Why I disappeared?

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2023
  • It took me several attempts to make this video since it's very hard to be vulnerable on the internet. In this video, I will give you my life updates about what happened, why I disappeared, what I've been doing, and what's next. Thank you so much for all the kind messages and for being so patient with me!
    One of the goals that I set for this year is to connect with my audience on a deeper level (Without you, there will be no What The Pho).
    Let's vote on a community platform where we can share ideas, have deep chats, and understand more about each other here: forms.gle/19ydNXDz3DxwmgGx7

Komentáře • 703

  • @11Janho
    @11Janho Před 10 měsíci +34

    Stick to who and what you are…..a very smart,articulate spiritually aware and so very beautiful!! The most important is you, family and friends, life is tough but you got this hands down!🙏🏽🌹😍

  • @rahadiandjanegara8471
    @rahadiandjanegara8471 Před 10 měsíci +27

    Always remember to stop, step back and smile at the big picture every now and then.. 😊 Glad to see you back Van, have some fun, we support you.. ❤

  • @muffinman4575
    @muffinman4575 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I’m glad you are back. I have been living in Hanoi now for over one year and it was because of your videos that helped me make the move. You are truly inspirational. Good luck with your new outlook.

  • @lethibichnga
    @lethibichnga Před 9 měsíci +7

    I always recommend your videos and channel to my friends who want to learn about Vietnam. Glad to see you back and be OK. Take care, Van!

  • @michaelnettleship3794
    @michaelnettleship3794 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Exactly just be you and have fun ❤

  • @Lt964
    @Lt964 Před 10 měsíci +17

    Dear Van,
    I am from Germany. I have been following you for some time. I had already planned a trip to Vietnam in 2019, which could only take place in autumn 2022 because of Covid-19. I used the long waiting time to prepare for my trip with the help of your videos. You have sharpened my understanding of your great country, the culture, the people, the landscapes, the food. You enabled me to see my journey, which took me from Vietnam to Cambodia to New Zealand and Australia over several months, in a completely different light. Originally, Vietnam was just a sidekick to see beautiful landscapes. Your videos have opened my eyes and my mind. I probably would have missed a lot if your videos hadn't given me so much of Vietnam and the people there. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your videos. Despite all the professionalism and commitment with which you produce your videos, the charm and authenticity is never lost. And everyone can feel your love for this great country, its culture and its people. Thank you, and I hope that you will soon be well again and that there will be a continuation of your videos. Take your time for your recovery.
    With kind regards
    PS: You saved my life with one of your videos - I crossed the street in Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City several times without being injured ;-)

    • @WhatThePho
      @WhatThePho  Před 9 měsíci +2

      This message brought me to tears! Thank you 😭

  • @Noodlezoupful
    @Noodlezoupful Před 10 měsíci +73

    Nice to see you back! As a kid i actually hated being vietnamnese and Living in Denmark and got bullied a bit aswell for being different and blamed some of it om being vietnamnese. I started watching your videos and i started being more proud of it and seeing all the awesome culture there it! Still waiting now as 29 year Old to be able to effort going to Vietnam myself someday and experience the culture of my people , and alot of it is thanks to you

    • @joanfelix8362
      @joanfelix8362 Před 10 měsíci

      hahaha

    • @dtncanada
      @dtncanada Před 10 měsíci +2

      I understand. I am Vietnamese too but born in Canada. I just made good friends who are also Vietnamese born in Canada to talk and share life experiences to fill the day. Now I don't worry about being treated differently because I can talk to my Vietnamese friends.

    • @WhatThePho
      @WhatThePho  Před 10 měsíci +6

      Your comment warms my heart! Thank you so much for reminding me of the reason why I started this channel

    • @tandang8103
      @tandang8103 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@WhatThePholàm video lại đi chị... lâu quá rồi em ko thấy chị ra video...em xin chị à... come back đi chị 😢😢😢

    • @Fasty2107
      @Fasty2107 Před 10 měsíci

      I thought racism doesn't exist in Europe?? Isn't racism an American construct?

  • @donb.puryearjr.8699
    @donb.puryearjr.8699 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Welcome back! I completely understand the "burn out" part....I too have experienced this. Sometimes we simply need to stop, drop and recharge.... and who better to do this with than family. We hope to see more of you soon.... 😊

  • @viets_
    @viets_ Před 10 měsíci +5

    Your content is so wholesome and helpful. I'm very glad to hear your update and hope you're doing great! Welcome back!!

  • @muskegmudsuck
    @muskegmudsuck Před 10 měsíci +2

    Welcome back!! It's so easy to get overwhelmed and caught up--good for you for recognizing that!!

  • @JohnWilliams-bp8xf
    @JohnWilliams-bp8xf Před 10 měsíci +3

    It's very nice to see you back. I've only been a follower for about 2 years, but you gave me so much insight for my trip to Hanoi last year that a simple thanks doesn't even begin to cover it. I'm glad that you're doing well and can't wait to see what your plans are for the future. 😃

  • @WongStanley-jn5ie
    @WongStanley-jn5ie Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks for coming back. Seeing your smiley makes a day, . Keep up the good work

  • @sierranevadascout5799
    @sierranevadascout5799 Před 10 měsíci +1

    So glad you're back, I enjoyed watching your videos and stumbled on them while getting ready for school. Kept returning since, happy you've returned

  • @hbpencil88
    @hbpencil88 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Ive watched a few of your video's and the thing that strikes me is how much you are enjoying yourself. Video's of you enjoying food, the sites and sounds of your travels and having fun, it makes me feel a bit happier about things when I see you happy.❤

  • @2justbeme666
    @2justbeme666 Před 10 měsíci +2

    It is lovely to see you back and feeling good ! I have always enjoyed your upbeat smiling style !! Take care lovely lady !!! ❤💯

  • @marvinsantana
    @marvinsantana Před 10 měsíci +2

    No worries! Welcome back. We're here for you. Many of us enjoy learning about Vietnam culture and we appreciate the hard work you do to provide quality content. Stay safe, have fun, take as many breaks as needed, and best of luck!

  • @portalkey5283
    @portalkey5283 Před 7 měsíci

    I'm happy to see that you're back. Your videos helped me anticipate what to do in Hanoi and which food to try and which places to enjoy when I travelled alone for the first time. You helped make my visit a wonderful experience. Thank you!

  • @user-ml9qh3oi7x
    @user-ml9qh3oi7x Před 10 měsíci +1

    You did a great job! Keep on doing what you love! Thank you for all of your efforts and wishing you the best Van!

  • @il9sacchi
    @il9sacchi Před 10 měsíci +1

    Good to see you back. Watched a re-watched your videos many times, your genuinity and spontaneous smiles are a bless. I will finally visit Vietnam at the end of this year. Cant wait!!

  • @skwiot86
    @skwiot86 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Glad to see you back. Thanks for all the videos. We're going back to Hanoi in February 2024 to see our family.

  • @jamesbell7696
    @jamesbell7696 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm so glad you are in a good place. Missed your content and look forward to following your channel again.

  • @Pathfinders-VN
    @Pathfinders-VN Před 10 měsíci +3

    I can imagine the pressure. I hope you enjoy both the journey, make milestones and hit destinations.

  • @vinceblack2606
    @vinceblack2606 Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome Back!! So many times we forget to stop and smell the roses. Very happy to see you realized this and took the actions you needed for you!! As a newcomer to Vietnam, I have enjoyed your videos and soon, i'll be enjoying my journey here too. So thanks again and cant wait to see whats in store for us followers!!

  • @bumble144
    @bumble144 Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome back, you are 100% right about taking time for yourself. We missed you and fully support your choices.

  • @tonybowen8518
    @tonybowen8518 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I’m so glad you’re back and doing well. Your videos are so enjoyable. My wife and I are planning to visit Vietnam in the coming year. We love your content.

  • @kevinchang5699
    @kevinchang5699 Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome back ! We all love your videos. Please don't quit you tube and keep making interesting videos for all of us. We can't wait to see your new and improved videos. Thanks

  • @beerwalkjourney
    @beerwalkjourney Před 10 měsíci

    You are so brave. You are so honest. Your messages hit my heart really got needed to me myself right now. That’s why we love you. Pho-ever Love. I’ll enjoy my journey, not a distinction. Thank you for coming back!

  • @VuNguyen-mh4oo
    @VuNguyen-mh4oo Před 9 měsíci

    Welcome back. You are always a pleasure to watch.

  • @patrickpepper412
    @patrickpepper412 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Great to see back on You tube, you have been missed. Take care and good luck

  • @jordanchin1681
    @jordanchin1681 Před 9 měsíci

    Welcome back! I missed your videos. Glad ya all good.

  • @tmzj8135
    @tmzj8135 Před 9 měsíci

    Welcome back! Looking forward to what's coming up!

  • @tanhuynh731
    @tanhuynh731 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I'm so glad to see you're back. I really missed your charming appearance and your radiant smile. Hope to see more of your videos in the near future.

  • @georgedimulescu7303
    @georgedimulescu7303 Před 10 měsíci

    Finally. Glad to know you're back and all right. Some time ago i was searching in comment section of older videos to see if Van is ok.

  • @timtn1023
    @timtn1023 Před 10 měsíci

    Glad you’re feeling better. Wishing you more success and happiness on your continued journey; may the future videos bring joy and fulfillment into your life.
    Welcome back Van! 😊

  • @StevesMusicRoom
    @StevesMusicRoom Před 10 měsíci +1

    Good for you! Life's too short to let what you do overtake who you are. Happy to see you back. :)

  • @xPuniify
    @xPuniify Před 10 měsíci

    Just yesterday I manually clicked on ur channel, I started watching you a few months ago and in the following weeks I'm going to study vietnamese/japanese philology, so I wanted to check if there was any new content uploaded about vietnam, now I see this update, glad to have u back.

  • @KimCuongOnline
    @KimCuongOnline Před 10 měsíci

    Glad you are back. I was worried 😢. Glad you could find some peace. I’m looking forward to your new videos.

  • @jenneroberts7219
    @jenneroberts7219 Před 10 měsíci

    It’s great to have you back, I really appreciate your videos. Look after yourself, whatever you produce we will love.

  • @yanj111
    @yanj111 Před 10 měsíci

    I am glad you are back! the reason I like your channel is your authenticity! please continue with your journey and enjoy!

  • @shanecox6009
    @shanecox6009 Před 10 měsíci +2

    A creative break and taking time for yourself is healthy. Welcome back!

  • @damiankhoo5569
    @damiankhoo5569 Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome back! Have enjoyed your videos as i learned alot about Vietnam. In fact will be visiting Danang and Hoi An in Dec. Enjoy the journey and wish you blessings along the way 😊

  • @tommythai7563
    @tommythai7563 Před 10 měsíci

    You’re awesome! Keep doing what you’re doing. We love seeing you

  • @SkyusaNguyen
    @SkyusaNguyen Před 9 měsíci

    It’s great to see you back again 👍. It’s the most important thing is your health. I am happy that you are healthy 😀. Thanks for all your videos and what you do for the community 🙏. I wish you a safe, great health, and a successful life going forward 😀.

  • @Motivation_2019
    @Motivation_2019 Před 9 měsíci

    I am glad that you're back and truly find the purpose of life. Enjoying the journey is what matters not the destination!

  • @johnleblanc1243
    @johnleblanc1243 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Great to see you back Van. You are so gorgeous and worthy of our support. Always take care of your health and look after inner self. Best wishes from Brisbane Australia

  • @trulskristiansen9194
    @trulskristiansen9194 Před 5 měsíci

    Just came over your channel and i think it was a smart choice to take a brake. As you said,when you start to forget the journey and enjoy yourself at work, soon or later it will go wrong. Good luck in the future🤗👍

  • @bendigo1961
    @bendigo1961 Před 10 měsíci

    Great to see you back, I look forward to seeing your videos. Take good care of yourself ❤

  • @MobKnowledge
    @MobKnowledge Před 10 měsíci

    Glad to see you're still around. Looking forward to seeing your vid.

  • @kimtran1320
    @kimtran1320 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Glad you are back, your videos are from a very unique perspective, and extremely helpful. I'm Vietnamese and having my husband and kids watch your Culture series to prepare for a trip there later this year. Thank you for your content. Take care of yourself!

    • @WhatThePho
      @WhatThePho  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you 🙏 I'm glad you and your family found it helpful

  • @ControlTheGuh
    @ControlTheGuh Před 10 měsíci

    Always found your videos top tier, glad you are back

  • @joaopedroferreira5913
    @joaopedroferreira5913 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Glad to have you back, Pho. There are times when we need to put ourselves first, in order to keep on going with a smile on our face. One of the reasons that glued me to this channel was the authenticity, the smile, and the passion you put into every single video. Also those traits, characteristic of the Southeast Asian people, were the main reason that made me fall in love with the region and its culture. Keep that in mind, and remember that communication isn't only about how much information you can pick together (it has more to do with the way the message is taken across). Do not pressure yourself, and thank you for all your endeavour.

    • @WhatThePho
      @WhatThePho  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I really appreciate your kind encouragement! Thank you so much!

  • @Chrislw35
    @Chrislw35 Před 9 měsíci

    I have recently started trying to learn about Vietnam and I came across your videos. So, I am very happy you are back and look forward to your new videos. I love your personality that you put into your videos. Welcome Back! :)

  • @phanbt
    @phanbt Před 10 měsíci

    it’s good to see you back here. Enjoy the presence, love what you are doing.

  • @patatedestenebres
    @patatedestenebres Před 10 měsíci +2

    Hi Van, I haven't followed you for long, I have a plan to go and work in Vietnam, and your videos help me get an idea on certain points. I believe that all entrepreneurs who share their passion go through the burn out box, which is difficult to preserve, but I'm really happy to know that you're doing well and continuing to move forward!

  • @LearnEnglishwithMegan
    @LearnEnglishwithMegan Před 9 měsíci

    I'm glad to see you coming back. Your videos are helpful for me and my friends, we have been learning English and Vietnamese culture through your sharing. Hoping you a good health and be happy on your journey.

  • @hbinhvy
    @hbinhvy Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome back Van! Best of wish on your return .

  • @p.steven2413
    @p.steven2413 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Thank You very much Van , You are Truly a very Special Person 😊❤🙏

  • @tomfladi6194
    @tomfladi6194 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Stay cool Van and enjoy your live more than before, we doesn't matter to be entertained but you should stay healthy! Nice to see you 😊
    LG from Austria!

  • @Broken_robot1986
    @Broken_robot1986 Před 7 měsíci

    I just found your channel and glad that you took some time to reset and find what is important for you. You'll be successful in anything you put your time towards I'm sure! Thanks for teaching us about Vietnam.

  • @spinningandchilling
    @spinningandchilling Před 10 měsíci +2

    Whatever you decide as long as you are ok that is all that matters. Best of luck.

  • @richardpurves
    @richardpurves Před 10 měsíci

    Glad to see you back! Thank you for your previous videos: they came in very handy on my recent and first ever trip to Vietnam. Burn out is no joke: please look after yourself. I always think of content like yours as a privilege, not a right. Please look after yourself first, and the rest will follow.

  • @malbucks1968
    @malbucks1968 Před 10 měsíci

    Glad your back, love your videos. Always take time to relax and recharge. Mental and physical health are very important.

  • @NgeeKey
    @NgeeKey Před 10 měsíci +2

    Mental health is super important. Glad that you have shift the focus and is able to managing your energy well.

  • @Michael-el
    @Michael-el Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for your unique and valuable contributions. I hope you'll play the long game with your projects and work.

  • @AnhTuan-vf3ye
    @AnhTuan-vf3ye Před 10 měsíci

    Take care, young lady! Wish you will have a strongly come back and enjoy your coming journeys!

  • @bloisyjenkins
    @bloisyjenkins Před 9 měsíci

    I will take my family to HCM & Hanoi (from Osaka, Japan) for the first time next month. Thank you for your wonderful videos. We've been watching non-stop for the last couple of weeks and you have been very helpful to us. Great message about mental health too. We are glad you are back. :)

  • @gianlucaardiani7126
    @gianlucaardiani7126 Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing it, good to see you are back! Just simply do what you love to do in a natural way, that's what we like to see!

    • @WhatThePho
      @WhatThePho  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thank you Luca! I really appreciate it 🤗

  • @nigelbmichaels
    @nigelbmichaels Před 10 měsíci

    Good to see you again, you have a beautiful soul. Awesome to see your return

  • @brianbachman6617
    @brianbachman6617 Před 10 měsíci

    I am happy you are doing well and that you are back. I am returning to Vietnam in the spring. And I learned allot from your Chanel. Thank you. I hope to see you in Ho Chi Min city.

  • @jerryboyd7086
    @jerryboyd7086 Před 10 měsíci

    Happy to see you again, Co Van. Looking forward to seeing your next video. I'm glad you took the time for some self-care to get centered again.

  • @brendandavies4538
    @brendandavies4538 Před 10 měsíci

    Well I am glad you are OK and welcome back. We have missed your amazing content. You never know may run into you when we come back to amazing Vietnam in December.

  • @darthamador5188
    @darthamador5188 Před 10 měsíci

    Got so happy just seeing you again. Glad you are taking care of yourself.

  • @leegeechew4053
    @leegeechew4053 Před 10 měsíci

    Nice to have you back again, Van !
    Good to go into retreat to recuperate. Take good care.🥰

  • @DuyTran-ue4ys
    @DuyTran-ue4ys Před 9 měsíci +1

    Hi Van,
    I'm from Vietnam and I’m also your loyal fan. I've watched every video that you uploaded. They are so useful and inspired me
    I’m so happy to see you back. I hope you enjoy your journey and make great videos.

  • @themediterraneanguy
    @themediterraneanguy Před 9 měsíci +1

    Glad to see you back and be OK. Take care, Van. Always take care of your health and look after inner self.

  • @dinhhongduc8864
    @dinhhongduc8864 Před 10 měsíci +1

    “There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light get in” You sound like finally find out the big answer of your life, love all the honest things you talked in this video, love the way you truthly are! Keep enjoying life just like how you do, you’re the best at it!

  • @LuisA-vv9zu
    @LuisA-vv9zu Před 10 měsíci

    It is so great to hear from you again.
    I praise your courage to express openly about yourself.
    That human and kind spirit that you demonstrated that you have will be a stone and hallmark trait of who you are… a very kind talented woman.
    God bless you abundantly !
    👍🙏🏻 🌹 ❤.

  • @kenyeuong1773
    @kenyeuong1773 Před 10 měsíci

    Good to see you back, all the best the journey ahead

  • @bertilliozephyrsgate6196
    @bertilliozephyrsgate6196 Před 10 měsíci

    You're back, that's wonderful news! I look forward to more videos, I plan to visit Vietnam and especially Da Lat sometime in the near future. From Vermont U.S.A.

  • @peternguyen3732
    @peternguyen3732 Před 9 měsíci

    Thankyou! Ive wondered where you have been. Appreciate the videos of VN!

  • @xdgs567z
    @xdgs567z Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome back! Yeah definitely true, you need to enjoy the journey and the outcome will follow....sometimes you need a break to catch a breather mentally and come back stronger 💪💪💪

  • @OCDtrading-yc1uc
    @OCDtrading-yc1uc Před 10 měsíci

    So glad to see you back, and that you took time to take a step back to recharge and remember what you enjoy and motivates you.

  • @joezurita
    @joezurita Před 10 měsíci +1

    Glad to see you back. Your channel is one of the reasons my wife and I are traveling for the first time to Vietnam. We love traveling and can’t wait to experience the beautiful sights you talk about on your channel. We will be in Vietnam at the end of September and are bringing two other couples to join us. Looking at your channel inspired us to visit Ho Chi Minh, Da Nang and Hanoi, ending with a cruise at Ha Long Bay.
    Thank you for being an inspiration. Keep up the great work.

    • @WhatThePho
      @WhatThePho  Před 10 měsíci

      Oh yes! Visiting Ha Long Bay soon

  • @bernardtan3639
    @bernardtan3639 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Hi! Van. So so happy to see you back again. Hope you had a good break. Miss you vlog! Take it easy and enjoy what you are doing. Life is a journey. Stay safe and take care ❤️

  • @fanstream
    @fanstream Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome back! Health and happiness and harmony are so important and may you enjoy all three as you return to creating and presenting such entertaining and informative content on your channel :)

  • @kvtraveljoychannel7786
    @kvtraveljoychannel7786 Před 10 měsíci

    So happy to see you back Vân. Let provide us more and more videos. Thank you Vân.👍

  • @marclederman6206
    @marclederman6206 Před 10 měsíci

    First and foremost, so glad that you took the time you needed to rest, recover, and re-evaluate. We all need it, but rarely do we actually do what is necessary to keep us on an even path. Hope you are doing well, and it is so good to see you back on YT. Looking forward to more great content from you!

  • @jamalgreen3056
    @jamalgreen3056 Před 9 měsíci

    This is only the third video I am watching of you and I have learned a lot about vietnam already because I haven’t ran into much Vietnam CZcamsrs so I appreciate the content u put out 😊

  • @albruns9846
    @albruns9846 Před 9 měsíci

    I just started watching your videos so I was unaware that you were gone. Welcome back. You put out a good video and I enjoy watching them. But you’re right, you have to enjoy producing them or it becomes a burden. I’m glad you’re back. 👍

  • @War7123
    @War7123 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I was really sad to realize I haven't seen any of your videos in a in quite a while. I thought I might've accidentally unsubscribed but was somewhat relieved when I found that I hadn't. After a rabbit hole of googling I happened upon a post you made mentioning burnout and and totally understood.
    I'm so glad you're back and hope you've found a better work life balance for yourself. I absolutely love your content but I would never want you to sacrifice yourself for even one more video. Please take all the time you need

  • @GaryAa56
    @GaryAa56 Před 8 měsíci

    I just found your channel, I'm glad you took the first time for self awareness. I'm subscribing.

  • @Hazza188
    @Hazza188 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm a Viet from Melbourne Australia and your content helped my recent trip in Vietnam! Keep it up. Love your videos :)

  • @puggsincyberspace
    @puggsincyberspace Před 10 měsíci

    Glad you are back. Premiers are a good way to connect as well, but maybe not so late. 9-10 Australian time is good. Take it easy and remember it is the journey that matters...

  • @charlesmartin2903
    @charlesmartin2903 Před 10 měsíci

    Missed ya girl. Welcome back. Thanks for the video.

  • @chris.tran.travels
    @chris.tran.travels Před 10 měsíci

    I’m just starting too and already burning out. Thank you for sharing your authentic experience

  • @thuhong2467
    @thuhong2467 Před 10 měsíci

    I have been waiting ages for you, it's nice when you're back, always supporting you!❤

  • @christophedelpierre1606
    @christophedelpierre1606 Před 10 měsíci

    Happy to see you come back to enjoy Vietnam life ! Your smile is a good energy for us : your are happy so we are happy 😊. Your country is fantastic and marvelous ❤

  • @Richard_Cruz_Houston
    @Richard_Cruz_Houston Před 10 měsíci

    Welcome back, Love your content.

  • @ghostwriter1016
    @ghostwriter1016 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I am so happy to see you decided to continue your videos. I only just found your channel two months ago when I was looking for a different channel (did not find it). My girlfriend is Vietnamese and I am investing time in learning about the culture, food, people, and Vietnam. She is going to be teaching me Vietnamese, which will be interesting for me to learn.

  • @sunnybunny50
    @sunnybunny50 Před 10 měsíci

    Glad you're back! always take care of yourself and thank you for all your vids