LEAN BEAF PATTY ON HOW TO PICK UP GIRLS AT THE GYM
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when i was younger i never went anywhere other than the gym and met my current gf
regardless of what u see on social media girls aren’t gonna call u creepy for shooting your shot lmao (assuming she’s normal)
How long was that big man?😅
She thinks men shouldn’t hit on girls at gym but dont realiZe most ppls social life is the gym then they go home cook and eat she just a hater cause she hates men
It’s more like if you’re approaching someone mid workout then obviously they’re not going to be happy
Probably don't try to ask her out or get her number off rip. Introduce yourself, make some conversation, and then fuck off until the next time you see her, just keep the interactions casual and light until you've established some rapport. Better to slow roll it if you're likely to run into her a bunch
Basically what I do is just get talking to the women the same way I do with the dudes.
Women just dont get it because they have unlimited options and are the ones being pursued. For men, you have to get rejected a bunch of times before finally getting a yes.
So? They don’t owe you shit
@@amulet2235 Projecting much? Clown 🫵🤡
@@amulet2235 spoken like a true feminist clown 🫵🤡
@@amulet2235you missed the point completely, well done bozo
@@benitocamela174 no I didn’t. The point is jsut wrong. You’re just an incel who thinks it’s women’s fault that you get no ass 😂
I just ignore women at the gym. And the few times in recent years I have had to ask them something like the standard "Excuse me, how many more sets do you have here?" or "Are you using this?" they automatically act defensive as if they are expecting me to hit on them. A lot of them need to get over their selves.
I never talk to girls at the gym just feels too awkward but im acoustic
If you keep at it, you might be electric one day.
@@PixelatedTony :)
It's much easier to talk to other dudes, that's for sure.
i dont mind getting approached at the gym by male or female, some people are cool and interesting
With Brad on this one. I really don’t get why it’s a big deal to ask girls out at the gym.
Its like asking out a girl thats in a boxing match or mma. Thats the problem, theres bigger things to deal with
I say do it; I met my husband and now we're married with a 3 year old. You meet your common interests where you are!!
@@earthphoenix7068 wrong what if your only social life is going to the gym you dont go out drink ect? Most of our parents growing up met at libraries, movies, stores, and the fucking gym. Grow up
I think we are far more visual than women, so at the gym, most of us see exactly what we want. Women in the other hand are slightly more attracted to verbal skills, charisma, confidence, etc, and a gym is not the best place to show them. Women are more willing to be approached at a social event, or a club, or someplace where people interact. Long story short, it would never be easy for men, gym or not.
It’s just how you do it I guess.
this dudes shorts are shorter than the lady across from him ...
Lol
Cause they're pants
He’s 260
Getting to know someone is fine, being too forward about it is the wrong way. It’s not a bar, people are there to better themselves.
Asking a girl out at the gym is like asking co-worker out. Just don’t do it. 👌
I had this one gal absolutely beaming at me once when we crossed paths exiting the gym (I almost tripped over her, apologized and held the door for her), and then on two separate occasions when I walked into the weight room and there were no benches, she popped up like mid set and gave me her bench. The second time she basically growled at this other dude that was b-lining for her bench as she got up (I had only just walked into the room, he had probably been waiting, poor guy), and was clearly offering it to me specifically.
Somehow I still flubbed it and didn't manage to follow through. Just smiled at her, commented that I think that's the second time she did that for me and thanked her -- then just carried along with my workout.
Haven't seen her around in a while now. Honestly it just didn't register in those moments that she may have been interested, even if looking back it's obvious. She just seemed so out of my league, wouldn't even have seen her as an option... Veeeeeery appealing figure, big dark eyes brunette, always comes to the gym with her hot friends and seems to have a big, bubbly and intense personality. Which is to say, at first glance anyways, likely the sort of lass that pulls some pretty impressive men.
Another time more recently I had this comely petite young woman with whom I was only making very casual conversation (I asked her to help pick out flowers for my grandmother that I was gonna have delivered to her after her surgery) start asking me what my plans were for the weekend. I literally told her I intended to finish my book and cook a stew. 2 days later I'm driving in the car like "I was supposed to ask her out!! Wtf man???"
So my advice is to stay alert and actually notice when they drop hints, because they do it more than you would think. Also I think taking the headphones off in the gym more isn't a bad idea - it's good to interact with the other regulars.
But I do often notice dudes approaching some of the regular women and if I can be blunt - the sorts of dudes that do this tend to be a bit... off. Overhearing their attempts can be excrutiating sometimes. I nearly felt like interrupting once because the guy just had no shame at all, every possible signal coming from the girl he has basically cornered was a polite "thanks but no thanks". Tbf she didn't seem uncomfortable so much as mildly annoyed - but I was at the rack next to her and the cringe was almost too much for me to take. Then you get those dudes trying to recommend a workout plan to women who obviously know what they're doing...
So what's my point - I think there are plenty of women who go to the gym open or even wanting to find dates, but I think as dudes we should wait for them to make some kind of hint or move first. I think theres a lot of dudes who just don't bother to read body language or ease into it at all and just plow right through - and hell that probably works for them a fair bit - but I think the more civilized way to do it is to either find or allow for some sort of more organic and casual interaction to take place, and then look for some cues or hints within that interaction to get a green light to actually make your intentions clear.
You should at least have smiled and said hello to a gym crush a couple times before you start trying to get her number or something. I know the orthodoxy is that the bold "hey excuse me can I get your number" is the chad way to do it, but in practice the dudes who do this (at gyms anyways) seem like socially inept weirdos to me.
But that's the other thing, though; if you're not the sort of dude that runs around doing this all the time (and to girls out of your league probably) - then you're (probably) not the sort of dude who makes them uncomfortable and who they complain about online and whatnot. So you might actually so alright if you decide to be bold for a change.
Honestly, I’m a guy and I don’t like talking to «anyone» at the gym-yeah, there are cute girls there, but I’m at the gym for myself and myself alone, I don’t want to get distracted
Overwhelming number of woman answered "never" to being asked out/flirted at the gym.
Guys in the comment: yea but...
Bro just respect womans boundaries, that simple.
they ansqered never, yet they dress like prostitutes to attract attention from guys, dont buy these women bullshit
No one’s breaking anyone’s boundaries by asking someone on a date. You don’t know that person’s boundaries at all until you meet them. Once they say “no” just kindly excuse yourself and leave. It’s that simple.
You can't have a boundary of people not talking to you when you go outside that antisocial lol
You wouldn't imagine the job opportunities I've gotten from applying when they say bachelors or four year degree required. Same thing applies here, just don't be weird.
so its my mom's fault that I'm single......it all makes sense
I don’t need to be with someone who works out or is super fit. I do need whoever I’m with to at least be physically active and conscious about living a healthy lifestyle. Like don’t be lazy and completely neglect your health.
Btw she gave no indication as to whether she is speaking about males or females in this conversation. Just something to consider.....
Yea she doesnt like males or females clearly shes weird asf like yea your mom will introduce you to a possible date? Like what if you only go to gym and work you have no way of socializing in a place to meet a possible partner she hating on getting hit on in gym like get over yourself
You too wanna be “woke”. Clearly she’s talking males. Since that’s how majority of the population works.
good observation 🙈😂
Pretty obvious she's not into dudes imo
Maybe there's a level of insecurity around a gym environment for women. Obviously not as absolute factor. But like I've seen a lot of women debate looking sexy at a gym because committing to the gym takes mental discipline, a morale of boost of looking good motivates some of them to show up. So even in a place where you're suppose to be sweaty and stinky and making ugly faces some women use beauty to bring some positive reinforcement to keep the gym engaging.
So I mention insecurity because working out won't look cute at some points, hair out of place/loud breathing/armpit shirt stains/wedgies and then some dude roles up to shoot their shot when they're not there for that and not looking their best. I guess I should say self conscious (not insecure). I think that plays a part because in recent years I've noticed some women claim they think men's compliments are empty because they think we're opportunist plus we give them so frequently. So couple that logic with a man showing interest when she's not trying to attract one feels she looks attractive at the moment, I can see why doesn't feel the same as being hit on at a bar.
I agree. You nailed. 💯
No one wants to be interrupted mid workout that’s it
Lean beef = 🥜
You just don’t do it is not only not worth it but also you go to the gym to workout
I am legit confused now and idk what the answer is anymore….
It is not her fault , it is Bradley fault to bring her on the show !
I think it's the environment feeling very individual. Even if you're in a class with students and instructor you're all on one bike or matt. Gyms are definitely like those silent parties where people dance together but have different music in their head phones. Most of the social efforts are for sharing equipment or talking a the front desk or talking with friends that came along. Everyone is collectively working out because they don't have home gyms. So approaching a woman working out is like asking someone something when they have in earbuds listening to music. It stops the flow state. And women that don't like getting hit on when they're done working out for the day? I guess that's a preconceived environment etiquette too. Despite all the online arguments of whether a taken person should like pictures of other people, I've seen a lot of women make posts online saying social media is not a dating app. As though hinge or bumble have no overlap with Instagram or twitter. To me, almost any public space with appropriate timing is fit for dating interactions. Social media is a digital public space, but maybe some women just compartmentalize some spaces as a one-dimensional purpose.
This kinda helps me with my confusion so far. Thanks.
Why does he forcely say "guy" we dont know what she likes.
You gay
I don't know but my intuition says that Patty is.. okno
Subtle fishing for the answer to a question he cannot ask.
I’d like to think Patty doesn’t want to reveal too much about herself, even her mate interests. Not everyone is comfortable talking about what kind of person they are interested cuz then those kinds of people will approach her. Or rather she’s more focused on herself and doesn’t want to date but since we talking about dating, she is handling the topic in a way that doesn’t make her a target but still answer his question.
Because the cultural conversation is about men approaching women at the gym not women approaching other women
i feel like i borderline offend women trying to go up to them at the gym.even genuinely like damn dude its hard to meet girls anywhere these days
She's obviously not into men. haha :) But Martyn is clueless.
no don't do it guys major risk of ban let her come to you
I don't get the shitting and eating analogy.... How's that related connecting with people and working out???? Why would you need your mom to introduce you to somebody you don't know when you can connect with someone related to what you're interests are???
It's this idea that girls go to gym to seek attention t hat puts most women off.
People tend to use that phrase to mean they don't date people at their job to avoid the drama that it comes with. Her job is literally to work out and how uncomfortable would it be to go to work (out) and see your exes?
basically means you can get reported etc so dont do it as a man
This guy is so vain. I like when queen Patty shut him down right at the first question
Simp harder bro
I think the reason many gym girls and women in general are lukewarm on workout bods is because the market has been over saturated with steroid junkies. It’s like big fake boobs or duck lips, but men edition. I’m natty and in good shape, and it just looks different somehow. Not as cartoonishly bulbous, more real. And girls notice!
Nah she's just chatting shit. A nice physique is like top 1% of all guys. Still very desirable.
Who tf is chompin their gum
😂😂😂😂 CHOMPIN
I think it's also a bit of battle of the sexes friction behind it. Like "don't approach me, men approach me when I don't want to be approached". The whole women only gyms discourse has been thrown around often. I think some tiny part of not like advances is just sexist, because there's not a lot of big thriving popular women-only gyms despite the attention of men not being wanted, and lesbians exist. Then the other part of not liking it just preference. People will see each other repeatedly with memberships to places so there's that, which gives it a work element vibe, hence Patty's "don't shit where you eat" point of view. all I know is people can figure out a happy medium for themselves because I hate working out in front of people. Team home workout
probably a case of "I didn't come here to look for dates. I came here to work out". I can respect that
@@greyngreyer5You can say that about almost anywhere. But guess where people meet in the real world. Work, gym, restaurant etc etc
"not shitting where you eat" metaphor only works if you are a child. i feel like adults can handle a date not going well/break up and still be in the same space.
Maki Zen'in IRL
Wow what a click bait title
Is she straight or gay?
Neither
Take the hat off and look at yourself
hearing that gum chew yikes
Lean beef Patty looks great. She should not get any more muscle .she will look to buff. If I had to guess she about 20 years old. She's a doll face ❤
She's a lesbian, so this was an awkward convo.
How do you know? She has said it before?
@@CarlosDaMufNo, it's just super obvious with her. She gets awkward anytime someone asks her about guys, and she's very particular about never referring to anyone with a he when it comes to this topic. Here she sighs during it and avoids directly answering the question about guy bods, then responds only with "partner" and "the people" she's dated. Even in her 'my story' video a while back she was super cryptic about her ex "partner" as she kept referring to them as partner only. No one in a straight relationship puts that much thought into intentionally avoiding referring to their ex as a he in the past tense, unless it wasn't a he.
So I'm not saying there's anything wrong, I'm just saying it comes off pretty clear about her so this seemed a bit awkward. In the full interview it's easier to even see how less relaxed she got from this question compared to the discussions before this one.
I assure you she's not gay. She's just awkward about that stuff. I personally know someone that used to date her some time ago. She's from the oc area and was semi into asian dudes at a certain point.
@@mosesmoses8357 she's definitely gay. Her dating history means nothing because most gays have dated someone of the opposite sex before, especially someone like her who isn't openly out.
@@RutgersJRS Dude, it has been exposed that she has a boyfriend that he is also involved in the fitness industry.
Dam the fall off real