"Crazy Pageant Mom" Buys Daughter 12 Dresses For One Pageant! | Toddlers & Tiaras
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- čas přidán 5. 01. 2021
- Shian’s passionate mum is determined for her to win this pageant, even spending over $11,000 on dresses! When the results aren’t exactly as they’d hope… this pageant mum wants to know exactly why her daughter didn’t win.
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The daughter is more responsible then the mother. It's sad she thinks she needs to spend any money she wins to pay for a fence to keep her doggy safe.
The mom isnt teaching her girl well. They need to play The Greatest Love of All. Show them what life should be about. These young ages is where they start learning how to treat theirselves and others. Very important age
Instead her mom buys 12 dresses... it's ridiculous. Could have gotten one dress and the new fence instead.
Her mom is crazy that’s not right she bought 12 dresses and she could’ve bought one and then save the rest of her money to fix the fence for her doggy that’s not right her mom is not teaching her daughter well
@@GthDissterBi_Gblin … Yes, and the poor dog(s) would be safe from traffic and other dangers!
The fence has sharp needles with rusted. What if something happened and the dog hurt themselves like one dress is enough all that money was wasted for what? Dress’s she gonna probably never wear again
We run, we watch what we eat, we exercise. I see the kid doing it, but certainly not the mom...
i know right 😂😂😂
Yeah, i was sitting here thinking about what does the mom mean be WE? XD there's no we there.
She keeps saying “we” but it’s just her daughter 🤦🏼♀️🤣
I think the mom does the watching and the eating and the kid does the running and the exercise.
The mom does NOT watch what she eats
When Shian said "I've been practicing sucking in my stomach"... my heart honestly broke. Poor kiddo is gonna struggle with body confidence for a long time.
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It is actually healthy for the belly muscles to practice the "suckin the stomach in"
@@borncritical4801 not your brain tho
@@Nina-rn6pc Actually, yes, cause dopamine is released. Bye!
@@borncritical4801 Actually, that’s not true, doing that for a long period of time disrupts your system and makes your lower belly hang out.
I genuinely don’t believe that this woman understands the damage that she’s doing to her daughter, but that’s still no excuse.
Amen! I agree 100%.
I respectfully disagree what is she doing to her.
@@nyimahcoats4391 ….. shes 8. She doesn’t need to be doing workouts and dieting. You can “respectfully” disagree- but as someone who’s a mandated reporter, this is abusive. There’s a difference between teaching healthy lifestyle and telling an 8 year old she needs to diet to look good for judges.
@@pillowtalk1925 eh I disagree because it’s not like she’s starving her she’s give her healthy food
@@nyimahcoats4391 and also motivating her I don’t think she is ruining her the daughter looked happy so
I think it was sweet that she cared about her dog and the fence
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She’s more responsible with the money then her mom lol
@@sarasimmons1334 Fr 😂
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My child comes first lol forget a fence
She could’ve gotten press on nails, not tips.
you still have to glue them on
@@Val-hr6lo the glue isn’t that strong, n u don’t need acrylic
@@chocalechevux804 Yes, but at that point they could've bought them from the store and glued them themselves what's the point of going to a salon
@@Val-hr6lo that’s y i said she could’ve gotten press ons
@@chocalechevux804 but she didn't want them
The girl in the pink that almost fell off stage was stunning.. she looked like a Barbie doll lol
She had a pretty name
I loved her dress
Um that sounds wrong
“Have a seat.” - My Boy Chris Hansen
@@iiyohshia how
That’s some toxic parenting. She seriously cried like a toddler because she didn’t get acrylic nails? What about those press on nails for crap sake. I’m stunned the mum was like that. I didn’t get fake nails until I was 15 when I could afford it. My mum would paint my nails when I was younger and I was more than happy with just that!
Legit have never had anything done to mine but regular paint at home and I’m 19
I'd say thats a decently age appropriate reaction. Shes only 8. She was expecting and excited for something and told she wouldn't get it. Should have been handled better by mom though.
Ikr just get the plain press ons at Claire's
yep. seems like shell be spoiled and insecure based on the video. shes a sweet girl though, caring for her dog.. theres hope for her yet
I started when I was 14 (cause my mom asked me) I always used those press one as a kid or I’d paint my own nails when I was much younger….but her crying at.8-9 years old over acrylics really shows you how much her mom “teaches her”
This beautiful girl will probably hate pageants soon because of her mother.
She already does
She's going to be just fine the minute she leaves home and discovers other interests.
@@zzizahacallar 😂😂
@@zzizahacallar no her mom spoils her
This is from 10 years ago...
Did I hear Shian say that her mother makes her wear the gurdle to sleep? That is beyond messed up to do to a child.
What’s a gurdle
@@MinaWalker It's worn around your waist to synch it in and make you look skinnier. Theyre known to be very uncomfortable to wear.
@@MinaWalker "Girdle"
Yeah. I've occasionally worn a steel boned "body shaper" but I can litterely only wear it for a couple of hours as its absolute agony. 😕 This poor child
i just watched that part and it’s so disgusting i hate it for that poor kid:(
Can we talk about the shape wear!! This girl is going to have body confidence issues!!! She did amazing but I wouldn’t put my young child in one. Not hating just stating my thoughts and concerns
It might actually cause her to have colon and stomach issues! It’s terrible to wear such a constricting garment during your sleep squeezing your organs!! Let alone on an 8 year old smh
It's not just bad for that though. Putting a child in something that is built to imitate a figure that girls don't get until after puberty. It made what could have been a cute outfit, a little uncomfortable, shaking her hips like that with a VoiceOver talking about training her waist to look smaller? It's sexualising an underaged girl. Im glad the judge at least explained that that's not even a category they consider, so its not the competitions fault. It's the mothers.
"She's slowly slipping in to diva land".
that's because of you, mum.
She's not "slipping into Diva land", Mom's pushing her into Diva land
Her mom raised her to think this behavior is ok when she doesnt get her way and she enables this behavior not only does she give in to her when shes being a brat.
Right
Crying because she didn't get gel tips ridiculous
Imagine what she'll be like in adulthood when she doesn't get the house, car or job she wanted. 🤷♀️
The pressure that tall girl in the pink must have felt to be "perfect" when she almost walked off the stage....💔
I felt so bad for her 😞
Yea. She cried for that. It was really sad. I wonder why she feels all that pressure. Isn't this supposed to be fun?
The little girl is more responsible than her mother. Mom is like “I was supposed to use the money to fix the gate but instead I spent it on dresses,” and the little girl is all “if I win money I’m using it to fix that gate” 😂🤣
No wonder the child had a meltdown about the nails when the mother reacted like this about her daughter winning a title. Just because it wasn't the grand ultimate whatever, she has a complete flipout. She knew there were more than 7 children in that age division when they did their routines on stage (as she stood there with her daughter and the other contestants), but because it didn't go her way, she becomes an adult brat. I'm surprised at how reserved her child was when the mother (who should be her role model) behaves in this manner.
I did competitions growing up and no matter what, my mother taught me to be happy with my win. If I didn't win anything, she would buy me a treat (nothing huge) and teach me that we can't always get what we want in life but she was still proud of me.
Exactly. I did some traditional dancing when I was younger (puberty ruined it of course 😂) but the few competitions I did I was more than happy with a certificate or small trophy.
As with the horse compeitions I preferred doing the clear round jumping. If you got a clear round (not knocking any fences and your horse not stopping at fences) you got a rosette regardless how many entered. ..I did these ones mainly because my horses were always arseholes while out 😂 my first pony when I was 9 reared, the next I took when I was 14 was a hit or miss with fences, she also enjoyed doing handbrake turns when I least expected it causing me to fall on said wooden fences. Then there was the 3rd I took which wasn't even my horse 😂 she was a star. Even if I did take a detour during a jump-cross training class ..you were meant to go through the water and up the track on the hill, I went straight up the steep banking every time. 😂
My current horse is too young for any of that and shows no interest in jumping so we'll be sticking to low level dressage.. Even then I'm more than happy with whatever rosette he gets or if he gets a score higher than 64%
FACTS!.. her mom needs to wake up as chyanne gets older there are going to be more and more girls in her age bracket for these events, her daughter isnt the only one out there who does pageants
Best life lesson right their! Life doesn’t always go your way, but what matters most is your mentality and response after the fact! Because no matter the result a good attitude gives you, and everyone else a positive experience!
This is my petition to start pageants for middle age adults so their children don’t have to do this
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This Mum is turning her daughter in to a diva! She isn't doing her any favours now and is making it harder for her in the future!
Then parents complain when kid is outta control. Parent: I don't know how she got this way!
It's disgusting that all these overweight, gross pageant moms try and live vicariously through their kids. How about teaching them actual life skills instead of preaching that beauty and winning are the only things that matter?!
Exavtly lal of those moms are ugly inside out and only abuse their daughters
I’m just glad my mom doesn’t know what a pageant is because I’m pretty sure she would’ve put me In one because all she cares of is the opinion of society she’s overweight but she says she doesn’t care but she actually does I don’t know why she cares so much but she just does
I'm glad you said it😆😆
Why are all the pageant moms so damn big??
“If I won money, I will spend it on the gate” this girl got more sense on what’s important than her mother 😂 (not shaming)
The kid cried because she didn’t get what her mother told her she should want, it’s pretty normal. The mom should have never compromised her health and done those nails no matter if she’s crying or not. (She’ll forget about it soon!)
She puts her happiness first. She’s a good mom.
@@missxmarvel kids health needs to come before happiness. She was crying because she didn’t get what she wants, her mom should have just told her no let her cry for a few minutes and she would have got over it
@@randomuser9201 No, their happiness always comes first.
@@missxmarvel health is more important in the long run she would’ve forgotten about the nails in like an hour but health will stay with her for longer
@@janaeeeee6748 Happiness is more important and it should always comes first. Children didn’t ask to be born so they deserve to have their happiness put first place.
She teaches her daughter that only looks matter, that you have to be in perfect shape or you're a loser and that crying will get you what you want. Great parenting
Yepppp 😒😔 absolutely perfect parenting…
Thank you for pointing this out
I can’t lie, SHE IS A DOLL 😭❤️ super pretty!!
Shut up
@@user-rf2pg4xm2v you just want to talk just to talk……
@Adam groombridge that wasn’t my point, the little girl is beautiful, is all I said. Stay blessed hun
$11,500? For dresses?! She should invest it into her daughter college fund. Her daughter is so much smarter and sweet. This is scary
I could have bought a new horse for that and had him imported into the UK, paid his vet bills for the vaccinations and quarantine livery he'd need.
So much wrong with this mother, from buying dresses instead of a fence for the dog, Shian saying she'd pay for it, the fake nails, the shapewear, mom's inability to celebrate what the child won and ruining the day with bitterness. They need to quit, that was so messed up.
Mom: I'm not crazy, just passionate
*Daughter doesn't win*
Mom: You don't know crazy, I'll show you crazy
Ironic 😂🙌🏼
lol
She is crazy and on top that this woman needs a new wig.
she ain't got no money, she spen all on pageant
Hahaha 😂
😂😂😂 wrong
ewww
@@tinaalhasanbandq2323 Your assuming as if she showed all of her finances
There is a reason baby/toddler/child pageants are illegal everywhere else outside the US
no they not u dumb or sum
I believe there only banned in france
Lol, no they are not.
*"I don't judge a little girl on their figure, I look at the beauty of the child. Not at the shape of the child."*
That judge has it right 👍
These little girl beauty pageants nowadays are only about sexualizing your children when that's not how it used to be and that's not how it's supposed to be.
That's something that I really wish a lot of these moms would understand. I understand that not all pageants are like this, but most pageant, the judges are judging your child based off of their confidence/energy/enthusiasm/personality and excitement. And a smile like a really good genuinely happy smile is key. I was in pageants growing up and I always always placed either first or first runner up never second or anything less and guess what I never had the fancy dresses like the other girls I just had pretty sundresses my mom put little to no makeup on me I'm talking maybe a little mascara and some lip gloss at the most and that was it. I had naturally curly bleach blonde hair so my mom would just blow dry it with a round brush so that the curls would dry correctly and that was the extent of it. I was always happy and excited and it radiated off of me and that's the kind of thing the judges are looking for. Not the little girls that are so glammed out that they look like mini baby strippers and are so miserable and uncomfortable that you can see it all over their faces. It's sad what some parents put their kids through. It makes me sick man.
"we run" lmao
yaaaaa dawg
Mom needs to join her daughter in exercise routine. Nor so much as for "beauty" but for her health . Being and looking healthy is a significant part of a person's beautiful.
I reader ur comment then looked at ur pic HahHa exactly what we were all doing mmmhmm
And "we" watch what we eat 😂😂 the mother definitely eats what she wants!!
it reminds me of how PE teachers want you to do 50 push-ups and run one mile but they just stand there and weigh 400 pounds
This woman is a terrible rolemodel
Trying to live that life through her child. I do with my daughters education
@lofi remix ASMR I literally am not arguing with someone named "lofi remix asmr" 😒 go spread your damage elsewhere
is it just me or does the mom sorta look like trisha paytas lol
Yeeees
Omg yessss
Lol..yes!
i cant unsee that now
yes lol they have similar bone structure in their face lmaoo
So Mom spent money on the dresses instead of the fence so the lil girl could win and use that money on the fence 🤔🤣
Someone, anyone, please... Make it make sense
1 good win could cover all her costs on dresses and fix the fence.
Fixed fence only brings one time value. The dresses will continue to make money.
@@totallytalia I'm pretty sure they don't keep using the same dresses, not if they wan win anyways. Either way this shit crazy 🤣
@@nicolescott4134 Yeah esp bc that girl will grow out of those dresses in a year
Yeah .makes no sense.
Don't get me wrong, exercize is great for kids, it is very important to eat healthy, do sports and even yoga has its benefits... BUT this is not normal. This is being obsessed by victory and putting pressure on your kid for things they can't and shouldn't control.
I genuinely believe if the mum was more encouraging of the short nails and reinforced it instead of reacting the way she did the kid would've been fine with not getting long nails. It seemed like the mother was pushing her own ideals disguised as wanting her child to be happy.
Telling and training a fn 8yr old to tuck in their stomach 👀 this poor baby is most definitely gonna have a weight complex as she gets older smh 😡😡😡
I woukd love to see one of these parents value their girls brains rather than just focus on fakery for beauty pageants
the dog is so adorable 😭
That moment when your child’s more financially responsible than you 😆
6:37 that’s absolutely heartbreaking. she is way too young to be worried about her body in that way. shame on her mom
Little kids crying about nothing pisses me off lmao
This is my daily dose of birthcontrole 😂
thats how emotional processing works, haha. all kids cry for silly things. its annoying, but little kids crying for no reason is better than a ton of adults unable to process emotions properly!
same
@@crazycrackinchick agreed
@@crazycrackinchick my baby sister would cry every time i walked by her. At this point i think its on purpose HABSJNANA
So, Mom spent $11K on dresses for her daughter to win money from pageant for a new fence. The logic. 🤦♀️
"My mom puts a girdle on me when I go to bed" Why... just why 🤨
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When she was crying about her nails it was called ✨ungrateful✨
She isn’t ungrateful she’s jus sad cuz she thought she was gonna get tips🧎🏽♀️👩🏽🦯
@@Jailynn_n and?
@@hollyjolly1874 and I’m jus saying If u have an attitude u can exit😅
@@Jailynn_n -_-
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My heart shattered when a 8 YEAR OLD girl was told to suck I’m her stomach, and that she’s been “practicing” it just breaks me cause she seemed so sad and she’s gonna grow up insecure, she looks beautiful and shouldn’t be worried about her body at 8.❤
“I’m gonna AXE questions” - crazy pageant mom
Shian is stunning got to admit that.
Mother: *holds dresses up* this is my paycheck, and this is my retirement fund
Child who never asked for all of these dresses: I am a burden to this family and deserve to be hurt :)
“This dress is my paycheck. But everything is for you. I was supposed to fix the fence but…”
Her daughter: *I want to win the money to spend it on the gate, so my dog doesn’t run*
She's a beautiful little girl
She’s such a beautiful little girl awwwaa😍😍🥺🥺 and I love how considerate and responsible she is about wanting to spend the money to fix the gate!
Her mom is ummmm...questionable tho🥴😬
“She makes me wear the shaper to bed” THATS DISCUSTING
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Ahhahaha if I won the money I would spend it on the gate. #Priorities
The daughter seems so sweet and mature.she’s very aware.
Okay this mom makes mama June look decent
Let the kid be a kid !!!!
When she takes her teacup Yorkie for a “run”😂
I wish the moms put half as much effort into their own health as they put pressure on their kids perfection.
5:13 her face when she walked off stage SENT ME 🤣
She was complaining about her slipping into “diva land” but she’s literally forcing her into it.
The mom litteraly told her to suck in her stomach… good way to make your child insecure i feel so bad for her, she’s such a pretty girl
This lady is crazy.
Doesn't even look like she wants to do it her mom seems to be pressuring her to do it
If I reacted like that after my mum paid to have my nails done I wouldn’t have been allowed to go to the pageant and I wouldn’t have had tv, desert, visit my nana(one of my favourite things to do at that age) and I wouldn’t have been able to ride my horse for like at least two weeks. If you treat a child by rewarding bad behaviour all she will learn is that tantrums get her what she wants and will become an absolute night mare as a teen/young adult. (I put all that on the mum btw as a child has no control over how they are parented and only know how to behave as they have been taught to behave)
11 grand on little girl dresses? I hope she can resell them. Jeez. That's insanity.
Hopefully some other crazed mother is looking for dresses for her daughter to wear...🤯😳
That’s the pageant world for ya 🤷🏽♀️
Why can’t they do the glue on fake nails just for that day of the pageant
The mom: “putting a fence up woulda been just staring at money so I spent in on her dresses” (than proceeds to make daughter feel guilty that all their money is going towards her even though her mom is the one who’s responsible of money, and Shyanne never asked for this or 12 dresses, like girl she only needs one, spend your money wiser)
Little girl that has 10x more sensibility than her mom : “I think we need a new gate because my dog, he always comes out those little holes”
…like miss mam 🤦♀️ putting up a fence would very much serve a further purpose than just looking pretty
Take a break. Fix that fence.
Wow the first time I got my nails done I was 16 and my mom thought I was too young lmao this little girl cried 😭
😭😭frrrr
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Forcing the kid to exercise when its big crazy mama that needs it
OMGH HAHAHAHAHA
Those girls are being tortuted by the projections and unfulfilled dreams of their Moms. Disgusting.
The girl is such a good pet owner! 🥰🥰🥰 and she’s gorgeous. The dresses are sooo pretty and fitting on her.
I just want to say I don’t know what you may be going through or what situation you’re in right now , but Know God is there for you and he loves you! 🥰God bless everyone who comes across this !
thank you so much!! 😊
way too spoiled. this teaches your child that whenever they cry, they’ll get anything they want.
Mother: her happiness comes first
Me: and what comes next is the crusty nail and damages
If I was going for a run or a workout & I had an overweight mom, yelling & waddling behind me the entire time, I would do everything possible to get away.
Then, to give in to her baby-like temper-tantrum & get her those, “Tips” (whatever they are) despite the fact that the mom initially said, “No” because they could permanently damage her nail beds, was terrible parenting! That mother is creating a monster! 👿
“My mom puts a girdle on me to go to bed too”
SMH she’s 8!! Stop living vicariously through your children🤦🏾♀️
I can never understand how a parent would put their daughter through this
I just can't understand putting out children like that. As for her performance that was not Diana Ross in song or talent ... It was more like Diana Rigby. Please don't do this to a child, it disturbing.
How do crazy people raise sweet kids like that? Daughter so mature and plight, nothing like her mama.
I love it how she thinks about the gate ❤️
So they are not meditating they are summoning an alter ego.
4:24 Damn girl it looks like it’s past her bedtime. Instead she’s crying in an alley because she didn’t get no acrylics. 🤦🏻♀️ Homegirl needs her sleep, she’s still growing. I’d rather spend my time with my child reading a book, exercising TOGETHER, baking, helping her with her homework than focusing on her looks and silly little dances. Cmon now, that fence needs to get fixed! 12K on some dresses that she’ll grow out in a year is ABSURD!!! 🙄
it depends on what time of year it is. In New Jersey the sun can set as early as 4:30. But I agree I would do something else with my kid.
5:12 when that girl almost fell 👀 I got such a fright
Ngl her Hello Kitty leather jacket is absolutely adorable! 🥺
The daughter know how to spend her money better than her mama 😂
7:20 we need more judges liker her
The mom better start to apply all of her comments to herself, lol. Run, watch what u eat, suck in your stomach....
That’s adorable. The fact she’s worried ab her dog escaping ❤️❤️❤️
ohhhh when bratty kids cry over literally nothing. oooooo it grinds my gears lol
God, I feel so bad for that child. The moment the mother said "suck in that stomach" reminded me of my own mother who said that constantly if we took a family photo or out in public. From just experience as of today, sucking it in is now a habit of mine to do and I have severe low esteem issues concerning my body overall.
Shian is smart and gorgeous! She is going to ho far in life! Honestly she did GREAT in the competition!
I love how her moms is just here for her life experience and happiness 🫶🏽 regardless mama is allowing her to love herself
Her mom is so crazy
When I was a child, I didn't cry if my mom said no to cookies at the store because I knew I wasn't going to get them!
This is upsetting to watch. The dog isn't safe, the child isn't learning what real beauty is and the mom cares more about pageant dresses than her child's future or an animals safety!
Aw she’s so sweet and adorable! Poor girl
Nvm I watched the nail salon part. Still adorable though.
Her daughter is so sweet and such a beautiful girl and I know she is embarrassed from her actions and she should be more proud than upset
“We exercise” she’s telling her daughter to run while she walks . Lmaoo bye
This is her mother’s dream for herself
DD girl has the right idea it’s more important to fix that gate so her puppy is safe and her prancing around in the dress
She was beautiful especially her smile❤.