Therapist Breaks Down Love Is Blind's Brett & Tiffany | Finally Some Green Flags 💚

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Komentáře • 479

  • @shaxnerd418
    @shaxnerd418 Před rokem +745

    The biggest takeaway for me from the suit tailoring incident was how patient and respectful Brett was with the seamstress. The way folks treat service workers says everything about them. He was firm, but polite and understanding. A good egg all round.

    • @Kikeo1984
      @Kikeo1984 Před rokem +21

      This!

    • @MC-mh2ju
      @MC-mh2ju Před 7 měsíci +3

      What exactly is the science behind this? Rich people treat service people like garbage all the time, yet everyone respects rich people.

    • @ElusiveTy
      @ElusiveTy Před 6 měsíci +20

      @@MC-mh2ju Poor people also treat service people like shit all the time, what's your point?

    • @deewilson9952
      @deewilson9952 Před 3 měsíci

      How u treat people that most people feel can't effect their day to day life shows how genuine they are ​@@MC-mh2ju

    • @Lalaphive
      @Lalaphive Před 3 měsíci +7

      ​@@MC-mh2ju "everyone respects rich people" is nasty work

  • @Kikeo1984
    @Kikeo1984 Před rokem +1060

    I’ve seen a lot of people say Brett and Tiff had no conflict but I think it’s great that you pointed out that they had many situations that could have created conflict but they navigated them so carefully and beautifully and did not allow them to escalate. A sign of a very mature, healthy and emotionally intelligent couple. I absolutely love them.

    • @katyclemens
      @katyclemens Před rokem +39

      Yes, this was done so well! I didn't even realize how many potential issues they sidestepped!

  • @crystalmonroe2621
    @crystalmonroe2621 Před rokem +926

    This Green Flags Video was EVERYTHING and needed so people can understand healthy love really does exist and it’s a beautiful thing when you find the one to experience it with 😍

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Před rokem +31

      So glad that you enjoyed it! And congratulations on your marriage!

    • @HHH81
      @HHH81 Před rokem +7

      I second this! It’s so great to see what is good!

    • @crystalmonroe2621
      @crystalmonroe2621 Před rokem +2

      @@StephAnya aww thank you 😊

  • @a-moon
    @a-moon Před rokem +853

    On a podcast, Marshall said that Tiffany and Brett had a big storyline around her moving to Portland. But we did not see any of that because Brett handled it correctly. I wish Netflix would see that people also want to show up for healthy couple goals...not just the drama!
    Can't wait for your take on this though!!

    • @RoyalRumBull
      @RoyalRumBull Před rokem +36

      I have faith they will! ESPECIALLY after all the backlash re: Vanessa and not holding the most toxic cast members accountable while going hard on the decent humans

    • @hellaSwankkyToo
      @hellaSwankkyToo Před rokem +33

      DITTO! i would LOVE to see the green flags + healthy relationships, even more than the drama + red flags, TBH.
      iDK if that makes me an anomaly or in the minority but it's good to see i'm not alone in this. 😊

    • @easyveganfoodie
      @easyveganfoodie Před rokem +40

      YESS!! It was specifically shown that Kwame didn’t live in Seattle and would need to move, he even made a comment about how he can’t go visit when he was staying with Chelsea during filming. On the other hand we never even knew that Brett lived in Portland also! He was commuting to see Tiffany and never once complained or even mentioned it. Nor did Tiffany make a big deal about moving to Portland for him. Green flags!!

    • @cheyennemckenzie8493
      @cheyennemckenzie8493 Před rokem +15

      It's the way that I didn't even realize that they had the same big distance to move as Kwame and Chelsea. It was like that never truly got addressed the way Kwame needed but with Tiffany and Brett it was so smooth. I wish we saw more of the discussion.

    • @hashtagmate
      @hashtagmate Před 8 měsíci +3

      @@RoyalRumBull*narrator voice* they would not, in fact, end up doing that

  • @bryansl0587
    @bryansl0587 Před rokem +156

    "The things we're teased for often become our greatest successes." You could save a generation with that line

  • @jessielove2737
    @jessielove2737 Před rokem +270

    I started laughing when you said "There Goes Tiffany sniffing a candle that's not even lit" 😂
    That is me too 🤣

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Před rokem +25

      😂😂😂 that part had me cracking me up

  • @WhuDaFXupTessa
    @WhuDaFXupTessa Před rokem +318

    The most beautiful black love. I fell in love with them so quickly.

    • @arunima29
      @arunima29 Před rokem +8

      Brett and Tiffany are absolutely beautiful. But there's another black couple that ranks higher than Brett & Tiffany for me, Amani and Woody for MAFS.

    • @hellaSwankkyToo
      @hellaSwankkyToo Před rokem +5

      THIS!! 😍🤩 🖤🤎✊🏾🖤 love to see it!

    • @katyclemens
      @katyclemens Před rokem +13

      I loved when he specifically mentioned with his friends that her being a Black woman was important to him. :)

    • @Kikeo1984
      @Kikeo1984 Před rokem +9

      @@katyclemens yes me too! Was so beautiful to see a handsome, ambitious, thoughtful and intentional black man choose and cherish a gorgeous, ambitious, kind and caring black woman. 🤎

    • @Moi_81
      @Moi_81 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Me too. Seeing healthy black couples, especially black men that love black women is important.

  • @easyveganfoodie
    @easyveganfoodie Před rokem +79

    I completely agree with Brett’s reaction for his pants not fitting!! I don’t think it’s a small thing at all. It’s his wedding day. If it was a bride whose dress didn’t fit then we wouldn’t be wondering why she was upset. Especially if it’s someone who usually puts effort into her appearance only to not look her best on the biggest day of her life.
    That was my favorite scene with Brett and Tiffany too! What we didn’t see that Brett shared later was that he cheered her up by asking her if he can take pictures of her as a professional photographer, and he printed them out for her later (which we did see). It was his first time seeing his work printed and framed. I really think that added to the scene and the way he handled everything.

  • @ridonculously
    @ridonculously Před rokem +293

    When I first saw the scene where he was comforting her, I said to my roommate “every healthy couple planning a wedding hit a point where they want to elope” 😂 I never for a second thought she didn’t want to marry Brett, just that she was ready to run to vegas and say hey y’all we did it already, cancel the wedding

    • @katyclemens
      @katyclemens Před rokem +35

      Honestly I thought it was funny how the show kept trying to take the smallest things they said totally out of context to make it look like they were going to break up in the next episode, when after like day two we knew that wasn't going to happen and they were just cherrypicking phrases. :)

    • @LB-no6tu
      @LB-no6tu Před rokem

      Love that

    • @annanims7876
      @annanims7876 Před rokem +19

      What was so mature and confident is that he also did not take it as she does not want to marry me. With a red flagged couple, the scenario would have gone quite differently.

    • @crystalmonroe2621
      @crystalmonroe2621 Před rokem +5

      Omg we definitely hit that point w/ wanting to elope lol … wedding stress is real 🤣

  • @deborahstephenson4515
    @deborahstephenson4515 Před rokem +328

    It really helps me learn communication skills when you review other people's relationships and you give examples of what could have been said instead. Please do some more like these!!

    • @infringedblue
      @infringedblue Před rokem +8

      I absolutely learned how and what it looks like to give validation and put it right into practice. Steph is out here changing lives for the better 🙌🏾

  • @BlackQueenA1825
    @BlackQueenA1825 Před rokem +58

    The thing with the proposal clothes is that everyone does their proposals on the last day so everyone gets dressed up. The edits make it look like the couples get engaged on different days but it's all on the same day for every couple

  • @alisonmartin3856
    @alisonmartin3856 Před rokem +252

    I think Brett is entitled to the pants that he wants on his wedding day! I love that he was proactive about it instead of just reacting and taking it out on others.
    Thank you so much for this video. It has helped give me some perspective on my new relationship.

    • @janine3664
      @janine3664 Před rokem +24

      Agreed! I want a man who cares to look his best on our wedding day. Who wouldn't?

    • @carissafletcher1855
      @carissafletcher1855 Před rokem +30

      and even though he may have been stressed about it, he was still very nice and respectful to the tailor!

    • @AriD2385
      @AriD2385 Před rokem +21

      @@janine3664 I thought it was a reflection of how much he wanted that day to be perfect and therefore how important marrying Tiffany was to him. I was like, “Oh he really loves this woman.”

  • @nubia1213
    @nubia1213 Před rokem +59

    Wow, to watch and also review how Brett was never, turned off or intimidated by Tiffany’s ambition and persistence, and never felt threatened by her success, because he was so secure in his own, was such a huge validation, and gives me a lot of hope for meeting another partner like that!!

  • @RoyalRumBull
    @RoyalRumBull Před rokem +208

    Love this.. The culture needs more Brett & Tiffany 💚

  • @bikuuesaka2008
    @bikuuesaka2008 Před rokem +197

    Earlier today I was like “wait, Steph hasn’t posted Tiffany and Brett yet? Hope she does soon!” And here we are 😍

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Před rokem +25

      Here we are! Thanks for being patient 🫶🏽

    • @bikuuesaka2008
      @bikuuesaka2008 Před rokem +2

      Of course! Thank you for your making this content for us!

    • @frecklesandwine
      @frecklesandwine Před rokem +4

      @@StephAnya Since you're a marriage AND family therapist and you said recently that you'd like new video ideas that aren't exclusively surrounding movies and tv, I would love to see you do complex breakdowns of familial relationships more! Because those are always some of the hardest to tackle during arguments and in fights bc there's soooo much backstory and history to every interaction.
      I know you're a couples therapist as well, so I completely understand that most of your breakdowns have been around that topic, but again, videos surrounding mother-daughter relationships, toxic sibling dynamics, father-son, etc would be SO great and so helpful! Breaking down familial patterns and ways we have of interacting with our family as adults-- which can be rooted in our childhood-- is so hard but so rewarding, so I'd truly love to see you do a series on that!
      I know you don't talk much about your own family (I don't even know if you have siblings, actually! lol) but I think everyone can relate to complex dynamics amongst family members, especially because they are some of our first exposure to relationships and how to communicate properly (or poorly, if the dynamic was unhealthy.) I think there's soooo much to be said about what even constitutes a family (single parent household; adopted family; two person household; absent parent; alcoholic parent; abusive older sibling; coddled "favorite" child; etc.) that you could even make an entire series on the topic of family dynamics! [Even defining different parenting styles and what they mean, etc.]
      So yeah, all this to say I'd love to see videos on different ways of resolving conflicts between parent and child as adults! What are healthy ways to communicate when there is a lot of hurt and trauma on both sides; how to maturely move on from the past whilst still holding our parents accountable as adults? I think the idea of being responsible for our present self and NOT blaming our parents for "how we turned out" is so important, but there are so many instances where it's hard to bite our tongues and where we are just dying to make them understand how they've discarded us in the past... Again, it's often sooooo much more tricky than relationship dynamics, since we don't usually choose our family. But how do we let go of that pain if we still want to maintain a healthy relationship with them?
      I'm also curious as to whether as a LMFT you ever also saw families? I know you've been a couples therapist, but have you also ever met with parent-child, or sibling duos for conflict resolution and communication issues? Or exclusively couples? Sorry if this message is a bit intrusive and too long lol, just super curious bc I think you're such an incredible therapist with such good insight! But I completely understand if you can't/don't want to answer. I know these can be private questions.

    • @frecklesandwine
      @frecklesandwine Před rokem +1

      @@StephAnya I found that little moment where you analysed Bliss's relationship with her dad and how she interacts with him as an adult and manages difficult (and awkward) conversations with him so incredibly insightful that it just made me think so much about how helpful it would be to see you make a full blown series out of breaking down and analyzing familial conflict and communication issues! (Kind of like how you've done with couples all this time.) Again, I know family dynamics are waaaaaay more complex and heavy and hard to break down bc of the childhood history they're rooted in, but still! Maybe even taking famous tv/film moments and breaking them down like you did in your viral videos could work? Idk! Just an idea. [Ok I'll shut up for real now lol sorry for the essay!! Love you!]

  • @gabrielleduplessis7388
    @gabrielleduplessis7388 Před rokem +63

    They finally proved that healthy couples can be entertaining.
    While I don’t watch the show, I love the commentaries on it.
    Based on this one, I like how this love at first sight done right or insta love.
    What makes this work is their values, their beliefs, and ideals are put on the table right away. The possible deal breakers are laid out front and I can see how this leads to feeling love for the other person in a short period of time.
    My favorite part of this video is communication. Simple communication is not that difficult.
    If these two were a romantic comedy novel, I would not put it down.
    This video made me love them.

  • @paintitblack9712
    @paintitblack9712 Před rokem +86

    I LOOOVVVED Tiffany's friends. She is so sweet, her and Brett are so emotionally mature. Love to see it!💚

  • @Libusheful
    @Libusheful Před rokem +66

    I was afraid Brett could be the SK of this season: the guy who knows how to say exactly the right things in the right moments only to let you fall from the highest point. But this couple where really knowing and loving each other with each conversation 🥺💜

  • @ZarinaRae
    @ZarinaRae Před rokem +71

    I didn’t think the pants thing was that big of a deal. I could tell that Brett was a very meticulous and detail oriented person. He wanted to look nice. I was truly obsessed with Brett and Tiffany throughout the entire process! They always were so supportive of one another. Their communication was amazing, and I loved how open they both were! 😊

  • @sacileftwich5857
    @sacileftwich5857 Před rokem +55

    This video was exactly what I needed. I’m going through a breakup and I was questioning my decision, but this just reassured me that being respected and emotionally supported is not an irrational expectation. They are my favorite couple for sure🥰

  • @elizabethchavez1345
    @elizabethchavez1345 Před rokem +32

    Brett's pants not a red flag. I got married last year and there's so many fittings before wedding day. I started like 4 months before wedding with first fitting. Then I had 2 more fitting after that. My husband went in a month before day of wedding. Guys and girl do fittings differently so that's what I thought. I've also been hearing podcast Out of The Pods and the talk about how producers do things to stir things up. This is probable intentional to get something 'drama' out of this very beautiful love story. As always thanks for your dissection , I love your input, specially therapy terms.

  • @YoKinah
    @YoKinah Před rokem +75

    At the 25:02 mark, oh my goodness. Me and my partner just ran into this issue. He was teasing me about some things and it became like a long convo and eventually an argument. I needed to hear what you said just then. It confirmed what he had already said to reassure me: “i love you. And I’m serious about us. I wouldn’t be making long term plans with you if i wasn’t. My intention is never to hurt you. We’re on the same team”. He says that last part a lot 🥹i love himmmm

  • @siliziwex44
    @siliziwex44 Před rokem +12

    Netflix messed up they should have just put Brett and Tiff on our screen from the fist second to the last. Show us how to build and have healthy relationships - beautiful mahn

  • @ridonculously
    @ridonculously Před rokem +14

    I thought Brett had spent so much time being a strong rock for Tiffany that he hadn’t processed his own nerves and anxiety. He didn’t have as much control over the wedding planning as he might have liked given the process by which he met his wife and I think when the one thing he was able to choose, his tuxedo, didn’t fit correctly all of the stress caught up with him and overflowed

    • @terickastidbits2342
      @terickastidbits2342 Před rokem +3

      I agree. Plus it’s been clear that his appearance is important to him and they played in his face

  • @angiemalone8262
    @angiemalone8262 Před rokem +100

    This is the third time your breakdowns has helped me understand some confusion and frustration I have with my family relationships. Thank you thank you for your videos!

    • @frecklesandwine
      @frecklesandwine Před rokem +10

      Since Stephanie is a marriage AND family therapist, I would love to see her do complex breakdowns of familial relationships more! Because those are always some of the hardest to tackle during arguments and in fights bc there's soooo much backstory and history to every interaction. I know she's been a couples therapist as well, so I completely understand that most of her breakdowns have been around them, but again, videos surrounding mother-daughter relationships, toxic sibling dynamics, father-son, etc would be SO great and so helpful! Breaking down familial patterns and ways we have of interacting with our family as adults-- which can be rooted in our childhood-- is so hard but so rewarding, so I'd truly love to see her do a series on that!

  • @daniborn2bwild8
    @daniborn2bwild8 Před 11 měsíci +11

    They were the ones that made me go, that's what I want. So now I'm working on myself even more so I can have this type of relationship.

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Před 11 měsíci

      Love that for you ♥️

  • @artxlife7236
    @artxlife7236 Před rokem +30

    I am right there with you - I want to see more older candidates on the show and more of these healthy relationships so people can see real people in real healthy relationships and how they navigate those. The show has to have some drama which is fine, but I’m here for the wholesome side that we see in these mature, happy couples ❤

  • @MarissaontheMAP
    @MarissaontheMAP Před rokem +22

    They are ABSOLUTELY my fav couple of all time from LIB!!! It is so so refreshing to see a Black love story that is healthy and showcases how to go about relationship the right way. Im rooting for them!!!

  • @kelly2860
    @kelly2860 Před rokem +23

    Brett and Tiffany were such a welcome relief every time they came on screen this season! They seem like really lovely people and a great couple

  • @Meibel11
    @Meibel11 Před rokem +103

    I can’t wait to see all different types of content from you BUT can we please get a season 1 LIB breakdown in there as well! Or at least Lauren and Cameron ❤ Love your videos

    • @aBieBi1
      @aBieBi1 Před rokem +3

      Would love that!

    • @TellitTay
      @TellitTay Před rokem +5

      Yesss I too vote for another healthy couple review 💕

    • @doctorofletters8412
      @doctorofletters8412 Před rokem +2

      Me too!! That’s the only season I fully watched . @ Stephanya pretty please

    • @Cornflower20
      @Cornflower20 Před rokem +8

      I would love to see a Lauren and Cameron video!

    • @nanzyalnizlikg4360
      @nanzyalnizlikg4360 Před 10 měsíci

      Lauren and cameron !!! yess please ❤❤

  • @biancablanchard5098
    @biancablanchard5098 Před rokem +38

    Steph! Love your relationship breakdowns! Please do “The Ultimatum-Queer Love” next! I would love to hear your thoughts about the lesbian couples on that show. It was fascinating to watch both partners in a couple being so expressive about their emotions and verbalizing their feelings! That show was excellent!

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini Před 10 měsíci +8

    24:35 oof yes! Giving your partner the benefit of the doubt when you know “your partner loves you, wants the best for you, and wants a future with you”…this is a really good reminder lesson for me right now, as I am in the beginning stages of a relationship and this month have realized I was over depending on my previous bad experiences/relationships leading to bias that negatively affects this new one. But this is a good reminder to help me reset and feel ok about letting go of the defenses enough to let someone new and good in.

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Před 10 měsíci +2

      So glad that part resonated with you!

    • @juul6633
      @juul6633 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I needed this lesson too, I feel you!

  • @lupe1808
    @lupe1808 Před rokem +37

    I love Brett and Tiffany. I’d like to see you review season one of love is blind. Also maybe you could do a video on how to move on after the death of a significant other in a healthy way .

  • @iamabutterflychaser
    @iamabutterflychaser Před rokem +10

    Although they may not have been the most "exciting" couple to watch if you love the drama, Brett and Tiff really made this whole season of LIB for me. I absolutely loved them!

  • @janethplazola7095
    @janethplazola7095 Před rokem +26

    I was just discussing in my last therapy session how hard is it to find role models for healthy relationships and this video is exactly what I needed. Thanks ❤

  • @_inmyhead
    @_inmyhead Před rokem +5

    The way I perceived the pants situation is that he is a go getter, he doesn't sit and feel like the victim and feel helpless, he act. He solves the problem. I like that and I think that is a very reassuring quality to have in a partner.

  • @annanims7876
    @annanims7876 Před rokem +8

    I didn't feel Brett's upset regarding his slacks was a red flag. He is definitely particular about his clothes and fit and that is Ok. His brother's presentation is quite different and that is ok as well. We all have "that thing" that we are a little extra about. And Tiffany recognizes that he is a little BOO-ZHEE and teases him about it. Great Review!

  • @tashinaakinrinade8528
    @tashinaakinrinade8528 Před rokem +43

    Thank you for this! This couple was a breath of fresh air. And your assessments are always so insightful. Could we have more videos like this? With healthy relationships and ways to maintain despite various challenges (distance, children, different levels of wealth, sickness, etc).

  • @astrameli
    @astrameli Před 3 měsíci +4

    Thank you for this video. I remember crying on how beautiful the story is between those two. Green flags and healthy relationship examples are sooooo important. Tiffany and Brett are the greatest that has been this show and any other dating shows. It’s so refreshing to see them ❤

    • @juul6633
      @juul6633 Před 2 měsíci

      I cried watching too, it was beautiful to see!

  • @Meeshee57
    @Meeshee57 Před rokem +7

    I think Brett was concerned about putting his best foot forward for Tiffany and their wedding. That’s why he was so adamant about getting his pants tailored.

  • @AriD2385
    @AriD2385 Před rokem +15

    Really appreciated this! I totally get you thinking Tiffany seemed to good to be true. I had similar thoughts about both of them and their relationship. But it just goes to show that we’re fed so much drama, that the healthy, happy and unproblematic people often go unnoticed. Thanks for putting the spotlight on something positive!

  • @malvavisco10
    @malvavisco10 Před rokem +16

    I was so glad they got past that simple misunderstanding of her falling asleep. I could tell she’s a heavy sleeper bc I am so the opposite, I’d wake up instantly if someone were trying to get my attention. They communicated about this so well, and it was a thing of the past.

  • @galeitselo
    @galeitselo Před rokem +21

    Now this is one episode I have looking forward to the most...Even though it premiers 1a.m my time, I an here for it 😊😊😊

  • @glowingmyway
    @glowingmyway Před rokem +22

    I resonated with the part about it being too good to be true. I was thinking this relationship was too perfect, they fit so well. But I’m so happy for them❤️‍🔥

  • @kayunknown4269
    @kayunknown4269 Před rokem +22

    You can do what you do with Love is blind but with series like Queen charlotte and the bridgerton, I would definitively watch !!

    • @cheyj
      @cheyj Před rokem +1

      Yessss, we need a breakdown of the Queen Charlotte and King George dynamic!

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460

    I smiled throughout this entire video. It was such a blessing to see Dr. Steph be able to enjoy a couple from one of these shows instead of having to point out all the red flags and issues so she could teach us how to have healthier and stronger relationships. She got to point out all the RIGHT things to do because it was demonstrated by Brett & Tiffany. And the glow in Dr. Steph's eyes as she did was beautiful to see!!! 🤗🥰🤗🤗

    • @claumok84
      @claumok84 Před rokem

      Right!? I was smiling the whole time as well. Dr. Steph is a gem 💎

  • @anadoripanther3196
    @anadoripanther3196 Před rokem +18

    This is my absolute favorite analysis so far! It is so nice to see and examine a beautiful, healthy relationship! I look forward to every one of these videos 💗 I don't watch the show, and don't want to. I love how you break it down and tell the couples' story. I feel like we are good friends discussing your other friends' drama lol. Thank you Steph for your thoughts and genuine care for people 💗🌸

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Před rokem +5

      Aw I love that!! Thanks for watching, friend ♥️

  • @paintitblack9712
    @paintitblack9712 Před rokem +3

    The review we needed, thanks for doing these two💚

  • @jessicastacy7529
    @jessicastacy7529 Před rokem +7

    They really are wonderful role models. Couple goals!

  • @aBieBi1
    @aBieBi1 Před rokem +14

    This just warms my heart 💚✨We can learn so much from green flags. It’s so easy to get caught up in red flags and honestly the drama of shows like this, but watching this video is so beautiful and a breath of fresh air💚 Love this video and couple!

  • @annanims7876
    @annanims7876 Před rokem +10

    Steph! Please keep the nerd knowledge coming, I love the way you explain concepts. The detail, examples and references are Great! You are both entertaining and educational and seem wise beyond your years.

  • @moxiemood
    @moxiemood Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this!! It's very helpful.

  • @lina-5640
    @lina-5640 Před rokem

    Thank you for this suuper insightful video. Needed this lovely energy!! ♡

  • @charronsmith1795
    @charronsmith1795 Před rokem +1

    I’ve been waiting for this one!! I figured you were saving the best for last… about to listen while I go on my walk…

  • @gnomie5191
    @gnomie5191 Před rokem +9

    Just wanna say I love your channel!! Your voice is soothing and your relationship break downs are spot on. I’m game to watch anything you make but a movie relationship I’d love covered is eternal sunshine of the spotless mind!

  • @rekiatsalami1792
    @rekiatsalami1792 Před rokem

    Ive been looking forward to this.. learnt so much. Thank you

  • @stephanieruiz1223
    @stephanieruiz1223 Před rokem

    This was so educational! Do more!!

  • @asiahjiron2100
    @asiahjiron2100 Před rokem

    I love them so much!!! I really like your breakdown on relationships and communication,very insightful!

  • @jordanmarshall6628
    @jordanmarshall6628 Před rokem +6

    I've loved watching this series. Psychology is a passion of mine, and even though counseling isn't typically the field I'm most drawn to studying (I'm a huge fan of going to therapy), being able to analyze relationships with specific models so clearly is invaluable. Please continue this series with other shows, I need more of this content!!

  • @egcarswell
    @egcarswell Před rokem +2

    Love this video!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Definitely one of my favorites, your takes on their relationship and healthy communication were so insightful! Much appreciated, gained a fan for sure 🙌🏾

  • @samdube6337
    @samdube6337 Před rokem +4

    This was such a helpful video, especially helped me was the point about not letting small disagreements determine the relationship

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold Před rokem +1

    Thank you for breaking this down. Great video. We often see what’s wrong with relationships but it’s nice to hear & see.

  • @deanie3
    @deanie3 Před rokem +3

    This video was everythingggg😮‍💨👏🏽 being able to visually see greens flags & healthy ways to communicate definitely helped me map out my emotional responses and what I can work on to do better💕

  • @mmem4264
    @mmem4264 Před rokem

    I really appreciate this video. It's really helpful to have an example of green flags, not just red ones.

  • @megl6585
    @megl6585 Před rokem +5

    I absolutely love your breakdowns from LIB and this is a favourite looking back on Tiffany and Brett's journey on the show. Seeing their communication and how they really held space for each other was so refreshing and beautiful - got me taking notes for my own communication work hahah. Absolutely rooting for them forever

  • @tsuiters
    @tsuiters Před rokem +2

    I love, love your channel, I look forward to all of your breakdowns. So many people are doing reviews and breakdowns but yours is by the far the best, the smartest. You speak so well I listen to every word. Netflix needs to hire you to host Love is Blind

  • @JakeTahoeMusic
    @JakeTahoeMusic Před rokem +4

    My wife and I were hoping you'd make a video about this couple! Your videos always make for such great discussions ❤

  • @ThrilloftheChayce
    @ThrilloftheChayce Před rokem +7

    I LOVE your videos and have been watching them faithfully for the past few months. I would really appreciate additional videos about behavioral addictions (food, sex, love, etc) and adult ADHD, respectively. Can’t wait to see what you come out with next!

  • @msmonti011
    @msmonti011 Před rokem +4

    This was such a great review and breakdown of the couple. Listening to this made me reflect on my own relationship history and communication style

  • @bruh666
    @bruh666 Před rokem +3

    I'm crying during like half of this video because they are so sweet and inspiring to me

  • @ameliahansen6285
    @ameliahansen6285 Před rokem +1

    I love videos reacting to situations since it helps me learn so much more about how to handle my situations. It's different when you're just listening to someone talk about how to go about certain feelings versus seeing an example and having it explained if that makes sense. Anyways I love your content so much, thanks!

  • @hkvillamin
    @hkvillamin Před rokem +2

    been waiting for this!!!

  • @meITSme-ur9hm
    @meITSme-ur9hm Před rokem +1

    i liked this break down. You offered great points, it gave me insight into some of the healthy dynamics they had, good points

  • @claumok84
    @claumok84 Před rokem +2

    Omg I just love this couple so much and you, Steph, are extremely wise and intelligent. I’m glad I found someone I respect and learn from.

  • @bruh666
    @bruh666 Před rokem +1

    I love to see you geeking out in this video from a therapist perspective on how good they communicate, this is actually one of your most helpful videos so far imo because it's so nice to see a good example in real life of people making things work

  • @UrBigSisKey
    @UrBigSisKey Před rokem +5

    Lately I have been seeing someone, a small conflict came up and he just started avoiding me. It’s complicated, but this video shows how couples can effectively rebound from that in the RIGHT WAY. ❤ love it thanks for sharing

  • @theyLoveyaya21
    @theyLoveyaya21 Před rokem

    i’m a big visual learner and this videos analyzing tv and movie couples are really really help as example what to do or not to do especially when Steph explains it further so i would LOOOOVE more videos like this if possible

  • @bonniem5963
    @bonniem5963 Před rokem

    I love hearing your perspective on these things. You've definitely given me a perspective on Brett's groomzilla moment I hadn't at all considered

  • @MsLeoLady813
    @MsLeoLady813 Před 9 měsíci +10

    You can tell they are mature and are building a strong foundation because they are both solution focused. They don’t deny challenges but instead think about potential solutions.

  • @englishwithtara8346
    @englishwithtara8346 Před rokem +5

    After seeing soooo many therapist videos based on LIB or ultimatum. Your videos are still my favourite! The videos are well-made and you are so articulate, easy to listen to. Just wanna show some support here! Keep up the good work!!

  • @redtulips23
    @redtulips23 Před rokem +2

    It was beautiful watching Brett and Tiffany's love story on the show. Your videos are awesome because there's always an explanation and lesson that comes along with your review of the couples. As someone who has benefited from therapy and is intrigued by human behavior - your videos are both fun and informative. Brett and Tiffany's story is refreshing because it's not often we see healthy relationships develop on reality tv.

  • @mzy9173
    @mzy9173 Před rokem +3

    Ive only really seen bad examples of relationships in real life and in the media so this is really everything 💕

  • @Musemachina
    @Musemachina Před rokem +5

    What a beautiful couple! They seemed genuine and kind, inside and out.
    Thanks for sharing your insight on both healthy and toxic relationship dynamics! Love hearing your insight on navigating conflict and showing support for others. Thank you for all you do. 😊

  • @876tisha
    @876tisha Před 3 měsíci +2

    When two securely attached people find each other ❤❤😊😊😊

  • @L_M13
    @L_M13 Před rokem

    Love this!!!😍♥️ please more of this kind of Videos 🙌🏻

  • @karinaborzecka433
    @karinaborzecka433 Před rokem

    This is such a great video!

  • @gloriajohnson5265
    @gloriajohnson5265 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love these two. I love your take on them! I like that he was able to get the tux corrected.

  • @pamelaguillaume8341
    @pamelaguillaume8341 Před rokem +1

    definitely a beautiful couples..I enjoy watching them..I love how the communication and transparency and the support was on point on both sides..

  • @laurathepoet
    @laurathepoet Před rokem +6

    I learned a lot here and noticed some of my own patterns. Appreciate your take and experience with how couples misinterpret things. It's hard to not take things personally sometimes because my mind moves so fast, but my partner and I are working on assuming best intent with each other. Assume he is coming to me with love and care and honesty. These two do that, their relationship was my fave since season one.

  • @janeenerbaneener
    @janeenerbaneener Před rokem +4

    100% everything you said! They are my favorite couple EVER; a shining example of a healthy relationship.

  • @flowersforreal2026
    @flowersforreal2026 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I've watched all of your love is blind videos, and I'm so glad I watched this one last. They're so wholesome and mature. I could literally cry. You did great coverage on all of the couples!

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Před 11 měsíci

      Aw thank you for sticking with me through all of them!

  • @wandahill1619
    @wandahill1619 Před 8 měsíci

    I found your chanel after a video showed up regarding LIB season 5 and I am so happy it did. I love, love, love the Browns and I for one think having your partner, soul mate and best friend be the same person is 100 percent the best feeling in the world.

  • @deconstruct.with.raejene

    Loved this! Definitely want more relationship-related videos! My fiancé and I watch your videos together and then discuss them after 🥰

  • @kira22421
    @kira22421 Před 9 měsíci +2

    This was an AMAZING video I love this break down of a healthy relationship! This analysis literally made me tear up to see this amazing communication, this was absolutely beautiful. Please do more analysis of HEALTHY relationships and communication tips. I loved this video. 💖☺️

  • @sintara8442
    @sintara8442 Před rokem

    Great couple, thanks for the video ❤

  • @jazzmynchatman5824
    @jazzmynchatman5824 Před rokem +1

    🙌🏾🙌🏾 love how you touched on Murray Bowen

  • @WafaaH
    @WafaaH Před rokem +3

    They’re my favourite couple ❤ I’m glad you made a video about them.
    I found him being upset about his pants not fitting right to be adorable. He just showed how seriously he is taking his wedding and thinks of it as his one and only wedding so he has to look perfect for it.
    I love Tiffany so much, she is so beautiful inside and out.

  • @neliamagumula2911
    @neliamagumula2911 Před 10 měsíci +3

    OMG! These 2. I have no words. I love their love. They are so perfect for each other. I am rooting for their love to last forever. Wow! It was a joy watching them. Brett, you are amazing period. Tiff, so nurturing for sure. I am still in awe! My favourite couple ever! Both their dad's said they wil make it and they will. I am 49 but iyoh, I learnt so much about pure love from these 2. Thank you Brett and Tiff. May God bless your union.

  • @elenakalliste
    @elenakalliste Před rokem +3

    I loved these two so much. They seemed so connected to each other and so committed. It was honestly very funny to even include Brett freaking out about his pants, because I think that was Netflix trying to manufacture a little bit of drama with this couple. And a man being particular about their appearance is a good thing as long as they are not hypercritical of others, which doesn’t seem to be a Brett problem. I think Tiffany also texted Brett about Jackie’s absence because she wanted Marshall to know and knew Brett could break it to him respectfully

  • @wisehead1830
    @wisehead1830 Před rokem +1

    Love the commentary as usual. I am going to be honest I don't even watch love is blind I just like hearing the commentary.