PSYCHOLOGY REVEALED Old Money Behaves Different In 5 Ways
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- čas přidán 8. 06. 2024
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Have you ever wondered what makes wealthy people seem somehow different from the rest of the world? #oldmoney families have very distinct psychologies and personalities, not just money or possessions. They've got an entirely different approach to wealth and society and are not into flashy cars, big yachts, or diamond watches. Why?
On #oldmoneyaesthetic today, you'll see five #behaviors that show old money culture, elegance, and class that make old money individuals different. And by the end of this video, you might recognize one or two typical old money behaviors.
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As a 16 year old in the early 1980s, I worked at a gas station pumping gas, cleaning windshields, etc. We used to have an older man come into the gas station in his black 1950s station wagon which half the time had fishing poles sticking out of the back window. Nice, unassuming man in jeans, white tee shirt and suspenders. Always pleasant to talk to. The owner of the gas station tells me that’s Lamont DuPont, former President of DuPont Corporation. He was retired and worth many millions but loved to spend his retirement fishing local rivers and keeping a low profile.
Very cool story, maybe I can make a video about the DuPont family.
My old man never had a new car, wore the cheapest jeans from budget stores and never took a vacation, but he was worth 7 figures and owned multiple apartment buildings & businesses. When he passed away, 500 people showed up to his funeral. They were all folks he had helped out at one time or another. He was a roofer with a 5th grade educations. That's it. But to those people, he was worth them coming out for because he affected their lives enough.
If I get to be 1/10th of what my old man was, I'd still be 10X the man most men are today.
@@YankeeWoodcraft this was beautiful. Wonderful to see good fathers and grateful / inspired sons
Thanks! @@abdosimon
My old man never new his own father and was especially hard on me growing up. I didn't understand it, but when I became an adult, I saw that he wanted me to grow up right. That's why I say all my mistakes are my own and whatever is good in me is all him.
That guy is really rich, very possibly he never had time to think about how much money he had or had the time to count them, or expensive things to buy. He is too busy with thing he likes, fishing. 👌
It all starts with behavior, attitude and manners.
Flashy behavior is one of the worst vices
Sometimes flashy is classy.
The root word of flashy is flash. Something quick. undeniably recognizable. And commanding immediate attention.
It's called "breeding". Money doesn't buy that.
I used to be around a molecular biology department at a big university.
Many of the professors came from "old-money", because they could afford to live on the ridiculously low post doc salaries, and take the financial risk of working in a field where, very often, years of research resulted in no "positive" results.
Which uni?
In all fairness, getting into ANY molecular biology department with or without "old money" is nothing to sneer at. That's hard science, and I admire such people.
I share most of the same psychology... just need to work on the money part 💰 🤣
work instead on knowing the right people. It's not about how much you work nor making your own business. It all has to do with who you know and the opportunities you get
me too
@@ProtoIndoEuropean88 What great counsel, thank you!!!!
Rich people do this not because they are humble but because they desire power. They can’t have power if people hate them. There’s an agenda by the media (sponsored by rich people) to make rich people relatable or seem like nice wonderful people because everyone is now exposed on the internet. This is nothing but PR so they don’t get canceled by the internet mob. 😂
The thing is, some people who are from old money are into flashy And they also don’t mind spending. But typically these type of people are the ones that drain the family coffers dry.
From a Chinese Proverb: the first generation builds the wealth; the second generation is inspired to preserve it by witnessing the hard work of their parents; and the third generation, having never witnessed the work that went into the creation of this wealth squanders it.
@@katherinelangford981I heard that before just didn't remember exactly how it went. Thanks!
@@katherinelangford981 Well, we say that in Italy too, but also as there are too big corporations to fail, same way there are riches you simply cann't squander! Plus they have their own exclusive investors that do their bidding...
Showing scenes from The Godfather as an example of Old Money is just strange, true they are well dressed, but the Corleones are a crime family who would never cross paths with Old Money on a tennis court or at Ascot.
Agree. So off the mark. Money does not equal class, which is what old money is about. Specially crime money lol.
Lol. The Kennedy family got rich from bootlegging. The Bush family wealth originated from the opium trade.
Correct. The Corleones masqueraded as old money as a way of deflecting the brutal reality of their ways. They had the trappings but not the principles. Another example of this would be the Trump family.
I agree, it gives the video a bad smell.
They also tend to hate each other, old money siblings are absolutely venomous to each other
This can be true of all levels of classes
This is so true...class of its own..respect the staff that work for them
I’ve always had an opposite view. They say whatever they wish because servants are beneath them. They’re invisible.
Legacy and long term thinking, Importance of etiquette and good manners, Discreet success, Emphasis on giving back/ philanthropy. Valuing education and intellectual pursuits.
the reason is simply because the old money are born with money so the concept of luxury is just a part of their life since born, in other words.. they are accustomed by it..
also living with lot of money can gave you access to certain circle of people, certain education group, and certain society which leads you to grow cautions since the competition are more harder among others.
in the other hand, the "new money" tends to show what they have as an appreciation for themself to their success.
they also usually have the feel of living on the top among their groups because of their succession..
💯true. I was raised poor. My mother was a popular teacher. She never really knew her father (her mother moved them away from him) but she prized education and traditional clothing over trend clothing. She always made sure we were presentable and was herself well read . She socialized with all people. After she passed I was curious about my grandfather and did genealogy. My grandfather was in the Army but he came from a very old family. The family was wealthy for the better half of a thousand years! My families last name has been around since 1019! Through my mother I am related to 27 of the of 46 presidents. Directly to four and two are living presidents. Additionally, I am related to four of the seven founding fathers.Having a family that I can trace through out a millennium has given me a different perspective than most people. Knowing exactly who your ancestors were, where they were, and what they did is really another level. It blew my mind a bit. I’m not like most people who don’t know what their ancestors did. My ancestors appear to have been at every major event in the last thousand years. I researched them and found them even before they had a last name😂 I am preservation librarian and not rich but wealth goes up and down. My mother really makes me believe for some class is internal.
Cool story! Good to hear that you can relate to this information.
Great story. My family name dates back to AD 947.
The conclusion i'm getting is from all your glorious family history you turned a bum 🧐🤔
You inherited a certain way of living. Cheers
i agree. you're drawn to people who had some shared background, like you can tell each other a part from the rest.
- having a large sum of money means that you can invest it and have a passive income, freeing you from having to spend your time working in order to survive it also allows you the freedom to help alleviate the struggles of others, and gives you a chance to act to make life better for all of us, amd spend your time on activities you consider to be positive and useful - in other words, done right it gives you more opportunity to be a decent, ordinary, helpful human being - it is big responsibility, and means you have to make continual efforts to be sure you on the right path, and are not influenced by the abundance of funds you are the steward for :)
People who are denying this don't realise how true this actually is.
Yes, the description of old money families is true. I can confirm as I also come from this kind of family, but we lost our fortune because of the crisis in 1929 and 2WW. As the result of that last 3 generation have to struggle with new life conditions that make the expected level of existence challenging...but still possible to maintain within some boundaries.
Wish the best for you to make up with your losses...
Wow. This is mind blowing. I found a video that matches my mindset to a tee. I couldn't possibly relate any better. Good work, OMA.
Never realized that the Corleone's represented old money. I just thought of them as mafia gangsters, LOL.
Sicilian peasantry is classic old money bro, same like catalogue models innit
Using scenes from the Godfather to illustrate these points misses the mark a bit. Michael Corleone was not old money, just second generation wealth. His brothers certainly exhibited none of the traits of old money, and neither did Michael (apart from being able to keep his cool).
Many kids of old money are drug addicts and vulgar.
He behaved and moved like old money. You obviously don't understand the distinction.
@@DaisyChain3339. You obviously don't remember the movie.
Using gangsters as a metaphor for old money is laughable.
@@scottw5315 Exactly! Talking about sofisticated old money, classy people, about their good maners while using scenes from the Godfather with gangsters and criminals is unbelievable.
You forget some very important pieces:
- They usually are very religious and belong to religious organisations such as the Order of Malta.
- They focus on quality in clothing (cashmere, top quality wools, silk, good quality cotton, etc.)
- They focus on quality in food too, they know perfectly well what top cooking should be about: specific flavor profiles, techniques, etc.
- They are very discrete, they won't easily share things with you unless you have earned their trust, and as a friend your discretion is also very much required and appreciated
- Etiquette is of course a no brainer
- You better know how to hold a conversation about culture, politics, architecture, the world, etc. when dealing with old money
- in Europe they play field hockey, tennis, do ballet, ride horses, play an instrument or two, etc.
Well, they are often involved in religious groups, but they are not necessarily religious themselves
@@sandraankenbrand the ones I know are. I'm an atheist so not inclined to go to Latin mass :p We can be friends, but they would never consider me marriage material because of that.
@@JustBeingAwesome more a reflection of culture than religion ... my home is about 6hrs drive from the Vatican and the Romans are open.
Minded
@@sandraankenbrand i'm talking about UK, Belgium and France.
@@JustBeingAwesome I currently live in the UK, have been previously living in Paris and didn't really see that... And two of my friends are from very old billionaire families. In my hometown lives also one of the oldest European Families who succeeded the Medici and yet they still officially are connected with the church but not all of them ever go into one or are known as straight believers... they even marry outside their own religion
A real lion does not have to roar
Or wipe his own ass.........
Its having the funds to buy quality items that last a long time & are worth handing down.
Sheeeeit.. im living that old money lifestyle without the old money... Or money in general😂😂☠️
My grandfather's housekeeper always had a place at the dinner table. When they began to travel extensively, she got to live in the 2 bedroom MIL apartment as her own.
This is such a well-made video. I really enjoyed it thank you.
Behaves ‘differently’. Old money tend to have good grammar 😊
In my social gatherings there is a lot of etiquette and respect for each other we know the value of money and we teach each other that when we see a person in true need to help them buy them clothes and sit them in the very same restaurant we had our meal and pay everything for this person but it’s all done quite smooth no attention
While dressage is least costly than car racing or yachting, the care, training and transport of horse to competitons is not cheap.
Accurate 🎯
Happy New Year 🥂🍾
My family does prioritise dressing well. They sure have money and mostly spend on important affairs, occasions, events and have prioritised education and manners
Full of great thoughts video! Thank you
Bravo , Very Instructive !
Very nice! Keep it up
I really like this video. I have a friend who is old money, and this gave me some insight to their philosophies. Everything you presented really reflects in this O.M. Family I know. I enjoyed the insights this gave me and would love to see more like this. To me it's not about Old or New being better. I like knowing how different people of all backgrounds think. Glad I found your channel!
Appreciate it! I will make more videos, also about the behavior/background of old money then :)
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3 Families in my surrounding are super old money...
You never see it
The business of the Corleone family used for the illustration is characteristic of new money) But, I agree, Don Michael looks really aristocratic. And, by the way, "Omerta" is very similar to the Dueling Code....
Maybe because many of the fortunes of the "old money" came from the same ruthless behavior, just white-washed because it was many more generations back.
Not a coincidence that Michael is the one with the old money flair in the family. Remember, he is the youngest son and the first child who was born when his father was already wealthy and powerful. He grew up rich and is the only one with college education. Freddy and Sonny were born when Vito was still a poor plodder in lower Manhattan.
True story...
I was driving by a millionaire row in Connecticut and just about every driveway had two types of cars. One was an unassuming economy 4 cylinder car (Hyundai, Kia, Honda, Toyota, etc...) and the other was an exotic or luxury car (Ferrari, Porsche, Bentley, Jaguar, Rolls Royce, etc...). You just knew that the cheap car was what they drove daily and that the other one was their once in a blue moon spoil themselves ride. And they were all parked in the driveways of multimillion dollar homes as opposed to the ghettos in New York City or the trailer parks of The South that have $100,000 pickup trucks or BMW's in their parking with wheels that cost 2 semesters of their kids' college tuition.
Idk that a practical people such as this would keep a second car just for joy rides.
@@AroundTheWorldWithEase I know more than a few legit millionaires. They all have incognito cars that they use for errands and their premium cars they use on occasion.
It was so weird seeing, a brand new Maybach, when it really meant something and you had to be invited to purchase one along side a brand new Bentley Convertible which is a standard vehicle one would see in an upper class garage, both in garage of a a home that screamed upper middle class. Strange.
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Even those genteel poor have old money values because the same is passed down through generations.
The Arnault family is the most interesting family
Old money is just a generalization and simplification. Even among the richest not each individual behaves the same, has the same taste or the same moral level.
Great video Sir. 😍🥰
You forgot - Number 6: old money people and individuals are deathly afraid that the working class will raise up and take it all off them and then kill them all. 😂
No they're not. They're too wealthy. It's generational. They have invested wisely so that if certain businesses go under they still have income coming in. The "rich" are afraid of losing their money because they spend it recklessly on things they can't afford 10 years from now. They don't learn finances or watch the market.
Thank you
Not bad review man but I would like to see Middle Eastern, Asian, and African wealth behavior. It seems that you have an approach that is kind it limited especially regarding wealth. I'm grateful also I learned some new stuff there thanks
I don't understand why this video associated gangster mafia killers with old rich
Ike, did the person who chose the pictures not get the memo that well dressed gangsters is not the same as Old Money.
Proud to be raised by old money parents
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I'm so ecstatic that a spotlight is being shone on the psychology of old money. Pop culture has become so unbalanced and distasteful. Don't know how long OM will trend but at least people are waking up to it as an optional lifestyle.
Thank you for this video! I wish those kids who think old money is all about aesthetics could witch it.
So true!
Yeah Sir quite impressive for humanity
Promo for the myth of the good billionaire
I from middle class like a lot of people, and I remark that a lot of people like to travel, travel and travel... It's the only thing for this people who are important. And one day, I have a friend who comes from a old money family and he explained to me that he didn't travel much, that for his parents it was useless and a waste of time, and that they just traveled for culture (visiting Rome or Florence or a historical city for example). They prefer sport and take time for culture or juste simple thing (my friend was a big fan of videogame and think he is more happy during is vacation to play that after the end of schoolyear! )...I was happy, because I think the same, and I like to past my time in my country during the spring every and just travel when I want really !
Unfortunately, many people in my class (and I've discussed this with friends) don't travel to enjoy themselves, but to show that they're rich (or think they are).
Apparently a lot of old money don't care to travel, they just like to take her time and appreciate simple thing. It's a rare quality today.
Anyway, I thing a lot of tips in this video can be useful for every people. Like legacy, I think it's important. Or education, and not just for a good job.
I totally agree about the traveling part. I know so many who are show off travellers. I hope to travel one day to actually experience the culture of places.
rich philanthropy is just another way to keep control
What you're saying sounds good but why use the Colione crime family though? I'm not saying other families are 'without sin' but this seems to glorify the mob. They may give discreetly but their reputation is they're also discreet about shaking down and killing people.
I'm 100% a legacy thinker.
Somehow Tucker "boat shoe" Carlson was not taught these lessons.
What a load of chap. See them behind the scenes to know what they are like.
Unintentionally funny video. What’s with all the mafia images?
Die Bilder passen weitgehend nicht zum Text und haben meist nichts damit zu tun. Es sind oft ältere Schauspieler die mehrheitlich
aus der Unterschicht stammen, um es einmal schmeichelhaft auszudrücken.
This sounds more like a middle class fantasy than how the rich actually are.
The entire internet these days is a coping mechanism
@@schnitzelfilmmaker1130 lollll😂
Exactly there's no difference between old or new it's wether the person wants to be flashy or not. I bet its 50 50 old are flashy and 50 50 new are flashy
@@adida.sativa-dv2el It depends on what you mean by flashy. Louis XIV was definitely flashy. Maybe it's that nowadays both old and new money don't have any taste.
What makes you think that old money people understand the importance of etiquette and manners any more than the rest of the world?
I’m 65 y.o. and one of the most polite people I’ve ever known was from the “lower middle” class
@richardgrant418 so only lower class people are polite and nice!?
I always wanted to go to South Africa. It was the last place on my initial bucket list. We did it on our own. No tour companies and got to really see and know the people as we were never hurried on the tour I set up. What i found was that every person, no matter how poor, and most are black, was friendly and had a smile on their face and talked freely. Every one. Compare and contrast this to the rich people from the North Shore in Chicago, where I used to live, which is the upper crust. They are mannered but for the most part self absorbed and there is an underlying negative attitude to them which does come out.. What more can i say.
My family is rich rich rich........i was put into foster care and my life sucked....
Why did this happen? @@bodgiepotbuddah
@@shepardsmith3235 why did I go to foster care?
When I think of old money, Kate Middleton comes to mind. When I think of new money, Neymar.
Kate Middleton us VERY “NEW MONEY.” Simple to look up. Parents were air stewards, not very educated, but very aspirational for their children. Money (the Middleton parents) comes from a party favors business that did well, started by them not their ancestors.
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Just by following their psychologies and habits YOU CANNOT BECOME OLD MONEY.
Subtlety= act like a gangster family, e.g, Corleone family from the Godfather movie. ✅
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Dressage is not inexpensive…there is a reason it is called the “sport of the kings”.
being snobbish is also one of their characteristic.
There’s definitely a certain expectation on their part.
LOL
Kids of old money are frittering it away these days. Rare to find old money after 1980s.
Sounds like a perfect description of hypocrisy to me tho 😉🤷🏼♂️
What’s with The Godfather throughout this??
I will have "New Money" but I think like people "Old Money".
Nourish education
Rich screams ( shows labels like a gucci 2 piece tracksuit with the g's printed all over it). Wealth whispers. Bottega, celine, The Row etc. Labels are into craftsmanship and classic designs. Even chanel has cheapened the quality of their brand over time and some pieces are worth investing in while others are not.
Hmm. I wonder why i'm so poor since I feel like this in almost all ways. LOL
Hey how come there’s no rappers in this video?
Why all the footage of murderous gangsters in a video about a class of quiet, refined philanthropists?
Real old money is mostly out of it …
In other words, they're superior beings. Be humbled you normal people!
This was not my intention, will try to improve it in the next videos.
The intention of the video was not to show they're superior from the rest. It discusses their behaviour with regard to money, relationships, and life.
He didn't say they were _good_ people
That’s exactly how I took the video as well. Thanks to technology and advancement, everyone now has access to luxury.
Why do they care about legacy so much though? I mean why care that your future great great great great grandkids are set for life? Ur never gonna meet them... not saying waste all ur wealth but caring about your last name reputation after ur dead- whats the point in caring ur already dead!
Imagine devoting your life to simping wealthy people
This is like Alux but more in your face "The rich are superior".
talked about old money and spent lion's share showing mafia movie references. Classic
The money goes after about five generations and then what do you have. That is the question. I would not get hung up on the facade. What kind of person are you deaiing with. Is he or she friendly. Do they treat people respectfully and with interest. Do they try to do good. These are the important things. Not what they have. I might add. These old money people have not gone through the existential crises that fundamentally test your very existence. LIke those that have seen combat or those that financially especially where they have a family to support. If you have been through these you know what real fear is and how to deal with it and not fall apart It gives you a sense of true confidence. . The monied people for the most part have not come close as they have a financial safety net. I went through a double whammy of this but I was so tough by then, I took it in stride and came out better. Thats the mark of a winner. And these monied people do not have the experience of existential crises, for the most part and are weak. And the tough guys know it. They are not real men and it applies to women too. The women of today are far superior to the women of old. They work and take care of their families and this is very very hard. To their credit some monied women are truly committed to working for charity and taking care of their families and I respect them. But for the most part these monied women are parasites to their money and manufacture problems to keep themselves busy.
All that it’s part of the development
Bad for them ; they might have enjoyed life more _ they are not seeing their legacies from wherever their ashes are now. Millionaires are not leaving money to their children, they want them to work and succeed by themselves. And rich people who apparently lead a simple life wear white t_ shirts that cost $600,00 . This is a futile approach to what is called " old money".
Let' s forget these people: their paradigmas don' t hold true for anyone but themselves. And they tend to look down on people. Let's stop being so much impressed by these people and enjoy life ourselves!
Why mafia is in this clip ??
Don’t be fooled- there are a lot of people pretending to be rich old money style.
I know because my father was one of them.
His family was old money but he had none but pretended to be thrifty and driving old cars and old money family hand me downs (all were free)
It was tough because I had to work multiple jobs in college to barely make it.
And people thought he was just “teaching me about work ethics “
Ha what a joke. That’s how he’d spin it too.
And they honestly didn’t believe me that he had no money. Well he’s very poor now and everyone knows he was full of it.
No Dimond watches
We all know this don't know why we are watching it agains😅
They also give to a ton of extremely destructive causes in the charity-industrial complex 😅
Duh...When i waited table, my most pleasant customers were OLD MONEY. Not the biggest tippers, but excellent, and willing to pay for any EXTRA SERVICES.They won't run your ass off...but they WILL tip, accordingly, if they do...and they WILL be polite about it. They never made you feel like white trash...or brown trash..either
The nouveau riche has ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA WHAT HAPPENS, BEHIND THE SCENES, before OR after one flashes your gold card...or cash. Which is odd, considering how many were IN THE SERVICE INDUSTRY.
So they think LOUD, DEMANDING, PUSHY. ISN'T THAT what being rich IS ???
Sadly, nothing could be further from the truth. But this sort of delicacy of behavior...Is simply lost on them....the NEW MONEY..
The wait staff knows...a year from now...ANOTHER IMPOSSIBLY IMPORTANT, SOON TO BE NOBODY, will be seated at this table. Rude, loud, offensive, waving that card around like it was an extension of a personal body part..
While old money, at another table... will be greeted as a old and valued friend..with excellent service to match...and ANY special requests, are a..."but of course", sir...
The funny part is this video content similar to a video from a CZcams channel called Old Money Luxury. The exact same information so it's a copying which reveal a lower class behavior 😂😂
We noticed 😂
Why are you showing a Mafia video? 😂
OBSERVATION: On viewing the photograph @ 2:14, depicting the casual dress code of the young upper-class as envisioned by Mr Lifshitz (aka; Ralph Lauren), one can't help thinking that, had the models been Black, the entire look would have been labeled "sloppy" instead of "Decontracter", given the insipid over-the-top display!?!
The best old money family will always be Tatas ❤
While I agree with you on these attributes of "old money" people, I'm at a loss as to why you keep showing clips from the Godfather films. Is the Mafia "old money"????? That's not how I learned it.
No. Mafia is not Old Money. However,the Michael and Don Corleone characters exhibited the tight-lipped, discreet style of Old Money middle-aged men and women.
Education: Rothschilds certainly emphasized this
Did you have no idea what you’re talking about old money they have so much art so much of the resources of the world they may not flash their money but they sure have it when they close their doors you need to research a little bit because a lot of these old money people are funding some pretty weird things
Mafia as old world money???!!!!
Dressage & rowing are not expensive sports!?
That depends on what is expensive for you. A dressage trained horse costs between 60.000 - 100.000 euros. For me that is expensive.
The guy at 3:11 just showed bad etiquette: first, he banged his spoon on the side of the cup, and then he drank with his pinky out.