How I became an accidental fashion icon at 64 | Lyn Slater | TEDxMidAtlantic

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  • čas přidán 4. 10. 2018
  • It's not often a grandmother and university professor becomes an icon of style with a growing online Instagram and blog following of all ages. But that's exactly what Lyn Slater did, because she was, "having trouble finding a fashion blog or magazine that offered an urban, modern, intellectual aesthetic but also spoke to women who live what I call 'interesting but ordinary lives' in cities." And Lyn has a message to everyone who thinks they want fame and to be special: the real secret is to just be okay being you. Lyn Slater is a professor of social work, a cultural influencer, a model, a writer, partner, mother and grandmother.
    She started her blog, Accidental Icon, in September 2014 because she could not find a fashion blog or magazine that offered an urban, modern, intellectual aesthetic and also spoke to people who live “interesting but ordinary lives” in cities.
    People (like Lyn) who are not famous or celebrities but are smart, creative, thoughtful, engaged, socially responsible and most importantly clear and comfortable with who they are and reflect this in how they dress. At the age when many people retire, Lyn Slater has reinvented herself as an influencer of popular culture, fashion model, and global icon. Lyn’s rejection of age as a variable to be considered in how one dresses has resonated and her blog has fans from around the world. Her Instagram has over 250,000 followers, most of whom are young. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 77

  • @MrDarren690
    @MrDarren690 Před 2 lety +13

    Her main takeaway is to be your ordinary, real, authentic self. Other hints include opening your mind and heart to new people and new experiences, transforming your mistakes into learning experiences, and laughing at yourself a little. But what she's not saying is that, you need to show up somewhere. You need a "spot" to sit and stand walk around in. I wish she told us more about how she built her spot. Regardless, what a wonderful personality! Her soul is timeless.

  • @winterlongmire501
    @winterlongmire501 Před 5 lety +90

    Thank you for keeping women over 60 relevant and inspiring us fabulous 'old broads'!

  • @islandgirl8914
    @islandgirl8914 Před 5 lety +65

    My mom turns 70 next week and she is my fashion icon! She dresses me!!

  • @sherryhicks4156
    @sherryhicks4156 Před 2 lety +4

    Loved this talk. My life really began at 70!

  • @dezerismith7529
    @dezerismith7529 Před 3 lety +7

    Her hair is gorgeous

  • @ritu-6297
    @ritu-6297 Před 5 lety +70

    I love this woman. I aspire to be this confident and elegant .

  • @nancyoffenhiser4916
    @nancyoffenhiser4916 Před 5 lety +67

    Lyn is the whole package, intelligence and beauty! She makes this 60 year old know that she can reinvent herself, create and grow!

  • @aurorav.7209
    @aurorav.7209 Před 4 lety +15

    Everysince I saw Lyn Slater on CZcams, she became an inspiration to me and I'm sure to older women who want to be in style without getting criticized. I love her style. I love to dress up and wear high heels all the time because I'm very short and one person commented behind my back that " She shouldn't be wearing high heels at her age.* I was taken aback, so I said I didn't know there's an age limit to what people want to wear. That's why I'm happy to find out that it's ok for older people to dress in style you feel good in. And you are an inspiration to me. Thank you.

  • @desireepeters7520
    @desireepeters7520 Před 5 lety +13

    I am 47years old and I just love fashion ever since I was young this lady really makes me feel like I could look good when I am older pretty cool go Lyn Slayer!!😎👠👜👢👚🛍️👍

  • @SuperPina
    @SuperPina Před 5 lety +43

    You are my inspiration. I am a fashion and beauty blogger and a lawyer and just like you, people have a hard time wrapping their minds around it. Authenticity is the most important thing and it's not about having millions of followers, it's about inspiring others by simply being you. xoxo

    • @KSparks80
      @KSparks80 Před 5 lety

      You say "authenticity is the most important thing". Yet your photos are as authentic as a 3 dollar bill. Hhhmmm.

    • @jessegabriel364
      @jessegabriel364 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah you right.
      Am a fashion designer and a fashion instructor from African Nigeria. I will love to work with you if possible

  • @daniellem.gibson4658
    @daniellem.gibson4658 Před 4 lety +38

    I want to be like her when I am in my 60s! She is really fun and creative; an inspiration 😍

    • @ew2645
      @ew2645 Před 4 lety +2

      Danielle M. Gibson when you get a chance, check out Linda Rodin. She is also fabulous

    • @daniellem.gibson4658
      @daniellem.gibson4658 Před 4 lety +1

      @@ew2645 Thank you!

    • @Lexicakes89
      @Lexicakes89 Před 2 lety +2

      Why wait?

  • @architecture.w
    @architecture.w Před 2 lety +3

    She reminds me of my mother-in-law.

  • @kevinbennett7329
    @kevinbennett7329 Před 4 lety +5

    WE ADORE YOU LYN SLATER! - Hugs & Kisses

  • @soniapizzi8930
    @soniapizzi8930 Před 2 lety +3

    She is fabulous!

  • @geewiz8253
    @geewiz8253 Před 5 lety +29

    Thank you. I was felling a bit down and it helped to hear that. Sometimes we forget we are pretty cool.

  • @debwright3190
    @debwright3190 Před 2 lety +2

    😲😲Finally! Getting to see more senior women in action, thank you.👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Ninof33
    @Ninof33 Před 5 lety +27

    Omg! Just was thinking what would help me to come out my miserable situation that happens over and over.
    I haven’t yet expressed my true self and I’m 43. I have unique style, love redesigning vintage, I’m inspired by early 1900’s. Not too many people know about it. Maybe if I’ll be who I truly am I’ll stop being in the same miserable place. Thank you. ❤️

    • @johnhollandjr.2632
      @johnhollandjr.2632 Před 5 lety +3

      Ninof33... I send you and Lola M an abundance of love and positive energy. Check out the book, “The Artist Way.”

  • @socorrokennedy7218
    @socorrokennedy7218 Před 5 lety +27

    i love her i am like her i am a grandmother and i love to dress like her . when i found her was WOW what a beautiful lady .. i love you. you made me feel grate!! god bless you. keep doing that you look beautiful !!

  • @Anna-ky7ix
    @Anna-ky7ix Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for being so inspiring! I love your visibility in a world that has been hiding & disregarding the beauty of us aging women !

  • @markodejanovic1635
    @markodejanovic1635 Před 5 lety +9

    I love you Lyn, you are the best. You are my inspiration. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Much love from Serbia❤

  • @susangannon2493
    @susangannon2493 Před 5 lety +2

    Fractured Fairy Tales were my FAVORITES! Lyn, you are an amazing example of a woman who owns!

  • @strongerpink3376
    @strongerpink3376 Před 3 lety +2

    She is awesome stylish avant-garde! Her age is nothing I plan being her at her age ! It’s my passion to always to be stylish at any age.

  • @CatherineSews
    @CatherineSews Před 2 lety +2

    This was great for me to see. I've always loved and been involved in fashion, but as I'm in my late 50s, it's great to see such an elegant example of a woman over 60 being relevant, fashionable and inspiring. Thank you, Lyn!

  • @wormemc
    @wormemc Před 5 lety +32

    This deserves being much longer!

  • @darinl9405
    @darinl9405 Před 2 lety +1

    At the end of the day, you realize that you have nothing left but to be what you are, and no one needs to tell you that.

  • @marisa9968
    @marisa9968 Před 5 lety +9

    Absolutely amazing, intelligent, and elegant!

  • @whiskersBOOSTER2
    @whiskersBOOSTER2 Před 2 lety +2

    What a fantastic talk...she’s amazing!

  • @rosdepedro9108
    @rosdepedro9108 Před 5 lety +10

    simply amazing❤️

  • @lauraflores1482
    @lauraflores1482 Před 5 lety +1

    I love that this is about fashion and how to be a good teacher.

  • @kevinbennett7329
    @kevinbennett7329 Před 4 lety +2

    my god. I adore you Lyn.

  • @mithriwali5996
    @mithriwali5996 Před rokem +1

  • @getagava2912
    @getagava2912 Před 5 lety +3

    Amazing Lyn !!!

  • @kandyquevedo4348
    @kandyquevedo4348 Před 5 lety +18

    She is amazing!💜

  • @Drezzedtokill
    @Drezzedtokill Před 5 lety +8

    That’s AWESOME !!!!!

  • @wandali100
    @wandali100 Před 5 lety +5

    my girl. love her

  • @jcnashjcnashpr2011
    @jcnashjcnashpr2011 Před 5 lety +8

    I just love her! Amazing!

  • @thearistocratgrows8651
    @thearistocratgrows8651 Před 5 lety +8

    An ankle length trench coat is always awesome

  • @leticiamorales5984
    @leticiamorales5984 Před 5 lety +2

    Bravo!!!

  • @noiretbeau
    @noiretbeau Před 5 lety +27

    Ok, I like the talk. Now where can I get that outfit...mmmm?

  • @NataliaSeptember.
    @NataliaSeptember. Před 5 lety +7

    I want to cry!! but these are happy tears:)) thank you so much for this talk!

  • @yinafrentz
    @yinafrentz Před 2 lety

    Superpower: the very famous people are just ordinary themselves without data.

  • @CarenWilson
    @CarenWilson Před 2 lety +1

    Just do you. I love that

  • @dortyaprakliyonca5854
    @dortyaprakliyonca5854 Před 5 lety +4

    💜

  • @yolarola6261
    @yolarola6261 Před 4 lety

    WOW!!!

  • @getagava2912
    @getagava2912 Před 5 lety +4

    I'm happy to be me .

  • @janaesimmons4672
    @janaesimmons4672 Před 4 lety +11

    You are super cool. Many of us have Cinderella stories. I had a big gap between my front teeth/prayed it away. God is Great.

  • @carmencosmina_3254
    @carmencosmina_3254 Před 2 lety

    Robert tirnaveanu 2021

  • @tertommy
    @tertommy Před 5 lety

    TEDx < TED

  • @heathergustafson4237
    @heathergustafson4237 Před 5 lety

    Are you related to Ann Slater?

  • @brianskinner3440
    @brianskinner3440 Před 5 lety +1

    I hate that commercial

  • @dr.kenpetty5167
    @dr.kenpetty5167 Před 4 lety +4

    She's only 64? I would have swore she was in her 80s.

  • @maddscientist3170
    @maddscientist3170 Před 4 lety

    LMAO

  • @sharoncox8612
    @sharoncox8612 Před 5 lety

    Andy Warhol much...

  • @positivityplace
    @positivityplace Před 4 lety +3

    I saw her commercial and wanted to know more about this lady who was modeling and I said that is great for an older lady in her eighties or nineties to model and feel young but she is 66 and I have to say that she needs to take better care of herself...,66 is not so you can look like 90...

  • @barbilove1698
    @barbilove1698 Před 5 lety +2

    Looks older...

  • @lmcdonald1879
    @lmcdonald1879 Před 4 lety +1

    me me me me me..passed her in vegas..what am I missing..never saw so many eyes rolls and turn avoids , as she swept past in my buying life..sorry Lyn..not everyones into you...mabey some humility..lots of us find that attractive.....

  • @camillehill8795
    @camillehill8795 Před 3 lety

    This woman is way older than 64 . She is looks OK, but is rather haughty and silly.