(Full Story) Told My Daughter That I Won't Attend Her Wedding If Her Biological Father Is There
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If she doesnt want the father who took care of her for years to walk her down the aisle then she isnt right in the head
Exactly, she's lucky that the father took care of her. And the fact that the father ended up in a wheelchaipr and the daughter betrayed him. Not cool. I would've never chosen my biological father if I found that out. Seriously, she needs to straighten up and help her mother through that. I really hope that the daughter realizes what she did was very wrong and blocks that rapist.
Bro the father can’t walk her he can’t even walk but inviting the no fathers way to wrong
Bio father
@@Mr.bread23 i had a stroke trying to read this
Your daughter saying that "you are stuck in the past is just another way to say, I don't care" "
I think that one was justified, as at this point she only thought it was a little fight, but her actions after.....
@@lemony4478 agreed, b4 she thought it was small then she was told the truth, given proof and the father himself even told her the truth as well. but she still acted like she was making it a mountain out of a mole hill as the saying goes. tho obviously with how the father was acting and the daughter was acting with him he was likely 1/2 of the reason y she was such a blind self centered brat. supporting her selfish views and possibly manipulating her. either disownment was what he wanted or to b close again with the girl he r*ed. seems he got the bare minimum of what he wanted his daughter and her approval and love.
The audacity of her to say op ruined her life. She ruined her own life.
Her bio dad had a hand (or other Bobby part) in ruining his daughter's life as well.
The dad owes the husband 18years of child support
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Daughter isn’t right in the head. Seriously. Something is wrong with her. Very very wrong. She clearly got her father’s empathy and morality.
She will have a reality check when her biological father will abuse her...
So she cares more about the person who sexually assaulted her mother than her father mother and siblings combined. Yeah that totally makes a ton of sense
As often people say, she's treading everything (a loving and supporting family) for the one thing she didn't have (her biological father)
She cares more about HERSELF than anyone else. She thinks she wants what she thinks she wants but she forgets out doesn't know the saying, 'Better the "devil" you know than the one you don't'!
I thought that she would get it when her mom told her the story, but when she didn’t and the dad was in the patio with them my jaw dropped, like who in the right mind would actually do smt like that?!
Exactly. The bio dad must be a great manipulator or she must be really selfish. Probably both.
@@Maria-wi1pj bio father have inheritance or property or may be rich ......Its automatically comes to her
Many victims don't even have the strength top share as much as the OP did. She actually sounds like a strong woman to me, one that i hope will get stronger and better with her therapy!
I actually think that the therapist has hit the nail on the head with her analysis of the situation. Unlike her mother, the daughter brought all of this on herself.
And I kind of can understand where the Mother is coming from. she was basically assaulted by a man I'm not saying man comes back when she still trying to heal. that wound is way too fresh to be healed.
plus the mother trying to avoid the situation but sometimes one finds their destiny while trying to avoid it.
at the end of the day the daughter could have supported her mother and the person who raised her. but at the end of the day she made her choices and now she has to deal with it.
People are so sick I could never imagine someone defending/be-friending a rapist
The daughter definitely doesn’t understand how the mother healed. For something so traumatic as SA and the resulting pregnancy and raising of the child, the victim’s healing isn’t going to include making amends with the perpetrator. The healing process is going to be getting to a point where one can function in society without being fearful of it happening again. By introducing the two again she just ripped the mostly healed wound open, poured rubbing alcohol all over it, and then tried to slap a bandaid on it when the bleeding continued to get worse. The daughter acted entirely the way she did because she thought she could fix it for her own satisfaction, not even trying to understand what the mother needed. It’s sad to see how strongly a false sense of empathy can grip some people and make them only hurt others while thinking they’re right.
This is horrific where you’ve tried to shield your daughter it’s severely backfired and that’s an awful situation to be in. The best thing you can do is get therapy if a therapist ever doesn’t believe you,you change your therapist . They should always be a point of safety . I’m glad your family have come together to support you . Your husband sounds amazing .
like father like daughter, they cannot take a "no" as an answer.
I hope she finally understands that what she did to her mom and adopted father was terrible and that she blocks that jerk. Her mom did not deserve that, the poor woman has already been through enough. Neither does her freakin actual father deserve to be noticed, talked to, text to or any of the sort. He should be out of her life knowing that what he did was wrong. And I hope the daughter sets him straight and runs back to her real family not that jerk.
i would not be surprised if the bio dad was manipulative towards the daughter in those 2 years of contact, cause ANY woman would instantly understand upon knowing the truth and cut contact.
The daughter brought all that on herself by not listening to her mother, i understand her attempts to connect to her bio dad and help her mum heal is a good thing, but forcing her mum to meet her rapist is a horrible thing, she didn't even ask and she got upset when her mum had a panic attack, im glad that her husband called off the engagement, he doesn't deserve someone who is ignorant about trauma and doesn't care about the people who raised her
I cried when I understood what happened to her and how she got pregnant.. I knew how badly she felt and the trauma she felt that will haunt her forever. I'm just happy she's doing well and having the support she needed.
Daughter like father
the audacity to say that op ruined her life. ops life was ruined, and the daughter just brought back that trauma, and made some lousy excuses for being a horrible daughter
Like father like daughter. Both can take a hike
Waiting for that 1 dude to say "this comment is older than the video" stfu you just commented before premiere
Fr! They’re so damn annoying.
0:59 for the people from the short
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No worries 😌
How are you supposed to even go about telling your child about that?
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“Ruined her life” well she wasn’t even supposed to born. Her parents might put her up for adoption. And I know damn well that her bio father wouldn’t want her custody either. So no her life was perfectly fine. Until she decided to ruin it. I know it sounds harsh but it’s the ugly truth. Her life could be much worse.
Wow, Polish and Russian getting married? God bless!
2:55 like father, like daughter
I feel so bad for the OP that she had to go through this I can't imagine what the OP went through.
If i was one of the sons....lets just say i would have 10 life sentences
I have a question. I can’t tell when it’s the main character telling I can’t tell if it’s a woman or a male just cause it’s the same voice. I’m not saying you have to do it, but can you change the voice to a woman’s voice when it’s a woman and a man’s when it’s a man.
I find it annoying when the boice in the short is different to the full length video
That's why abortion should be legal
Her mom didn't abort her and she turned out horrible
This is the stupidest argument for abortion that can possibly be thought of.
@@cakegood correlation doesn't imply causation.
@@darren9678 what? She was raped? Can you imagine carrying your rapists child? Ik It's not the child's fault but what was the fault of the woman who has to carry her rapists child
@@Anandita_Sinha your comment insinuates that this particular situation is a valid reasoning behind why abortion should be legal (or atleast that is how I chose to interpret it) which is why I replied the way I did.
Didn't realise it would cause this misunderstanding, my apologies.
Even if OP was NOT raped the daughter is creepy too. she's willing to let a known rapist into her ceremony. That is messed up and unsafe. If any of the guess are hassed by him it will be on her too.
She is the worst
I don't understand the daughters logic she really is special but not in a good way
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Well maybe if you disclosed everything in the beginning it wouldn't have sounded like the reason you avoided the father was a petty argument then maybe things would have gone differently. By not giving her the truth that gave the father the chance to manipulate her.
Tell her about what happened between u and her bio dad
She did😡
@@suf6297 She should have told her before letting her daughter meet him and build a relationship with him for 2 years. What kind of mother allows her daughter to meet a man that she knows is a rapist without warning her? There is no shame that would stop me from protecting my child from that influence and potential danger.
Any one who is bashing Luna needs to understand that she is also a victim because of how op treated her she was having negative feelings towards her youngest i bet that this damaged luna
It's amazing how everyone is completely ignoring what OP said about wanting an abortion but being too far along and that she admitted to treating her youngest differently, as in emotionally distant and neglectful, than the others. And let's not forget that OP was on the receiving end of snarky comments and dirty looks accusing her of cheating. How much do you want to bet that the children of those people were making similar comments to the daughter? OP had no business raising a child that she couldn't stand to be around or even look at. I don't blame OP for what happened to her or for not wanting to tell her daughter the truth, but I can and do blame her for her actions as a mother. I can't imagine allowing one of my sons, let alone a daughter, to meet the man who raped me and build a relationship with him for 2 years before telling them that he is a rapist. He had all that time to convince her that he was really a great guy who made a mistake. Which is bs, but I'm sure it's exactly what the girl wanted to hear.
she is literally not a victim, she didn't know at first but later knew about her mother's trauma and even knowing that she was upset at her because she wasn't attending if her biological father was there and even upset that she "ruined" her surprise, she literally knew everything about her trauma and still nagged about trying to get her close to her biological father and she even complained about that her mother ruined her life but that's not even true because she ruined it by herself, she literally decided to trust her biological father instead of the man and mother that raised her the whole life, she ruined her life by herself and she even had the audacity to say that her mother ruined it, she's not victim she acts
Commenting this comment is older than this video to piss off doomslayer5125
Dude it's not that deep
@@doomslayer5125 you were the guy to make a comment about it first lol
Fair enough
No it isn’t, it’s older than the videos release
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Is the comment older that the vid idk
The video isn't even live yet so it can't be older if it's not there
Remember its not raep if a refugee does it.
The comment is older than the video
What how does that happen
By commenting before premiere
OP is a piece of work, to be honest. Refusing to give up SA child for adoption and then practically dumping her on her husband to raise, because she can't handle seeing her.
You clearly don't know how trauma works and by the sound of it their relationship improved with time
@iguessso1790 Do you really think that OP's daughter didn't notice that her mother didn't want her? What kind of mother allows her daughter to meet a man who she knows is a rapist without telling her daughter that he's a rapist? And then allows her daughter to build a relationship with the man for 2 YEARS before telling her? OP kept quiet and allowed her daughter to be influenced by all the people who didn't believe her when the rape occurred. I don't blame OP for what happened to her, and I understand exactly how trauma works, and I don't blame OP for being traumatized. But I do blame her for subjecting a child to the manifestations of her trauma and failing to act in her child's best interests. It was wrong of OP to keep and raise a child that she didn't want and couldn't stand to be around. How many years of that do you think the daughter suffered through? There's a reason why OP's daughter doesn't care more about her mother's feelings. It's because of how her mother treated her, probably for her entire life. The pain that OP caused her daughter didn't just go away because OP got better (or thinks she got better) at hiding how she feels about her. That pain is entirely on OP.
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This comment is older then the video
As the younger daughter said, you are stuck in the past, people change
Vile rapist defender
You are allowed to not forget people who wrong you. Even more so when you see them, you get anxiety attacks. She's still suffering from what happened. How do you expect her to forgive. You can understand that someone has changed without forgiving them if you expect to be forgiven cause you change, then you haven't truly changed.
That doesn't change the trauma they inflicted on someone.
I feel like they are saying it as 'the daughter changed', not the rapist.
You sound like you want an excuse to commit SA. 🧐
Very sad story, but it comes down to Love. I think she hates the rapist more than she loves her daughter. It is her daughter’s wedding. So I am shocked anyone would support either of them, but mostly the mom. Her daughter should not be put on a situation to have to choose a parent. Any mother who does that needs to look closely with in themselves. They need to evaluate if it’s worth losing a child. At the end of the day this child is just that a child and you have many more yrs of experience and could have been a voice of reason to her daughter. No she gave her an ultimatum.
If she would have said honey this is what has happened and it will make your dad and I very uncomfortable. Your dad has raised you and loved you all these yrs. Do you think he may feel a slap in the face by asking your Bio Parent. Your dad has been through a lot and gotten past the situation. Do you really want to put a wedge in your relationship with your dad. We have had to live with this since it happened. Dad and I both love you and BF and do not want to deal with him for all these yrs. Please reconsider your decision.
How about you get SA your stuck in the past 😤🫥😶😐🫤😑🥱