10 Reasons to Escape Excessive Consumerism
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- I am trying to live a minimalist life. But that doesn’t mean I still don’t own stuff. But we have worked hard to escape excessive consumerism.
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I have been downsizing in items for.about 8 yrs. Have sold and gave away a lot. Love it. I am elderly now and can not clean like i once did and it feels great with less. ❤
After watching your videos, I stopped shopping as a coping mechanism for boredom, and my home is much more organized and clean😊
That's great!
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Amen , me too i am particular about what i buy and why I'm buying it.
How did you stop buying if its a coping mechanism?
@@KarronAngelI need to know this as well
I treated shopping as "retail therapy" and it just resulted in stress, depression, and a house full of excess. I've got a handle on my shopping now and ruthlessly decluttering 😊❤️
I think "retail therapy" could be used to try and escape grief. My husband died one year ago and it would be easy for me to go buy lots of stuff I don't need but nothing will replace him in my life and material possessions are not a comfort. I did go on one shopping trip a few months after he died and that was to my local Christian bookshop where I bought several excellent books on grief and being a widow. These books have been a great help and comfort to me but I had to choose very carefully as the choice was vast. When I don't need them any more I will donate them to my retirement village library where they will help other grieving people.
Me too.
@@lisa-mariegray5510💜
same here
@@lisa-mariegray5510 my condolences on the loss of your husband. Yes, I've had lots of trauma in my life and rather than get actual therapy - I used shopping as a distraction and dopamine hit. I'm now getting the appropriate support and therapy. After massive decluttering - I've reached a point where shopping is purely functional and I need very little. ❤️
Stuff robs us of our time, and time is the essence of life. Be minimal in a maximal world.
I live in a van. 5 years ago all the drawers, under bed area, little crevices were all jam packed full. 5 years later I have enough floor space to play with my great grand child. Most of the drawers are not full. There is room under the bed. Plus 2 miles per gallon more mileage because of less weight. Yay minimalism!
That's awesome!!!
Hopefully you can get a small house if you want it. Best wishes.
Why would you even comment that @@rg-mi5hh
I like that hidden benefit for you - saving money on gas since your van has less stuff which is less weight 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@@theboujieproletariatI think they meant it as a kind wish if the commenter wants to someday.
I have come to realize, after watching minimalist videos, that shopping for me was a form of entertainment. I have nothing to do - well let’s go to the local mall and just look around. Wrong - end up buying something.
Your videos have helped me realize I can just be. I can read a good book, cook, garden- wow so much more entertaining and enjoyable and stress free.
Same here! I still suffer withdraw. We’re not alone tho. I used to work at the mall and hundreds if not thousands of ppl would spend their weekends shopping. Last weekend I passed a mall parking lot packed with cars and couldn’t believe so many haven’t gotten the memo. They’re missing out on life.
So true
it wasn't until I got older that I realized that the things I thought were important, just weren't to me anymore....I think you have to gain a certain amount of self-esteem in order to get to that point and age will do that for you if you are open to liking and loving yourself.....once that happens all the rest falls away.....
A couple weeks ago one of the kitchen cabinet shelf fell & broken a few dishes & bowls. Instead of getting upset, I was happy to see less things to clean going forward.
I get that too. Anytime something breaks, as long as it's not something meaningful, I get relieved as those are then discarded and not replaced. In the last year a floor lamp and a table lamp broke down, yippee. I just moved a lamp from another room rather than replace with new.
Rich is he who needs less. Thank you for the video.✨
Your channel and the movie "Fight Club" in 1999 taught me alot about life and consumerism. I always remember the quotes from that movie to keep me in check. Tyler Durden’S anti-consumeriam quotes "The things you own end up owning you", "Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don’t need.” , “We’re consumers. We are bi-products of a lifestyle obsession." , “We’ve all been raised on television to believe that one day we’d all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won’t. And we’re slowly learning that fact. And we’re very, very pissed off.”
Yes that movie is gold! The discussions about blankets are both hilarious and so true!
Now I want to watch Fight Club!
@@sandyseffrood4384 You should! In my opinion its iconic but maybe I am old (46:)
@@sandyseffrood4384 Sounds like I should watch it, too. But some of the quotes probably existed long before in some way.
@@sandyseffrood4384read the book first …
Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time .
Exactly ! That's my major concern and what lucrative investment can one venture into with the current rise in economic downturn
In fact, I had no prior experience or understanding when I began investing in 2020, but by the end of 2023, I had made a profit of almost $850k. All I had been doing was going by what my financial advisor had told me. This demonstrates that all you truly need is a professional to assist you; you don't even need to be a great investor or put in a lot of work.
@@mikegarvey17who is your advisor please, if you don't mind me asking?
'Gertrude Margaret Quinto' maintains an online presence. Just make a simple search for her name online.
I love Joshua’s messages! His minimalist approach is grounded upon a strong Christian morality and will never go out of date. I’ve noticed other minimalists are now ‘giving it up’, which makes me realise that minimalism for them was just a passing fad and had no real substance. I’m learning more from Joshua’s minimalism messages than from anyone else’s.
Loved this video, ironically the ad immediately afterwards was for Temu, the world's biggest retailer of stuff that ends up in landfill
I’ve always had this feeling that if I could just have this (fill in the blank), then I’d be happy. Now I realize this is just crap! Thanks for all your insights!!
Hi Joshua I work cleaning houses, most of the time the houses are really big and full of things, many times only one person lives I'm there, what makes me feel sad is that elderly people live by themselves in huge houses. This makes me think twice before I buy something I ask my self if I really needed, since watching your videos I have started decluttering, selling things I don't need thank you for the videos. My goal at long time is just to have the basic stuff and live with as little as I can.
I have a cleaning business too. One client is 75, just her and her husband in a 3500 sq ft home FILLED with stuff. She has an estate sale addiction and just buys, buys, buys and buys more. She will drown in her stuff. It made me really rethink how I live and spend.
I managed to stay away from impulse buying but I am bit in relapse at the moment because am a bit depressed. And i see how easy it is to get back to and the "joy" impulse buying once you let go of the effort while the brain has not integrated the new habit yet.
I’ve declutterred very slowly over the last five years, and generally aimed for a simpler home. Streamlining has become a way of life, I suppose. The big lesson I’ve learned lately is that as we age we change, and we love some of our heirlooms less and thus we are able to part with things we once thought we’d have for our life.
My next-door neighbors - a couple - own a pickup truck, an SUV, a Jeep, and a regular sedan. And then he has a work SUV. TWO people, no children, no family in this area, no friends I have ever seen. No outside jobs that would require large vehicles for hauling items. Cannot even imagine the thinking behind it. THANK goodness one car has always been enough for me.
Ugh my partner thinks that the perfect number of vehicles is n+1 where n is the number you currently own. We currently have 2 cars and 2 motorbikes...drives me up the wall!!!
@@JessicaMcCafferty94 oh that would be hard to deal with!
We have 7 vehicles two drives. I want to downsize .
@@JessicaMcCafferty94 I know about the "N+1" for bicycles that at least take up less space to store than cars. I was about to write that they also are cheaper to buy and to run but some bikes and spare parts are crazy expensive.
But I noticed something else that could also be one of these phrases. It's never enough but at some point it's too many.
they might like the collection or customizing and per car is of different use like trail vs city.
Good for you that 1 car is enough.
Joshua❤. I just want to say THANK YOU. I am on a journey towards minimalism but I have a long way to go. I just ordered your book The Minimalist Home because I am in need of help! Your a huge inspiration ❤️🙏
It’s so easy to get wrapped up in spending!! I was packing for a one week vacation and wanted a few new dresses. I have a closet full that are perfectly fine. I do not need more !! I had bought new pants and after I had them I kept seeing other ones that would be nice to have also. It’s like the one purchase was calling me to keep buying !! NO ! I had to force myself to stop buying stuff I don’t need!! Thank you for your channel!
At some point I just realized I have everything I need in life. I don't need a new watch I already have 4 and my phone to see the time. I don't need that desk from Ikea my kid's old one is perfect. You get the point.
I have been watching for a while and your videos have really helped me change my attitude toward stuff. I have now started to pair back my stuff and it feels great.
One of my favorite books about the pitfalls of consumerism is Madame Bovary written by Gustave Flaubert in 1856. It's a great read.
One of my favorites. Poor Emma, so delusional.
This is definitely very good advice. One does not have to be a minimalist to be a careful and intentional consumer. I have learned to always check out all of the negative reviews on things I am considering buying. Most things that are advertised on TV or on Facebook or other media sites are not worth wasting money on.
There is a difference between being a minimalist and being frugal. I collect hand-me-downs when I don't need them, to a limit, so I don't have to buy clothes later on when I do need them.
Thank you. Now, to start seriously donating and throwing away.
As Joshua mentions, we often claim to understand that a nicer house etc won’t make us happy, but clearly our lifestyle and bank accounts aren’t reflecting this understanding. Listening to this channel on repeat has helped me to emotionally understand and not just intellectually process this concept. And it’s saved me from the interior design videos I would have likely been watching instead haha. You need to really marinate your mind in a concept to make lasting change. I appreciate the abundance of content to help us achieve it!
Thanks for the wisdom, humbleness, and reminder to make sure your lifestyle should reflect your goals. I’ve made much more time to develop my relationship with God thanks to your channel! Big journeys begin with small steps.
All of this is so true. I have been a minimalist for almost a decade. But it is only this month that I finally closed my credit card account.
I was also able to donate a sizeable amount of money to one of my yoga teachers, who found herself in debt due to legal fees incurred from speaking out against abusive yoga schools.
It feels so good to ditch the credit card carousel, and to be able to be generous when my heart is moved ❤️ So much more fulfilling than excessive consumerism!
My way of exchanging presents are mainly based on food items. My christmas presents , birthday presents are the foods that my children and I enjoy. When my children see me enjoying their presents , they're very happy too. I love minimalist attitudes of mr BECKER, thank you ! May you all be blessed with good health, longevity and eternal joy throughout ! 🌏🌞🌱🍀🐞🙏👍💯🏆🎊😊
Great video Joshua. I just spent a small fortune replacing the floors in my townhome. Buying new area rugs, and a new very expensive couch, etc. I think the total will end up being 27K.
Thankfully I’m paying in cash out of savings. These things will last a very long time. But of course I already know within a short period of time I will feel essentially just like I did before. I don’t exactly regret these purchases but I know they won’t bring me happiness or contentment.
However, I am “Staging my Home for Living.” Thanks for your inspiration and important message. You have made a difference to me.
It is funny, but although I don't have much money, envy never came my way. My friends - and nearly everybody in my personal surrounding- has a lot more than me. But this has never been a problem for me. If they buy fancy new furniture or a wonderful oldtimer car to drive with on sundays or make vacations to places on the other side of the world, I'm happy with them. And although I watch a lot of hometours of very beautiful homes on CZcams, I never feel the need to keep up with this. It is just something beautiful to please my eyes like beautiful nature when I take a walk. Some people can live in fantastic houses near by the sea- good for them 👍 It is not, that I would not also like to live a rich lifestyle with no sorrow about the future and if I had the possibility to level up easy I think I would do it a bit. But otherwise it is ok as it is, because I am greatful for my family and friends and for what I have and for what I am able to do😊
I wore the same 16 tee shirts and 3 (4?) pair of jeans for 15 years+. I'm dead serious. Wasn't a minimalist thing exactly, but I know it saved me a LOT of money. I've never been to Starbucks (really), a nail salon, hair salon, hair wax-thing.... Matinee about 8 times in 20 years, drove the same car for 20 years.... I did all this before the Minimalism trend. Oh, did I mention I've been retired for a long time? I just work part time for fun.🙂 No stress.
Great video, great advice.
I'm praying my family gets on board with me to do with less, keep those things that are useful. They don't mind that I'm doing it for my personal stuff and things around the house, but when it comes to theirs...quietly being an example. Wonderful video. Makes me want to cry because it's all so true and I yearn for the simplicity and enjoyment of life without an excess of stuff.
I have been declutterring so much in the last few weeks. Getting rid of excess that just consumed me. I’m a neat freak and clean monster. I just got so tired of all the decor and things I had to clean on a weekly basis. I’m feeling relieved as I minimize and only keep basics. My fear is that people will say my house looks simple or empty. I hope I can get over that.
Over the years, I have found that the less stuff I have, the more relaxed I feel. I noticed this when I was tempted to check out the maximum of 10 DVDs from one of my libraries and while I could do this for free, I immediately felt overwhelmed by having to devote time to watching them and subsequently returning them whether I watched them or not. For this same reason, I don’t buy books nearly as much as I used to and have found that I just want to read and get rid of the titles that have been on my shelves for 10 or more years.
New subscriber here, have been binge watching your videos. I too am a minimalist now which I wasn’t in my earlier years, I am 58 yrs. I get a much better kick out of seeing my savings grow than I ever did shopping. I wish I could have seen your videos in my 20’s and 30’s, would have had a lot more money now. I have gotten my 2 daughters to start watching your videos too 😊
I have 7 kids and each of my kids has a minimal amount of things. When I go to other peoples homes I am shocked how many possessions they have!! We believe in hand me downs, thrift shopping and replacing it only when you have to. Also the best furniture I have is from the 60s. Literally solid as the day it was built
Myself and two of my three sons are debt free, We have paid for cars and home. We try to be ecological, as well as thrifty, and healthful. My third has a mortgage,with a small family, They plan finances carefully as a team.
I have to laugh, Temu is running ads on this video 😂 It just gives more meaning to this content.
Joshua, your work, written & this channel has made a huge impact. Thank you.
I try to look at that as these companies financing their critics.
Btw I think their phrase "shopping like a billionaire" fits better than many think: Get everything you want without any care about environment, ethics etc.
Temu runs ads all over the place!!!😂
Escaping excessive consumerism offers such valuable benefits! Less stress and more time for what truly matters are worth simplifying for. 🌿
0:44 “… Consumerism becomes excessive when it extends beyond what is needed…” - Joshua Becker
Thank you for your encouraging and helpful insights! ✨🌷✨
This was a great reminder for me. Thank you, Joshua. I've been praying for the Lord to change my heart because I really do treasure things of this world--too much. I agree that the feeling of sharing a portion of our monthly expenses to go towards those in need is so much better than if that amount had gone toward an unnecessary car payment or deepening debt. I want to live for a bigger cause than spending and entertainment. And I have promised the Lord that I would. Thanks for all you do.
I am an extreme minimalist with a toddler and I appreciate minimalism more now than ever before!
These years with You Changing Lives through Your Dedicated Work is what brings Joy to countless people who have had the privilege to hear You.
Know several people who have millions, yet mow into their neighbors yards wanting their land, constantly have the ups truck at their house and more, more, more. Happiness is not in stuff. That's why they want what everyone one else has. Sad.
I can relate. I have family like this. For some folks, enough will never be enough no matter how much they get. Def the problem is so much about covetousness and comparisons and competing and the grass is greener over there syndrome (as I call it). Sad indeed. The extra toxic ones for sure have a scarcity mindset coupled with entitlement issues and often are very insecure.
Some are so toxic that they think they should have it ALL and that others should have none at all (but usually that’s to do with envy). It baffles me how someone so extra well off can keep crying poor mouth or being offended Bcuz they don’t have all of yours too. The kind who would take a poor man’s last penny (so they can have a million plus your one cent for themselves) Bcuz they can never get past “poor me” state of mind.
I also know some poor as dirt with the same attitude (who also over consume and get every freebie in town over and over to great excess and always have their hands out to take take take and are very gluttonous and wasteful) as well tho. So the real issue is for sure inside of their minds and hearts.
It's like a wino; if there were 3 bottles in the closet it wouldn't be enough. They'd want more.
Thank you for this. What you say is so true and really resonates with me. 5 years ago I was a huge consumer and clothes are my weakness. The mall was like a museum to me; I went every week as a past time! My closet showed it too. I still have way too many things but now my purchases are more intentional. Videos like yours help keep me in check!😊
My favorite sport is decluttering while listening to Joshua Becker 🫡
I so enjoy your videos. Stop and think. Take the pause. Great message.
Joshua, this is why YOU are my favourite minimalist. I can subscribe to all your teachings, it aligns to my values perfectly. Thank you for another wonderful, well thought out, perfectly delivered message. Love your work :)
This is such a good video of truthful content. I appreciate the points of “more” and not focusing exclusively on “less”. If we take away, it is so important that it is replaced with an intentional decision of what’s important.
Your last statement reminds me of a definition of idolatry I once heard. "Idols (false gods) always promise everything and deliver absolutely nothing."
♥️🇨🇦
Thank you as always! I learned so much from you but the application of what I learned is the hard part. Get rid of some stuff but tempted so easy to grab some "cute stuff" whenever I am out:) Today, after watching you video, I make it to the point to just stay in the house, clean, organize and stop thinking about shopping:) God bless!
More contentment gives more meaning to your life. There is an ancient book that is sooooo relevant for us today. The Bible encourages contentment and the assurance that you will never be abandoned. Hebrews 13:5
We have to make an intentional decision to swim against the tide of consumerism. It isn't easy, but it's necessary. I am so grateful I followed your decluttering strategy.
Thank you Joshua for another great video. Each week you tackle a different topic with such insight and wisdom. I look forward to your video each week 😊
Thank you for the reminder to reject over consumption. I struggle constantly with desires to try something new for the house or my wardrobe. I'm canceling my Amazon account today. That seems to be my worst demon.
Thank you Joshua.. these videos keep me on track for the coming week ahead… I so look forward to the. ❤
Very true and great ending of this video👌.These videos helps me to have a different perspective in life - to what is and what is not important. It has and is shaping me for wanting less material things. Thank you for your constant reminders Joshua.🙏🙂
Hi, we travel with carry-on only. Three of us live in a 2BR apartment. We have one small 8 year old car. By volunteering we meet nice people and build community.
No religion teaches consumerism. Tina, Al's wife
Fantastic!! Hit home and so many action steps!! Thanks for sharing!
Always look forward to your videos!!! I’ve deleted all my online shopping apps !
This is my favorite of your videos so far. Excellent job!
Great points after all “What you own, owns you”
Recently had a clear out, ranging from worthless tat to expensive motorcycles, you can only ride one at a time after all.
Kept one great bike and a few bits and bobs - all of which has a value to me so I’m happy to be owned by them….for now
best video on consumerism and minimalism anybody could watch
Excellent video Joshua. Very good reminders to adhere to. Thank you
Great video! For me, I prefer the word "Intentionalism" or "Mindfulness" rather than "Minimalism" because I think the point is to be mindful about what you own and intentional about what you choose to bring into your life. Over-consumerism is such an accurate term for how many people are living. I am trying to use everything I own. If I find I'm not actually using it or genuinely enjoying owning it, I am trying to let go of it.
thank you Joshua for your words of value and wisdom
Another great video. Thank you so much for this special message. Have a wonderful weekend.
Thanks again ❤
I have been listing and following now for a few years. It’s finally starting to take root and I’m starting to pair things back and make choices to not buy things.
Amen, amen, amen!!!
We buy shit we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like, Tyler Durden
I took your inspiration Joshua and went to a capsule wardrobe. That resulted in donating 6 garbage bags of clothes and shoes. I wish I had done it a long time ago. I realize how much I didn't wear, didn't fit, or wasn't my style anymore. The less I have, I more fully utilize what I do have. It feels like my life and belongings are more purposeful, if that makes sense?
Worthy message ....tks for sharing
Thank you so much ❤
Outstanding video and points.
Love ur sharing
It is about balance and discipline.
And it depends on the line of sight of the person deciding on what is needed of course .
I surround myself with nice things as that is what makes me feel safe .
And 🤔 it is no where near clutter .
But to the minimalist, it could be perceived as.
I know it's not as I don't like clutter myself, so I refer it to : surrounding myself with nice things .
Or there is a phrase I like to use : Glory box items.
Lovely, goreous items that are bequeathed to my children and are for their own "glory box."
It is also an expression of house, home, and me.
What I like.
Skills in purchasing choice and acquiring assets . That is important to me as it sets a good example for my kin to see and know that their mum, was a competent, and reliable homemaker .
And knowing the price of things, what to acquire and how to get it .
All of those attributes, are important to me, as a mother , woman and human .
Surely we are creatures of comfort ?
That is what it is about for me .
I don't listen to people who buzz word "consumerism" , because 🤔 I am old school . Just because I am not mean spirited, doesn't make me a shopaholic.
No where near it .
Being a disciplined sales shopper , is an essential life skill .
And my home is happiness .
Appreciate you Sir!
All these words are so true and obvious, yet I should literally train myself to keep all these things in my mind. I hope someday it won't take so much effort than it takes now. Thank you for your organized thoughts from Budapest, Hungary.
I agree excessive consumption is not needed and I realized this In my 20s it’s a struggle but life is more than items. I’m always surprised that so many don’t get it and have no real intimacy with others they have use. I hear you it’s true what you say. I have had very little real conversation in years too you give me hope maybe someone is out their who gets it
Yes I think it’s common to seek satisfaction in things that aren’t. It seems common. Something about human nature and age
This was AWESOME 🎉
Thank you❤❤❤❤
There's one thing owning what you need in comparison to those who are extremist. We have to live a balanced life without Be materialistic..
When I was young, my life was simple.My father definitely didn't have.
I'm a materialistic lifestyle and yet we were happy. I remember enjoying the youthfulness of horsebackwriting and swimming and boating. And Having company over and we never talked about a new fridge a new stove a new this or new that.
The conversation with our neighbors.Where's about fixing and returning and building?But never really about buying anything
And way back then, we never talked about cancer or diseajesus. It was not on our vocabulary.
In fact, if we heard the neighborhood died from cancer, it was spoken about once a year..
"remove ourselves from the pursuit altogether"
Mind Blowing.
I'm a purposeful spender only but its hard when you have kids wanting things all the time. Getting older has shown me how I have wasted so much money on things i didnt need, expensive hairdressers appoinments mainly.
I love reading so i love using my local library. Save so much money and if i really love a book that i want to reread then i will buy it
Promises happiness but never delivers 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 lifestyle envy is a so true I have cut instagram from life for this reason among others ❤
True Life Must be Found Somewhere Else! I like that. . JC…. King of kings.
I am packing up to move out of a home that we have lived in for 23 years and I am hating every minute of it. I have given away and donated over 60 bags and boxes of STUFF! And there is still more to go. Never again!!!
Its very addictive to buy stuff.
Very well said
It’s actually not natural for me to watch you on a smartphone streamed over the internet with gigabits of ones on zeros. But somehow you are right. When people choose reality over debt we can always win.
So much truth, thank you ❤
and being organized is such a relief for every day joyful loving. It’s easy to be organized when you don’t have seven extra end tables. The other day I just put them out on the sidewalk and they were gone within five hours ha ha
JOSHUA....I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL....YOU REALLY NEED YIUR OWN TV SHOW, PODCAST, CABLE CHANNEL
Have been cleaning through craft supplies that haven't been used in years. Someone else can enjoy them. Too much to manage anymore.
The operative word here is “excessive.” Right tho? We DO need some things to live and it’s ok to “take up space” or use what we need. (I sure do need more than a primitive grass hut but I don’t need a giant mansion or palace lol).
I also think the other key is what’s really a need and what is just a want. And then why do we want it or think we “must” have it? We would do well to ask ourselves such probing questions and to keep asking them of ourselves as we move along in life. Aka from the viewpoint of seeking out our best life (spiritually, mentally, physically, emotionally) and not “self deprivation” or something like “guilt tripping ourselves Bcuz we have any kind of eco footprint.” Be as responsible as we can with that, but to be alive on earth is to consume. If we don’t eat and drink water, we die. If we don’t have adequate shelter, we may not be safe. Society requires that we cover our bodies (also serves to protect us). Etc. But getting to such things as our core needs/wounds/faulty mindsets etc…and what is driving us and why and what to do about it.
I love animals. And I’ve always had a lot of pets. This included 12 snakes. I now have six snakes and have decided to rehome all of them. I’m going to keep my other animals, but as they pass away over the years, I will not replace them. Except dogs and cat. And my chickens of course because I like the eggs. My friends think I should try to get my money back when I saw the Reptile’s, but let’s be real, I will never ever get the money back that I put into them. And at this point, I don’t care. The money is gone. Nothing I can do about it. So the token amount of money that I sell these animals and their enclosures for Will have to be enough. It’s hard to give up a hobby. But once you do it, you really don’t miss it that much. I have D cluttered a lot over the last few years and this is the next stage.
As someone with a couple of cats I admire your decision. This is a tough category. I live alone, so having pets brings me joy. As I am getting older, I seek out the older cats who are more difficult to rehome. I stay within my limit of 3. That is affordable for me.
Interesting to hear your wife sees. I love sewing as well, garments and home decor items. I have a spare bedroom completely filled with fabric, sewing machine, serger, Coverstitch, and all the accessories to make life easier? When you love color and textures and clothes, how do you limit these types of purchases? I have many clothes as a result of my passion for sewing.
She mostly repairs clothing as opposed to sewing new ones.