ANDY (Transgender Short Film)

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  • čas přidán 19. 12. 2018
  • "A trans boy struggles with dysphoria and anxiety as he contemplates a night out with friends."
    STUDENT SHORT FILM.
    Oliver Charles as Andy
    Directed by Maxon Smith
    Cinematography by Christopher Peters
    Edited by Regan Anderson.
    Special thanks to SAE Creative Media Institute.
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Komentáře • 194

  • @basicskellie
    @basicskellie Před 4 lety +1067

    finally, a trans short film where the main guy is wearing an actual binder instead of ace or tape. thank you for portraying this in a healthy light

    • @Sjsjse
      @Sjsjse Před 2 lety

      Also this movie has a guy with binder czcams.com/video/HV70A6y--mo/video.html

  • @roscurro
    @roscurro Před 4 lety +624

    I was at the grocery store with my mom, and the cashier handed her the scanner so she could scan the water. My mom has some back problems, so I went to take it from her and the cashier said, "Yeah, you should let him scan the water for you."
    I pass really well (thank god), and everybody I talk to usually calls me he/him, but the problem is being around my mom (who I am not out to) means she'll stand there for hours arguing and saying, "HER. HER. IT'S A HER."
    ahah-- i was so embarrassed--

    • @lewis2916
      @lewis2916 Před 4 lety +56

      -ˋˏ Uertigo ˎˊ- Recently I was out with my friend ( I’m out to her ) and she was talking to a lady she knew and the lady turned to me and asked her “is this your brother?” It was literally the happiest moment of my life. First and only time I’ve ever knowingly passed. It’s the best feeling in the world lol. You should come out to your mom, I’m sure she’ll come around if she isn’t supportive now. Mine isn’t the most supportive but it still makes you feel a lot better.

    • @AuggieDinoz07
      @AuggieDinoz07 Před 4 lety +23

      -ˋˏ Uertigo ˎˊ- my mom does the same thing it upsets me when she corrects to she when it’s he but it’s okie then this guy called me he then looked at my chest (i don’t have a binder yet) and said ma’am sorry

    • @sethscarboro2682
      @sethscarboro2682 Před 4 lety +9

      I pass well too but when I look in the mirror I can only see a girl. :(

    • @hooligan7574
      @hooligan7574 Před 4 lety +21

      Dude when I'm trying so hard to pass and my mom is like, "this is my daughter" I'm like 😐

    • @roscurro
      @roscurro Před 4 lety +5

      (@@sethscarboro2682) i love u man

  • @mikepencestoes
    @mikepencestoes Před 3 lety +156

    “I’m just a very supportive ally” -me last year

    • @fenix6392
      @fenix6392 Před 3 lety +19

      I've seen like half of these films before. Back then I thought I was cis and straight. now I'm bi and trans. Signs were everywhere but I refused to see them

    • @ajidegallina9004
      @ajidegallina9004 Před 2 lety

      Same

    • @tominodrtina
      @tominodrtina Před 2 lety

      same.

    • @bellaxxi4116
      @bellaxxi4116 Před 2 lety

      @@fenix6392 me and you both. I had signs of gender dysphoria/ being trans for 19 years (still do) before I woke tf up.

    • @hornet7698
      @hornet7698 Před rokem

      @@fenix6392 now I’m a nb lesbian

  • @howl4708
    @howl4708 Před 3 lety +300

    I've been watching short films like this all night, litterly need to take a moment to cry after every one lmao

    • @sirenthemanokit9945
      @sirenthemanokit9945 Před 3 lety +22

      Have you seen the one with the military dad coming home to a daughter instead of a son it made me cry so much because I don’t have a supporting family it him me hard

    • @Ashiixz
      @Ashiixz Před 3 lety +3

      Lol same

    • @howl4708
      @howl4708 Před 3 lety +2

      @@sirenthemanokit9945 oh my god yes

    • @ilni9364
      @ilni9364 Před 3 lety +1

      Same I just love these

    • @spookyfrogxd6641
      @spookyfrogxd6641 Před 3 lety

      I DO THIS ALL THE TIME

  • @n.s.6984
    @n.s.6984 Před 3 lety +79

    The happiest moment i had in the last six months was when i went to get a pizza and the pizza guy asked for my name and then proceeded to say goodbye with "enjoy the pizza, young man."
    I'm outed since 2018 and my family is okay with it, except for my dad. But idk depression doesn't let me enjoy anything ever, even if it's not that bad.

  • @wonderland4515
    @wonderland4515 Před 3 lety +153

    I just recently started my transition (male to female) and it’s not an easy road but I’m so grateful for my friends who help me through a lot 💕 I feel really shitty sometimes but overall I’m happy I can finally be who I was meant to be ✨

    • @JosefinaLL
      @JosefinaLL Před 3 lety +11

      Wonderland you got this! don’t let the idiots get you down! they’re just looking for a reaction out of you ❤️

    • @cryptid_scrinkle
      @cryptid_scrinkle Před 3 lety +5

      Congrats! I hope you live your absolute best life, you deserve it!

    • @lemoncookiesryummy
      @lemoncookiesryummy Před 3 lety +1

      Great job!!! I'm glad you're happy ^^💕

    • @kimrooki
      @kimrooki Před 2 lety +1

      Proud of you!

    • @atticusoverton7401
      @atticusoverton7401 Před 2 lety +1

      congrats! keep being you, beautiful!🖤❗

  • @ElliotGien
    @ElliotGien Před 4 lety +380

    Omg I’m trans and my preferred name is Andy, I really hope I can pass this well at some point

    • @boo2169
      @boo2169 Před 4 lety +2

      snazzy andie same

    • @marmie4352
      @marmie4352 Před 4 lety +8

      hey, if that’s you in your profile picture, you pass pretty damn well my guy!! best of luck!

    • @ElliotGien
      @ElliotGien Před 4 lety +2

      歌うmarmie it is, tysm!!

    • @Ace-oy9ig
      @Ace-oy9ig Před 4 lety +2

      Same

    • @puhelinliittyma
      @puhelinliittyma Před 4 lety +5

      im trans, but i dont pass at all:\

  • @eli-xl9eh
    @eli-xl9eh Před 2 lety +27

    also a reminder to anyone who needs this, if you do happen to feel fine with how you look even if you feel like you might not pass, don't let anyone's confusion bother you, trust me. as long as you know who you are that's all that matters. be who you are, look how you want to look, never feel pressured into anything. its not their life, its yours.

  • @ticcitoby6056
    @ticcitoby6056 Před 4 lety +116

    When the video started and I first saw the person I thought would be a male to female then it showed the person with a binder on and I realized it's female to male

  • @DaffireAnt
    @DaffireAnt Před 3 lety +32

    I’ve always felt so out of place being trans. I still like makeup and dresses and having my nails done. I feel like I won’t be takin seriously about me being trans because I don’t dress “manly” or try to look masculine

    • @waytoobiased
      @waytoobiased Před 3 lety +12

      You’re fine! :)
      Gender expression /=/ gender. Dress how you want, and find people who respect your gender regardless of how you want to look.

    • @user-hw9fn9uv5c
      @user-hw9fn9uv5c Před 2 lety +4

      Feminine men do exist .The fact that being a feminine man is rarer does not invalidate the existance of it.

    • @SuperTrucker2019
      @SuperTrucker2019 Před 2 lety +6

      Dude, don't let stereotypes get you down. You think makeup and nail polish is 100 percent for women only??? C'mon, look at any goth band. You find plenty of dudes sporting makeup(usually dark)along with nail polish. So it's not about whether everyone else "buys it"---it's all about how you see yourself.

    • @tiramisushi4561
      @tiramisushi4561 Před rokem +3

      Don't worry, that is just stereotypes about gender, be like you want, just yourself, is the same for me, I'm not too feminine and in this moment I don't care, before yeah

  • @Jinxsubliminal3827
    @Jinxsubliminal3827 Před 4 lety +71

    Im trans FTM too 💙💗⚪️💗💙

  • @iamnierraa
    @iamnierraa Před 3 lety +47

    Andy's coming-
    Out of the closet 😊
    I'm sorry I had to 😂

  • @random.e.s.s6353
    @random.e.s.s6353 Před rokem +10

    Let's take a moment to appreciate how handsome this guy is :)

  • @joemamma6596
    @joemamma6596 Před 4 lety +57

    Okay but he’s cute omg

    • @saraelizabeth2760
      @saraelizabeth2760 Před 3 lety +11

      @unicorn girl williams its a him

    • @i_like_soup_
      @i_like_soup_ Před 3 lety +14

      @unicorn girl williams ummmm did you watch the video or? If you misunderstood, that’s ok, but this was a ftm main character in this film, that is a boy

    • @shaqnosis4100
      @shaqnosis4100 Před 2 lety +3

      @unicorn girl williams Lol go away he’s a guy

  • @alex4freee
    @alex4freee Před 4 lety +81

    In everyone trans Film someone is called Alex.😂👌🏻

    • @13gudadod
      @13gudadod Před 4 lety +21

      Every transguy is an alex deep inside🗿✊😂

    • @alyxhigginson1692
      @alyxhigginson1692 Před 4 lety +2

      I feel this

    • @Klenovyj
      @Klenovyj Před 4 lety +5

      Holy shit I'm ftm and my name is Alexander... I feel attacked 😔

    • @charliecooper5594
      @charliecooper5594 Před 4 lety +4

      im a trans guy! but my middle names alex instead lol, i took it from my brother who passed aha

    • @Elaias.11
      @Elaias.11 Před 4 lety +2

      Or Andy or Sam XD
      I'm tran and my name is Elaias , it means "Savior" actually 👀
      I've picked it

  • @owenstauble6370
    @owenstauble6370 Před 3 lety +14

    At first I was like “wait why is a cis guy playing a trans guy?” But then I realized

  • @lizziestired
    @lizziestired Před 3 lety +8

    I'm trans non binary
    And my mom called me by my chosen name for the first time today! There is still a long road a head of me but at least I know my mom soppurter me!

  • @optimist_introvertiert_nam7271

    I'm ftm.. 😮 ❤️

  • @andythesnowman3001
    @andythesnowman3001 Před 4 lety +16

    Having the name Andy is awful for me as a ftm because it is a gender neutral name and it sucks ass I wish I could change it to something else but now I’m just kinda stuck with it.

    • @aesop2269
      @aesop2269 Před 4 lety +2

      AndyTheSnowMan Aw, I feel sorry for u.I have a gender netrual name too so I feel you.
      (Also hi fellow mcr fan)

    • @kiyoshi9115
      @kiyoshi9115 Před 4 lety +2

      @@aesop2269 HAHAHAHA UR USER

    • @cas5422
      @cas5422 Před 4 lety

      Yeah. I feel that

  • @mylife-23
    @mylife-23 Před 4 lety +21

    I can't wait till I get my first binder 🙏

    • @noxiean
      @noxiean Před 3 lety +3

      same here

    • @fuckinnefor7639
      @fuckinnefor7639 Před 3 lety +2

      same ( ͒ ́ඉ .̫ ඉ ̀ ͒)

    • @ernesf
      @ernesf Před 3 lety +2

      Did you get one? :D
      It's been 10 months

    • @mylife-23
      @mylife-23 Před 3 lety

      @@ernesf I haven't been able because of living situations

    • @ernesf
      @ernesf Před 3 lety +2

      @@mylife-23
      oh...
      So I wish you luck ^^

  • @therealsouljaboy1858
    @therealsouljaboy1858 Před 4 lety +35

    Hey.. I need some advice. So I’m a female. Well u was born that way. I’m 13 now and my gender has become unclear to me. I thought I was non-binary, then ftm, then non-binary again. But I’m so confused. I might be gender fluid considering the fact I’m okay with all pronouns right now and am struggling fitting any stereotypes of male or female. Idk I really just don’t know. Another thing that is corresponding to this confusion is that I’ve been really insecure about my face and my body. Although I assume that’s just puberty and normal stuff, I will imagine myself with a flatter chest, a more defined jaw line, and other stereotypical male characteristics. Other days though I want to have an hourglass body and other stereotypical things women have. I’ll want to be a male (or so I think) for a week or two, and then it’ll change.. so if you made it this far and have any advice besides you’ll figure it out soon enough, don’t worry you’re 13, I’d be so happy to hear it. Please and thank you🥺💕

    • @andrewhannaford2995
      @andrewhannaford2995 Před 4 lety +8

      So if you're in the UK I would recommend looking up the website mermaids, they're a chartiy for trans people under the ages of 18 and they have a help line where you can talk to counsellors as well as a youth forum you can use to talk to other trans kids of your age. If your not in the UK the US I also believe the Trevor project might be useful to you since they also have a helpline as well where you can just talk about things and get advice. If your not in the UK or US try and find out if there are any LGBT+ charities in your country and see if they could help you in any way.
      In terms of my own advice I would maybe not focus so much on stereotypes since they don't necessarily mean that you identify a certain way, try and explore how you feel about how yourself and how you see yourself. I'm aware that's way easier for me to say but I'm sure you'll get their eventually. I wish you the best of luck in finding who you are and be kind to yourself.

    • @carameluser4894
      @carameluser4894 Před 4 lety +5

      google Trevorspace
      honestly is a lifesaver

    • @marsnr2177
      @marsnr2177 Před 3 lety +3

      while you are figuring this out, keep in mind that gender stereotypes don't dictate your gender (ie liking sports doesnt mean you are a man). However wanting to be seen as a different gender is something that will take time for you to figure out. You're very very young, give yourself as much time as you need, I personally found out when i was 18. We all have different paces of figuring it out. Look up some trans resources (I suggest this really good blog that covers a lot of trans related stuff: transgenderteensurvivalguide.tumblr.com/ ) and talk to a lot of other trans ppl to get their insight as well. And remember, if you decide that you want to transition and take hormones or surgery, MAKE SURE that you are absolutely 100% positive that you want this and that you are ready for it. I hope this helps!

    • @Mark-s747
      @Mark-s747 Před 3 lety

      I'm just 12, FtM but if you cant decide, maybe nonbinary, because it's just both, or none, whatever you feel is right.

    • @therealsouljaboy1858
      @therealsouljaboy1858 Před 3 lety +1

      @@marsnr2177 thank you so much💜💜

  • @casperthefriendlybooknerd3789

    Me watching these all night and my parents still thinking I’m cis

  • @nathanr5737
    @nathanr5737 Před 4 lety +11

    Only bad thing about this film...
    Got in the front seat of an Uber!!! 😂🤦‍♀️

  • @lucas_is_great_4919
    @lucas_is_great_4919 Před 3 lety +11

    These make me feel awful and amazing at the same time

  • @zackgotoh6159
    @zackgotoh6159 Před 3 lety +5

    I am a trans guy and I started transitioning like 5 years ago. I haven’t started Testosterone yet, but I will down the road.

  • @joycelinlgbtq
    @joycelinlgbtq Před 4 lety +51

    Unrealistic. The cupboard was too bare. How do you expect me to believe this Andy dude has no plates or canned goods?

    • @marsnr2177
      @marsnr2177 Před 3 lety +1

      it would be funny if they got that shot from an Ikea kitchen display or smth lmaohfdlsjfksjklj

    • @steflmac
      @steflmac Před 3 lety +2

      Typical guy, can´t cook so orders take-out.😊😎

  • @andyp5067
    @andyp5067 Před 3 lety +15

    when you’re a guy who’s name is andy 😳
    ALSO IM STARTING T SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @thatonesammkid
    @thatonesammkid Před 3 lety +1

    I love this, but I wish there was more story! I'd love to see more!

  • @YaBoii-in6tm
    @YaBoii-in6tm Před 3 lety +1

    This made me cry because I’m trans FTM and I struggle so much with dysphoria and anxiety and depression

  • @ErenYeager-nb7gr
    @ErenYeager-nb7gr Před 3 lety +4

    I hope someday I can pass this well it would be a dream come true does anyone have tips?

  • @Kai-ri3hc
    @Kai-ri3hc Před 3 lety +6

    when i was getting my second covid vaccine shot the girl used he/him pronouns on me like 5 times before my mom “corrected” her😐 it was really nice though :) also the person giving my sibling a vaccine said “is that your brother or-?” referring to me :D

  • @Monsieur_Rat_
    @Monsieur_Rat_ Před 3 lety +4

    I've been having tough time this year after coming out as no binary I had questioned myself more than every and I now know why. I am a boy. I don't have a name yet but I'm looking for one.

    • @Hyperplaterine
      @Hyperplaterine Před 3 lety

      Itz_BLUE wulf Have you chosen a name yet? It took me ages to choose my real name. x

  • @brendas.1374
    @brendas.1374 Před 3 lety +5

    I’m MTF ❤️

  • @Travel_and_kittens
    @Travel_and_kittens Před 2 lety +1

    Too relatable...

  • @max76582
    @max76582 Před 5 lety +8

    I was ur first sub

  • @MrTripleXXX
    @MrTripleXXX Před 3 lety

    Reandron 1000 baby!

  • @lennon1030
    @lennon1030 Před 3 lety +1

    crying

  • @BALLS_VLOGS
    @BALLS_VLOGS Před 3 lety +1

    before i was out to my dad i was at the dentist with my dad, and the lady like knew my really girly name but like kept calling me a he lol

  • @rubenelias2198
    @rubenelias2198 Před 11 měsíci

    What's the name of the song it's very beautiful

  • @me1ody69
    @me1ody69 Před 3 lety +2

    I need a mtf trans film but i can't find anything someone help😥😥😥
    But i also love this ❤😘

    • @shaqnosis4100
      @shaqnosis4100 Před 2 lety

      There’s this one where a father comes home from the military and sees his “son” is now a girl let me find it and let you know what it’s called :)

  • @mercuricchow
    @mercuricchow Před 2 lety

    Okay, but Andy is so handsome.

  • @shaikhimranshaikhimran8464

    Lovely look

  • @nugge5t
    @nugge5t Před 3 lety +1

    imagine watching these short videos and thinking "no i am cis just seeing some lgbtq+ content"
    oh yeah i did that

  • @chaneltv3691
    @chaneltv3691 Před 5 lety +2

    C'est des Anglais le volant est de l'autre coté

  • @leyteris8076
    @leyteris8076 Před 2 lety

    MY NAME IS ANDY TOO AND IM ALSOTRANS OMG

  • @slayussy
    @slayussy Před 3 lety

    Beautiful but, who orders an Uber and gets in the front seat?

  • @hermanninnsbruck
    @hermanninnsbruck Před 3 lety

    Marco is a stalker - Nicolina his victim. After her birthday party, Nicolina becomes Nico and takes revenge: czcams.com/video/wuHGIBrBu3s/video.html

  • @farsyed5126
    @farsyed5126 Před 3 lety +1

    Anyone here Trans Nonbinary? (FTN)

  • @NastySnotRag
    @NastySnotRag Před 2 lety

    Andy...

  • @yofamalam790
    @yofamalam790 Před 2 lety

    Toy story 5- Andy wtf happened bro

  • @lbam
    @lbam Před 2 lety

    andy is my name 👀

  • @NastySnotRag
    @NastySnotRag Před 2 lety

    why can't you hear a enzyme but yoiu can hear a horseman

  • @clickmehere5346
    @clickmehere5346 Před 3 lety

    What about those who can't afford such livelihood?
    However, nice video though. 😊

  • @NastySnotRag
    @NastySnotRag Před 2 lety

    trans move fr

  • @NastySnotRag
    @NastySnotRag Před 2 lety

    bro british or the camera inverted💀💀

  • @lukajalo8635
    @lukajalo8635 Před rokem

    FUCK YEAAAAAH TESTOSTERONE YEAAAAAAAH OH WAIT NO WTF IS HE TAKING NO TAKE THE TESTOSTERONE NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @portugeese_man_o_war
    @portugeese_man_o_war Před 2 lety

    wtf this guy looks like me so much

  • @ghost3990
    @ghost3990 Před 2 lety

    🎱🎱

  • @Tchacopp
    @Tchacopp Před 3 lety

    I Don't understand

  • @NastySnotRag
    @NastySnotRag Před 2 lety

    wait this is gay?

    • @Weederlicherst0ner
      @Weederlicherst0ner Před rokem

      Bro he is a trans Dude female to male

    • @NastySnotRag
      @NastySnotRag Před rokem

      @@Weederlicherst0ner what the hell?!?!?!

    • @Weederlicherst0ner
      @Weederlicherst0ner Před rokem +1

      @@NastySnotRag I only answered you, you don't have to think these people are great, but why do you have to hate them? please just accept it

  • @NastySnotRag
    @NastySnotRag Před 2 lety

    bro wearing a sport bra 💀💀💀💀💀

  • @NastySnotRag
    @NastySnotRag Před 2 lety

    where is this guys parents 💀💀💀