My Thai Massage Turned Into A 10 Year Marriage Nightmare | Thailand Stories
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- čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
- Ever had a massage so good you decided to marry the masseuse? No? Well, this guy did, and boy, did he regret it. From Bangkok nightlife to Australia, this 10-year marriage was more of a nightmare than a dream come true. Let's dive into this cautionary tale of love, lies, and lots of lost money.
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When the demands for money start. Walk away. Its not complicated.
Thai women say (I don’t cheat) yet when you want to check her phone, she gets defensive and crazy calling you controlling.
Right
@@muajinbehave like a simp, be treated accordingly 😂
Agree with the remedy totally (for those who can). But biological /evolutionary emotions are both real & powerful to combat. It really is complicated, as the prevalence of victims indicates
@@muajinThose kind of Thai girls love losers.
The more intensely a man "loves" a woman, the more vulnerable he is to being exploited
She got her fangs in him.
😂😂😂venomous fang!!
The biggest reds flags weren't the lies and cheating, but getting serious with a massage girl to begin with. Like what did he expect?
I get you tryna make the story longer but you be just repeating alot of stuff over and over
Thank you for your feedback. Will try to improve on that for the next one
I notice that also. Good story but the repeating gets bothersome and I find myself using the FF a lot and spending the video up to 150% option
Well read .. I think the other comments on here were harsh for no reason. The repetition is not repetition it’s actually summarising of the content, maybe the actual repetition is actually how often this happens to men today !
I look forward to hearing more off your channel .. take care !
@@thailandunfiltereddon't listen to him/her .. I think it was brilliantly told well done 👍
Your comment nails it! Repetition can really drag a story down, especially in a travel documentary. It’s all about keeping the audience engaged with fresh and compelling details, not just stretching out the content. Quality over quantity every time!
Can’t even be mad at her. She is who she is. Just have know when to say when. When you marry base on looks the slightest affection shown will make people go dumb.
Fool me once...shame on you...fool me twice...shame on me.
A friend of mine has a nightmare marriage with a woman from Sri Lanka. Since years everybody keeps telling him to leave her but he seemed to be like in a cult. No abuse, even physical, seems to be enough to drop her. We all finally gave up on him.
This guy is the King of simps.
The three day rule is very important fellas.
Or the hit it and quit it rule 😂
Great story. Very good narration.
In the end of the day people can address it like they want. The whole Pattaya thing is the same like going to a giant brothel. You pay for a service and not for love.
It’s such a common story here in Thailand it’s become cliche. In the twenty years I’ve lived here, I’ve heard a hundred of these stories. And 99% of the time it’s working-class blokes. Yet to see it happen to educated professionals - unless they’re slumming. 🤷♂️
-.- The Lessons of Love and emotional maturity
Love your story and advices. Thanks ❤
This can happen in anywhere so don’t blame it on somewhere
That video title is truly intriguing and captivating, pulling viewers into a story they won’t want to miss. But here's a tough question to ponder: How could a simple Thai massage lead to a decade-long nightmare, and what does this unexpected twist reveal about the darker side of cross-cultural relationships?
A woman using a man's love against him... how more ruthless can you get??
Unfortunately they don't care...doesn't matter where you are it happens everywhere these days
Most of us going to the Philippines and Thailand to live and find relationships, are far too old to invest extensive time in a woman that’s playing games. We no longer have 2-3 year blocks of time to be wasting with a broken relationship. The very moment we detect betrayal, or even just a lack of sincere interest in us, we have to break up with them. Yes it’s going to hurt, but luckily, if we’ve already relocated to Thailand or the Philippines, we can go right back out and find her replacement. That is the ultimate benefit for living overseas when it comes to women and dating. The ease of being able to replace a girl that is not following my program is the chief reason why I want to move overseas.
Finding a good woman in these times in SE Asia is nigh on impossible.
I'm in LOS and they are all no good.
@@shabbos-goy9407 where is LOS?
As an English teacher making 30-35k baht a month. Sounds like no Thai woman would marry me. lol. Imagine blowing most of your monthly salary just for some clothes.
Millions of people live on way less in Thailand every month, I'd say your chances are pretty good. Just avoid the typical danger zones 😊
สงสารแฟรงค์มากค่ะ ฉันเข้าใจในเรื่องที่คุณพูดเกี่ยวกับคุณแฟรงค์ ขอให้เจอสิ่งที่ดีคนที่ดี คุณเป็นคนเก่งมาก
there is always a positive part of any story
Such a patient guy hard to find
In Thailand just stick to the fun and leave the emotions back home period!
It's not just Thai women but African woman and I guess maybe other places too. It's so easy to be manipulated when you're in love. I'd urge men to take things slowly. If someone loves you they won't be constantly wanting money. Always follow gut instinct. Be patient and wait for a good partner. A bad rel destroys you emotionally and your trust in people.
😅You hear this a million times over. As the saying goes- ‘There’s a sucker born every minute.’ 😅
I must have found a good Thai woman then as we have been talking for 4 months and she has spent more and sent me more gifts in post from thailand than I have for her. In fact if i send her a gift more than what she paid for mine she gets annoyed with me for the day. I really thought she was upset that i didnt send enough but to my confusion she was upset that i sent too much, But the difference between our gifts was like 20 dollars.
As Thomas Jefferson said
"avoid all foreign entanglements "
Please don't forget that you are listening the story only from Australian guy, maybe the story from thai massage girl are not the same.
Welcome to Thailand 🇹🇭
Always assume if there is a red flag early in a relationship assume there is a possibility of more to come. If anyone is serious about a long distance relationship. Hire an investigator just to make sure before marriage or serious commitment. A couple thousand will save you years of anguish and tens of hundreds of thousands.
Sounds good in theory but can u trust an investigator in a country like that they might get on another pay roll which u will be funding through her 😂
Fang was a female vampire.
Nice walking video of Chiang Mai
Bro these sound mad up, but im sure every story has really happened to someone😅. Those women are the absolute worst in the world. Even if they aren't prostitutes. Trust me, i got a couple stories too😂
Totally agree
This is a farking English & Australian problem.
Because the average American ends up in Tunisia or Tanzania by accident because they don't know how to read a map?
Nonsense. I've met many Americans over here and they seem to follow the same general pattern. I can't speak for non-Western cultures, but it seems to afflict Farangs particularly. I have my suspicions why
Don’t forget Americans. 🤷♂️
@@dannyphan1352 it's a "western simps" problem...
@@werl789 them western simps lead by money, som-nam-naa, 5555 😁
Funny thing that when you get married with a Thai man , there is no dowry given to the foreigner wife😆
S U C K E R 😂. He was coldly and ruthlessly exploited
Is this Chiang Mai? I remember taking a stroll there where people were enjoying the night buskers.
i was in a similar situation , lucky my was five years, the worst part was, after everything you have done for them , they don't see and feel , their heart is very cold , money always come first before you . there is no love , money is the only love they have. not you , not anyone else .
"they don't see and feel" ... dude what do you expect? They spend their whole lives, from the moment they open their eyes for the very first time, living in literally shit. They're like animals in the wild constantly searching for food, not knowing where their next meal is coming from. There ain't no love with an empty stomach man. It's a proven fact, lack of food has driven people to insanity in the past. Their concept of loving a man for who he is, it's like me trying to wrap my head around metaphysics. Think about it. You think they were brought up like you and me?
Love is baht...baht is love 😂
Lol wallet massage😂
Damn, she is pure evil.
After all the lies snd cheating, he should have left and cut his losses😩
The type of love that is talked about in this video is for foreign simps.
Thailand is good country I like thailand Thai people are very friendly
Familiar story
The universe full of mugs , there is a Phrase mugs never die only taking turns .
The poor guy was in a classic relationship with a woman who has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). I was in one as well for 7 years and my exe's behavior was exactly the same as Fang's.
It happens when they message the wrong leg
Is that Chiangmai?
What day was the raid? They do them at night? I’m here and been out every night to WS and I never saw any police or anything. Actually Thursday I don’t think I went out
But you must have heard stories before you went there have you no control just a pretty face their desperate its a business for them their laughing at you could you not see what was goi g on from the beginning you men need to wake up get your head together use your brain they just wa t your money end of story
@@judybichara3127 fun fact: *EVERY WOMAN* is I it for recourses (one way or another).
In Asia them western simps are giving it by free choice, in western countries by divorce laws ...
Look this happens all the time when men go searching for love in all the wrong places especially abroad ✌️
The problem wasn't she was working in a massage parlor. Problem is the dude. Duh. These stories are kind of endless. SE Asia seems a magnet for serious simps.
I guess her real fangs came out after all
Fang would have learned how to fly with no plane
This is an amazing example of what will happen if you fall victim to the “Sunk Cost Fallacy.” Please, look it up if you want to understand shanties is.
"Sunk Cost Fallacy." I thought they just called it good money after bad money. Auto repairs are a good candidate for Sunk Cost Fallacy.
He got use big time . No man should have to take care of a woman & her family. I bet she took all his retirement funds … these women are beautiful & smart they most time get the old men so they won’t have to live with them long or they get the fat ones with money hoping they don’t last long .😮
@@angelastewart9497 it's totally on him...
We can all see all the red flags looking in the rear view mirror.
Problem is when you are in a relationsh*t ooking forward.
I just don’t get it why guys know it’s wrong getting involve with a Thai massage girl they are trained to take your money until
They have enough to
Retire
Massage girl from Thailand , big no no!
OMG Nightmare 10 yrs 😮😮
Once a cheater it's always be a cheater.
Sometimes you need to learn to turn off your emotions
Wow thats crazy! That is why they are poor because of their high expectations! Philippines is the same way though. Never been to Thailand but been to Philippines twice and I have seen it all! I think after paying that $750 first month I would be done with it. But even for many the first $900 that Fang "needed" would be a deal breaker. "Learning so much" - I would request to see the grades....
Tell her you only have enough for a happy hour daily and that's it
Patong! Lol with names like this you no its never going to be right!
These videos are so racist. The men in these stories never have any accountability. Yet the men are pursuing these women. Who does not get in a relationship and not spend money on their partner. Mr. Storyteller these guys are using their wealth as their main attractive point. He could have said no why is this uneducated girl a scammer but the educated expat guy the victim. You imply every woman in Thailand is this way. People are individuals it’s not a culture. There are many money oriented women in every country. This story is so BS if he could not afford it he should not have gotten into the relationship. It seems the value Fang gave companionship, sex etc has no value in the story. Men also cheat and scam expat guys can also have many girlfriends I am sorry it’s not even that much money. Hello people break up. It’s not a scam. No accountability for his actions or decisions. Maybe Fang had to pay her organized crime handler or had a parent in debt. It started with his pursuing a massage girl. On the show 90 day fiancée the most successful relationship is an older man and a Thai girl and he paid 500000 baht dowery. This is such nonsense.
25'000 baht a month is excessive to be sending for thailand though not including her school fees.,. He should have refused or offered half that amount. And she works so i would refuse as a wage in thailand is enough to live in Thailand especially if a Massage girl
Some stupid comments. This has nothing to do with whether you are working class or have a so-called professional education. Don't throw a stone by giving the impression that the working class is stupid. I know stories of so-called scholars such as a banker who was completely financially stripped by a Thai, and with whom he still had children. . These situations can happen anywhere and to anyone, even to someone from your own culture. I also ask myself the question, if everything is so bad in Thailand, why do so many people travel there or try to live there. Just to fuck for sure and visit all the massage bars. A few years ago they arrested a foreign judge there. He was dealing with boys of 8-10 years old. So don't talk here about it only happening to the working class.
It's all about the money in Thailand .
Love??money??
Tais re very practical
Forget f love
That’s what u get for a massage with a happy ending what did u expect
No, i don't know how it goes. He doesn't even think it's normal to help her grow. He voluntarily gave her money. It wasn't her fault. He did it to himself.
He should have paid the ones she owed money to and not send her money.
He wasn't even there for her
He abandoned her. She wa ted to be with friends. He should have oaid for that. Their wad no relationship.
She was distant from him because he ne er stayed with her. That is normal. He betrayed her.
is this a real story? Is Fang the real character?
No , but does not matter .
Who watches this kind of stories..😂 can happen any where in the world 😊
FANG??? the name says it all. 🐍🐍🐍
Haha he should have talked to her friend of cousin!
They would have lied too 😂
I am from Malaysia. The only SEA country that i visit is Singapore. SEA is a crime region, drugs , gang cartel, sex, serious corruption, even police could be part of the crime. !! A sick region.!
It is possible to go to these countries without giving all your money to prostitutes.
Is also Vietnam a ”crime country”?
You Wrong!!SEA is Beautiful country, Is the person that had mean and ugly heart ❤️. You just have to be Aware about it
There are a lot delusional people in this world.
can you get the mony back
Unfortunately Israel😢 no refunds or returns in Thailand.
Yep, earning the good bucks and still being gullible about this i find it hard to believe, for a man this smart
Is this a real story or just made up?
Dude was clearly an incel with no self worth.
Not real story but funny.
Be smart enough in other countries. Don't be lured by their beauty. You will have a price to pay!
Alot of these cases they aren't a beauty 😂
I don't believe lots of stuff on here any longer, seams OTT all of it.
Any massage I get from a pretty girl is not going to stay professional long
Another story teller.
Do you lay in bed at nights thinking these things up.
Maybe The Husband is 60 or older and the wife is in her young age like mostly the story are and she still want and need in her life and she used him for Money 💰!!!
Financial expectation is not a “Thai culture”, it’s a bad people culture that’s all. The guy just met a wrong woman using race or ethnic to describe a person behaviour is a pure stereotype. ”Educate yourself to do better.
complete click bait bollox.
maybe it was a nightmare for him too?
He was extremely naive! A mug!
Total sucker...glad he learnt something from it...atleast lets hope he did..plenty stories like that unfortunately...imagine all the fun he could have had on heaps of holidays if he stuck to the 3 day rule or the hit it n quit it rule 😂
So sad for this woman Scammers
Wow way too long
Depending on the level of society that you go to,not just Thailand.,also in your country.
PLEASE do not come to Thailand for that purpose.
Your country has also.
Whats uo with all the simps jeesus its an epidemic
Cubans operate the same way
Cuban Hookers Maybe but not all Cubans ...
@@NeilMurphy-dn5gp Yes, I agree. It can happen anywhere in the world. It’s hard facing reality. Denial is the worst feeling a person can have.
Does this story surprise you? What a fool, is all I can say.
We should use the word of “sex” instead of “love”. It’s all about sex mostly. These attractions are based on sexual gratification and money:
Simping and White Knighting brings nothing but misery 😂