another ex speaks up against imallexx

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Komentáře • 378

  • @b.butler6740
    @b.butler6740 Před 2 měsíci +1139

    okay so the run down/summary of the slazo thing: basically someone named Chey accused ex partner Slazo of being creepy/gross towards them when they were a minor and that they didnt want the advances. Slazo made a video refuting the allegations and proving them wrong. Later it came out that ImAlex either convinced Chey to post the allegations (im not exactly sure what happened). If you want a video about it i reccomend The Right Opinion's video about it, i think its really good.

    • @knitwitchpgh
      @knitwitchpgh Před 2 měsíci +14

      Thanks!

    • @sad.jackfr00t
      @sad.jackfr00t Před 2 měsíci +77

      Or Uncle Herman’s video, which is much shorter and more palatable

    • @McGheeBentle
      @McGheeBentle Před 2 měsíci +109

      The awful result of this whole thing is that Slazo’s CZcams career (which was going really great, he had really funny commentary, like genuinely good videos imo) was completely derailed by the whole drama. You can watch the videos he recorded about the drama and you can tell that he’s just so discouraged by it. Even when the truth came out, he never really bounced back, and you can tell he was never quite comfortable posting again. He hasn’t posted in a couple of years. It’s such a shame because like I said, he has actually entertaining videos. Go watch his old videos from three-four years ago to support him! I hope this whole imallex thing makes even more people support him and maybe one day he’ll feel comfortable to come back

    • @ellipirpipple1301
      @ellipirpipple1301 Před 2 měsíci +23

      wait we should clarify here, werent slazo and chey both minors at the time? if what he did is true that does NOT make it any better but as far as im aware slazo wasnt exhibiting p**ophelic behavior it was just gross

    • @mandapanties
      @mandapanties Před 2 měsíci

      btw Slazo was only 16 and Chey was 14. so them constantly referring to her as a minor is irrelevant as it is a totally normal age gap and both were minors. I agree with the The Right Opinion recommendation if you want the FULL story

  • @arson_2026
    @arson_2026 Před 2 měsíci +711

    It’s insane how many people he’s allegedly done this to, it breaks my heart that they weren’t believed until now

    • @HillbillyYEEHAA
      @HillbillyYEEHAA Před 2 měsíci +10

      You could tell he was a pos by the way he treats his "friends"

    • @brigid1698
      @brigid1698 Před 2 měsíci +7

      ​@@HillbillyYEEHAA I've only learned of this guy in the last five ish months, and from his Elphaba (no clue how to spell her name) stuff. Which I see is all gone? Along with that sob video he released of the sick individual's passing. Which I'm sad to say was likely a distraction and empathy grab...

    • @user-ro7kt4te6p
      @user-ro7kt4te6p Před 2 měsíci +5

      Do you need to say allegedly on a CZcams comment lol

    • @AlijahandEl
      @AlijahandEl Před 2 měsíci

      Right

    • @thatcitrusfriend6234
      @thatcitrusfriend6234 Před 2 měsíci +1

      That's the sad thing about abuse honestly, there's usually more than one person they've done (or will do) it to

  • @Deets-Does-Stuff
    @Deets-Does-Stuff Před 2 měsíci +615

    His abuse has clearly been escalating over the years. What will it take for there to be repercussions? My heart goes out to his victims.

    • @Ellie_Bond
      @Ellie_Bond Před 2 měsíci +19

      Sadly, in this country and many others, it doesn’t happen until actual damage is done and even then, the victims usually have to fight tooth and nail for it.
      Ultimately, we are mere women. We shouldn’t be in this mindset, but why do we expect victims to be taken seriously anymore… especially when decades of statistics show that we are rarely believed despite physical evidence, and subsequently, the perpetrators are rarely held accountable.
      Every day more stories are shared, and everyday I lose another ounce of faith in humanity. I fear there’s none left.
      Edit: People may not agree with this, but I personally believe his friends should hold themselves accountable for at least not calling him out and just letting him carry on life. I know he was reported to his agency and we obviously don’t know everything behind the scenes… but after hearing ‘I didn’t even know they’d broken up’… like why weren’t you making sure she was okay even though you weren’t friends with HIM? Especially if you already knew his behaviour was questionable enough to stop being his friend? I don’t know, something about it just doesn’t sit right with me. Ultimately as a society we won’t progress until ‘good men’ call out the bad men and hold them accountable. Only when that happens, will it spread.

    • @Aylii1
      @Aylii1 Před 2 měsíci +2

      We might have to wait until someone actually gets hurt and traumatized.. shitty ass justice system man.

    • @07Flash11MRC
      @07Flash11MRC Před 2 měsíci +3

      He should have his platform taken away from him. That'll instantly stop the cashflow he makes from YT.

    • @rainbowwolf3436
      @rainbowwolf3436 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I find it hypocritical that Alex openly called out JoJo Siwa,James Charles, Jeffree Star and he's just like them if not worse.

    • @wordnado9788
      @wordnado9788 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Whatever is going on in his life has enabled/allowed him to get worse. We all make mistakes but this is repeat behavior that is, like you said, getting worse. I hope he gets better, he’s too young to be this aggressive over small things.

  • @Emma_78
    @Emma_78 Před 2 měsíci +367

    Adam you are not a bottom of the barrel CZcamsr, whatsoever 😂 unlike some other drama CZcamsrs, you actually have care about the stuff you talk about, and it shows ❤️❤️

    • @montananerd8244
      @montananerd8244 Před 2 měsíci +41

      And Adam, you’ve used your increased visibility to platform victims & amplify unheard voices. You are an exemplary influencer, and a fantastic role model. No victim has the obligation to become an advocate, let me be clear, but when a person has the emotional & cognitive bandwidth to turn surviving into moving society forward in a positive way…,well, that’s how we move society forward in a positive way! Bless you, kiddo,you’re the real deal. I refer to you as an online activist & advocate for survivors of abuse, with a drama channel & a gaming stream for fun.

    • @cassandramae85
      @cassandramae85 Před 2 měsíci +3

      ​@@montananerd8244 Well said!! I second this!! ❤

    • @hannahlanai
      @hannahlanai Před 2 měsíci +2

      I was just thinking that too. He really seems to have a lot of genuine empathy for victims- unlike a lot of other commentary youtubers that are just covering victims' stories to make money.

    • @irradiated_woman8016
      @irradiated_woman8016 Před 2 měsíci +2

      If adam is at the bottom of the barrel, he's the cream of the crop of the bottom of the barrel!

    • @gillianmarie5895
      @gillianmarie5895 Před 2 měsíci

      Factsssss

  • @joym1453
    @joym1453 Před 2 měsíci +138

    giving everyone written evidence of your violence threats is such a big brained move 🥴

    • @billivee
      @billivee Před 2 měsíci +27

      He’s 5ft tall, I’m not shaming just pointing out that he should be a pacifist

  • @frog8504
    @frog8504 Před 2 měsíci +273

    someone lock this man UP- i fully believe that abusers are disgusting and deserve jail time. I think these women are so brave for leaving and for speaking up. Sending all my love to them.

    • @zazamaster489
      @zazamaster489 Před 2 měsíci +2

      you can’t just say “lock all abusers up”. it’s incredibly ignorant. our prisons and jails are already overcrowded, and what alex and almost all other abusers need is MENTAL help, somewhere specialized for their issues; not to just be thrown in prison and inevitably become an even worse person. In a perfect world …

    • @ohboy-zi1yf
      @ohboy-zi1yf Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@zazamaster489 it has been shown time and time again that abusers cannot be rehabilitated.

    • @blondesouls7525
      @blondesouls7525 Před 2 měsíci

      While many abusers do not change, some do. I've known many. They needed mental health services and a WILLINGNESS to change. Most don't have the willingness to change unfortunately.​@@ohboy-zi1yf

    • @wordnado9788
      @wordnado9788 Před 2 měsíci

      I agree, I also think they need help. Usually abusers were abused and clearly they believe what they do will “work” so they mentally have a broken thought pattern. In prison there will be more abuse and that could reinforce their behavior when they get out and make them worse.

    • @frog8504
      @frog8504 Před 2 měsíci

      @@zazamaster489 i didnt say that but go off 🤩 Most abusers need mental help but it wont do any good unless they believe that what they did was wrong and think they need help and accept it.

  • @VampiJessy
    @VampiJessy Před 2 měsíci +416

    My ex was very narcissistic. He would cheat and blame me for looking at his accounts. He would go from 0 to 100 and punch me in my back and scream at me. Then he would cry just like Alex and beg for forgiveness. He would tell me how sorry he was and how he just got so angry, and he doesn't know why he's like this, and he'll do better. Then I would comfort him and say I was sorry. He never did better. It only got worse until I was strong enough to leave. They never do better. This story has been triggering to follow, but I appreciate you covering it, and he absolutely needs to be blasted for what he's done. Hearing him talk to her the way he did was so hard to sit through. I'm sending her and his other victims so much love. Thank you for pushing through and covering this in its entirety Adam. 🌸

    • @effylena
      @effylena Před 2 měsíci

      You deserve better 💖 fck that guy

    • @amberadams2935
      @amberadams2935 Před 2 měsíci +15

      It's spooky listening to him sound like ppl we alrdy knew..sending good luck n friendship ur way❤

    • @Aylii1
      @Aylii1 Před 2 měsíci +6

      Holy shit. I honestly could not deal with that at all. I can’t even believe people behave like that like wow. I’m glad you’re no longer with them but bro if that was me he’d probably be dead or I’d be dead for trying him. Because no WAY. People are insane!!!! I hope you’re doing much better now.

    • @CerealXperimentsLain
      @CerealXperimentsLain Před 2 měsíci +4

      Amen to that, I’m sorry you lived through such an awful abusive relationship, bravo for recognizing the toxic pattern and getting out!!

    • @AlijahandEl
      @AlijahandEl Před 2 měsíci +2

      I’m sorry you lived through that, you are so strong

  • @laurentoren
    @laurentoren Před 2 měsíci +92

    the “walking on eggshells” is so telling of narcissistic behavior. i hope his victims are doing alright :/

  • @xoxowena
    @xoxowena Před 2 měsíci +121

    CZcams putting a bumble advertisement on this is somethin else

    • @nimblenimbus9923
      @nimblenimbus9923 Před 2 měsíci +1

      what is bumble?

    • @keiishine
      @keiishine Před 2 měsíci

      @@nimblenimbus9923a dating app

    • @megib901
      @megib901 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@nimblenimbus9923 a dating app I think.

    • @Stayment
      @Stayment Před 2 měsíci +11

      That’s just nasty work right there 😂

  • @jaqsre
    @jaqsre Před 2 měsíci +83

    “i don’t tell my friends so why are you telling yours” well probably because if you told your mates what you did they would call you a freak? just a thought!

    • @dunjunart
      @dunjunart Před 2 měsíci +5

      yeah there's an unstated but very obvious hint of guilt there

  • @breauseph
    @breauseph Před 2 měsíci +105

    "I make the same content, we are the bottom of the barrel" worrrrrrk 😂😂😂

    • @eileensnow6153
      @eileensnow6153 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I rewatched from 10:24 to 10:43 like ten times 😂

    • @breauseph
      @breauseph Před 2 měsíci

      @@eileensnow6153 thank you for timestamping that for me so I could go back and laugh again

    • @eileensnow6153
      @eileensnow6153 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@breauseph no problem, I did it for myself too 😂

    • @SamBamOnTheCam
      @SamBamOnTheCam Před 2 měsíci +1

      Lmao same 🤣

  • @MADEbySOUL
    @MADEbySOUL Před 2 měsíci +145

    Creepshow, iilluminaughtii, and now this.

    • @wardenshepard6229
      @wardenshepard6229 Před 2 měsíci +36

      All 3 were instant unsubscribes. So upsetting

    • @mick6247
      @mick6247 Před 2 měsíci +28

      And the fact all were popular commentary channels at the time then their careers ended in basically a week due to how evil they were

    • @lmnlstes
      @lmnlstes Před 2 měsíci +5

      Don’t forget Observe/Logan.

    • @wardenshepard6229
      @wardenshepard6229 Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@lmnlstes oh hell nah, what did he do??? Istg if I gotta unsubscribe from him too-

    • @JuleMRuiz
      @JuleMRuiz Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@lmnlstes What? What happened with Logan? Gdi

  • @egallagher4185
    @egallagher4185 Před 2 měsíci +152

    fell out of the damn coconut tree when i saw this one
    (in all seriousness i have all of his victims in my heart right now)

  • @Shinigami344
    @Shinigami344 Před 2 měsíci +93

    Btw from baited podcast, the info was that imallexx also threatened his youtuber "friends" that he had like files of info ready to ruin their lives if they do something wrong and that was well known back in the day and not even like real info just like made up stuff like he did to Slazo, so he is just a full on slimebag

    • @alp_7437
      @alp_7437 Před 2 měsíci +27

      Bro definitely saw how Jeffree Star blackmails everyone and thought he could do that too

    • @ambored24
      @ambored24 Před 2 měsíci +11

      This makes sense. It honestly seemed like he was holding James hostage in the last video they did together, if I remember correctly. There was definitely a time where I realized the vibe was way off and Alex was clearly the problem

  • @h3ll0k1ttygirlie
    @h3ll0k1ttygirlie Před 2 měsíci +105

    man i do think ani should make it right with slazo after she helped push the false allegations against him but i also don’t think it means she shouldn’t be allowed to share her experience with alex. it’s not suddenly invalid because she fucked up years ago. it was wrong but what does bringing it up now do for anyone?

    • @jaqsre
      @jaqsre Před 2 měsíci +13

      true, but it’s hard to take someone at their word when they tried to ruin someone elses career/life. i don’t think it was a mistake im ngl

    • @h3ll0k1ttygirlie
      @h3ll0k1ttygirlie Před 2 měsíci +31

      @@jaqsre becomes much easier to take her at her word when she is 1 of 3 women saying very similar things about the same person. and i’m not fully educated on her role in the situation but i still dont think it’s a good reason to refuse to hear her out. and again, what does bringing it up now do for anyone?

    • @gayhomosexuallll
      @gayhomosexuallll Před 2 měsíci

      Exactly.

    • @gayhomosexuallll
      @gayhomosexuallll Před 2 měsíci

      @@jaqsrebut we clearly know that Alex is an abuser so she should be believed.

    • @gayhomosexuallll
      @gayhomosexuallll Před 2 měsíci

      @@h3ll0k1ttygirliethis

  • @mayneedsleep
    @mayneedsleep Před 2 měsíci +58

    A third ex has hit the world trade center

  • @snowfall4953
    @snowfall4953 Před 2 měsíci +59

    I’m really happy his exs are his exs and have gotten away from him but I’m upset they have been hurt by him. I’m proud of them for speaking out and sharing their story

  • @amykru
    @amykru Před 2 měsíci +61

    He's an internet sensation now: sensationally awful.

  • @pbm5903
    @pbm5903 Před 2 měsíci +88

    I read that Alex defended Onision, so that made me side-eye him right away.

    • @greendayfangirl1000
      @greendayfangirl1000 Před 2 měsíci +16

      He did in the beginning but later on became one of Onions biggest haters

    • @Ellie_Bond
      @Ellie_Bond Před 2 měsíci +43

      @@greendayfangirl1000that honestly just sounds like he saw too much of himself in onision, stood up for him, and then when it was proven true, realised he had to join the bandwagon lol

    • @MichelleHarris-zf6wn
      @MichelleHarris-zf6wn Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@Ellie_BondYes definitely!

  • @anaxlouise
    @anaxlouise Před 2 měsíci +73

    i genuinely hope this situation will make it outside of just the internet sphere. alex is a dangerous person, very evidently at this point, and needs to face repercussions in his actual life.

    • @Ellie_Bond
      @Ellie_Bond Před 2 měsíci +8

      Considering he was a public figure online, if he even dares puts ‘content creator/youtube’ on his CV, when they Google him to check his content…. Oof. Honestly, there will be NO escaping this professionally speaking.

  • @angieisadork
    @angieisadork Před 2 měsíci +75

    Just when it can't get any worse, somehow he gets a shovel and digs himself deeper.. Breaks my heart that the victims weren't believed to begin with.. hell that's the reason it took me so long to open up to just the people in my personal life about being SA'd as a teen.. Thank you so much for covering this and for amplifying the voices of those who *were* silenced

  • @honeybunny420
    @honeybunny420 Před 2 měsíci +53

    It just gets worse & worse 😶

  • @dedmeme8385
    @dedmeme8385 Před 2 měsíci +18

    I would just love to be a fly on the wall of Alex's apartment, to see how he is taking all of this... That his web of lies, manipulation and abuse is crumbeling around him.... God what I wouldnt do for that oppertunity...

    • @TatertotsTV
      @TatertotsTV Před 2 měsíci +8

      Due to the fact he punched Alice's computer when she left the house so probably a lot of punching

    • @dedmeme8385
      @dedmeme8385 Před 2 měsíci +10

      @@TatertotsTV People say that men that joke about physically assaulting you is just one bad thought away from doing it. Always take a mans word as a warning in that matter. Does he "joke" or threaten about killing you, take it as a warning... One does not joke about that if they have not had the thought...

    • @kayakat1869
      @kayakat1869 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Hope hes crying lol

  • @SamFokker
    @SamFokker Před 2 měsíci +28

    Just bc it's loosely on topic, I got told yesterday I meet the criteria for BPD (and severe ADHD lol) after suspecting it in myself for a couple years, and seeing some of this discourse regarding Allex's mental is terrifying and devastating; if anyone has any words of peace or wisdom.
    This 'man' is absolute abusive trash and I could never do things like this to someone I love.
    Adam, thank YOU for covering this in a way that feels genuinely supportive of Alice. CinnamonToastKen let me down.

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma Před 2 měsíci +3

      Wait, Alex has BPD? I thought it was bipolar... I remember back in the day when he ripped BPD to shreds, which made me disappointed because I have it too. Now I wonder if it was due to self-hatred...

    • @rruysch
      @rruysch Před 2 měsíci

      many people are misdiagnosed with BPD - particularly women/afab with ADHD - that being said the same coping mechanisms have been useful for both diagnoses - Dialectical behavior therapy. Oposite action. Theres some good personal accounts of helpful tools on tiktok. It's basically emotion regulation and communication tools. If you're really worried a crisis plan can be an option. All of it hinges on your ability to be honest with yourself and finding a good therapist is a must. But there are different types of BPD - petulant, impulsive, discouraged, self destructive. Having 'the same' diagnosis doesn't mean you're capable of the same things.

    • @brigid1698
      @brigid1698 Před 2 měsíci +15

      Your second paragraph is something you need to latch onto. Alex may have a BDP diagnosis, but YOU would never do what he did. Just because you two share a commonality does not make you him nor does it suggest BPD is scary and makes you dangerous. You are n o t Alex. You are not any violent individual, with or without BPD. Keep doing you, boo. You're strong and have got this. Congratulations on your possible diagnoses!

    • @jiyu9277
      @jiyu9277 Před 2 měsíci

      I’ve never seen anyone actually confirm Alex has BPD, i think people are just assuming

    • @rruysch
      @rruysch Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@PGOuma he seems to fall under cluster B personality disorder most likely the narcissistic catagory. ppl are suggesting it might be BPD. no one should be diagnosing him. i can say i was in an abusive relationship with someone with unmanaged BPD and it was a similar patern of behaviour to what Alice documented.
      He has always been a moral grandstander. He characteristicly responded with the same passion to minor and major problems which to me indicates he has no moral compas of his own, (not typical for BPD) but rather says what he thinks ppl want to hear. It would make sense that if he is self-hating, he thinks everyone would hate too. But he could just be a p**ck.
      Definitely the reason my ex's BPD was unmanaged was bcos she thought ppl would hate her if she accepted it. Nothing i said about accepting it improving her relationships sunk in. I felt very sorry for her.

  • @ChantyFierce
    @ChantyFierce Před 2 měsíci +26

    My heart goes out to the victims of this narcissist, I hope they are able to find healing and peace.

  • @TheMadAfrican1
    @TheMadAfrican1 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Okay this is just so awful, because the responses from people are gross. So many saying stuff like "Slazo must be smiling", "I always knew he was a creep", and other such absolute nonsense. The victims are what matter here. They need support. They don't need some idiot saying stupid stuff with 20/20 hindsight. And the fact that victims don't have any other recourse other than going through all the horrible stuff that happened to them and posting all of it publicly, is so unbelievably crazy.

  • @Theodoredraws
    @Theodoredraws Před 2 měsíci +42

    I've watched Alex for years, I would even classify him as one of my favourite CZcamsrs before I found out about all of the allegations. This is vile, end of story. Send all the love and support to the victims.

  • @SevenReads007
    @SevenReads007 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Again I’m so grateful that you’re covering this with so much empathy for the survivors. I survived a narcissistic abuse situation as well and seeing this covered with so much compassion and distaste for the abuser has helped me cope with what happened to me.

    • @Princess-cz3hg
      @Princess-cz3hg Před 2 měsíci +1

      I feel the same way, thank you for leaving this comment.

  • @AJFilms14
    @AJFilms14 Před 2 měsíci +17

    Not Adam whispering “we are the bottom of the barrel babe”

  • @mariac4127
    @mariac4127 Před 2 měsíci +8

    I watched Alex’s channel during quarantine. It was extraordinarily mid. I cannot believe he’s talking about his job like he’s curing cancer. My thoughts are with the victims.

  • @Luke-stays
    @Luke-stays Před 2 měsíci +7

    Adam your take on everything has given me peace on my situation. Alex sounds exactly like one of my exes and it's weird to see it happen to another person basically the same way.

  • @ScoobyDoobyD0nt
    @ScoobyDoobyD0nt Před 2 měsíci +16

    This keeps spiraling omg I feel so bad for all the exes involved- so shocked imalex hasn’t got himself on a list yet.

  • @thatwitchychick2717
    @thatwitchychick2717 Před 2 měsíci +58

    Ani was involved in the Slazo situation. Slazo was Alex's friend and Alex got behind someone falsely accusing Slazo of rape.
    Ani also spoke in defense of the person making the false allegations and Slazo ended up clearing his name. Alex lost a lot of subs at the time and a lot of his friends from that incident.

  • @international_icon
    @international_icon Před 2 měsíci +37

    Jesus LOCK ALEX UPPP!!!! JAIL NOW

    • @heavenjb
      @heavenjb Před 2 měsíci

      Sadly? Most police don’t care about verbal or narcissistic abuse 😢mine lied and said he was abused!! Then tried to file criminal harassment charges ( sadly I married the idiot ) he told out right lies and they didn’t even get a statement from me! Luckily the ex narc felt bad he was drunk when he made the false allegations and he knew I had a NOVEL of evidence! But court ? Post cancer I had had would have killed me! Narcissistic abuse ? Police don’t care 😢

  • @literaturewithlily
    @literaturewithlily Před 2 měsíci +13

    Loving the daily uploads!!!

  • @user-sv8tx9ic1v
    @user-sv8tx9ic1v Před 2 měsíci +7

    My narcissistic ex's were terrible but geez not even they spoke so violently 😮 he's pike a ticking timebomb

  • @sad.jackfr00t
    @sad.jackfr00t Před 2 měsíci +18

    I really wonder if Alex will ever make a response to all this…

    • @brigid1698
      @brigid1698 Před 2 měsíci +14

      He's deleted his recent stuff that made him look good. He's either gone or gonna pull a Colleen and reappear right before the 6 month money thing

    • @kayakat1869
      @kayakat1869 Před 2 měsíci +5

      All aboard!

    • @dakoda1047
      @dakoda1047 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@brigid1698what’s the 6 month money thing?

  • @bloodflowers111
    @bloodflowers111 Před 2 měsíci +6

    The way Al*x acts reminds me a lot of my brother. My brother has bipolar disorder and used to threaten violence, yell, and degrade me and my family in the same way Al*x did. My brother always gets this soulless, black look in his eyes when he gets violent like that- it's as if he's switched into a different person, and I saw this exact phenomenon in the clips of Al*x verbally abusing Alice. Seeing those clips of Al*x being violent genuinely made me feel sick, as if reliving my trauma. He also looks similar to my brother too which doesn't help... Same mustache/stubble look, blue eyes, skinny and weak looking. I have no doubt that Al*x was still very physically powerful despite his small stature, just like my brother is. He is not to be taken lightly. Pure unbridled anger and borderline insanity makes even the weakest looking people unbelievably strong and forceful. I don't doubt that Al*x would've been able to go through with those physical threats he said to both Alice and Jess, and that they weren't just threats- he MEANT what he said. Just like my brother. My brother is mostly okay now after being diagnosed and going on antipsychotics (huge improvement) but I'm still terrified to be around him at times and have gut reactions to flinch and hide. Not going to diagnose this excuse of a man but from personal experience it's pretty obvious to me that has some form of mental disorder that's making it easier for him to fall into these violent behaviours- whether it be bipolar, bpd, npd or something else I don't know. Mental disorders like these don't automatically make you a shitty person but makes it much easier to fall into violent, maladaptive and antisocial behaviours in my opinion. I hope Alice, Jess and any other victims are able to heal from this and have the signs they need to know who to avoid and look out for.

  • @eezzeeism
    @eezzeeism Před 2 měsíci +5

    Fuck this is entire thing is so triggering which reinforces that I really was in an emotionally abusive relationship and I wasn't just making all of that up. Fucking hell. It's exactly the same as Jess' story, especially the same with how much I loved him and cared for him, but him never caring about my problems, and breaking up on Valentine's!

  • @jordangulickson1049
    @jordangulickson1049 Před 2 měsíci +8

    I clicked so fast! I'm watching other creators cover this but will still watch your uploads too

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma Před 2 měsíci +1

      Same here lol

  • @rugbug531
    @rugbug531 Před 2 měsíci +7

    PLEASE you are not bottom of the barrel, you care about the shit you talk about, also you have a soothing voice and personality and are just the best background noise and way too learn about current news and past internet drama
    Don’t degrade yourself you’re perfect babes

  • @by_the_garden5482
    @by_the_garden5482 Před 2 měsíci +4

    All love to the ones coming out about this. I had a 3 year relationship that was full of abusive behavior, isolating me from everyone while I was dealing with reconciling with my csa after blocking it out for years, sexual coercion despite knowing my trauma, constant arguments where I was made to feel insane for having feelings, and so much neglect. Hearing the ImAlex situation is so reminiscent of that relationship and it’s honestly so hard to hear the things he’s saying and the love bombing after the breakup is so disgustingly similar to my situation. I don’t really have places to talk about this so I figure this is a good video to get my story out, writing this mostly for my peace of mind because this situation has been so awful and reminds me of something awful I went through. These girls deserve the space and time to heal and while this coming out is amazing, I hope they still find some of the privacy they deserve.

  • @alexb7092
    @alexb7092 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm so sorry to all of those incredible women :( I've been with guys like this before, I hope that if you find yourself in a situation like this, get out!
    I know it's easier said than done, however :(

  • @VampMedusa
    @VampMedusa Před 2 měsíci +19

    This is how so many true crime cases start. Some will literally tell people that they're going to k!ll their partners...and THEN THEY DO! Also, if someone threatens to hurt themselves if you leave them, that's sometimes "code" for "Actually I'm going to hurt YOU if you leave me, but i'll also hurt you if you stay." People like Alex are murd€r€rs in the making. Just saying. 🤘🏻

  • @mcdugis
    @mcdugis Před 2 měsíci +3

    i knew i saw alex getting canceled for this years ago, i looked for it on yt cuz i remember a lot of videos but i couldnt find any (i think yt took the option to look for videos uploaded on a specific year) im so glad u r talking about this

  • @CWazBroadwayBandGeek
    @CWazBroadwayBandGeek Před 2 měsíci +10

    Long story short: Alex accused Slazo of SA. Those allegations were proven false. Alex doubled down on it even after the allegations were factually proven false.

  • @heavenjb
    @heavenjb Před 2 měsíci +20

    I just left narcisstic abuse two years ago..he did the same stuff to me that he did to his first wife! She didn’t tell me and god how I wish she told me. And it doesn’t matter how old you are? This can happen at any time! But I’m soo glad Alice spoke up!! I know how hard that must have been for her! Alice ? Is Stunning!! She is everything that Alex will never be!! 💕 and she’s brave!! You’ve got this Alice…and what you did meant soo much!!

    • @lisarodriguez6966
      @lisarodriguez6966 Před 2 měsíci +11

      I understand your point, and while it's good to hope for a heads up, if you're honest with yourself you may realize you wouldn't have been open to it. Especially in the midst of a love bombing. I tried to warn the next girl, and she laughed and said she'd never have it happen to her. Until it did.

    • @user-eb6sr3iw7l
      @user-eb6sr3iw7l Před 2 měsíci +2

      I had an abusive narcissist family that did a full on smear campaign for leaving abusive relative who also stole money from me for years. It’s awful as they twist and manipulate everything.

    • @notericforeman
      @notericforeman Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@lisarodriguez6966 I’ve been called a monster for not telling my ex’s new gf that he’s an animal ab^ser and physically violent, but why would she believe me? Hes gonna tell her im crazy, take her to dinner, play the “my crazy ex hurt me so much” card, and shes gonna think i’m nuts. Tried warning a girl about a different, emotionally unstable ex and she told me to stuff it, because i probably just wanted him back. Yucko. No way sister 😂

    • @lisarodriguez6966
      @lisarodriguez6966 Před 2 měsíci

      @@notericforeman I get that. I've since come to the realization that the smear campaign comes before any warning is possible and we're already labeled as the crazy, bitter ex. And I stand behind most people not believing it, anyway. They're getting attention and flattery and thinking they're better than the ex. It's a lesson learned the hard way.

  • @fangsuigetsu5
    @fangsuigetsu5 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Lol the whispering had me 😭😭 love you Adam 🖤

  • @pupp_maxx
    @pupp_maxx Před 2 měsíci +18

    prayers & love to all of Alex’s exs/victims❣️❣️

  • @karuti11
    @karuti11 Před 2 měsíci +11

    as someone who was in a very abusive relationship when i was 16 (and being groomed) i just hope finally being able to speak up and BEING BELIEVED gives those girls some closure. I asked friends and family for help when I went through something similar but my ex was so good at what he was doing that none of them took me seriously and "why are you being so hard on him?". After everything came out and people found out the truth it finally gave me some of my sanity back.
    Incredibly brave to speak up especially when its such a public thing

  • @Hannah-zr9mp
    @Hannah-zr9mp Před 2 měsíci +4

    Hi Adam! Love watching your videos while I work. Keep doing your thing 😊

    • @heavenjb
      @heavenjb Před 2 měsíci

      I will say after leaving an abuser like this ( happens at any age 😢) they did nothing!! They don’t get narcissistic verbal and emotional abuse

  • @CatholicToni
    @CatholicToni Před 2 měsíci +4

    Thanks for covering

  • @RedEveTillDawn
    @RedEveTillDawn Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you Adam for sharing this story, and thank you Jess for being so brave ♥

  • @ellenmillar.
    @ellenmillar. Před 2 měsíci +1

    love ur videos and ur take on this situation, you are so respectful and easy to listen to!! xx

  • @SillyMilly
    @SillyMilly Před 2 měsíci +4

    alex over here really taking james charles' "im famous" joke LITERALLY

  • @user-sv8tx9ic1v
    @user-sv8tx9ic1v Před 2 měsíci +6

    Listen I'm not 100% sure about Annie but I damn well know I did and said things I would never have done had I not been with a narcissistic partner so let's bear in mind the manipulation she might’ve been under when the smear campaign of Slaz happened ❤

    • @bloodflowers111
      @bloodflowers111 Před 2 měsíci +4

      THIS THIS THIS! Having been in a toxic relationship before (with a possibly narcissistic partner), you begin to mimic the awful things they say/do in order to get their approval. My ex said extremely gross things but I joked along with him because I didn't want to get in *trouble* for questioning him/not finding the things he said funny or agreeing with them, nor did I want to lose his approval. I don't know the full extent of Ani's involvement in the Slazo accusations but either way, it doesn't discredit her experiences with Al*x especially when there's 2 other victims to support what she's gone through.

    • @notericforeman
      @notericforeman Před 2 měsíci +2

      I literally dealt hard dr*gs for my ab*ser when I was 17/18, i look back on that time period in deep shame. Its sad what an ab*ser can normalize to their victim

    • @MhiaLee19
      @MhiaLee19 Před 2 měsíci

      ⁠@@notericforemanseriously this is how bad an abuser can change how you thing about everything in life.. completely changed me that’s for sure. I didn’t even know who I was after 4 years of that mess. I’m still not that same.

  • @katelynjoymoore5008
    @katelynjoymoore5008 Před 2 měsíci +1

    10:25 is killing me 😭 the entire section of you whispering I am just watching on repeat at this point.

  • @1errorlater
    @1errorlater Před 2 měsíci +3

    the video hasn’t started yet but if i’m reading this correctly…
    *”ANOTHER EX SPEAKS OUT”*
    damn, alex isn’t escaping from this one 😳

  • @avroses24
    @avroses24 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Earliest I've ever been and the most horrified I've ever been my heart goes out to all the people who have had to deal with i'mallexx

  • @gabriellemolinaro6750
    @gabriellemolinaro6750 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Posting about abuse and not being taken seriously till 3-4 years later. Sounds familiar around here. Believe survivors!

  • @nouraalta
    @nouraalta Před 2 měsíci +3

    NO ADAM YOU ARE NOT THE BOTTOM OF THE BARREL 😭😭😭😭

  • @seelesims
    @seelesims Před 2 měsíci +1

    seeing how flippantly he speaks about wanting to end these women’s lives … i’m heartbroken alice and jess went through such torment but thank god they both had support systems that helped them wake up and get out before it ended one of their lives because i fully believe he would’ve got to that point . i’m so sorry girls :(

  • @shots4248
    @shots4248 Před 2 měsíci +1

    this, and alice’s story sounds EXACTLY like my ex and he literally ended up being arrested for domestic violence. so glad these women got the hell out of there

  • @prettyredfox8631
    @prettyredfox8631 Před 2 měsíci +2

    You can’t tell me this man isn’t a narcissist. He gets so irrationally angry when people he claims to love talk about themselves.

  • @thetashamorgan
    @thetashamorgan Před 2 měsíci +1

    The whispering at 10:23 took me OUT 😭😂😂 I know the situation is no laughing matter but your comedic timing and commentary was on point there ahaahah 😂

  • @Lynbug2171
    @Lynbug2171 Před 2 měsíci +7

    It’s just how funny how true it is to say… what goes around comes around. 💀

  • @LOSTnerd815
    @LOSTnerd815 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Adam your realness on commentary CZcamsrs at the bottom of the barrel is hilarious

  • @aralynjade
    @aralynjade Před 2 měsíci +6

    I'm pretty sure the right opinion has a fairly comprehensive video about the slazo situation

    • @sad.jackfr00t
      @sad.jackfr00t Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yep! Also Uncle Herman’s video is good too

  • @malorilovetro
    @malorilovetro Před 2 měsíci +1

    god these types of people need to be locked in a room together and see how long they last. the mental exhaustion, manipulation, straight up abuse is sickening. my heart goes out to these strong women who had the bravery to stand up to him. not to mention they are beautiful people inside and out. alex needs to face repressions , other than just getting internet hate. not to make this about me but i dated a guy that was copy and paste and hes still free. it makes me sick to my stomach when i think about it. and to think alexs platform was to “put abusers in their place” or “call them out” .. he needs to take a long , hard look in the mirror and realize hes projecting. hes sick.

  • @malloryensminger
    @malloryensminger Před 2 měsíci +4

    My gosh.
    My heart goes out to all of the girls.

  • @ChinoChique
    @ChinoChique Před 2 měsíci

    This channel is a go-to for information. It's the best!

  • @anitas15
    @anitas15 Před 2 měsíci +3

    You keep speaking up for victims, Adam. Not the bottom of the barrel at all.

  • @birchpunk8691
    @birchpunk8691 Před 2 měsíci +1

    A friend from my college got big on tiktok in lockdown. They were briefly friends and he came to visit her and was in a few of her TikTok’s. She posted on her story today about supporting victims of domestic violence.

  • @alexacarrillo4339
    @alexacarrillo4339 Před 2 měsíci +1

    What I find odd about myself is I have a pretty intense childhood abuse/trauma background and had a weird things feel off with him more than a year ago but when it is someone I am dealing with directly I miss those very subtle hints that say run. I hope everyone that felt something was just off tries to apply that to their own lives which is something I am trying to do even though I can’t fully pinpoint those things that set off my red flag alarm. Please, please, please remember there is no perfect victim. I made bad choices with a spouse because of my early training and the cptsd reared its ugly head which led me down the road of addiction. I am doing better now with substances(nightmares tend my urges)but trauma also affects health so I am dealing with chronic health conditions now as well. I will NEVER forgive myself for the trauma I caused my kids by continuing the cycles of trauma. Not just my drinking but the behavior I cycled in from my childhood which was taking responsibility for the bad behavior of abusers and teaching them to walk on eggshells. If someone abused then cycles behavior from the relationship back into new relationships with friends/significant others know it takes intense therapy to undo even if it happens in just one relationship as an adult. Sometimes we just don’t even know we were abused since we get acclimated to it. It took a drinking problem for me to figure out the childhood abuse and I still didn’t get that my spouse was repeating it after treatment for the alcohol problem.

  • @jyslog
    @jyslog Před 2 měsíci +6

    yeah alex needs to be locked up

  • @sallow_slytherins
    @sallow_slytherins Před 2 měsíci +3

    sir a third ex has hit imallexx

  • @JustaNobody-j8x
    @JustaNobody-j8x Před 2 měsíci +49

    Really goes to show how meaningless human interactions are. Whether abusers are held accountable or not, the world really doesn’t seem to care. These experiences are just fleeting moments in a pointless existence.

    • @heavenjb
      @heavenjb Před 2 měsíci +11

      The people defending him? Make me sick!

    • @Vampirfinch
      @Vampirfinch Před 2 měsíci +11

      As someone that survived domestic violence I care. To the people that keep making it about slazo ,which victims do not have to be perfect. If that was the case then numerous amounts of serial killers would go free because they decided to kill transient people or prostitutes. Maybe even prostitutes with drug addictions. The credibility of a victim doesn’t matter. When you are more High risk. Meaning susceptible to manipulation. Which most people are especially women because we are conditioned to empathize with men. As if we are their mothers.
      Anyone can be susceptible to manipulation there are even women who were not high risk that were upper class and had degrees and still were manipulated ,abused and then murder. That’s why we need to hold these people accountable. And me as a survivor I will.

  • @carolinescott1319
    @carolinescott1319 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Can you do a video on Alex’s questionable behavior prior to Alice coming forward? I’ve seen it mentioned a few times but don’t know what they are referring to

  • @itsvoidhere
    @itsvoidhere Před 2 měsíci +2

    'Hi everyone' well shit- this is serious

  • @jessicalee6076
    @jessicalee6076 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Nicholas DiOrio did commentary on Slazzo, possibly Turkey Tom I think both to my knowledge have done commentary videos about this.

  • @olsonphoenixxx
    @olsonphoenixxx Před 2 měsíci +1

    girl i’ve only been gone two days wym there’s this much content i need to catch up onnnnnnn

  • @okami-chan9772
    @okami-chan9772 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Whatever goes around, comes back around. Karma can be a b*tch to some, and a savior to others.

  • @roxassora2706
    @roxassora2706 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Slazo was accused of horrible things by Alex and Ani. Many others were involved.

  • @fruitsnac9088
    @fruitsnac9088 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Considering how this abuse has escalated throughout the years and we have multiple of alexs exes saying hes threatened them verbally more than once now, i worry the next step is him actually acting on these threats

  • @Cosygamer941
    @Cosygamer941 Před 2 měsíci +2

    The Right Opinion did a video covering the Slazo allegations I believe, if you wanted a bit more information 🙂

  • @neliaaa
    @neliaaa Před 2 měsíci +3

    i'd recommend you watch The Right Opinion's video about the Slazo allegations - I stopped watching Alex after that.

  • @xlittlelolipopx
    @xlittlelolipopx Před 2 měsíci +1

    Adam if you wanna be a voice for victims can you also consider covering the apollostone situation happening right now? I think it be important to bring more awareness on it especially for young minor girls that are being tricked and see it as something nice they want to be a part of

  • @PrincessPeyten
    @PrincessPeyten Před 2 měsíci +4

    Uh oh muckers Adams not happy😔😔😔

  • @s0ap1ah
    @s0ap1ah Před 2 měsíci +1

    Slazo was an Australian commentary CZcamsr who was pretty popular in 2018/2019 (I can't remember exactly). Pretty much another creator named Chey kinda expressed to a group of people that he was a bad boyfriend/creepy and would force her to do things when she was a minor (She was 14, Slazo was 16). I'm not sure what happened exactly but somehow Alex convinced Chey to come out with allegations that Slazo sa'd her, which were backed very heavily by Ani as she was a close friend of Chey. Slazo then made a video pretty much disproving all the sa/creepy/forcing her to do things and even apologised for being a bad boyfriend. However, majority of the people in the group, including Ani especially still doubled down with the allegations even after the video disproving them and essentially destroyed Slazo's career on CZcams. Slazo has never been issued a formal apology by anyone including Ani (as far as I know) which is why i think people are upset because she had a big hand in ruining his career.
    It wasn't until some time after that it came out Alex had been a heavy manipulator on the situation and just wanted to see Slazo's career ruined, in an interview with another creator called BluesDank he mentions that for a while no one in the UK group was speaking with Alex except for Memeulous, but somehow Alex was able to still have a career (crazy).
    My memory is kinda fuzzy on the situation so pls correct me if I'm wrong

  • @evie-fn1sp
    @evie-fn1sp Před 2 měsíci +1

    its crazy that I even thought that this year would be a year without crappy influencers, all love to Alice and Jess

  • @Amy-Michelle
    @Amy-Michelle Před 2 měsíci +1

    We can never get too comfortable with our favorite Content Creators, yorh

  • @carterjones3734
    @carterjones3734 Před 2 měsíci +2

    “We are the bottom of the barrel babe” I laughed

  • @tristhekid
    @tristhekid Před 2 měsíci +3

    Someone who acts the way he does, has done that far more than once or twice. He sounded like it was second nature to talk and whine the way he did in those clips and far too comfortable doing it.

  • @milouiscool
    @milouiscool Před 2 měsíci

    completely unrelated but i just love adam 😭 we should be besties 👯‍♀️✨

  • @Firefly_night
    @Firefly_night Před 2 měsíci +2

    I could never watch his content cause his face and voice are so annoying. The only response he should give is , "yeah. I have a mantel inllness , im closing my channel and never coming back to social media. There ia no excuse , im done. Goodbye"

  • @nataliea1147
    @nataliea1147 Před 2 měsíci

    Being in a relationship with someone like this would be point blank EXHAUSTING 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @ashleymarie6585
    @ashleymarie6585 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I fucking love Adam 😂 whispering that the content he makes is bottom of the barrel 😂

  • @beckagrace7499
    @beckagrace7499 Před 2 měsíci

    😂 you going asmr about his job made me laugh! Adam you are great!

  • @wigbig6192
    @wigbig6192 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Off topic, but i could never watch Alex's video because of his gross big tongue that pokes out of his mouth when he talks 😂

  • @MoragOctober
    @MoragOctober Před 2 měsíci +2

    "He's a commentary youtuber, who makes videos on Jojo Siwa. He makes the lowest tier content, and I know that, because I also make the same content. We are the bottom of the barrel, babe."
    Adam you made me laugh 😂 But you do demonstrate a lot of professionalism and thoughtfulness in what you make, and that's not true of everyone who makes content. But I really appreciate the humility :)