How I stopped doubting myself - trusting myself silenced my inner critic

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  • čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
  • Hello lovely Community,
    I hope you are all well and had a good week.
    My husband and I went to another wood we had never been to and thoroughly enjoyed our time there.
    We even came across a fairy tree!
    I also made Rose Petal Syrup this week - and lemonade with it. It was so tasty!
    I talk about self criticism and how the voices from around you can influence you.
    Have a lovely week and I see you soon.
    Tapath leibh🧚
    #scotland #selfcare #ambient #wood #fairies #thescottishfairy #roses #rosepetal #lemonade #hsp #woodwalk #trustyourself
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Komentáře • 79

  • @brookeshaffer4377
    @brookeshaffer4377 Před 27 dny +8

    Kerstin so great you found your peaceful happy place.A mighty fine place indeed💖

  • @GSDsforever
    @GSDsforever Před 27 dny +13

    I don't know about the rest of you here, but I can't wait for her cookbook to come out, even if it's an ebook! (Hint, hint). Who wouldn't love one? 😊

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 27 dny +8

      Thank you for this kind comment. I am working on the ebook and will have it ready with some recipes soon 🧚

    • @rrhines3151
      @rrhines3151 Před 27 dny +1

      I was going to write an Adult Fairy Tale book! You creative people are so gifted 💝

    • @CharlotteUnser
      @CharlotteUnser Před 27 dny

      @@rrhines3151 I have written a collection of Celtic Fairie Tales....Let me know if you would like a copy! :)

  • @CharlotteUnser
    @CharlotteUnser Před 27 dny +8

    Hello dear Scottish Fairie! Another beautiful video and walk through the peaceful wooded area. The background music and your soft gentle voice is so refreshing and lovely. Your gentle wisdom is so inspiring and timely for a world in such a rush and turmoil. You have found your true self and the peace that comes with this revelation. You are touching many hearts with your sensitivity and wisdom. Thank you!

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny +1

      Hello Charlotte and thanks so much for your lovely words.
      I agree, there are many who try to find some peace in today's rushed world - just like I do - and it warms my heart that my content gives them a wee bit of that.
      Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

  • @pattiedavison4298
    @pattiedavison4298 Před 27 dny +7

    Lovely Video thanks you so much for sharing 🌹💞

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton Před 27 dny +6

    We really enjoy the peacefulnes of your videos. The beautiful Scottish countryside. We are happy for you that you found a place you love and call home.💚

  • @Kass268
    @Kass268 Před 27 dny +4

    Your video today and your words are magical. Nature is so calming and your walks are bringing such peaceful and inspiring feelings. Thank you, as always!!

  • @thefairyqueen369
    @thefairyqueen369 Před 27 dny +3

    What I have learned so far in my life is what your words are also echoing.....the love of the self is the most important relationship that we have....for everything we do, is affected by how we feel about ourselves. Being aware of how we are wired and accepting this is so important. However being an observer in your own life, takes time as each moment unfolds with new experiences. When I was young, I believed in the Fey and all manner of creatures like Unicorns and Dragons and Angels, and felt a deep connection to all of Nature, and to whales and dolphins! I spoke about it freely, not realising that others would not understand, and I would see others reactions and guessed that they probably thought that I was a little "unwell". I knew that there was nothin wrong with me as I had already identified that I was being governed by my heart...it was such a strong feeling that I was not really bothered about what others thought about my beliefs as I did not need to convince anyone else what I knew to be true. However, some had unkind words and behaviours that stayed with me for a long long time, and it did shut me down from being open for the most part and knocked my self worth. Time is a great healer though, and it gave me a chance to be brave enough to take a new road, and start a new life, on my own with my young son by moving abroad....and I discovered more about the real me and grew back to the person that I should have been. Your videos are so inspiring and it is wonderful that you are shining a light on those of us who are highly sensitive and highly intuitive. The timing could not be more perfect......there are more of us out there than we realise. What I have discovered in my own research about the unseen realms and about Humanity, is that there is SO much more than we have been told, or taught. We are eternal souls, who don't get just one shot at life, but many shots, in fact as many as we need, to experience, in order to grow and expand. Everything that happens to us, is part of a plan that we have chosen for ourselves, not dictated by anyone else. The Free Will gift is one of the most precious, in my view! Some of us don't always choose the easiest path, but the harder the path, the deeper the lessons and usually the quicker the growth! Blessings to your Kerstin and all of this community!

  • @trevorlsheppard7906
    @trevorlsheppard7906 Před 25 dny

    Thanks for posting your walk through the forest,I found it so tranquil and calming , everywhere looked so lush and green ,hope you have a lovely week❤❤

  • @arianahoule7223
    @arianahoule7223 Před 27 dny +3

    Such a lovely video. I am glad that you found a loving partner who supports and honors you. Scotland sounds like a sweet place to be...especially for faeries. We have faeries here on the coast of Oregon, USA. They lift my spirit...I can feel their kisses on my cheek right now. It seems too often we get caught up in fear and forget that we are surrounded by love and support. I'm glad you listened to your inner voice and found your home. Sending loving and peace-filled thoughts to everyone.

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny +1

      Thank you very much for this wonderful comment. I smiled reading about your relationship with the fairies! How lovely.
      Scotland is a really beautiful place - and the right place for me.
      Have a lovely Sunday 🧚

  • @annamesa5138
    @annamesa5138 Před 17 dny

    I admire the beauty of your things you see, you use: the door in the tree, the bottle for syrop is amazing❤🧡👋🌈🌼.

  • @산림치유
    @산림치유 Před 27 dny +2

    녹색의 숲속, 맑고 아름다운 호수, 숲길 이러한 모든 것들이 마음을 평화롭게 합니다.
    나 자신을 신뢰하고 자연을 사랑하며 긍정적인 삶을 지향하는 좋은 영상에 감동합니다. 감사합니다.

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 24 dny +1

      귀하의 친절한 의견에 진심으로 감사드립니다.
      자연은 긍정적인 에너지와 연결될 수 있는 멋지고 평화로운 곳이라고 생각합니다.
      즐거운 한 주 보내세요🧚

  • @daggy1778
    @daggy1778 Před 27 dny +1

    dear Kirsten...................good morning...................what I learned in my life?? never give up your own.and your own relationship with yourself is so important..............I am now 65( so god will next Thursday)...........and now I am free for myself........thanks for your so peacefull video............Blessings andd Greetings from Daggy,Kiel,Germany☘☘☘

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny

      Hello Daggy and thanks for your kind comment. I am glad you have come to know that the relationship with yourself is the most important. Well done!
      Have a wonderful Birthday when it comes and a lovely week 🌸🧚

  • @JulieSkinner777
    @JulieSkinner777 Před 25 dny +1

    This is perfection!!🍀🌿🌱🌲☘️🍃

  • @jessiemacintosh6627
    @jessiemacintosh6627 Před 26 dny +1

    As always, a lovely peaceful look into how we should strive to live.

  • @charmainescarborough5646
    @charmainescarborough5646 Před 27 dny +3

    Beautiful scenery and what a lovely sight of swans and ducks! So much to explore and see and what peace:) If we live and listen to everyone but ourselves we never have true freedom. My confidence is in God and if others bring you down its best not to be around them. I like being around supportive positive people that are your true friends. Thanks for the video:)

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny +1

      Hello Charmaine and thanks for your kind comment. It is always appreciated!
      I agree - true freedom lies in cutting the negative ties we might hold with things / jobs / people. If we support each other the world is a much better place.
      Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

    • @charmainescarborough5646
      @charmainescarborough5646 Před 26 dny

      @@thescottishfairy5396 Hi There! Your most welcome😃 Your correct! If people were supportive of one another what a better world we would live in:) Thanks for all of your videos and responding back to me! Have a lovely day:)

  • @CharlotteUnser
    @CharlotteUnser Před 22 dny

    I just had to once again watch your lovely video and walk through the beautiful woods....and a little knock on the fairy door! So peaceful and such words of wisdom. Oh, the rose petal syrup looked wonderful....refreshing and so pretty! thank you!

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 21 dnem

      Hello Charlotte and thank you for rewatching the vlog. I love the Fairy door myself. This wood is really full of wonder and I will definitely go back soon. 🧚

  • @melindadelrio3262
    @melindadelrio3262 Před 26 dny +1

    Wow! I just prayed and this video was the answer to my prayer. Doing what I know is best for me. Silencing the critics around me. Thank you so much! ❤️🙏🏼

  • @AlessandraMelandri
    @AlessandraMelandri Před 26 dny

    ❤❤❤ Thank you!

  • @piper_lori-williams-tudhope

    Oh my goodness! The fairy door!!! 🧚‍♂️ 🌳
    What a magical and beautiful place this is! I hope to visit someday soon. My husband is Scottish decent. Tudhope’s 🙏🏽 We want to find them in Scotland. 🥹 A dream that will hopefully come true 💝

  • @janemacdonald3859
    @janemacdonald3859 Před 26 dny +1

    Thank you fir this lovely calming video. What a lovely place for a walk. 🌳🌿 Hope you have a good week lovely Scottish fairy 🧚‍♂️ 😊 xx

  • @maryfranciscajones3312

    I really Love Your videos, they are always filled with Love and Precious Treasures of your life.
    I look forward to each one. I also Love Your recipes and how you take time to go step by step..
    I pray your week is Blessed beyond measure and You discover Amazing opportunities on your journey.
    Sweet Blessings,
    Mary ~
    🌱🌷☘️

  • @carolynschmidt6452
    @carolynschmidt6452 Před 5 dny

    I have made rose petal jam. Leaving the petals in gave it an interesting texture.

  • @user-hm1yk5rl5r
    @user-hm1yk5rl5r Před 27 dny

    Did I see a salamander? Very nice and thank you! So relaxing and wonderful useful magical wisdom.

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny

      I thought is was a wee frog but I might be wrong. Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

  • @HH-zb5ul
    @HH-zb5ul Před 18 dny

    Great video ❤ you are kind girl

  • @Anita-rq9ev
    @Anita-rq9ev Před 27 dny +3

    Hello Kerstin 🖐. I think it's peoples nature to think to know what's best for others or critizise others (sometimes without permission) although they hardly cope with their own life. Just my experience 😉. Nobody else knows what's best for us. I'm glad you found your happiness in Scotland. I've been there twice and I loved the positive aura and it's friendly people. Thank you for another lovely video 🙏.

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny +1

      Hello Anita and thank you so much for your kind support of my channel! It is much appreciated.
      I agree with you that unasked opinions can root in other people's own unhapiness.
      That is wonderful that you have been in this beautiful country. Do come again - it is always worth it!
      Thank you and have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

  • @lyndagray5937
    @lyndagray5937 Před 27 dny +1

    Hello Kerstin. It’s good that you have found your happy place, knowing that it is your own path that you have followed and you are true to yourself and your feelings. And you couldn’t have found a more beautiful and stunning place than Scotland. I love Scotland and its people. The scenery alone fills me with calm and peace every time I visit. I am very different from my 3 older siblings and they do not understand why I prefer peace and simplicity in life as they prefer all the trappings of modern living. And they criticise my high sensitivity to the point that I rarely see them now or want to see them. I prefer my own simpler life with my husband. Why do people feel the need to criticise other people’s way of life? I couldn’t do that. I enjoy your video content so much and it’s a joy to be part of this community. Thank you so much and have a lovely week 🌼🌸🌺🌷🌳❤️

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny +1

      Hello Lynda and thank you for your comment and sharing a wee bit of your story. I am sorry that your siblings (like mine) do not understand that some people are different and appreciate a different lifestyle. It can be hurtful and as a highly sensitive person that is a difficult place to be.
      I am happy you have your supportive husband and that the two of you have found your way to live. Have a wonderful Sunday and know that is warms my heart that you and this community enjoy my content. 🧚

  • @user-ek9zl3ee5d
    @user-ek9zl3ee5d Před 27 dny +1

    Hej hoppas allt är bra .tack för din fina video och om dina tankar om livet ha en bra helg🤗

  • @rrhines3151
    @rrhines3151 Před 27 dny +2

    I’m so touched by the reverence and kindness you show towards your peaceful environment… I held my breath a wee bit, awaiting your Fairy Friend to answer the door! True fairies 🧚🏼‍♀️, I believe, recognize the magic within each other 💕 If only people viewed each other with the same kindness & respect. Trusting oneself can be challenging when others can speak so loudly and with judgment & harshness. You recognized your “tribe” and found your own special path! It offers the rest of us hope! The shades of your rose petals reminded me of pastel fairy elixer! I love 💗 our Saturdays when we all gather to visit and celebrate 🎉 your beautiful Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and go off on an adventure! Swans? 🦢 🦢Don’t they mate for life💕 With all the treasures you create each week, it’s both relaxing and a reward. Until next week, have a special weekend!

  • @user-dd2kw9hf5h
    @user-dd2kw9hf5h Před 25 dny

    Thank you for sharing your heart and your rose ideas.... all the best...Melanie Fay

  • @TheEmpressgoth
    @TheEmpressgoth Před 27 dny

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

  • @ricardapoznanski5604
    @ricardapoznanski5604 Před 27 dny

    ❤Good morning from Germany...Thanky you for this lovely/fairy Video.
    What a soul-soothing scenery.
    Your filming and choice of topics/location is wonderful( I work in this World of theater/film-)
    Also I very much love the message in your video.
    It is very important for people to understand,that rhey must follow their own path..otherwise they live somebody else's life.
    So you are very inspiring to many ...and since you document the result so wonderfully and reflect....others will realize-it us worth it.
    I will try your rose-bud-syrup..
    and loved when you knocked at the fairy's home...
    She was out-visiting the scottish fairy❤-whi wasn't home either❤
    I did have an Internet Problem due to a huge thunderstorm in my tiny village...so know-right after my sunday-ballett-teaching-class-I will catch up with the videos I missed.And you inspired me for my ballett-class-tomorriw in the local school -I will do a a choreogeaphy...about wood-fairys Meeting rose-garden fairys......who try to invite each other to a ball-but no one is home to receive the invitation.....so they go on a journey to find the other friend....
    Using Tschaikowski's SLEEPING BEATUY -music
    You see-what an inspiration you are to us?
    Grüße von meinem ganzen Herzen❤

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny +1

      Hello Ricarda and thank you so much for this wonderful comment.
      I love your story about the fairies missing each other and that you took inspiration from my video for your class. I feel humbled indeed.
      Scotland is so magical and the people of Scotland still live a magic culture (the Unicorn is our national animal) which might be why I always loved it here.
      Sorry to hear about your technical issues. We did have some strong winds here last week which was unusual for this time of the year so summer seems to be different for many.
      I hope you enjoy my other videos.
      Thanks again from my heart that you are part of this community.
      Grüße von Herzen aus Schottland 🧚🌹

  • @lindamclaughlin2274
    @lindamclaughlin2274 Před 27 dny +1

    Oh that was so nice, I could almost smell the roses. I really love that fairy door, it’s magical. I am hoping to go to Scotland next year. I want to see and experience the countryside. We have lots of countryside here, in New Brunswick, Canada but Scotland seems so much more. Thank you for your video. Keep being you.

  • @opalsmith4994
    @opalsmith4994 Před 27 dny +1

    Thank for such a calming video. As always! God Bless ❤

  • @Goop-xX
    @Goop-xX Před 27 dny +1

    I feel like I just went on vacation. Here, in Southern California it’s a scorching 100 degrees. Thank you for some moments of beauty and calm❤

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny

      Thank you for your lovely comment. It warms my heart to know that my content gives you and this community some time of peace and quiet.
      Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

  • @MrsMMcG
    @MrsMMcG Před 27 dny

    One of these days, I’m going to make your recipes, just for myself and enjoy my peace. Thank you for sharing ♥️♥️♥️

  • @millwoodthomas5220
    @millwoodthomas5220 Před 27 dny +1

    So peaceful. I look forward to your videos each week. thank you for all your hard work.❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @kimneely4034
    @kimneely4034 Před 27 dny

    I love your videos & calming, sensible words . They make me feel less guilty about of some of the choices I made in my past. 🌺🌸🌼💐. Hoping the coming week is a joyous one for you.

  • @user-ex9cs9up8b
    @user-ex9cs9up8b Před 27 dny

    Thank you dear for another meaningful and so beautiful video.
    Watching your videos is like having meditation and psychology therapy altogether wrapped in a beautiful surroundings.
    Thank you for dealing with those so sensitive issues in such a calm way. It feels so authentic as it comes from your inner experiences...
    Will be waiting for the next videos to come...🦋💕🌻🌸

  • @carolbailey3487
    @carolbailey3487 Před 26 dny

    I too believe in the fairies! 🧚‍♀

  • @Skye-hy5sw
    @Skye-hy5sw Před 27 dny

    What a beautiful video thank you for sharing 🌹

  • @helenelindholm656
    @helenelindholm656 Před 27 dny

    Thanks for a beautiful video❤ . Take care❤

  • @Rosiedelaroux
    @Rosiedelaroux Před 27 dny

    I am so pleased for you.

  • @marieheyndrickx4463
    @marieheyndrickx4463 Před 27 dny

    Magnifique message, merci, from Belgium, Arlette et Marie ❤🎉

  • @convivator
    @convivator Před 19 dny +1

    Speaking about the place you were socialized, I would guess you are originally from Germany, being a German myself.

  • @aileenjackson1706
    @aileenjackson1706 Před 27 dny

    I love your life.

  • @happyvaper5748
    @happyvaper5748 Před 27 dny

    ❤🌹❤🌹❤🌹❤🌹❤🌹

  • @annedebretagne9410
    @annedebretagne9410 Před 27 dny

    Que vos forêts sont belles est très diversifiées. . . superbe Vidéo , mélodie apaisante ainsi que votre voix . . . mais dommage que je ne "capte" que qqs mots 'anglais , bien que les commentaires qui sont traduits me donne une idée du thème de vos réflexions . . .🤩😍👍Bon Dimanche Kristen

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 24 dny

      Merci beaucoup pour votre adorable commentaire. Nos bois sont vraiment enchanteurs. L’Écosse est si belle (la France aussi). Passez une merveilleuse semaine.🧚🌹

  • @rachelcatt6977
    @rachelcatt6977 Před 27 dny +1

    The word you say at the end, what does it mean?

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 27 dny

      Hello Rachel and thanks for commenting. I am saying "Thank you" in Scots Gaelic. Have a wonderful weekend 🧚

    • @rachelcatt6977
      @rachelcatt6977 Před 27 dny

      @@thescottishfairy5396 you too.

    • @rrhines3151
      @rrhines3151 Před 27 dny +1

      I typed it into Google translate a few months ago, as I was curious also!😁

  • @annedebretagne9410
    @annedebretagne9410 Před 27 dny

    Kerstin 🤔

  • @ellie.l6585
    @ellie.l6585 Před 27 dny +2

    My favourite channel 💖 and I'm sure many agree. What a heavenly and blissful place. Trees are so truly magical. When searching for a new home its always top of my list too, "where are the woods?" 🐿🌳🦢🐞🥰.
    If it isn’t too personal may I ask how you discovered beautiful Scotland and knew it was the place for you? 🦋

    • @thescottishfairy5396
      @thescottishfairy5396  Před 26 dny +1

      Hello Ellie and thank you for this lovely comment.
      I could not agree more on wanting to be close to some woods. Scotland doesn't have many big ones any longer but is trying to reforest.
      My love story with Scotland began at a young age when I saw a programme about it. I just felt an instant connection. I then visited in my twenties and wanted to move but life got in the way first. It just feels like home to me and I am really happy that I do live here now.
      Have a wonderful Sunday 🧚

    • @ellie.l6585
      @ellie.l6585 Před 26 dny

      @@thescottishfairy5396 thank you for sharing this. Your inner being clearly recognised that it was where you belonged and were meant to be. So pleased you've found the place where your heart belongs 💖⚘️💖.
      Love and blessings for a wonderful week to you and the channel community 🌻🦋🌻 xx