Honest LIFE UPDATE in Bali (breakup(?), mental health, ...)
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2023
- Time for an honest life update from Bali after not posting in 2 months. I'll explain everything that has happened within the last 5 months and answer all the questions I have been getting!
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your all good bro man you need balance in life
I've been living/working together with my wife 24/7 for 15 years, no therapy or habitual changes would have helped our relationship more than fixing our hormones/health problems. I got a DNA test and turns our I had a rare genetic disorder that required regular supplementation and she got her hormone levels checked and she had excess testosterone that needed reducing. Ever since we got our health fixed we rarely argue about anything, even during covid-19 lockdown days we just loved each other more. Hope this advice will help you in your future relationships!
@@Salaht yep🙏🏽
@@lineage13 Good for you man! Thanks for the tips🙏🏽
Hi Joose. I always enjoy your travels. Sorry for you and Grace. A breakup is never easy. The mental pain is awful from experience. Hopefully the good memories will overcome any sad memories. Glad to hear you are looking after your mental health and growing as a person. You have a good positive attitude and more self-awareness now. Peace, health, and prosperity now and in the future.
You seem like a good guy, a caring and sincere type..so great to see the modern age hasn't sucked the soul and humanity out of every single one of you at least🙏
Thanks a lot🙏🏽
I appreciate your transparency and courage to share so honestly. It’s a credit to you that you are authentic with your viewers.
Thank you, I appreciate that🙏🏽
Joose, I have enjoyed watching your videos since I found your channel. I enjoyed Bali when I traveled there in the late 80's and enjoy reliving those memories when I watch your videos and see what it's like now, 40 years later. Breakups are always rough and sad, but you have the right attitude and understanding and you will heal quickly. You are correct about the 24/7 relationship. It's too much time together. You actually packed several years of relationship into 1.5 years. Consider it a 'condensed' relationship and focus on the good times when you remember it. Once, when one of my friends broke up with his girlfriend we were all sitting around his room talking about it and his Mom came to door with a plate of cookies. She looked at us and said, "Why all the long faces, boys?" We said it was because of a broken relationship and how terrible it all was. She looked at us with a smile and said, "Well...the best thing for woman problems is another woman." We all looked at each other in complete surprise. Turns out she was 100% correct. It doesn't mean to just fill the emptiness with someone else. You do need time to process the relationship. Look at it as you are doing. A learning experience. It is teaching you about relationships. You'll be a better partner in the next one. Go about your life and do what you do. Then, one day, when the time is right and you least expect it, you will meet someone and all that pain and hurt will simply vanish. Vanish as if it was never there. Joy will be there in its place. - Warmest regards and looking forward to future videos.
Thanks so much🙏🏽 Reading this made me really happy and peacefull now. Very true. Things will always get better :) And I wonder how Bali was back then haha, probably very different.
@@JooseTheNomad Joose, I'm very pleased that it helped.Time is a great healer. Bali was less developed and much more rural way back then. Many, many rice fields and temples. I hope much of that is still there. It was less traffic and crowds, but it was definitely being developed even at that time. It was the most exotic place that I have ever visited. It still looks pretty exotic from your videos, just a bit more modernized and updated. I am from the USA and had a friend that had married a Balinesian and we were visiting them. We came to Bali after Island hopping in the Andaman sea and Gulf of Thailand. Phuket, Koh Phi Phi, Koh Lanta, Koh Samui, Koh Phangan. Haad Rin Beach on Koh Phangan was my favorite. A wild time there, haha. There was no road to Haad Rin Beach at that time. You had to take a long boat to get to the Peninsula. Then it was on to Bali, starting at Kuta beach where our friend was. Kuta was, (and probably still is), the Australian version of spring break in Fort Lauderdale in Florida.Total tourist trap. I recall going out to a club and the first thing I see upon entering the club, loud music blaring, disco lights flashing, was an Australian in shorts and a tank top standing on a table, a small beer in each hand, looking at me, lifting his beer and saying, "Aye mate." in a thick Australian accent. I rented a small jeep and and we went up and over the mountain to the other side, staying at some Japanese resort place at the top, visited the volcano, and then spent a couple nights in Ubud. Lots of culture. We saw costumed dancers, visited the monkey forest, and did all the usual tourist stuff. I did get Bali belly in Ubud, but I had some Cipro and Lomotil with me and got rid of it in less than a day. We stayed in a really nice place at the end of a road that they said had been a rice field the year before. We visited some of the close villages such as the one where everyone makes silver jewelry and the one where everyone makes carved painted wooden fish.Then we drove down to the other side and stayed at a lovely place right on the coast. Very inexpensive. We traveled through many towns and small villages on our journey. We visited the King's summer palace with the water garden and bathed in the public pools, all the statues spouting water. Gorgeous. There was an old Balinesian village we stopped at along the way where they showed how people lived in ancient times. I bought several wooden masks and carvings. The masks were beautiful, one piece painted carvings, compared to the cheap looking multi piece masks that were available at the tourist shops. I still have them. There was no internet yet so the only way to get information was to talk with people who were headed in the opposite direction. For example, when we were staying on the coast, some folks at the pool told us that when we got to Candidasa to go past the town to the third street (just a small sign) and then go to the end of the road and we would find a beautiful, inexpensive, clean hotel on the beach that was within walking distance to the town. Food was extremely inexpensive and delicious. Nasa Goreng for $.50 US and a huge half avocado stuffed with shrimp with Russian dressing for $1.50 US. In Candidasa I had lobster. Balinese lobsters are so beautiful and colorful I almost didn't eat it. But I did. lol. It was delicious. It was New Year and there was a huge parade where all the local villages brought their huge Papier Mâché monsters, each carried by a dozen people, down the Main Street to scare off the evil spirits for the New Year. I have lots of pictures from that trip. One night I was talking with some of the natives. Bagus mean 'the best', thumbs up. I told them that in the USA Bogus means terrible, thumbs down. They loved it. Everyone was laughing and saying "Bagus", with thumbs pointing up and then "Bogus" with thumbs pointing down. All in all, a most excellent time and adventure.
Been following your videos for awhile and was wondering where you guys went! Glad you’re safe and doing better! 💚
Thank you❤️
Thank you for your honesty, I appreciate it.
Keep learning and keep moving.
All the best!
Thanks so much man🙏🏽
Welcome back!!!! Soooo been missing your great videos. Sending you loads of Love & Light. Give your heart the time it needs to heal. Some days will be more difficult than others. And it's ok to feel the sadness & hurt as long as we don't wallow in it. You have a bright future & life ahead of you. Your viewers love you & support you on your journey. Sending much love to Grace aswell ❤❤❤
Thanks so much for you kind words❤️
hi Joose, sending lots of hugs and strength! Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. With time I am sure you both will heal. It was a great idea to go home for a few months. I also highly recommend that in the future always keep "me-time" when you can recharge and get your energy back. Take care!
Thanks so much Nora🙏🏽 Yeaa time always helps! We always tried to do it but it was hard haha, next time..
Thanks for the update, glad you took a break , hope you find peace 😊
Thank you😊🙏🏽
Welcome back. Always enjoyed your content, keep it coming.
Thanks man🙏🏽
enjoying your videos! every relationship is a learning experience and glad to see you are taking positives from it. hope you feel better soon :)
Thanks so much😊🙏🏽
okay get back to work now. You inspiring people ! stay strong !
Your videos gave so much info and value and you are part of the reason why I am moving to Danang and becoming a Nomad.
Thanks man! Awesome to hear, hope you enjoy Da Nang🙏🏽
Omg I am in tears. I’m so sorry joose, this video was made a while ago so I’m sure that you are feeling more healed now, but still my heart goes out to you ❤❤
Appreciate the honestly man - it’ll only get better from here!
Thanks man🙏🏽
Really liked your videos and got so much value from them, I appreciate your honestly and simplicity
Thanks so much🙏🏽
I never forget the line in Eat, Pray, Love when she says her friend is a therapist or something who deals with folks like refugees from war torn countries who have been thru truly horrible things and the things they talk about the most is the troubles with there love lifes.
Yeah, break ups are some of the worst kinds of pain...but the thing to realize is they are a window to an open heart chakra...you have access to having your heart chakra open all the time and just because you broke up doesn't mean you have to stop loving the person, you just can't have any expectations on the person...yes, learn from the experience, and reboot and give yourself enough time. Appreciate this honest video...most all of us have been there.
Thank you for sharing your difficult to us , wanna send positive energy to you and I have just started watching your videos yes you did a great job!!
Everything gonna be ok , I believe in your potential as you have :)
Thanks so much😊🙏🏽
Hi Joose! I've watched your videos for a while now and it's really nice to get a little sneak peek of what's it like to be a digital nomad and life in the warmth of Bali in general👏🏻 Travelling, like many other things in life have their ups and downs, but I think think those things make life worth living for. All the best to you from another Finnish traveller💪🏻❤️
Thanks a lot brother🙏🏽 And yes it's true!
Breakups can be very rough. All the best. Thanks for sharing. Appreciate ya
Thanks man🙏🏽
Shame about the relationship Joose! It definitely hurts when things end but we have to keep our head high and continue to move forward! I'm currently in a similar position with Bali. Everyone is in Australia and you just wish everyone would come here haha. Best of luck with everything :)
Thanks so much🙏🏽 Yees always a struggle hahaha, but for you it's nice that flight between the two is just few hours so it's easier to visit!
I feel your pain bro.. may god bless you.. soon things will be better.. hope to cross roads on scooter with you
in Bali
Thanks bro! Check the latest video haha. See you around🙏🏽
stay strong man, seems u really loved her, hope u guys will find the right path. cheers
Thank you man🙏🏽
you just know she already moved on. Girls like that are not 24 hours away from getting pounded by the next guy in line. Just how it is.
Thanks for sharing...not an easy discussion ...you can only hope you learn from the experience ...safe travels
Thanks so much🙏🏽
Nah, I relate so much to your situation. I was travelling the world with my wife, we spend so much time together, live in the same apartment, have the same friends. As in your case, it was to much for her, so she decided to break up 5 month ago. Also I couldn't escape these thought that I could do things better. The pain in travelling without her was so huge at the beginning. But I learnt a lot and slowly started to move on. Now I'm in Tokyo, looking for the next places to move, so I found your channel. And holy shit, it is exactly what I needed.
Hope you doing well now!
I feel you man! It's difficult for some time after being so used to having your person next to you all the time. It took me quite long to be able to enjoy being alone again but it's never the same, sharing these experiences with a loved one is the best thing ever. But one day we all will find someone who's right to do it with🙏🏽 And yeah it's definitely a challenge like you said, I've been thinking of this a lot lately that it would be the best to be with someone who has family and friends in the main base you have... I think it's a lot about not being right for each other in the end of the day if we just can't make it work and also the circumstances matter. I went through that many times that I felt I could have done things better and it would have worked. But it never did. I guess some relationships are meant to last, some are not. So it's good to take all the lessons and learnings but it's not good to be too hard on ourselves. It's good to hear you're starting to move on too, it will get better!
Good to hear man, thanks so much🙏🏽
Ohh we’ll definitely miss Grace! you two make a great couple. I really think finding that perfect balance between work and your relationship is very crucial. It’s not just about ‘me time’ but also cherishing ‘we time’. I’ve learned that time is the most precious thing in a relationship, having those moments to truly savor with your partner is priceless because sadly people often don’t realize what they had until it’s gone..
anyway goodluck with your new life. I see that you talk way slower now,nice progress man!
Yea man so true.. wise words🙏🏽 thank you man!
Follow your heart and see where it leads man, looks like you’re not ready to give up on your love. Relationships can be wild rides, trust in time, enjoy your moments of salitude, and who knows maybe you two will find way back together. Keep the faith alive!
@@JayBrody-xx9ut yeaa probably not but you never know haha🙏🏽
Been there my friend. You're a good guy. Stay that way. ✌️
Thanks a lot man🙏🏽
Best of luck to you brother . Love from L.A. amigo.
Thanks for creating this. I plan to retire in 5yrs.
Thank bro! Good luvk to you too!
Your channel is very under appreciated, pleased to have you back good sir. Any recommendations of airbnbs, hotels, villas to stay in Bali (looking for chill and beauty, rather than party and mass people). Prepping to leave the UK for winter in a month time. Always stay in Thailand, SIngapore, philippines and Vietnam... maybe time for a change this year and try Bali
Thanks so much! I have a lot in my Bali guide but when it comes to the areas, my favorite for longer stay in Canggu are and there, Pererenan is the best, more quiet but close to cafes and everything. Other nice areas to stay longer are Uluwatu and Ubud :)
Your still very young..enjoy your youth while you can..be smart with your decisions in life and love..you sound like a smart kid with lots of blessings around you..
Yeaa.. thanks so much🙏🏽
Hyvä vidi!
Kiitos!
Brother, the world is full of so many beautiful people, get stronger and you will meet another special person.
Yes definitely, thanks bro🙏🏽
Don't worry brother! Time heals all
Yeaa bro, thanks🙏🏽
Hey Joose! I follow your videos for a while as I'm moving to South East Asia in a month. Still deciding between Bali or Thailand. 🤦🏻♀As a fellow youtuber here, I know how hard it is to keep up with videos when not feeling great. Also, how difficult it can be to open up with your audience. Full support here!! 🙏🏼 It takes time to move on, unfortunately I know that from experience. 😅 But everything will be better slowly. ❤ Keep it up and looking forward to your next videos!
Thanks a lot Laura🙏🏽 I'd recommend starting in Bali as it's the best place to meet people living longer in SEA in my opinion but of course depends on person which one is better! Yeeah it will be good❤️ Thanks for your words!
@@JooseTheNomad Yeah that’s exactly what I’m thinking. I’ve been in Bali twice and the community there is insane. I’m travelling alone so I want to meet people who live there long term. i want to meet other creatives. Thank you so much for your advice! If I end up in Bali and we cross paths, I’ll make sure to say hi! 😄 ❤️
@@LauraBC yes exactly! No worries. Enjoy your time here😊🙏🏽
I guess it highlights depends On the person you together with and yourself.I am doing everything together with my girl for last 10years,traveling,working together etc.First two were hardcore but we are pass that and now everything is so great i fee like living in a movie ;D wish u all the best and hope you heal quickly :)
Move forward and upward! #Freedom
Yees man🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hey Brother,
I wish you good luck to overcome the difficult times. At the end all will be good after some time. But yeah, know exactly what you are talking about ….
Thanks bro! Yes it's tough sometimes but always gets better🙏🏽
Thanks a lot bro🙏🏽
Tetap semangat, peluk dari jauh from Belgia ❤❤ . I missing Bali to..
Makasih yaa❤️🙏🏽
@JooseTheNomad whats the accomodation called in Pererenan? Looks great!
I'm really sorry to hear that man. Now that I've seen many of your videos and also today at the gym in da nang I mentioned that and I heard we have a mutual contact friend you met here while you we're last in Da Nang. I'm here now thanks to you and I truly love it so thank you! Also a question re girls / women. I'm, looking for a serious kind of relationship now with a girl in Asia and using a few of the dating sites. Tinder seems to be a waste of time for me. If you have any advice for us on dating or how we can meet someone like grace would be very appreciated! again sorry to here the news and I also use to live, work and vlog, create travel with my (true yet ironic) Finnish girlfriend. The relationship imploded for the same reasons you described. WE HAD NO SPACE. live and learn ::)
A lot of people can and do grow apart it happens. Did you not want to let her out of your sights because you were afraid of losing her?
I know it sucks but move on and have faith that something better awaits you.
No it was just hard for her to do stuff without me because she didn't have friends here and also just always wanted to do things together. Thank you🙏🏽
She would have met plenty of 'friends' since bro. Dont worry. Girls like that are never far from company. IYKYK. @@JooseTheNomad
Joose where was the gym you were at in Canggu, beside the rice paddies? Seems like a place I'd workout in
It's Obsidian :)
@@JooseTheNomad Cheers mate, might see you there
Dont sweat it broter. Her loss. You seem like a stand up guy, good heart and you got that Ryan Gosling thing going on. Plenty of girls would be happly to be in a realtionship wth you.. youll be fine God Bless
I am actually sobbing in tears at 7:05 mark , so so cute of couple and I hear the pain in your voice 💔😢 you are in my prayers that you will continue a safe beautiful life of travels and meet the next person in the right time. Much love 💜
Hi Joose, me and my girlfriend appreciate your videos and have been in Asia the last two months, heading to Bali next weekend!
What would be good as a fellow vegan and digital nomad is if you could find your top 5-10 spots for eating and working whenever you get to a new place. Being able to go off your recommendations for cafes, coworking spaces and restaurants when we arrive in a new destination would be very helpful.
All the best!
Thanks guys! I have a Bali guide that includes all my saved places in Bali :) maybe that would be helpful?
you don't need to clarify what happened. that's your personal life, we just want the normal content you have been put up. btw, you're worthy :)
Thanks😊🙏🏽
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thank you for sharing this... was she from Bali? i suppose its rare there that people can speak good english... may I ask how you met?
This is what I was curious about too.
Hey man. Care to go into details about what the cultural differences during dating are between westerners and Indonesians? Cheers
Bro make a video about how is it like, having a Balinese gf/wife, pros and cons.. pls pls
Hey may i know how to sign up for the boxing in bali
No offense but you both guys still very young especially her seemed to be very maybe even unmatured on videos?? And as we know what is in the front of camera and what is behind the scene is 2 diffrent things beacuse life is not instagram or videoblog. Based on my experience with my Thai lady the key is to find the compromise. btw we went thru a lot 🤯 ( mostly cultural differences) but somehow we survive. How ever i wish you all the best and keep your head up. Maybe some day 🍻 in Bangkok. Take care Joose
I know it’s probably hard but what do you think you could have done better? She looked like you made her really happy and you two looked like the couple that’s meant to be.
Relationships are complicated sometimes..
Bro you seem a decent guy. Didn't really see that coming. Will you share why it ended? You just don't seem the type of guy that most would want to spilt from.
Haha thanks bro! We had too many fights too often and both were so exhausted that living together just wasn't possible. Things got a bit ugly and I decided it's the only option for us to break up for the sake of both of ours mental health..
@@JooseTheNomad Bro Asian women are known for being extremely ruthless. They look very sweet and feminine but they can be fierce. I am in Da Nang now after your recommendation. I suggest trying a European girl next my man. They can be a bit more genuine and long lasting.
@@user-tn2im1wc2k enjoy Da Nang🙏🏽
Did you meet her in Bali?
I was geeting belly problem every week in Bali, forgot about that since I'm in Vietnam, no belly problems yet 😃
Yep I also only have them in Bali😄
@@JooseTheNomad i escaped from bali, no more. Many bad things. Don't understand why many people like it
@@Frivals it's the best place when it comes to food, networking, gyms, and so much more :)
@@JooseTheNomad when it comes to food after commenting the message before that you had belly problems only in Bali? There is some fighting going on in your brain I see 🤣🤣
@@Frivals lol.. the food optoions are the best, the food tastes the best. But yes in Bali there is problems with getting food poisoning but during my years in Bali I've learned what to avoid to not get them anomore
Go to all land and place, touring maybe
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What Camera you use for your vlogging Bro ?
iPhone 14 Pro :)
@@JooseTheNomad Only Iphone na camera ?
@@saimimislam yep. I only use camera for thumbnails sometimes :)
Come to KL and chill be merry
I'm actually coming in few months!
what do you pay for the apartment? looks nice
$600/month :)
Everything happens for a reason.
Yes🙏🏽✨
Too bad to hear.
That girl was an absolute smoke show
Hahah thanks🙏🏽
Some girls are great for hot long weekend by the beach... not for true companionship. Also, quite different levels of cultural background and education. Remember the good times, and choose something with less stress and heartache and fighting attached next time. You're a totally cute and handsome nice guy (and I say that as a guy myself ha ha) and you will have no problem finding an amazing girl that's perhaps a bit easier and perhaps shares some intellect and a similar middle-class background with you, even if she's from SEA herself. Keep it going, you rock! 💪
I agree that Grace probably was not the right girl for him. If you have to make it work, your partner is probably not right for you. True love is effortless, like Ying and Yang
It shouldn't be a problem finding another girlfriend in Asia
Lmao thats crazy at 5:13 I see another youtuber that I follow at the gym XD
Hahahah nice who is it?😂
Brandon Harding lol bodybuilder@@JooseTheNomad
@@jeffk4710 nice hahahah
You need to post daily content bro. That is how I bought my 2 houses in cash in Australia and racked up over 400million views total. 2 months off....no can do! ::
She just wanted the ride bro. common thats why she wasn't even really communicative in the videos like i felt at one point you jusg hired her as a travel model and guide but you good bro
You should move in love in Vietnam: Đa Nang , Nha Trang ...is much better choice than Bali ...beautiful beach , clean city , super cheap living food
Just check out my channel😄
sounds like her loss not yours.
You can do better buddy. You are good looking and a great dude, get your self a nice blonde girl ;)
what was the night club ? atlas ?
be careful with girls in Bali , most of the girls are not as nice as your ex
Vault :) thanks!
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If you need to be the top 10% in income to find love, then you are doing something wrong. Your channel indicates you are 50+ and still single...
basically he got dumped after she found a better guy in secret and had "had too much of Joose". You see these cases a lot especially when the guy is this broken about it. He was the loser. Asian women are great but they monkey branch to better situations real quick if your game is weak. Sorry bro.. at least you smashed that tight thing though.
That's so far from the truth lol🙈
This is usually the truth, but maybe not for you since you initiated the break-up
@@durianwalker sometimes yeah but also in the west this happens a lot..
They only want your MEAT. Money Energy Attention and Time. Then move on to the next one. The end.
@@JohnSkyLey having limiting beliefs is not good
you need a sugar babe!
Remember, she wasn't your girlfriend, it was just your turn. It's best to be single if you're living a digital nomad lifestyle anyway.
What do you mean?😄
Girls only want your MEAT. Money, Energy, Attention, and Time. Then move on to the next one. @@JooseTheNomad
Lmao 🤣 this is the way in bali and other similar places! It was just your turn hahaha
Have you seen her… 😮?!
@@peter9style yeah
This is the problem of showing off your girlfriend in every single video. I know you make sure you include her in skimpy/revealing clothes for the content/views. It's obvious, and now you share your personal drama for views because everyone is interested in that girl for reasons you know already. These videos are everywhere.
I'm sorry for being negative. You seem like a nice guy. I will subscribe and enjoy your videos. I am just pointing out that you should avoid this type of CZcams channel. Good luck mate.
Thanks for the update. Theres a lot of Andrew Tate content available to help us maintain stoic in such situations. Self development is key
Yes, thank you🙏🏽
be a man, control your emotions, go find her, and fix everything!
Yes. It's not the best always to go tho..
No way. Never ever go back. You can enjoy alone time for a couple years then enjoy a new beauty. I always made my gf meditate with me for 1hour -2hours before bed to keep our mouths shut from habitual chitter-chatter. Silence together in mornings too.
@@durianwalker 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Dont mess with women. A distraction thats not worth it
Just because it's hurts doesn't mean she The right person. The pain it self is something we need to get over not the sign she's the right person after all
Yeah it's true..🙏🏽
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