatherings ! My brother fortunately loves hosting large gatherings so he does most of the holiday entertaining . I just bring a couple of our favorite holiday dishes and he does all the rest !

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      That is so nice that you have someone else who can take care of the big meals!

  • @MariaAndrade-um7wn
    @MariaAndrade-um7wn Před 2 lety +1

    I like the fact that if things don’t turn out perfect it’s OK and you’re OK with that as well because life sometimes isn’t perfect but it’s good

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      It’s true :) I used to be much more of a perfectionist but having kids had gotten me to loosen up a lot lol

  • @trishahumayun5483
    @trishahumayun5483 Před 2 lety +3

    Your videos are very refreshing to watch. I appreciate you take so much care and pride in being a homemaker. I wish you and your beautiful family the best. Take care.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      I love being a homemaker! Thank you so much for your kind words :) I hope you are having a lovely day :)

    • @trishahumayun5483
      @trishahumayun5483 Před 2 lety

      Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it. Prayers and positivity to you and your family 🌺

  • @user-jk9jx4cu6r
    @user-jk9jx4cu6r Před 2 lety +1

    Hi / I was smiling all the time when i watching this video 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @susansierra6652
    @susansierra6652 Před 2 lety +1

    WOW YOU MAKE EVERYTHING APPEAR SO EASY. SHABBOT SHALOM

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      I promise its not as easy as it looks, but it is fun! :) Shabbat Shalom!

  • @_tardigrade
    @_tardigrade Před 2 lety +9

    I'm happy to see that your channel is growing 😊 I also have fond memories of big meals in my childhood even though I'm quite the extreme introvert and always was. But looking back I was very fortunate to experience having meals with many family members and friends. Btw, I love the plates you got!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you! And thanks for sharing your memories form big meals :)

  • @colleendobsondatum3643
    @colleendobsondatum3643 Před 2 lety +6

    Thistles and Hydrangeas are my favorite too! I had them in my boutique for my marriage. I'm going to try the soup too. Thanks. Love watching you!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      I LOVE that you had them in your wedding bouquet!!! So fun! Let me know how you like the soup :)

  • @user-vu3iz3qz9o
    @user-vu3iz3qz9o Před 2 lety +2

    שבת חול המועד סוכות🤩🤩🤩
    Love your words😂😂

  • @CherylNoe
    @CherylNoe Před 2 lety +4

    Its makes me happy seeing you and your daughter sharing your mutual love for baking.
    She is lucky to be a Sukkot baby, rather than a Passover baby like myself. My birthday cakes weren't as yummy as I am sure hers was. Happy birthday!!!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      My English birthday often falls on Passover so I feel your pain!

  • @michaelurvoy
    @michaelurvoy Před 2 lety +4

    Hello, Chana,
    I hope that you are doing well. Your morning looked ideal. I love davening outside. Under a sukkah, under a tree, under the bare sky, literally anything! It really makes me feel closer to G-d.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      I totally agree with you! I have my best davening when I’m camping :)

  • @eilidhmu
    @eilidhmu Před 2 lety +8

    You are such a joy! I am one of your Scottish viewers and that soup looks soooo good! ❤️ The purple flowers also look like Scottish thistles!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      Yay!!!! Hello!!!! I have Scottish ancestry (very sting on both sides of my family) and am so very proud of my roots :)

    • @eilidhmu
      @eilidhmu Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies yay! Hello! That's so cool! ☺️ Do you know what areas of Scotland they came from?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@eilidhmu that I do not know yet. I know the clan names on both my parents sides, so that probably pegs me down to an area. I haven’t been able to visit yet but I would LOVE to one day and then I’d for sure figure out what areas my family lived so I could go to those places and perhaps even meet some distant relatives :)

    • @eilidhmu
      @eilidhmu Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies that sounds amazing! I'm from the Scottish Highlands, and I live right beside Loch Ness. I have looked a little bit into my family tree but I'd LOVE to look further into it.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@eilidhmu genealogy is very cool to me especially being as I was born in America which doesn’t have the family histories for most of us that other countries do. We have done a lot of research on both sides, but especially my moms which is our totally Scottish side (only half Scottish on my dads side)

  • @iceeyes8275
    @iceeyes8275 Před 2 lety +2

    Everything looked beautiful as always, most especially you! I hope everything is going well for you and your family and very happy birthday to your daughter 🎉🎈
    You are very much loved by so many of us and I get excited with each new video! Much love! ❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you thank you! I will pass along your birthday wishes to the birthday girl! 💜

  • @inthedaysstillleft1257
    @inthedaysstillleft1257 Před 2 lety +2

    Your table settings, flowers, and food are always so beautiful! Thank you for sharing.

  • @kimberlyberry3492
    @kimberlyberry3492 Před 2 lety +2

    You always manage to cheer me up when I am feeling down. Thank you so much

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      You are so welcome! Wishing you many cheerful days ahead!

  • @McCreaFamilyHomestead
    @McCreaFamilyHomestead Před 2 lety +1

    I love having everyone over. I have my entire family over for Thanksgiving and Christmas so I cook for 14.

  • @michellesunshinestar
    @michellesunshinestar Před 2 lety +1

    Talk about impeccable timing on the Amazon package!!!!!!! Glad your day was going well.

  • @samanthal562
    @samanthal562 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you again for a wonderful video. I just loved your daughters birthday cake. Cock-a-lee soup is something we love here in the UK too. Be blessed lovely 🙏

  • @karenhicks7816
    @karenhicks7816 Před 2 lety +3

    I have a big Christmas Eve dinner for family and close friends which is usually around 40 people. I set formal tables but serve buffet style. I love doing this each year. When my daughter was little she always complained but now sh she is married with children she speaks very fondly of those dinners, go figure.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Lol the things that change as we age :) I will say thanksgiving is my one exception, I could have a hundred people at thanksgiving and just be thrilled :)

    • @karenhicks7816
      @karenhicks7816 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies I agree I love Thanksgiving!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      @@karenhicks7816 me too 💖

  • @ABCD-si7px
    @ABCD-si7px Před 2 lety +2

    Shalom. Just found your channel and enjoying it. We are Israelites so we do some things differently but enjoy learning and sharing encouragement with everyone.

  • @lesleywhite6285
    @lesleywhite6285 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi Chana, Thanks for another beautiful video. I’ve only recently found your channel and as a non-Jew, have found it so interesting to learn about Judaism through your videos! As someone with a British heritage, I cannot believe I have never tried Cock-a-leekie soup!! It looks delicious! I hope your guests enjoyed it. I generally prefer quieter dinner parties but totally understand your point of there more chance for closer conversation with one or two in a larger group. I hope your cold didn’t take hold and that you’re feeling better soon. Happy Birthday to your daughter too! 🎉😊

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      You should totally try the soup! It’s so yum! I’m so glad you’re enjoying my videos :) Thank you!

  • @crazynanny4591
    @crazynanny4591 Před 2 lety +1

    Love entertaining with meals. Once on a Tuesday asked on social media "Anyone want to come over for dinner and hang out this Friday?" And had 38 people say yes ...was so much fun.

  • @debracubitt6191
    @debracubitt6191 Před 2 lety +1

    Hello Chana Enjoying your videos The children are so sweet Thank you for sharing I prepare gluten free meals and baking You have inspired me to try the soup I have never made it I am in awe at the number of people you prepare meals for You are amazing

  • @Zara-fd2ec
    @Zara-fd2ec Před 2 lety +5

    Chana🌹This was so nice to watch. The Suka looked so inviting and lovely.🥰 Loved the plates too! Loved to see your daughter helping you with her cake🎂❤So precious& it was adorable. The Flowers hubby got were gorgeous and Hydrangeas are of my favourites. Soup looks delish. 🍲My Mom made home made Jewish chicken soup as she called it& it was yummy. She put chopped leeks in it sometimes so I love leeks! I hope your head cold goes away fast& All went well for Shabbat too💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you so very much! I am so glad that you enjoyed :) We had a lovely time! Sadly my cold is lingering around but I’m not too tired :)

    • @Zara-fd2ec
      @Zara-fd2ec Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies Chana🌹you are welcome~and I hope your cold goes away soon. TLC of yourself..you deserve it🍵🍯❤🌹💜

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@Zara-fd2ec thank you so much!

    • @Zara-fd2ec
      @Zara-fd2ec Před 2 lety

      @@jaroffireflies aww Chana, you are very welcome. 💖

  • @LurkerSmurf
    @LurkerSmurf Před 2 lety +3

    Two tricks to reduce your cakes doming: 1, turn down the oven 10 degrees so it bakes slower. 2, get some cake baking strips. Wilton makes them. You soak them and wrap them around the pan so the edges bake at the same rate as the middle. Of course, then you have less garbage cake to snack on. If you have time, You've Been Desserted sometimes posts vegan and/or GF dessert recipes.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much for the tips! Ya, our cake bits I cut off never go to waste lol But larger cake layers would be really nice!

    • @kimberlybrock1579
      @kimberlybrock1579 Před 2 lety

      I just place one cake layer upside down so the domed part goes into the indent on the plate and the flat part is available for frosting and stacking. 😁

  • @KatiDebelic
    @KatiDebelic Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing your life as an orthodox Jew. You are so joyful and kind, it is lovely to watch as you explain the different celebrations and what happens during, what the protocols are ( ex deep cleaning the kitchen)- and i realize all the while that the children live a very normal existence, being kids and living their best lives with parents who love them. ❤️. one of my questions would be, are your own parents and siblings still part of your life? Are there safety concerns in regards to judaism and jews? What are the precautions you must take to be safe?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Hello! Thank you so much for your kind words :) I’m so glad you’re enjoying my channel! To answer your questions… Yes, my extended family is absolutely a part of our lives. There are safety concerns for sure. Due to safety concerns though I can’t get specific about precautions:)

  • @karenbailey9717
    @karenbailey9717 Před 2 lety +3

    Chana, you have a beautiful calmness about you. I wish I was like that! Do you think it's because of your faith or you're a naturally calm person? I watch your videos when I feel stressed and feel better! 😘

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      I’m so glad the videos help you feel better! I guess I am a naturally calm person but religion definitely adds to that :)

  • @annagracehayes
    @annagracehayes Před 2 lety +1

    Lol that airplane flew by for so long. I enjoy your videos as a whole but the bloopers are really making my night 😂

  • @jolo7173
    @jolo7173 Před 2 lety +1

    I really love your channel. Binging through your vids today. I especially love learning about the Jewish traditions, feasts and fasts, etc.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much! I’m so glad you’re here :) Thank you so much for watching!

  • @patriciagreene5842
    @patriciagreene5842 Před 2 lety +2

    I enjoy the outtakes at the end. I love the new plates and your love of life and family!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you and thank you! 💜💜💜 So glad you are enjoying:)

  • @homewithmiglad987
    @homewithmiglad987 Před 2 lety +1

    I prefer all the people! Also, you are beautiful and I have never had or heard of that soup!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for your kind words 😊 My bestie is an extrovert also lol

  • @Twobagsnolegs
    @Twobagsnolegs Před 2 lety +2

    Love watching your videos. They are calming & helps me keep my mind off my health. The table cloth make the kids decorations stand out more. I love bog meals but also get anxiety sometimes. Hope you & your family have a wonderful Monday

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for you lovely comment! I hadn’t thought of the tablecloth setting off the kids decorations! They need that now as the sun has faded them a bit already :)

  • @aprilschellman2472
    @aprilschellman2472 Před 2 lety +10

    I love your routine of eating/ reading in peace like a civilized human. As a homeschooling mom how do you do it? I haven't had a hot meal I didn't have to share or a devotional time that wasn't interrupted in years.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +8

      So I wake up early in the morning on purpose so I get that quiet time for myself :) For other meals I find that it works well for our family to have a really nice hot lunch (after book work in the morning so my kids get a nice break before we dive into afternoon activities, we are Charlotte Mason style), and then a super casual dinner that at it fanciest is like spaghetti :) But the big thing is waking up a good hour or two before my kids :)

    • @aspenenglish4976
      @aspenenglish4976 Před 2 lety +6

      I’m a homeschool veteran and all of my kids are either out of college or are in college. You have to make time for yourself. Your kids are going to be ok if you do something special just for YOU. That is not being selfish. It is called self-care. I’d you carve out a little time a day, you’ll find you’re a much better mom, teacher, wife and human being if you take some time for yourself first. Don’t skip a hot meal. It’s not good for you nutritionally and spiritually. Make something easy for dinner and sit down at the table and just have family dinner. My children had chores as long as they were able to do them. Of course it was picking up toys at first. As they grew and progressed, we’d teach them a new skill. That is also educational. We worked as a team and nobody was assigned a certain chore in a certain day. We all worked together for the common good of our household and for things to run smoothly. The children will appreciate it as they feel that stress too. Good bless no I hope you have some time to just be you.❤️

  • @chloenicol2597
    @chloenicol2597 Před 2 lety +4

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video.Can we just take a minute to enjoy the soup's name? Cockaleeky soup 🍲. Thank you for sharing these moments.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      Right? How could you not love a soup called cockaleekie :) It’s just fun to say!

  • @roseyc.5846
    @roseyc.5846 Před 2 lety +1

    Chana, I don't know HOW you do it! Hope your holidays were truly blessed. Happy Birthday to your adorable daughter! 🤗🎂 Thanks so much for sharing with us.
    Rosemarie 💖

  • @cathyclyde2483
    @cathyclyde2483 Před 2 lety +3

    Love your videos Chana 💕 Aren’t Jewish mums the world’s leading experts in the art of making chicken soup? Lots of love from N. Ireland 😀

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      I do believe Jewish mums have that title yes 😁😁😁

  • @lhernan301
    @lhernan301 Před 2 lety +1

    You are always such a sea of calm. I love having company but I tend to get stressed. Tell you daughter Happy Birthday.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I will definitely pass along your birthday wishes to my daughter :)

  • @kjkfly
    @kjkfly Před 2 lety +1

    I truly enjoy your videos. I’ve learned so much about your religion. Thank you for educating us and opening your home and life Ro everyone.

  • @bethbarclay855
    @bethbarclay855 Před 2 lety +1

    I have a habit of liking the videos before I have seen them once I get used to the videos.

  • @nancyletteer3170
    @nancyletteer3170 Před 2 lety +1

    Watching you always makes my heart happy. You are such a sweet person! Your table setting was beautiful. And you looked beautiful with your wig and that black dress. I hope your holidays were wonderful!

  • @debbiecrouch709
    @debbiecrouch709 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh my stars I’m rolling over here on your outtakes! Yep motherhood and life are truly adventures! Loved it

  • @manyalevine1017
    @manyalevine1017 Před 2 lety +2

    Happy birthday! Tip for bugs in sukah (for next year😉) we put an electronic bug zapper with altra violet light in the sukah, and that attracts the bugs to it and away from your plats and food.

  • @starwars_chola7001
    @starwars_chola7001 Před 2 lety +1

    I am such an airhead 🤦🏻‍♀️ @0:21 I thought wow that's a neat cake she made, until @0:29 I realize she puts a saucer and tea cup 😂 it's been a long day.

  • @wessebaggers
    @wessebaggers Před 2 lety +2

    Chana I love watching you ❤! You bring joy to my day thank you 😊! I live seeing you in the wig you are so beautiful inside and out ! God bless ❤

  • @witsonsmom729
    @witsonsmom729 Před 2 lety +2

    Your table looks very nice, I love your new plates. You always do things so nicely.

  • @debbiec4224
    @debbiec4224 Před 2 lety +2

    I so enjoyed this video! Loved the outtakes/bloopers at the end. I too am an introvert. I prefer small gathering of family. Love your daughters cake topper. So cute! Your table looked good and love the dishes. Hope your holidays were blessed. Ahh the bugs here in Texas! Still trying to get used to them along with the mosquitoes! Hope the rest of your week goes good!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed and I hope you are having a lovely week as well!

  • @luvsjudy
    @luvsjudy Před 2 lety +1

    You Are Simply Amazing!!! You Do Everything So Calmly And Are A Joy To Listen To…I Wanted To Find Out Why I Had Seen Jewish Men Holding A Palm During Sukkah…I Googled And Found Out…Were Do They Actually Get Them And What Are The Used For…It Reminded Me Of Palm Sunday…I Look Forward To Each New Video Of Yours…Wishing That Each New Day Your Family And You Are Blessed From Morning To Night♥️

  • @nechamahkahana5494
    @nechamahkahana5494 Před 2 lety +3

    HI I am an Orthodox mother of 7, I find it amazing you have the time to daven and eat breakfast like this! I hardly made it into the Succah during Chol Hamoed at all especially during this Chag. And where do your kids go when your filming? And where are they when your cooking?

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      Hello Nechamah! I wake up much earlier than my kids so I can have that time to pray. We all spend a lot of time in the sukkah together for meals or games or reading or anything like that. When I’m filming, my kids are around. You saw them in many parts of the video and if you watched the bloopers at the end you can see and hear them more :) I just don’t generally include much of them.

  • @karenhopper1691
    @karenhopper1691 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for the lovely video. So happy that this holiday has been fun and super special with your daughter's Birthday. I was holding my breath that your package arrived on time! You will have to update us as to how the bug situation worked out with the darker elements. I wish you and your family blessings and peace. 💖

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      Oh! The bugs did not bother us with the darker images!!! I’ll edit my comment to convey that :) Thank you!

  • @debraday5682
    @debraday5682 Před 2 lety +4

    Every thing looked lovely! So glad your daughter got to help with the cake. It looked enchanting and yummy!
    I am alone now, but when I used to have big get togethers, I tended to like them more after they were over.😆 I enjoyed sharing food and time with friends, but planning and anticipation weren’t as relaxing.
    I loved making soups of every kind for my family. Chicken and turkey vegetable soups were a big hit. Leeks are not my favorite, maybe because I just haven’t had them too many times.
    It was good to see you smiling! Hope you are conquering that cold!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +4

      Thank you! This darn cold is lingering but luckily we don’t have school to deal with this week :) thank you for your kind words and for sharing some of your story!

    • @debraday5682
      @debraday5682 Před 2 lety +2

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    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@debraday5682 thank you! I will look for that!

    • @dianajenkins2220
      @dianajenkins2220 Před 2 lety +2

      We usually go to a friends house for big gatherings since we live in an apartment, it’s a good size apartment but he lives on a non working farm and I love the fresh air and freedom of country life and miss it so much. I’m a country girl not a city girl!!!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@dianajenkins2220 oh that sounds lovely!

  • @kathleenpellicano9851
    @kathleenpellicano9851 Před 2 lety +1

    I love your spirit and patience! You have your priorities set to advantage your children and home first! You didn’t let the big group of guests overwhelm you so that you were able to let your daughter help with the cake! Respect. Did you have enough soup for everyone? Cake? I was getting nervous for you with soup on a hot night. I have to say your peace and confidence is amazing! P. S. Over the years I have learned to cut my flowers down to fit in smaller juice type glasses or small snifters so that the arrangements are below eye level and guests can see each other. You will have many tiny arrangements that will run down the center of the table. If the flowers try to pop out, make a tiny grid with scotch tape across the top and stick the stems in between. But I liken making the mini arrangements to balancing stones…you can get it to stay with a little patience…which you have in Spades! You are doing a mitzvah by making these videos. They are uplifting! Thank you.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words and the tips about the flowers! I do prefer a lower arrangement too :) I did have enough soup for everyone and even enough for some to have seconds and for me to have a little leftover :) The cake was the perfect amount for all to enjoy :)

    • @kathleenpellicano9851
      @kathleenpellicano9851 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies Thanks, now I can sleep tonight. : ) So great that you have a good eye for planning amounts. That is the confidence I mentioned.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      @@kathleenpellicano9851 😊😊😊

  • @billsmarysam1238
    @billsmarysam1238 Před 2 lety +1

    Your soup looks yummy! Happy Birthday to your sweet daughter!

  • @cdutka
    @cdutka Před 2 lety +1

    I love the idea of the plastic covering because washing and reironing a table cloth is the worst chore there is! LOL

  • @theresalally1620
    @theresalally1620 Před 2 lety

    Table looks beautiful! Love the plates❤️

  • @matthewbyrd7380
    @matthewbyrd7380 Před 2 lety +1

    I have never heard of that kind of soup! I definitely want to try it! Love your videos, your happiness is contagious!

  • @Dalupin702
    @Dalupin702 Před 2 lety +1

    To eliminate the domed cakes, use Bake Even Strips. They are insulated fabric liners that you soak in water that wrap around the outside of the baking pan. They ensure everything cooks evenly so no more domes! I don’t know if things like that need to be Kosher, but may be worth checking out. ☺️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much! I’m going to look into that!

  • @foreverblessed879
    @foreverblessed879 Před 2 lety +1

    You say OhhhhKayyy a lot 😂 it’s okay 😉 I’d be nervous behind a camera too.

  • @meghankelly799
    @meghankelly799 Před 2 lety +2

    I have had that soup! My Grandmother came from Scotland at 15!

  • @amberlinamiller9023
    @amberlinamiller9023 Před 2 lety +1

    Love this videos, as always!

  • @bethr82
    @bethr82 Před 2 lety +2

    Soup looks delicious, definitely a favourite in Scotland x love watching as alway ❤️

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you so much! The soup was a big hit at dinner and the perfect amount for me to feed everyone with a little leftover for me :)

  • @vergieclark131
    @vergieclark131 Před 2 lety +1

    Yay great to see another video from you ! Makes my day ! 💜

  • @elsands9774
    @elsands9774 Před 2 lety +1

    Enjoy your evening with friends and family. You look fabulous

  • @chaverim5189
    @chaverim5189 Před 2 lety +1

    fantastic how you decoratet the sukka-beautiful. Lots of kind regards, Alice

  • @diannamcbride1607
    @diannamcbride1607 Před 2 lety +1

    As always, I enjoyed this video so much. It's a learning adventure. The table looks so nice.

  • @lbazemore585
    @lbazemore585 Před 2 lety +1

    You are such a fine example of a young person who craved (craves) a culture of “meaning, purpose and a vision in which everything coheres”, and who has made very positive life choices. I see so many young people making poor choices, choosing violent paths, or military paths, or desperately seeking connection in serial relationships, and it is saddening to me. We have been critical of religious culture in all its forms for 100+ years as a “scientism” grew its roots. Religious cultures offer maps of relationship ideals, making family life healthier and more viable ideally. Yes, humans do not always live up to such ideals, but these cultural patterns are what we have inherited historically, and need to be revived! God bless you. May your example create a path for others to imitate in their own ways!

  • @Korea4Me
    @Korea4Me Před 2 lety +2

    How amazing it is to see Cock-a-Leekie soup being made in an Orthodox Jewish home. (I live in the Scottish Highlands, by the way). xx

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +3

      Oh wonderful! I live this soup :) I have Scottish roots on both sides of my family so I love connecting to that in ways that I can :)

  • @MediocreComedian
    @MediocreComedian Před 2 lety +1

    Hello Chana…I was so busy today and just sat down. I thought “something is missing”. Then I realized I did not have coffee with you today. What? 😊
    Thank you for this wonderful video and sharing your fun moments with your kiddos. Have a beautiful week 😍

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      Aw I love that you have coffee with me! Hope you enjoyed!

  • @bridgetdraper5146
    @bridgetdraper5146 Před 2 lety +1

    Happy birthday to your daughter! Blessings upon her always 💐

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you so much! I will tell her your kind words :)

    • @bridgetdraper5146
      @bridgetdraper5146 Před 2 lety

      Please. If i could. I would send her the magical cotten candy sparkly detangler i used for my now adult girls for her. Found at HEB. Girlfriend gonna need Aussie Frizz Ease later in life! My youngest girl is super curly. She LOVES my beach sprays and paste.

  • @Belushi87
    @Belushi87 Před 2 lety +1

    i hope this holiday lifted your spirit, especially with yom kipper behind you. you just have to take it one holiday at a time.

  • @kristinmiller4779
    @kristinmiller4779 Před 2 lety +2

    I've missed you! Hoping everything is going good for you and your family❤❤❤

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much! We have been having a lovely holiday :)

  • @bluemayim
    @bluemayim Před 2 lety +1

    whoa whoa whoa! show that spoon off! hope you are feeling better. oh! and Happy Birthday!!!

  • @franbowers7032
    @franbowers7032 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Chana a lovely video.Hope your daughter had a lovely birthday and she enjoyed her birthday cake. Hope you and your family are well.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      She very much enjoyed her birthday :) thank you for your kind words!

  • @superkitten7560
    @superkitten7560 Před 2 lety +1

    Perfect relaxing video to watch while sewing on a chilly morning

  • @tiagorman1553
    @tiagorman1553 Před 2 lety +1

    A very cute birthday cake, everyone loves Frozen😘. Your soup looked yummy and your table is very festive!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much! She went back and forth a lot about her birthday theme, but finally settled on Frozen :) She was very happy with her cake :)

  • @lindsayberry8749
    @lindsayberry8749 Před 2 lety +1

    The ending with your kids!! 😂😂 so funny and cute!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks :) My son was so excited to be in the video but then he saw the clip and was like Hey you can't even see me lol

  • @lliselsolis4456
    @lliselsolis4456 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing ! Love your content ♥️

  • @bobbidazzler1343
    @bobbidazzler1343 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm plant based now so don't eat cock a leekie soup but as a proud Scot, I remember how it tastes! Outrageously good!
    I hope that's a nod to your Scottish roots. 😘😘😘

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      I love that I’m so Scottish in my ancestry :) I’ve prepared many traditional Scottish foods but coco a leekie soup is above and beyond my favorite :)

  • @nancyayala2217
    @nancyayala2217 Před 2 lety +1

    Happy birthday to your daughter 🌻🎊🎈🎁🎂🍰💐

  • @gloriouslyimperfect
    @gloriouslyimperfect Před 2 lety +1

    I grew up in a large Italian family that was all close by. I didn't know how to cook for a small gathering. Everything was always made for like 20 people and that's how I learned to cook . Was a hard adjustment when I went to college, though the roommates - and everyone else - was always well fed. :)

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      That’s like my husband, he can’t cook a small meal lol

    • @gloriouslyimperfect
      @gloriouslyimperfect Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies food is my love language. Hate cooking just for me (I live alone) but love cooking for friends and loved ones!

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +2

      @@gloriouslyimperfect I love cooking for friends also 💜

  • @iritbenarye943
    @iritbenarye943 Před 2 lety

    I really enjoy your videos. Because I'm from Israel, it's fascinating to see how the Jewish holidays are celebrated abroad. My daughter's birthday is also in Sukkot ( gimel of chol hamoed) - happy birthday 🎂
    You are truly an inspiration.
    Love from Israel.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety

      How fun! Happy belated birthday to your daughter!!!

  • @witsonsmom729
    @witsonsmom729 Před 2 lety +1

    I made the Cock-a-leekie soup today, using tomato instead of carrots and wild rice instead of white rice, it's delicious and was fun to try after seeing you make it.

  • @reneematlock9657
    @reneematlock9657 Před 2 lety +1

    Children are wonderful. There was a time when only having 15 at the dinner table had me looking around to see who was missing. We have 19 kids in total. I use leeks frequently in all sorts of things - including soups. I typically cut them in half lengthwise and then in rings so that I can rinse any dirt that may be inside them out. I also typically dehydrate about 15 pounds (dehydrated) of leeks every year so that I have them for whatever even when we're in the middle of a blizzard and dinner is needed.

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      Wow 19 kids! That’s amazing!

    • @reneematlock9657
      @reneematlock9657 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jaroffireflies We adopted 16. I love kids. We homeschooled as well. I'm currently homeschooling grandkids because of Covid and them being immunocompromised (it's NOT what I thought I was going to be doing when the grandkids started arriving let me tell ya).

    • @jaroffireflies
      @jaroffireflies  Před 2 lety +1

      @@reneematlock9657 amazing! How beautiful! Ya, I bet that’s not what you expected at all lol