Can a Vaginal birth go wrong? | Cerebral Palsy in Children | Advocating for yourself during delivery
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- čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
- Audrey’s story broke my heart but I believe it’s a story that will empower every pregnant mom to advocate for themselves, to know when things are not going right but it’s also a story that people in the medical field will benefit from.
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For details about the Day Care centre for babies with CP, kindly reach out to Audrey +256 779406142. Support her in every way you are able to. Thank you for watching. Thank you for sharing this video. God bless you, Audrey, O’niel and family💛
Dear Audrey, you are doing well. There is this one thing I know, there is nothing that God cannot change. I pray O'Neal lives to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. May God bless you and your family in all aspects of life i.e financially, emotionally, mentally etc.
Amen amen amen
Amen and amen.Thank you very much for the encouragement.
Hello Audrey. My daughter is nine years old and has CP, hydrocephalus, epilepsy, visual impairment, feeding disorder ( dysphagia), cognitive delays, non mobile and non verbal.
She had to get a permanent gastrostomy feeding tube too due to aspiration pneumonia. She has had it since she was three years old and has had it for seven years. It is the best decision you will ever make for your boy. It will make feeding and medication easy. It’s a new world all together but you will be okay.
God keep strengthening you.
Wow! Thank you for this encouragement. You’re a great mom
Hello dear. Thank you for the encouragement and well done mummy.
Dear Audrey...My heart goes out to you and your family. There is a reason that this child practically walked away from death to live again and show a new pulse irrespective of what the doctors had pronounced. I believe that there is a destiny for this boy that cannot be seen in the natural but the Kingdom of heaven has a star, a prophet and a soul winner in this child. You are the gift to your generation O'Neil and a lot lies in store. The Psalmist in Psalm 118:17-18 speaks of you when he says "I shall not die, but live,
And declare the works of the Lord.
18 The Lord has chastened me severely,
But He has not given me over to death."
Your reason for living O'Neil is to declare the works of the Lord and this shall surely come to pass in your life. Audrey, May the Lord bless you and keep you, The Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you, The Lord turn his countenance upon you and May the Lord give you Peace. Shalom dearie...speak to you soon.
Shalom, shalom. Amen. Thank you for this beautiful blessing and words of life to Audrey and her family 🙏🏾
Thank you very much Doreen. Amen and Shalom.
Dear Audrey… My heart is heavy, evening if I don’t know you personally. The moment I saw baby O’Neil, I became teary. 🥺 You are a strong mom ! Your baby is blessed! May he be a living testimony with healing & restoration for the rest of his life in Jesus Christ’s name! We pray 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen. Thank you very much.
@@webombesaaudreymaris8818 you are blessed! He is alive! You get to give him all the love you can offer! Even if he cannot speak or show it, he knows that you love him. May God replenish your pockets in amazing ways while you take care of him 🙏🏾 May God answer your prayers for your baby, in Jesus Christ’s name , Amen! Take good care of yourself, be healthy & of sound mind for baby O’Niel & your family. Much love & respect 😘
Oh my God Audrey thank you for sharing your story. I have a baby who is six years now Miracle and she has gone through a lot that she was blind at some point but she can now see and speak and sit. Audrey don’t give up our God works Miracles. She is now on top class learning seriously taking on swimming lessons. The she gained her sight was such a joy in the house and we have seen her progress day by day. Thanks for sharing and we can get in touch am also in Magere
Awwww Christine what a beautiful testimony!!! We trust the God of miracles. Feel free to reach out to Audrey. Details in the description
Hello Christine. Thank you for restoring hope in us. We are grateful.
My dearest Audrey. You have carried this load with such grace. You are strong and such a light to that little boy. Thank you for not giving up on him. May the Good Lord continue to hold your hand as you maneuver through this storm. Thank you for sharing your story with us I know it has not been easy
Thank you very much.
May God continue giving Audrey strength to take care of her Son 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen
Amen.
Praying for Strength for you Audrey! Thanks for sharing ❤
You are welcome.
Very proud of you my girl, may God keep strengthening you and all around you as you take care of baby Oniel
Amen my dear.
Audrey, may God strengthen you more dear. Surely some hospitals need to be mentioned, medical personnel simply don't care.
So sorry about this dearest mum😭🙏🏽let’s speak out about these hospitals so that other mothers don’t fall prey of such hospitals 😭
Audrey, this is a very emotional heartbreaking story but we stand with you in prayer; and in faith. May God bless you and your husband. May O'Neil continue to be proof of the Goodness of the Lord. May Our Lord keep holding you together and providing; as you continue raising O'Neil.
Amen amen amen 🙏🏾
Amen. Thank you very much.
Wonderful mum. A special thanks to the daddy for the continued support👏👏
Thank you too Jackie.
My Girl.
May God continue being your strength
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Amen.
Thank you Daisy for editing some parts out, that you deemed not fit for viewers, especially on the mother’s side. It’s for dignity purposes. Thank you ❤
Absolutely!!
This is soo painful. May God bring light in the darkness.
Amen
Amen
May God strengthen you Audrey. Thanks for sharing your story
You are welcome Maria.
Thanks Audrey for sharing this vulnerable story! Many will be blessed by this👌
Amen! We believe so.
Amen.
Forgiveness is my take home. Strength and grace over you dear Audrey 🫂 Thank you for sharing
You are welcome.
What an emotional story this has been! Thank you, Audrey, for sharing, and may God continue to bless you, your family, and the works of your hands.
@Daisy, a reminder to add the daycare's information in the description box. Thank you.
Thank you, Yvonne. I will share it.
Thank you Yvonne.
Thanks Audrey for sharing. Praying grace for you always.
Amen.
Amen.
Audrey you are a super mum. Watching u is soooo inspiring.May God elevate that Day Care to heights beyond imagination and may your husband and family forever be blessed.
Ameeeennnnn.
It is well Audrey..your story has enlightened me and has brought alot of insight...
I am glad I have been able to. Thank you too Fiona for the encouragement.
Thank you Audrey for sharing your story with the world. May the Almighty keep strengthening you to move this journey.
May her story impact and help many 🙏🏾
Amen.
It is unfortunate that this mother is going through this because of the negligence of some of the health personnel in the so-called international hospital. God protect all expectant mothers in this country and always direct them to hospitals where they can get the safest delivery for both mother and baby. I can attest that Mulago might have its challenges with customer care and, understaffing among others but the personnel there are quite experienced
God bless you Audrey and family.. My prayers for you all.
Amen.
Ohh dear. Same condition I went through 10 years ago. Am glad we made it out of hospital alive but with tubes feeding n oxygen.
Audrey dear God is in control of this situation. Thanks for sharing your story.😢
Amen 🙏🏾
You are welcome.
I have just returned from NICU with this same story... Am praying so hard that my story becomes different... The doctors report has been so negative but I also believe God can change this negative report. Lord hear a mother's cry🙏🙏🙏
Dear Lord, I commit Janet and her child into your hands. Intervene in their situation. Make a way for them in Jesus’ name, amen
My prayers are with you 🙏🏾
May God have mercy upon you my dear ❤
Im praying for you!
God uphold u and surprise you
Very proud of you my gal❤️
Thank you my dear.
May God continue to strengthen you and the entire family 🙏
Amen
This story is just sssaaaad 😢😢 it’s makes one go for elective CS . May God strengthen you Audrey 🙏🙏
It’s so sad but God is still good.
Amen.
Hugs to you Audrey..We encourage medical practitioners by the grace of God to be more kind,we absolutely understand that being faced with such incidences all the time makes you somehow numb to whatever is happening but remember on that very person its happening to them for the first time and they re feeling alot of pain they need to be talked to kindly.Thank you Daisy for hosting her.
I Couldn’t agree more. Be kind and patient with everyone, good bedside manner, empathetic
Thank you very much.
May God keep making you nd your baby stronger.
Amen
May God strengthen you Audrey 🙏 to continue taking care of yr boy
Amen
May the Lord strengthen you Audrey..this is so teary to watch ,😭😭😭.. A big thank you to your husband for the love extended towards you and baby O'Neol
Amen.
Amen! 🙏🏾
My heart goes out to you dear Audrey....everyone deserves a healthy baby... prayers to baby onil... tnxs for loving him❤
Thank you too.
dear Audrey i am so sorry that this happened to you. thank you for being an awesome mother and may God continue to guide you. may God bless your family. O'Neil's life has been a testimony right from birth and he will continue to be. may the good LORD bless you.💛
Ameeeen!Amen
Amen and Thank you too
May God continue to strengthen you dear
Amen.
Ooh dear Audrey cyber hugs may God see you through🙏the grace is sufficient
Amen
May the strength of God be with you and family
Amen
Sending you soooo much love and hugs Sunnie Audrey❤️❤️❤️
❤️🩹
Thank you very much.
Thank you so much Audrey, it’s the same story with my baby and now he’s 3yrs and 6months but can’t literally do anything independently
But don’t lose hope, keep believing and praying for your baby, God does miracles, signs and wonders and I know that one day we testify about our cerebral palsy children 🙏🙏 God bless you dear, you’re an exceptional amazing mum❤
You are so kind. Hugs to you 🫂
Thank you do much for hosting her
God bless you 🙏
It’s really so hard and emotional dealing/ taking care of special babies 🥺🥺
Sometimes we need people to talk to, and have that feeling when someone is listening to you while pouring out all the emotions 🥹🥹🥹 sometimes it’s the support we need. I also have a story to tell, if you don’t mind. As for some hospitals, if it’s not for God’s sake, they need to be exposed because I’ve heard different stories from fellow special needs mothers when some cases are because of the doctors /nurses negligence. It’s so sad that we don’t get help /solution where we except it 😢😢
Thank you Hope. Your baby will be fine.
May the good Lord continue to keep you strong hugs and love
Thank you Praise.
Dear Audrey I keep saying it and will always say that ur the strongest person I know. I love you my c. O. m
Love you too ma Sherie
Ohhh dear 😢. May God strengthen you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen.
So sorry my dear for what you are going through. May the lord comfort you. I pray God shines light upon your present condition. I pray you find happiness and joy through Onel. I pray God heals you ❤
Amen
Amen and amen.
Cyber hugs dear Audrey 🙏🙏🙏 may God continue to strengthen, comfort and see you through as you raise your son🙏🙏🙏🙏
🫂amen
Amen.
Sending hugs to you Audrey..
Thank you Joan.
My inspiration to strength 💪 ❤️
You r an amazing mother
Thank you my dear.
God protect you and your sweet baby.. Hospitals can be incredibly disappointing. The level of negligence is insane..
God help us and I pray this video helps with the transformation
My son is 13 now ,same hapoened to me and from these so called good hospitals,its a journey that will never end but only the grace of God.
Hugs, mama 🫂
His grace is indeed sufficient.
Ohh dear may God strengthen you and your family
Amen.
God protect you ka mummy ❤❤ I believe God will one day remember your family. Big up to your husband I pray you stick to each other forever, hold on to each other and above all pray and respect each other
Amen!!!🙏🏾
Amen.
God bless you Audrey, sending you hugs 🫂
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Thanks Cindy.
Audrey i wish i could get to you. Sometimes u need to rest. I can seat in for u. So u can breath some air. And u calm down abit. We love u and i believe many of us wld love to come in. Plus keep that hope and always know He knows best.
Awwww so kind of you to offer, Bridget. Her number is in the description of the video
Thank you very much Bridget.
Audrey thankyou for choosing strength over fear,you and your family are warriors,you will overcome and O'Neil is a very living testimony, God's glory is yet to be experienced through him. Thankyou for sharing, may the Good Lord move mightly and cause mighty healing to your son and your family in Jesus' name.🙏
Thank you Audrey. Your story is so touching. I will pray for O'Neil, for a complete recovery. What God cannot do, doesn't exist.
Amen amen amen 🙏🏾
Amen and amen.
@@maryaono5Amen
May God give u strength dear mama.
Thank you.
Oh dear.......hugs to you dear Audrey
Thank you Grace.
this is sad, so much negligence. my heart breaks for her. I pray God heaals their hearts and one time they get "some" justice at least for future babies because this level of negligence moreover in such a sensitive matter is unacceptable ethically, morally, professionally.
I completely agree
Oh this is sad.. God be your strength everyday...
Amen.
Let's sue the hospital...
People play too much
May God be hope and refugee always. Dear God thank you for the life of baby Oneil and the family
Amen
Thank you God and thank you Deborah.
Hello Audrey, she z my og from Trinity college Nabbingo. This is 😢but I love ur heart
This is a very sad story to watch Audrey 😢
But may you find strength in the Lord always 🙏. Sending you lots of prayers and hugs for you , your baby and your family 🙏 🙏
#Itshallbewell
#God is still seated on His throne 😊
Amennnnnnn
God is still on the throne 👏🏽
My heart broke down 😢be strong mama
Thank you Janet.
Hugs mama O’Neil….the Bible says by his stripes we are healed. May God heal your baby in the mighty name of Jesus
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen.
I think this is why am gone use government hospitals paka last. Those nurses sometimes act weird but they are the most trained. But also always remember to keep in prayer from wen u get pregnant to labor and getting out of there. That is a battle that u shdnt pull out of. Each day, everyday every minute.
We love u Audrey. God has good touts for O'Neil , He got the decision on him. Keep beliveing and dont give up.
Amen! God has a plan for him
Thank you Audrey for sharing this story. Thank you Daisy, for hosting her. May God bless you
Thanks for watching!
God be with you Mum for this journey is not easy.... i lost my daughter at birth it pains too much... May you find courage in this journey...dont give up.
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Thank you very much for the encouragement. I am so sorry for your loss.
Super Mama O'Neil.
Super sister. Thank you.
God is able He knows the past, present and future.we can't tell why he allowed it to happen but i pray may He strength you through this
Amen!!!!
Amen.
Sorry mum Audrey. May God give you strength to carry on
Amen.
Her birth was more like my birth. Exactly like mine. I was on the pushing bed for more than three hours and baby wasn't coming out. They looked for that vacuum, untill they found it , I was in btn collapsing and alive, baby had a code which was removed. He was 4.1kgs. I was stitched, baby delayed to cry, but my baby wasn't taken to incubator. He is so fine
I think the reason wasnt coz she tried to push. Coz women have tried to push even one year after a C section and it was successful.
Its the infection that made things bad. After God's plan ofcos. It's so sad Bambi. We thank God fr the countless blessings. We pray that God eases their journey.
Amen. Thank you for the encouragement.
I think the most annoying part is the lack of communication from the medical personnels… i feel like you shouldn’t be asking what’s happening, they should have been upfront from the very beginning.
I completely agree!
Yes exactly!!!!! Gosh 🤦♀️
🫂🫂May God continue to strengthen you and the family
Amen! Pray for her family.
Amen.
The biggest hospital we have is Mulago. Government should make as many because our population is massive. Private hospitals have a lot of negligence.
Cerebral palsy can be prevented.
It is well. The Grace is sufficient
My son Peter just got a gastronomy tube inserted. He is just healing, and the aspirations are lessening .please consider that tube immediately so that he can have a life.
I thought of going legal. But .... in my good of hearts . I said to myself that no one came to work that day with the aim of harming a child's brain.
Amen
@joanatieno1229 We are seriously considering it. Thank you for the encouragement.
Nsambya has a good surgeon. I wish I could have your contact and walk you through what to expect and etc. @webombesaaudreymaris8818
Sending baby O'Neil hugs and kisses, He will be well in Jesus'name Amen
Amen.
May God use this story to change some lousy systems in health care and ICU
Amen!
Amen
This is soooo sad! I am in tears watching this. My prayers to the parents, the family and Onil! The parents should definitely SUE the hospital!
Thank you Angela.
Oh i remember when i was in labour for 3 days pushing on to have a normal delivery but the moment doctor mentioned my child not getting oxygen at every contraction i just accepted csection
What matters is a healthy baby and a healthy mom 👏🏽
Excatly the same story but mine died 20mins on reaching mulago..brain was already swollen..yet from Paragon hospital they had discharged us that all was ok after 2nites..then out of the blue that morning of going home all went bad.. I really dont know why hospitals hold on to babies when there not in good condition then act late...no ambulance ..we suffered..i cant forget that day.
I am so sorry about this. May God comfort you always.
I’m so sorry, Cathy. I’m so sorry for your loss 🫂 May God continue to hold you.
Oh Lord I saw a baby like that healed at miracle center cathedral ❤
This mum has reminded me of one goverment hospital i went to whn i was 3months preg n i started bleeding then iwent there, did a scan en thy just broke the news to me that i have got a miscarriage en the doctor just moved living me there crying tirelessly and then another doctor came in gave me atablet that i should put it under my tongue and didnt tell wht that tablet does coz i was so green i was still young it was my first pregnancy i knew nothing so me moved out of the gate coz the pain had not started en i didnt know that the tablet brings labour pains that will help to bring out the dead feotus in the womb out .
Just know what happened on the way back home is abig story for the whole day almost but just kno i almost lost my life.
Coz that doctor that gave me atablet told me to go home and bring 150k mbu orelse i cal the husband to bring them so that thy work on me but he didnt tell me wht the tablet will do to me .But our doctors why 😢😢 ,we trust u with our lives but u take it for granted why 😢😢.God is watching you 😢
Oh noooo I’m so sorry about this 😭😭😭😭
May God bless you. Sending you lots of hugs🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Thank you very much.
This is amazing, I however would suggest Ms. Daisy be alittle more interactive. Our visitor seems to do it alone most of the time.
I prefer to let her tell her story in an authentic way without the interruption of questions. Thank you for the feedback
My son has celebrae palsy but it’s not easy mama so sorry hugs 🫂
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Hugs to you too my dear.
Thank you for sharing this story.
Maybe if you don't mind,please share the hospital name so that we try to avoid it.
I don’t know if it would be advisable to do that on a public platform
I think you should disclose the name of the hospital..
That's when they will learn to take things seriously.
This is life we talking about
Hospital name please
Is withheld until the parents are ready for that battle 🙏🏽
Sorry mama...it is well.
It is well ❤️🩹
Amen
Such a saaad story 😢I don’t think her baby got a problem because she attempted to push… the baby got a problem because he was put in the incubator! That was the biggest medication error and the biggest form of medical negligence in the whole case! He should have been put on oxygen right away! And them saying baby got an infection in the nursery was them covering up for their mistake/ negligence because they thought the parents not being medical personnels wouldn’t know! They should GO LEGAL. SUE THE HOSPITAL! 🤦🏿♀️
There were so many mistakes the hospital made 😭
Once the parents are emotionally ready, it’s a route they hope to take.
@@daisysunshine_official I worry that there may be time limits on medical negligence claims 🤔😭
Audrey dia am so sorry that u are going through this, am sorry but i dont mean to sound insensitive but i think it would b best if u let that child rest so that u can heal emotionally and also he gets to sleep well since he looks like he is going through alot of pain and its draining u emotionally..
@@thepcoscyster9054let me lovingly rebuke you right here You knew what your comment would sound like but went right ahead and sent it? Repent and never let these words be heard by any other special needs child’s mother. O’Neil and all special needs children are human beings deserving of life, love, care, support, protection and more.
We should be ware of private international’ hospitals. The level of negligence i have heard from Audrey’s story is appalling. And I’m sure the parents had to pay a hefty hospital bill. Health workers, can we be a little more professional and empathetic. I believe O’neil’s parents need to see a clinical psychologist as well.
I agree!
U can see that she has never healed😢
You can never heal 😭
God is healing her ❤️🩹
She is healing by the grace of God
@@daisysunshine_officialAmen
@@miriamlakaraber9534Amen
Hello Daisy, i would like to help Audrey with writing a grant for the daycare. I’m sure with a well written proposal, there are organizations willing to donate and help in this start up. Kindly link me to her
Hello Bertha. How Kind of you. Thank you for the offer. Her contact is in the description
Thank u so much for the help to write the proposal
Health workers we need to do better for sure,,,this is so sad😮this child was at risk for cerebral palsy from dayone😢😢from the difficult labour,to cord prolapse being delivered under vacuum aspiration😮😮, inadequate oxygen supply which would have started during labor to the NICU,, infections to the brain wic caused seizures,head injury from vacuum aspiration and delayed referral. I happened to witness a gynecologist who delivered a mum with vacuum aspiration,,t was devastating to watch😢😢 vacuum aspiration is discouraged internationally coz of ts complications like cerebral palsy😢 hug lady this is too much to held for sure
It’s a hard ordeal ❤️🩹
I pray her story helps change something in the medical space here.
Thank you.