Daddy Issues // All Strings Attached (Part 1)

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  • čas přidán 10. 02. 2019
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  • @ShannonMarieee
    @ShannonMarieee Před 5 lety +1511

    i saw the title and thought, "yep i need this and i haven't even watched it"

  • @EricWhite
    @EricWhite Před 5 lety +874

    20:18 - "it's better to learn the right way than to unlearn the wrong way"
    that actually gave me goosebumps, that hit me really hard

    • @Nyla19841
      @Nyla19841 Před 5 lety +3

      Facts!!! Had me at work balling at my desk

    • @arne5069
      @arne5069 Před 5 lety

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    • @shelitam9074
      @shelitam9074 Před 5 lety

      @@Nyla19841 ME TOO!!!

    • @J.C.73
      @J.C.73 Před 5 lety +4

      So true...I'm relearning at 42 although I have been saved for 34 years...

    • @jomardea
      @jomardea Před 5 lety

      Eric White yessss!!

  • @aprilmurdock36
    @aprilmurdock36 Před 4 lety +152

    "when you were younger you were TRAINED that you were a burden.... so you don't ask for help .. or even prayer..." Welp I'm just gonna cry in my lil hole

    • @saralynn3749
      @saralynn3749 Před rokem

      Made me cry too 😭

    • @reiabradshaw796
      @reiabradshaw796 Před rokem

      Its funny how something that simple can impact you so deeply. I struggled to discuss this with my husband. I have never expected to have anything from anyone far less a male because my dad was trying to teaching my sister and I how to be independent and in his words not see him or my mum as the first persons to ask for help. It created and unhealthy practice of not asking for ANYTHING at all which I took into toxic relationships where I was giving and not getting and I didn't know I was numb to it because of how I was raised as a child. Post introspection I was able to explain that to my husband and I have to actively learn how to communicate my wants at the age of 37. Looking fwd to learning 3 years later since this was posted.

    • @vanessaswift446
      @vanessaswift446 Před rokem

      Hey baby, how you doing now? Do you know how to ask for help? This is your reminder... All of our help comes from the Lord. Just ask Him... He hears us. ❤️

    • @ayanajohnson6033
      @ayanajohnson6033 Před rokem

      Felt! But I’m learning. Help me Holy Spirit

  • @stephniek791
    @stephniek791 Před 5 lety +133

    "Even if he brings you the man of your dreams, if you're hurt or broken you'll contaminate ...."
    "Only God can fix me"

  • @CollinLaBrosse
    @CollinLaBrosse Před 5 lety +558

    Culture don't like this message.. darkness has to leave when you turn on the light. Lies have to go when truth comes to the scene. Love the heaven perspective, our God is a Father not a boss.

    • @arne5069
      @arne5069 Před 5 lety

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    • @leelove9441
      @leelove9441 Před 5 lety +2

      Amen

    • @allisacekerr1466
      @allisacekerr1466 Před 5 lety +5

      "Our God is not a boss" that's a great way to put it. The world sees it that way doesn't mean we should

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 Před 5 lety +2

      Preach, Collin!

    • @DesignedMomentsAfrica
      @DesignedMomentsAfrica Před 5 lety +5

      Amen - Lies are being exposed and we are repossessing the territories the devil has stolen from us

  • @latriceperez3795
    @latriceperez3795 Před 5 lety +109

    I want my daughter to grow up better than I did.

  • @Ty-km2er
    @Ty-km2er Před 5 lety +710

    He is out here having a full therapy session

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 Před 5 lety +12

      We need it...

    • @tracyachieng4156
      @tracyachieng4156 Před 5 lety +15

      free as well :)

    • @brittanythomas5895
      @brittanythomas5895 Před 5 lety +7

      That's why I love him 👏👏👏

    • @chosenbyyah88
      @chosenbyyah88 Před 5 lety +1

      BluDrop5 Has

    • @mrod87
      @mrod87 Před 5 lety +8

      my journey this year has been to write and take notes while listening to these sermons (i am obviously far behind but i have a personal goal of finishing 2019 on time so i can be ontime for 2020) and i may pause the video and journal and write out things about my past or my struggles...then i take them into my monthly therapy sessions and its literally the perfect rehab for changing behavior and patterns. to add to that, my therapist is/was a pastor and i think God literally sent her to me, bc she helps me further understand this message. therapy and God is the formula.

  • @preciousbillips1693
    @preciousbillips1693 Před 5 lety +665

    Through this sermon, it has been revealed to me why I don't trust God with His promises for me. Every time I ask my (earthly) dad for something he says he will get it or do it for me but he never does. It's to the point where I will ask (my earthly dad) but don't expect it to really get done or for him to give it to me and that has become the way I view God. I ask God for things but don't really believe He will do it for me & without belief/faith you can't manifest anything. I didn't realize the impact of daddy issues in my life until this sermon. Thanks for helping me get to the root of this. Lord release me this year from all strings attached to daddy issues, Amen!

    • @AngelMarie90
      @AngelMarie90 Před 5 lety +7

      Precious Billips that’s so deep 🙏🏽

    • @carolynpage1712
      @carolynpage1712 Před 5 lety +17

      This is my same issue! It really makes you think about how you view God

    • @iamdominiquealexis
      @iamdominiquealexis Před 5 lety +4

      Precious Billips omg! So true! That’s exactly what happens with me

    • @tracyachieng4156
      @tracyachieng4156 Před 5 lety +15

      i hear u sis. iv been wondering why i dont trust God as i shud even when he has come through continously and consistently in big mighty ways, most of whichbi didnt even pray for him to do but he just did. i get it now

    • @forevertheaii
      @forevertheaii Před 5 lety +4

      Oh wow, I can totally relate to your comments. 100%.

  • @daughterofyahweh927
    @daughterofyahweh927 Před 5 lety +639

    I need this. I'm 28 w / no dad. Never.. Of course I have the Lord, but not having my earthly dad I had problems with rejection, abandonment, and self esteem issues. 😞 Ive always wanted him. But the Lord is amazing ! He's healing me.!

    • @Tamickamorgan
      @Tamickamorgan Před 5 lety +17

      I know the feeling but we have to put all our trust in God for he knows all things 🙌🏾

    • @daughterofyahweh927
      @daughterofyahweh927 Před 5 lety +2

      @@Tamickamorgan Amen sweethearr!!! 💓💙

    • @DarahBarnes
      @DarahBarnes Před 5 lety +3

      Kami Heller Just prayed for you Kami!!! 🙏🏾💕

    • @daughterofyahweh927
      @daughterofyahweh927 Před 5 lety

      @@DarahBarnes aww thank u soo much! 💕 God bless you darling! 💖

    • @Didilady82
      @Didilady82 Před 5 lety

      ❤❤

  • @Joediann
    @Joediann Před 5 lety +195

    Online family who plans to go and visit and actually be in the room one day... where you at?!!!🙄😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ no for real. I have grown a massive love for his ministry! It’s always good!

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 Před 5 lety

      He's in Tulsa, OK.

    • @daishabreaux5375
      @daishabreaux5375 Před 5 lety

      Meee

    • @Queenchar86
      @Queenchar86 Před 5 lety +3

      They are having a convention in September. I'm coming from London, UK. Just waiting on the details.

    • @SantPum2215
      @SantPum2215 Před 5 lety

      JoJo Faithh lets go to the convention girl, a few of the people in my bible study group and I are driving down from WICHITA Kansas :)

    • @Joediann
      @Joediann Před 5 lety

      SantPum2215 OH! I like you... PERIOD! I need to be there😩 I’m so proud, (of a lot of people I know.) But this man... this man! THIS IS GOD!

  • @Vvtravel
    @Vvtravel Před 5 lety +227

    Pastor Todd is such a blessing to the world.

  • @sloren95
    @sloren95 Před 5 lety +205

    I’m reading a book about this now.
    God Distorted: How Your Earthly Father Affects Your Perception Of God and Why It Matters by John Bishop

  • @christinalaldinpuii9563
    @christinalaldinpuii9563 Před 5 lety +359

    Thank you God for using Pastor Mike and giving him the talent to address things never addressed before ♡

    • @stephenxadonai
      @stephenxadonai Před 5 lety +1

      Christina Laldinpuii addressing things never addressed 👌🏽

    • @thesharpestofthorns___9132
      @thesharpestofthorns___9132 Před 5 lety +1

      (He's the only Pastor I would listen to.
      While other Priests, Pastors, Bishops, Popes, or whoever is in charge of a church is just like "Families can be together forever."
      No they freakin' can't!)

    • @christinalaldinpuii9563
      @christinalaldinpuii9563 Před 5 lety

      @@thesharpestofthorns___9132 we need more real talk and variety. U.U

  • @yahwehsdaughterromans1164
    @yahwehsdaughterromans1164 Před 5 lety +113

    This hit me as a single young mom.. smh.. really hit the heart and I’m praying on how to raise my son in the Lord.. please send a prayer out for me and my son Caleb.

    • @raesworldpussy
      @raesworldpussy Před 2 lety +1

      God bless hunny

    • @1766584
      @1766584 Před 2 lety +2

      God allow ur will to be done in Jesus mighty name🙏🏼✝️💙

    • @cherylstar24
      @cherylstar24 Před 2 lety +1

      Have faith that God will give you the tools to raise your child. I’m single parent as well. Not everyday will be easy, but the reward is seeing your child succeed. Stay blessed!

    • @nancystclair1376
      @nancystclair1376 Před 2 lety

      Prayers and blessings for you and Caleb

  • @RicardoLambert
    @RicardoLambert Před 5 lety +209

    I GET SOMETHING OUT OF EVERYONE OF HIS SERMONS!!!!!! GREAT WORD. PRAISE GOD FOR GREAT MEN AND WOMEN OF GOD WALKING IN THE SPIRIT!!!

  • @skylarroberson9155
    @skylarroberson9155 Před 5 lety +141

    I never grew up with my father or had a relationship with him, but I always told myself it never bothered me. This message opened emotions in me that I didn't think I had towards our relationship. I'm ready for deliverance and healing. Thank you, God, for speaking through Pastor Todd. Such a great message.

    • @neilstephens1162
      @neilstephens1162 Před 4 lety +1

      I don't know my father for 37 years but God is good I have a daughter not I will be a father in her life!!!

  • @gregfaulkner2107
    @gregfaulkner2107 Před 5 lety +32

    46 finally heard my dad say he loved me after i prayed for him after his triple bypass procedure. He was laying on his back looking up while i prayed for him It felt like spider webs lifting off my back i had a RELEASE moment Thanks Transformation

  • @queensevnn3179
    @queensevnn3179 Před 5 lety +53

    Daddy wasn't there but I love him like he was in my life everyday! I had to grow up and understand that GOD didn't make no mistake when he made him my dad....👑🖤

  • @heyjdhere
    @heyjdhere Před 5 lety +83

    "How you learn, is how you'll last" - 20:47

  • @mskayjay89
    @mskayjay89 Před 5 lety +162

    Come on co dependency release! Overcoming the bondage of dysfunctional relationships and loving from a pure heart! Breaking generational curses! Thank you that there is a father fix! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @itsstar4171
    @itsstar4171 Před 5 lety +229

    Mannnnnnnnnnn God really setting me up for success this year. I'm not even 5 minutes in yet and I know this word is for me! God has been dealing with me on this for a couple months but it's started to become more consistent this month. So, I'm excited about this series!

    • @Grounded0ne
      @Grounded0ne Před 4 lety +1

      I said the same thing after the first 5 mins. God said this word is for you dear.

  • @alisonwingler2113
    @alisonwingler2113 Před 5 lety +95

    This was a God appointed sermon for me. I live with my father and have dealt with core issues unresolved for 33 years. All the negative hurtful messages from my earthly father are not what my heavenly father says about me. I have been expecting a man to fill the voids and love me like my father didn't. The more you try to push a man and expect him to fix what he didn't break , you will put pressure on him and he will walk away because he can't please you, or he will stick by you if you are working on the core issues and he doesn't bail, a man who believes in you and sticks by you.
    So true that the enemy is after the father because if he destroys the man, the family comes down with it, such as in my case. Relationship to relationship because of unhealed and unresolved core issues! My symptoms are anxiety, perfectionism ,ocd, fear of failure, criticism, unforgiveness,anger, well some are the trained behaviors, the ones that arent right but I didn't know any better.

  • @s.m.3014
    @s.m.3014 Před 5 lety +42

    WOW!!!! I have heard Proverbs 22:6 all my life but I never thought "what if you were trained wrong"
    This is so profound!

    • @aiyanagreen7965
      @aiyanagreen7965 Před 3 lety

      i used it in my discussion board post for school and now here I am. 😭💗 God is funny

  • @jaigrace1790
    @jaigrace1790 Před 3 lety +13

    1- Only God can fix me cause only God knows me.
    2- How we love is learned.
    3- how you learned is how you will last
    4- Everybody has Daddy issues
    5- Everybody need father to fix

  • @lettinajuba5516
    @lettinajuba5516 Před 5 lety +49

    How you learn is how you last. Alot of fathers do not realize the impact they make on their children's lives. But we thank God for Jesus.
    # All strings attached
    #Malawi

  • @Michelle-ls8us
    @Michelle-ls8us Před 5 lety +47

    I wish I could visit this church sooooo bad🥺🥺🥺

  • @Ayimifaithful
    @Ayimifaithful Před 5 lety +51

    I seriously needed this, I have struggled all my life with all these issues because I don't know my father.
    He died before I was born and I tried to fill up the vacuum but nobody/ nothing could do that for me. Not the men I dated, friends, money, sex etc
    I battled with Rejection, low self esteem , abandonment, feeling unloved etc
    But thank God for his love for my life. Am healing daily.
    Thank you pastor Mike.

  • @mollivaamoo
    @mollivaamoo Před 5 lety +244

    Whenever im going through something, God uses you to speak on the exact thing im struggling on, for a young girl who has lived by herself since 17, having such a person speak spiritual wisdom in my life is so important to me and honestly helps shape my life, so thank you for doing Gods work and helping us get through seasons

    • @Plnetkhia99
      @Plnetkhia99 Před 5 lety +3

      Me too! I am so glad I found my pastor when I did, his yes to God has impacted my life so hard he has no idea! I love my pastor and his wife soooo so much😍💜💜💜

    • @mollivaamoo
      @mollivaamoo Před 5 lety +3

      @@Plnetkhia99 Im so Glad to hear that the power of God is moving throughout your life and you have people that will help and support you within the church! Its also beautiful to hear how happy you are with the work God is doing in you! Much love ♥

    • @theessenceofjade9739
      @theessenceofjade9739 Před 5 lety +1

      Fe malemask me too I had a whole mental breakdown today.

    • @mollivaamoo
      @mollivaamoo Před 5 lety +2

      @@theessenceofjade9739 well firstly im glad you voiced that because its important to understand there no shame in having a bad day or a complete meltdown, in relation to my situation right now, God has shown me that im not perfect and you know what its okay, its okay to not meet expectations and fail sometimes, its okay to be upset and angry sometimes, God loves us even at are worst or when we are feeling our worst. Life can feel absolutely crazy.. Most of the time no doubt! The ride is never easy, we go through trials and tests they say to build character, well sometimes when were in the mist of it all, we would rather have the personality of a wet fish then to go through the pain and suffering, sometimes its really hard to find the positive, but you will find it. You will find the solution. You will find your happiness again. Just be still in this time, be happy you made it through another day, your a blessing to others, your worth it, belive in yourself and love yourself, dont beat your self up, just simply exist, dont do anything or try anything to try and resolve your situation or heal the pain yourself, trust in God!

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      @arne5069 Před 5 lety

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  • @Generation3k
    @Generation3k Před 5 lety +97

    God deposited this word in my spirit at the end of 2018 .I had a traveling job and gave it up because I realized how much my absence was affecting my son. God is definitely releasing things in my life this year🔥

  • @kelliew.4285
    @kelliew.4285 Před 5 lety +5

    I used to have daddy issues until I fasted and prayed for healing. Matthew 11:28-30 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest..For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light"

  • @sxyteesa0890
    @sxyteesa0890 Před 5 lety +15

    When he talked about your father not showing you grace when you messed up so you don't think God can forgive you..... i balled out of control that's why it's so hard for me to forgive myself when i feel like I've made a bad choice

  • @wildthangthajack
    @wildthangthajack Před 5 lety +43

    Mommy issues exist as well... good message

  • @jeannea9406
    @jeannea9406 Před 5 lety +1137

    Why don’t people ever talk about mommy issues ?

  • @cheduthapelo1649
    @cheduthapelo1649 Před 5 lety +78

    This is gonna hurt, but Im gonna watch it anyway.... I need this.
    Love from Botswana

    • @Shootinforthestars1
      @Shootinforthestars1 Před 5 lety

      Chedu Thapelo yes exactly

    • @SantPum2215
      @SantPum2215 Před 5 lety +2

      Chedu Thapelo the best way to healing girl is confront and testify our issue head on so it loses its power over us so that Jesus can come in fill that space where hurt was and heal us .!! Praying for you !!

  • @MiniiMani
    @MiniiMani Před 5 lety +45

    I really broke down earlier about my relationships and my having daddy issues and look at this. I saw this title and im like Thank you God

  • @lebogangmogoane2004
    @lebogangmogoane2004 Před 5 lety +12

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I need a hug. This is way too deep. This message is me in every way. I had buried my daddy issues far away and convinced myself I'm over them until I heard this message

  • @daughterofyahweh927
    @daughterofyahweh927 Před 5 lety +83

    This makes me want to cry!!!!! I hate that these fathers are absent! But how can a man be a father if he never had a father to be taught! 😞

    •  Před 5 lety +7

      Thank God he is raising fathers in His church willing to break generational curses and seek out to God for guiding cuz they know they can't do it on their own 👏☺

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 Před 5 lety +6

      Men can develop a relationship with Jesus and He can teach them.

    • @JC-vd5ux
      @JC-vd5ux Před 5 lety

      By being a teacher(father) and a student(child) at the same time. Take your lessons from God and his son.

    • @kywpartnersllc227
      @kywpartnersllc227 Před 5 lety

      Taïsha J L Amennn

    • @mjpomperada7829
      @mjpomperada7829 Před 5 lety +1

      it's possible with God. There are many who have had a Dad in their lives, but no have no idea to be a Father or have the heart of one.

  • @lteed.4036
    @lteed.4036 Před 5 lety +29

    Lord knows what he doing through Pastor Todd!!! Jesus get us right in 2019🙌🏽!!
    At 26 this series is needed!!

  • @l2ebel96
    @l2ebel96 Před 5 lety +8

    13:35 - "You are not the best version of yourself right now. If iPhone gets 10 upgrades, don't you at least want 1?"
    Powerful statement Pastor Todd. May this Year of Release be a year of positive transformation.

  • @BlackFox15
    @BlackFox15 Před 5 lety +1

    Anybody in Indiana? I definitely need a Godly community and friends. Transformation Church has been a huge part of my life this year ❤️

    • @tatymalz87
      @tatymalz87 Před 4 lety

      BlackFox15 what part of indiana are you in

  • @cynthianyanda3842
    @cynthianyanda3842 Před 5 lety +7

    Mine is more like mummy issues. I remember some months when I was just eating out with a friend & discussing my mom & other spiritual issues, my friend said to me, “Do you realise that the same way you treat your mom, is the same way you treat God?” It hadn’t dawned on me until that day that my trust issues, patience & everything with God was all a bigger picture of how it was with my own mom. God will help us all through if we let him.

  • @jenniferakabue
    @jenniferakabue Před 5 lety +12

    Powerful ! I cried . wow. So much of my life I've dealt with the pain of my dad and my upbringing but I'm being healed from it. Thank you God for the Father fix. Thank you for Jesus.

  • @TamyTee
    @TamyTee Před 5 lety +118

    Early squad, where y'all at?🖐🏾

  • @mylenetuazon9361
    @mylenetuazon9361 Před 4 lety +3

    Points from the teaching
    1. Only God can FIX you because HE is the Only One who truly knows you.
    2. How you love, is learned.
    3. Everybody has Daddy Issues.
    4. Everyone needs a FATHER FIX.
    Such a powerful and transformational preaching from Pastor Mike! My whole was deeply blessed. And to you who's reading, i pray that you would also allow the Father's fix to run through your whole. God Bless!

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you richly

  • @Preet_1223
    @Preet_1223 Před 2 lety +3

    Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior ✝️❤️

  • @rogerbrady2003rab
    @rogerbrady2003rab Před 5 lety +16

    So clear..so direct.. from the scripture, no dilly-dallying or beating around the bush..Humble Open and Transparent.. HOT..that's why I like Transformation Church.. Thank you Jesus for leading Pastor Mike through your holy Spirit and revealing your word to the lost, the confused and the unfound..big things are yet to happen Amen..

  • @belief7994
    @belief7994 Před 5 lety +51

    Guys my house hold is just TERRIBLE PLZ PRAY FOR ME.

    • @millafoxtippett
      @millafoxtippett Před 3 lety +1

      Dear Lord please keep this beautiful soul safe from the hurt and torment of their family. Allow them to continue to open their heart to you and your immeasurable love, please guide them to a safer place in your will and promise. In the name of Jesus Amen ❤️

  • @champagnemonique6149
    @champagnemonique6149 Před 5 lety +6

    Everything I’ve spent years of therapy trying to uncover was just revealed to me in less than an hour. Man I wish I could go to this church.

    • @pastormichaeltodd6261
      @pastormichaeltodd6261 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+234 9150344209) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you................

    • @kayvonpaymard556
      @kayvonpaymard556 Před 3 lety

      @@pastormichaeltodd6261you are not mike todd

  • @elliwilson3349
    @elliwilson3349 Před 5 lety +5

    "i will be the father to the fatherless." wow. my dad died when i was 13 so i definitely needed this pastor mike

  • @heyjdhere
    @heyjdhere Před 5 lety +13

    Pastor, not even 5 minutes of the video and you already got me laughing, praising, writing notes, reflecting... God bless you and keep using you in this way and take you to higher levels!

  • @cristaltorres.
    @cristaltorres. Před 5 lety +53

    PREACHHHHHHHH! IT ALL STARTS IN THE HOME. I knew this already but i'm still mad that i have to figure life out on my won because my foundation was not solid. both my parents are alive and well , they just did what their parents did and now i have to break the cycle. and to be honest that can be DRAINING . i jUst need the strength to keep going and keep obeying God to do what he called me to do . i know i need to forgive and let it go tho. Thank you for this message , a lot of people will benefit from this.

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 Před 5 lety +2

      Talk about it. Healing can be draining.

    • @cristaltorres.
      @cristaltorres. Před 5 lety +1

      BluDrop5 freedom will come 🙏

  • @amandaarmstrong6363
    @amandaarmstrong6363 Před 5 lety

    Sometimes in order to fix something, you need to go back to the manufacturer. Only God can fix you!! Thank you for this awesome message that really all of us need to hear. We only have one perfect Daddy, and He's Our Father God! Praise the Lord! I pray this message also brings healing to those still dealing with these struggles. I'm glad I watched it, it gave me some tears that I believe needed to be shed and just more appreciation for the love the Lord has shown me and continues to. We have such a Father in Him who created us!

  • @chicagochicken3676
    @chicagochicken3676 Před 5 lety +4

    As an 18 year old still lost with myself. I can see god is doing his amazing work in me! Amen

  • @monkeycutie16
    @monkeycutie16 Před 5 lety +16

    Breaking Cycles! Thank you father!

  • @cgm1042
    @cgm1042 Před 4 lety +1

    This is a great sermon! My goodness! So raw! I think people are afraid to admit this and people are afraid to check out what they are passing down to their kids. Geez he is so brutally right. Couples need to listen to this before marriage.

  • @leeceeelia1208
    @leeceeelia1208 Před 5 lety +5

    Oh my God the tears flowed. The part where you discussed adoption hit the feels, as I grew up feeling that although I have been raised by the most blessed family, I still was reminded of the fact that my mum left me here and wanted to abort me. At the same time, I never knew my father. Thank you so much Pastor Mike, God is surely working within this part of our release!

  • @chimnathaniels.4360
    @chimnathaniels.4360 Před 5 lety +7

    Jesus Christ needs to be our foundation.. a house built in the sand goin’ get flopped over in the storms.. build on the Rock!

  • @thatgirlogechi4635
    @thatgirlogechi4635 Před 5 lety +102

    I literally just want to drop my homework and watch this!!! urghhhh
    Love from Londonnnnnn

  • @miatavah4298
    @miatavah4298 Před 5 lety +12

    God sent me here! I'm at 21:48 and I'm shaking my head because I already know everything he's about to preach is for me! Lol.

  • @thriftingphoenix7697
    @thriftingphoenix7697 Před 5 lety +3

    Thank you God for speaking to me thru Pastor Mike and this message. Drug addiction, being attracted to the wrong men, depression, anger, self esteem issues, never feeling like I’m enough, and generational curses are being broken in my life in the name of Jesus. Thank you Jesus!!!

  • @penelopecrawford3509
    @penelopecrawford3509 Před 5 lety +3

    You can tell Pastor Mike truly puts out his heart and soul into every sermon

  • @shaliseeeeeeee9617
    @shaliseeeeeeee9617 Před 5 lety +12

    Yes Lord! What I struggle with the most. Fixing my relationship with my biological father. Ready for this season of Healing ❤

  • @vanessahoward2219
    @vanessahoward2219 Před 5 lety +2

    I never took notes for church or from no pastor until I start watching his videos. Thank you God for sending me to his sermon 🙏🏼

  • @joelynnhill8684
    @joelynnhill8684 Před 5 lety +18

    Deep down I really needed to hear this. I needed to hear this message because I am adopted and even though I have been blessed to have a family there are times where I feel alone and I feel by myself and there are times when I don't want to be around them and I get to the point where I feel like I need to leave I cannot be here no more. Nonetheless I tell God thank you for all that he has done for me. whatever emotions that are dwelling inside of me that caused me to be angry upset or annoyed quickly I give it to him because I know he cares and out of all the people in my life God is the only father I know.

    • @tejuanahardison7516
      @tejuanahardison7516 Před 3 lety +1

      Whew a word, I am also adopted and I know how you feel. Thank you for sharing.

  • @11teiko
    @11teiko Před 5 lety +15

    God is doing some real heart surgery in 2019 and releasing me from what I didn't know I had.

  • @lilyicyqueen
    @lilyicyqueen Před 5 lety +4

    This is me right now, I have been trying through the help of God to decipher some internal issues that I haven't dealt with properly and its effect in my life. Lord I give u praise, u truly know me.

  • @ShawnieakaLadyC
    @ShawnieakaLadyC Před 5 lety +9

    Just last week I was talking with my counsellor about the comparison to my relationship with my dad and God. Wow this touched home severely

  • @wanguinjoroge4341
    @wanguinjoroge4341 Před 5 lety +116

    We are here!!!!!!!! 🇰🇪 !!
    Welcome Holy Spirit Fill me with understanding and wisdom!
    #AllStringsAttached!

    • @fernanchayoung5594
      @fernanchayoung5594 Před 5 lety +2

      Amen!

    • @michaelluv3439
      @michaelluv3439 Před 5 lety +7

      thot I'm the only 254 person hehe.. u'v made me smile lol. it's about to be another amazing month cz of this series.

    • @briannginyo7297
      @briannginyo7297 Před 5 lety +8

      Adu a nyumba.....seems we are many...lol

    • @lowariegithae2947
      @lowariegithae2947 Před 5 lety +3

      I saw someone saying she's from Zimbabwe i thought there's no one from 254 but i came across your comment 😊😊 God bless pastor mike am learning so much blessings my country people

    • @goddesslinah1951
      @goddesslinah1951 Před 5 lety +3

      Habari 😍

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 Před 5 lety +7

    Right now in my life I am in a space where I have been hearing loud and clear to let go of all my thinking that does not benefit me no matter how comfortable it is...no matter how much of a habit it is....it is hard, scary, confusing, and uncomfortable to let go but I am so ready!!!😘😘🤗🤗😍😍🙌🏾🙌🏾
    I am living out "being transformed by the renewing of my mind" 🤗🤗 God disciplines those he loves!! #imloved

  • @TheThirtyJourney
    @TheThirtyJourney Před 5 lety +59

    Another sermon I haven’t watched all the way through yet but I know I need in my life! 🙌🏾 These sermons always allow me to continue unpacking and heal so many things in my life and it feels wonderful.
    Can not wait for the conference in September! 😊

    • @alexisforteza_
      @alexisforteza_ Před 5 lety +1

      I can't wait either! Literally making sure I have plenty of time to take off work for it LOL

    • @RicardoLambert
      @RicardoLambert Před 5 lety +1

      Watch Worship 24/Ever
      Best sermon series on worship ever!!

    • @TheThirtyJourney
      @TheThirtyJourney Před 5 lety

      Alexis Forteza same here! lol

    • @TheThirtyJourney
      @TheThirtyJourney Před 5 lety +1

      ricardo Lambert watched that series multiple times...love it!

    • @RicardoLambert
      @RicardoLambert Před 5 lety +1

      @@TheThirtyJourney
      Awesome!!! Watching his "Grace is Like a Flood" series now

  • @ChrissyTina
    @ChrissyTina Před 4 lety +1

    God released me from my daddy issues very very recently. The way i see myself, relationships, and God has all changed. One thing he said that i unfortunately did was ruin a relationship with a good man because i was scared of marrying someone like my dad. however, i learned so much. watching this just confirmed everything i walked through.. whats crazy is right before release, I think i experienced my lowest low. depression, self doubt, low self esteem, feeling like God couldnt love it even though i knew better, I hit bottom... Then i had to go visit my dad in the hospital cause he has cancer. He was still mixed up in some mess, and as i was leaving God just spoke to me and said. "You are not your dads mistakes, you dont have to continue to carry them in you" i never realized everything i though was wrong with me where just the areas my dad failed to come thru as a father. In that moment i felt lighter and just havent been the same since. with that said the lust that was just a craving for emotional intamacy has just about died, i can focus on God. i can see myself clearer... so much has changed even my best friend of 10 years said she can see a difference and all the while i didnt think it was so visible. i say all that to say God will work it out for you. in the mid of me thinking i was unwanted by God he was working on showing me just how wanted i am.. however there is a ministry in your pain, just keep going. if you are at rock bottom a day break is on the way. if he could for me i know he can for you. guys i was MESSED UP.

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you richly .....

  • @dreandnikatv9324
    @dreandnikatv9324 Před 5 lety +5

    This Just BLESSED MY LIFE! I was trained to not love and to be a fighter BUT God has a better plan to heal me. I can do this

  • @desjan8377
    @desjan8377 Před 5 lety +6

    When me and the lady in the background say wowwww at the same time 👆🏾🙏🏾

  • @zamokuhlem5735
    @zamokuhlem5735 Před 5 lety +28

    Watching in South Africa 🇿🇦@ 11:56pm, and PS Todd you are a blessing

  • @zz-eg2ju
    @zz-eg2ju Před 2 lety +1

    I needed to hear this today. This video hits home for me. I let my past issues ruin my relationship with my future wife. I pushed her away because that's the way I dealt with things when it gets tough. I will not let my past continue to ruin my future

  • @normagilliam1779
    @normagilliam1779 Před 5 lety +7

    Pastor Mike is truly on 🔥 for Jesus, I love how he allows our Heavenly Father to use him . I just seen a old scripture in a new way and it makes perfect sense.Thank you Pastor Mike ,God Bless you and your entire family

  • @bettingonme13
    @bettingonme13 Před 5 lety +8

    such a powerful and timely message!

  • @shaquitat08
    @shaquitat08 Před 5 lety +21

    The most important part of building a house is what
    "The FOUNDATION"
    Jesus yes

  • @bryannathaxton3169
    @bryannathaxton3169 Před 4 lety +1

    When he said “what happens when you are connected to your father but you don’t feel like a son or daughter?” Whewwwww that hit me sooo heavy. Always trying to please my parents and could never reach their approval. Thank God for Jesus

    • @pastormichaeltodd3047
      @pastormichaeltodd3047 Před 3 lety

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2348150364549) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you richly....

  • @vequah_asmr3498
    @vequah_asmr3498 Před 5 lety +1

    Beautiful Sermon, this message was so honest and touching. Break through is coming, believe it y’all. Thank God for your never ending LOVE for us.

  • @shebahoney72
    @shebahoney72 Před 5 lety +8

    Amen!! The father to the fatherless!! Thank you God!!

  • @aubreyhubert6671
    @aubreyhubert6671 Před 5 lety +20

    I loved relationship goals so much I already knew I needed this series. Please talk more on soul ties and getting rid of them!

    • @QBenjaminOfficial
      @QBenjaminOfficial Před 5 lety +3

      Aubrey Hubert you can google prayers to remove soul ties, usually its best to pray with one or more ppl for those. See Matthew 18:20 :)

    • @superherospirit2046
      @superherospirit2046 Před 4 lety

      Matthew 18:18-20

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee Před 4 lety

      @@QBenjaminOfficial yes AMEN

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee Před 4 lety

      @Regina Patrice !!!!! In Jesus Name!!

  • @gloriab.3720
    @gloriab.3720 Před 5 lety +11

    I was just talkin about daddy issues! See how God works!! Confirmation that I need to be the one to bring this forth in my family. Breaking generational curses, Thank you Pastor Todd!

  • @angieandrewseyesight222

    IFS Therapy is exactly what this preaching is!!!! More Lord

  • @AveryBrownLovesMusic
    @AveryBrownLovesMusic Před 5 lety +9

    Powerful message of conviction, and balanced truth! More grace to you Pastor Mike, as you continue to empower the world, with the message of The transforming power, of The Gospel! / 👏🏿🔥.

  • @ThePrayerfulBride
    @ThePrayerfulBride Před 5 lety +4

    I needed this. Recently I’ve been doing some self reflecting, i realized i don’t like who i am. Not on an insecure but i don’t like my habits / traits. I’ve realized as you said i was trained the wrong way. I can’t sleep and nothing is interesting me so i decided to watch a sermon and this confirmed everything i have been thinking/ feeling and gave me some more insight gonna watch the others this weekend.

  • @paixducoeur5773
    @paixducoeur5773 Před 4 lety +1

    I am crying and keep crying because my dad died when I was 3 years old and Ive come from a polygamous family, and I got treated soo unfairly from my step mother, and step-siblings and it damaged me completely! I got blamed for things I didn’t even know of when he was alive with my mother. This sermon really touched me! I believe I am healing it’ll take time but I trust in the Lord my Heavenly Father. Thank you pastor mike and I thank God for using you! Your work on this earth for his kingdom is a true blessing for our generation.

  • @alexandraboone3255
    @alexandraboone3255 Před 3 lety +1

    Major Key 🔑 : “How you learn is how you last”

  • @shekiera6
    @shekiera6 Před 5 lety +5

    Wow God is truly an on time God. I needed this so much. I was sitting in such a dark place and this came up on my phone. Every bit of this message blessed my life.

  • @trinibabygyal16
    @trinibabygyal16 Před 5 lety +3

    This sermon has me shook!! I never knew how deep these issues can go. This is a message I didn't know I needed.

  • @itseleventhgaming7461
    @itseleventhgaming7461 Před 2 lety +2

    Theses sermons are therapeutic ... Glory to God , in Yashua's name amen

  • @thesharpestofthorns___9132

    (I'm eighteen minutes in and damn! I've never felt a video so relatable. 🖤
    My dad is a distructive narcissist slob.
    I was trained by him. That all men are like this. And I am slowly but still fighting to believe that *there are* men out their who respect their girlfriend/wife. *There are* men who will admit when they are in the wrong. *There are* men who won't have a f*cking heart attack when they are asked to pick up a broom, a sponge, or a vacuum.)

  • @akasbaakop3md502
    @akasbaakop3md502 Před 5 lety +5

    We about to be snatched. Yup.
    Gh🇬🇭 squad. Where yall at

  • @MENA_ADUBEA
    @MENA_ADUBEA Před 5 lety +7

    WOW - I already know this is gonna hit me where it hurts. I'm READY

  • @faithkekelwa1853
    @faithkekelwa1853 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Pastor Mike, I'm healed from every ungodly training in my life!!!!!!

  • @tinaanderson1061
    @tinaanderson1061 Před 5 lety +1

    Absolutely we must break the chains of past generational curses! I was blessed to learn this at a young age. I was determined to not have my future daughter live behind a pair of sunglasses. My grandmother had an abusive husband. My mother had many abusive relationships. At the age of 16 I found myself repeating the cycle. I was determined to brake it and change it! A book that changed my life was called Knight in shining Armor by PB Wilson. She breaks down everything puts it into perspective on a psychological aspect and also talks about establishing a foundation with God and on God. We need to be the change that we want to see in this world! Yes I broke it! My husband is amazing man and hasn't even spoken a negative word towards me. Nine years! Now we're growing stronger together in God. God is good always!

  • @michelleakinyi987
    @michelleakinyi987 Před 5 lety +5

    This moved me to tears,so powerful, the spirit truly led you to where the fixing is, God is still fixing me, amen,at some point i was like , ok God i hear you, God bless you for this message.

  • @psweetmusic
    @psweetmusic Před 5 lety +7

    My daddy was my first release this year (1/01/2019). I appreciate this word. And I love and appreciate when our Father does the smallest things to let us know we heard Him right and that he cares for little ol' us. #REleaseREleasingREleased. 💯 God continue to bless this ministry.

    • @LBay-ko9jf
      @LBay-ko9jf Před 5 lety +2

      Precious4real4real Jesus loves you girl ! Keep on releasing

    • @psweetmusic
      @psweetmusic Před 5 lety

      @@LBay-ko9jf working on it. Thank you 🙏💯

  • @rao_inspires
    @rao_inspires Před 5 lety +1

    Wow!!!! No words but I'm so so glad I'm watching this now, for my family and my kids sake.

  • @entrapreneurintnl1566
    @entrapreneurintnl1566 Před 5 lety

    I grew up in a household with a father who was inactive. It wasn’t until I was 16 years old, that we had a real conversation. Now at 22 years old as married father of a 7 month old son. I recognise the need to surrender all of my daddy issues to Christ. We have to grow tired of unlearning the wrong way. And learning the right way so that we can teach our children how to minimise mistakes in their own future relationships. Glory be to God!