BADMINTON QUALIFIER ENDS IN TEARs ~ Eventing doesn't go to plan
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Sorry it has taken so long to get this out, although Jam was a superstar it wasn't a day I wanted to relive straight away. Anyway, I've learnt a lot and was such a special venue, I'm looking forward to going back!
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We all have our good and bad days! You inspire so many riders, in a way their achievements are your achievements! Keep your head up 🤗
MEG!! Someone is bound to always have something worse going on, that unfortunately is just life. That doesn’t stop you from feeling the emotions, please don’t call yourself ignorant or a brat. It’s good to acknowledge and recognise your feelings, holding them in isn’t going to help! 💕
So true, as long as you can finally put them into perspective and put those emotions behind you it's ok because let's be real. The person saying Meg is a brat, to a certain extent is a brat in their own way. They could have celebrated their horse having had a good life and that they had an opportunity which most people don't have being the ownership of a horse in general, or like you pointed out, crying over a dead horse whilst people cry over not being able to eat a whole day. People will always have it harder and just because your life may seem harder than others doesn't mean you have a richt to call them a brat for being disappointed or upset about something. Being a brat would be feeling entitled to something which you aren't. We need to aknowledge our emotions but then finally put them behind us.
That’s so true if you hide your emotions it’s not going to help you two look amazing out there!!
You did amazing Meg! Never apologise for “being a brat” ... you work really hard to get good results and you’re allowed to be disappointed. It’s all relative - no one has the right to dismiss someone else’s dreams. Keep going!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
It is heartbreaking to have the result be that close, I do hope that BE reconsiders the qualifications and allows for more pairs to qualify. I know you are so pleased with Jam and how far she is home this season. I was so impressed by how mature she looked at this event, so excited to see what you two will achieve in the future💜
When you have a goal and something means so much to you, you cry when it doesnt happen. My goodness I would have blubbed too. Let's sack off calling it ignorant and instead call it passionate ;)
It's okay to be disappointed, then you wash your face (and if necessary, your hair! :) ) and you go conquer the next challenge. If you had come off as flippant and didn't care about your results or your horse, that would have been annoying! :S We live the ups and downs with you, and we're always in your corner. Jam had a cracking day, jumped out of her skin, and has shown amazing progress in such a short amount of time. Well done!
Totally agree, well said :)
OMG my name is Natalia
Jams back end when jumping is so blumming amazing 🤩
Your feelings are just that. YOUR FEELINGS! Don't let anyone tell you they are wrong, or that you aren't allowed to be disappointed. It isn't bratty, or rude, you work hard! What you shouldn't be is too hard on yourself. Good luck with Dee! Xx
We all have highs and the lows with horses, nothing ever goes to plan😁
Bless you Meg, I suffer quite badly from anxiety and depression. Any comment like the one you had would send me over the edge and make me not want to post anything.
Someone is incredibly unhappy with their life and taking it out on you. You're allowed to be upset when you're, you know, competing and are trying to get the best results possible. **HUGE hugs** you're kicking ass and Jammy looked awesome!
Meg Megg Megggg!! ....I'm mum to a daughter roughly the same age as you........we're not pony guardians unfortunately, due to circumstances, but .....NEVER let the haters get u down ....ur ponies are loved and cherished 🤗
You are perfectly allowed to be disappointed! You worked very hard and had a great round and it was just the slightest of errors! You should be proud of yourself for working hard and trying your best, that’s what everyone should aspire to. You’re not going to win every time, true, but that’s we all try for and it’s OK to be disappointed that you don’t.
You are not an ignorant brat, everyone has bad days and can be disappointed in themselves even when all in all they did well. Big hugs 💕💕💕😊
That show jumping round!!! 😍 she’s absolutely jumping out of her socks. What a back end. You two look incredible
Aweee Meg you made me cry too dear me, you’ll be ok and please ignore that person who said mean things to you everything will turn out fine. Now make sure you give Hobbit a big hug before bedtime 💕💕💕💕tfs😎
Have a good cry. Inhale. Then exhale it all out. You did well & will learn from this mistake. That makes it a win. We're still going to be here next year to watch you try again.
Whatever you do, though, don't apologize. Losing sucks. It's important to feel the lows because they make the highs that much better.
Hang in there. 💕
You're amazing Meg, love watching your vlogs, your not a spoilt brat at all, just someone who is passionate and loves her horses and her sport xx
Meg you are amazing, just because you have a lovely life doesn't mean you can't be down about not qualifying!
Jam was incredible, always more opportunities. Especially as she is still so young, you have produced her beautifully 😍 thankyou for vlogging 🥰
Just because people can have it worse than you doesn’t mean you can ignore how you’re feeling. Everyone is different and if you’re upset on how your round went, you have every right to be… no one can tell you to not feel what you feel! You did really well and rode everything really nicely!☺️
Anybody who rides and competes feels all your emotions - they are completely normal. Tomorrow is another day. ❤️
Everyone has a right to feel emotions, and doing so doesn't make you ignorant or bratty! Having bad days is unavoidable and being able to talk about them and share your emotions is a good thing! You are such an inspiration to so many people, and being upset doesn't make you any less of that. Keep doing what you are doing because it is amazing! 💕😊
Don’t let them get to you Meg. you re allowed to feel disappointed when you work so hard and it means so much to you 💕you inspire so many people who are truly grateful for your honesty. Never stop being you xx
Hope your ok Meg 😕❤️ We all have rubbish days just keep trying you’ll get there again!! 😁
I hate that you were so disappointed, but I was so proud of how well you rode and that you pushed forward. I'm sorry for the sadness that you feel, but so excited for the future for you and Jamjam!
It is SO understandable Meg that you're upset. It's you you tube say and do what you feel keep it real. 💯
These things happen, look forward to your round with Dee and continue to be positive! And you’re not an ignorant brat your obviously entitled to having your own opinion on your performance! Lots of love!!! 🤍🤍
It’s ok you were amazing to us anyway ❤️🔥💓
Just keep in mind that you're the one who trained that super duper pony and when it's time, she will get you guys qualified! Trust your super pon pons ❤️ you guys are amazing
Rewatching this video just after you got the news of your qualification is so heartwarming ❤️❤️
Jam was incredibly careful in the showjumping! Such a shame she got number 3. The ground looked so sticky!! I still remember watching your first jumping vlogs with her - shes looks like a different pony! Well done. Don’t be to hard on yourself- we all have off days.
Hi I just wanted to say you did a fantastic job jam and you where so awesome just remember that jump was because it was sticky if it wasn’t muddy you would have been so happy but what you don’t realise is that your an awesome rider no matter what 🥺❤️💖
Awwww Meg ❤️ We all have our bad days and we think you were great! Xxxx
Oh dear it's a disappointment for sure Meg and you are ALLOWED to be upset 👍. Just be secure in the knowledge that your supporters/friends/family have your back and that's all that matters Xx
Once I messed up a whole jump corse and ended up with a sprained ankle. As long as you tried it’s amazing! You have the courage to go and try which is amazing. No mater what you are amazing.
Everyone has their days and it’s alright to make mistakes. That’s the way we learn😊 Nobody’s perfect and you inspire us all SOO much!❤️❤️❤️
Megan, I live through your vlogs and please know that everyone follows you because of how honest you are. There are always going to be bad days. You're such an inspiration
Don’t listen to people calling you a brat- they are just lesser people..
Just started watching video, but hope your doing okay Meg
You’re not at all a brat and just remember to stay positive you are always loved by many humans
P.s you are my fav CZcamsr ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
aw, don’t be down you jumped 2 fab rounds and an amazing dressage as per, it happens to the best of us and you still did amazing!💖💖💖💖
Hope you are ok! Sending love, you are so inspiring xx
Meg don't worry you did amazing and we all have bad riding days. Jam looked absolutely amazing and she looked happy to be out and she and you tried your best and that's all you can ask ❤❤🐴🐴
Really sad to see you cry ! Just remember you are absolutly amazing don't beat yourself up you tried your best xxx
I absolutley understand the emotions around this. I had 5 competitions in a row where I was first outside of placed. I had good runs, even great ones but I still got frustrated and emotional not getting all the way. But I do have to say that I felt like Jam had such more quality in her canter; it was powerful and bold and although I tought you rode her beautifully maybe you guys just needs a few more runs to get the feel for this power. I adore you Meg and your channel. Its ok to feel things.
Meg you should be so proud of Jam (and yourself) - she was AMAZING - all down to your hard work and training. It's perfectly understandable to be disappointed - having worked so hard. Your vlogs have meant a great deal to me (& I am sure many others) during the last 18 months. I applaud you for that & for the wonderful way you & Hobbit love & care for your precious ponies & how you take us along with you on your travels. A massive THANK YOU. Much love❤
Your not a brat , these thing happen, you and jam did your best :) I'm proud of you both
Honestly, I think it’s so so rude that that person from Instagram sent you such a message. Eventing is your passion, it’s expensive, you’re relatively famous in the equine world which must be a lot of pressure and you lost out because of something so small; of course you’re going to be upset by it! I’m so sorry that that person made you feel as if you were a brat, your disappointment and tears are completely valid, Meg. The ending of the vlog made my heart hurt for you because you sounded so defeated and conscious of showing your feelings, but honestly, I think most of us in your position would’ve cried. Your emotions, whether they’re good or bad, are always valid, especially when you share so much of your life with us ❤️
Take no notice of the negative people. They are just sado's. You both did amazing sending a good old Yorkshire hug xxx
Can we just appreciate how good of a rider Meg is. I was watching you jump those jumps and I was in awe. I look up to you soo much and I have become a better rider because of you! Also those people who put nasty comments are just jealous and you are not and ignorant brat. You are far from it. ❤️🥰
Awh thank you lovely ❤️
You're Amazing! Love, love every one of your vlogs! I know the ups and downs and getting through helps oodles of people. Keep up the hard work and please don't change a thing!
I hope youre doing okay! I recently had bad fall involving a 16.3 fall (whilst we were riding on the road). I narrowly avoided being landed on by him 🥺
You did your best and you did well! but others did better and there's no shame in being disappointed for missing out (potentially) on something like Badminton.
It is a recurring dream of yours after all. :D
Another go tomorrow and you'll do your best then too!
Don’t concentrate on the bad but instead concentrate on the good... your amazing and we love that you show the good and the bad and show us all the real you... 🐴❤️
Very satisfying to be watching this after just having seen you go round Badminton grassroots 2023 👍
It’s ok to be disappointed. You are in a competitive hobby. Always next time :)
You're not an ignorant brat! Never let the praises go to your head, or the criticisms to your heart. ❤
Don’t worry! We all have our bad times. You should be so proud that your here at this level! You are amazing, Meg.
My cousin went to this event! Jess James? She was riding a grey called SpiritXI. We’re all so proud of you, Meg regardless!! ❤️❤️❤️
Meg, you both were amazing. There is nothing wrong, that you care. We love you because of that. We can see you care about you results, your horses. That is normal. Don't be afraid to show emotions, it is completely normal 😊
Jam just flies over the jumps. Wonderful ride! Ignore the haters.
Don't let negative people get to you Meg! You and Jam killed it and you'll crush it next time with Dee! Let the frustration/disappointment drive you forward!
1 sec ago I’m getting obsessed I laugh and smile at your vids and my mum goes your watching her again lol
Dee jam Dora. Go the greys 🐎🐎🐎
All the best Meg
Big day
Lots of emotion
Life’s up and done
Better day tmw
Rest up and it will all be ok
You have inspired me so much and I look up to you every day remember that aslong as you abs ur horse walk away fine then that’s all that matters I know the feeling of guilt that saying to your self I could of done this I could of done that but at the end of the day think off all that you have achieved ❤️❤️❤️❤️xx
Don't ever apologise for being you. Its never easy when things don't work out the way we hope and dream that they will no matter how good the result is. Be proud of you and Jam for working so hard that she was able to do so well and that your hard work made it easy for Jam to eat up the xc.
you have the right to feel sad and frustrated your human its fair, you both did amazing you should be very proud of yourself and jammy!
Let’s explore Meg. One the later start times aren’t ideal you have to wait all day and it’s a lot of thinking time, two that lead to jump three looked extremely boggy, three 9 secs is an easy thing to fix especially when a horse is up for it.
One other thing, I know social media thing is your jam (sorry for the pun) but haters will always hate. You’ve done incredible well to get where you are, and who ever said that, doesn’t know what it feels like to be an athlete with a dream. All I can say is trot on to the next event.
I think you and Jam did amazingly we all have good and bad days and just think of how much you have achieved with Jam in such a short space of time as it doesn’t seem that long ago she was doing her first proper show and now she is at 90 BE this is amazing and plus you are a person that keeps it real you put everything into everything that you do so emotions are expected so ignore the haters just please don’t apologise for being human and having hopes so thank you for being you and always stay strong and keep it real and if in doubt know that me and the rest of your followers etc have your back so never feel you are alone
Head out to Bicton and try for your qualification there, you got this Meg!
We all have disappointments in life, don’t let anyone put you down for being upset or for crying! I call these events a “life learning experiences “ and, so now you pick yourself up, wear your watch next time. You are a brilliant rider! I hope they change to the 20% as well so all of your hard work pays off for you.
13:26. That arrow jump looked awesome.
rewatching this knowing you have now qualified!!!
It’s ok not to be ok!! I felt your disappointment and can I just say, you are amazing and you inspire so many people, you are definitely not a brat. As your mum said Jam is still very green, but every event you take her to she just gets better and better her day and yours will come. I love this pony ❤️ Ace’s face earlier did make me laugh he looks like he had so much character.
Awww we all have ups and downs but I'm sure u guys will get there 🤍on to the next one with happy and healthy ponies💗💗
Don’t be down on your self you and jam did great you and dee are going to do great to
We all have bad days 🥺 you should still be so proud of that little pony tho she was jumping like a bomb 🔥 she’s definitely going places with her speedy little legs, I hope it went well with Dee and good luck for the next event you’ve got 💓
Dont beat yourself up to much meg everyone makes mistakes and you can feel how you want to feel dont listen to wat nasty people say 😘
Your goals are your goals. You have a right to your feelings. Don’t let others get your down. Keep your chin up. 🤗🤗🤗🤗
i teard up.
Im so sorry meg, keep your head up and know that this one blip doesnt define anything. You and your ponies are incredible
don’t be so hard don yourself - here’s to winning next time 💓
You did super good!! I always say “ you either win or you learn you never ever lose!” So today you may not have won but you learned something!!! And sometimes that’s more important than winning!
Meg life is life. If something happens move on. You are one of the best jumpers I have ever seen and I would hate it if you stopped doing what you love. You will get them next time :)
You should be SO proud of yourself! You have a wonderful relationship with your pony and you both gave it your all! That is all you can ever ask for.
I remembered when you took bear!
If you feel pressure because of us then absolutely don’t. We don’t care what happens with your results, we love you and anything that happens we will support you and wish you luck if you need it, and congratulate you when you get there. And you aren’t an ignorant brat you were frustrated which is understandable, it’s ok to be annoyed. We love you 💝💘
Meg! I am SO gutted for you, I cried with you!! Absolutely screw all the Karen's who are being horrible they've clearly nothing better to do! Of course you are happy you are all home safe but you're upset you're devastated! Never apologise for showing your true emotions thata why we love you! You will never please everyone. No matter how wonderful someone's life is no one is just happy all the time and see's the good! Everyone has bad days and sometimes concentrates on the bad, you're human!! We love you meg xxx
There is no need to apologise for being disappointed and upset. You work so hard and have done an amazing job with your horses and we all understand that you’re not being a brat you’re just frustrated that it didn’t go better. Don’t be hard on yourself because you’ve done so well to be where you are now and the fact that Jam ate up that XC course is due to your hard work and brilliant riding. You’ll get to badminton again soon ❤️
Meg, Well Done.
I thought that your dressage, jumping and cross country were wonderful. I cannot understand that if you go faster than the allotted time you are at fault.Keep your chin up there is always tomorrow. You have absolutely nothing to be disappointed
about, you did fantastic rounds in all of your events. Looking forward to tomorrow. Jane 🐴🐎😎👍🧑🏻🦰
We all have good and bad days Meg, don’t be too hard on yourself, put it to bed, you’ll get there 💜 you deserve to get there xx
You are not an ignorant brat at all! Everyone gets disappointed sometimes and that’s okay. Do not listen to that person! You have also inspired me so much and I love watching your videos
I haven’t watched it all yet, but you definitely seem to get more nervous & put more pressure on yourself for qualifiers. Such a shame! We all love your vlogs regardless of results xx
There are so many people out there can try to crush and criticise others because of their own deficits and just pure nastiness. Blocks them and delete them and don’t let them hurt you - they are utterly irrelevant. You are not a brat!!! You are so loved and admired by so many people who you don’t know. You deserve success but it wasn’t your day. You are just lovely and brilliant. X
Your feelings are what make you human, you have every right to be annoyed, sad, happy, over the moon with yourself and your riding everyone does it because how else do you learn? Trainers tell us how to do things better to improve our riding they don't tell us we're perfect and they certainly don't get annoyed at us about our feeling they just enhance the good we do to make us feel like we've done terrible, I LOVED watching this video and the smile on your face says it all! And Jam was a star! What a rocket on the XC who cares if you where 9seconds to fast that just shows how much she loved it! Keep your chin up Meg xx
Meg you did great and seriously I cry even when we do good and definitely when I mess up and let Lemme down! It's a high stress sport and this show was definitely a big one for you, so who ever left that comment was just being mean. You are such an inspiration and so fun to watch. And I absolutely LOVE Jammie! She is a rock star!!!
Sucks you didn’t qualify but Jam looked INCREDIBLE! Big things to come with her!
Well done Meg, I think you did amazing. You are not an ignorant brat, at all, that comment annoyed me xx
Do not let anyone invalidate your feelings no matter what it’s over. If you’re upset you’re upset. Take care of yourself.
Meg, I just want to say you are absolutely amazing. You're channel is super fun and I always learn heaps, you inspire me to be a better rider and to train hard but fun. I only just started riding again so I have a long way to go.
We don't think you are a brat for being sad, people are allowed to have emotions and I'm glad you share yours with us. Please don't hide your feeling to please other people. We love and appreciate you the way you are, and yes you have a fabulous life but you don't have to be sorry about being disappointed! It's normal and it's human. You work so hard to get places and when you don't get there of course you'll be sad, you're not a robot. Don't let stupid internet people change you. Keep it up We love ya!!! 🥰🥰🥰