I'm In Love With A Ghost & My Girlfriend Accepts It | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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REBEKAH is a Ghost Guide and shares her experiences online - but her otherworldly connections and skills suddenly became a lot more personal at the end of one of her ghost tours. She told Love Don't Judge: "I have been judged because I am in a relationship with a ghost. His name is Rupert, I met him in front of a local historic home. He was a Revolutionary War soldier, originally from Wales." She continued: "It was following a ghost tour that I had just led, he called out to me and asked me if I was walking home alone. He asked if he could escort me, which kind of gave me stranger danger vibes because it has never happened to me before, especially from a ghost. But he seemed really nice, so I was like, 'I'll give you five blocks'." Despite her initial trepidation, Rebekah agreed, they got to know each other and slowly began to spend more time together. "We both had to learn each other's languages. He had to learn how I was psychically perceiving him. With respect he started hanging out more where I was living, he was always very clear on boundaries, wanting consent. He never wanted to press being inside [my home] or anything like that." Unexpected feelings grew between them, and they became a couple. Rebekah explained they connect through their energies, with their relationship primarily revolving around emotions, "because of the very clear physical differences between us. He is acknowledging that I'm here in the physical. I need to live a life here in my present." And Rebekah did meet someone new in the living world, a fellow spirit social media educator, called Katharyn. "We met on TikTok. I found Rebecca and I thought, wow, this is great," Katharyn explained. "We met in person a year after we had started talking. We became best friends, and then we stopped ignoring how we felt for each other." Katharyn isn't in a romantic relationship with Rupert but respects what he and Rebekah have. "Rupert and I are friends. We've hung out, had conversations, gone on trips together." Rebekah and Katharyn make videos and live streams with a community of people online, looking to get insight into their own ghostly interactions. But with this support, comes naysayers too. Comments include, "You're crazy", "They're letting everybody out of your asylums nowadays", "Clearly she's lying", and "Find Jesus, accept him into your heart." Despite this, they focus on the positives and the hope that they have brought to their followers' lives. "What's worth it to me [is] the amount of people who come forward and say, 'You made me feel sane, thank you'," Rebekah explained. Katharyn agreed: "It was really like a community built on people that says, 'I thought I was losing it. Thank you for talking about this, or thank you for helping me not be afraid to die'."
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Imagine finding out some random lady thinks she's in a relationship with your dead relative
😂
I had a classmate who went on a date with a girl that had a demon named Daemon for an imaginary friend. The ghost relative sounds more palatable, tbh.
Mental health is a real thing
Real thing for everyone.
Funny enough she goes to therapy and supports everyone seeking mental health.
And so is mixing medications.. but I think she suffered from pchycosis
@@sarahsundae3764 nothing of this means she is mentally healthy or stable or whatsoever lol
Let that man rest in peace
😂🤣
No, it's not schizophrenia... They re just trolling everyone.
Nah they live on social media apps so their always looking for the next dopamine hit: ie attention
No matter how r3333tatded
They’re feeding off of each others delusion
Agree just trolling
Lmfaoo 😭😭
What about all people believing in Jesus 😂😂
Plot twist: the girl in black doesn’t believe and just goes along with it to keep the relationship
I thought that! Haha!
@@dearmeecha1310 😆
Most probably, yes. Although, I’m not sure if the girl herself isn’t trolling right now. They must be faking this to get on the show.
😂😂😂
So if he stops speaking to her would she consider herself “ghosted?”
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
💀
😂😂😂😂
I mean technically 😂
You know what's funny every time Rupert is talking I'm not hearing what they are hearing.
Is it just me?
I looked away & tried to hear what they were hearing but def couldn't..maybe it's my unpractised ears 🤷🏽♀️
@@mechloe8528 That's must be it because you did it without the sub.
I think the sound is different irl and when I watch via a video. I say this because when I was heavily into Ghost hunting content, I could rarely hear what everyone else could hear that were talking to the shadow box. It's only after they tell you what they heard is when I can hear the same most of the time lol Just my personal opinion though 😅
They hear what they want to hear
The joy these people feel with each other radiates through the screen. I hope one day someone will look at me the way Katharyn looks at Rebekah ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
uhm… are you ok? get some help
Ephesians 6:11-12 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the supernatural realms.
Jesus is the truth and life. Do not be deceived by the tricks of the devil. At the name of Jesus every knee shall bow, call upon His name and you will be saved.
I've been following Rebekah since 2020, and I do have to say watching their story unfold has been beautiful. I started out not sure what to believe, but enjoed the stories anyways. She would even say herself, I'm not trying to convince anyone to believe in anything, think what you want, I'm sharing my experiences so those who understand it, won't feel so alone.
The next couple years I've come to believe. I've been able to realize death does not have to be so scary. Love can, and does, transcend death. So why not? Why not honor your past love while also expressing and experiencing love in this life. You can tell Katharyn and Rebekah feel empowered to be their true selves around eachother. I'm really glad Rupert, Rebecca, and Katharyn have been able to find a balance that works for them. ❤
Same, been a follower since 2020 as well! Well put!
Hahahahah funny
It's easy to find balance when the 3rd member is non existent
After multiple experiences in my life I am very open minded about the spirit world. If everything has energy where does that energy go after someone passes away. There are millions of people saying they’ve had ghost experiences. If you enjoy ghost stories watch Unsolved Mysteries and listen coast to coast with Art Bell.
How you in love with a ghost that gives one-to-two-word responses when you ask a question or have a basic convo through that device. That alone is more frightening than the ghost Rupert.
It helps that they are both mediums.
Fine 😅
😂😂
Your right it is because we don't know who is really giving one to two word responses?
Thanks for sharing our story! It was really fun working with you 😊 It seems that some people are under the impression that I only use the SBox to communicate with Rupert 😂 I'm a professional spiritual consultant and primarily do not use equipment as that can sometimes exhaust spirits. We only used the SBox here as we thought it might benefit viewers who are less adept with their own spiritual sensitives to be able to hear Rupert speak. As I say in all of my content, no one has to believe me. That's never been the point. I've worked with over 1,000 clients in three years, each one offering amazing cross validation of their own spiritual journeys. It's a passion of mine to help others learn to better trust their intuition. For the most part now, I am on the internet so people learn how to discover their own spiritual stories rather than share my own alone 😊
Translation: “Moooooarrrr attention pls, to get that dopamine hit. Positive or negative idcurrr!!!”
@@ethanjohnson6261why are you so angry?
Why do YOU want the attention so much? Stop being a bully. You're going out of your way to do this and for what? Thats right, attention! Sorry that girls and ghosts have more game than you. I literally cannot think of another reason why you would be so affected by this. You're the one giving them the negative attention you seem to think they want. Do you see the irony here?@@ethanjohnson6261
He shone able to just talk to you without the spirit box. Does he talk out loud. ????
You need help for real. Get out of that delusion.
What language did she have to learn? Because a Welsh soldier from the American revolution would definitely be speaking English.
Pretty sure it was a hypothetical statement
@@kittymaya4615 Ah I see, like a clash of cultures thing.
The language of bull s**t
People from Wales - especially back then - spoke Welsh as their first language!
@@torij518 She should be able to speak Welsh then right? 😋
damn she cheated on rupert 😔
F in the chat for Rupert 😔✊
F
I've been following these two for several years now and I don't think that Rebekah sees Rupert as her boyfriend or a relationship in literal terms like that but there is definitely mutual deep care there. I am So So SO HAPPY to finally see Rebekah and Kathryn loving openly. They are so sweet and precious and I adore them both individually and as a pair 🥰
I can’t imagine the ppl that would need attention badly enough to pretend like they can see a ghost 😞 this generation is doomed
Facts!
This generation and theres bc they sure aint young😂😂
You really think that’s new to this generation? This has been going on since the beginning of time where people claim they can see ghosts.
since you know everyone in the generation....
Spirits are real…just because you’ve never experienced it doesn’t mean everyone of lYiNg🙄🤦🏾♀️
Is that a ghost walkie talkie?
Basically
@@maddilong135 It works like a spirit box
Evp yes it is
I don’t know why people are so angry about this and calling them crazy. They just like ghost stuff and psychic stuff. I don’t personally believe in that stuff but I think it’s cool that they get to enjoy their hobbies and interests together and share it with us in this video. I’m sure a lot of other people with similar interests would be super happy to see this video
Exactly! They seem happy and their beliefs aren't harming anyone so I don't understand all of the negativity.
Exactly! Just because some people don’t believe in paranormal doesn’t mean they get to be so mean to them in the comments. It’s okay to disagree without having to be so ugly in the comments.
Well said!
yesss, if people realized that life is too short to be so attached to some meaningless restrictive social conventions, maybe they would be happier. As long as it's not harmful to anyone, just have fun
and this is exactly the reason ppl like this are able to get away with shit like this…stop normalizing mental illnesses…this shit is getting out of hand
There is so much out there that has yet to be discovered or understood. Having the ability to listen and being open to other possibilities is the first step in learning.
I used to do this. I was 11. 😂
I used to play in an imaginary world where there were unicorns and dragons and I could see them in vivid colors. But I could also turn it off. Because it was my imagination😂
@@spulwassertoo your imagination is like that? You can actually see shit vividly. I thought it was pretending to see something
She is openly cheating on a ghost, shame on her!
Well he ghosted her first
Who you gonna call ghostbusters
I think demons are nicer than some of the folks in these comments.
For real though
The folks in the comments actually exist.
Démons don’t exist
Stupid 🤡
Wow…that was literally one of the dumbest comments I’ve read on one of these threads in a while. “Demons are nicer than some of the people in the comments” because the people in the comments aren’t placating these two weirdos via saying things like, “Omg, what an awesome relationship,” when we all know how incredibly nonsensical, sad, and pathetic this is?? Don’t you find it a bit strange that “Rupert” just happens to look like a 6’2” version of Leonardo DiCaprio…yet, he is “desperately in love” with this incredibly average-looking fruit loop of a woman and her equally-creepy girlfriend?? The fact that people in the comments have more critical thinking skills than you very clearly do, doesn’t mean that they’re “mean” people. The people who are “mean” are people such as yourself who feed into this type of complete delusion via complimenting them and acting as if their “relationship” is a legit thing.
Why do they act like children?! I feel like if i watched three year olds make this same video it would be cute. Its so weird that theyre full blowm adults
Judgy about two happy people hurting no one
If more people acted like children, people would get along better. I'm not sure if I believe them, but they're sweet so I wouldn't mind spending time with them.
I’ve watched the entire story on TikTok. She was married to a man but must have gotten divorced. It’s so crazy, she tells the whole story.
Yes, from one of her videos it sounds like he decided it wasn't a good fit. They'd been together for 10+ years, married 1.
Plot twist, it's Slimer as a catfish
Hahahahaha! Awesome:
Just a note for the editors of this video: when you put subtitles for what the ghost says, you are mentally prepping the audience to hear that particular thing. Whether intentional or not, it manipulates people’s perceptions and is pretty misleading.
Lol
Isn’t that what the media does in general anyways? ;)
I tested it. I saw this comment before I got to "Rupert" talking and listened to "him." I didn't hear what the subtitles put at all.
Love is an infinite energy.
Have you ever had a supernatural experience that you couldn't explain? This video makes me want to hear people's ghost stories
When they Asked about her sexual relationship with ghost I instantly thought of that scene from scary movie 2 where ol girl got her back blown out by the ghost.
Lol
Imagine meeting a person you thought you be great friends with, then they invite you to their house to meet their 👻 boyfriend and tell you how they meet. Bruh...😂
Yup they're American 😂
So two delulu people found one another on a delulu app. Got it. 👌
Insert layze delulu tune lol
Its funny how when "rupert" speaks they say......"i think thats what "it" said......not he, but it. Lol. Such a great scam they have though.
The 'it' is the device. Watch again and listen to how the device is actually being utilized and you'll get it.
@@user-sm2cp7cl9o yet doesn't prove that it's NOT a scam.
It's giving Tina Belcher and the ghost boyfriend in a shoe box
Exactly what I was thinking!
Aww they look so happy together. I’m glad they found each other. Anyone that can create a community where you can feel heard and understood is a good person. Anyone on here judging them should really check out their content. They have helped so many people. Even if you don’t believe in spirits they make it okay to be a nonbeliever or a believer.
Okay, this is very clearly not normal.
Happens more often than you think
Who’s normal? Not everyone is going to meet your idea of normal
@@AsrielAsitgetsAnd where would that be? Idiotville?
@@ClaseyMeanAh wow what a mature comeback, you must felt like you’ve done something huh little minded one🤩
@@AsrielAsitgetsSays the weirdo who can't get laid so proceeds to flirt with an imaginary friend 💀
Kurt Cobain told me too say “Hi” too you guy’s.
People shouldn’t be so quick to judge we don’t know for sure the in and out of the world who’s to say that this isn’t real? We are not them, but they look happy and aren’t hurting anyone and that’s all that matters
If spiritual entities exist (bad intentioned), for all she knows, he’s one of them. He’s been invited in, he’s attached to her and welcomed, just what they like. If that stuff is real.
why do u think he's bad?
It's not real, just goofy
Oh it’s real
Ephesians 6:11-12
[11] Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. [12] For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the high places (spiritual realms).
Don't be deceived by the enemy, call upon the name of Christ Jesus and you will be saved
Per her stories through TikTok, she actually mentions one who turned out to be I'll iintentioned. A known abuser and narcissist. His name was George in the stories. Those do exist 😅
She needs to visit a hospital... Bedlam would have been perfect.
It’s trolling guys💀
What did I just watch
So is he related to the dead pirate that, that one woman used to be married to? 😂
Well if a ghost can find love, then maybe I won’t be single forever after all.
Do you guys really think mean comments are going to do anything? They've gone this long without letting it get to them why would they stop now? Plus ya'll don't need to be mean it doesn't affect you at all just don't watch
So if she reincarnated why did rupert not?
I was wondering the same thing
He was "asleep" for a long time as a ghost. I don't think he was able to process his death the same as Rebekah was able to. So he was stuck in a fugue state and she was able to reincarnate. If you are curious you should look her up. Even if you think of it as a story she is making up, it's a very entertaining one.
She talks a bit about this on her tiktok! It’s a common question for her. The shred theory is a pretty solid explanation if you believe in reincarnation and such.
Because he's a demon and demons need a soul to feed on. Only Jesus saves.
From her stories, Rupert never gave up trying to find his love (who he was forbidden to be with when she was alive), died before they could escape together, and never gave up trying to find her
I loved seeing this. Seeing them together made my heart sing. They're clearly happy here!! ❤❤❤
Also as strange as this seems to most people, there have actually been a number of celebrities(mainly female) talk abt sexual experiences w ghosts. No joke, from Anna Nicole Smith, cardi B, Lucy Liu, Kesha, and for the men I know of Bobby Brown and Dan Aykroyd. So it's more common than we think. Although none of them mentioned a relationship after.
At this point I’m starting to think I’m the one going mad
I knew I recognized her! I used to be subbed to her tiktok actually, watching her re-enact her experiences w ghosts. Although I thought she worked at some castle doing tours or something. 🧐 Looks like she took one of the ghosts home w her. Would that be considered stealing from the workplace? 😂
To each their own tho, as long as I'm not being asked to be molested by a ghost, I'm happy for them. Even if Rupert is a figment of their creativity, they still seem happy and content. That's really all you can ask for.
All people feel a desperate need to feel special and unique… this is an unhealthy way to get that feeling and validation. The saddest part is, the longer this goes on and the more validation they get the more likely they are to start really believing that this ghost relationship is real.
Side note: just the simple fact that this “ghost” is ok with the relationship between these ladies shows that none of this is real. I mean, a lesbian relationship would have been illegal when he was alive. They might have even been called witches back then. It’s not even a well thought out story…
She was married previously and it was during that time she found Rupert
They can learn the modern ways of things and can be educated from their bigotry just like live people 😅
Rebekah and Katharyn have taught me so much!!! I get so excited whenever I see a new video from them!!!! They are incredible and how far they have come is truly awe inspiring! Rupert is also very cool 😂😂
Fake story 😞
Right
😂wtf .. clear on boundaries".😂😂wow ..
😂😂😂😂
The girl in Black claims not to be jealous but so many little things that she's saying and doing show the complete opposite LOL
I have had dreams with dead relatives, so I do believe in ghosts, but I don't trust the walkie-talkie. (Remember "I burried Paul"?) If she was with him in a past life and he wants to live with her, watching her be happy in her current relationship, it's okay with me.
I love this for her. I watched the story on her TikTok. I have experiences everyday so I believe for sure.
If they think it's the same one responding then they might be wrong could be a different type of entity demonic etc
Clearly this is fake and just for content damn she can at least act better to make it seem legit and not a scam lol
That is absolutely wild... wow
The way Kathryn and Rebekah interact with each others is so genuinely sweet and refreshing to see compared to other couples on this show. I feel loving a ghost isn’t hurting anyone. Best of luck to them.
Technically all my exes are ghosts, so yes, I do believe this
Imagine one of them say they're pregnant! Wouldn't be surprised if he ghosted them 😂 😂 😂
Sounds like demonic possession
Ephesians 6:11-12
[11] Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. [12] For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in high places (spiritual realms).
Only Jesus saves.
Very concerned about the ones dental health. Very yellowed teeth and inflamed gums.
Her gums look painful
They have such a beautiful dynamic ❤
It’s like romcom paranormal activity 😅😅😅lolol seriously they trolling us so good!
Wait…………… What
How does that relationship work?
With a large does of delusion
@@HisCheeseburger😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@HisCheeseburgerdose*
@@ClaseyMeanAh tu madre
“He is originally from Wales… He doesn’t have the accent you would associate with modern day England.”
Wow that’s a real head scratcher!! Why wouldn’t a Welsh man have an English accent? Guess we’ll never know!
In my workplace I have to pretend I wasn't raised in the area I was, so people don't think I'm poor & I'm going to steal from them.
I've trained myself to speak a certain way to hide it.
I imagine that it's a similar thing.
@@Kaidoesthething That wouldn’t explain why he doesn’t have an English accent, the fact that he’s Welsh would.
@@WhispList Do you mean when Rebekah said "He has a light accent, though it's not specifically the accent that we would associate with the English now just because it's been almost 300 years"? (7 min mark)
This doesn't mean he doesn't have an English Accent, it means that he doesn't have a MODERN English accent.
For context, the time period Rupert is from is closer to when Shakespeare was alive than to today. Also, Historians have confirmed that the Southern US accent is a lot closer to how the English spoke back then, compared to the modern RP (Received Pronunciation, AKA. BBC English) Accent we think of today. This is probably why Rebekah thinks it's only a slight accent.
Additionally, there was a lot of racism in the 1700's & the English treated the Welsh as second class (some still do). If you were Welsh, it wouldn't be something you'd want to advertise. Hence when speaking you'd try to sound like you were from elsewhere. (as per my previous comment)
EDIT: Punctuation
@@Kaidoesthething I don’t know how else to explain it - If he is Welsh, it’s no surprise that he doesn’t have an English accent. Because he isn’t English.
First I’ve heard about you & Kat as a couple. You look SO much happier Rebekah! I was cheezing for you both ❤
This has to be an early April fools prank
Demons love no one, its a trap to make us wast time. They know that God love us A LOT so they manipulate to keep us wasting time, for judgement day is soon.
In judgement day, joy wont last, beauty as well, beautiful clothes, camera, make up, cars, flowers...for those who will be condamned with the demons, a sad and dark place will be their home
All the beautiful things we have now, are maintained by God. nice things belong to God only, not to demons.
Why does the 1770 war soldier ghost looks like a 2024 instagram model looksmaxing dude
So what happens if you two are getting funky together? Are you asking that ghost can we get it on??
The emotional connection and conversation with Rupert is so intense and real.....not
No life after death😂
Mental hospital ASAP
What, you need a ride or something?
At this point ppl can be in a relationship with anyone anything or even ghost lol
Why no black ghost scam
You know why..
We don't do ghosts.🤣🤣
@@queentinadoire6931 exactly. Unless it's the Holy Spirit.
@@jalennelson6008 Yup. The Holy Ghost is the only one that we communicate with.🙏🏽
@@queentinadoire6931me too!
Interesting. Where did they get the walkie talkie device from?
They're all over the internet. I think it's called a spirit box, commonly.
The definition of insanity
Lmfao
I'd love to see if they could find any paperwork showing that he was actually there for anyone saying he wasn't a real person at one point
Until “Rupert” becomes more aggressive which will happen as it reveals what it truly is that you’re communicating with
After watching this show I understood that my life is too boring ( sorry for my English )
Beautiful, True love never dies
This is utterly bizarre.
I'm so thankful to have you both raising awareness on all of this! Your relationship with each other is so warming and beautiful ❤️ I love the relationship with Rupert as well with how wholesome it is! I was so touched to hear it was a past life connection! I'll be joining the boo crew soon but I had such a wonderful time meeting Kat at the coffee shop 😄💖 now I just need to learn how to work discord 🫣
What an awesome story. 😆 Gosh life seems so much more fun for them.
Their love is beautiful and the community that they've created is accepting and absolutely wonderful. Criticism and judgement is easy when you're not open to growth.
People act like it's something strange, while at the same time, they believe that Jesus sacrificed himself, died, came back to life, and loves them more than anything else. So, a loving relationship with a dead ghost Jesus is considered normal and within reason, but this isn't? 😂😂
Well I guess you think that if your atheist but still don't agree with this do you?
She met all of the ghosts did she lol
Imagine getting run over by imaginary dead people
“Doing skits (comedy) online”. They trying to do a dear David
Great Hollywood story
Man. I hate to say this but she’s not crazy….thats all I’m going to say….but she’s not crazy.
You all are adorable.
for a couple that are clearly in love, why all the hate? They are just doing their thing and enjoying life. They aren't hurting anyone so why are the belittling? I mean look at their faces and body language that is super clear or anyone with working eyes. You can also hear it in their tone and voices when they talk about each other. So good for them!
I've been following both Rebecka and Katharyn for years and seems like some of the very few genuine people that are out there on the internet.
Love is love. They aren't hurting anyone so for shame or anyone trying to rain on their parade.
They don't dislike there relationships they just don't like ghost part
Love don't judge, to each their own ❤
Did she say JIMOTHY????😅
Love this so much. Rebekah and Katharyn are amazing humans and I love learning from them. It's such a shame that a channel called "Love Don't Judge" has so many judgy comments. Love - Don't Judge !!
Thank you! Finally, someone who actually gets it!