5 Manipulative Tactics People Use To Screw You Over In Negotiations

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  • @thomasgolden1081
    @thomasgolden1081 Před 2 lety +625

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      @forgathyrichmond746 Před 2 lety +2

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  • @TinaLeder
    @TinaLeder Před 4 lety +1197

    *"Take the time to find out what people want"* seems to be one of the most *over looked* tactic in day to day life.💯🎯💖

    • @Akagami753
      @Akagami753 Před 4 lety +19

      This awesome line is similar to one in the book "how to win Friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie
      "You cannot make much friends in a months by making people get intrested in you than you can make in two weeks by genuinely getting intrested in other people" ☺️

    • @lauragraves4342
      @lauragraves4342 Před 4 lety +8

      Reminds me of Tyrion Lannister always trying to figure out what people want.

    • @Akagami753
      @Akagami753 Před 4 lety +6

      @@lauragraves4342 Tyrion...yeah unlike any other Lannister did make a lot of efforts to bring out change for people 🤔👍🏻

    • @tictoc5443
      @tictoc5443 Před 4 lety

      What is wanted is not always needed

    • @siinxx7656
      @siinxx7656 Před 4 lety +3

      Not at all. This is exactly what we do in big sales marketing strategies since 1960.

  • @aleng7030
    @aleng7030 Před 4 lety +990

    " In business as in life, you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate." - Chester L. Karrass

    • @ryanhughes1101
      @ryanhughes1101 Před 4 lety +8

      If what you get in life is what you negotiate then you get what you deserve. So he just added an extra step.

    • @eileennovak1656
      @eileennovak1656 Před 4 lety +1

      Oh, you are lucky to grasp an important lesson which I didn't learn until I read a

    • @TeslaRifle
      @TeslaRifle Před 3 lety +2

      Unless your name is Murray Franklin, then you get what you deserve.

    • @thomasgolden1081
      @thomasgolden1081 Před 3 lety +1

      Generally this applies to self and financial development. You don't get what you deserve you get what you work towards. I applied this to my finance, started investing now I'm getting the good things I deserve!

    • @lakabelty7536
      @lakabelty7536 Před 3 lety

      @@thomasgolden1081 adopting the habit of saving and investing can change not just your life, but the life your closest relatives forever. You don't talk about an improved life without including Finance.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n Před 4 lety +180

    *Abundance is the greatest fundament of negotiation* - if you don't need things, their value drops - making you ruthless with your tactics

    • @donuttt2636
      @donuttt2636 Před 4 lety +6

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me you won’t believe how many times I’ve seen you on the comment section

    • @jonathanbowen3640
      @jonathanbowen3640 Před 4 lety +7

      @@donuttt2636
      He pisses me off. Here is a sample of a few channels he spams. )I used to have a list of hundereds and even they didnt cover it all. He comments hundreds of times in a day, never responds)
      Charisma on Command ,
      rsd julianhimself ,
      brainydose,
      Andrew Kirby,
      russell brand
      Tom Bilyeu,
      Thomas Frank
      Graham Stephan,
      grant cardone,
      cnbc meets..
      alux
      The better men project
      Coach Red Pill,
      Alexander Grace,
      Pysch2go
      Jocko Podcast
      Dan Lok
      The dude is a looser his comments are utter garbage. He never watches the videos he just comment on what thinks is in them judging by the title.. He needs banning

    • @jonathanbowen3640
      @jonathanbowen3640 Před 4 lety +3

      Not realy. The greatest fundamental to negotiation is empathy. You have a dated view of negotiation and how to actually make a great long term deal. Try reading some books on the subject, or even better making some deals, taking on employees etc. See how far your "ruthlessness" gets you... Spaz.

    • @illuminated2438
      @illuminated2438 Před 2 lety

      Spam

  • @Tearakan
    @Tearakan Před 4 lety +47

    It's pretty easy to negotiate from a position of strength. Asking what they want helps but having the ability to not even need to negotiate gives you an insane amount of power.

    • @vasumaru242
      @vasumaru242 Před 4 lety

      you can see bobby doesn't negotiate often. He gets what he wants

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache Před 4 lety +16

    Bobby is very intelligent, he knows body language and how people act overall. A perceptive and smart man.

  • @WilliamJonesChess
    @WilliamJonesChess Před 4 lety +8

    Key points for me
    When others are sitting, you stand. When others are standing, you sit, body wide over the couch to show u are in charge.
    To be on the same team, sit next to them, at eye level, and talk.

  • @TheKrou
    @TheKrou Před 4 lety +115

    Growing up poor and returning to poverty several times was the best thing that happened for my negotiating skills. I've traded everything I've owned for knowledge several times now, and doing that again doesn't scare me anymore. If anyone ever tries to give me a short timeframe for a deal, I refuse on principle even if the deal actually matches the bar I set for myself in my head before walking into it. I work with you, not for you.

  • @henrikraymond5235
    @henrikraymond5235 Před 2 lety +75

    The wisest thing that should be on everyone's mind currently should be. To invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on government, especially with the current especially with the current economic crises around the world.

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      @binagital5665 Před 2 lety +3

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      @lindalily6924 Před 2 lety +4

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      @jasonthomas269 Před 2 lety +2

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      @abscottcoleman400 Před 2 lety +3

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      @katlinmicheal8121 Před 2 lety +6

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  • @Trentkozman
    @Trentkozman Před 2 lety +40

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      @hawahawa8227 Před 2 lety

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      @shaneavalanche1936 Před 2 lety

      Having monitored my portfolio performance which has made a jaw dropping $370k from just the past two quarters alone, I have learned why experienced traders make enormous returns from the seemingly unknown market.

    • @benjamingrant6830
      @benjamingrant6830 Před 2 lety

      I’ve got some savings in my bank and I’ll get something started with it. You seem to be doing excellent for yourself, how do you achieve this?

    • @Trentkozman
      @Trentkozman Před 2 lety

      @@benjamingrant6830 Exactly the mindset is to diversify your investment, don't panic when everyone else is and invest consistently.

    • @troynitka5533
      @troynitka5533 Před 2 lety

      @Jeffrey Harmon ✪ Amazing Dude I have to emphasis on this, Do you trade on your own?

  • @davidl.e5203
    @davidl.e5203 Před 4 lety +475

    Most of them are good tips that many people still use during negotiations. However, don't expect them to always work favorably. This analysis is done on a FICTIONAL character. Any fictional character can succeed if that's what the author wants, regardless of what he does.
    Real life and fiction is very different. This analysis is about as good as learning how to date girls from watching Korean dramas.

    • @antonsichkar5625
      @antonsichkar5625 Před 4 lety +29

      Exactly this is totally useless - their premise is: this fictional character used those tactics in the movie; therefore they should be successful and applicable to real life. But that's simply not true. No one would think of using a fighting techniques they see in a movie in real life and not get killed in a robbery, etc.
      Overall: a pretty useless video..

    • @Nadzap
      @Nadzap Před 4 lety +38

      @@antonsichkar5625 Not useless at all. The writers of this show pay lots of attention to detail to body language. Sure, its not all entirely realistic, but if you watch the series you can see through the way Axe carries himself, sets his eyes, and talks that the writers have carefully designed his character's body language to be synonymous with his success. I see your point, but there is more to Billions than just fiction.

    • @hereliesvic8441
      @hereliesvic8441 Před 4 lety +6

      I understand what you mean but I think it’s more of a comparison/example to help understand the skills rather than an analysis :)

    • @valdezlavi
      @valdezlavi Před 4 lety +5

      @purplepaintpot You are so on point! Sure it may be fiction but it helps us get diverse viewpoints on life, people our society and all.

    • @nhlanhlazondo9961
      @nhlanhlazondo9961 Před 4 lety

      This comment made stop reading this like immediately

  • @profitmuhammad7575
    @profitmuhammad7575 Před 4 lety +232

    0:52 "how is axe so confident he could chop 2/3 of his initial offer and still gets what he wants ?"
    Maybe because it's a TV show and not real life 😂

    • @vasumaru242
      @vasumaru242 Před 4 lety +30

      the family was desperate of this money and no one else was giving them offer so it made sense to just take the cut and deposit 9M

    • @keysersoze5032
      @keysersoze5032 Před 3 lety +1

      @@vasumaru242 they woulddn't

    • @kennaflores5169
      @kennaflores5169 Před 3 lety +12

      The family was used to riches and on the verge of bankruptcy, like he pointed out. He wanted his name on a building and $9 mill is still $9 million. They had no leverage. He didn’t need his name on the building, they needed the money.

    • @papo1515
      @papo1515 Před 3 lety

      Also, it's assuming that everyone else is a pushover.....not everyone is in a position of need, Don't Underestimate.

    • @wayando
      @wayando Před 3 lety +8

      I take you have never been desparate, and met a person across the table who knew before hand? ... Its a terrible position to be in! ... You will be insulted, and you will sit, take it, and say "thank you".
      The scenerio is definitely plausible and believable ...

  • @michealdouglas8206
    @michealdouglas8206 Před 3 lety +141

    Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.

    • @christophercook7170
      @christophercook7170 Před 3 lety

      Yeah! I agree with you sir.

    • @christophercook7170
      @christophercook7170 Před 3 lety +1

      If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.

    • @davidmike6847
      @davidmike6847 Před 3 lety +1

      @@christophercook7170 People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.

    • @gabrielanthony9995
      @gabrielanthony9995 Před 3 lety

      @@davidmike6847 That's very correct sir!!
      And that is why most of them end up losing they money to scammers.

    • @gabrielanthony9995
      @gabrielanthony9995 Před 3 lety

      Don't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before investing.

  • @wrwisnotavailable
    @wrwisnotavailable Před 3 lety +13

    I read Never Split The Difference and it's absolutely amazing. The other book I would recommend is a classic - How to Make Friends and Influence People, which is about negotiations both in business and in every day life, making the most of the situation by creating Win-Win situations for both parties

  • @golamtahmid1288
    @golamtahmid1288 Před 4 lety +31

    For learning negotiations you can listen to Chris Voss and read his book ‘Never split the difference ‘

  • @machalagreen386
    @machalagreen386 Před 3 lety +25

    The internet has created more impact in our life, financially, socially and otherwise, for the betterment of our lives.

    • @machalagreen386
      @machalagreen386 Před 3 lety +2

      The Bitcoin market is home to endless financial opportunities, if you are not focused you will get sucked in crowd thinking, but thanks to expert Mrs Tessy for is contribution in the crypto space without her a lot of us will be lost in a day trading.

    • @michealcliff4994
      @michealcliff4994 Před 3 lety +3

      Bitcoin is fast rising and if you are lucky to have a good broker, then i believe you have absolutely nothing to worry about because you are in for a financial upliftment.

    • @angelascott2490
      @angelascott2490 Před 3 lety

      @@michealcliff4994 You are right my friend, a lot of people are ignorant to understand that Bitcoin is the future, in fact, i think is one of the best thing that has ever happened to our generation.

    • @angelascott2490
      @angelascott2490 Před 3 lety

      Bitcoin is rising like wide fire 🔥

    • @larryjay3677
      @larryjay3677 Před 3 lety

      Trading has not been going well with me, I have invested a lot of time and failed, I trade on my own but each time i keep losing money.

  • @jacobjohnson3144
    @jacobjohnson3144 Před 4 lety +9

    About time! I was hoping you guys would cover this show, easily the best show that lays out powerplay and frame control. Bobby is such a monster 👽

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all Před 4 lety +19

    The key to excellent Negotiation is Excellent preparation. In life we do not really get what we deserve, we get what we negotiate for. We lose when we accept compromises 🖖

  • @SamBrickell
    @SamBrickell Před 3 lety +2

    *I always climb on people's shoulders "piggy-back" style before I begin negotiations. Not only am I naturally looming over them during that position, but it also reminds them that we are a team and we're going to the same place.*

  • @melitariver5999
    @melitariver5999 Před 3 lety +42

    The long term are doing well while the short term trade requires precision in its execution but gosh, they do amazing when you're on the right side

    • @giegasopa4477
      @giegasopa4477 Před 3 lety

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      @ritaloveth2128 Před 3 lety

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      @enilitagiray3841 Před 3 lety

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      @hellenmaryann8485 Před 3 lety

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      @michaeljarvis5051 Před 3 lety

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  • @victoriamellor2189
    @victoriamellor2189 Před 3 lety +128

    The only place where success comes before work is in the dictionary

    • @victoriamellor2189
      @victoriamellor2189 Před 3 lety +2

      Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down

    • @franklinbradley886
      @franklinbradley886 Před 3 lety

      A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that other throw at him."

    • @marywills5744
      @marywills5744 Před 3 lety

      Some people dream of success while others wake up and work

    • @samanthaharwood8167
      @samanthaharwood8167 Před 3 lety

      @@marywills5744 Success isn't just about what you accomplish in your life; it's about what you inspire others to do

    • @dulcerocio4763
      @dulcerocio4763 Před 3 lety

      @@samanthaharwood8167 Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don't quit

  • @cassconner6023
    @cassconner6023 Před 2 lety +4

    I appreciate the Audible offer, very kind, but an addition of an Amazon gift card would go far in cementing our long term relationship. $50 would work for me. 😀

  • @cococha
    @cococha Před 4 lety +92

    this might be a movie but some movies can play out well in reality. You don't have to implement it thesame way, just learn the tactic and implement it your own way.

  • @mkb3nigma
    @mkb3nigma Před 4 lety +23

    This is great!
    Can you do an expert breakdown of the character Raymond Reddington from The Blacklist? I am positive a lot of your regular viewers would appreciate your take on his calm demeanour.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 Před 3 lety +3

    I have found that the more calm you are ..the angrier the other person will become...if they lose their temper, you win.

  • @subscribersnovideo-xj5ic
    @subscribersnovideo-xj5ic Před 4 lety +219

    The virgin chuck vs the chad Bobby

    • @saahkh32
      @saahkh32 Před 4 lety +14

      Beta vs Alpha in every sense.

    • @vanniroa7522
      @vanniroa7522 Před 4 lety +4

      Unrelated to the point but didn’t chuck lose his virginity when he turned 13...with his dad watching💀

    • @stanbeyani5089
      @stanbeyani5089 Před 4 lety +7

      @@saahkh32 Isn't Chuck a leader? And he always steps up when it matters to salvage his life or nail his foes..

    • @tajamulkhan75
      @tajamulkhan75 Před 4 lety

      @@stanbeyani5089 he is but these aholes think US attorney is the one who gets summoned by a billionaire in court nd get messed with however it's always the other way round lmao

    • @rahulthukaram
      @rahulthukaram Před 4 lety

      @@vanniroa7522 his uncle watching* his dad asked his uncle to take him there

  • @matrixdropout3077
    @matrixdropout3077 Před 3 lety +1

    Bobby is an AWESOME character; great-looking, intelligent antihero. Can't trust a word he says...totally ruthless. No real morals. So fun to watch.

    • @tcfs
      @tcfs Před 3 lety

      My hero...

  • @chinaware_456
    @chinaware_456 Před 2 lety +1

    I think one of the reason bobby is very effective in negotiations is because of the obvious reason that he have money to burn, he has great leverage and he can afford to lose. Though I agree that you need to research and find out what the other party needs

  • @TheFrenchGrunt
    @TheFrenchGrunt Před 4 lety +113

    Looks like Major Winters is doing quite well after he took that job in New Jersey...

    • @zakariaibrahim6781
      @zakariaibrahim6781 Před 4 lety +14

      band of brothers ahh what an awesome series

    • @r.coleman1596
      @r.coleman1596 Před 4 lety +8

      I had to search for this comment longer than I expected

    • @Heathcz
      @Heathcz Před 4 lety +2

      and those youth genes man

    • @robertbowser1846
      @robertbowser1846 Před 4 lety +2

      Lol damn. Guess he really wasn’t a Quaker. 🤣

  • @ahmadawawdi5010
    @ahmadawawdi5010 Před 3 lety +72

    How to negotiate like a billionaire
    Step 1 : be a billionaire

  • @austeritycat2577
    @austeritycat2577 Před 4 lety +1

    it's like John Nash used to say on that Ron Howard movie: You make what's better for yourself AND THE GROUP.

  • @abrohamproductions8263
    @abrohamproductions8263 Před 4 lety +10

    Thanks for all the good content!
    Can you please make a video of how to regain composure after worrying about something? I've been struggling a lot with this lately, as I'm sure a ton of other people are due to the current events. I'd really really really appreciate that, especially since the advice you guys give hasn't failed me much before!

    • @NuelArts
      @NuelArts Před 2 lety

      "Guide your heart with all diligence, out of it comes the issues of life" Try and control your thoughts by thinking positive of all situations. Your mind is the most powerful tool you have, which people undervalue and overlook because they didn't pay for it.

  • @sarav1684
    @sarav1684 Před 4 lety +25

    how was this in my recommended a minute after release

    • @finndesio9252
      @finndesio9252 Před 4 lety +2

      Same

    • @Lucy-ng7cw
      @Lucy-ng7cw Před 4 lety +2

      sara v if you watch a channel often the videos turn up in recommend straight away. Happens all the time to me. As soon as there is a new video it’s in the first box in the top left of my recommended.

  • @sergevinogradoff6024
    @sergevinogradoff6024 Před 3 lety +3

    I once worked with someone who changed deals every 3 days. Eventually, I realized he's too unstable to run business with, and I left. He was a great salesman, but a terrible business partner. A clear case of "short term wins that don't matter much in a longrun"

  • @AdolfAuschwitz79
    @AdolfAuschwitz79 Před 4 lety

    The "regreting taking a bad deal" or losing a possible good deal are both things i do often (especially the taking a bad deal, usually of my own doing because i am trying to make world happy before understanding what i want and truly need from agreed arrangement).

  • @jessealvarez779
    @jessealvarez779 Před 4 lety +1

    I've never heard of this show with Damian Lewis, but he comes across to me as Al Pacino did playing Michael Corleone when he stepped up and took over the family.

    • @stanbeyani5089
      @stanbeyani5089 Před 4 lety

      You must check it out, it's a mind blowing masterpiece. Just got done binge watching the fourth season..

  • @sophiawilliam4641
    @sophiawilliam4641 Před 3 lety +9

    Poor people think about what they can buy with there money, Rich people think about what they can invest in with there money 💰💰💰

    • @edwardanthony4542
      @edwardanthony4542 Před 3 lety

      The rich stay rich by investing and investing without stopping then the poor stay poor by spending like the rich but yet not investing like the rich.

    • @muniraaban5960
      @muniraaban5960 Před 3 lety

      Investing is a stepping stone to success, Investing is what create wealth.

    • @maxwelljonah4359
      @maxwelljonah4359 Před 3 lety

      Recently, I invested in both stock and crypto but currently I believe crypto is doing more better!!

    • @isabellamia3051
      @isabellamia3051 Před 3 lety

      The best thing to do in this period is to invest in silver and crypto.✌️✌️

    • @donaldjames890
      @donaldjames890 Před 3 lety

      Laura Michelle, My friends trade with her, I heard her strategies are really good.

  • @jayjayx5x1
    @jayjayx5x1 Před 4 lety +21

    Be willing to walk away from the table.... or as Prof Peterson would say, “If you can’t tell someone to go to hell, then you can’t negotiate with them.”

    • @jasonporter5912
      @jasonporter5912 Před 3 lety

      glad I'm not the only one who immediately thought of this

  • @Ronak983
    @Ronak983 Před 10 měsíci

    Loved how deep your research is, it seems like you are a fan & know that Taylor prefers they/them as compared to she/her

  • @roshankumarrauniyar1476

    Making people to accept your offer becomes quite handy while you are standing while the other party is sitting. I myself have experienced it's power.

  • @wiktorweremczuk6762
    @wiktorweremczuk6762 Před 4 lety +72

    I remember your voice a bit differently... ;-)

    • @helgard36
      @helgard36 Před 4 lety +6

      Puberty is a weird and exciting thing!

    • @DripEmpError
      @DripEmpError Před 4 lety +5

      Ben

    • @captainmcduckyYT
      @captainmcduckyYT Před 4 lety

      They probably hired a marrator

    • @shootatsquare
      @shootatsquare Před 4 lety +4

      @@captainmcduckyYT he's the co-owner the channel, and he's actually an awesome dude too

    • @helgard36
      @helgard36 Před 4 lety +1

      @@shootatsquare pretty sure it's just Charlie but with his balls finally dropped

  • @declanthompson7609
    @declanthompson7609 Před 3 lety +32

    Starting early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth, investing remains a priority. The stock market has plenty of opportunities to earn a decent payouts, with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works

    • @jacetaylor9200
      @jacetaylor9200 Před 3 lety

      The zenith of investment platforms deals mainly with Bitcoin and forex trading.. investing wisely

    • @glenkodra7809
      @glenkodra7809 Před 3 lety

      @@jacetaylor9200 I agree with you

    • @user-qd2rv8pr9k
      @user-qd2rv8pr9k Před 3 lety

      I Have been trading offshore, I’m yet to make my first 1,000USD... any recommendable expert to trade with?

    • @megihoxha7637
      @megihoxha7637 Před 3 lety

      @@user-qd2rv8pr9k get an expert to trade with, giving you the required mentorship for a successful profit outcome... piss of advice

    • @megihoxha7637
      @megihoxha7637 Před 3 lety

      But I learnt the hard way. Blowing over $5,000acct side trading with no mentor or expert

  • @Jo0pishere
    @Jo0pishere Před 4 lety +2

    Great subject. These videos have helped me realize how charismatic I am naturally but I was lacking how to speak and reading body language which is huge. Thank you for the wonderful channel.

  • @HowellConsultations
    @HowellConsultations Před 4 lety +5

    If you are reading this, may you attract everything you’ve been patiently waiting for & be passionate to pursue it whole-heartedly. It will naturally flow into your life when you are ready to receive it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey 🙏

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr Před 4 lety +3

    Great video!

  • @PowerMatrixAnime
    @PowerMatrixAnime Před 4 lety +1

    Using scarcity too much can be seen as very manipulative and harm more than help, no one wants to deal with arrogant ticking bomb. Scarcity is useful with combined with other elements.

  • @rajanidubey3371
    @rajanidubey3371 Před 4 lety +1

    I really want to read your book "Charisma on Command" I'm from India. Can you please tell from where can I get it online? It's not available on Amazon. I've read a few pages of it and it's an amazing book. Please help me to get the full book

  • @venaissance-indiemindsonly9799

    To the 3% of you reading this, I hope you’re using this “extra” time you now have to rethink and redesign your life. And, please, remember: You DON’T actually have to Believe to Achieve.

    • @lilguava70
      @lilguava70 Před 4 lety +1

      This means a lot, thankyou.

    • @dynestis2875
      @dynestis2875 Před 4 lety +2

      Spending a lot of time reading up on psychology and philosophy before my new study starts in September

    • @helgard36
      @helgard36 Před 4 lety +2

      Mind clarifying the don't have to believe to achieve bit? I'm stuck

    • @venaissance-indiemindsonly9799
      @venaissance-indiemindsonly9799 Před 4 lety

      @@lilguava70 You're welcome. There's an entire video about that on my channel. Check it out.

  • @cherubin7th
    @cherubin7th Před 4 lety +3

    How do you "steal" this mindset? Does he lose it when you adopt it?

  • @finleylewis3720
    @finleylewis3720 Před 4 lety +1

    I've got to say, you have an incredibly good understanding on all this Max Weber, psychoanalytic stuff. Also, you are an amazing teacher. HOWEVER, you don't have a Dutch Van Der Linde charisma deconstruction. I had just finished RDR2, and wanted to know why he is so charming, calm and persuasive. While at the same time, all I want to do is shoot him. After looking through your videos, it seems as though you haven't done any video game character breakdowns.
    Suggestions:
    Josea VS Dutch
    Arthur VS Micah
    Trelawny VS Sean

  • @vitorhugocg9748
    @vitorhugocg9748 Před 3 lety

    @ - #1: Nail down what people need before negotiating.
    @ - #2: He will use his body language to manipulate other people's emotions (don't do this in your own life).
    @ - #3: He uses an exploding offer to create panic in the other person (don't do this in your own life).
    @ - #4: Always be willing to walk away from the table.
    @ - #5: Point.

  • @amg2u
    @amg2u Před 4 lety +7

    Loved Billions, all about purely transactional relationships. Thanks for the analyses, made me consider being more intentional around listening for it in the other side of my interactions, as well as how to use it more, but crikey, without getting soooooo obsessed like Bobby!

  • @joelriofrio
    @joelriofrio Před 4 lety +3

    You got me by recommending “never split the difference “ 🙌🏽🙌🏽 great book indeed and great job in this video.

  • @pivotal-ai
    @pivotal-ai Před 4 lety

    Find out what the other wants before negotiating and then address their desires.
    This is basic understanding what the customer needs. Start with the customer, start with the feeling. Find the customer, then determine how to get the product.

  • @caseykirchner
    @caseykirchner Před 4 lety +2

    You're doing great, Ben!!!

  • @SiggEye
    @SiggEye Před 4 lety +11

    I've never heard about this dude before. At first I thought it was a real person

  • @WooXZerah
    @WooXZerah Před 4 lety +20

    I was waiting a long time for this.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku Před 4 lety

      I have a big... BIG... BIIIIGGGGG... muscles!!! HAHAHA!!! What did you think I was going for? That's so DIRTY of you! GAGAGAGA!!! I am the funniest CZcamsr ever! Maybe that's the reason why I have TWO (!!!) HOT (!) GIRLFRIENDS. Thanks for being alive, dear woox

  • @willbaskin700
    @willbaskin700 Před 4 lety +1

    Just downloaded the book great vid once again

  • @7shelties
    @7shelties Před 4 lety

    I wish you would do an analysis of Timothy Olyphant. That guy is so smooth and charismatic in interviews.

  • @mvrts
    @mvrts Před 4 lety +103

    It's a fictional character, every word and outcome is scripted.

    • @Officialpunchy
      @Officialpunchy Před 4 lety +35

      Yes, but these strategies are solid in real life. I've experienced a couple of these in life already.

    • @mvrts
      @mvrts Před 4 lety +25

      Punchy Ah yes im sure you’ve traded millions of dollars on Counter Strike

    • @QarthCEO
      @QarthCEO Před 4 lety +32

      @@Officialpunchy No. No one in professional business actually acts like this. Maybe the guy trying to sell you a used car does, but nowhere else. This is a TV show, so it has to be over the top to be entertaining. But most business negotiations are not even done face to face, much less in an adversarial fashion like in this show.

    • @dariusd2003
      @dariusd2003 Před 4 lety +6

      That's my biggest takeaway. I thought this was Chris Voss or some other real world negotiator. This is for entertainment. It's like people watching The Apprentice and thinking that's hoe interns or bosses should act.

    • @bullymaguire2061
      @bullymaguire2061 Před 4 lety +10

      Fiction is inspired by reality at times.

  • @Knowledge_Nuggies
    @Knowledge_Nuggies Před 4 lety +75

    Next video: "You cannot spell W-A-G-S without S-W-A-G"

    • @handzmagic
      @handzmagic Před 4 lety +2

      Are YoU the REAL Jordan Belfort!?

  • @musicmylife5500
    @musicmylife5500 Před 3 lety

    Bobby Axelrod: "When I pull a deal off the table, I leave Nagasaki behind." 🔥🔥🔥

  • @lukamg7368
    @lukamg7368 Před rokem

    at 6:16 Chuck wasn't trying to use the pressure to force Bobby out of trading because he thought Bobby's cornered, he knew Bobby would never agree to give up trading so he manipulated him into NOT taking the settlement deal to hit him with a bigger shot eventually. So yeah, Bobby walking away from the table was actually Chuck's plan

  • @PowerMatrixAnime
    @PowerMatrixAnime Před 4 lety +4

    Almost no one asks others what they want or even attempts to figure it out. Littlfinger used to do it all the time.

  • @Akagami753
    @Akagami753 Před 4 lety +7

    Hello sir, I'm a very big follower or say fan of your teachings...i have a request to make
    Can you in near future make a video on Benedict Cumberbatch? It'd be really good

  • @rockingronda3022
    @rockingronda3022 Před 3 lety +1

    Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

  • @lahirumadhusanka7935
    @lahirumadhusanka7935 Před 4 lety +1

    Very valuable knowledge
    Thank you

  • @luisterrust
    @luisterrust Před 4 lety +3

    Awesome video! Love the breakdown! 💪🏼❤️🌟🔥

  • @captaindusk8097
    @captaindusk8097 Před 4 lety +3

    I might need to watch this later
    Remind me some months later

  • @Davidesonar449
    @Davidesonar449 Před 4 lety +2

    Can you make a video about red reddington from the blacklist? Perhaps something about his authority

  • @PhilaurusRex
    @PhilaurusRex Před 4 lety +1

    Glad to hear more Ben in the videos

  • @smtabatabaie
    @smtabatabaie Před 4 lety +3

    Learning negotiation via TV shows is like learning martial arts from Bruce Lee movies.

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k Před 4 lety +3

    LOL. I love this show. Surprised it took him so long to do a video on Bobby.

  • @andrewtate6746
    @andrewtate6746 Před 4 lety +1

    Very good negotiation skills

  • @ilyaslabraiki9967
    @ilyaslabraiki9967 Před 4 lety +1

    How is there no charisma breakdown for Raymond Red Reddington ? (The Blacklist)

  • @i9incher
    @i9incher Před 4 lety +81

    Step 1, have a billion dollars.
    There is no step 2.

  • @spacejesusadventure
    @spacejesusadventure Před 4 lety +11

    HOW TO NEGOTIATE LIKE THIS FICTIONAL CHARACTER IN A TV SHOW WHERE THE WRITERS DECIDE HOW PEOPLE REACT TO HIM

  • @Maringer86
    @Maringer86 Před 3 lety

    Axelrod reminds me a little bit of David Xanatos from the cartoon series Gargoyles. And when you talk about making more options for yourself, before making a negotiations, it reminds me of the Xanatos Gambit. Show my question is, is it possible for you to, make a video of how to use xanatos gambit into are day to day lives? From your own opinion and experience of course.

  • @patrickkubinec7026
    @patrickkubinec7026 Před 6 měsíci

    Pretty sure that being a war hero passing through Ardennes leading the paratroopers helps you to stand your ground and convince people to do whatever you want

  • @carlosaraujo59
    @carlosaraujo59 Před 4 lety +3

    Please do more content on Bobby his character is definitely complex as well as Wendy

  • @spicelord4688
    @spicelord4688 Před 4 lety +9

    Can you do Jordan Belford from the wolf of Wall Street? :)

  • @rohanjarande
    @rohanjarande Před 4 lety

    Thanks for recommending that book man... Just started reading it, and I'm loving it already.

  • @meganb3839
    @meganb3839 Před 3 lety

    I studied negotiation in uni and one of the point, take it or leave it, is not a good point. It’s in fact one of the most avoided strategy in negotiation. The take it or leave it should only be used when you have evaluated your BATNA (best alternative negotiated agreement) and know that you can walk away safely because you have a backup plan with other negotiator. Conversely, making negotiation longer and bringing in more issues into the negotiation table is better.

  • @gaurab_kumar
    @gaurab_kumar Před 4 lety +11

    Title: How To Negotiate Like A Billionaire
    Indian mom: let me introduce myself

  • @jtkwndnff3505
    @jtkwndnff3505 Před 4 lety +3

    Sterling Archer charisma breakdown please!

  • @vasanthapriyarajkumar9721

    That's an awesome video! We'd like a video on the charisma of Miranda Priestly character in The Devil Wears Prada.

  • @sappenfelder
    @sappenfelder Před 2 lety

    Chris Voss is awesome. I highly recommend his book

  • @najrenchelf2751
    @najrenchelf2751 Před 4 lety +4

    Have I just missed Ben’s videos or did he take a break from recording at some point...?
    Glad to hear him again.

  • @alex9x9
    @alex9x9 Před 4 lety +12

    I've never seen the show but this actor seems to have taken a lot of inspiration in his facial expressions and speech cadence from Donald Trump. Which is quite fitting for this character.

    • @williamtheconqueror7807
      @williamtheconqueror7807 Před 4 lety

      I still can't believe Major Winters would be this successful after the war. I wonder what gifts he gives to his boys of the 101st Airborne?

  • @daraghmorrissey
    @daraghmorrissey Před 3 lety

    a classic sales tactic is to create a compelling event. See it with car salesmen all the time - once you see through it - you can disarm it by walking away.

  • @thewhitewolf58
    @thewhitewolf58 Před 4 lety +1

    Name of the show

  • @RHasan-yy1fb
    @RHasan-yy1fb Před 4 lety +5

    I am watching band of brothers right now

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr Před 4 lety +41

    But he is a fictional character. Everything is scripted including the responses and reactions

    • @aryankumar87771
      @aryankumar87771 Před 4 lety +3

      thas what i thought dude like wt heck

    • @TheDavidlloydjones
      @TheDavidlloydjones Před 4 lety +2

      So?

    • @MichaelDennis1234
      @MichaelDennis1234 Před 4 lety +4

      Next on Charisma on Command: How To Do Interdimensional Travel (Rick Sanchez)

    • @abrohamproductions8263
      @abrohamproductions8263 Před 4 lety +12

      Taking stuff from Fictional Characters works pretty well. I learned a lot of stuff from Barney Stintson (in terms of confidence, humor, enthusiasm, not in terms of disrespect) and I had a lot of fun with a lot of women when I was in highschool and a few years after until I decided to focus on a strong career more.

    • @TheDavidlloydjones
      @TheDavidlloydjones Před 4 lety +1

      @@abrohamproductions8263
      'Bout right. Simple dramatization is a way of simply dramatizing. Duh.
      The points the guy makes are pretty pedestrian but reasonably ball-park plausible.

  • @angekfire
    @angekfire Před 4 lety

    Point 1 is to do the research and know what they want, but shows the guy walking in and removing 2/3rds of the amount originally offered, changing the deal at the last second.
    But then point 4 says to be willing to walk away from the table, and that changing the terms at the last second is a huge red flag.
    Both are absolutely valid points, and being confident enough to walk away from a deal you aren't happy with is great advice. Just seems that the person this is being modeled after tries to play both sides of that, which is a pretty shady tactic when you believe you're justified in doing it yourself, but it's unacceptable for others. Kind of just that the examples shown contradict each other, because the first just shows that this person is clearly a bad person to negotiate with.

  • @prathmeshchandwale1506

    When I saw Daniel Hardman from suits, it was a surprise reminding me to go back watch suits

  • @cgarciahfcu
    @cgarciahfcu Před 4 lety +3

    I'm confused. He's a billionaire...but you're telling me I shouldn't use his tactics...because they only work in the short run. So then how do I become a billionaire??

    • @zulpique
      @zulpique Před 4 lety

      He got other skills

    • @LunaticTheCat
      @LunaticTheCat Před 2 lety

      You won't become a billionaire...

    • @LunaticTheCat
      @LunaticTheCat Před 2 lety

      @@zulpique He's good at exploiting the labor of others. All that value doesn't create itself, it's created through the grueling labor of thousands upon thousands of people.

  • @JJunkAFunk
    @JJunkAFunk Před 4 lety +32

    If you’re shorter than a person, look at their forehead. It does the similar as if you’re taller.

    • @manuelbyrne
      @manuelbyrne Před 4 lety

      that's an interesting technique.. where did you learn/read that? I'd like to know more about this and how it works psychologically

    • @justinpowell3174
      @justinpowell3174 Před 4 lety +9

      This doesn't work. If you're staring at my forehead, I assume you're scared, because you won't make eye-contact. You're just giving me more power

    • @vasumaru242
      @vasumaru242 Před 4 lety

      @@justinpowell3174 best method is to have good posture, strong tone and stare directly into eyes

  • @CademanLillywhite
    @CademanLillywhite Před 2 lety

    This is an amazing video, thanks!

  • @siddhantrawat9330
    @siddhantrawat9330 Před 3 lety

    0:05 Good Investor !!!!!
    Buddy, he is a trader, not an Investor

  • @VeritasEtAequitas
    @VeritasEtAequitas Před 4 lety +4

    These are a few sometimes-useful tactics. Unfortunately, it's based on fiction. I was hoping for something more solid.