You are not alone simon,i once passed through this in a marriage of 7yrs but later i quited and moved on,as i speak am happily married.i thanks God for rescueing me from the jaws of death
Lesson: Never force issues or love, kama mtu ni wako then it won't be that hard and stressful. Leave at the earliest notice that you two are not headed anywhere. Doesn't matter if you are married in church or have a kid. I left my ex with a 9mnth old baby and av never regretted, I would have been miserable. Now 5yrs later am with someone who truly loves me
@@Dohty5406 what do you call being denied sex, being disrespected, abandonment and cheating... and still struggling to make it work for 10 yrs? That's forcing issues with someone who's clearly not feeling him.
My own brother went through the same.He married the most beautiful woman in east Africa but🤦🤦🤦most nagging,laziiiiest, immoral...I thank God he is doing well with his kids..I wish he has such courage to speak out
I once passed this too marriage of 6 yrs with out love and humiliatio, but I thank God am okay now single life, waiting for God to do new thing in ma life🙏💯
This interview is sad but hilarious 😂😂. Though am a Kikuyu, I've always found Kikuyu language to be very funny when it comes to love talks...maybe it was only meant for business...lakini keki mwauga ndingiriio na utheri yendaga nduma kari gani🤣
I wish this married women know how us single ladies are praying daily to bless us with responsible man. You don't know an importance of someone until you loose him or her. Am a hard working lady, but I always meet men who only want what I've achieved and not me or my kids. I would rather be single than go through hard marriage. Take heart simon, God is with you always.
I fail to understand..why good people go through alot like this.most of the time in a marriage one partner is willing to build the family while the other not.may God heal your soul
If you are not the problem in a relationship, move on and don't allow guilt in your heart, you are not responsible for someone else choices and actions.
Sure kuna mambo zingine mtu anafaa kuachilia na kusahau kabisa. This is sad story 😭 ata huyu Simon nimvumilivu mambo zingine kuvumilia mda mrefu ni stress tupu
Simon you are a great man of God I pray that be able to move on you took a strong step to speak up, that will not make you a lesser man be strong God on your side
This is courage. God bless you. You spoke no behalf of so many men who are facing this. Some women take advantage of good men especially when they know you won't go to anther woman. That cake you will get it once a month if lucky.
Thanks Simon for speaking out.....a problem spoken is halfway solved...I wish my neighbor would be bold like you after going through the same instead of committing suicide...God will see you through. Watching from Ajman UAE
Mr Simon ua a strong man may God see you through en give you peace en strength to overcome the battle of divorce it's not easy but with God everything is possible may Almighty God heal your broken heart
So sorry Simon for what you went through in the hands of a woman you called your wife. When you tell this story, I thought you were telling my story. I went through exactly what you went through until it reached a time when I said Enough is enough. You are not alone brother. Take heart and move on. You are supposed to be a father of 2 or 3 but look, just one. Get yourself a wife as soon as possible.
Metha ya kagoni,nduhi uyu atueke muthuri wakwa, I have been suffering alot to find true love, some women are lucky but they spoiled it, may God remember you Mr Simon, I wish I had a man like this one
I feel you Simon, may God help you heal. Muthoni you will once regret mistreating Simon, I wish you knew how many women are out there looking for such husbands.
So sorry for what you went through Mr. Simon, May the Lord who gave us the grace to heal and move on visit you at this point in time. May you heal in Jesus name
Mr.simon you have done well to speak out coz many are going through what you have gone through but most importantly that is the first step of healing. Therapy session will also help and pray. All the best Mr. Simon
Mr Simon, you're not alone, i passed through hell from 2004 to 2017 when i decided to leave my house and search for peace of mind, am now am happily married...(ona ucio waria wakwa ari wa guild 😏😏🙄)
Nko na cousin ni wa guild lkn yy ni moto, kuna siku nilikua kwake, na ni mm nili pika food, so her akanisho aunty niwekee food, nikapakua, nikaabia my cousin wekea bwana yako siwezi weka ukiwa huku, akanisho wacha mwanzo nioge, nikashanga sana na tulikuwa na mama yake huko,... Na ukimwona aki hubiria watu anakuanga very spiritual lkn kwa nyumba ni negative
Men should know that talking out their problems is not a weakness,, Simon that ex wife never loved you,, kiura ruuga don't waste your precious time on the wrong pple
I can remember this man from Mukinyi PCEA when I was member of that church around 2011, he was a very active member especially kwa 🎶 hapo youth,Hope he will find another loving woman.
It takes a great person to speak out. God is protecting you from the worst . Infidelity in marriage is killing the other person who is innocent. May God give you favors and peace.
Simon🙏Ngai wa thayu arogucerera🙏tihahuthu naninjui niugeretie. I was there with alot of pain and six down the line am totally healed. Sorry to say that, you need a DNA with your son. May God heal you as soon as from now
Following this story, I think the Lord was giving you a warning sign on the wedding day not to marry her due to the inconveniences that happened, but you did not or anyone else realise it. And this girl had not made up her mind, hence, not committed to loving you and marriage. It appears like she was double dealing and just wanted to use and take advantage of your innocence. That is so cruel and she will pay for it here on earth. You could have called the wedding off when you realised it was not working. I feel sorry for you, Simon, but you can always start again. Blessings
Pole sana Simon. I admire your courage to speak out coz many men are unable to do this. Infact men are committing suicide when faced with such challenges as their ego hold them back from speaking out. My prayer is that God may heal yr heart from the betrayal and enable you to move on as He has good plans for you. Jer. 29:11
Jst from the start muthoni dint love u....alikuwa anajifichia kwako...it's Soo painful ,u also need a life get one atleast someone who loves u... hopefully with time u will heal
Simon you are brave and you have represented a percentage of many who are suffering in silence. I hope thru your interview many will have the courage to face their fears and do the necessary for the safety of their health and lives. It's so shameful how many hypocrites we have especially in church. Protecting their image in church and in society, yet their homes a smelling garbage. Homes where there is no peace or love. It's time watu wakubali kujipenda. Once you are not happy in marriage, no external intervention will make you be. Once the two of you can't solve you issues whether small or big. Choose life.
Simon : don't worry Simon, in this life we meet people to build us some to diminish and some are bridges to greater future ahead. From my view you are blessed, conqueror, lifted from grass to grace by God. From far you've come and far you're going in Jesus name.
Yes men go through a lot the same way with women I remember one man who was going through situation like this he even used to clean even her daughter clothes but unfortunately he passed away....so let give men ears to speak out
@@judygacheri9303 You mean vows? Any faith that makes people to hv vows is either religious or cultic. Christianity is not a religion but a religion between man and God. God and His children. It's a family of God. God been the Father and born again believers His children John 1:12.. God knows that human beings are weak in fulling the vows. Let God be true and every man a liar. God's children, the born again believers are not of the law. Christ fulfilled the law on our behalf once and for all. He knew that no human being can fulfil the law except God Himself alone. That's why christ was given to fulfil the law on our behalf his death, burial and resurrection. He resurrected with us as new creation church of Christ.Evn naturally, no father makes his children to vow. He knows that they can break the vows and it won't be well with them. He loves his children unconditionally despite of failures and weaknesses. Religion is so dangerous and demanding. It's slavery and enemy to God. It's full of self righteousness rather than the grace of God in christ Jesus It reduces the sacrifice of Christ to vanity. Christ's yoke is easy. We dnt need to do anything to please God otherwise even when we are yet sinners christ christ died for us. We serve or do the work of the ministry as responsible children in the family of our father bt not thro fear of vows or to please God. The only thing that pleases God is to trust christ who is God Himself and who we're created in. St. Matthew 5:33 "Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ’Do not break your oath, but fulfill to the Lord the vows you have made.’ St. Matthew 5:34 But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne; St. Matthew 5:35 or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. St. Matthew 5:36 And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. St. Matthew 5:37 All you need to say is simply ’Yes’ or ’No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.. 🤷♀️
God will see you through continue praying and serving God. It is also good to seek legal advice so that you can be able to move forward God will give a good wife
This is a sad story of a narcissistic woman. But Simon, you are so 😂😂😂😂😂. Thanks for sharing. God will bless you with a good wife who will comfort you. But famous words .." take time to know her ."
Simon please don’t ignore what many people have advised you; do a DNA please before you commit to take care of the child. Truth may hurt you but will set you free
Mr Simon take heart for whatever u have gone through they is alway light at the end of the tunnel and this the tunnel and the light is bright and shinning get well soon and God is in control stay blessed
Just move on ,she wasn't meant to be your wife .Ten years now down the since I was sent home to my mother with four kids ,I just picked myself up .Am happy God came through and helped me
It is ethically wrong to manipulate someone's emotions when you are fully aware that you cannot fulfill their needs. We must cease marrying for the wrong reasons and taking those who love us for granted, causing them immense pain. Heartbreaks can have devastating effects on the individuals who experience them. It is crucial to marry someone whom you genuinely love. If you realize that the person you are with is not the one you truly want to be with, it is better to let them go rather than stringing them along and ultimately disrespecting them, as Muthoni has done to this man. Furthermore, I am astonished by the fact that many people who share their stories of heartbreak are "born again" or actively involved in church. We must understand that merely hiding in the church and using terms like "SAVED" and "BORN AGAIN" do not automatically make someone a good person. We should remember that character is defined by who we truly are, and changing poor character requires significant effort. Additionally, those who believe that active church members are inherently good individuals need to overcome this mindset. We are all human, and while the word of God serves as a guide, being involved in church does not exempt anyone from sin. It is important to conduct proper due diligence on a person before entering a relationship or marriage. Understanding their family background can provide valuable insights. Lastly, praying to God for guidance in making the right choices is crucial. Sometimes we rush into relationships and marriages due to external pressures from parents, friends, or societal expectations. However, marriage is not a competition. It is far better to delay and eventually settle down with the right person than to end up with broken hearts and damaged families. Finally, I pray that the gentleman seeks counseling and moves forward in his life. However, I strongly advise him not to rush into another relationship until he has healed from the pain he endured. Otherwise, he may find himself hurting someone else and ultimately repeating the same cycle. May God guide him on his journey of healing.
Pole sana! Dedication song Utarudishiwa miaka yote iliyokuliwa na nzinge by Gloria Muriro.May you receive healing and get a DNA test cause there are so many red flags. Serious single women here this is a God man.
Why is it so hard to love back when loved right?This is a loving and God fearing man.God will bless you again, with someone who will reciprocate your love
I can understand what this lady was going through. I got married to a man but I had zero interest in having sex with him. I didn't even want him to touch me. He loved me so much so I used to feel sorry for him
Pole Simon for what you've gone through may Almighty God heal your heart and give please of mind to be able to move on. Also had ulcers and it was not easy. Because of almost a similar case.
Very true simon nimefanya kazi kwanyumba kama hio mzee alikuwa analala kwa kiti huko ruda;aki wazee hutia mengi kwahizi manyumba kwanza watu wenye wako na pesa wakiwa wawili mungu awasaidie sana; aki wazee wahulusiwe wawe wanaoa mabibi watatu aki divyo akipewa stress na mmoja anakibilia kwa mwingine stress sinabungua aki
Simon, It's simple... The matters of the hearts💕 are subjective and nit rational. God hates divorce but God wants you to be in good health. (John 10:10) Death of love is tantamount to real death ...don't force love. I'd say, you're young...just move on. 😏
Before you even think of finalizing your divorce,do a DNA test with your “child” there’s high chances you’re not the Father.Pole sana sometimes I really feel bad good people are always treated the worst but in the end they actually do win
No one should ever ever limit your happiness, either a wife or husband, I hate how couples pretend everything is fyn na excuse ya watoto ,whereas ground ni fire , Mimi ata kichwa mtu hawezi fanya iniume ati juu ya ndoa
It's always vise versar, ukipewa mume mzuri, unakuwa shetani kwake, ukipewa mke Mwema, unakuwa shetani kwake; Jamani Maisha hainanga balance🙆, I rest my case, Father Lord give your people peace in any case 🙏❤️
It was a very painful experience but Simon take heart knowing there is a tomorrow. Take courage and move on. Somebody out there loves you. This sharing is your first step to your healing..
Why is it that mwanaume akikuja hapa the comment are very disrespectful aki watu izo comments apana what if angekuwa a lady 🤔 mgekuwa hapa na hugs mummy aki earth is hard don't you know if its true huyu mwanaume vile anaongea anaweza pata depression let's be nice to everyone be it a woman of man
Also people shouldn't comment on the journey you haven't walked in... People may know the family but what was happening behind the curtains only the couple can tell... And one of them is telling his side of the story let just watch and listen
You can file a divorce on grounds of adultery and desertion. Even if she does not show up it will be undefended cause. You can file at Ruiru or Thika Court.
Monica,I have just watched this interview,what happened to this gentleman and did you get to interview Muthoni?I hope simon has since healed and moved on.
Clearly this marriage was toxic right from the get go,red flags were all over but Simon being a gentleman and kindhearted thought his wife was going to change. it's like his wife was suffering from some type of depression or she's a super narcissist individual... healing is a process and he has taken a bold step to open up and share his story... wishing him all the best.
"Ugiona igikaya Nima ni nume"Such a brave man, definitely she was not your lib.Take heart
You are not alone simon,i once passed through this in a marriage of 7yrs but later i quited and moved on,as i speak am happily married.i thanks God for rescueing me from the jaws of death
Pole Isaac. I thank God you moved on
Sorry for that may God countinue blessings your marriage na mm single naomba God pia anipee wangu in Jesus mighty name 🙏
Pole Simon,may God fight for you all your battles
My prayer God will help quite my toxic marriage after 24 years
Njipeni nguvu simoni walai hatufanani🙏🏻
I feel for simon 🙂🙂 ladies if your man is responsible try to be humble, I learnt something and from today I will also change 🤗
My namesake pia mini have changed
Nowede mundu
I wish he's my husband.. God bless me with my own husband in Jesus name Amen
Amen
@@neliuswaruguru6461 Hi
Simon represents so many men in the society with such issues and challenges but lacks a platform to pour their hearts out.
Lesson: Never force issues or love, kama mtu ni wako then it won't be that hard and stressful. Leave at the earliest notice that you two are not headed anywhere. Doesn't matter if you are married in church or have a kid. I left my ex with a 9mnth old baby and av never regretted, I would have been miserable. Now 5yrs later am with someone who truly loves me
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He never forced anything...
@@Dohty5406 what do you call being denied sex, being disrespected, abandonment and cheating... and still struggling to make it work for 10 yrs? That's forcing issues with someone who's clearly not feeling him.
Alice Mwangi ,you mean ulimwachia mtoi,ama ulienda na yeye?
@Alicemwangi
My own brother went through the same.He married the most beautiful woman in east Africa but🤦🤦🤦most nagging,laziiiiest, immoral...I thank God he is doing well with his kids..I wish he has such courage to speak out
I once passed this too marriage of 6 yrs with out love and humiliatio, but I thank God am okay now single life, waiting for God to do new thing in ma life🙏💯
This interview is sad but hilarious 😂😂. Though am a Kikuyu, I've always found Kikuyu language to be very funny when it comes to love talks...maybe it was only meant for business...lakini keki mwauga ndingiriio na utheri yendaga nduma kari gani🤣
So sad Simon idont know what is wrong with same marriages to meet the right one is God's grace move on . . Here iam heeling 10 yrs would s
ooooh it's a sad story takeheart Saimo God will interven
Arume niakiririria tondu korwo ninii angiri kwa huko
I'm with you on this one 😂. Kikuyu ni ya biashara sio wendo 😂.
That being said, pole sana to this guy.
I wish this married women know how us single ladies are praying daily to bless us with responsible man. You don't know an importance of someone until you loose him or her.
Am a hard working lady, but I always meet men who only want what I've achieved and not me or my kids. I would rather be single than go through hard marriage.
Take heart simon, God is with you always.
Well said
Aki i wish too nkapata mtu kama huyu
True we really try our best because the kids rely on us to
well said mama....Hawa wanaume wakuje watuoe
The fact that she was hesitant to tell you about the pregnancy might be because you, Simon are not the father. Do a test to confirm.
Yes I thought the same the lady is capable of anything aki pole sana simon you deserve a better life God has good things for you ahead.
I was a member at Mukinyi PCEA until 2015. We were in the same District with Simon he was very active in church... sorry for everything
After listening to all this, Simon you may seek for DNA of your son. Just to be sure before taking responsibilities
Pole sana na ukubali vile kumeenda and then you love yourself first (ujipende)
It's true hata huyo mtoi sioni kama ni wake
Is true, afanye dna, kwanza kundakaria ni guthukiria muthoni ritwa
MIMI kulingana Na Vile nimesikiza hiyo story huyo Mama Hana kinchwa mzuri but is My opinion
Ata Mimi nimeona labda hakuwa poa upstairs
I fail to understand..why good people go through alot like this.most of the time in a marriage one partner is willing to build the family while the other not.may God heal your soul
Pole Sana Kioi.... God is still on your side. I know you even before you came to marry that lady. You are good n a church man.
If you are not the problem in a relationship, move on and don't allow guilt in your heart, you are not responsible for someone else choices and actions.
Sure kuna mambo zingine mtu anafaa kuachilia na kusahau kabisa. This is sad story 😭 ata huyu Simon nimvumilivu mambo zingine kuvumilia mda mrefu ni stress tupu
have marked this enough is enough
This is so courageous for..a man to share his story.People do not judge...
So sad
Muthoni ni waganwo................Halafu can we agree that most pretenders are hiding in the church
Nimesikia huyu muthoni ametoka kwetu Gatanga.wah
Simon you are a great man of God I pray that be able to move on you took a strong step to speak up, that will not make you a lesser man be strong God on your side
This is courage. God bless you. You spoke no behalf of so many men who are facing this. Some women take advantage of good men especially when they know you won't go to anther woman. That cake you will get it once a month if lucky.
Thanks Simon for speaking out.....a problem spoken is halfway solved...I wish my neighbor would be bold like you after going through the same instead of committing suicide...God will see you through. Watching from Ajman UAE
Divorce her today and forget about her I'm an old woman from pcea church
Mr Simon ua a strong man may God see you through en give you peace en strength to overcome the battle of divorce it's not easy but with God everything is possible may Almighty God heal your broken heart
There r difficult people on Earth.Unakubali kuolewa shingo upande na si kulazimishwa.this man is strong.
See is stupid. My be she had mental issues.
So sorry Simon for what you went through in the hands of a woman you called your wife. When you tell this story, I thought you were telling my story. I went through exactly what you went through until it reached a time when I said Enough is enough. You are not alone brother. Take heart and move on. You are supposed to be a father of 2 or 3 but look, just one. Get yourself a wife as soon as possible.
I'm here for u just follow me
😥😥
Kenneth kahoya ..Sorry dear
Please look for him n walk with him,he needs encouragement
Metha ya kagoni please niconnect na hiyo mwanaume ukiwa mke wake alimove on let him also move on,lm here to comfort him
Metha ya kagoni,nduhi uyu atueke muthuri wakwa, I have been suffering alot to find true love, some women are lucky but they spoiled it, may God remember you Mr Simon, I wish I had a man like this one
God will encourage you but move on many are praying for a husband...like me
Ukisema communication Mimi naelewa kabisaaa is the reason I left my hubby,tunaishi pamoja but Mimi Niko dunia yangu
Mbona wewe usiongee😂😂 Kuna kamtu niliona kakona hiyo kiburi but kalilambwa
I feel you Simon, may God help you heal. Muthoni you will once regret mistreating Simon, I wish you knew how many women are out there looking for such husbands.
Aki, but we lack that chance
True...
Tuko huku nje Watu wanatafuta Watu wazuri kama Hawa hawapati
@@fridahkinya331 imagine
Yes oo
Wish I can get this man,,soo humble man
God will give you yours 🙏
Tafuta yeye plz
I find it wrong for someone to take advantage of a pure soul,kama hupendi mtu why waste his time😭😭😭simon move on and take our your kid
So sorry for what you went through Mr. Simon, May the Lord who gave us the grace to heal and move on visit you at this point in time. May you heal in Jesus name
And surely May the ALMIGHTY GOD heal Simon in His honor and for His Glory AMEN.
Mr.simon you have done well to speak out coz many are going through what you have gone through but most importantly that is the first step of healing. Therapy session will also help and pray. All the best Mr. Simon
Mr Simon, you're not alone, i passed through hell from 2004 to 2017 when i decided to leave my house and search for peace of mind, am now am happily married...(ona ucio waria wakwa ari wa guild 😏😏🙄)
Hawa guild wako na shida
Woi Ngai waathuri amuririkane
Mimi nimeona red flags after a year nikaquit😂😂
Nko na cousin ni wa guild lkn yy ni moto, kuna siku nilikua kwake, na ni mm nili pika food, so her akanisho aunty niwekee food, nikapakua, nikaabia my cousin wekea bwana yako siwezi weka ukiwa huku, akanisho wacha mwanzo nioge, nikashanga sana na tulikuwa na mama yake huko,...
Na ukimwona aki hubiria watu anakuanga very spiritual lkn kwa nyumba ni negative
Men should know that talking out their problems is not a weakness,, Simon that ex wife never loved you,, kiura ruuga don't waste your precious time on the wrong pple
Sorry for what you went through , you are a strong man to come out and speak out.what a toxic woman
I can remember this man from Mukinyi PCEA when I was member of that church around 2011, he was a very active member especially kwa 🎶 hapo youth,Hope he will find another loving woman.
Mukinyi iriku ya gatundu
And can you remember that ex wife Muthoni. 🙊🙊🙊
Njuguna Gathoni,Kuna Mukinyi PCEA Githurai
Wambu Mwash,mtu unaweza muona mzuri lakini mwenye wanakaanisha na yeye ndiye anamjua vizuri.
Wah, painful,
It takes a great person to speak out. God is protecting you from the worst . Infidelity in marriage is killing the other person who is innocent. May God give you favors and peace.
I know that man he my churchmate aki ni mpoa alafu dedicated to God
Basi anaongea ukweli
Si you introduce me.
@@mercyk2672 🤣🤣🤣😩😩😩
@@mercyk2672 😂😂😂😂 take your chance
I'm serious. I'm in America in a town with very few Kenyans.
May our good Lord have mercy on you man of God, it's well in Jesus Name
Simon🙏Ngai wa thayu arogucerera🙏tihahuthu naninjui niugeretie. I was there with alot of pain and six down the line am totally healed. Sorry to say that, you need a DNA with your son. May God heal you as soon as from now
Kagoni I like the way you ask questions, Very professional, may God see Simon thru.
Laughing and feeling sorry for him at the same time 🤭😂🤔🥺🥺Kai gûthiaga atîa hihi
Before you start loving someone ask them if they want to be loved… to avoid disappointment and one side energy:efforts.
Ooh yes mburu
Sure.. Its very hurting
😢😢😢 this is true
Pengine hata huyo mtoto si wako.
@@charitywachira7913 painful
Following this story, I think the Lord was giving you a warning sign on the wedding day not to marry her due to the inconveniences that happened, but you did not or anyone else realise it. And this girl had not made up her mind, hence, not committed to loving you and marriage. It appears like she was double dealing and just wanted to use and take advantage of your innocence. That is so cruel and she will pay for it here on earth. You could have called the wedding off when you realised it was not working. I feel sorry for you, Simon, but you can always start again. Blessings
May God help you to move on.
Na wengine wanalia aki huku nje aki Kai guthiaga atîa ma😭😭
Am sorry for what happened
Pole sana Simon. I admire your courage to speak out coz many men are unable to do this. Infact men are committing suicide when faced with such challenges as their ego hold them back from speaking out. My prayer is that God may heal yr heart from the betrayal and enable you to move on as He has good plans for you. Jer. 29:11
Jst from the start muthoni dint love u....alikuwa anajifichia kwako...it's Soo painful ,u also need a life get one atleast someone who loves u... hopefully with time u will heal
Simon you are brave and you have represented a percentage of many who are suffering in silence. I hope thru your interview many will have the courage to face their fears and do the necessary for the safety of their health and lives. It's so shameful how many hypocrites we have especially in church. Protecting their image in church and in society, yet their homes a smelling garbage. Homes where there is no peace or love. It's time watu wakubali kujipenda. Once you are not happy in marriage, no external intervention will make you be. Once the two of you can't solve you issues whether small or big. Choose life.
Sure, life has no rehusle
Wooiii Kai atumia mwendaga atia? Muthuri uyu ahana kwaga uru na mundu.... Mwathani muhe tu mundu ukuhonia ngoro ino ndaguthaitha
I wish i choose life...am the unhappiest for always giving chances coz I got no one to hold me up
Sure no love no peace, choose life and love yourself
And what i know you Simon for many years ago you are a humble,forget about the past wake up bro and move on to your destiny
Weuweee, Symon you are strong and very courageous, in the right time God will see you through.
Simon : don't worry Simon, in this life we meet people to build us some to diminish and some are bridges to greater future ahead. From my view you are blessed, conqueror, lifted from grass to grace by God. From far you've come and far you're going in Jesus name.
Yes men go through a lot the same way with women I remember one man who was going through situation like this he even used to clean even her daughter clothes but unfortunately he passed away....so let give men ears to speak out
Sad sad
I'm a presbyterian. I have never joined women's guild because of the experiences l have had with some of these women.
me too , the biggest number is bad news.
I'm a woman's guild for so many years na siwezi SEMA ubaya wa guild coz tuko na vowels na that's why inaitwa woman's not women's meaning mtu binafsi
@@judygacheri9303 excellent explanation.
@@judygacheri9303 You mean vows? Any faith that makes people to hv vows is either religious or cultic. Christianity is not a religion but a religion between man and God. God and His children. It's a family of God. God been the Father and born again believers His children John 1:12.. God knows that human beings are weak in fulling the vows. Let God be true and every man a liar. God's children, the born again believers are not of the law. Christ fulfilled the law on our behalf once and for all. He knew that no human being can fulfil the law except God Himself alone. That's why christ was given to fulfil the law on our behalf his death, burial and resurrection. He resurrected with us as new creation church of Christ.Evn naturally, no father makes his children to vow. He knows that they can break the vows and it won't be well with them. He loves his children unconditionally despite of failures and weaknesses. Religion is so dangerous and demanding. It's slavery and enemy to God. It's full of self righteousness rather than the grace of God in christ Jesus It reduces the sacrifice of Christ to vanity. Christ's yoke is easy. We dnt need to do anything to please God otherwise even when we are yet sinners christ christ died for us. We serve or do the work of the ministry as responsible children in the family of our father bt not thro fear of vows or to please God. The only thing that pleases God is to trust christ who is God Himself and who we're created in. St. Matthew 5:33 "Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ’Do not break your oath, but fulfill to the Lord the vows you have made.’
St. Matthew 5:34 But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne;
St. Matthew 5:35 or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King.
St. Matthew 5:36 And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black.
St. Matthew 5:37 All you need to say is simply ’Yes’ or ’No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.. 🤷♀️
Christianity is not a religion bt relationship btwn God and His children born again believers in Christ i mean.
Simple! There was no love, no attraction, people should stop forcing issues.
No mwaki💥
God will see you through continue praying and serving God. It is also good to seek legal advice so that you can be able to move forward God will give a good wife
This is a sad story of a narcissistic woman. But Simon, you are so 😂😂😂😂😂. Thanks for sharing. God will bless you with a good wife who will comfort you. But famous words .." take time to know her ."
We were in the same church ,same time with this couple as youths and it’s sad to know it dint work out.
We need to hear Muthoni’s side of the story
Exactly maybe yy pia ako na shida nowadays wazee wamekuwa stress
Simon please don’t ignore what many people have advised you; do a DNA please before you commit to take care of the child. Truth may hurt you but will set you free
Mr Simon take heart for whatever u have gone through they is alway light at the end of the tunnel and this the tunnel and the light is bright and shinning get well soon and God is in control stay blessed
Thank you for bringing this story to us. May the man get better and back to his feet again
Maya maundu Monica 😄😄 watching from Saudi Arabia
Simon may you heal and move on in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏. It's my prayer
Just move on ,she wasn't meant to be your wife .Ten years now down the since I was sent home to my mother with four kids ,I just picked myself up .Am happy God came through and helped me
It is ethically wrong to manipulate someone's emotions when you are fully aware that you cannot fulfill their needs. We must cease marrying for the wrong reasons and taking those who love us for granted, causing them immense pain. Heartbreaks can have devastating effects on the individuals who experience them. It is crucial to marry someone whom you genuinely love. If you realize that the person you are with is not the one you truly want to be with, it is better to let them go rather than stringing them along and ultimately disrespecting them, as Muthoni has done to this man.
Furthermore, I am astonished by the fact that many people who share their stories of heartbreak are "born again" or actively involved in church. We must understand that merely hiding in the church and using terms like "SAVED" and "BORN AGAIN" do not automatically make someone a good person. We should remember that character is defined by who we truly are, and changing poor character requires significant effort. Additionally, those who believe that active church members are inherently good individuals need to overcome this mindset. We are all human, and while the word of God serves as a guide, being involved in church does not exempt anyone from sin.
It is important to conduct proper due diligence on a person before entering a relationship or marriage. Understanding their family background can provide valuable insights. Lastly, praying to God for guidance in making the right choices is crucial. Sometimes we rush into relationships and marriages due to external pressures from parents, friends, or societal expectations. However, marriage is not a competition. It is far better to delay and eventually settle down with the right person than to end up with broken hearts and damaged families.
Finally, I pray that the gentleman seeks counseling and moves forward in his life. However, I strongly advise him not to rush into another relationship until he has healed from the pain he endured. Otherwise, he may find himself hurting someone else and ultimately repeating the same cycle. May God guide him on his journey of healing.
Coming back to read it
Are u a writer
Simon, you might want to do a DNA on the young man...just saying.
You are a humble man, God has better plans for you 🙏
Maybe that baby not yours
@@carolinekagwiria8447 yup, something is not right somewhere.
YOU ARE A STRONG MAN SIMON. THKS kagoni
Pole sana! Dedication song Utarudishiwa miaka yote iliyokuliwa na nzinge by Gloria Muriro.May you receive healing and get a DNA test cause there are so many red flags. Serious single women here this is a God man.
Why is it so hard to love back when loved right?This is a loving and God fearing man.God will bless you again, with someone who will reciprocate your love
I can understand what this lady was going through. I got married to a man but I had zero interest in having sex with him. I didn't even want him to touch me. He loved me so much so I used to feel sorry for him
@@mercyk2672 You are selfish. Why did you marry him if you didn’t love him. You are wicked 🙄😡.
@@highlyfavoured6789 it's complicated
@@mercyk2672 😂 leta chai yote,did you leave him?
@@victoriamuthoni6923 absolutely. Now he's happily married ☺
Pole Simon for what you've gone through may Almighty God heal your heart and give please of mind to be able to move on. Also had ulcers and it was not easy. Because of almost a similar case.
Navile uku watu wanatafuta
Very true simon nimefanya kazi kwanyumba kama hio mzee alikuwa analala kwa kiti huko ruda;aki wazee hutia mengi kwahizi manyumba kwanza watu wenye wako na pesa wakiwa wawili mungu awasaidie sana; aki wazee wahulusiwe wawe wanaoa mabibi watatu aki divyo akipewa stress na mmoja anakibilia kwa mwingine stress sinabungua aki
Pole sana symo....jipe nguvu...may our good God heal your heart and help you find the love of your life in Jesus Name Amen
Simon,
It's simple... The matters of the hearts💕 are subjective and nit rational.
God hates divorce but God wants you to be in good health. (John 10:10) Death of love is tantamount to real death ...don't force love. I'd say, you're young...just move on. 😏
Before you even think of finalizing your divorce,do a DNA test with your “child” there’s high chances you’re not the Father.Pole sana sometimes I really feel bad good people are always treated the worst but in the end they actually do win
She didn't love you
Never force yourself where you weren't born
Simon sorry for what you have gone through. But about the baby and before going through any proses, do DNA to verify whether that baby is yours.
No one should ever ever limit your happiness, either a wife or husband, I hate how couples pretend everything is fyn na excuse ya watoto ,whereas ground ni fire , Mimi ata kichwa mtu hawezi fanya iniume ati juu ya ndoa
Simion is very patient , may God give him peace and may he get a submissive and caring wife
Men are going through so much... Thanks for speaking for most of us. We relate. Tunashindwa tufanyeje!
All will be well my brother. Good things awaits for you. All the years lost God is going to double them for you
It's not how big the house is But how happy the home is, that truly matters.
She is too much, something not going well in her mind, aiii, tabia zingine sio normal
Aki saa zingine life is unfair, I wish🙈🙈
Very true
It's always vise versar, ukipewa mume mzuri, unakuwa shetani kwake, ukipewa mke Mwema, unakuwa shetani kwake;
Jamani Maisha hainanga balance🙆,
I rest my case, Father Lord give your people peace in any case 🙏❤️
I feel for this man aki,may he find a good soul,and a wife who is helper and a good friend,🤷 maybe it's me wah I love man openness
It was a very painful experience but Simon take heart knowing there is a tomorrow. Take courage and move on. Somebody out there loves you. This sharing is your first step to your healing..
Icio niciarega Jano ndeto, I'm sure Ata huyo mtoto sio wake, DNA is important after he file divorce
Obvious mtoto sio wake,muthoni hapendi huyu Simon,anapenda the other guy.
Huyo mtoto DNA ndio tu inaweza kuconfirm otherwise kunakizungumkuti
Am a kamba but I know Kikuyu as a second language by the lord's grace
Narcissism is real, am sorry my brother Simon. May God help you to overcome all this.
Ooh dear Simon,, where can I get such a man, humble,loving, doing first things first,,may you find a soulmate
Niurenda mundu kana ACA am not taken stillwater am present
Why is it that mwanaume akikuja hapa the comment are very disrespectful aki watu izo comments apana what if angekuwa a lady 🤔 mgekuwa hapa na hugs mummy aki earth is hard don't you know if its true huyu mwanaume vile anaongea anaweza pata depression let's be nice to everyone be it a woman of man
Also people shouldn't comment on the journey you haven't walked in... People may know the family but what was happening behind the curtains only the couple can tell... And one of them is telling his side of the story let just watch and listen
@@henrygicugu5350 now you are speaking
@@henrygicugu5350 alipitishiwa huyo mwanamke never loved him from the beginning ..she went in that marriage for another purpose.
Anyone who has a boy child should feel the pain this man is going through. Men are going through pain quietly
Where is the disrespectful text in all the comments here?
You've been patient enough. May God remember you.
Wah the pain of this man is written all over his face ,may our almighty God Heal his pain.
Kangoni pliz hook me up with this one in a million angle I will make him happy.
Aki na usimpee stress,chukua no yake amepeana
@@marymaina6916 me pia nataka number yake...mtu anakataa na chakula ya usiku Kwa nini?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@jacklinemutie8901 Hahaa🤣🤣sio ya usiku pekeee ,weeee ata mchana kama kuna masaaa🤪
@@jacklinemutie8901 😂😂😂😂😂
You can file a divorce on grounds of adultery and desertion. Even if she does not show up it will be undefended cause. You can file at Ruiru or Thika Court.
Hee soimon umepitia mangu kweli lakini kupitia hii story roho yako ita pona in Jesus name
Please more details I'll like to get connected I'm in need to apply devorce process 🙏
whats the process of divorce
Tuko wengi, I need to do the same, though am in Nairobi. More details plz
@@georgenjoroge6966 but before then try to solve the issue n untill it shows no positive response then application of divorce can follow
Monica,I have just watched this interview,what happened to this gentleman and did you get to interview Muthoni?I hope simon has since healed and moved on.
Simon. Receive God's blessings for your courage to talk like 1000 men. Nothing lasts for ever. Take heart.
Clearly this marriage was toxic right from the get go,red flags were all over but Simon being a gentleman and kindhearted thought his wife was going to change. it's like his wife was suffering from some type of depression or she's a super narcissist individual... healing is a process and he has taken a bold step to open up and share his story... wishing him all the best.
Exactly narcissist is the word here💯💯💯💯💯
Hi shii
@@sdsdsdd8530 hey 👋
That's for sure ,she may have a narcissist disorder
Ngai na vile nimetafta mzee nasipati, ngai hii Dunia ni kubwa wee take heart bro God is in control
Tafuta huyu kama uko serious muongee🤣
@@simongitu7311 haha huwezi mwambia ukweli
I tell you those who have never treasure
Pita na huyu but anakaa humble aki ,mpaka nikamhurumia
Simon May our good Lord give you peace in Jesus Name
May God be your strength Simon. God has Great and Better plans for You.
Dear Simon marriages break coz there was a problem right from the beginning of the relationship so don't blame yourself, good luck.
May peace be with you Simon.
That comment of "kuna tofauti ya baba na bibi" is very deep. Peace in your heart brother.
Monica I like the way u listen to your guests. U engage them well. U r the best. Pole kwa huyu handsome. May God see u through