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  • @queenjosie1766
    @queenjosie1766 Před 2 lety +581

    So Sad that she lets her insecurities get the best out of her… She needs to see a counselor to overcome that or she’ll push him away Ppl can only take so much until they are actually done with that person

    • @nessafitnessvlogs9513
      @nessafitnessvlogs9513 Před 2 lety +13

      That's truth she needs to stop with her insecurities Alex loves her so much he's a keeper don't messed up Girl💖

    • @Barbiieereyess
      @Barbiieereyess Před 2 lety +9

      I honestly think these are just skits/staged Jeheily is an amazing actor, look at her acting during her pranks and compare it to these types of videos. Yes they do youtube, however. imo had it been a real life scenario knowing heiley's crazy ass she wouldnt of been this calm and her first instinct wouldn't have been to pick up the camera to record...

    • @deethemua4231
      @deethemua4231 Před 2 lety +3

      Very true!

    • @mommytoaxel
      @mommytoaxel Před 2 lety +1

      Amen 🙌

    • @torrezcindy12
      @torrezcindy12 Před 2 lety +12

      This is true. I’ve been watching them
      For many years and I can say that this is something constant 🤨 I would’ve left a long time ago ... Don’t get me wrong I love watching their videos but just what I thought.

  • @relaxationcove6682
    @relaxationcove6682 Před 2 lety +583

    Girl you'll never be happy if you keep comparing to other people. You guys have a beautiful life and story that only YOU can write. Enjoy every chapter mamas. All of our stories are different!

    • @inpowr
      @inpowr Před 2 lety +27

      Notice how it’s lowkey on Alex because he’s actually in control of the money and everything. I really don’t think this leads to them being together forever. She way too obsessed and has nothing of her own to contribute to stand on and that’s very important in a successful relationship or marriage . She going to end up like mama Lisa

    • @mariaortiz8739
      @mariaortiz8739 Před 2 lety +13

      @@inpowr I’ve always thought it was weird that they both have the channel and she even has her own but she always asks him to buy her things or if she could I know for a fact that she makes more money but acts like it’s him🤨

    • @iszyp6328
      @iszyp6328 Před 2 lety +3

      @@mariaortiz8739 maybe he's just better at managing the money and makes sure everything gets payed..usually in a couples there's one that likes to spend money on unnecessary stuff instead of paying bills..not saying that you cant treat your self here and there but as long as the important stuff is out the way.

    • @nessafitnessvlogs9513
      @nessafitnessvlogs9513 Před 2 lety +1

      AMEN❤

    • @mariaortiz8739
      @mariaortiz8739 Před 2 lety +3

      @@iszyp6328 I understand what your saying but she asks for simple things like clothes and make up almost like she doesn’t keep any money to herself.. but that’s all speculation from what we get to see I just find it weird and almost making her feel less? When she’s a QUEEN

  • @myhealingjourney3830
    @myhealingjourney3830 Před 2 lety +152

    If you don't trust him leave. That has to be miserable.. lord she goes straight to blaming him.

  • @edithhernandez3386
    @edithhernandez3386 Před 2 lety +159

    This video just proves how she don’t trust him at all. Didn’t even take what he was saying into consideration just went straight to accusing and assuming he had a girl in a house.

    • @hannahc776
      @hannahc776 Před 2 lety +35

      I love her ,but it’s crazy how people justify her actions bc “ we know she’s toxica “ , like no !that’s not healthy ! 🤦🏻‍♀️ she upsets herself when she can be loving on her man & enjoying her relationship.

    • @edithhernandez3386
      @edithhernandez3386 Před 2 lety +22

      @@hannahc776 girllllll yes. Like I felt so bad for Alex and I really don’t care what he did to her in the past bc obviously she doesn’t either bc she’s still with him. So I feel like she should at least trust/love him enough to consider what he’s saying if not she shouldn’t be with him. She’s lowkey just messing up her relationship. Men don’t tolerate that forever.

    • @hqcart1
      @hqcart1 Před 2 lety +14

      If she stays like this, I expect them to seperate.

    • @jaylinm7297
      @jaylinm7297 Před 2 lety +13

      @@edithhernandez3386 she also cheated .

    • @edithhernandez3386
      @edithhernandez3386 Před 2 lety +10

      @@jaylinm7297 ahhhhh that’s why she’s so insecure smh. That’s sad.

  • @ruthfernandes5042
    @ruthfernandes5042 Před 2 lety +62

    The level of patience Alex has is incredible.😍

  • @yerboythaplug
    @yerboythaplug Před 2 lety +161

    Alex is the MASTER of patience and forgiveness! Bro if I was in your shoes I would need a whole soild day away from Jehiely. That's your woman no question but sometimes for our own fucking sanity, taking a few hours to yourself is more than okay after all that shit!!!

    • @karinag8171
      @karinag8171 Před 2 lety +8

      Amen she don’t know how it Really be

    • @stephaniehernandez3507
      @stephaniehernandez3507 Před 2 lety +9

      Shes only gonna accuse him of cheating for wanting his own space and time lol

    • @analih352
      @analih352 Před rokem

      @@stephaniehernandez3507 didn’t he cheated before?

  • @msssgarcia5384
    @msssgarcia5384 Před 2 lety +53

    It’s sad that after so many years, you’re still hella insecure with yourself girl. You’re gna end up pushing him away or driving yourself crazy.. you want him to confess to something he didn’t do.. this is the perfect example of why you don’t stay with someone who has cheated , if you do, forgive that person and let it go. Don’t bring it up anymore.

  • @stephaniehernandez3507
    @stephaniehernandez3507 Před 2 lety +53

    Girl u got the man u got the house u got the cats. His family likes u, ur beautiful. U have ur CZcams so u dont have a 9 to 5. U got things u need to heal from even if u refuse to acknowledge it, maybe then, youll be happy & appreciate your life

  • @Kimberlysocialmgmt
    @Kimberlysocialmgmt Před 2 lety +180

    Dang I feel like even after being married she won't be secure in their relationship, you gotta be more confident in your relationship and trust that they love you. Maybe counseling for her would be healthy for their relationship so she can work through that self-esteem issue

    • @ohme3959
      @ohme3959 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes agree...

    • @mrs.dudley2111
      @mrs.dudley2111 Před 2 lety +1

      100% agree

    • @daytay3845
      @daytay3845 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes facts

    • @rochaisabel2
      @rochaisabel2 Před 2 lety +10

      Facts. And honestly it kind of feels like she be guilt tripping him too. I love them together but sometimes I be feeling bad for Alex cuz she can be a lot sometimes

    • @mrs.dudley2111
      @mrs.dudley2111 Před 2 lety +5

      @@rochaisabel2 your absolutely right.. She does guilt trip that man. She is so manipulative like crying and making him feel bad about curtain situations.. She had just went to the restroom and all of sudden came out crying lmfao..

  • @ivettemendoza893
    @ivettemendoza893 Před 2 lety +174

    Alex isn’t perfect but he puts up with a lot. Don’t be surprised if you push him to actually do something..

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    • @buffalo.blackk
      @buffalo.blackk Před 2 lety +3

      Jeheily is too insecure. She always thinks Alex is cheating. She’s a toxic girlfriend.

  • @melanievega7821
    @melanievega7821 Před 2 lety +98

    Both had cheated on each other in the past . There will never be trust again . This is just so toxic . They will never be in peace , that’s why you don’t stay with someone who cheated on you before . , for more that you try and make it work.

    • @ccv3305
      @ccv3305 Před 2 lety

      How you know they both cheated ? They have a vid?

    • @blah4115
      @blah4115 Před 2 lety

      @@ccv3305 idk about her cheating on him but in several past videos she has said he has cheated on her

    • @alejandraamartinez2091
      @alejandraamartinez2091 Před 2 lety +4

      Yup they both cheated they have old videos of it

    • @sandrataylorfatloss3201
      @sandrataylorfatloss3201 Před 2 lety +9

      @@ccv3305 yea , if you watch their older videos , they talk about it a lot , I used to watch them when she use to choke him 🤣🤣

    • @Aletria222
      @Aletria222 Před 2 lety +2

      @@sandrataylorfatloss3201 yes like back in the og days. But they're not kids anymore so lashing out because of ur own issues is not it.

  • @sorelireyes6395
    @sorelireyes6395 Před 2 lety +26

    I feel bad for Alex! Like y'all are together 24/7, if you're questioning his loyalty, maybe you shouldn't get married yet! Trust is one of the most important things in marriage!

  • @marinacardenas7436
    @marinacardenas7436 Před 2 lety +118

    Ugh I felt so bad when she was opening Alex’s gifts and she was being ungrateful and being negative until she tried them on 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Dee11711
      @Dee11711 Před 2 lety +31

      Her whole vibe during that whole gift exchange was just cringe like she was faking it because she felt bad for over reacting over a hair tie

    • @karinag8171
      @karinag8171 Před 2 lety +16

      She’s still has lots of maturing to do

    • @anayelihernandez7195
      @anayelihernandez7195 Před 2 lety +4

      Her ungrateful self ! Like be happy with what you get ! Some people wishes to have some shoes like that and yet there she goes being ungrateful until she tried them on! 🤦🏻‍♀️😒

    • @sevyneleven1833
      @sevyneleven1833 Před rokem

      Ya all sound miserable be quiet she’s a great woman you don’t need to be a yes ma’am to be great like be quiet it was a good video salty buns

  • @rosiomartinez7611
    @rosiomartinez7611 Před 2 lety +54

    If you keep being so insecure and toxic , ur Relationship it’s not gonna last🙅🏻‍♀️ and for the best don’t get married if you’re gonna keep acting that way 🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️.

  • @ashleecommerata6594
    @ashleecommerata6594 Před 2 lety +181

    Girl people don’t always get engaged in one year! Don’t compare to other people!! It will have the best meaning when it happens at your pace like Alex said!

    • @veronicamelendez7190
      @veronicamelendez7190 Před 2 lety +3

      Agree it took 8 years for me to get engaged

    • @zoet9882
      @zoet9882 Před 2 lety

      She was saying getting married the same year she got engaged, but yes I agree with you!

  • @ohme3959
    @ohme3959 Před 2 lety +45

    Jehiely!! Guurl.... your attitude throughout the video made me feel bad for alex, Your so negative at times, Look on the bright side dont down your relationship, Stop being so toxic and learn how to trust, Even tho it may be hard it doesn't hurt to try and trust someone especially if your wanting to marry them. A marriage is not gonna workout if you dont learn to trust the man you love. Communicate dont accuse them right away when you dont know anything yet??..

  • @Venise7777
    @Venise7777 Před 2 lety +59

    Girl STOP being so insecure 🤣💙💪🏼

  • @lovepink9806
    @lovepink9806 Před 2 lety +81

    THIS GIRL IS NEVER HAPPY ABOUT ANYTHING. ALWAYS COMPLAINING AND CRYING ABOUT EVERYTHING.

    • @shortydulce88
      @shortydulce88 Před 2 lety +8

      It’s annoying like
      I can even feel sorry for her

  • @mean_s5abuhantash925
    @mean_s5abuhantash925 Před 2 lety +174

    She’s so ungrateful it’s so sad , you can tell she’s pushing him, girl change your ways before you lose him , you don’t deserve half of the stuff he does for you.

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      @lakersin4latenightconvo Před 2 lety

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    • @Lorena-hn4yz
      @Lorena-hn4yz Před 3 měsíci

      Ur disgusting what u said, first of all she’s not ungrateful she loves her stuff and she’s not pushing Alex , Alex would of broke up with jehiely mater of fact He is STILL with her they love each other ur just a hater and need to go watch another video if ur gonna comment and hate like that? Jehiely May have insecurities she may get mad over the littlest things like the fact that she got mad about that hair tie but at least she has a big heart and cares about mama Lisa and Alex so stfu and move tf on.

    • @Lorena-hn4yz
      @Lorena-hn4yz Před 3 měsíci

      Shes not even ungrateful she loves the stuff she got and gets from mama Lisa and alex if you don’t like jehiely go watch something else because seeing this type of comment is disgusting especially how you hating she may have insecurities she may even get mad over the littlest things but at least she has a a big heart and cares about Alex and mama Lisa 😐.

  • @irenerodriguez7276
    @irenerodriguez7276 Před 2 lety +42

    It’s cringy seeing her act like that to Alex at first and then seeing her switch up like that lol

  • @celositapraga7388
    @celositapraga7388 Před 2 lety +20

    Girl relax u are over reacting over a damn hair tie ..I love you guys but girl you way to jealous ..it could be one of the girls that went to your house but forgot they had a brown hair tie chill 🤣

    • @poohcorner24
      @poohcorner24 Před 2 lety +1

      Alex must be doing something 🤔 it's such a Outrageous reaction over a hair tie

    • @sashamuniz0521
      @sashamuniz0521 Před 2 lety

      @@poohcorner24 still hurt from the past. I was the same way with my ex

  • @oryana5598
    @oryana5598 Před 2 lety +32

    the hair tie could have easily been there for over a month without you finding it tho? like a hair tie isn't that easy to find. you're freaking out too much girl.

  • @candykissess3051
    @candykissess3051 Před 2 lety +50

    La verdad caes mal cuando te portas así Jehiely. Lo tienes todo y una vida que muchos quisieran tener se ve que eres luchona pero esa actitud que te cargas algún día Dios no quiera y te quedes sola. Dios los bendiga

  • @Toomuchmadds
    @Toomuchmadds Před 2 lety +55

    I think the insecurities can creep up on anyone girly! We’re human and as women it’s natural to feel uncertain at times especially within our thoughts and feelings. However, I do think Alex has shown you the amount of love he has for you and how serious he is about you guys in sooo many ways💕
    I’ve been a follower for years and he has definitely stepped up and has proven how much he really values you as his woman. It’s been a long process to get engaged but you have to keep in mind you guys started from the bottom. As a couple of teens to adults living at mama Lisa’s house, to now owning a beautiful home you guys worked so hard for. The most beautiful part about it is that once you both got approved for your home, his first move was to propose to you. There is no doubt in his mind you’re the one for him! Don’t let those insecurities get the best of you. Weddings take time, all the planning, finding the perfect date, to finding your dream dress. Everything takes time and when you least expect it you’re going to have it all💖
    Enjoy the process, and most importantly embrace every moment good and bad because what you guys have is solid asf. Love you guys!! 💕💕

    • @buffalo.blackk
      @buffalo.blackk Před 2 lety +1

      Wrong. Insecurities bother insecure ppl. Jeheily is an insanely jealous and I secure woman. Alex has a whole life entangled w/ her and a huge investment in a house so he can’t really get out of the situation. She seems like she may have bipolar disorder honestly and she’s constantly getting jealous while Alex is always chill and as cool 😎 as a cucumber fresh out the fridge. They’re already going to counseling in their 20s, this relationship is doomed to fail eventually. I give up to age 30. They’ll be broken up by them. Her deep seated trauma is not Alex’s issue. It’s her’s and he’s just suffering because she has unresolved issues.
      Run away, Alex. Save yourself.

  • @meandmyadhd5739
    @meandmyadhd5739 Před 2 lety +69

    Don't compare your relationship or timeline to anyone else's, no one is going to have the same magic as the next. Everything comes when the time is right and when your families have the opportunity to cherish the moments with you. This isn't a delay, it's the chance to plan the perfect day ❤️. My husband and I had a one year old and another on the way before we got engaged. One year later we took both kids to the courthouse and got married. We're still saving and planning our wedding day now to make sure everything is perfect. Life happens in the way we least expect it but most need it.

  • @jennyypda0398
    @jennyypda0398 Před 2 lety +44

    Alex deserves an apology by Jehiely 😂

  • @CalmnessHeartsease
    @CalmnessHeartsease Před 2 lety +28

    *Well that obviously means he’s already planning the wedding as a surprise, stop with the insecurity! Thats YOUR MAN*

  • @tcreez2430
    @tcreez2430 Před 2 lety +383

    Jeheily gets so annoying sometimes.... As soon as something doesnt go her way she starts being so over dramatic and ungrateful. Girl do you know who you are? I know you're humble and everything but count your blesssings mama and stop stressing over the wrong things. Marriage won't make anything change, you and alex can only do that. Be happy love. you have so much blessings... Love you guys no hate!! ♥️

    • @dee2222364
      @dee2222364 Před 2 lety +35

      No hate after calling someone annoying lol

    • @monsecalvo3154
      @monsecalvo3154 Před 2 lety +54

      I don’t believe that’s hating, it’s just being upfront with someone.

    • @noahmartinez8888
      @noahmartinez8888 Před 2 lety +4

      It’s entertainment guys (not real)

    • @emilyvaughan4955
      @emilyvaughan4955 Před 2 lety +12

      You say “no hate” but then you call Jeheily annoying, ungrateful, dramatic and states she is over reacting. I do NOT know this couple from a whole in the wall but what I DO know is that it SOUNDS like you are a hater and in my OPINION, your words SCREAM jealousy 😂.

    • @Mistyk_J
      @Mistyk_J Před 2 lety +2

      No hate but that girl forgets where she came from sometimes so freaking annoying 😒 No hate lmao 🤣

  • @christinaschannel589
    @christinaschannel589 Před 2 lety +16

    Alex said exactly what I was thinking. Anyone of them girls could have dropped it and then Kitty had it playing with it.

  • @claudialuna1026
    @claudialuna1026 Před 2 lety +45

    Yeeesss Lisa at it again 😂😂😂
    Thank you Brandi for being in on this!!! Lol
    Lisa said the chongo would look cute with your outfit Jehiely 😂😂💀💀
    I died when you said that Lisa lol

  • @ivexoxo
    @ivexoxo Před 2 lety +93

    Girl you’re a grown woman, you don’t have to be so insecure. This is why it’s important to work on self concept before you share your life with someone else or else you’ll always have these problems

  • @fefebrofist69
    @fefebrofist69 Před 2 lety +15

    Eventually people get tired of these high school fights …. At some point we have to heal our own toxic traits and insecurities

  • @marlyngomez2095
    @marlyngomez2095 Před 2 lety +109

    In my eyes Alex really wants the perfect wedding for his perfect girl so he just doesn’t want to rush into it. Don’t worry girl you’re the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with and I’m sure once the day comes it’s going to be the best day ever 💕 love you guys! Makes me so happy seeing you’re notification when you upload 🥰

  • @jane3823
    @jane3823 Před 2 lety +35

    I knew it was a prank there was no way he could have sneaked a girl in there and no one know . It kinda upset me that she assumed right away that he was cheating 😕

    • @yeseniarodriguez1177
      @yeseniarodriguez1177 Před 2 lety +6

      Right !!! Especially on Instagram if you have her she posted it right away like she’s engaged now not in a hs relationship which I think those insecurities have stayed with her since, sadly so for her to post about it right away was wrong 😕

    • @arleth9916
      @arleth9916 Před 2 lety +7

      Fr ! Like girl you guys are home. And together 24/7 when could he possibly have time to cheat. If they wanna get married she really gotta stop this assuming without thinking first. Common sense

  • @crazysmiles2556
    @crazysmiles2556 Před 2 lety +49

    Guuurrrllll chill like you got engaged and when the perfect time you guys will know. That moment will be magical ✨✨ don't force it. Enjoy the moment 😊😊 You got your man, you got your home, you got your car and soon you'll have your wedding and then your family 👪 Much love you guys💖

    • @Aletria222
      @Aletria222 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly like I feel like she's wanting to force so much instead of just letting everything happens naturally because she's so eager for it to happen you know and that's probably putting more on their plate than what's needed

  • @cecisalazar7622
    @cecisalazar7622 Před 2 lety +93

    Girl do not compre your relationship to anyone else’s, that’ll never let you be satisfied with what you have. I feel like alex truly loves you but when you constantly presure someone to do something they’ll do it less, Plus we’re in a whole pandemic & I know every girls dream is to have a wedding but you waiting in the long run will be better because things are all over the place with the pandemic.

    • @inpowr
      @inpowr Před 2 lety +3

      Think about it she lowkey has to say something. Alex is in control of even the wedding? 🤦🏽‍♂️ If y’all don’t see red flags 🚩 in this relationship you’ll see it’s effects later down the line. This man is in control of her entire identity. Her discovering long nails?? The Gyno?? Somethings wrong with that. She all under Alex away from her parents, away from meeting new people, traveling, away from finding herself a her own woman. He gave her a make up corner like a teenage kid and buys her stuff when she complains or on holidays like a kid. It’s unhealthy the universe will eventually separate them even if it’s only for a time or that baby will teach them what’s really real life outside of that bubble Alex built

  • @Jojo-vt3rt
    @Jojo-vt3rt Před 2 lety +48

    I love Alexs' maturity, he has grown so much MENTALLY and you can see it each time they post.
    My husband and I were engaged for way, way more than a year 🙃... we got married in May of this year... We don't broadcast our life or anything, but we are all human... Don't compare yourself to others, everyone is different and things happen on their own time.

  • @ivettetenorio5786
    @ivettetenorio5786 Před 2 lety +37

    i love Jehiely and everything but accusing alex over a hair tie and then being mad like no don’t have trust issues over ur partner matter of fact just talk it out and don’t get mad nor pressed about it

    • @ivettetenorio5786
      @ivettetenorio5786 Před 2 lety +3

      i get it may seem like something but like what i’m trynna say is don’t judge no one without knowing

  • @mitateresa7568
    @mitateresa7568 Před 2 lety +146

    Imma be real I would feel the same way as her finding that with no explanation, but I’ve had guys as friends who end up cheating on their gf cause they are constantly accused when they are being faithful, so they end up cheating anyway since they are getting accused..

    • @sanj.r
      @sanj.r Před 2 lety +11

      Pull some sociology up in here, self-fulfilling prophecy guys. They were probably like if they’re going to be labelled as cheaters even if they aren’t, why not just actually cheat. It’s terrible. Trust is sooo important!

    • @amberloso1029
      @amberloso1029 Před 2 lety +15

      That's such a dumb thing. Might as well do it if I'm being treated like I'm doing it. Um... nah that's what cheaters just say to put blame on someone else. Any man who was not cheating would not have questionable shit going on and would instead leave the relationship instead of cheat because he's not a cheater. Men who cheat and blame it on "might as well" is just a cheater playing mind games.

    • @LisetteCalata
      @LisetteCalata Před 2 lety +5

      What she meant to say. Is that if your always accusing your man of cheating your man is going to get tired. He will feel like you can’t trust him.. that will lead to trust issues. And probably to more other toxic issues. BOOM both couples are UNhappy. And sometimes a person might feel trap EVEN IF they don’t have kids. And obviously they have huge commitments like a half million dolllar home or the years they spent together.

    • @jocelyngarcia6938
      @jocelyngarcia6938 Před 2 lety +5

      That’d just a poor excuse to cheat lol

  • @floritaflores8047
    @floritaflores8047 Před 2 lety +24

    Jehiely is so extra 😂😂😂

  • @vanessaperez5079
    @vanessaperez5079 Před 2 lety +52

    Alex is so caring and sweet towards her . Her on the other hand she lets her insecurities get the best of her . It was Alex aunts hair tie and she was blaming Alex the whole time unfortunately it sad to say that is not ok . Jehiely you are pretty and Alex loves you please learn to do better with certain things!!

  • @nailsbyannica
    @nailsbyannica Před 2 lety +7

    I love the genuine love you guys have for each other🥰 It broke my heart when I seen Jehiely crying I can’t imagine the stress and pressure you feel from people always asking or assuming it’s gonna take years for you guys to get married. Your love for each other is so beautiful.

  • @juanamartin3457
    @juanamartin3457 Před 2 lety +39

    That’s not weird at all lol don’t rush everything! Take the time and especially if you want a big wedding! 😊😊

  • @lujangaming2354
    @lujangaming2354 Před 2 lety +12

    😭Jehiely you need to stop being so insecure . You're Gonna Push Him Away With Your jealousy And When He's Gone You will Be Sorry Because Once He's Gone The friendship And Relationship Will Never Be The Same . He Loves You , He May Have Made Mistakes In The Past But That's The Past. If You Forgave Then Try Your Best To Forget Because If You Don't Forget You Will Never Really Forgive And Never Get Over Your Past Problems. For Better Or For Worst Or One Of You Will Get Tired And Leave .

  • @mariasuarez5255
    @mariasuarez5255 Před 2 lety +71

    I Love watching this channel, but I do think a lot of the comments are correct. Don’t compare yourself to other relationships. No relationship is perfect, every engagement is unique. Live in the Moment, There are so many couples who have extended engagements and thats perfectly okay. Use this time to continue to build. Don’t stress, everything will be okay🤍

  • @presleyholiday7331
    @presleyholiday7331 Před 2 lety +9

    I understand both sides completely. And they add up to the same thing. One in a million type of love. Stay blessed and appreciate what you guys built together! Stay the course! Everything didn't happen all at once! It's the journey!

  • @educatorally3875
    @educatorally3875 Před 2 lety +147

    While the hair tie is VERY alarming, and I'm sure you've read my other comment on your last video Jehiely, I do think that what Alex is saying is definitely plausible. The cats will DEFINITELY play with hair ties that have been hidden in places or swept under couches by accident and carry them around the house. My cats do this all the time. It's not far fetched to think that it could belong to a woman who was at your house from the halloween party over a month or two ago. Ask men's gf's, not the guy themselves because guys don't pay attention to shit like that. Men can be oblivious to the types of things that we pay close attention to such as the color and style of hair ties that we buy. It's still a big problem in my book though. The owner must be found or all trust is lost in my opinion. Do you think it could be a reallllly old hair tie from when you were younger Jehiely? Possibly one that was thrown in a box when you were moving? Maybe a hair tie that you used for something other than your hair such as holding pencils together or something? Just ideas I'm throwing out. Idk. I don't want to see this tear you guys apart, but it definitely will if it's not resolved. I feel so bad for Alex if he truly has no knowledge of where it came from. I also feel suspicious for Jehiely because finding another woman's hair tie is no good and we all know what that means happened in that room.

    • @educatorally3875
      @educatorally3875 Před 2 lety +7

      Also, make sure you talk to CJ about it too....he might have had it for some reason and took it off at your house. It could be his mothers and he was just fiddling with it and put it on his wrist like a bracelet. Ask CJ and CJ's mom.

    • @crystallsandoval2711
      @crystallsandoval2711 Před 2 lety

      Yes!!

    • @marlyngomez2095
      @marlyngomez2095 Před 2 lety +12

      Please watch the full video! It was a PRANK, it was momma Lisa’s sisters hair tie.

    • @meals_seasoned_with_love_
      @meals_seasoned_with_love_ Před 2 lety

      I think cats too, my dog brings things in the house alllllll the time!

    • @adritrez
      @adritrez Před 2 lety +2

      I also feel like asking ppl like his aunt just lets ppl into their business 😥. They’ll make fun of her. I wouldn’t want her getting into drama with others. She’s been really happy lately.

  • @jessicafelix265
    @jessicafelix265 Před 2 lety +44

    From what I’ve heard, it’s a guy thing to not be as into the wedding planning. I’ve always heard of the wife planning it with a family member or something. Maybe it’s something you can have Lisa help you out with. But don’t take it too personal, I get where you’re coming from cuz I’d probably feel the same, but just know I’ve mostly heard of all guys not being too eager to do all the planning lol

    • @lupitaa9493
      @lupitaa9493 Před 2 lety

      Agreed. My friend is getting married and her fiancé isn’t involved much. Her mom is the one helping her with all the wedding planning.

  • @deethemua4231
    @deethemua4231 Před 2 lety +4

    Toxica and ungrateful as well 🤦🏻‍♀️ you need therapy!!

  • @itsveroslife9592
    @itsveroslife9592 Před 2 lety +198

    At this point the ponytail thing is ridiculous. If he genuinely doesn’t know you can’t expect him to confess to something he doesn’t know
    Update: joke or not you really went hard on Alex 🤡 a hair tie‼️😂

    • @deadlymoonlight
      @deadlymoonlight Před 2 lety +15

      Wait til this shit happens to you🙃

    • @ivexoxo
      @ivexoxo Před 2 lety +8

      @@deadlymoonlight not everyone is crazy, know your worth

    • @glitchhernandez5059
      @glitchhernandez5059 Před 2 lety +11

      I think most people wouldn’t even make a deal about this but since they both cheated on each other there will always be trust issues in that relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️which is why you don’t stay with someone who cheated but oh well

    • @ibeyyy2120
      @ibeyyy2120 Před 2 lety

      i agreeeee 🤣

  • @jasminegarcia8253
    @jasminegarcia8253 Před 2 lety +45

    I love y’all everything! I just feel like Jeheily is focusing on the wrong stuff ! There’s lots of engaged couples who have took there time on getting married! Going at there own time ! Gods timing is perfect for everything! Don’t focus on others but y’all . I feel like now in days it’s such a trend to rush everything. Moving in , relationships , getting a house for everything. & that’s not good everyone timing is different! & that’s okayyy! Lol love you guys thooo we grow & we learn 😂💕

    • @inpowr
      @inpowr Před 2 lety +5

      She need to focus on how Alex is in control of EVERYTHING. Thinking deeper, even her option of a support system is attached to Alex (Alex family) She need to come into her own as a woman. Meet new people, travel outside collaboration with other youtubers. Go to CZcamsr conventions. Network. Spend time with her parents. Her own business. Fashion nova sponsorship something. If Alex and her don’t work or if he actually cheat she stuck with nothing of her own. Like what happened to Mama Lisa

  • @girlseagoat4012
    @girlseagoat4012 Před 2 lety +30

    Alex could be right about the cats getting to it. My cat is obsessed with hair ties and I find mine in random spots all the time

  • @lucysilva8016
    @lucysilva8016 Před 2 lety +11

    Girl don’t pressure him I know you really want to marry him but sometimes things change after marriage especially if one was not ready to be married in the first place.

  • @sandymichoacan
    @sandymichoacan Před 2 lety +3

    Jeheiley no me decepciones. Be thankful he PROPOSED TO YOU HOW YOU WANTED IT. He does everything YOU want. Wedding of your dreams ain't guna happen within one year

  • @jayg2946
    @jayg2946 Před 2 lety +8

    Jehiely is never going to be happy if her mind is focused of such stupid things like a hair tie and that “no one on social media is engaged longer than a year” when literally more than half of engagements last longer than 2 years cause it takes almost a year to plan a wedding if you want it to be “perfect” . And if you want to plan the wedding then PLAN IT, not just say I want it to happen and expect Alex to come up with a wedding lol it goes both ways girl . She’s too insecure and piensa que el mundo gira sobre ella

  • @amandac6874
    @amandac6874 Před 2 lety +5

    I totally get how you feel! I’ve been with my BF 12 years! And he finally proposed Christmas last year, and we also haven’t got married. I’m excited to this year 2022 but I do also get in my feels that I’m the one having to bring it up. Your feelings are valid but you did so well communicating your feeling to Alex and I’m glad he understood you❤️

  • @karinabarreto567
    @karinabarreto567 Před 2 lety +11

    You need to stop comparing yourself to others. Worry about yourself and focus on you!! You are beautiful the way you are and have an amazing personality.

  • @jessicamares8499
    @jessicamares8499 Před 2 lety +18

    Atleast you’re engaged you got a house what else you want girl I whish I was in you’re shoes but I know my time will come don’t cry girl animo

    • @ashhhrrrrr
      @ashhhrrrrr Před 2 lety

      For real!!!

    • @shortydulce88
      @shortydulce88 Před 2 lety +1

      Fr

    • @alemc4196
      @alemc4196 Před 2 lety

      Engaged not married and house ain’t even in her name

    • @angelicachavez742
      @angelicachavez742 Před 2 lety

      A faithful husband that she can trust

    • @fp-17
      @fp-17 Před 2 lety

      Money doesn't buy happiness.
      I wish I was in her position but everything takes time.. She can have it all but she still will be with her trust issues no matter what . .

  • @guero7543
    @guero7543 Před 2 lety +8

    Cats love playing with hair ties! They have probably been playin with it without yall realizing.

  • @Bea.sobeautiful
    @Bea.sobeautiful Před 2 lety +22

    Jehiely i get why your upset but sometimes you just need to be the bigger person and sit back and not let this ruined your good times.

  • @-amosc.presley-7192
    @-amosc.presley-7192 Před 2 lety +16

    That’s not fair by putting Alex on the spot like that 😱

  • @jessicarodriguez6836
    @jessicarodriguez6836 Před 2 lety +3

    yesss 34 minute video !!! thank you guys for making longer videos for us to watch ❤️❤️

  • @509bby8
    @509bby8 Před 2 lety +4

    i love how calm Alex is about the hair tie!! so mature! i love it 🥰 & ive been with my man for 8 years with three baby’s been a 🎢 that’s life but if it’s meant to be it will be i never want to force him or guilt him in to it you know…

  • @o.g.8179
    @o.g.8179 Před 2 lety +38

    its insane how 1 hairtie DRIVES JEHEILY CRAZAY lol

    • @thj0kr
      @thj0kr Před 2 lety +13

      She's insecure af lol

    • @lexibae3251
      @lexibae3251 Před 2 lety +2

      @@thj0kr I’m sure it had something to do with high school and that’s just how it seems like it’s always gonna be

    • @val8073
      @val8073 Před 2 lety

      @@lexibae3251 this girl i follow lives in the same city as them & went to school with them said that alex was a really bad person in high school so im pretty sure he would cheat and stuff

  • @luna_ytx
    @luna_ytx Před 2 lety +18

    Cmon hiely 😩 with all the friends and family you’ve had come over it could be anyones & its not fair to accuse alex for something as small as this. I myself dont even remember all the hair ties Ive used, you could be wrong and over thinking it and pushing him away if you keep doing this and letting your insecurities get the best of you.

  • @Nina.Y
    @Nina.Y Před 2 lety +14

    I love watching you two but I think you guys should definitely try marriage counseling BEFORE getting married…not because it’s a bad thing it’s actually helpful and my fiancé and I have done it …but I do think it’ll help with Alexs communication and with her jealousy …again this is coming from a place of love and wanting you guys to have a healthy LONG marriage…side note…I love how your cat got in the shoe box to play lmao 😂

  • @jadei.1581
    @jadei.1581 Před 2 lety +2

    I like that they show us these things. Like their problems and insecurities. They can choose not to share and act like a typical couple but they show their flaws and I appreciate that.

  • @GeePrds
    @GeePrds Před 2 lety +3

    Maybe it was the creepy owls hair band 🦉😱 😂

  • @christinalerma1445
    @christinalerma1445 Před 2 lety +9

    Damn Jehiely gave anxiety standing over the stairs like that 💀😂

  • @muahhbebbee1901
    @muahhbebbee1901 Před 2 lety +16

    DONT LET THE THOUGHTS OF UR FEARS GET IN THE WAY🥲😭😭😭U GUYS ARE MEANT TO BE!!!!!

  • @jacquelineflores4238
    @jacquelineflores4238 Před 2 lety +11

    I love the sandal heels! Why does alex always give her the best fashion advice

  • @karenGonzalez-br8jk
    @karenGonzalez-br8jk Před 2 lety +7

    Geez she needs to chill… biggest mistake is to force something on someone if he don’t ever bring it up it’s cuz his not ready yet just let it be it will happen when his ready there’s nothing wrong with being engaged for a year or 2 or 3

  • @reynaserrano1164
    @reynaserrano1164 Před 2 lety +17

    In quarantine right now and your videos have been keeping me entertained 🥴🥴❤️ love you guys !!

  • @jamilethlucero8867
    @jamilethlucero8867 Před 2 lety +5

    If you can’t ever trust your man again why even be with him let alone try to get married lmao

  • @ashg4695
    @ashg4695 Před 2 lety

    I just thought you both should know that I get a sense of relief when I see that you’ve posted a new video. Love you guys!

  • @bettymendozarodriguez1985

    ITS JUST A HAIR TIE😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂

  • @mayraaguilar8233
    @mayraaguilar8233 Před 2 lety +7

    He needs to leave her already gets mad over a hair tie get mad over shoes then when it proves her wrong she all of a sudden loves Alex lol omg she doesn’t like the other shoes too LOL 🤣okay now she likes them 🥲

  • @franklinmendoza9568
    @franklinmendoza9568 Před 2 lety +14

    Y is it Alex fault? He is good man to you J. Take your mom advice Alex. Words of wisdom 😎

  • @Scarlet_2011
    @Scarlet_2011 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love the genuine love you guys have for each other, It broke my heart when I seen Jehiely crying I can’t imagine the stress and pressure you feel from people always asking or assuming it’s gonna take years for you guys to get married. 😊😊😊

  • @alejandravelez2791
    @alejandravelez2791 Před 2 lety +8

    Girllll Enjoy The Moment ! Stop Being Dramatic 😂

  • @Kiannarose97
    @Kiannarose97 Před 2 lety +4

    The “stop staring at my toes” made me laugh so hard!

  • @marlinsanchez5433
    @marlinsanchez5433 Před 2 lety +7

    Ive always been shy to comment lol but i've been watching since you guys were living with mama lisa i'm so happy you guys have come a long way together wishing you both the best pleased vlog the wedding!!!!

  • @brendapena8281
    @brendapena8281 Před 2 lety +2

    Be thankful for what you have because it can all be taken away just like it was given. Many of us wished we had a man that cared for us just as much as he cares for you. Be grateful.

  • @felipersgotjackfam5297
    @felipersgotjackfam5297 Před 2 lety +7

    Honestly waiting isn’t necessary a bad thing!!! It took my husband 7 years to propose and after he proposed it took 3 years for us to get married. And it took 3 more years for us to get pregnant and now here we are 4 years after marriage we finally had a baby. Waiting and planning isn’t a bad thing. As long as y’all love each other who cares!!!!

  • @breannapendola3803
    @breannapendola3803 Před 2 lety +24

    I was so bored and sad you guys hadn’t posted. Made my whole day🤪🥰

  • @sandraplaza2222
    @sandraplaza2222 Před 2 lety +4

    Aren’t y’all together 24/7 ? How would he cheat 🤔 curious.

  • @alevicente3866
    @alevicente3866 Před 2 lety

    Im so happy you guys posted!! 🙏🤍 i love yall so much!!

  • @susiegallegos5829
    @susiegallegos5829 Před 2 lety +15

    This relationship is not going to last with This kind of stuff!! God bless you both😘😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jxrcathy
    @jxrcathy Před 2 lety +8

    Jehiely be trippin about the smallest things jesus girl! Live in the moment! Be HAPPY!! plans always change!! The time will come, relaxxxxx lol! Dang. Breath. AND didn’t y’all say October didn’t work and y’all BOTH said it would have to be till next year. Omg😳🙄 guys are different from woman, is not that he doesn’t want to get married to you, woman are just more on top of the wedding plannings doesn’t mean he’s any less In love with you.

  • @maric143
    @maric143 Před 2 lety +3

    Alex “more like prank Alex” 😂😂😂 poor Alex he was innocent!! & lmfao mama Lisa “it looks good with ur outfit” the hair tie 😂😂 I was 💀

  • @meals_seasoned_with_love_

    I’m so so glad it’s a prank! I love love those shoes! I don’t have any of those but I would love them if I had them… girl enjoy every moment!

  • @Jazzy75422
    @Jazzy75422 Před 2 lety

    Awwww Jehiely I’m sure that when your special day comes it will be absolutely beautiful. You will get your day girl. 💖💖

  • @andreapacheco6432
    @andreapacheco6432 Před 2 lety +9

    Your cats probably brought it up to your room Jehiely

  • @emyleemissewace1040
    @emyleemissewace1040 Před 2 lety +20

    Me and my fiancé are similar to you guys as well, we’ve been together for 13 years, he proposed to me after being together for 10 years, and now we’ve been engaged for 3 years.. not sure when we will have a wedding but we do love each other and want to spend forever together so when the time is right we will do it. Happy holidays to you both! And mama Lisa too!!

  • @Cinthia_Lizeth
    @Cinthia_Lizeth Před 2 lety

    I kept on checking your channel throughout the day to see if you guys posted, so happy to see a new video, love you guys, you’re so beautiful 😍

  • @user-vk1tc6ml4z
    @user-vk1tc6ml4z Před 2 lety +2

    Only thing marriage changes is your legal status 🤣 its a nice fairy tail moment with the dress and celebration 🍾

  • @alexisbichon3153
    @alexisbichon3153 Před 2 lety +4

    So happy ya posted I’ve been so bored at home while my man is working ya really made my day 😌🔥

  • @dianac9240
    @dianac9240 Před 2 lety +4

    If u really think your man would bring a girl into your own home and bedroom why u still with him ? Cause u obviously believe he would! if not u wouldn’t react that way over a random hair tie .

  • @jeseniadiaz1868
    @jeseniadiaz1868 Před 2 lety

    Yas you guys have your whole life ahead of you guys! I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we always talk about our future… but I’ve learned to be patient, enjoy every day with each other and not rush anything. It makes me fall more in love with him. Good things come to those who wait..

  • @jackiehe5376
    @jackiehe5376 Před 2 lety +1

    LMFAOOOOOOO THE CAT IN THE SHOE BOX